Paul Sikora (Readers' Forum, May 30) responds to Marcia Ogden's letter (Readers' Forum, May 28) with the same old worn out, unproven theory that straight people hate gays. While there might be some who really do hate gay people, a majority of us don't hate our loved ones and friends at all. We hate the gay lifestyle they choose to live. There is a huge difference. Sikora argues that by legalizing gay marriage, it will stop the promiscuity of gays. No it won't. The idea of "anonymous relations" is too great.