In her reply to my letter supporting gay marriage, Marcia Ogden (Readers' Forum, May 28) provides a perfect example of my main point: Opponents of gay marriage aren't defending marriage, they just hate gays. If Ogden is so concerned about the effects of gay promiscuity, then she should be a natural supporter of monogamous unions for gays. However, what she really wants is to prevent consenting adults from living the way they want.

Paul Sikora

Sandy