This really hit me "Foster children typically aren't given a lot of
information so they've all grown up with unanswered questions about their
lives." What a confusing mess.. especially if the child knows little about
what is happening. How hard for a child.
Why is the state tormenting these children given up for adoption by allowing
personal reactions with parents who give them up? It understandably that
children want to be with their biological parents but this is torture for them
mentally and emotionally to allow this kind of off/on relationship. It would be better on them and the biological parents to keep them together
regardless of living condition than this kind of mental torture they are being
put through. This should be stopped and dropped from practice, its too dangerous
for children and adoptive parents and biological parents who have given up their
rights to be involved at all. This is terrorizing to the children and not at all
good for anyone, especially the children and adoptive parents who are always
being threatened by the threat of state stupidity.