I heard him talk on Saturday night after the shooting. I was preparing a talk
for my Teachers Quorum for Sunday morning. The talk was on "spiritual
Gifts" and I used a quote from Robbie Parker and talked about his gift for
forgiveness. “As we move on from what happened here, what happened to so
many people, let it not turn into something that divides us, but something that
inspires us to be better, to be more compassionate and more humble
people.” I thought to myself wow what an example of God's grace and I
bet he is LDS. When I gave the talk a member of our Bishopric commented that he
was actually LDS. I have prayed for all the families and friends of
the victims and all others affected. I know those children are being cared for
on the other side. Such a tragedy.
Such a beautiful story, thanks for it. My prayers are with the Parker family,
and with President Checketts, who helps watch over and care for the members of
We were in Utah for our son's wedding when this tragedy occured. Over the
next few days we followed and grieved with the nation over it. When we heard the
remarks by Br. Parker on the national news, we forgot for a moment that this was
not a local report from Utah, because it was easy to recognize from his language
that this was a devoted member of the Church.I don't think it
was ever mentioned that this was the case during the original or subsequent
commentary. That may have been the family's preference, which I certainly
respect, but I can't help wishing this point could have been made to show
what faithful "Mormons" really can be like rather than the false view
the media so often pushes before the public.I couldn't help
thinking how often they did mention that a murder committed near our home was
partly the work of a young LDS man. What a sad contrast and error to emphasis
that against this amazing family.
Amen to all of the above. Inspirational article. Thanks Jeff Benedict! It's
wonderful to see the Gospel in action in the face of tragedy.God
bless all those who mourn that they might be comforted.
Small world. Dave Checketts is the brother of one of the most spiritual and kind
people I know. It does not surprise me that he would be so thoughtful and got to
help this dear family. It makes me cry, for Emilie, for her parents, Robbie and
Alyssa Parker and their other children. Ironically we saw him on TV and though
we knew nothing about him, my husband commented that the way he carried himself
made him think he was a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Days
Saints. We love you dear Parker family. We love all those families who lost a
loved one. And my heart even goes out to the man who took these innocent lives.
He was so troubled. May God bless all of those involved. Love, David's Mom
Thank you for this piece. It helps keep it all in perspective. I love the
quote:"What happened in Newtown is unthinkable," Checketts
said. "But little children are alive in Christ. Though the nature of the
crime is the essence of evil, our faith tells us that these children burst into
the presence of God and are safe in his arms."Those innocent
children are in the loving arms of God. Still, my heart aches and I continue to
pray for the grieving families. I look forward to the glorious reunion that will
come in heaven one day.
Amen to the kind and endearing emotions and compassion described in this
article. God bless the memory of each child and adult taken in this senseless
crime. We add our prayers and faith to the families. May the tender mercies of
our God embrace them and may we, through our everyday actions embrace goodness
and kindness to those we encounter. Let us act with forbearance and rise above
the ugliness and even pettiness of evil—let our actions honor and respect
What an absolutely beautiful story, Jeff. Would that more of the world be so
fortunate to have the inner strength that that young father did on Christmas Eve
so very long ago. I pray that many were inspired by this story. I can't
even imagine how this compares to the horrific tragedy in Conn.......both events
have touched many hearts for a long time to come. God Bless!
Well written. Thanks to those who have inspired us, Mr. Benedict, President
David Checketts, the funeral director, and Robbie Parker. Bless them all!
I think if my kids where young in this day and age. I would seriously consider
We did not cause them the greatest grief. We where at war and did what we had to
do to win the War and save the further loss of American Lives. It was perhaps
not these peoples fault that we where at war. That said they where where the War
A touching account of reactions to tragedy. My heart also goes out to the Lanza
family who have lost loved ones and are trying to fathom how one of their family
members could do such an evil act.
I live in Ohio, which has a large Amish population. I can't help but
remember when a man came into an Amish school of little girls, and killed about
six of them before taking his own life. The Amish people involved showed up at
the man's funeral, in large numbers, to tell his family that they forgave
him, and held no ill will against his family, and wanted to mourn with them, as
they had lost a child the same as the Amish people did. Oh, that we could
ALL be so forgiving! God bless all the surviving family members, on both
During such a time of tragedy for these families, what an inspirational article
about all of those personally impacted by this senseless act of violence. While
away from my family on business, it brought tears to my eyes.
It is so difficult for me to even imagine what these families are suffering... I
find comfort in reading 3 Nephi Chapter 17, verses 21--24. I pray that the
families of these sweet children as well as the teachers may be comforted by
The face of Mr. Parker trying to suppress his tears is heart wrenching. But
some pictures showed Emily's mom. Her face was twisted with
incomprehensible suffering and pain. I have never seen the face of such deep,
soul wracking grief as was in her face. My heart breaks for her and her family.
This is an excellent story which gives us a deep insight on the faith and
spiritual depth of the Parker family. May our Father in Heaven shower them with
His Spirit and give them the faith and courage that they will so need in the
coming months and years to come. May they have peace. Our prayers and love go
out to them.
I appreciate Pres. Checkett's remarks about the families and even the
community. He spoke with such empathy to our congregation and truly shared the
grief of all. Our hearts and prayers go out to the Parker family and all others
who suffered loss. Robbie has been such an inspiration to us all.
May God bless the funeral director for his kindness to the family. And may God
bless and comfort all who are affected by this awful event. Thanks
for a moving story.
Sometimes a horrible tragedy can help us to discover the best in ourselves and
best in others. Thank you for this beautiful account of how people responded to
this sad event.
This begins a time of healing. thank you!
Crying silently here in my little office...it hurts.
Too often the comments on this site are filled with pettiness about whose team
is better or whose beliefs are in error. Shortly after the Newtown tragedy,
someone even posted a criticism of Robbie Parker for being the first one to
"cash in" on the tragedy. Obviously, that person had no knowledge of
the circumstances of Mr. Parker's remarks.Thanks, Mr. Benedict,
for these insights into the situation and the unwritten challenge to all that we
need to apply the principles Lincoln expressed and put aside all of the vitriol
and bitterness. That would be a good gift to all at this time, whatever
one's political, religious or school affiliation might be.
What a great story, the Lord will Bless this family eternally. President
Checketts is a great example of what a true Christian. The funeral director is a
great and loving person that is an example to all. Story brought me to tears.