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Published: Friday, Feb. 1 2013 1:45 p.m. MST

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American Fork, UT

The kickback to this story, which I read, is indicative of how far we have to go before it's considered OK to not not raise kids in the atmosphere of fear and oppression religion can impose. The freedom of each one of us is inextricably bound to that of every other person.

Tyler D
Meridian, ID

Carl Olsen also wrote…“My experience, time and again, is that more than a few atheists want to have it both ways…”

When I read this guy’s entire comment my first thought was, “I have never heard one atheist/agnostic say anything like this, but I’ve heard countless religious people describe them this way.”

The atheists I know don’t believe in God because 1) there is no objective, repeatable evidence for God, and 2) we now have better explanations for almost everything religion has ever tried to answer throughout history.

And it’s worth noting that atheism is simply a word to describe people who don’t believe in religious myths and stories. It has no positive content and does not denote any set of alternative beliefs. A better word would perhaps be non-theist, since we don’t have words for our disbelief in most things. Is being a non-astrologer (note that we don’t have a word for this) mean that you have a competing set of beliefs related to astrology? Of course not… you simply don’t believe in astrology.

West Valley City, UT

I have just one suggestion for the godless mom lady. Check out Buddhism~ You want presence? In Buddhism the self is known as the Buddha therefore if you are present then so is the Buddha. Logic? No system of understanding life is more logical then the teachings of the Buddha, who said,"My path is not a religion, its a way of life. Want fairness? Karma is infinitely fair although we do not always know the true causes of things. Look into Buddhism, you will not be disappointed.

A Scientist
Provo, UT

The feeling of isolation, condemnation, and frustration this woman felt is the experience imposed on people by those charlatan weavers in "The Emperor's New Clothes".

Religion is the epitome of the weavers' fraud. It says that those who cannot "see" the fictional "god" are "unworthy and unfit for their office" - unworthy of acceptance and full participation in society.

It is time those of us who do not "see" any mystical god open our mouths and let the world know we are NOT bad people; we are NOT "fools" (Psalm 14:1); we are HERE, and we are worthy, patriotic, good citizens, neighbors, business owners, family people, and human beings!

Cedar City, UT

As a fellow scientist I understand your reasoning. If there is no God none of this matters and there is no reason to even comment on this board. Right? Just because you have not seen Him does not mean that He does not exist. There is a difference between not knowing whether there is a god and claiming there is no god. In claiming there is no God you offend those who believe in God. You are saying that what they have learned is foolish and they inpart are foolish. You have your right to believe what you want but it is no wonder why it is met with criticism. We all have a lot to learn.

Orem, UT


I think you've misrepresents atheists and atheism! The category is quite diverse. In the first place, "atheist/agnostic" is misleading. The word "agnostic" can be applied to people who are religiously inclined and to those who are not. The agnostic is simply one who does not "know." There are plenty of thoughtful atheists who think it probable that there is no God, but admit that they lack sufficient knowledge to make a definite claim about it. On the other hand, there are those who seek God and lead pious lifestyles, yet similarly admit that they have a lack of knowledge that would allow them to commit to a specific faith.

Among atheists, there are plenty who accept the supernatural and who have their own stories. One Jewish atheist friend of mine believes in the "Universe" and has been visited by his deceased ancestors. Yet he adamantly denies the existence of an intelligent and personal "God." Biblical Sadducees were this way.

I know Mormon Atheists and Agnostics as well (I'm agnostic), and there is an entire Underground full of them, many of who attend meetings faithfully and live their religion (which they don't take literally) quite diligently.

Tyler D
Meridian, ID

@ pmccombs – “I think you've misrepresents atheists and atheism!”

I think you did a fairly good job (although somewhat confused atheist with agnostic) of expanding on what I said, but I’m not sure how my basic description was a misrepresentation.

Separating atheist from agnostic is helpful. And again, I think atheist is a troubling word because it doesn’t positively describe anything. Do we have a word for a non-Santa Claus believer? Also, by your very loose definition (e.g., Jewish friend) we are all atheists with respect to someone’s conception of God - for example, with respect to Zeus or Ganesh (except Hindus) or the sun god Ra or Allah (except Muslims)?

@ Physics27

Since atheists have been marginalized for centuries (many of those included being burned at the stake), I think they are simply asking for some long overdue mutual respect. And we have a long way to go given the fact that being an atheist is still the #1 impediment to run for political office, more than race, religion or even sexual preference.

Perhaps we should take Jesus’ advice and judge people by their fruits (and not their roots).

Rigby, ID

Her main argument is that because war and murder and other bad things happen, God isn't real. Herein lies the problem: life was not meant to be easy, and humans have the capacity to choose. We often choose wrong, and this leads to pain, hatred, war, and destruction. Sometimes others reap the reward of our own choices as collateral damage spreads. But that is not God's fault; that is mans, and if God removed those things, life would be easy. If life was easy, why are we here at all?

If God exists and if He deserves my worship and attention, He has to be perfect, better than anyone I know. He wouldn't use force except in cases when doing so leaves the individual's right to choose intact. In the end, he would have to set everything right, after all has been said and done. Otherwise, He deserves nothing from me. I believe He is perfect because the variables lead to no other conclusion. It took years of study to figure it out. If you want to know, you had better get started, and when you know, fix yourself accordingly.

Richmond, VA

How painfully pitiful to waste all this time arguing over whether there is a God or not. I for one am a believer and I'm quite content to raise my children in a home where God is real and prayer is our line of communication to him. We're all free to worship who/what we want or choose. "...choose ye this day..." the scripture declares, "whom ye will serve, but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."(Joshua 24:15) We waste all this time arguing and hating when we could all learn to be kind and get along. Besides, "it will all call come out in the wash" in the end so to speak. If in the end we find out there's a God, then so much the better for us who believed. If there's not, well then, it wouldn't matter, would it? My life would not have been wasted because I can look back and know that I was happy and contented to live the way I chose. Likewise with the godless if they were content and happy with theirs.

