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Published: Friday, Jan. 10 2014 6:07 p.m. MST

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Coolhead
North Logan, UT

Nice interview. I have no problem with those who talk about their very personal decision to forgo a mission and play sports. I have a big problem with athletes and fans who say that 'playing ball is their mission.' This is a common mis-statement, unless that is, the Missionary Department letter says 'The Football Field' or 'Basketball Court' as the area of service. It is a naive position to equate playing sports to trudging through mud in freezing rain, risking dysentery every day or having doors slammed in your face, all in the name of selfless, anonymous service. I appreciate the way that this issue was handled.

Stop The Nonsense
El Paso, TX

I liked the question and answer about Jimmer not serving a mission. Though the reason has never really mattered to me, I had always been a little bit curious. I think it's pretty cool that he prayed about it and without a strong "yes" felt comfortable moving forward with his basketball career. No need to argue back and forth about it, in my opinion. The Lord (through a prophet) said that all worthy young men should serve missions, though there are exceptions. The Lord (through a prophet) also said "Thou shalt not kill," and we have seen some exceptions there as well (Nephi/Laban, etc.).

It also doesn't surprise me that general authorities try to establish a relationship with Mormon public figures. And why wouldn't they? Who is in a better position to positively affect how people view our faith?

Overall, great interview! Stay classy, Jimmer and Whitney!

killpack
Sandy, UT

Here's my opinion. I served a two year mission. I thought it was difficult. Jimmer Fredette, on the other hand, to get to where he is, has spent an ENTIRE LIFETIME shooting, dribbling and all kinds of other horrible, tedious, redundant drills. All professional athletes do. In exchange, they get fame, wealth, and a pretty wife. Simply not worth to me. He wouldn't trade places with me, but I would never in my life trade places with him. Not on my worst day. Don't be so quick to judge. The man has paid his dues, just in a different way. I'm not saying the decision to forgo a mission was the right one. But, come on, the man has worked his rear end off. In a society where so many don't work at all at anything, that's got to count for something.

Sore loser
tampa, fl

Some fellers were doing some work on my kitchen during jimmers senior year. I had on my byu hat. The first thing that they talked about was jimmer.

Johnny, JRU
Riverton, UT

Thomas S. Monson our dear Prophet didn't serve a mission in his youth. I met with Vaughan J. Featherstone in the church office buildings upon coming home sick from my mission. He asked me "Elder how do you feel about Missions?" I said I felt that I needed to serve a full time mission to achieve the Celestial kingdom. His reply... "Elder serving a mission is not on the check list to get into the celestial kingdom! But a temple marriage is. We are all children of our Heavenly Father and each of us are unique and as different as snow flakes. Our general rule is worthy young men *should* go. But the lord has given us all talents and gifts that should be used to help build his church upon this earth. And Elder I too did not serve a mission in my youth but things have worked out pretty good for me!" I think a few commenters should rethink the concept of a 2 year commitment and change it to a life time commitment based on true gospel principles.

Hey It's Me
Salt Lake City, UT

@ Liberal Ted,

You sound a bit bitter. Yes the church has encouraged every person who can serve to do a mission, however, we all know that the Lord has given us all different plans for our life. There are superstars that serve on missions (David Archeletta) and there are superstars who don't. Not your place to judge. I think Jimmer talks to a lot of people and his actions speak louder than words. He's a good guy, good example and a strong active member. There are many who are not superstars and they still decide not to go on missions. Take care of yourself and your life and don't compare to others and don't judge others. BE HAPPY.

DonO
Draper, UT

I have to agree with Liberal Ted. The expectation to serve a mission is huge among the majority who are not part of the Mormon glitterati. And those "regular church members" who choose not to serve are often frowned upon and have to live under a cloud of suspicion. Also, the vast majority of "regular" Mormons never have the opportunity to receive personal counsel from a member of the Quorum of the 12, let alone receive personal phone calls from of them. So, good for Jimmer for living his life the way he chooses...and for being a person to whom the church pays particular attention.

Meckofahess
Salt Lake City, UT

@runnerguy50:

Some LDS fans probably would not be as kind to an average BYU male who decided not to serve a mission.

I for one respect all young men who are striving to be good people and good athletes whether they serve a mission or not. A mission is not for everyone, but it is definitely a good choice for those who want to do it. For those who choose not to serve a mission, I'm sure you have other good and worthy goals that are worth pursuing and you are a loved child of God too.

atl134
Salt Lake City, UT

@BlueHusky
Like when Kevin Love won that random "which player makes the most out of limited natural ability" "award" which he referred to as the white guy award.

USAlover
Salt Lake City, UT

If you hate Jimmer Fredette in anyway or for any reason, you just self-identified yourself as some one with issues.

Always kind, always positive, always classy.

John Pack Lambert of Michigan
Ypsilanti, MI

I think the reason why we see a disproportionatly large number of African-Americans in the NBA has to do with culture and socio-economic reality not biology.

It is a culture of playing basketball from a young age. It is a culture of basketball being the only sport and sport being heavily emphasized. On the other hand, it is the socio-economic reality that people in inner cities can get basketball and football scholarships, but with crummy schools will only rarely get others.

