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Published: Saturday, Nov. 9 2013 5:25 p.m. MST

Updated: Friday, Dec. 5 2014 10:59 a.m. MST

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DN Subscriber 2
SLC, UT

Summarized, bad choices lead to poor results.

Partying instead of studying is a bad choice.
Picking "soft majors" is a bad choice.
Insisting on "prestigious schools" instead of a less prestigious school when one's academic talents are more modest is a bad choice.

Listening to parents who value education is a good choice.
Working hard for good grades is a good choice.
Picking majors suited to a person's ability and willingness to work is a good choice.

Class envy, feminism and liberal policies are linked to bad choices.

HoosierMike
Bloomington, IN

"The University of Indiana did not respond to requests for comment for this story." I wonder if that is because there is no University of Indiana. But he may have meant Indiana University...

RealAchiever
Spanish Fork, UT

@ DN Subscriber 2

I'm a woman; I come from a low income family. I was accepted into a very prestigious college this last year. If it wasn't for feminism, I would be married to my boyfriend of two years and popping out babies within nine months. Honestly, I wouldn't have graduated from high school if I was born less than 50 years ago.

I was bullied in high school because I wanted something bigger for myself and I wanted a career. I had also decided early in my life that I wanted to help others find their way in the world without fear of persecution for their religious and/or political beliefs or lack thereof. My boyfriend and I are atheist and tend to have conversations about the proletariat (our families) versus the bourgeois (which we, unfortunately, admittedly aspire to be) , but we have close friends and relatives that are LDS, Catholic, Muslim and Jewish who are very conservative politically. We respect each other’s beliefs equally. We may have lively discussions about prayer in schools and teaching about birth control in health class, but we care about the people we associate with.

RealAchiever
Spanish Fork, UT

Continued...

I'd like to assume that I have made extremely good choices (politically, socially, and morally) considering my background and my personal beliefs. I believe I am a good person, and many of my friends and relatives will concur. I assume that you are a good person too, although in my world-view, misguided. But I am pretty sure you feel the same way.

Happy Holidays
RealAchiever

Wixom
Bountiful, UT

The graphic doesn't match the text - are the colors reversed?

Tekakaromatagi
Dammam, Saudi Arabia

This is a good study. When I was in college I made mistakes because there wasn't anyone to tell me about the ins and outs of college. I thought that classes in my major were taught every quarter for example, rather than once a year, etc. I applied for college the week before classes started (it was a state school) and they would accept almost anyone. . . .

XelaDave
Salem, UT

Two points. Surprise surprise- being born on the right side of the tracks has more to do with your success than basically anything else I am shocked. Second this is what happens to universities when the faculty stop running them and full time administrators start making all the decisions. These people make their money and attain job mobility by how much tuition money they bring in- they could care less about students and have no ability to even know if a student is succeeding- they have rarely taught and if they have it was one or two courses In student success or some highly rigorous course like that. Return higher ed to the faculty otherwise we get this and do not think it is any different here in Utah. Just different names and programs but still the same.

DGA28
Monticello, UT

Generally speaking higher education is a racket, designed to extract money out of kids and parents to support the elistest education society, for as long as possible. Utah is not immune. Can you say differential tuition at USU? Many of the degrees offered are worthless in the real world but the universities will tell you how great they are. Universities keep adding to requirements to graduate to keep getting your money, i.e. Why does getting into law school take a Bacelors degree? Rex Lee pushed the university departments to make it so a student could actually get the degree in 4 years. It meet with resistance and once he died, they started adding more requirements.

The Rock
Federal Way, WA

Kids from disadvantaged families have little or no guidance. Their parents not only have never been to college, they many not even know how to get into college.

My father, a high school councilor, advised me not to take more than 12 credit hours, and zero really tough courses in my first semester at BYU. Many kids bite off more than they can chew and wash out. Once you have some experience at the university level, and know expectations better, then you can load up. In my senior year I carried 18 credit hours and challenged three other courses for a total of 24 credit hours that semester.

A friend and executive with a major corporation advised his kids to find the smartest person in each class, sit next to them and study with them.

One of his kids went to the math lab to do him math homework, the english lab for English, etc. His grades were so high that BYU went to him and offered him a scholarship.

My father further advised me to look at the employ-ability of my major. Make sure you can get a job in that field.

samhill
Salt Lake City, UT

I wonder if this is the first time it occurred to Armstrong and Hamilton that parents who are "savvy" to the workings of academia might confer advantages to their children? Apparently so, since according to the article, these were "surprising discoveries".

If that is the case then I would suggest these two not be considered very savvy themselves. These "discoveries" from their research seem awfully non-surprising to anyone who has observed not just the results of an exposure by young women of different economic strata to college life, but life in general.

It seems an indisputable fact that we humans depend enormously on the wisdom and guidance of adults in our life, hopefully our parents. It is also clear that the most effective means of teaching children is within a stable, healthy family environment. It is therefore stunningly obvious that the accelerating loss of such an environment for en ever increasing percentage of children (48% of children are now born out of marriage than within and over 50% to women under 30) is an ominous indication of our present and future.

