Rape victim says she's ready to reclaim her life

Return To Article
Add a comment
  • Transaction7 Commerce, Texas
    March 28, 2012 3:57 a.m.

    I know many survivors of sexual assault, many in attorney-client, group therapy for my own depression, and other privileged and confidential relationships. Especially if they do not receive the right expert counseling, etc., this trauma can and often does push them toward destructive behaviors and otherwise devastate their lives. I am glad that this young woman finally got the help she needed.

    Teens and other fools can be very ignorant, stupid, and cruel in these situations where they should be supportive. I was appointed to represent one child rapist, mercifully only on appeal, and was horrified when she was driven to attempt suicide by people who didn't know the facts on court record the jury had heard and attacked her for testifying against her rapist a family member. I contacted her mother, and her through her mother, made it very clear that though my client denied everything, the jury and Best wiI believed her, and provided her with some referrals for help.

  • TexasGirlAUte Draper, UT
    March 27, 2012 5:41 a.m.


    It happens more than you would think. Kids can be vicious with each other... especially in high school.

  • guitarboy South Jordan, UT
    March 26, 2012 11:06 p.m.

    Rebecca Mills: In the photo in the paper today, you still look very young, like a teenager. Whatever you decide in your mind, you CAN do it, and you can do it without losing the time you lost. I know that sounds crazy, and in a way it is, because it isn't literal. But roll with me here -- I have things I was unable to accomplish in my 20s because of things that got in the way. I am much older than that now, but with youthful enthusiasm, I am being given a second chance. I am not 25 anymore but I can still accomplish the things I didn't get to accomplish when I was 25.

    I read that Mark Spitz was offered a million dollars if he could make the Olympic team more than 20 years after he first appeared in the Olympics. He didn't make it, but while trying, he beat some of his swim times while in his 40s that we swam while in his 20s. That is amazing.

    And you are amazing for going public, letting your photo be published. And you too can still accomplish the things you didn't do yet. You CAN!

  • UteMiguel Go Utes, CA
    March 26, 2012 10:01 p.m.

    What kind of horrible kids harass a classmate when they find out she was raped? Shameful.

  • Zona Zone Mesa, AZ
    March 26, 2012 7:32 p.m.

    My heart goes out to this woman, and I give her my full admiration. This guy should never see the light of the day. He robbed her--and six others--of their lives, their innocence, and their safety. But he did not just steal from them; he stole from us. Our communities would be so much stronger had this woman and the other victims been able to realize their potential rather than be harrowed by an attacker. Nevertheless, we see her strength shining through. What a strong person! She is so strong. I admire her willingness to speak publicly. She will bless so many others with her courage. She says she admires Elizabeth Smart; I admire both of them. They are both equally strong!!!!