How many more Ben Carson's would Detroit Public Schools have turned out if it was a well run school district. I don't know, but as a DPS employee I will say they have lots of improvements to make, even if I will say things are getting better.

DanB
Portland, OR

Guess who else didn't go on a mission? Thomas S. Monson, and I don't see that many people criticizing him for not going. Worry about your own lives and quit judging others.

G L W8
SPRINGVILLE, UT

We can all serve missions--a full time proselytizing mission isn't the only way. I, a common member with absolutely no notoriety, had the opportunity to associate with and be interviewed by Spencer W. Kimball because he was at the time the supervisor of our mission. One thing he made clear to us is that our missions didn't end with our release; they were to be lifelong. If I remember correctly, Steve Young didn't serve a full time mission either; but has filled a life-long one. There are other more everyday members who didn't but do--if readers catch my drift. It is strictly a matter between every member and the Lord. The encouragement for every worthy young man to do so is simply motivational in nature; not a commandment set in concrete.
BTW: we had closer involvement with the general authorities when we were young than the youth & members in general do now. But we all can enjoy a close relationship with the Lord!

Wiscougarfan
River Falls, WI

Re: DanB

"Guess who else didn't go on a mission? Thomas S. Monson, and I don't see that many people criticizing him for not going. Worry about your own lives and quit judging others."

Bad comparison. There was no expectation for "every worthy male" to serve a mission at that time, especially during World War II. Pres. Monson was a bishop at missionary age and did serve a mission a few years later (as a mission president in Canada in his early thirties).

That is neither here nor there, I agree with you that there is no need to judge others. cheers.

gittalopctbi
Glendale, AZ

@DanB Just because the circumstances were different does not make it a bad comparison. The point is, there were circumstances that said it wasn't right for either Pres. Monson or Jimmer to serve a mission. Makes no difference that the expectation wasn't there during Pres. Monson's time. That was also part of the circumstance.

Also, let's not forget that another prophet, Pres. Howard W. Hunter did not serve a mission. Elder Featherstone is correct.

Jimmer was gracious to answer the question. The real answer to such a question is "It's none of your business. That's strictly between me and the Lord."

Why are people grumping about not having their own personal Apostle to give them counsel? Since when is jealousy and envy part of gospel living? That's pride and pettiness manifesting itself. Here's a way you can one-up Jimmer on that: Get your counsel personally from the Lord!

kaysvillecougar
KAYSVILLE, UT

Tons of respect for Whittney and Jimmer! You navigate a public life with a lot of class. I've always been a fan of the way you play the game, but I'm very impressed by your grace and humility - not easy or even revered qualities in the NBA. Much success in your life. I almost didn't write this, remembering Pres. Hinckley's words,"adulation is poison." I figure you'll be able to handle this little bit of adulation since you've done a pretty good job so far. Best of luck to both of you in the future. By the way, my favorite Jimmer memory was watching him stick it to "Willis" from UNLV after some much publicized running the mouth.

J-TX
Allen, TX

"In 2011, Jimmer Fredette found himself in the spotlight (no pun intended) during his senior year as he led the BYU basketball team to the Sweet 16."

No pun intended? There was no pun. Someone needs to go back and take a look at their writing 101 book....

J-TX
Allen, TX

RE: Missions:

I'm one of three brothers, all 6th gen LDS. With a convert mom and an often inactive dad, missions were never mentioned as a goal in our home. My dad and Grandpa did not go, though my great-grandpa served 3 5-year missions. But for a series of miracles in my life, I would not have served. But I did, and praise to the Father.

Fast forward: I have 3 sons, all 7th gen LDS. #1 is his own person and decided (inexplicably to his parents) to get married shortly after High School to a recent convert girl. They were sealed in the temple 1 year later, and they are progressing. #2 will come home from his mission in May. #3 made some mistakes and did not qualify, given the 'raised bar'.

We love them and they all understand that it would have been optimal to serve a mission, but, water under the bridge, most important is to do the things that will lead to the Temple, Eternal Marriage and a life of service in the Church.

Have there been criticisms and lack of charity at times? Yes.

Lack of charity is a sin. Not going on a mission is not a sin.

idablu
Idaho Falls, ID

J-TX: I appreciate your comments, especially the last line. That sums up the whole issue very nicely.

I detect a bit of a whining tone among others, implying "why should the rest of us be required to go on a mission and the superstars get a pass?" I think there is a misconception of what a mission is. Most who have served on a formal mission would deem it more as a PRIVILEGE than an obligation or sacrifice. If someone opts not to take advantage of that privilege, that is none of our business!

And if you think that worthy LDS members in professional sports, or other limelight, are not doing missionary work, you are extremely naive. The likes of Steve Young, Danny Ainge, Dale Murphy, Vai Sikahema, Gifford Neilson have all been positive influences for the Church. and have directly or indirectly brought people to the Gospel.

I don't think there is a single General Authority that would harshly judge Jimmer for not going on a mission, because they know he can do a lot of good for the Church from a PR perspective. So why should we judge him?

STEVE23
GILBERT, AZ

When I was on my mission in Chicago about 30 years ago, we knocked on a door and a kindly gentleman answered. We told him who we were and told us he was familiar with the LDS Church.
He told us his daughter joined the church after watching Donny (no mission) and Marie on television and was now attending BYU. Need I say more?

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