As a young mother I had twins 16 months after my first child. I cannot even
imagine how hard it must be for this mother to take care of these babies while
the father is gone most of the time. Please, someone help her! even if she
says she doesn't need it. She probably just feels like she should be able
to do it alone. If you care about the children, help the mother. I do not
personally know her, but I do know that any mother in this situation needs
breaks, encouragement, help, and assistance in many ways at least until the
babies are out of diapers.