So, yes, it's true. Savvy parent CAN help children in college....and everywhere else.

srw
Riverton, UT

An additional correction: the graphic has the two schools interchanged. (Not to mention "Souther" and "Source: ???".)

JBQ
Saint Louis, MO

How is Indiana University any different than every major Midwestern state university. The University of Missouri, for instance, is the same. And! These universities reach out to the party class. So what! Gardens and waterfalls are bad? Rec centers are bad? Climbing walls are bad? What about life long learning? These are young women who will soon be having babies. Feminism and class warfare are not all there is. You can only have so many women Marines to break down class values. You can never have enough babies. Actually, the reproduction rate has fallen below zero and two children. Education has many values. If you wanted to have a "nose to the grindstone" approach for every student, you would have two students on campus-you and I.

jzer
Haworth, OK

Agree totally with DGA28. For most students college is a racket. Richard Branson recently wrote an article (I think it was for yahoo) in which he indicated that one of the last things he is concerned about when hiring is what degree the applicant got. In many cases employers want capable people who are problem solvers and can work well with, or lead, others. In addition, in a report I read a few months back it stated that a college education is completely unnecessary in 85% of all existing jobs in the US labor market. I got a 4 year degree. I own and operate a $1 million dollar poultry farm. A college degree is completely unnecessary in my line of work, and again, in many others. How much does the bankrupt us gov spend on financial aid for students to get unnecessary degrees? If I were going back to when I was 19, I would definitely look much harder at vocational, or technical degrees (1 or 2 year) but would absolutely not waste my time and money on the powder puff business degree I got.

Owl
Salt Lake City, UT

Having an excellent education, a profession and yes, babies are not mutually exclusive. The objective of the article is that in the real world, low effort generally brings low reward and that spending on an empty degree is not a good investment.

DN Subscriber 2
SLC, UT

@ Real Achiever- Congratulations on making many GOOD choices, thus far.

However, I think you will eventually find that some choices may prove to be flawed. You need to especially consider the noble sounding "...wanted to help others find their way in the world without fear of persecution for their religious and/or political beliefs." Perhaps an equally noble but more beneficial goal would be to help people through a career in medicine to fix physical problems. Or, even a life of service to others in a religious order that has taken vows of poverty- or do it on your own without the religious part.

Eventually you may discover there is quite a bit of truth in the statement often (but wrongly) attributed to Winston Churchill:
"Any man who is under 30, and is not a liberal, has no heart; and any man who is over 30, and is not a conservative, has no brains."

Also, there is nothing wrong with getting married and popping out babies in a married two parent household where the parents can support them.

Howard Beal
Provo, UT

So there was an actual study, hopefully not wasting taxpayer money in any way, to find out that who you know is more important than what you know. I mean, I watched School Ties, didn't these guys? The spoiled rich brat could get into Harvard or Yale because Daddy could get him in no matter what, even if he was a bad student or violated the rich boarding school's honor code. Sound familiar. I'm sure the same applies in college. Rich boys and girls can party all the time, get shabby GPA's and still get a job at Daddy's company or for some buddy of Daddy. Next, these guys will tell me the sky is blue. Again, I hope we didn't pay for this study of the obvious.

Roland Kayser
Cottonwood Heights, UT

Summary: No matter how bad you screw up, you'll be just fine as long as mummy and daddy are rich.

redshirt007
tranquility base, 00

I've known some pretty wealthy families and their kids ALWAYS end up doing very well.

It's a sad joke for anyone to be naive enough to believe that money and influence don't matter yet when certain people see a person struggling financially they just assume the person hasn't worked hard enough.

When was the last time you said to yourself, " My boss makes more money than I do because he just works so much harder." Rare indeed.

Many of my friends partied their way through college on their parent's dime and are STILL doing better than this guy that had to find his own way and join the military.

wwookie
Payson, UT

Universities are for-profit enterprises no matter how you try to spin it. Even the state schools and religious private schools. The administrators study demographics, hire marketing experts and do what they can to brand their school to a specific customer base.

It is surprising that the large majority of americans wrongly believe that obtaining a college degree in and of itself means success. They believe that you obtain the degree and then figure out what to do with it later. How many students change majors midway through? The number is ridiculous.

One solution is to improve the career counseling at high schools.

Strider303
Salt Lake City, UT

To be real, college i.e., four or more years at a college or university, education is over sold and one would do better to work at almost any job out of high school, or enlist in the military service for a tour, to find out what you want and what you are capable of doing.

The experiences of those years will help anyone refine choices and define goals. Those experiences will also motivate you to succeed. While I am LDS and have served a mission, and am on a second one with my wife, I am not sure a mission can provide the same life experiences as my aforementioned suggestion.

So a young person serves an LDS mission, works a one or two years or enlists in active military or Guard and then reviews education or training goals, I think the choices will be different and more seasoned and mature than an 18 year-old embarking on college with immature ideas of life and goals, and racking up a $10,000 plus debt for every year of "finding themselves".

Colleges would have to market their product differently for the older wiser student.

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