Okay to any of you talking about the Church changing....look at the reasons.
Polygamy was stopped because the United States made it illegal and we believe in
"obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law." And in reference to "blacks
holding the priesthood," that came about at a time when the entire country was
having civil rights issues and had it come at an earlier time it would have been
rejected by the people in and out of the church. The Church doctrine has never
changed and will never change.
Why Hate: the Mormons don't get judged and looked down upon like you do? Are
you kidding me? Maybe not in Utah, but step outside of Wonderland and we are
despised. I've lived outside of Utah for most of my life after my mission.
Believe me, Mormons are hated passionately. And the shock isn't about us not
loving our fellow man. I've worked with gay men and they were good guys. We
just don't want our freedom and our agency taken away and dictated to us by
groups that we don't particularly want to associate with or have their influence
in our lives. We love the sinner, but hate the sin. Sorry, I think it's
sinful. I think most people are afraid that this opens the door to future
legislation. Other gays commenting on here say this is just the first step in
the right direction. Exactly my point. They want MORE steps. The LGBT
community is like the proverbial mouse given a cookie. You will want a glass of
milk next. This is Pandora's Box being opened with more and more steps being
pushed. IMHO this was a bad decision.
So, is the LDS Church prepared to have it's members forced to hire or rent to
homosexuals? What if say a Mormon Bishop has a basement apartment to rent. The
first couple to show up to the ad is gay. They have great credit, good income,
etc etc. He can't turn them away. So, now, a man who is to be setting a
religious example for his children and members of his ward is obligated to have
homosexuals right in his basement. What if someone has an extra room in their
house to rent? That's even worse. Can't deny a homosexual person the right to
rent your room now. Suppose you have young children and you don't want that
influence in your home? Too bad. Now you can be sued, lose a lot of money in
court fees, maybe even lose your home because your Church just opened Pandora's
Box for you. This is only going to lead to a lot of misery and it's going to
backfire BIG TIME!!
Reading through these comments I am just amazed.. Something good happened for us
Gays here in Utah and now the LDS is going to freak out, and say childish things
like "the government can't tell me who i can and can't rent to." Well, im sorry
to say but yeah they can. Mormons, you have good surrounding you everyday, you
do not get judged and looked down upon like we do, but we dont throw fits do we?
As part of a religous community you have a responsiblity to your family or to
your church, whatever if your not a gay then i dont see how this affects you.
Please have some respect. I, as a Lesbian, have had many of Mormons disrespect
me, and i have yet to do to you. Maybe you Mormons should take lessons from us
Gays. We seem to be ahead in the respect department.
For those who do not recall the atrocities that we "Mormons" were NOT protected
from when trying to practice religious freedoms, try reading through the
accounts of what would be called "hate crimes" today. Even after all of what
happened to our fellow members during the 19th century, we still follow the
tenets that a crime is just as atrocious regardless of the sexual choices that a
person has made in life when they are beaten senselessly, and worse. Special
protections are inappropriate and provide elitist divisions in the very people
that government is "trying" to integrate, forcefully. What most do not seem to
consider is that the politicians we have running the country now hate it for the
very things we cherish such as the freedoms we DO have. These very politicians
consider themselves elitists, most anyway. Who needs to do what their
constituents want once they get in office and get their guaranteed salary for
life including fringe benefits even if not re-elected? When most of our
politicians are lawyers, they confuse the fact that legislators are supposed to
make laws, judicials interpret them, and executives enforce them.
Thanks be to God! I am encouraged to see the Church embracing social justice. I
was raised LDS (I am now a very socially-liberal Roman Catholic who adores my RC
religious path). We see a new era in the LDS Church. My love for my LDS roots
are renwed. My opinion of Pres. Monson is softening.
@Anonymous: I have had my name removed from the records. It was a lengthy
process, and I had to threaten legal action to get it done, (I didn't want to go
there). And I didn't leave just because of what people said. I was threatened
with excommunication at 16 because someone from my school went to their bishop
and told them I was sexually active with a fellow male classmate. It wasn't
true. She was upset that he didn't like her "that way". But there are many
reasons I left. I won't bring them up because I don't want this thread to go to
that issue again. But I'm glad you don't let it bother you, none of us should
take anything personally unless it personally affects our daily life. Thank you
for your response! Have a wonderful day.
Justan:: You do know that unless you have had your name removed from the church
records you are still considered a member. I am an lds person and if I had let
what other lds people have said to me, bother me i would have been gone a long
time ago. but it just don't let what they say bother me anymore.
I am a gay man living in Utah County. I have lived in SLC. I was raised LDS,
and recently resigned from the Church. However, I hold no hard feelings toward
my fellow LDS brothers and sisters. At one point, I had much bitterness because
of the actions of a few LDS people. I understand where LDS people can feel
bitterness to those few gay people who constantly attack the Church. I have been
to many protests, but never because I hate the Church, only upset, because I
stand for my rights. No matter the intentions of the Church on backing this
ordinance, (I'm sure they're good) I am happy, and grateful for their support.
Wherever I or (we, the GLBT comm.) can gain support, is progress. I am so
thankful for all of you here who support my basic human rights, and still love
your Church. This is what we need, more love and acceptance on both sides, and
less hate. I am very happy and thankful for the support we are getting from
those of you who love unconditionally. I will always do my best to respect you
It's hard to read some of the comments here and not conclude that the gays were
right about the motivations behind Prop 8. If you think Prop 8 was a victory
and this is a step back, then clearly Prop 8 was about hating gays, not about
After the victory we had in with Prop 8 this is just sad and big step back. I
cannot believe what the church leadership has done with this. Seems like a big
step back after a solid victory on California. I am confused as to what is
expected of me.
Your church made a statement that they stand behind Salt Lake City;s new
ordinance to protect the housing and employment rights of all citizen's, and you
are upset?!? May I suggest you pray for a more loving attitude towards all of
your brothers and sisters. Please pray to accept what your leaders have
proclaimed here, or maybe you really don't believe what you confess.
Reading the law, Deseret Book and all other properties fully owned by Deseret
Management would be exempted. If a Church owns 60% stock in a car wash it would
not be exempted. My interpretation of religious to include schools with a
religious mission without affiliation with a particular Church would hold up in
light of various court rulings on the term. Charitable and non-profit
organizations are exempted from the housing rule, as are all Public and Private
dormitories of public and private educational institutions. The
employment law also exempts those with fewer than 15 employees and "expressive
associations". The 4 unt exemption is slightly confusing, expecially the long
provisions on use of agents in selling. Since not many people have griped "I
don't want to sell my home to so and so" just about renting it, the fact of the
matter is as long as your basement is no more than three units don't worry. On
the other hand if you rent your attic, half the room on your main floor, and two
units in the basement, you might be considered since you live in a 5th unit in
To the 4:53 commentator, The legislation excludes ALL religious
organizations, it does not "exclude the Church" per se. It excludes Muslims,
every Christian denomination, Jews (especially Orthodox Jews who are about the
only ones who would use it) and so on. Based on court rulings it also excludes
privvate religious schools and other para-church organizations that have a
religious focus but are not connected with a particular religion.
However, I am not sure all of the Church's operations are excluded. Many of the
operations controlled by Deseret Management Corporation might fall under these
rules. I am not sure though, since I have not read the actual ordiance.
This is such a public relations game the Church is playing! The legislation
excludes the Church! It does not impact them at all! So they have nothing to
lose by endorsing this. Pathetic!
I believe that this decision by the LDS church makes their stand even stronger,
not weaker. It makes it clear what it is all about. We are against any change
in the traditional family. Even though we do not agree with the gay position,
we must treat all people with respect. Even though their actions are considered
to be very wrong, we can't change them and we must treat them with respect.
This is not softening the church's stand. This is clarifying it. The church
will never change it's position on marriage. Of this I am 100% sure. I
still would never allow one of them to teach their ways to my children - or to
See my post on Millennial Mormonism Today. I fully support this step towards
tolerance and peace. We as Mormons would want to be treated in a kind and
tolerant way and we should do the same with the LGBT community. It is the
Christ-like thing to do. Let's not be Nicodemus Mormons!
I agree in whole with the decision of the LDS chruch. I am a landlord and
agree.Ron Folsom CA
Everyone needs shelter food and love. I stand firm in pro creation, for without
it all would surley be lost. The world may repeat/feel or may not repeat/feel
what I say here. However no one will circumvent the lord now or ever. May God
Bless all.Our Father in Heaven created us, we need to perfect ourselves in
which we are individually reasonable for.Ron Folsom California,GOD be with YOU!!! CTR
You state: "Your race is defined by what you ARE - how you're born. There's
nothing you can do to change that."It is interesting that you feel
that homosexuality is a choice, when even the LDS church no longer believes
this.Have you noticed that the Church no longer says that same-sex
attraction is a sin? Now the official stance is that only acting upon those
attractions are a sin.Why the change? Years ago, the BYU Psychology
Department/Clinic-sponsored research studies that included electric-shock
therapy experiments to try to cure homosexuality. The studies examined aspects
of homosexuality, its origins, and its modifiability.The results of
these studies were communicated to Salt Lake and the Brethren, and it is because
the results indicated that homosexuality may be inborn and is extremely
resistant to the most powerful forms of electro- and chemical- therapies that
the Brethren have taken the official stand they have taken. Officially, same sex
attraction is not a sin—only homosexual behavior is now considered a sin
in the Church.
I am neither gay nor Mormon. As an impartial observer, I have to say I don't
see a lot of Christian tolerance on display here.
@VinceTemple marriages can also be between a wife in good standing and her
deceased husband who never went to ANYTHING concerning the Church....that's what
my grandmother did a year after she was widowed
Person with an English degree | 4:32 p.m. Nov. 13, 2009 Dictionaries
extend the definition of marriage to include same-sex marriage also (where it is
legal, of course).Those would be civil and some religious marriages.
The churches performing religious marriages do so on their own accord, not
because anyone is suing them.Temple marriages, since you mentioned
it is much more limited to just than a man and a woman and much more limited
than a religious marriage. They both need to be people of good-standing in the
church and they need to receive a recommend.
3:56,Yes, I can separate my faith from my countries laws. I think
what the LDS church did in this instance is a perfect example of that.
Marriage's definition can be protected while upholding everyone's Civil Rights.
So my country can protect civil rights without changing the
definition of marriage, too. In fact, marriage upheld as between a man and a
woman has not discriminated against civil rights since the countries founding of
this great nation's laws. So the law and my belief haven't differed much for
more than 200 years, in this regard. Can you separate your beliefs from your
arguments about law?
@Person with English degreeGet a law degree and some geography
lessons too.MA IA, VT, CT, and NHHave marriages, not gay
marriage and straight marriage....just MARRIAGE.
At societal ImpactImagine if Catholic and Protestant churches got
tax exemptions from the government, and the government called not taxing Mormon
church CHARITY, and only covered most of the tax exemptions the other religions
received.What would Mormon's response be? Would equal coverage be
enough or would you also insist your church's exemptions not be called charity?
Marriage whether it is in the temple or civilly is still a union between a man
and a woman. The basic definition is not undermined in that sense. Gay marriage
if defined correctly involves a gay person forming a union with a person of the
opposite sex if you want to get technical about the meaning of words.gay = same sex attraction personmarriage = union of a man and a womangay marriage, therefore must equal a person attracted to the same sex
having a wedding with someone of the opposite sex. Usage dictates a
different but wholly contradictory meaning by standards of English Language
practice. In other words the term gay marriage doesn't make any sense.
Pagan,Equality isn't about making unequal actions equal to each
other. Marriage and the "other" aren't equal to each other.Why again
do gays need to "broaden the term" of marriage? Why isn't the term Civil Union
good enough? Or Gay Union? etc. etc.?If homosexual relations are
just as good as marriage then can't those unions stand alone on their own merits
with their own name and own legislation? You treat yourselves like second class
citizens. When women fought for their rights we didn't just start
calling them men. You don't "broaden" the definition of words in the law you
"broaden" the law. Would it have changed me as a man if we changed the term to
include females? No! But not making an important distinction in the uniqueness
of people and relationships diminishes from the use of those terms. It confuses
and distorts reality for all. You seriously can't see how
"broadening a term" not only changes the meaning but makes a word something that
it is not. It is definitely damaging. Hot is not cold. Good is not evil. Light
is not dark. Gay marriage is not marriage.
'Yes, everyone should treat everyone as first class citizens and leave sexual
attraction/life doesn't even need to be part of the conversation. But...' Right there. Right there is where people claim all is equal
HOWEVER the gay community is less of a human being and should not be allowed
marriage as a hetersexual person. 'Why should we change the
definition of our marriages?' Your not. Please give me
one example of how a gay marriage will affect one law, one right, one ability of
a straight marriage. There is none. That whole argument
is based on the PRINCIPLE of marriage. Not the fact. If we're going
to the basis of marriage, women would still be sold as property. I
think many argee that is no longer the case. If you want to stick to
the IDEA of a marriage, please, keep it in your head.
The rest of us would like to live our lives now.
Marriage was merely a financial arrangement between one man and HIS PROPERTY.Marriages were arranged through most of human history by parents, with the two
people being married, having no say in the marriage.The woman was the
property of her father, he gives a dowery to UNLOAD her, it's a bribe. The woman
switches from the property of her father, to the property of her husband.Several Ancient societies Greece, Persia, Macedonia, and Rome had financial
arrangements between same sex couples too. Including a dowery the younger man's
family provided the older man. There were also divisions of property based on
their unions, if one partner died.St Bacchus and St Serge were married by
the early Christian church, as were other male couples.
"Homosexuality itself will never be acceptable by those who believe in a higher
law, but with the law of the land no one's trying to stop you from practicing
homosexuality, just from changing what marriage is to the rest of us. Why should
we change the definition of our marriages?"Can you separate your
faith from your countries laws?Look at it like civil marriage v.
temple marriage.Just because the state has civil marriages does not
in any way change or dilute or mock your temple marriage.The same
for gay marriage. It is a civil law and will be dealt with by civil
authorities.You have not had any belief forced upon you. You will
STILL believe in temple marriages. Life will not change and law abiding
citizens are treated equally under the law.Easy.
1:58,You must be one of those who "do not know the difference
between acceptable by their beliefs and acceptable by law." Equal rights already
exist for all, homosexual or otherwise, but for some reason you believe that a
new law should be put in place to match your belief in homomarriage, but that's
a contradiction in terms. Homosexuality itself is acceptable by the
law of the land. Yes, everyone should treat everyone as first class citizens and
leave sexual attraction/life doesn't even need to be part of the conversation.
But changing the definition of marriage from its original and
intended meaning as a union between a man and a woman is still not acceptable by
most state laws. If you are law-abiding you will quit trying to force your
beliefs on us and make what isn't acceptable by law, become acceptable. Homosexuality itself will never be acceptable by those who believe in a
higher law, but with the law of the land no one's trying to stop you from
practicing homosexuality, just from changing what marriage is to the rest of us.
Why should we change the definition of our marriages?
"It originally meant just two people of consenting age who are not family."Just keep telling yourself that. Better yet, try explaining that to your
A pact to support the gays is not in the best interest. They will take and take
and take until they can finally marry in a desecrate the Temples. This was a bad
move and one that the gays will just take advantage of.
The laughable response that IT'S NEVER ENOUGH to please LGBTs.EXCUSE
me this is the VERY FIRST baby step the LDS church has EVER made towards my
community, which didn't entail calling us HOMOSEXUALS (which none of us call
ourselves), or pervert, or sodomite or saying we are ill pschologically,, or
abnormal or child mollestors, or equal to incest, beastiality, or polygamy.This baby step probably was unneeded for the ordinance to pass....anyway.So get over saying how you have given, and given, and given to those selfish
gays and it's just not ENOUGH. It only makes you look foolish, and doesn't mend
a thing with LGBTs.
"B/c more than equal rights, it is about wanting unseemly actions recognized as
equally acceptable."Ok, maybe I found the problem. Some
people do not know the difference between acceptable by their beliefs and
acceptable by law.Homosexuality is ALREADY acceptable by law. It
has been for years. Because of that, homosexuals do NOT have to have your
approval. You are free to feel about them any way you want. You just are not
free to treat them as second class citizens. They are not. They are
law-abiding, tax paying, American citizens.
