i guess i am number three. Your not special at all. Sorry. I view peoples
indentity just like I do self defence or finances. It is a struggle to be
overcome. It is overcome when you are comfortable enough with it to not care
about it. Thus you stop caring about your identity and whether that makes you
magically good or bad or whatever is totally irrelevant total nonsense just live
within your means. So the 4th option I find unnecessary then again I do not have
a peice of paper saying im special like the psychologists do.