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Published: Monday, April 14 2014 1:25 p.m. MDT

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Bountiful, UT

‘How to raise a caring, moral child: Parents want to but aren't sure how’


Step number 1: Choose the right parents. {much of what we are is in the genes)

Step number 2: Choose the right spouse. {good genes and willing to set good example)

Step number 3: Set a good example.

American Fork, UT

First of all, religion has nothing to do with it. In fact, if you raise your kids to call out nonsense when they see it, they may well abandon religion entirely. That's OK, you've done your job. As for how to raise a caring, moral child...you first. Be caring and faithful to your spouse in good times and bad. Life long commitment is now rare. Honour your commitments. Be at peace with yourself and know who you are. Respect yourself. Respect everyone else. Own your life. Never try to abuse or deprive someone unfairly. Be the person your children should be. Pay taxes proudly. Earn your right to society. We can do this. Our kids will benefit.

Midwest City, USA, OK

Raising a caring, moral child is most easily achieved and likely to occur in a gospel-centered home with a loving father and mother.

Addendum: Raising a reliably moral child requires not trying to rationalize that moral things, such as properly lived religion, aren't neccessary. It's like trying to figure out how to avoid falling off a cliff by seeing how close to the edge you can balance instead of just staying away from the cliff.

orem, UT

"if you raise your kids to call out nonsense when they see it, they may well abandon religion entirely. " - or they may embrace it more fully as it can give a clear context as to why morality matters. Both are options.

Respecting others includes being judicious about using the word "nonsense" when dealing with others who have deeply held beliefs.
We can express our beliefs while remining courteous. This is a great example for our kids to see we can have different beliefs, even strong ones, and champion those beliefs while treating others respectfully. How much better this world would be! This goes for the religious as well as for those who are not.

Ogden, UT

We let our children make decisions, within proper limits, from the time they were tiny. We taught them that along with the right to make decisions comes the fact that a person has to take responsibility for the consequences of the decisions s/he makes. They started out with a small area in which they could make decisions (example -- what to wear to school) and, as they grew older, the area in which they could make decisions grew larger as they became more mature. If they wanted to make a decision that was outsisde the area in which they were allowed to make decisions, they had to "argue" us for the right to do so -- present logical, rational reasons for their wish to decide and if they could sustain their argument then they gained the right to make the decision. By the time they reached adulthood, they were practiced and experienced decision-makers and were caring and moral people.

Make the children accountable for what they do.

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