"How does changing the definition/meaning of marriage not attack what marriage
is?" It is like civil marriage and temple marriage. Does having
civil marriages attack temple marriages? Why would having gay marriages attack
other marriages? Merely a broadening of the term.(Besides, Since
2001, there has been gay marriage in this world. A little too late to fight for
the word, isn't it?)"Or not change the meaning of every
other important societal definition--like family?"Is an aunt
raising her nephews a family? Yes. Is two octagenarians that just married a
family? Yes.Is two gay men raising 3 crack babies a family? Yes.Why is your defination so narrow? All families deserve to be protected
'Marriage is a union between a man and a woman. That's just what the word
means.' - 1:04 p.m. Unacceptable, that's what the word means NOW. It
originally meant just two people of consenting age who are not family. Funny how those laws changed recently and every claims that's how it's always
been? 'How does changing the definition/meaning of marriage not
attack what marriage is?' Because this marriage does not affect
yours! Your trying to say a gay marriage affects yours? Give me a real-life
example! Your trying to deny others a very real marriage based on your very made
principals. '...use words that better define them...'
What, like abomination? Not human? If this WERE about equality with
you, then there would be no hesitation. As yet, you still view the other as not
good as your own. And that, is truly sad. As I take no issue with
any straight persons marriage against my life.
The debate always comes back to the same point:Marriage is a union
between a man and a woman. That's just what the word means. That definition
already includes all of humanity, unless you exclude yourself by not
participating.So work on changing the law if you want a union
outside of marriage recognized more by the law. Civil Rights for
unions outside of marriage is a matter all its own. The LDS church is the only
organization I know of who is sensible enough to recognize that Civil Rights can
be granted everyone while still protecting the definition of marriage.Ask yourself:How does changing the definition/meaning of marriage
not attack what marriage is? Or not change the meaning of every other important
societal definition--like family? When you know how important
families are you don't try to undermine their meaning in any way.Also ask:Why do gay marriage advocates want to change the
definition of words in a law instead of seeking to change inclusion in the law
(use words that better define them)?B/c more than equal rights, it
is about wanting unseemly actions recognized as equally acceptable.
"I despise the idea that I have no choice because I have a homoerotic thought.
It is manipulative and heavy-handed rhetoric that casts me as a victim who
cannot contain my inclinations. There are many reasons to keep such matters
private."Many people actually are bi-sexual and are able to lean
towards the heterosexual and acceptable behavior. Believe me, there
are those who, no matter how hard they pray, how many times they fast, no matter
what are going to be attracted ONLY to the same sex. Even the LDS church admits
that some gays will not be able to change in this lifetime.Be a
little more charitable, can't you? All of you!
'The public gay response has been despicably backhanded, skeptical, and
shameful--that continual push to destroy marriage.' - 11:10 a.m.
Born, please give me an example of a straight marriage being completely
destroyed by a seperate gay marriage. I'll wait...
Bravo to the church for taking a positive stand. Lets see more of this action
so we can clean up the PR fiasco of Prop. 8
'i doubt very much that there are any gay bishops in the church.' - 10:04
a.m. Good thing that's a doubt. And not presented as a fact.
Regardless if someone is in the closet, that does not make anyone less gay. Now, as for open gay bishops... ok! Gene Robinson, go
ahead, google it. You can be gay and religious. Many are just not
given the chance.
'This exact same article was commented on only twice where I live in North
Carolina.' Well, it's been commented on 321 times & counting in
Utah. And if we're talking recognition, gay marriage is allowed in
Sadly many good people struggle with the chains of their choices, thinking all
the while they are being true to themselves. Many young people have an
assortment of sexual thoughts as they grow and develop. By perpetuating the idea
that because one has seemingly inborn budding tendencies to view sexuality and
hypersexuality through the lense either gay or straight has done untold damage
to many souls. I despise the idea that I have no choice because I
have a homoerotic thought. It is manipulative and heavy-handed rhetoric that
casts me as a victim who cannot contain my inclinations. There are many reasons
to keep such matters private. And having lustful thoughts does not entitle me to
unethical or intolerant behavior. Repeatedly the LDS church has
shown a willingness to accomodate differing points of view where they do not
impact revealed church doctrines, for which I'm grateful. The public gay
response has been despicably backhanded, skeptical, and shameful--that continual
push to destroy marriage. It is never enough. Sadly it only demonstrates their
bigotry, and a desire that those in their community that think differently do so
quietly or not at all.
I would be very interested to see what political donations were made and by whom
in the Washington State referendum for "Everything But Marriage." Which way (if
either) did the LDS go? Did they support or oppose this referendum? After all,
the title tells the whole story.Having said that, I would like to
know how this modern support for gay and lesbian non-discrimination coincides
with past history. Is it a case of revisionism (as I suspect) or was the LDS
church in support of gays and lesbians prior to the 1969 Stonewall incidents.And I haven't even asked if transgender people are to be shown the same
There are gay Bishops in the Church. I know, wink!
This exact same article was commented on only twice where I live in North
i doubt very much that there are any gay bishops in the church
["The law is a teacher, and marriage is not merrly allowing but proactively
granting government recognition"]yeah John - you're right. it's
like a drivers license... kids just can't wait to sign up and get their
certificate...where do you get these bizarre ideas? just because
something is allowed doesn't mean people that aren't inclined to use it will
suddenly decide they want to. you REALLY think non-gay people are going to marry
same sex simply because it is allowed?if you would give it ANY
thought whatsoever, you would realize that all these laws and changes for gays
is simply so gays - real gay people - can come out of the closet and stop hiding
from society. NO ONE that is NOT gay is going to say they are simply due to
peer pressure... NO ONE IS GAY ON PURPOSE!! why is that so hard for you to
understand.if there were purple people, and no one liked them, so
they hid their color with makeup so they could fit in, always wondering who was
judging them - and then we made laws so they couldn't be picked on - wouldn't
that be a good_thing?
Now I really wonder why I do not double read. In my last post I somehow
thought the post I was speaking of was 8:54 AM, but I looked again, and it is
PM, so that is when I wrote it. I have some very specific questions on
the current law. Can you refuse to rent to a man and a woman if they are
not married to each other? Can you refuse to rent to any married couples at
all? Can you make having sex in an apartment grounds for kicking a tenant out?
Can you specify non-marital sex, our would you have to ban any sex at all?
["So sad that we are so worried about pleasing man that we have forget why we
are even here. The primary goal in life must be to fear God and keep his
commandments"]and honestly, amy, you scare me talking like that.
You think you are on earth to fear for your whole life? That's why man created
gods like Zeus in the first place - to make you live in fear. I'll never
understand how anyone can worship someone or something that they live in fear
of. It makes absolutely no sense. I guess it's like kidnap victims sticking up
for their abductor after a certain amopunt of time - but for you it boils down
to your upbringing.I feel bad for you, living in fear. just don't
force it onto others.
The 4:17 post is a false post. It was not made by the same person who made
the majority of John Pack Lambert posts. Also, since one of my previous
posts was removed, the 8:54AM (which reflects when it was processed, not when I
sent it in, what late in the evening, about 11:00 my time, or 9:00 Utah time)
apology for its shrillness will not make full sense, because the original post
no longer can be found. Sufficite it to say I have realized that even
people who seem set in the ways of hate can be talked to and reasoned with, even
though it often is more easy to just attack them.
How exactly do they require that gay bishops remain faithful to their wives?
Have you heard of closet behavior and denial?
'This law supports the gay movement and I am against this movement.' -
shocked. Why? No one is against your movement.
This law supports the gay movement and I am against this movement. There is no
such thing as an unaccountable act. What do two gay people see in it? 1+1=0? The
flaw in their argument is the FALL of man! Darwin missed it, Korihor missed it
and so do the people of this time. Man believes that things were always how they
are now. This is the problem with radiometric dating, evolution and
I've tried 4 times now to post my response to the person who said my accusations
of bigotry were dangerously close to 'it's sister hypocrisy'. I don't know,
maybe I should have began my post with a knock-knock joke. In my lost
post I copy/pasted every ugly anti-gay slur posted here against the proposed
legislation. Guess it was too mind-blowing to package it all together in one
post. (Also, there's been plenty of nasty comments since my original
post.)Show your true colors people.
No up until the false apology post all the posts had been made by me.
I think I may have gone a bit over the top in one of them, in attacking those
who oppose fair housing legislation, but I should have explained it more fully,
and then my position would have worked better. If these people are, as
many of them actually are, those who so loadly proclaimed they followed the
Prophet on Prop 8 than why did they not believe the Church when it said it did
not oppose fair housing laws? If you agree with Elder Oaks that people
should not be fired for donating to a political campaign, than why should they
be fired for sexual activity not on the job? I clearly stand by my
opinions about the Massachusetts issue. The law is a teacher, and marriage is
not merrly allowing but proactively granting government recognition.
So sad that we are so worried about pleasing man that we have forget why we are
even here. The primary goal in life must be to fear God and keep his
commandments. Galatians 5:16 say's so I say, live by the Spirit, and you will
not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. In today's society this is so hard
for us to follow but it is God's word do we doubt Him or what he say's do we
really think we know more or that this was just back in the day I pray for our
Country and our children that have to come against all the sinful things this
world has to offer.. All I can do is please my Lord and Savior help us today to
remember your truths.....
["are we defining "marriage" so narrowly that all it means to us is the
certificate that a couple receives when they are married"]yes.
that's all this is about. Gays just want the certificate so they can have the
same rights as you. it's not a big deal - i don't know why people are making it
JPL, don't try so hard to be a defender of the faith. If it it true then people
will realize it. The vast vast majority of people don't believe the church has
any truth and you make it even harder.
Molli:::The churcg is and always will be against gay marriage. They however are
not against gays having a job and a place to live.
I am not a liar. Quit using my name and smearing my reputation. I reiterate that
the Deseret News needs to have contributors log in and validate thier identity.
This would stop the ten some post that were attributed to may name in an attempt
to discredit myself and the LDS Church.
"are we defining "marriage" so narrowly that all it means to us is the
certificate that a couple receives when they are married?"In a word,
Yes.We cannot legislate laws banning the practice of this sin in
this country. It was ruled unconstitutional.We are defending the
defination of marriage to mean the legal union of one man and one woman.
Knock, knock...Whose there? A couple of gay guys wanting
to get married in city hall! But...my morals!
"I was disappointed in the church when it spent so much effort on Prop 8 and
ignored an opportunity to oppose Physician Assisted Suicide in this state... I
thought standing against killing yourself was a greater moral imperative."----------This is a very interesting thing to say,
"LDS-In-Washington." I would suggest, however, that when it comes to choosing
between life as a homosexual, and death by suicide, the Church and many LDS
families would prefer the suicide. Take, for instance, what may be the
highest-profile gay Mormon suicide in recent years: Stuart Matis. In
the book "In Quiet Desperation," written in part by his parents, they say:
"Although losing our son was difficult, it has been comforting to know that he
was faithful to his temple covenants," and later, "Stuart... continues to be a
schoolmaster for us. How grateful we are for his integrity and courage to remain
faithful!"Is suicide not a violation of temple covenants? Is
self-murder an example of integrity, courage, and remaining faithful? I can't
judge Stuart, but these comments suggest that (for some LDS) it is better to be
dead than gay! Is killing yourself REALLY the lesser sin?
How many Baptists have married in the temple? None, but they are a protected
group.How many Mormons (another protected group) have had their
marriage in a Cathedral? None. Catholics are protected in their right to only
marry catholics in their churches.Why do you think this will change?
How many gays have even asked to be married in the Boston temple?
None. Why would they? Alberta temple? None. Both of those areas have gay
marriage for over 5 years,Why do you think this will
change?Aren't you fear mongering?
To the couple of people who tried to help me understand. I am still confused by
the church's position here. If we are encouraged to not support legislation
which goes against God's commandments, which is why legislation allowing same
gender marriage is not supported, its no stretch whatsoever in my mind that
supporting legislation which provides protections to gay to co-habitate is not
much different than supporting gay marriage. Come on ..... are we defining
"marriage" so narrowly that all it means to us is the certificate that a couple
receives when they are married? Or are we going to define marriage in the
spirit in which the word is intended. I am NOT anti-gay; I am just trying to
understand how the church can support this kind of legislation. This just
doesn't make any sense to me at all ... hopefully the GA's will explain the
distinction one of these days.
To the 1:59 commentator, In case you missed it, I support the law as
passed by Salt Lake City. My point was that the claim that MOST states
other than Utah have such ordinances is FALSE.
Here's a good rule of thumbIf you would need to rent an apartment to a
Catholic or Baptist, or hire a Catholic or a Baptist...then you will now have to
allow a LGBT person to live there, or work there.
MN my home state had ENDA statewide and was overturned.I was mistaken
saying "most" states, but the 12 states protect 40% of Americans, and 100 Cities
have ENDAs too.
A 2008 survey by sexologist Li Yinhe shows a mixed picture of public attitudes
towards gays and lesbians in China. 91% of respondents said they agreed with
homosexuals having equal employment rights, while over 80% of respondents agreed
that heterosexuals and homosexuals were "equal individuals". On the other hand,
a slight majority disagreed with the proposition that an openly-gay person
should be a school teacher, and 40% of respondents said that homosexuality was
"completely wrong".Gay marriage legslation has been brought
before their National Peoples Congress since 2001. Nothing has passed yet.In the early dynasties, homosexuality was not viewed as abnormal
and celebrated in poetry and art. The devastating event for Chinese homosexuals
was, ironically, the enlightenment that came after the Self-Strengthening
Movement, when homophobia was imported to China along with Western science and
"I always find it interesting how when someone is living in sin, and the
scriptures clearly state it is a sin, and someone points it out as such, he is
immediately labeled a bigot, judgemental, uncompassionate, and old fashioned.
What's more, because more and more people are living the sin, they rationalize
that it's no longer a sin? Clearly, we are living in a time when "evil is good
and good is evil" in the eyes of many people."You can believe
that it is a sin. You can tell anyone you want to that they are sinning.BUT we are talking about the law - US secular law that does not favor
any belief. Everyone (not just those that you deem righteous) is equal under
the law. The 14th amendment guarentees that.Can you see the
John Pack Lambert | 1:46 p.m. Nov. 12, 2009 To the 1:08 commentator,When the Church proactively makes every policy possible to keep missionaries
from in any way participating in political action, and add is not a parable, it
is a lie. It was SYMBOLISM, John. If you ask people in CA who those
young men are in white shirts and suit pants, who do you think they say?
Mormons. They were using that image to invoke that thought process so that the
viewers would think, "Mormons" - not missionaries.Not a lie, just a
parable. Accept it.
To UM,Bigotry is irrational. No explanation is possible or required.
Bigots, like yourself, do not live in a real world.
'But the constitution also allows for the free exercise of religion, conscience,
business, association, speech, etc. as long as it does not interfere with
another person's right to the same pursuit.' - 1:20 p.m. So, firing
a gay person does not interfere with that person's ability to do business?
Association? Speech? You KNOW what these mean, right?
'My gripe is with more government intrusion--I want government out of my private
life, period.' But it's ok in mine. Thanks for showing
why the rules should only apply to you and not the gay community.
You help make the case why these laws are needed.
I always find it interesting how when someone is living in sin, and the
scriptures clearly state it is a sin, and someone points it out as such, he is
immediately labeled a bigot, judgemental, uncompassionate, and old fashioned.
What's more, because more and more people are living the sin, they rationalize
that it's no longer a sin? Clearly, we are living in a time when "evil is good
and good is evil" in the eyes of many people.In truth however,
nothing has changed. The Savior still loves them, but the guilt remains and it
will always be there until such time as the sin is fully repented of. God is unchangeable. If he were, he would cease to be God. As compassionate
and loving as he is, He does not change his position on sin simply because more
and more people engage in that sin. And because He is an eternal and loving God,
his love is never diminished when we choose not to follow Him.As in the
case of all sin, this too can be overcome and repented of. It may take a
lifetime of endurance and faith, but it can be done.
If you as gays say that gay marriage is a purely RELIGIOUS thing and start
bashing religions, how is it that the very ATHEIST People's Republic of China
does not allows "civil unions" of homosexuals or "marriage" between
homosexuals.Please explain the world's abhorrence of homosexual acts
and marriage. It is because it is wrong, unnatural and quite frankly disgusts
the majority of those in the world.
John Pack Lambert | 1:25 p.m. Nov. 12, 2009 To the 1:00 commentator,"You are right, I did some interesting math. However, my point that 12 is not
EVEN CLOSE to a majority still stands."----------20
years ago, it was 0%. Now it's 24%. Given more time, I think you will be
surprised at how quickly this changes.