Far East USA, SC

Those that are sure that there is no higher being are kidding themselves.
Same goes for those that ARE sure.

Deep down we are all agnostic. We just won't or can't admit it.

Provo, UT

TylerD, I suggest you look up the meaning of the "a" in atheist. It means "without," which isn't much different than your recommended "non." It doesn't suggest an antagonism, though that's often the resulting interpretation for those who believe differently than ourselves.

Everett, WA

I have enjoyed reading the comments here and in other places. I like the chance to see different views, feelings,etc. I am not atheistic, but reading all the different arguments and feelings, I think I begin to understand others life experience a little more, much of which I think we share, and I learn from it. I am grateful for it since we all still have a lot to learn. Probably no one of goodwill wants to go back to the days when only one religious view was allowed, "OR ELSE..." (which still happens in a few places, sadly). I like to see where I can learn from others, of the same opinion or not. It isn't always easy to do, since we are emotional beings. Jesus said "Agree with thine adversary quickly..." I don't think he meant pretend to believe the same, but maybe rather to come to a mutual understanding... That takes time, effort, trying to see from the other persons point of view, maybe not judging others, but giving them the benefit of the doubt... Thanks for all the good comments.

Salt Lake City, UT

“Live a good life. If there are gods and they are just, then they will not care how devout you have been, but will welcome you based on the virtues you have lived by. If there are gods, but unjust, then you should not want to worship them. If there are no gods, then you will be gone, but will have lived a noble life that will live on in the memories of your loved ones.”
― Marcus Aurelius

Dietrich, ID

How do people know there is no God? You can look at negativity in any religion to reject it. Does any religion teach you to be a bad person? Gods eternal truth is independent of what people choose to beleive. What good will beleif against gravity do?

Since the days of Adam satan said beleive it not and people chose not to beleive it. Book of Mormon full of people that thought beleif in God frenzied mind. Joe I am not an agnostic I know for a fact God does live. Just because you don't know he lives I do know for a fact he lives.

Good if people find truth and choose to beleive it. Even though churches disagree on fall of Adam and baptism most teach good things. What good is teaching there is no God besides allowing someone all the excitement they want since if there is no God there is no law and no sin and you can do whatever you want. Truth is independent of human beleif.

Twin Lights
Louisville, KY

A Scientist

No problem for me to say (without qualification) that many atheists (and agnostics too) are fine folks - patriotic, good citizens and neighbors, etc. (I would have thought the human part was obvious).

But please do not categorize those of us who profess religion as charlatans. Doing so indicates that we do not really believe what we profess but that we do so for reasons of self-interest.

Whether you think we are wrong or not, surely you know religious folks who truly believe what they say. I know many folks of other religions (and of none). Most are quite sincere. Occasionally there are those who are not (in many religions and without). But they are widely dispersed and cannot be pegged to any one religion.

A Scientist
Provo, UT

"What good is teaching there is no God besides allowing someone all the excitement they want since if there is no God there is no law and no sin and you can do whatever you want."

This is an old, false notion believed more by the religious than the nonbelievers. I have never heard it nor read it from a non-believer. Instead, it is just another way for believers to falsely demonize non-believers and make them out to be immoral, unworthy creatures. What a shameful thing to do.

"please do not categorize those of us who profess religion as charlatans. Doing so indicates that we do not really believe what we profess but that we do so for reasons of self-interest."

Children taught to be good because “Santa Claus is coming to town” are very sincere, and their belief in Santa Claus influences them to be nice, kind, and to do good. But that doesn't make Santa real or the story of his coming down chimneys true. One who deceives is a charlatan; those who continue the deception are also charlatans.

Hank Pym

@ CETCollective

Good call. Taoism, as well, is a great alternative to the religious status quo.

Central Texan
Buda, TX

Be careful not to be caught by the false logic of

A) If God exists, he would not allow such and such to exist in the world.

B) Such and such exists in the world,

C) Therefore, God does not exist.

Just as Sam Harris has done in the Atheist Manifesto, the reasoning rests on an assumption about how God would act or respond to certain circumstances.

Tyler D
Meridian, ID

@Central Texan – “Just as Sam Harris has done in the Atheist Manifesto, the reasoning rests on an assumption about how God would act or respond to certain circumstances.”

Harris actually makes a slew of arguments for why he is an atheist – the logical argument in your comment (which, by the way cannot be shown to be true or false) is only one of his arguments, and a relatively minor one at that.

And his reasoning is more nuanced than you suggest. He has said on occasion that no one can be 100% sure (of God’s existence) either way. But what he is sure of is that religious people, who have claimed for centuries to “speak for God,” have an incredibly poor track record when it comes to explaining things about the world.
I find the following more persuasive than what noted:

1.Name a scientific explanation that was later supplanted by a religious explanation?

2.Name a religious explanation that was later supplanted by a scientific one?

If we’re keeping score on this account, science is ahead by about a million to zero.

Fred Vader
Oklahoma City, OK

Ah, the old reliable "science is better than God" theory...

Assuming for argument that God does not exist, and therefore science and scientists are therefore the winners, please answer the following:

For all those who start wars, whether religious or otherwise, who is it that supplies them with their weapons of mass destruction? Did the Pope, or a preacher invent the atom bomb? Looks like the scientists win in that category too...so why aren't you villifying, shunnning, and name calling the scientists and those who place their "faith" in science, with all the destruction they actually cause to man?

If God doesn't exist, then it looks like science and scientists are the real cause of all the wars and suffering in the world, no?

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