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Published: Wednesday, Sept. 11 2013 1:35 p.m. MDT

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FatMan86
West Jordan, UT

Rule number one in sports or athletics parenting: Parents are not entitled to immediate success, victories, or championships (through the kid), even if they have a significant time and/or financial investment in helping the child participate. So quit bad mouthing your kids coach, and quit bad mouthing the officials, and understand that growth, character, and learning can come from a loss as much as it can from a win.

If more parents could get a clue about this, youth sports would be such a different experience than it is now.

Great Article!!

patriot
Cedar Hills, UT

the cold hard facts of athletics today for kids is that most sports require that you join a club team at an early age. Clubs are expensive and many of them are nearly year round (soccer, baseball, basketball, volleyball, swimming and others). Clubs are also not for the casual participant. The casual players wash out after the first year - the time commitment along with money is too much. Clubs are really good for the most part in that your kids get the best training and coaching but be prepared for the competition and commitment because it is fierce....and the money...ouch!! Trying to play multiple sports is tough but it can be done. Parents need to be willing to turn their kids over to the clubs and just watch and fork out the bucks. Why do athletics? Self esteem + self control + self confidence + work ethic + learning how to deal with competition and pressure. All of these things are a HUGE leg up when your kids become an adult.

patriot
Cedar Hills, UT

...the best ways to encourage your young athlete is to first be engaged with him/her time wise and give them the opportunity to succeed. It is easy to push too hard - be careful with this one. Kids will play better if they are having fun and they tend to have more fun if they are good.

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