To the 1:08 commentator, When the Church proactively makes every policy
possible to keep missionaries from in any way participating in political action,
and add is not a parable, it is a lie.
To the 1:00 commentator, You are right, I did some interesting math.
However, my point that 12 is not EVEN CLOSE to a majority still stands.
Being a jerk and a bigot is a right. We live in a free country that allows
people to be whatever they want, thank Heaven as that is the very basis of the
argument against discrimination. But the constitution also allows for the free
exercise of religion, conscience, business, association, speech, etc. as long as
it does not interfere with another person's right to the same pursuit. Public
laws and services must be non-discriminatory as they are shared by the group.
But private business, associations, dwellings, etc.?I don't believe
this is a religious issue, it is a social policy issue that has been voted on by
the representatives of SLC. They chose, through their representatives, to make
these laws and they have that right and will live with the consequences. My gripe is with more government intrusion--I want government out of my
private life, period. (And I agree that marriage should be something done in
churches, and civil unions should be the only social policy offered by
government to cohabitants if at all.)It is not about right or left,
it is about protecting individual freedom from either one in the majority.
To the 5:12 commentator, Religious organizations are ONLY exempted from
the religious component of non-discrimination in Title 7. For people who
qualify as "pastors" (including teachers whose main subject is religion) the
pastors exemption makes all rules unapplicable, but for positions like janitor
the firing must be based on religion. However, this is how the group interprets
religion. The classic case was the 1987 upholding of the Church firing a
janitor at the Deseret Gym for failure to hold a current temple reccomend, which
was a condition of his employment. In another case a Christian school did
not ask an employees religion before highering them, but their firing an
employee for wearing an Islamic head scarf was upheld on the grounds that they
could regulate the religious behavior of their employees at school. So
probably religious groups could win an exemption to this law if it were not
written there, but we should seek laws that incorporate the principals of
"This also cuts to why the add showing the missionary rampage was a total lie.
Missionaries do not in any way get involved in political issues. It was lay
members not missionaries involved."It was a PARABLE, John. You
remember what a parable is, don't you? It is when you tell a story (that didn't
really happen) to prove a point.The missionaries symbolized the LDS
church. The ripping apart of the marriage license represented how the gays felt
about the church's involvement in Prop 8. Really, a lie?
"You need to go watch the NPR piece where they interview a middle schol teacher
in Massachusetts who explains because same-sex marriage is recognized in
Massachusetts she feels able to explain lesbian sex in full detail."Was that her opinion or the school boards? She could get in trouble if she
does that without the school boards approval.She, of course, can
voice her opinion.
John Pack Lambert | 12:16 p.m. Nov. 12, 2009 To the 11:55
commentator,12 states is not "most other states". There are 48 states that
lack a state-wide ENDA. Beyond this, many ENDAs lack the clear excemptions
for religious groups that are so key to preserving religious freedom.12+48 = 60, John.How about 38 States?
John Pack Lambert | 11:25 a.m. Nov. 12, 2009 To the 9:02 commentator,Just keep this action in reserve. The next time someone complains about the
Church publicly supporting man/woman marriage and says it violates "the
seperation of Church and State" ask why the Church's actions in SLC were not
comdemned for the same reason.Go look at the SL Tribune.
Plenty of condemnation for the church's actions there.
To the 2:18 commentator, You need to go watch the NPR piece where they
interview a middle schol teacher in Massachusetts who explains because same-sex
marriage is recognized in Massachusetts she feels able to explain lesbian sex in
full detail. That said, the "out-of-state" Mormons gripe is a lie. The
Letter was read only in sacrament meetings in California. It was the anti-8
people who publicized it nation wide before it was even read. This also
cuts to why the add showing the missionary rampage was a total lie.
Missionaries do not in any way get involved in political issues. It was lay
members not missionaries involved. There is a reason why on the Church website
they showed a talk between Elder Bednar and some young-adults about these
issues, Elder Bednar was BORN in California. The fireside, with such
Californias as Elder Cook, was broadcast to California and also to locations
where many Californians were temporarily attending school. You may disagree
with people away at school still voting at home, but until California bans their
vote they are not "out-of-state" interlopers.
Erin Eldrige thankyou for your comments. Even more thanks for using your
name. In some ways I am a bit surprised that we have not yet seen a
right-wing anti-Mormon attack on this stance from either fundamentalist
polygamist types or from Evangelical Christian types. I also hope no
one is such a low life as to attack you personally. If they do, just remember
that Jesus was also persecuted for speaking the truth, so you are in good
company. Thankyou again for your comments. You are a truly courageous
person, not only for having overcome your past challenges, but for openly
sharing them in a situation where some delight in any attack they can throw at
If I am right, the Church will actually be affected by this law. While
non-profit and religious activities by the Church, from education to welfare to
the employees who maintain Church buildings and temples, will be exempted, the
for profit businesses the Church owns while probably fall under the
non-discrimination rule. I am unsure, but it seems the Deseret News and Deseret
Book will be affected by it possibly. positions like editors and reporters not
really, but store clerks and printer operators possibly. If someone can
say whether I am right or not that would be very helpful.
To the 12:27 commentator, You probably should have read the whole post
you were responding to. The person clearly delineated three groups of people
who deal with same-gender attraction. He made it clear that those who feel
same-gender attraction but marry those of the other gender can be full members
of the Church. I wonder if "celibate" is the best word. While indulging
in gay-pornography would not in general get someone excommunicated, it would be
sinful. I guess my point is we have to remember that celibate might not convey
the right meanings to some people. Not that any pornography is acceptable, just
to say that actual sexual intercorse is not the only issue.
If the Church feels so strongly about this issue that they go out of their way
to make a public statement (that really didn't impact the vote)--but puts the
requirement upon the rest of us, they should follow it themselves in all of
their employment practices. That would be leading by example.As I
see it, they're saying we should all be required to do what they refuse to do,
which seems disingenuous.
To the 11:55 commentator, 12 states is not "most other states". There
are 48 states that lack a state-wide ENDA. Beyond this, many ENDAs lack
the clear excemptions for religious groups that are so key to preserving
To the 11:34 commentator, I am tempted to say to those who complain
about this stance by the Church as too liberal "go to the FLDS Church where your
views are at home". However, if the 4 unit rule is included in the bill, which
I have no reason to doubt, then I think the first thing to say is "read the bill
and see what the Church actually supported". My deeper answer is "If you
believe that Thomas S. Monson is the prophet of God, ask first 'Why this
position' and see if you can understand before you assume we have caved to
political pressure." Considering that the Church said over a year ago it
supported housing rights for same-gender couples, this is not in any way a
flip-flop. The biggest thing this shows is that the Church speaks the
truth, while many on both sides of the political isle are so used to just saying
things to win friends now, that they suffer shock when people actually live up
to thier words.
To the 10:53 commentator, I guess this is somehow like when the Church
announced that sealings should be done to your actual father instead of to a
Church leader, since that was what was announced in 1896. The Church is
backpedaling? Considering what was said in "The Sacred Institution of
Marriage", considering talks and articles written in the 1980s and 1990s, the
Church has consistently held the same position. Considering that one
person has used the Church making an open public statement on this issue as
reason to oppose electing a Mormon as president, any gripe the Church has not in
the passed specifically supported any particular legislation on this matter
ignores the fact that the Church speaking on any matter of public policy
generates large amonts of hate and anger.
Currently 12 states have non-discrimination in employment laws that include
sexual orientation. A further 93 municipalities and cities have such ordiances.
That meanst 38 states do not have such oridances, and with 90 counties in Ohio
alone, the vast majority of counties and cities lack them, even if we assume
none of those 93 lower unit governments are in the 12 states.
To Mark at 10:20, Kalamazoo just passed its anti-discrimination
ordinace this month. Anchorage has been in the midst of one recently.
The issue of proper exemption for religious institutions has often been a
sticking point for some of these. For the last few years Hamtramck, Michigan
has been going through a big fight on such ordiances. Massachusetts is
currently debating one that grants transsexuals employment rights. This is a
present issue in many states.
To the 9:34 commentator, Considering that I have entered temple square
passing a protestor denouncing President Hinckley for "allowing" a gay pride
parade to be led by Salt Lake City's mayor in Salt Lake City (how President
Hinckley could have stopped Ross Anderson from doing such I don't know, but that
is not quite relevant) I think your theories about the matter are based on false
notions both about the Church's control of Salt Lake City and even more so about
what occurs in that city.
To the 9:14 commentator, However, it remains a very good question why
polygamy is a criminal offense and sodomy can not be. Also, has anyone
ever decided if polygamy is a "sexual orientation". I believe that is the
phrase used, and if someone can successfully argue (which they have not really
tried) that their natural sexual tendency is to have committed, long term sexual
relations with multiple women, than could they not demonstrate that refusing to
rent to them on the ground that they are a polygamist would violate the
ordinance? I know there are several ifs in their. Actually the same is
slightly more likely to be claimed on the part of child molestors. Well, a
claim of sexual orientation is more likely to be successful. It does open a
good question, can you refuse to rent to someone because they are on the sex
'They (we) clearly don't accept the homosexual activity.' How does
where a homosexual live and where they work count as 'homosexual activity?' Dosent everyone else do that?
This is clear evidence that 'this' is not practiced in the State of Utah. The
mere fact that a "representative" from the LDS church gave blessing to basic
civil rights initiatives sends the message that they are the final authority on
all things Government. This is not what the U.S. stands for, it's not a
Theocracy, Utah does not belong to the LDS Church, regardless of the fact that
early settlers were LDS. This evidence, to me, suggests that Utah should be
removed from the U.S. and truly be distinguished as the separatist Country it
secretely practices itself to be. It should be named "Theocratic LDS West",
which is a more honest description. This has nothing to do with GLBT rights or
issues. This is scary. This reeks of the Catholic stronghold in Italy.
To the 9:11 commentator, How do you "deny blacks because you don't like
their lifestyle". I can think of policies that might exclude many
Afrian-Americans, but as long as you enforce them equally you can do them. I am
not sure, but I think you could even get away with banning eating fried chicken
in your contract. If you preclude someone because you think they will eat fried
chicken, that is probably unacceptable, but merely kicking people out when they
violate the fried chicken provision would probably be upheld, as long as you
could prove you kicked out people for eating fried chicken whatever their
race. Why you ban eating fried chicken might be hard to explain, but an
argument that you want to improve the health of your tenants might actually
allow you to win. I know not all African-Americans eat fried chicken, but
there is nothing all African Americans do that distinguishes them from others,
even fried chicken is not that distinguishing because lots of Euro-Americans eat
it, but it seemed to work.
Let me expound a little more. The Church is supporting this law because they
believe that everyone is a son or daughter of God and deseves to be treated with
dignity. People should not be thrown out on the street because of their innate
feelings, or even because of actions that are not criminal. This is a
view that stems from the Church's religious beliefs. Where are the people
crying about our forcing our religion on them? Where are the people insisting
we not base legislation on our religion?
To the 9:02 commentator, Just keep this action in reserve. The next
time someone complains about the Church publicly supporting man/woman marriage
and says it violates "the seperation of Church and State" ask why the Church's
actions in SLC were not comdemned for the same reason.
To "Help Me Understand" (10:34 a.m.):It is one thing to protect
beliefs but entirely another to fire someone for what they do in the privacy of
their own home. Where would that type of prejudice end? And how would it
really be legislated anyway? I can see not hiring someone who holds completely
opposite views than the company's standards, such as a pro-life advocate working
in an abortion clinic. But to fire someone who is qualified, competent and
conscientious in their work ethic for a private activity that has NOTHING to do
with their employment is just wrong. I do think that individuals who own
private rental property (with the exception of large apartment complexes) should
have the right to rent to those with whom they feel comfortable. Telling
someone they HAVE to rent to someone in particular infringes on the property
owner's rights.And, yes, I am active LDS, opposed to same-sex
marriage but believe we should have civil unions across the board and let
"marriage" be a separate, religious ceremony based upon each individual
'But why should I tell my neighbor who to rent to? Continued erosion of freedom
for all involved.' So, being able to deny someone housing is a
right? Discrimination is a protected class? Loss of Freedom, I
disagree with you. I'm not sure, but if someone chose not to rent to
you because you are mormon is that not protected under regligious freedom? Would there not be consequence? But doing it to a
homosexual is ok, right? Bottom line the 'someone else doing it is
wrong' defense is invalid. As, if you would NOT have it done to you,
you should not do it to others. If you disagree with someone's
choices. Do not rent to them after you contract is up. You should
not have the right to evict them 72hrs after they pay you a years rent because
of who they date.
Ditto your comments. Just stick in "non-member" where who have mormon and
"conservative" where you have liberal and you get a little piece of what it is
like in Utah. You are so far from reality that you cannot even see what is in
front of you.
Why is the LDS church sending a member to give this statement? They (we) clearly
don't accept the homosexual activity. It's wrong! and sinful! Standing up to
the homosexual attacks on our society, will always be justified. Supporting any
legislation, only furthers their agenda. We have a right to reject this
behavior, and a right to protect beliefs.
I hope that people in the church stand up and show there concern about this.
People make up the church, and I for one will make my disgust for this decision
known. Who is with me, brothers and sisters, who is with me??????????????
["I am still baking on it but do not see the need to have even had a
spokesperson make a statement about it. I am not all seeing or knowing either
but seek out enlightenment whenever I can. "]you don't understand
why they did this? really? give it some thought, soldierboy. it is so they
can say "look - see - we don't hate gays. we want good things for them - see
how we look out for their well-being? we just don't want them to have the same
things we have, such as marriage. They're just too... different". so now you
understand why the church spoke out on this? they're looking for
brownie-points.but you as a soldier should know the basic tenet of
the military... one "aw shoot" wipes out 100 "attaboys". (cleaned it up a bit
but you get my meaning....) so if they think this buys them much they are
As a member of the LDS church, if a private citizen or business chooses not to
associate with me because of my "Mormonism" then that is their right and,
although I think they are jerks because of their bigotry, I will defend their
right to choose how they live their lives and conduct their business. Living outside of Utah I ran into bigoted people who, upon discovery of my
religious association, treated me and my children with contempt and
discrimination. Our response? Deal with it. Life is full of people who are jerks
including homosexual business owners and renters who will not hire Mormons,
Republicans, Catholics, etc. They have the freedom to do so, just as I have the
freedom to not spend my money at their business or rent from them.Utahns are way too apologetic for their conservative leanings. Live in a
liberal state for a year and you will understand just how hypocritical the
leftist special interest groups are when they are in the majority.I
would have ZERO hesitation renting to a homosexual. But why should I tell my
neighbor who to rent to? Continued erosion of freedom for all involved.
to --- Now enter the government | 12:12 a.m["and establishes a new
protected class of citizen "the homosexual class". "]how is that? i
don't get it. the new law covers sexual orientation. everyone has one. no one
is protected any more than anyone else...did you even know you have
a sexual orientation? or do you just take it for granted?["the
freedom to chose who you employ and who you rent to is taken away by a
dictatorial town government with the support of its largest institution"]you haven't been free to chose who you employ or rent to since the 70s.
or have you forgotten EEO and the other non-discriminatory laws? if
you want to pick who to hire and rent to based on your bigotry, don't rent or
This isn't really a change in stance for the Mormon Church. In 1995 President
Hinckley said "Now we have gays in the church. Good people." Even President
Kimball said gay people were "basically good people". When I read those as a
faithful gay member of the church, I felt loved and included in the church.I think the way the media typically portrays Mormonism distorts the
actual teachings of the church. Th Church has always taught to teach us LGBT
people with love and respect. It is only extreme activists who think the only
way to treat us with respect is to change your position on same-sex marriage,
which the Church will never do.BTW, to all those who think the
church will never ordain gay bishops, I hate to break it to you, but they have
been doing that for years. They do require gay bishops to remain faithful to
their wives, just like straight ones, but there are gay bishops who are able to
'This is not the church nor the church leadership I grew up with!'
Stand for Something! | 8:33 a.m - Times change. The LDS church
supports non-discrimination in SLC. Granted, the LDS church
actively worked to deny marriage to americans in California. This
token support in SLC does not erase that. I will never forget that. But rather
than focus on the bad, let's focus on the good. To imply that you
did not 'grow up' with this leadership is to imply you did not grow up at
all. Perhaps it is time you did.
Now enter the government and establishes a new protected class of citizen "the
homosexual class". And, on Veteran's Day, the freedom to chose who you employ
and who you rent to is taken away by a dictatorial town government with the
support of its largest institution. Shame on Salt Lake, and shame on the LDS
Church, and pity the man who laid down his life to defend "freedom and liberty"
-----------As a mother of a marine, I did not allow my
son to defend your "right" to discriminate! He fought for ALL Americans, not
just those that you judge to be righteous and like you.Who is the
"least among us?" Would you do this to Christ? Why do it to any of God's
The argument that gays will sue to get married in the temple is almost as stupid
as the argumnebt that the church did this to protect its tax exempt status.
Sometimes I can't tell which side is dumber.
I'm confused. Why does the LDS Church feel the need to proclaim support(or vice
versa) for a government position? I thought they did not believe in using their
influence in political arenas? Why does the government need the
opinion of the LDS Church in order to make a decision? I'm glad I don't live in
I am troubled by this decision. It indeed seems we are becoming 'in the world.'
This is not the church nor the church leadership I grew up with!
Funny how the chruch cowers when the almighty tax exempt status is threatened.
Wow. I never thought I'd see the church do the politically expedient thing.
I look forward to seeing transvestites working at Deseret Book.
I believe that the Obamalosi(tm) government healthcare bill is likely to be the
foot in the door of solving the problems with "domestic partners" not receiving
coverage from employers of either (or more) who share the same domicile
completely bypassing the institution of marriage. It's not hard to add these
things up and see where the "bubbleheads" passing such legislation are taking
these things regardless of how political correctness is figuratively and
literally killing us as seen by the affirmative action problems that hindered
full investigation of our own people for fear of hurting someone's feelings. It's high time we stopped tiptoeing around everything and grew our
backbones back (no pun intended). This is not about hate, but rather admitting
that when you try so hard not to categorize people, that is exactly what you end
up doing. As far as what the Church did here, I am still baking on it but do not
see the need to have even had a spokesperson make a statement about it. I am not
all seeing or knowing either but seek out enlightenment whenever I can. BTW, don't ask don't tell "goes both ways".
This is good news, but the choice of the word "violence" by Otterson is
disturbing. They want credit for opposing discrimination (and for the record
this is new for the LDS leaders who have opposed anti-discrimination laws in
areas of race and gender in the past). They did serious violence to marriage in
California's Prop 8 campaign and now have the gall to declare this legal change
as "non-violent" to marriage. This amazes me!
@markI'm not surprised that you laugh whenever you the truth doesn't
match your fantasy world.
I was disappointed in the church when it spent so much effort on Prop 8 and
ignored an opportunity to oppose Physician Assisted Suicide in this state. Not
that I was against Prop 8, but I thought standing against killing yourself was a
greater moral imperative. That said, I was curious as to how it
would respond to referendum 71, an effort by the Christian Right to reverse a
domestic partners act that lends all civil rights to unmarried registered civil
unions, the so called "Anything but Marriage Act."The Church made no
official pronouncements, and I saw no unofficial organization in my Ward or
Stake to support referendum 71. This seems very consistant with the Churches
pronouncement about the SLC statute, and in that context, it shouldn't have
surprised those aware of the world outside of Utah and California. I'm still disappointed that the Church let "Death with Dignity" slide right by
without a peep, but I see no hypocrisy in their approach to gay rights and
and establishes a new protected class of citizen "the homosexual class". And, on
Veteran's Day, the freedom to chose who you employ and who you rent to is taken
away by a dictatorial town government with the support of its largest
institution. Shame on Salt Lake, and shame on the LDS Church, and pity the man
who laid down his life to defend "freedom and liberty"
This is evidence: Choosing to discriminate does not make you a
@Re;Bryce T.thanks for the laugh
So if I, as an atheist, want to get married at the Cathedral I could sue? This
is news to me.See how stupid the idea "if gays are allowed to be
married we will be forced to do it" is? Churches are not forced to perform
marriages that they do not support.
Sorry, but the church doesn't obsess about money the way you obviously do.
Money had absolutely nothing to do with it.
The accusation of bigotry, like its sister "hypocrisy" places an awful burden on
the accuser. From your mass characterizations of people, I would caution that
you are at least perilously close (on one side or another) to the bigotry line
your yourself. And based on your comments, you appear to me quite a ways over
the "self-righteousness" line. Slingers of accusations on all sides would do to
examine themselves well before denigrating an entire group of people. Note that
the news article that generated all these comments stressed the congeniality and
actual friendships that developed as these people got to know each other. It
turns out that, counter to your view, the Mormon negotiators were actually good
and sincere people. It does not counter your view, however, that all gays are
categorically wonderful people. So you're only being challenged on one side of
Thanks to the Church when thanks are due.and to Brett | 6:00 p.m.
Nov. 11, 2009Gays have no more power to sue the Church than
polygamists have for the same reason.Or for that matter, many
religious organizations have the power to deny anyone marriage based on policy
and doctrine.Some churches/religious organizations can deny a couple
marriage in their church, synagogue, mosque, place of worship if one of the
partners does not belong to their faith. Others can deny if one of the members
is divorced. Of course in the Church bishops can recommend or deny
a temple recommend which in essence denies temple marriage to a couple. At
that, a couple can be denied from a civil ceremony at a chapel.So
Brett, when you say comments like "I can see the day when Temple Marriage is
sued by gay couples" the logic for your statement is lacking historical and
current legal implications. It is more based on phobias of "what if" than what
"A former gay, current Mormon"Yeah, right. Make that "Suppressed
gay, current Mormon" and I will buy it.
The LDS church agrees that you should not be denied employment or evicted from
your home due to your sexual orientation. And if you've ever gone
through puberty, trust me, you have one. I call that progress since
it is 2009 and these protections in SLC are new. We can agree on
this. There will be others we cannot. We can talk about that too. And we will.
May God and the gays forgive the cowardly bigots among us.Some
people truly are so clueless - the ones beside themselves with dismay that gays
should be protected from eviction or from losing their job based SOLEY on
their sexual orientation [of which we are born with]. The ones who are so sure
gayness will spread to their children. The ones clinging to their irrational
fears and chosing discrimination over love and acceptance. They
know no gay people personally and so subscribe to some fey, lisping,
limp-wristed gay stereotype ala Hollywood. They think gay people are
promiscuous, Godless, puposeful sinners, all of whom use drugs. The posters on here who've shared their stories and say they chose the
Church over being gay, will you not set these frightened, ignorant people
straight?I don't live in Utah anymore. Maybe that's my problem,
you'll say. The gay people I know are wonderful people. I feel blessed by
their friendship. They've enriched my family's life. And I'll continue
fighting for their equal rights until they are awarded them.
The church didn't change policy on blacks having the priesthood, it was on hold.
Two black men held positions as 70's. It wasn't until Joseph Smith praised the
blacks as good or better than whites, spoke of freeing them, etc while running
for President that caused it to be on hold. Having the priesthood is more
important than when. And that’s why there’s temple work. Those
that would try to thwart God's work will be burned at the coming of Christ and
not live during the millenium when the bulk of temple work will be done. Those
that didn't have it at that time will get it between now and during the
millenium until God says the work is done. When God says the work is done,
that's it, judgment for the rest. The reason we do temple work by proxy is
because everything has to be done while in this life. And those living make
that possible through proxy. Those that never heard the gospel will be taught
and baptized,- by proxy. We don't judge who’s work is valid, God does.
We're commanded to just do the work.
Thank you for writing a relatively unbiased article about this. I read a
similar article written in another prominent Salt Lake paper that was completely
one sided. They made it sound like the Church was pushed into doing this by gay
activists, kicking and screaming.
Temple Marriage is sued by gay couplesthe above will
never happen. and again this article has nothing to do with gay marriage.
Bad move, I can see the day when Temple Marriage is sued by gay couples. This
sets the wrong precidence. I think the church leadership should have stood by
doctrine and not accomodated the gays with this one.
I'm amazed at the hatred spewing forth from both sides. As a former gay now in a
committed temple marriage, I know this much: Those who believe "gay" is a
permanent identity should be respected for their freedom to believe such. As
Mormons, we believe homosexual desires are temptations to be overcome, not an
identity to be embraced. We also believe marriage between a man and a woman is
optimum and should be preserved as such. For Latter-day Saints, we are
obligated, as an article of our faith, to respect everyone's freedom to believe
as they see fit. Mutual respect is key. LDS Church leaders just
reiterated our respect for rights of gays to identify as such and not be
discriminated for it. These are individual rights, not rights based on a
same-sex unions. The LDS Church has made this same public claim since its
release of "The Divine Institution of Marriage" in August, 2008.
Faithfull Latter Day Saints will understand why this took place and this forum
is not a good place to spell that out in easy to understand words.We know who
guides and directs this church for which I'm gratefull to see that being
done.Nothing more needs to be said.The foes have been silenced once again.
Again, look at the number of comments and compare with other stories. Utah is
obsessed with gay issues. I suspect the actions of the Church may be an
acknowledgment that marriage is a religious matter and should be separate from
the legal rights of our citizens. That is the way it should be. The day will
come when marriage will be separated from the state.
Me thinks the Church is bracing for another run at there tax exempt status.
Funny how the church caves when coffers are threatened. I see a revelation in
the near future just like 1978 when the church was challenged on this exact
topic with african-americans.
This has caused me to do some intense contemplation... I have never stood in
oposition to the LDS church... BUT this is hard to swallow.... First
legal rights, then marriage? wow!
How will they keep the gays of temple square when the majority of city creek
apartments and condos swing the other way? It is just getting more interesting.
Mark"If the church has apartment buildings those will be subject to
non discrimination policy, just as a Black, or a Jew, or a Baptist, or a woman
would be able to rent an apartment,"You obviously don't know which
apartment buildings I'm referring to and you obviously didn't read what I said,
so before you mock you need to learn to read yourself. Near temples and mission
homes etc the church owns apartments S-P-E-C-ifically(too lazy to be as big of
jerk as you) for missionaries, couples missionaries, temple workers etc. Hence
and therefore if they can discriminate by not letting people in there, who's to
say the government can fine anyone else for not letting people in.
FWIW, Title VII of the (federal) Civil Rights Act exempts all religious
organizations from employment discrimination laws. I think this is becuase the
1st Amendment to the Constitution limits Congress' ability to make laws about
churches/religions. The SLC ordinance is similar to federal law in this
This is a great development resulting from people with different views sitting
down to actually listen to each other. It is reassuring example of how people
can find common gorund - - not total agreement, but common ground. This could
not have happened on a blog, where people are far more interested in spouting
off than listening and understanding each other.
Since when does a guy use sweetie?
Anonymous | 4:07 p.m. Nov. 11, 2009 I'll still never rent to them. ---------What if you find out after you have rented to them
that they are gay and not just roommates?Evict them?Raise the rent so high they have to move?I wouldn't want to
rent from you and I am not even gay. What a piece.
Hossman...reading isn't your strong suit is it?CHURCHES are
e-x-e-m-p-texempt means does NOT apply to them.now do
you UNDERSTAND.... huh sweetie?If the church has apartment buildings
those will be subject to non discrimination policy, just as a Black, or a Jew,
or a Baptist, or a woman would be able to rent an apartment
["the right to the control of one's own property. That should mean that one can
choose whom to hire and to whom to rent. Based on whatever personal feelings one
has. When one loses the right to make choices about what is his, one has lost
the most basic of human rights."]yes. true. but when you open your
doors to the public, you must do so to ALL public. so decide. either be
entirely private, or don't discriminate.too complicated for you.
need it written in bigotese?
@4:07from THEMThank God, you probably own no apartments,
and that we'd never rent from a BIGOT.
Why are all you having fits about renting. I just read one comment that said "i
wont rent to them," and another that said "the govt cant tell me who to rent
to," and yet another that said that they wont rent to gays because "they will
bring other things around like DRUGS." I didnt know that to be gay you also had
to be a drug addict. NEWS TO US GAYS
["Max:: You won't be hired because the church only hires those who have temple
recommends"]sonds biased to me - but that's not new.
Lol, to work for the church you need to have a temple recommend usually so how
are they going to answer if a gay person wants a church job? Also if it's
illegal to discriminate against gay people at businesses, employment, housing
etc how are they going to keep gay people out of those church owned apartment
buildings that house temple workers, missionaries etc. I think this is going to
come back and bite the mormon church right in the bum.
["I have however, seen people discriminated against in housing for skin color,
sex, or marital status (or lack thereof). Same thing with jobs"]you've seen that, and yet you can't believe gays would be discriminated
against? have you not read what some people say about gays on here?more people hate gays than hate blacks... but you can't believe they are
discriminated against? have you been drinking?
And i will never do business with a Mormon, but gays have more money than you
since they don't have kids to support. And there are more gays than Mormons in
America. Keep renting your slumpads to transients, the gays will rent the luxe
condos the Church is building.
I've not lived in Utah for years but I was very, very, happy with the passage of
the ordinance last night in SLC and also very happy that the LDS church
supported the measure. Yesterday was a very good day for Utah and I can only
hope that other Utah cities, counties, and the state itself will follow suit.I don't care about the extremist comments on either side of the issue or
what the motivation may or may not have been for church support. What I do care
about is civil rights for all, regardless of sexual orientation . . . or pizza
What a crock, don't force other people to not discriminate when you discriminate
yourself. What a joke.
is the right to the control of one's own property. That should mean that one
can choose whom to hire and to whom to rent. Based on whatever personal
feelings one has. When one loses the right to make choices about what is his,
one has lost the most basic of human rights.And that is a "human rights"
issue that has been lost in this debate.
I'll still never rent to them.
Is this article about right and wrong, or about people's political positions?
If it is about religion, then the LDS church allows people to worship according
to their own dictates. Use their free agency to choose between right and wrong.
God's laws do not change. So whether you are gay, straight, black or white
matters not. Everyone can worship how they choose. That means that neither the
gay or the straight should criticize the other's beliefs. There is nothing
wrong with not agreeing or helping others make laws you do not agree with. Love
they neighbor as they selve does not mean love only those who are like you.
["in Mass. Catholic Services can no longer participate in adoption services"]why do you lie, dude? what you said is an entire untruth. is that what
your church teaches? I know your religion is based on some wild tales, but are
you really supposed to be making up new ones? thought only your "prophet" was
allowed to do that?fact is, catholic churches take state money for
adoption services, and some of the state money comes from a segment of the
population that the church won't adopt to. so why should the taxes from gays go
to a church that won't allow them to adopt? why should gays taxes
be used for something they are not allowed to participate in?
Waiting for the other shoe to drop. This was done for a specific reason and I am
sure it was not for he charity of the gay community. I am sure we will find the
answer out soon, very soon.
I live in Europe. In fact, I am Eurpean. What you write regarding the state
controlling all faiths here in Europe, is simply NOT TRUE. Neither in my
country, nor in any of our neighbouring countries. It's a myth, something your
bishop wants you to believe.Also--Comparing humans to animals??
Really?? I hope you know there is a difference. Why do you spread fear, as if
every human on earth is about to turn gay? Do you feel inclined to
homosexuality? No? Well, same goes for the overwhelming majority of humans, it's
in our genes- our race won't die out.I would suggest turn brain on,
turn propaganda off.
I am an active member of the LDS Church, and I really think the solution to this
would be to enact legislation allowing "civil unions" for both heterosexuals and
homosexuals. Then, if people want to use the word "marriage", that would be a
religious ceremony that could be done within the individual churches. Churches
could/should not be fined or sanctioned for not performing "marriages" if the
church's guidelines (whatever they may be) were not met as the individuals
involved would already have a LEGAL document binding them. I cannot argue that
there are many tax breaks and other benefits married heterosexuals enjoy that
are currently denied to those in committed homosexual relationships or that if
they desire to have cost much, much more than the cost of a marriage license.While I am not in favor of the homosexual lifestyle, I acknowledge that
there are those who are not going to change (whether by choice or birth, I do
not know), and these individuals are contributing, tax-paying members of society
and should be afforded the same rights and benefits that other Americans enjoy.
@Re...markUtah legislature is 85% LDS...no law is created or approved NOT
LDS controlled.LDS is a tiny minority in ANY city outside Utah, what your
members do or don't do is politically negligable.You want LGBT
gratitude...keep your bags of Mormon money and unnamed donors OUT of other
state's Civil Rights laws. You will never have me in Utah = Hate State, let alone on YOUR porch. I also am trained in self defense by a lesbian with
a black belt, your first punch better be REALLY well aimed, cuz it's the LAST
strike you'd get at me before your nose bone is shoved into your grey matter
with the palm of my hand.
You know that this article and what took place has nothing to do with the gay
marriage thing. Lds Bishops will never marry a gay couple.
hey jack. i post under anonymous and I have no idea what you are talking
about... perhaps if you specify what time the post was made, we can follow
along... but if you just say "anonymous" then you may as well be talking to
I'm exhausted with all of these comments. Holy cow. The church wasn't changing
their stance, or trying to reach out, they were standing up for what they
believe. They believe that everybody has basic rights, and shouldn't be
discriminated against. I don't really understand why this is becoming such a big
story, They are just asking for the same rights for others that they wish for
Max:: You won't be hired because the church only hires those who have temple
aj parquart | 3:00 p.m. Nov. 11, 2009 1-If homsosexuality were
"widespread" in the Animal Kingdom, "THERE WOULD BE NO ANIMAL KINGDOM!
einsteinHomosexuality in the animal kingdom is about the same
percentage as humans - 5%. No problem with the other 95% procreating.2-Once Religions are no longer exempt from the Gay Agenda, either through
legislation or Marriage, the State will indeed have control of all Faith's.(It's already happening in Europe and in Mass. Catholic Services can no longer
participate in adoption services).Please, not that MA Catholic
Services again. They CHOSE to close their doors rather than not accept tax
money. You cannot discriminate when you use government money because gays
helped raise it!3-Thankfully the LDS Church understands the
craftiness of the LGBT movement. It's all about control, the ultimate goal of
them is to control Religion and their beliefs.We live in America.
We have the strongest freedom of religion laws in the world. You will still get
to believe that homosexuality is wrong even if gay marriage is the law of the
land.Quit fear-mongering. It is getting old.
I am glad that the Church made this decision in support of basic human decency.
Of course, much of the commentary here already confirms that for many Mormons,
opposition to homosexuality has nothing to do with religion. Rather, it is a
matter of personal hatred/bigotry with cosmetic theology pasted over the top so
as to look more acceptable. In any case, bravo to the Church! I hope some of my
fellow members will take this as a cue for continued improvement. "Inasmuch as
ye have done it unto one the least of these..."
To all the "Blutos" of the world:Why do you somehow feel entitled to
certain rights and privileges and yet feel "justified" in denying those same
rights and privileges to another.You people need to grow up. If an
apartment ownder put up a sign that said "Mormons need not apply" or "Blacks not
welcome"...I imagine most of you would feel very differently.Thats called
When has anyone actually been discriminated against in years due to their sexual
orientation as far as a job or place to live is concerned? My guess is anyone
that says they have is not being truthful. All stories I've seen the the past
few years appear on their face to be apocryphal.There are too many
Federal Laws in place and too many sue happy people to allow that type of
discrimination. Salt Lake didn't need to codify it.I have however,
seen people discriminated against in housing for skin color, sex, or marital
status (or lack thereof). Same thing with jobs.
All I want to know is when is the Gay Parade going down mainstreet? Can't wait.
Balloons. Cotton candy, rainbows! The days of 47 will never be the same!
RE -- To Anonymous the first | 2:30 p.mI have no clue who you're
talking to, but I can answer the question...["Now the the Church has
done something positive towards mutual understanding in most peoples eyes, you
want to question the motivation"]if your church wants to do
something positive, they will simply drop the whole gay thing and never bring it
up again. some gays want to marry in their temple, they can say "no". but for
ANYTHING outside of your specific church, they should just remain silent...
entirely... no calling for money to stop gay marriage, no preaching about its
evils or supposed detriment to society... just butt out of it all.then you can say your chuirch has "done something positive towards mutual
understanding".we know your stance - we know your beliefs. keep it
to yourselves and no one will care. that's what you say to gays, right? keep
it to yourself and no one will care?
One thing I should have the right to worry about is if I want to rent to
someone. Where property is not sacred liberty cannot exist.
Joke? | 2:21 p.m. Nov. 11, 2009 Utah gives a group of people the right to
have the most basic of rights a job and a place to live????...... How
magnanimous!!!! --------Not Utah. Only Salt Lake City.
Utah still allows anyone who wants to to discriminate against gays.It is perfectly legal.
What will Gayle Ruzicka do if the Church back this legislation for the whole
state?And ppor Chris Buttars!
1-If homsosexuality were "widespread" in the Animal Kingdom, "THERE WOULD BE NO
ANIMAL KINGDOM! einstein2-Once Religions are no longer exempt from
the Gay Agenda, either through legislation or Marriage, the State will indeed
have control of all Faith's.(It's already happening in Europe and in Mass.
Catholic Services can no longer participate in adoption services).3-Thankfully the LDS Church understands the craftiness of the LGBT movement.
It's all about control, the ultimate goal of them is to control Religion and
their beliefs.4-The Church is being fairminded. However, you can see
now, that even when they are fair and balanced it only fires up the Gay Nation
for more and more and more.The Gay community is without historical
acceptance or traditon. They are not original in any way. Even their very
behavior is tired and dated.Therefore, they must co-op established
entities as their own.eg; The word Gay, Rainbow's, Boy Scouts,
Marriage, Church's, Military, Schools k-12, Commerce etc..They go
where they are not invited, into esteemed institutions where they hope the
stench of their behavior will be masked.Leave society alone!
Your ignorance is so annoying. Firstly, the LDS church does
not makes the laws and is not obligated to announce support for them. They
obviously chose to announce support for this law in hopes of appeasing hateful
bigots (like you) and setting records straight. Secondly, The LDS
Church exists in almost every city throughout the country, so your venomous
complaint that “other cities made these non discrimination laws DECADES
ago” is completely irrelevant. The church did not oppose the laws in
those cities, so your short-sighted “complete flip flop” comment
makes no sense whatsoever.Thirdly, No one asked for gold stars and
the church couldn’t care less if you are thankful for their decision.
However, your lack of gratitude clearly proves to the rest of us that the LDS
church can never appease your cold, hard, closed mind. Fourthly, the
church has no problem “owning” their reaction to disrespectful
smoochers on their property. Your one-sided concept of gay rights DOES NOT have
precedence over the LDS Church’s religious rights or their property
rights. If you and your boyfriend showed up smoothing on my front porch,
I’d also have a hard time not punching you out.
It is Adam and Eve and NOT Adam and Steve. All you activists need to get over
ourself and leave the Church alone.
Anonymous you are a peice of work. You hate Mormons. Yet, now that they have put
a foot forward towards understanding, you want to know their position on the
military. Note; It isn't the LDS Churches responsibility to make everything
right for the Gay and Lesbian Community. On one hand you castigate the church
over everything and on the other you expect them to help the gay and lesbian
community in any and all areas. What are you doing to help the non gay and
"For some reason the gays insist on that defining them. It's like me saying "The
fact that I like pizza" is going to define my entire life and if there's one
fact I want people to know about me(and they'd better accept it and support me)
is that I like pizza! Everyone better support this fact or I'll throw a tantrum.
Great, you're gay. Get over it. We don't care."Obviously.You can eat your pizza all you want. You can even eat your pizza in front of
other people - at work, in a park in front of children, even on Temple Square!
It's all legal Pizza Man, so have at it.
That will never happen, GUARANTEED!
I applaud the LDS Church for its efforts to give all citizens the same rights
with respect to employment, benefit etc. I also applaud the church for sticking
to its long held views on marriage. I think there is room for both positions in
our scoiety. The bitter gays will question the motivation, cry that it isn't
enough progress, continue to denigrate the church for its stand on marriage and
generally be unawares of progress that is being made. Note to same: you are the
worst enemies to your cause, not the Mormon Church.
"I FOLLOW GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" God would like
you to stop shouting. You're giving him a headache.
Please put down your broad brush. You obviously do not personally know any gay
people or you wouldn't be so worried about your family coming into contact with
Anonymous,You continue to out do youself in my opinion. You don't live in
Utah, have no use for the state, hate Mormons etc. Now the the Church has done
something positive towards mutual understanding in most peoples eyes, you want
to question the motivation. Are you just bitter and blinded or is there some
other reason for your rancor? I would think that California has enough problems
to occupy you full time.
Maybe you should just move to the moon.
["Are we not Christians?"]nope. (and you didn't need to ask - the
rest of your post pretty much answered it...)
"Short sighted by the LDS Church. I don't know if anyone in the church that
supports the flamers. I think it is a wrong and poor decision. I cannot believe
a Prophet of God would take this stance. "So are you leaving
the Church, then? Don't let the door hit you on the way out. Bigot.
["Great, you're gay. Get over it. We don't care"]if you don't care,
why can't they get married? and why do you treat them differently than other
people?["It's like me saying "The fact that I like pizza" is going
to define my entire life "]yes - that's it - liking pizza is just
the same as being gay... we're just waiting for the pizza delivery man to get
beaten to death because he likes pizza... people kiss in the mormon
square, but when two guys did it it was a big deal. that would be like allowing
a white couple to kiss but a black couple or interracial couple would get in
trouble for it.until you all just see people as people, and none of
the other bigotries matter, then there will always be a problem. me? i don't
even notice race anymore. so get over it. i don't care - why do you?
should be protected from the homos!
Utah gives a group of people the right to have the most basic of rights a job
and a place to live????...... How magnanimous!!!!
"We claim the privilege of worshiping the almighty God according to the dictates
of our own conscience and allow ALL men the same privilege, let them worship
HOW, WHERE, or WHAT they may."
["I find it amazing how many cultures blame other religions for their
problems."]i guess you missed the whole prop 8 thing with all the
out-of-state mormons following their leader's orders sending money for deceitful
ads...["I'm not intolerant of gays, but I would really like to stop
hear all the WHINING from everything concerning them"]I'm pretty
sure once they are treated just like everyone else, you'll stop hearing from
them... once no one even notices race, sexual orientation, etc then no one will
have anything to complain about. it will just be those that can't just see
people as people that will be complaining... so don't expect the mormons to
I think the Church made the right decision here, but I am sorry that they had to
do this. There is no change of position on the Church's part. The Church does
not get involved with the Pro-Gay rights movement because it only gets involved
in matters it thinks are very important to foundational principles of society.
That is why it speaks out in regards to gay marriage and alcohol abuse.I firmly believe that the Church has never opposed this kind of action. The
fact that it had to publicly state its position and break its implied policy of
not getting involved in non-essential policy matters (esp. local political
matters) shows how messed up both sides of this debate are. Mormon policy
makers in SLC and Utah in general need to think for themselves and not look to
the Church for permission to support what could be seen as controversial
policies. Further, they need to understand that this policy should not be
controversial from the Churches standpoint.Anti-Mormon/pro-gay
policy makers need to stop lying about the Church's position. The Church has
never and will never hate gay people.
SCHOOL BOARDS decide on school curiculum...in each school district. That hiding
behind children to spew HATE...is really the lowest you folks ever stooped.
Truely CRINGE WORTHY, the only thing worse was the Kalamazoo restroom ad which
BACKFIRED, and should have been charged as HATE SPEECH!
We would get over it when you stop trying to control everything around us. p.s.
happy you like pizza. good for you for coming out
I wonder if Romney may have an invisible hand nudging this bone thrown to gays
in SLC?Prior to another presidential run, he is ALL about "looking"
gay friendly. He said he was gay friendlier than Ted Kennedy, he PRINTED his OWN
well wishes statement on Gay Pride, (I never saw another politician do that in
35 years of Pride marches/festivals.) he also used a foul 1913 law against same
sex couples outside MA, which the courts ruled UNCONSTITUTIONAL.Romney
will NEVER get even ONE LGBT vote.
["We have always supported agency and fought against anyone who tries to take it
away from others"]and yet you won't allow gays the same benefits you
enjoy - marriage...["It is also necessary to stand for what's right
and good"]you mean what YOU think is "right and good".. correct?["It's God's will that every man choose. It is not His will that any one
man or government take that choice away."]and yet you vigorously
support votes to keep an entire segment of the population from having the same
benefits you enjoy...just so you know, for future reference..
hypocrisy is spelled with an H....
8:23Actually, you need to get your facts straight. Church doctrine has
never changed. You just do not have a grasp on what basic church doctrine is.
The basic church doctrine is the concept of revelation. It is the stone upon
which the church is built. You see changes in church practices because whenever
something is on everyone’s mind, the leaders of the church ask the lord
what we should do. Depend on the answer they believe they received from the
Lord, sometimes they stay the course regardless of what the world would have
them do. Sometimes they change course. The most influence anyone can have on
church doctrine is to give the leadership a reason to ask the Lord and then hope
the Lord gives the answer that you wanted.
RE: BlutoIt sounds like you are about as advanced in your way of thinking
as the Animal world. Except Gay RIGHTS because i am just as american as you are.
Thanfully not everyone thinks like you or we would all still be throwing rocks
at each other.FACT:gays are not going away just because you
want us to, so stop crossing your arms and blinking your eyes, we will be here
when you open them :)~
"I have never understood this. The LDS church does not want to support anything
that interferes with the sacred institution of marriage, which I understand and
support. Yet it is willing to support legislation which allows gays to
co-habitate. Marriage is MORE than a certificate. It is a way of life between a
husband and a wife. To support any legislation which supports gays in having the
same way of life as people in a marriage would have doesn't make any sense to me
if you support the church's point of view about marriage and the role of
marriage on our society."Molli - it is not illegal to rent to
heterosexual un-married couples. So, why should someone not rent to an
un-married gay couple?
Gosh,I think too many of us Mormons have gone off the deep end
regarding this subject. Where is our love? Where is our
non-judgmental acceptance of all of our brothers and sisters?We have
been told that we need to love everyone. This is something we need to work
on.I am not feeling the love flowing towards those that have
different values and beliefs. Are we not Christians?
This is an embarrassment to the church. I wonder what preempted this. i am
waiting for the shoe to drop.
I agree completely. I dont go around ensuring people know everything about my
life. For some reason the gays insist on that defining them. It's like me
saying "The fact that I like pizza" is going to define my entire life and if
there's one fact I want people to know about me(and they'd better accept it and
support me) is that I like pizza! Everyone better support this fact or I'll
throw a tantrum. Great, you're gay. Get over it. We don't care.
"(where some states will teach about homosexuality to kids in kindergarten!).
It's not about hating gays, nor has it EVER been." That is a
oft-repeated ridiculous LIE. And as long as you keep telling it, you are
spreading the HATE against gays.
"Until we can see widespread homosexuality in the Animal World"Already there. Goggle National Geographic Homosexual Animals.It
might surprise you!
I find it amazing how many cultures blame other religions for their problems.
Not everybody's "God" is right, but religion is really a way to control people
from making wrong decision out of the fear or going to "Hell." If there is a God
do you think he would really reign with fear? A vengeful god is nonexistent and
is just a boogey man story to keep the ancient people in line. The real god is
humanity as a whole we create our own "heaven" or "hell" and not "god." The
ultimate sin is ignorance because it leads to all the other even more heinous
crimes. I'm not intolerant of gays, but I would really like to stop hear all the
WHINING from everything concerning them.
Agency has been part of Church doctrine since the beginning and has never
changed. We have always supported agency and fought against anyone who tries to
take it away from others. It is also necessary to stand for what's right and
good. Belief and sharing that belief is part of agency. We believe what we
believe. We teach to allow all others the same privelege. This is a legislature
over agency, not moral conduct. When talking about morality the church has made
it abundantly clear where we stand. Make logical diferentiations before blindly
commenting on whether or not this is good, although, the fact that you can even
anonymously comment on an issue such as this is the reason we support agency in
the first place. It's the reason we came to America and fought for freedom. It's
the same reason we still fight for the ability for other countries to have the
same freedoms we enjoy. It's God's will that every man choose. It is not His
will that any one man or government take that choice away. If people could learn
to compromise on their own, legislation would not be necessary.
Short sighted by the LDS Church. I don't know if anyone in the church that
supports the flamers. I think it is a wrong and poor decision. I cannot believe
a Prophet of God would take this stance.
As a former lesbian and current Mormon who's been in a committed temple marriage
for 16 years, I support individual gay rights as well as traditional marriage.
The LDS Church has made this same claim since its release of "The Divine
Institution of Marriage" last year.I am amazed at some of the
bigoted statements, both from a few who profess to be Latter-day Saints and a
few who support gay marriage.No, most people attracted to the same
sex do not choose to be. Yes, they can choose how to act or identify based on
those attractions. Those who believe "gay" is an identity should be respected
for their freedom to believe such-just as Mormons want to be respected for what
we believe. LDS Church leaders have just acknowledged that freedom based on
INDIVIDUAL rights, not rights based on a same-sex union. A person may identify
as gay without ever being involved in a gay relationship. BTW, if
you don't want to rent to such a person, I hope that means you won't rent to a
"straight" single person who may become sexually involved in your basement,
Is that the moron variety of God or the Christian God of the Bible.
To Bill @ 1:06 p.m.What you said brother. Right on.
Robert JohnsonStop insulting the Black Civil Rights fight with
yourown plight.Nobody is fire-hosing gays, whitepowdering them
out of their homes, pushing to the back of the bus, not allowing them to vote
etc. etc.Get off the idea of attaching yourself to a civil rights
fight. Your biggest problem in California was not the Mormons but the Black and
Catholic community. They are insulted by the Gays riding their coat-tails. You Gays will not stop until you have infiltrated every aspect of
American Society.You invade the Boy Scouts, Church's, and all
"private organizations" in order to create a "false sense of acceptability". It's dilusional. Just because you force your way, uninvited, into
private entities, you think you will become credible. Homosexual
behavor has never been acceptable throughout the history of Man, it is against
nature itself. Until we can see widespread homosexuality in the
Animal World or at the very least, partnered up on on Dancing with the Stars,
then your partycrashing will go unanswered.blutoFAct is it's
not just about fairness, you want to force society by legislation to axccept
deviant behavor.The World aint't buying.
I think it is time to ignore the childish comments like yours. who gets to
decide what is legitimate you? I think not.
THERE ARE TWO AVENUES, DO WE FOLLOW THE LEADERSHIP OF 'GOD' IF YOU THINK
THERE IS ONE, OR DO WE FOLLOW THE LEADERSHIP OF THOSE WHO MAKE THEIR OWN RULES
OF LEADERSHIP. 'IF' THERE IS A GOD WHO CREATED THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE, IF YOU CAN
BELIEVE THERE IS AN ENDLESS SPACE OUT THERE THAT YOU EITHER LIVE IN OR YOU DO
NOT. IF YOU DECIDE TO FOLLOW THE OPINIONS OF THOUSANDS WHO THINK THEY KNOW IT
ALL, YOU ARE STUMBLING THROUGH THE SHORT LIFE YOU HAVE. I FOLLOW
Seems that the Church failed to consider the ramifications of this support. Gay
couples in an apartment building, for example, attract a lot of other gays to
the apartment, all of whom present and represent a way of life that moral people
wish to avoid--especially for their young children. A law like this is
discrimination against straight, moral families who wish to live in clean,
positive environments. The same for workplaces. When my family was young, one of
the things we always wanted to make sure of before renting a place was what kind
of people the landlord would allow to rent. And we sought family friendly places
where tenants lived morally and clean. We did not want to live near partiers or
others who disrupted what we feel is correct and tried to teach our family. An ordinance like this destroys that, and now, Church members in Salt
Lake City cannot seek such a haven to live.I am not a gay hater, and
I believe crimes against gays because they are gay should be punished as hate
crimes. Nobody should be able to hurt them, but we should be able protect what
Anyone notice a pattern here? The LDS church is in the news. No matter what
the topic there are people who have criticism and others who applaud it.
Criticizers are most likely people who got chastized by their bishop once for
masturbating and have never gotten over it. Its time to ignore the naysayers
and start addressing people with legitimate concerns who are willing to listen.
The Church stated that it was for this legislation as long as it did not
infringe upon the doctrine of marriage between man and woman. Further, it
stated that religious organizations would be exempt from this legislation.
Those of you arguing against the Church as members should remember that when
polgamy was stopped, some members left then, the same when the priesthood was
given to all worthy male members, many left. Some will leave now because they
feel the Church is changing its doctrine when in fact it is not. The Church did
the same thing here as Christ did to the women taken in adultry. They didn't
forgive the individual nor judge that individual as being wrong, that will be
done at a later date. What they did is say that individuals should not
discriminate against individuals at all. I agree with that but the Church
continues to be able to hold to its core doctrine that marriage is between man
and woman. That didn't change. It is not a civil right for a black to hold the
priesthood. It is not a civil right for women to hold the priesthood.
you say let us live our lives, and stay out of our lives. i say, i would be more
then happy to stay out of your bedroom. all i ask is that you stay there! stop
making your sexual conduct public!
This ordinance should have been passed years ago - the only reason it didn't is
because "the church" used it's influence to defeat any type of ordinance. I view this a patronizing more than anything else. Gay people still
aren't allowed on Federal Property down town. I think "the church" is merely
interested in protecting itself against more bad publicity of which I say you
reap what you sew.
glad to see that you consider this garbage ordinance to be of more importance
than all the efforts the church makes to assist the starving and the sick and
come to the rescue whenever there is a disaster. yeah, shows what you consider
to be moral. just as long as gays can go around having wierd sex then everything
is fine. nothing else matters in your eyes huh?and to:
imterestingi completley agree with you on that one. the answer is simply
that they are hypocits and this ordinance was probably some kind of blackmail.
the gays are completly intolerant of all those who do not share thier views and
have no problem with singling out those that beleive that you can be what you
want to be, just don't make me accept it. how would they like it if we passed a
law making it illegal to not let a missionary in to teach them and demonstarte
thier religion? that is basiclally what they want, and it is what they
demostrated they wanted in that perversion they call a kiss-in
TO Pagan:If you own rental property, the two things you should be thinking
about are "Property Value" and "Property Damage". If people don't pay, you evict
them; If renters cause a continual disturbance to other paying renters, you
evict them; if they damage your property, you evict them; if they deal drugs or
use the property for other illegal activities, you evict them; etc. Money
is only one small part of renting to anybody as a landlord. References and
credit history are also factors that are considered. Same for everybody.
even better than all the food and clothing they give to those that would die
without it? Good call, selfish thinking on your part.
Repeating a lie does make it true, no matter how often you repeat the lie. The
Constitution guarantees that the LDS will never have to officiate gay marriage
if it doesn't want to. In Canada where gay marriage has been legal for years
nobody has every sued the LDS. Maybe you don't like gay people, perhaps for
your own psychological complications, but that's no excuse for lying on a
"And, again, where does this put the Church on the military's hiring policy?"Why would the church have an opinion about who the military hires? "If the military is allowed to decide that open homosexuality is
detrimental to its mission and therefore should be a disqualifier for hiring,
why shouldn't SLC businesses be given the same privilege?"There is no open sexuality of any kind allowed in the military. Gays are still under the DADT policy and cannot admit to their orientation
without discharge. But that will change. Too many people in the military
(excepting the top brass) know gay service members who are outstanding soldiers
and team members.They used to segregate the blacks from the whites
in the military because it would hurt morale. They learned that it was not a
problem.Britian and Australia have openly gay service members and
have no problem with it. I think that America needs to rise to the
I have to totally disagree with the church on this. It makes no sense to me.
The only thing I can think is that they caved under the enormous pressure or
something else we don't even know about is coming down the road.
If you're TBM, you have no business trying to get into "fancy discotheques,"
even as your use of the term 'discotheque' suggests you must be pretty old and
old-fashioned (my college-aged kids have gay friends and all are welcome in our
home, including openly gay Mormons who had to run away from home, right here in
SLC!).Being gay is like being left-handed, it is a natural
difference that has existed throughout human history. Nobody chooses to go
through life mocked, teased, and often beaten the way my brother was at BYU in
the 80s. Gay Mormons struggle mightily with the rejection by the family and
Church.I applaud the LDS for coming to its senses and abandoning
hate in favor of love.
This is not fair to Landlords or employers. If I own an apartment complex I
should not be forced to accept homosexuals any more than I should be forced to
accept Skin Head Nazi's. Homosexuals usually bring with them all sorts of
baggage such as drug abuse and sexual debauchery. I guess I could say "LDS
Members ONLY" but that would probably bring a law suit as well. Employers also
are getting jacked around here being forced to consider gays for employment. I
have worked with gays and other sex-change type folks and they create a very
hostile and unwelcome work environment for sure. I guess Employers will have to
ask other probing questions regarding the persons family to determine if they
are gay or not. Very touchy subject to dance around without getting sued.
So, it's ok to you if churches choose who they associate with? I'm so glad I
don't go to your church.And employers and landlords are not
restricted in who they associate with. Pull. Your. Head. Out.
"How can you regulate this ordinance? If I fired a gay person because he is a
bad employee how can I prove I didn't fire him because he is gay? "If you are an employer, you had better document all reviews, warnings
and citations. As an employer myself, my philosophy is: An employee should
NEVER be shocked that they have been fired. If they are not gay,
they surely have a gender, religion, age, or race. All could be used against
you IF you do not document!
"Gays of the first type may hold the priesthood as long as they are
celebate."People with homosexual tendencies don't have to be
celibate to participate in the church or live a sexually fulfilling life. They
CAN be married to people of the opposite sex and fully enjoy sexuality and
church membership. It's up to them.
I am thrilled to be standing shoulder to shoulder with the LDS church on this
issue. There are so many areas such as this where we agree! Let's work on those
and leave the others to rest for a while, Let's make sure all God's children are
respected and protected from discrimination and have the rights they need to
manage their affairs. Sure We'll disagree on the boarderlands of our ideologies,
but in the center, there is much we can cooperate on. Thanks to the LDS Church
for speaking up for what is right, even when (as is obvious from comments here)
it may not be popular or advisable or may be misconstrued as being solely for
PR. This allows the LGBT community their first glimpse of the compassion of the
LDS church as opposed to their view of it as a frightening institution that
wants to strip their rights.
I'm glad that the church is openly supporting non-discrimination in housing and
employment. When society is unwilling to treat people fairly because of a
difference of opinion, those people should be protected by law. I am also glad
for Elder Oaks talk several weeks ago about religious freedoms being threatened.
I felt like that helped clarified why the LDS church supports only marriage
between a man and a woman. The problem is not about decaying values or morality:
it is when the law forces religious institutions to recognize those values or
morality as acceptable. Right now, catholic church priests can choose whether or
not to marry a couple based on if they live up to certain standards, just the
same way the LDS church can. Legally sanctioning gay marriage, in combination
with discrimination legislation forcing everyone to bow to the same standard
with regard to beliefs, it is only a matter of time before a civil suit against
an LDS bishop, a catholic priest or a a pastor forces them to legally marry and
recognize a couple who does not live by the standards they believe. We have to
protect human rights and religious beliefs together.
The best thing the LDS Church has done in my lifetime. Single best. Thank you
Every human being has the right to choose to obey the laws of God or not obey
them. Also you must understand that God cannot break the laws of justice and
mercy. Repentance would be meaningless unless there were an eternal punishment
in place for the unrepentant. If there were no law, then men would be free to
sin without consequences. God's can not forgive unless one repents. It would go
against His eternal laws to do so. With every law given a punishment is affixed
and repentance granted. The law of mercy can claim the sinner (we all sin)who
repents because Christ paid the penalty for sin required by the law of justice.
Otherwise justice would claim the sinner and execute the law of punishment.
Without punishment for breaking God's laws, God would cease to be God. God is
only forgiving if one repent or God would be breaking His own laws.
To "[email protected]:41 a.m. You ask who cares if Gay couples get married. I care. It
is not an issue of rights, it is an issue of definitions. Give gay couples all
the rights of "Married" couples, but dont call it marriage. Make up a new word,
like "Egairrm" and give all rights and prilages as hetrosexual "married" couples
get. If we change definitions, what is to stop us from calling a Liberal a
Conservative just because we don't like the liberal or conservative label.
Better yet, I like "dogs" better than "cats" so I think I will start calling
cats dogs then maybe I will like them better. Also, the word "Gay" has already
been destroyed from its original definition.
Why did the law of Moses end if there weren't supposed to be any changes? In
fact, some people still live as if there was no change from the Law of Moses.
Doesn't every prophet back to Adam receive what the Lord wants the poeople at
the time to do? Read those revelations and you will know that they did not
change until instructed by the Lord. Look at those that did not change from
polygamy or even King David who went beyond what he was instructed and how have
they turned out. If you don't believe in modern day prophets, then it wouldn't
matter to you anyways. The main problem in society today is promiscuousness. If
people cannot keep themselves chaste-especially those that are not gay, then why
wouldn't others w/o an understanding or belief in chastity think otherwise?
When Utah has statewide non discrimination policy in employment and housing,
then you will have joined most other states...in THIS century. Midwest and
Eastern states passed statewide ENDAs in the eighties.So while this
is a baby step, don't pat yourselves on the back too hard, as if you just ran
How come the gay and lesbian community welcomes the church getting involved in
politics when it benefits them, but vandalized their churches and screams it's
wrong for the church to get involved in issues that oppose them? You can't have
it both ways.
Oh good! I am a gay male and I am going right downtown to apply at temple
So, the toddler has taken a first step. Perhaps someday he will be able to run,
or even ride a bike.
Midwest Member wrote: "When you open a business that serves the public, the
public is who you must serve."Tell that to the screeners at fancy
discotheques. You're permitted to discriminate against customers and job
candidates for all sorts of reasons including (Justice Scalia's favorite
example) if you don't like the way they comb their hair. The exceptions are the
specially-protected classes the government chooses to designate.
OVer 20 years ago my husband and I left the Church because of the way my gay
brother was treated at BYU: my brother was beaten and left to bleed on the
street and BYU said it was his own fault and kicked him out. I understood then
that LDS "Family values" are not what they claim to be, and have raised my
children in the Unitarian Church, where all are welcome and loved.Too bad my brother had to wait 20 years for the Church to slowly and timidly
come to it's senses.
A sad day in Utah. The Church should have stuck to thier guns. It certainly
shows a weakness that we are becoming 'in the world.'
I wonder if the LDS Church Public Relations Department will, in hindsight,
wished they would have remained silent in supporting this city ordinance when
they find that their church built-condos in their own backyard across from
Temple Square later become a predominantly gay enclave?
"A big step back for the church. I can not sit back and have this spoon fed to
me as revelation. We should have stuck to our guns. These people need help not
compassion! "Good bye then, be seeing ya. Most Church members
will accept this.(Most of us who live outside Utah always suspected
that the hard-core right-wing members of the Church would eventually find their
way out of the Church when they became too conservative for the Church.)
I specifically referred to the paid employees of the Boy Scouts, so your
comments about it being a volunteer organization are irrelevant. Why should it
get to discriminate against homosexuals in the hiring of its paid employees if
SLC businesses can't?And, again, where does this put the Church on
the military's hiring policy? If the military is allowed to decide that open
homosexuality is detrimental to its mission and therefore should be a
disqualifier for hiring, why shouldn't SLC businesses be given the same
This just stinks of self protection. The Church is obviously bracing for the
finding that will be published with the Prop. 8 proposition. I can believe
members would think anything otherwise. Nieve to say the least.
This is great news! To all of the nay sayers. Accept this at face value. The
LDS church is supporting fairness and kindness.
I never thought the church would cower to political pressure. Another decline of
the church in these latter days.
There are 7 Countries in the World that Same-Sex Marriage is Legal, there a
dozens that Civil Union or Domestic Partnership is Legal, there are a lot of
Cities and Communities that have protection for Gays, Lesbian, Bisexual and
Transgender People..... and you know what, those numbers are Growing and Growing
and Growing.....EQUALITY IS HERE TO STAY!
I don't care if your a lawyer or not. The government does not have the right to
tell me who I can hire and fire but the forcefully do so anyway. How can you
regulate this ordinance? If I fired a gay person because he is a bad employee
how can I prove I didn't fire him because he is gay? If a gay person owned a
business I would totally support him if he didn't hire straight people because
he doesn't like them. It would be his right since is his company. All this
does is make it next to impossible to fire a bad employee.
Again, instead of resolving the issue we continue to fight about the meaning of
a word. When will we get on with fixing the real issue and quit fighting about
nothing. In this world we have so many more important issues than this. This is
easy to fix. Yes, gays/lesbian couples need Federal rights for civil
unions/domestic partnerships that provide them the same legal rights to protect
them as everyone else. Fix this and quit fighting about the word marriage. All
of these words define the type of individuals that make up the union. No one is
better or worse than the other. It simply defines who we are talking about. Can
someone explain to me why we cannot or will not resolve this issue. My proposal
is simple, straight forward and addresses all of the issues. If the agenda of
the gay/lesbian group is something other than this then clarify this so that we
can address it. I am sick of this issue. Either fix it or get out of town.
For all those who wanted to deny Utah was a theocracy. Notice when the LDS
church backed the ordinance, it could change in a nano second.Utah
is totally controlled by Mormons.
"help not compassion"? You must be the new Shakespeare of English language!
to explain my * on gay.The word gay is ambiguous.It can
mean.1. A person with homosexual tendencies may or may not act on
those tendencies.2. A person who is sexually active with another
member of the same gender.3. A person who is sexually attracted to
the same gender but is in a heterosexual relationship.Gays of the
first type may hold the priesthood as long as they are celebate.Gays
of the third type may hold the priesthood and even be bishop.Gays of
the second type are the type that will never hold the priesthood because those
Gays (if unrepentant) will be excommunicated from the church and thus group them
What if, just WHAT IF, my daughter who is gay, WAS born that way?? And what of
all our young LDS gay members who take their own lives?? Watching the agony my
daughter experienced, seeing gay members end their lives, watching gays marry
heterosexually, then divorce time after time?? Does that sound like a
CHOICE??Just WHAT IF that IS who they are, not just what they DO??
"That is interesting, it seems that it has changed before, the matter of Black
Men holding the priesthood."There is a difference here in our
doctrine. God can restrict who has the priesthood, but he has eternally set the
outer bounds of who can hold it. There was a time when no one out of the tribe
of Levi could hold the priesthood. That was lifted. Certain groups will never
be allowed (Women, Gays*, Non-members). The issue with the blacks was very
political, but mostly doctrinal. If the church were to allow blacks to hold the
priesthood too early, then there would have been bigger problems in the Civil
Rights era. It was an effective way for the church to stay somewhat neutral in
the whole argument.how may I ask have it's doctrines been
assailed?The church is based on the current foundation of marriage.
If the definition changes, it effects all the other doctrines built on it. Why
can't they just support traditional marriage and end it there? There is already
enough confusion about LDS doctrine among non-members. It would hurt the church
mission to add more confusion.
@10:07First off it wasn't a representative of the Republican Party who
stood up and made the endorsement, it was an LDS representative.If
this hadn't been such an immediate "out of the blue" COMPLETE flip flop by
Mormons to gays/lesbians it wouldn't be newsworthy. Other cities made these non
discrimination laws DECADES ago.A year ago we couldn't get hospital
visitations for our partners, and your LDS mall goons were knocking a same sex
couple to the ground and handcuffing them for being arm in arm.So we are
suspicious, and that suspicion you brought on yourselves...OWN THAT.
your church should be free teach whatever they choose and I should be allowed to
teach why i think they are wrong further when our paths cross on public debate
and you choose to make your religion central to your argument I have right to
question the religious tenants you base your arguments on.
So Michael, if the corner drug store won't sell candy to your kids because
they're Mormon, but they'll sell candy to the Catholic kids in the same moment,
you're okay with that?
All this is going to do is reinforce contention. It's like feeding the stray
dog. He'll quit threatening you for while until he gets hungry again.It won't be very long before the homosexual lifestyle supporters will be
whining and complaining about something else.
Lawyer:You are techincally correct, but any government municipal,
state or federal had better be very careful about uspetting the majority.
The Church is backpedalling, as predicted, and will continue to do so until it
catches up with reality. Meanwhile the damage to LDS outside of Utah has been
done: Heck of a Job there!Post-Mormon Joe, Boston
To Anonymous @7:15 a.m., If you want to be free to rent your property only to
those who you like, then you must be a supporter of government sponsored
housing, or else you expect unpopular minorities to be homeless. When you open
a business that serves the public, the public is who you must serve. My husband
is old enough to remember having to bring a meal to the car for their black
family friend when they were on vacation in Utah. I applaud the Church for
their action and am not surprised that the anti voices can find nothing to be
Even after this magnanimous gesture, the anti-Mormon bigots have nothing nice to
say. They are so full of hate and venom that they can't see past their
ignorance. Oh well, I can't say that I'm surprised. The LDS people have always
had to put up with bigots and persecution. Christ likewise had to put up with
these sorts of people. We are in good company.
If we never had a Mormon president he would need to hear from leaders of his
church? That's scary.
I agree with The Facts, Heather. The Mormon Church has often changed its
direction due to issues playing out on the national stage.And
Dallas, it's called civil rights. Nobody should have to be discriminated against
for their belief in wacky religions, or for their sexual preference. Doesn't
everybody deserve that?And furthermore, who cares if gay couples can
get married anyway???
"If you live in America and partake in its blessings, the government will, can,
and should set some rules."The rules governing the government do NOT
authorize it to nullify property rights in order to placate noisy,
intermittently violent pressure groups. The chief blessing of living in this
country is supposed to be a government that lives within its own rules, rather
than suffering beneath the sort of hyper-paternalistic regime we now endure.
What confuses me are the people who take offense because of the LDS Church's
stance on Marriage. Why are you discriminating against the LDS Church when you
plead for gay rights and expect others not to discriminate? Hypocrisy on BOTH
ends never solves anything.One of the things that the LDS Church
teaches is to not take offense and if you do, to forgive and apologize. Even if
you do not believe in religion, you can't deny that it is an amazing moral
message to the world. Live your lives morally correct. Be kind and understanding
to others. Love everything, no matter what they have done. How else will we feel
that we have accomplished something in life?
"(BTW, The Church has always been in a 10-year time warp.) "More
like twenty. With heavenly inspiration, they should be 10 years AHEAD of
everyone, instead of 10 years behind.
If you don't understand the difference between the Boy Scouts and a business's
hiring of employees, then you have serious issues.Everyone deserves
the right to make a living. That doesn't mean everyone deserves the right to
join a volunteer organization whose purpose includes teaching moral standards to
treating people with kindness and respect dispite any difference is not a new
teaching of jesus christ. and so it is not new to the church. what
the church said here is not surprising, it was expected. and once again the
church simply disregards its 'haters', acts as is proper, and continues on; bold
Ya, dont hold your breath. I've yet to meet a liberal who doesn't throw a fit
anytime the church exercises its own rights.
As for gays not being grateful, you are finally doing what is RIGHT, what other
cities did DECADES ago, and you want a gold star stuck on your foreheads.not going to happen.
One of the strange misconceptions people have on this site is the idea that
private property rights are absolute. They are not and never have been. Your
right and title to your property is derived from the state and ultimately
redounds to the state. Your property rights are constrained by zoning laws,
restrictive covenants, tax law, and ordinances of all kinds. Salt Lake City has
every right to pass this ordinance, and I congratulate the city and the church
for making it happen.
If the liberals ever supported a good piece of legislation that the republicans
fought for, we would all say "thanks liberals" and that would be the end of it.
What do the liberals do when the republicans give support for something the
liberals want? The liberals keep complaining, manifested by postings herer.
A big step back for the church. I can not sit back and have this spoon fed to me
as revelation. We should have stuck to our guns. These people need help not
Gays are one step closer to be treated as equal citizens under the law. The LDS
Church? I guess it's nice of them to support something that in no way applies
to them. It's better than them secretly donating money to oppose the
ordinances. There are enough exemptions in the housing ordinance that someone
who rents out rooms or a basement appartment, or less than four units is
enirely unaffected by these ordinances. And of course all religious
organizations and organizations like the Boy Scouts (and indeed the State of
Utah) can discriminate based on sexual orientation against their employees to
their heart's content. Good PR all around through and some actual help and a
good step forward.
I'm not LDS, but I applaud the LDS Church for taking this stand on civil rights
for gays. It's consistent with their doctrine and shows more empathy and
kindness than I expected, frankly. It's a wonderful step in the right
The church had a history of discriminating against blacks because they thought
they were cursed with a black skin. When that notion finally became so
ridiculous in our society, they finally changed their doctrine. The church
continues to see homosexuals as immoral people because they happen to be
hardwired a little different and are attracted to people of the same sex. When
the church finally realizes how ridiculous it is to view homosexuality as
something that is immoral, they will change their doctrine and drop their
opposition to same sex marriage. This will happen but never will you hear from
any church authority that they were wrong and offer an apology.
The framers of the US Constitution are rolling in their graves over this! There
should be "a wall of separation of church and state" (Thomas Jefferson) and
"total separation of church and state" (James Madison). The fact that we are
having any discussion about what "legislative action the LDS church supports"
shows we are clearly drifting from the intentions of our Founding Fathers. Actions speak for themselves. For two gay men to be arrested in front of
the LDS church for kissing is a clear display of the churches stance on
discrimination. Any publicly announced "support" for gay rights is a publicity
stunt for the church to try to save face for their previous actions.
Silly person! How is it religious discrimination if atheists can get married
and have the same benefits as religious people who are married?
I am just going to stop renting my open property next door all together. I
refuse to have my kids growing up close to a homosexual couple. I will not
encourage or facilitate the moral decay of society. I am not mormon, but
support the mormon church in their defense of good values. I wish they had not
supported this ordinance.
"when you own your own business, it should belong to you. If you choose to
discriminate, that should be your choice."So you think you should be
able to discriminate against people because of their race? Age? Sex?
Religion?All acceptable to you since you own your own company?This is America. If we had not put anti-discrimination laws in place,
there probably wouldn't be too many blacks working in the south. Mormons would
only hire Mormons and to heck with the rest of the country. What a sick society
that would be. I am grateful for the foresight of those laws.This is how the church "loves the sinner." They are not against them having a
place to work or a place to live. They are children of our Father and deserve
that much.I applaud this step.
The church isn't supporting any behavior whatsoever. It is simply showing
disfavor with people who mistreat other people. I don't care how perverse a
person's personal life may be, I will still treat that person respectfully
(unless they are abusing some, of course).
If LDS knew how much money a good LGBT Pride parade can bring in for a city's
coffers, they'd give up their uptight ways in a hot second. Several million
The church is showing public support of this issue so that misinformed people
will finally (hopefully) understand that the church is not, and has not ever
been, against gay people and their rights. I'm sure there are a lot of bigoted
Mormon-haters out there squirming in their boots now that their lies have been
publicly disproven.That doesn't mean the church is now ready to be
trampled on by people who obviously could care less about religious rights -
such as a religion’s right to support their own beliefs about marriage or
their right to determine what public behavior is allowed on their own property.
The only hypocrites exposed in this scenario are the gay marriage
supporters. For them, it is okay to behave contrary to a church's wishes on
that church's property — but unacceptable for a church to behave contrary
to their wishes. For them, it’s acceptable to attack a religion for
supporting their views on what marriage, but it’s persecution to defy the
gay community’s point of view. Let’s get one thing
straight. It is the gay-marriage supporter community that is not interested in
other people's rights.
To Tab Uno,I distinctly remember one incident where The Church DID
try to influence Board of Education issues: President Hinckeley asked that
Monday nights not have school obligations so "we" could have Family Home
Evening.I'm floored by this support from The Church. I hope the
neo-cons in the church all have heart attacks from the fact that The Church is
telling them what to do with their personal property and what do at their places
of employment. Then it would leave Christ's church to those of us who actually
believe Christ and follow Him. He was (and still is) the greatest liberal ever
to walk the earth.Oh, but wait, what if all those neo-cons DO have
heart attacks?? Do they have health insurance for medical treatment or did they
oppose that too? But I digress...Thank you to The Church for this.
But, I'm sure it has more to do with complying with some sort of Federal law or
with Public Relations than anything else. (BTW, The Church has
always been in a 10-year time warp.)
Re: "The government has no right to tell anyone who they can hire or rent to.
"Yes, they can. If you live in America and partake in its
blessings, the government will, can, and should set some rules.
I think many of you who are using "The government has no right to tell anyone
who they can hire or rent to" argument are taking this to the extreme. If a gay
person walks into an apartment complex, they should be able to get housing just
like anyone else, so long as they can meet their obligations. In situations
where people are renting out basements or private rooms, or situations where
there are roomates involved, I don't think the government is going to step in
and force people to rent to gay people.
Let's hire some thought police so we can enforce this one. We'll have mind
readers testify in court what the real reason was that person x was hired over
This is a great day. As an active member of the LDS church with a strong
testimony of the Savior and the church I'm thrilled. People deserve to be
treated fairly. This was not done to appease any group, but because it is the
right thing to do.Thank you.
[What's next, we'll have to employ child molesters and polygamists, after all
it's in born in them and they can't do anything about it either.]Zell, those things are against the law. Homosexuality is not. Not even here
in Utah! A better analogy would be to rent to an unmarried couple
living together. Again, not against the law.Please try and separate
those who commit crimes and those who you believe are sinners. Big
JJ | 8:20 a.m. Nov. 11, 2009 If I own an apartment building, it is my
private property. No one should be able to tell me who I can and can't rent
to.------------Tell that to the civil rights commission
when you deny blacks because you don't like their lifestyle.
BigRedHammer | 7:58 a.m. Nov. 11, 2009 Linguist: The ability to adopt.
That ability is part of allowing gay marriages or unions-------------Wrong, Bigred. Gays can and do adopt right now, even
right here in Utah. It is not illegal. In Utah, if you are gay, you must NOT
be in a relationship. Our legislature would rather the gay individual raise
their adopted child as a single parent! In California, gays,
by law, cannot be discriminated against by any public adoptiion agency.Gay marriage has NOTHING to do with gays adopting.
Does the LDS Church support "Everything-But-Marriage" as in Washington?? Marriage aside, many overlook all of the Benefits, Financial and
otherwise, that "Marriage" provides to straights. Not having The BENEFITS (not
meaning Marriage) makes a difference of Hundreds of Thousands of Dollars to me
and my partner from now (in our mid 40's) until the end of our earning days,
this is a fact, and yes we have run the specific numbers. We pay
After-Tax Premiums, subsequently we pay More Taxes, and this is but one aspect.
I am unconcerned with what the LDS, Or Government call our union, But That Under
Our Government we CAN form A Union granting Equal Benefits. Call it what you
wish. I am definitely concerned with a/the Religious Institution, (Marriage,
which IS their rationale here) being given Preferential Tax Status on religious
grounds. This IS “Financial and Religious Discrimination” plainly
and clearly.When The LDS Church does support "Financial Equality",
and I mean in every venue where their, and their “adherents” money
has fought against "Gay Marriage", then, and only then, will I commend and again
support the LDS Church, it's Sanctity, and it's body of Members.
I have never understood this. The LDS church does not want to support anything
that interferes with the sacred institution of marriage, which I understand and
support. Yet it is willing to support legislation which allows gays to
co-habitate. Wierd ...Marriage is MORE than a certificate. It is a
way of life between a husband and a wife. To support any legislation which
supports gays in having the same way of life as people in a marriage would have
doesn't make any sense to me if you support the church's point of view about
marriage and the role of marriage on our society.
now how about the rights for "beastialitist", "transvestites", "polygamists"
etc. The only difference between a gay and a straight is the partner...it is all
about sex. And SLC just make a blunder that will cause significant consequences
that no one will be able to fix.
The church recognizes these things as an obvious right of all people, will
anyone reciprocate and recognize the obvious right of the church to teach and
support marriage between a man and a woman? I'm not holding my breath even
though that it is the right thing to do, too.
First of all, what a terrible, terrible mistake. The Church needs to understand
that the language now included by law, and with their approval, slowly erodes
the definition of marriage by supporting courts' interpretation that
homosexuality is not a choice, but rather, an inherent part of individuality and
a right. Also, what about the freedoms of religion? Yes, the Church said in
their statement that religious organizations should be exempted, but what about
religious INDIVIDUALS? Example: an LDS man rents out an apartment near a college
campus and doesn't want to rent it to a lesbian couple who will be using HIS
property to sin? He is no longer protected by law, nor by the Church,
apparently, though a prophet of God said a few weeks ago that the homosexual
agenda is eroding religious rights right under our noses. Second of
all, the Deseret News of all people should know that the Church specifically
asks to not be referred to as the "Mormon Church" in the news. I'm getting sick
of seeing it elsewhere, and I've emailed other journalists who are simply
unaware of our real name - can we PLEASE get it right HERE?
Another road paved with good intentions. This law is another slap at liberty. As
an LDS person myself, I am disappointed in the church for taking this stand.
What has just happened is that SLC has created a special privelage to a group
not granted to others, and stripped a right from business owners. Most people do
not understand this since they are employed by someone else, but when you own
your own business, it should belong to you. If you choose to discriminate, that
should be your choice. If people do not like your policies, they have the
freedom to shop elsewhere. I have employed homosexuals in my business in the
past. Just like anyone else I would hire, it was for the talents they posessed,
but it was my choice. I also make it clear about my position and it is their
choice to work for the company. This is a slap in the face of individual
freedoms in every way. From the business, to the customer and to the
discriminated employee or renter, any law of this kind removes the ability for
personal choice and legislates that important faculty out of existence.
Funny how every piece with a hint of pro gay/lesbian news in the past always
generated a litany of fairly hateful responses from the ultra conservative
minded who comment on this website frequently. Yet with this news as it
includes comment from the Mormon church....nothing. Either these people haven't
woken up yet and logged on to their computers or they're simply hypocrits when
it comes to their selective views and opinions. Regardless of who or what
is the basis of the story, it's still a pro-gay rights measure. Next time
those people get on this site to comment about gay this or gay that or about the
hypocritical liberals, just point them to this article and ask them where they
posted their opposition to this measure and the Mormon church. All
of this shows who the real hypocrits in this state are.
To Bluto:Your comment reminds me of the final paragraph of a book I
read in high school about the struggles of a young black girl...it read "Mamma
you taught be to take my thimble down to the well when the white men were taking
their buckets".Forgive me Bluto if we aren't jumping with job over a
few scraps that you are throwing from your table.Until everyone in
this society is allow to sit at the table and there truly is "Justice for all"
in this country....I for one am not going to be satisfied.
It is truly amazing to me to see how much hate there is coming from those who
profess to be vigilants against.......hate.
Congrats to the LDS Church for making the right call on this.
In response to your question about how allowing homosexual marriage would change
church doctrine, it wouldn't. That isn't the issue. The problem that
arises by recognizing homosexual marriage as legal as it concerns the church is
this: the church may then at some point be required via litigation and/or
legislation to recognize and allow homosexual marriage within the church. And
that is in opposition to LDS doctrine.Though the doctrine wouldn't change,
the ability to legally practice the doctrine would come under fire and be in
jeopardy of being ruled as discriminatory.
'You should be able to uphold your values in your own home.' @ 6:36
a.m. - Discrimination has no value.
I just moved to Utah from California, where much of my life from October of last
year through March was devoted to fighting in favor of Prop. 8. After a lot of
studying and pondering on the issue of the Church and gay rights, let me clarify
for those who say this is akin to blacks and the priesthood: no, it's not. Your race is defined by what you ARE - how you're born. There's nothing
you can do to change that. There is no agency involved, nor is there a law that
is transgressed by being a certain race. However, sexual orientation is defined
by what you DO. There are cut-and-dry commandments about chastity that apply to
everyone, gay or straight, who chooses to live the gospel. That won't change.As for the marriage issue, the Church's opposition seems embedded more
in protecting the freedoms of churches as well as of parents who want to tackle
these moral issues in the home, not in the schools (where some states will teach
about homosexuality to kids in kindergarten!). It's not about hating gays, nor
has it EVER been.
To BigRedHammer:I believe that gay people can currently adopt,
including in Utah. They cannot adopt as a couple, which means that one parent
is unprotected, and the child is effectively unprotected as well should the
"legal" parent die. So is the position of the LDS Church that the
law should be changed to prohibit individuals who are gay from adopting?
Do the gays ever know when to say "thanks" and put a temporary stop to their
temper tantrums? Based on the postings here..... No.
You are danged if you do and danged if you don't. Let us all get a life.
When it comes to this i have to disagree with this law because it is asking for
trouble. once the gay community have these rights next they will be arguing for
gay marriarge like they are doing right now. later down road we say why not let
them marry and that's a slipery slop that we shouldn't go down to.
To Heather,Really? Ever heard of Polygamy? Ever heard of blacks
and the priesthood? Ever heard of Equal Rights Amendment? I could go on all
day. Please read your Church History.
When renting any property there are only two things you should worry about. If the person can pay you the rent. If the person
cannot. Anything else is a personal choice. And if you choose to
discriminate there will be consequence. Becuase America is a great
country, and we do not tolorate blind hatred and bigotry. This is
only one small step of many to come.
If I own an apartment building, it is my private property. No one should be
able to tell me who I can and can't rent to. Same thing if I own a business.
No one should be able to tell a private business owner who he can hire and fire.
This doesn't seem right to me. That being said, I would hire a gay person if
they where the best qualified for the job. I would also fire a gay employee if
they where not doing their job. It seems wrong to infringe upon this basic
The Mormon Church supports freedom for all humans. And this is news? Should
not that have been ingrained decades ago???Thanks for standing up
for the constitution guys!!
This is neat to see. I applaud the Mormon church.
While I applaud the LDS church supporting this initiative, the elephant in the
room is "Why does the LDS church have to bless such things before the
legislature can ratify?"
"No matter what the church says or do it will never be good enough for the
LGBT's..."Yup... kinda like how nothin' the GLBT community does is
ever good enough for LDS members.
This is a wonderful day! The same Church, my Church, that says it stays out of
political issues, (such as illegal immigration) yet constantly involves itself
in "moral" debates in public the sector, has scored another blow by taking a
side in yet another . . . .wait for it . . . .political debate!
The church is making steps to show it supports outreach programs to assist the
gay/lesbian community and what does everyone do?? Cry and moan that it is just
a farce and an act and that they hate gay's and lesbians!STOP CRYING
PEOPLE!! THE CHURCH DOESN'T SUPPORT THEM GETTING MARRIED LEGALLY AND GUESS
WHAT?? AMERICA AGREES!!! We live under the reign of democracy and the people
(very few of whom are Mormon) have spoken. Let the church do what
it can to suppport these individuals in any way it chooses, such is Freedom of
Choice. They definately could have gone against you if they hated you... but
they don't. TAKE OFF THE HATE GLASSES AND STOP CRYING.
Linguist: The ability to adopt. That ability is part of allowing gay marriages
AmazingThe Gays plead, beg, steal, trashspit, dismantle and burn for
a seat at the table and when they get a concession?They immediately
push for more and more and then set out to mis-charachterize the LDS Church's
positon.The LDS Chuch pronounced long before Prop 8 that they
supported fair housing, insurance, etc. so this policy is not "bowing" to the
"gays tirades" following prop 8. The Church position has been consistent.Headlines are now proclaiming the Chruch bowed to the pressure, in other
words, "keep it up radical gays! YOur petulant boobery has won the day!Go ahead and continue with your harrasment of all things Mormon. White powder,
destruction of property, calling Mormons un-American, interrupting services,
violating private property, and mocking all things Holy to all religions
etc..Go ahead and over play your hand.And see how fast
this Utah legislature rescinds your little victory. Keep insulting the Church
and spinning it your way, and just watch. A little humilty will go a long way,
even in the Gay activist community.Bluto
Who wrote the headline? It is bad policy to call the church the Mormon Church.
Oh oh... it's very funny how people can go from, "Gay's don't need special
protection... blah, blah, blah" which have been prevalent on the forums
discussing this. To, "oh how wonderful... blah, blah, blah"... in less then 24
LDS church doctrine does not change just because world views change. Im so happy
that the church is making it clear as to where we stand. just because we dont
agree with the lifestyles of others, doesn't mean we hate gays/lesbians.
(in response to Don't Get it!)"The doctrine has not and will not
change."That is interesting, it seems that it has changed before,
the matter of Black Men holding the priesthood.I think that
acknowledging our differences in a peaceful way is just what the contemporary
world needs, but when an organization such as the church seeks to actively
prevent homosexual couples from marrying and enjoying the rights guaranteed
exclusively to heterosexual couples, then you will have to pardon my disgust at
little token gestures such as this.Here is some logic; it was stated
earlier in the thread that the church is simply protecting its doctrines, but
how may I ask have it's doctrines been assailed? If homosexual marriage were
allowed, how would that change the Church's doctrine at all? The church can go
on not supporting homosexual marriage and retain their exclusive support for
heterosexual marriage without being hurt in the least.They need to
stop pushing their views on others because they think it's best, and simply
agree to disagree acknowledging everyone's differences peacefully.
Are we making laws that are unessasary? Aren't all Americans already protected
from so called "hate crimes", and discrimination? Are we beating a dead horse
Why frame this as gay rights rather than human or civil rights?
I know this Church to be true. I've been a member for over half a century.
The leaders of the Church are righteous people, full of love for everyone. I
applaud all those who stand up for religious freedom. No one should ever be
forced to believe a certain way even if it becomes popular or politically
correct. The Gays in the days of Sodom and Gomorrah became the leaders of those
cities. They tried to force everyone to think and become like them. Ultimately
they were destroyed by God himself because in their perversions they would
defile themselves and the children of God and would not repent.
What about freedom? Can you feel it? Touch it? Possess it?Yet there is
violence against freedom every day.
To "Public Affairs Image": I see governments around the world do violence to the
concept of freedom all the time. I believe we've fought wars over that. Can
freedom be felt, touched or possessed?
My opinion... if I have made the money to buy a place to rent to someone... I
should be able to choose who I rent to. If I take a loan or government money
for that place then I can accept the conditions of that loan to house who they
tell me I must. (similar to section 8 - Private owners don't have to use
section 8) I think this is just forcing private people to do something. What if
you have 4 men living in an apartment and there is an opening for 1 more... and
that person is gay.. what if the other 4 aren't comfortable with that? So they
threaten to move if there is a gay person living there... the owner is stuck
between a rock and a hard place.
Does the Church now support legislation prohibiting discrimination against
homosexuals in hiring by the Boy Scouts and by the military? If not, why should
SLC businesses be treated differently than such organizations?
the church haters keep on hating. What's new?
While I agree that this is a move in the right direction, I am confused about
the Church's position on the ability of gay couples to protect their
relationships. The Church says it "does not object to rights
regarding hospitalization and medical care, fair housing and employment rights,
or probate rights, so long as these do not infringe on the integrity of the
family..."So the question is: what specific civil protections must
be DENIED gay couples in order NOT to "infringe on the integrity of the
HAs never targeted people with same gender attraction as individuals, what they
are opposed to is immorality in any form, including extra marital relationships
between heterosexual people.
I think if the LDS church is going to do what the popular opinion is at the
time, women would be able to hold priesthood positions by now.We
invited a gay friend to church several times, and he wanted to stay in relief
society with us, nobody made a big deal out it. Everybody welcomed him just
fine. Public affairs, violence can come emotionally and mentally not
I understand the concern of those people who rent out part of their home and
wish to choose who they rent to. I'm glad I don't have to make that forced
choice. You should be able to uphold your values in your own home
By the look of some of these remarks, no matter what the church says or do it
will never be good enough for the LGBT's...
One's motives are always called into question especially by the skeptical. All
along the Church has spoken of mutual respect and civility in this ongoing
debate. They have shown that respect. They have been civil. Disagreeing with
ones viewpoint is not disrespectful. The manner in which the Church has
conducted itself is admirable. This stand by the Church shows that they are
desirous to maintain civility and respect and work in good faith with those they
disagree with on other issues, i.e. marriage. For those who doubt their motives
there should be no doubt. They have made their stance on marriage clear - it is
between a man and a woman. Members of the LDS Church, or any church
for that matter, are entitled to their political voice just as an other man.
Their political voice can be influenced by what they believe just as one's voice
can be influenced by any philosophy or idea. It is sad that so much of America
condemns the political process. It is worse that they do it while labeling
those that actually work within the system as "un-american."
So the church goes up to Caesar's pavement again. I actually fully support
these kind of rights but I dislike seeing the church step up for or against
something in this manner. It has ALWAYS sets back the Gospel because it looks
fake and insincere no matter what. I makes me very frustrated as a rank and
file believer in Zion - Babylon is never going to be satisfied with us.
I don't get it. For some who comment, it seems to me that you have a bone to
pick with the Church no matter what it does to reach out. This is a perfect
example of that. It's never good enough, is it? I salute the Church for
clarifying a position and standing in the public eye to make that stance
known.To Anonymous 12:51am....No, the LDS Church will NEVER allow
Gay/Lesbian Bishops. You can take that one to the bank. The doctrine has not
and will not change. And for that, I am grateful.Can we all just
get along and acknowledge our differences in a peaceful way?Nice
move on the part of the LDS church. I applaud it.
they are hypocrites. they arrest two gay guys for a kiss on the cheek, and now
don't want employers or landlords to discriminate....as long as THEY still can.
Good, now go to the legislature and do the same thing.Bet that will
Violence against the institute of marriage? REALLY? When was there any violence
against something that cannot be felt, touched or possessed? HUH?
I fail to see any relevance to this whole thing. They had the chance to
support common grounds, they failed. This is nothing more than a stinky plot to
pull the wool over everyone's eyes because they know that behind closed doors at
the legislature, they will appose any and every thing that the city is passing.
Since the city is a legislative arm of the state, it will be cast out like hot
water. This is nothing more than a facade, a wolf in sheep's clothing!
This is about showing the world how much they think they care, this is
hogwash!They had the opportunity to reach out to talks during the
Common Grounds initiative. They showed their true colors.The church is
doing this only for media, they know that cities are legislative arms of the
Utah state government. This will all be overturned during the next legislative
session. All with the seal of the LDS church behind closed door negotiations!This is nothing more than a farce. The church hates gays, period.
This shows that while the Church considers it's beliefs non-negotiable, it
provides love for all people and seeks than nobody experience harm. The church
expresses it's love for people who don't follow the lifestyle it promotes. I
have seen talks by the Prophets and Apostles to people who are gay, divorced and
have substance abuse problems and they express more love and understanding than
I see in much of the rest of the world.
The Mormon church has moved far from the ideology of its founders, and will do
pretty much whatever popular opinion tells it to do. Just wait. In a couple of
decades or so there will be gay and lesbian Mormon bishops.
Maybe the LDS church fears the backlash of the movie 8 the Mormon Proposition,
which may appear at Sundance.awkward
This is only Salt Lake City One of the areas of Utah slipping from LDS
control. I still don't trust this. The LDS does NOTHING until after they
are absolutely forced to do so. SOMETHING big will be revealed or just averted
because of their supporting this ordinance....bank on it. I really think
the Maine and WA state donations are about to be forced into the open, or
massive in kind donations.
The Church has never been about hating gays, or any other group. It has only
been about protecting its doctrine, there is a huge difference. This shows that
it isn't about discrimination.
As an active LDS member with gay friends and relatives, this is a great step
towards clarifying the church's stance. The deplorable actions of some
individual members aside, the church as a whole doesn't hate gays and never did.
Marriage is the most important thing to protect, and that's what the
church is committed to do. I support that. Legal rights in terms of day-to-day
life are also fine and well, and the church has no intention of denying
homosexuals these basic rights of living--and never did. I can support that,
too.It's time for working together and truly understanding the
issues at hand--not pointing fingers and shouting accusations. Good step
I am a person who seeks for equality but absolutely understands the position of
the church. What I have failed to understand is the lack of expression from the
church on the things it approves. This sort of thing has helped a lot my
testimony. Thank you so much for this!
One of the main misperceptions of the Mormon Church in Utah is its direct
influence in local politics. While I can't vouch for every or even most
political spheres, I feel it worthwhile to point out that during the six years I
spent on the Salt Lake City Board of Education, only once did I hear directly or
observe that Mormon Church attempt to influence, suggest, or direct any of its
religious tenets onto the Salt Lake Board of Education. While, the indirect
influence of Board members who were members of the Church can't be ruled out,
the Church itself never did use its influence to impose religious policy on the
School District. And the one exception was for the use of a school parking lot
for Church parking. For the Mormon Church's handsoff approach to public
education in Utah's major City for six years, I did come away from the
experience with a respect that many people might find hard to believe in the
crucial sphere of public education.
I can understand that concern for a couple reasons. A landlord over multiple
properties or a property other than their own residence is one thing. But I
would want to freely control who lives in my own home regardless of whatever law
may exist to attempt to prevent bias.Human beings may have bias. Not
all moral issues are legislated. I believe that in ones own home should be the
only exemption merely because though I do not believe that because someone
dresses like a 'junkie' that they automatically are, I do not want that
influence near younger children. (Call me crazy but I have my reasons and logic
that other philosophers may disagree with, but do I not have any right to
philosophize myself on my own personal residence. I may offer others an exchange
which is mutually beneficial but in cases where the Gov. doesn't have to step
in, they shouldn't. Most situations require regulation, perhaps not the home.I am LDS, Paleo-conservative and an open minded philosopher. I am glad
to see this legislation and the church's support. Hopefully my gay friends will
acknowledge this friendliness (some haven't in the past)
If a family has a basement apartment do they have to rent a gay couple. There is
a huge difference between that and an apartment complex.
Congratulations to Mayor Becker for his work... truly breath taking after a year
of such rancor..... Great work
Am I correct in that this ordinance excludes churches, allowing them to freely
choose who they associate with but property owners and employers will have that
choice further restricted?