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“Nature” is what a person is. Choice is not involved. We may have learned to be what we are. We may have been genetically predisposed to be what we are. It doesn’t matter. We are what we are. If what we are causes us pain, then we must find ways to change what we are. Society doesn't care what we are until it affects our bahavior.
‘Behavior’ is what a person does. There is nothing “biological” about it. Sexual acts are a behavior that we choose to perform. Religious acts are a behavior we choose to perform. Neither have fully protected status. Society rightly defends itself by determining the acceptable limits on all behavior.
‘Belief’ is what a person thinks. Religious affiliation is based on belief. The notion that ‘homosexual behavior is harmless’ is a belief. We can’t help what we believe. No one should be forced to condone another’s behavior. Unfortunately, I see few people on these posts that are humble enough to be able to conform their beliefs to the truth. All beliefs should be protected.
Gavin, actually religion is protected by a pesky little document called "The Constitution of the United States" (see amendment 1)
If someone is married in a court is that legal? How about in the temple or another religious ceremony?
What if someone is married by hitler, sadam husen, or even another religious group that you don't agree with.
Marriage is a legal contract that imposes contractual rights and responsibilities, it is not about morality. Anyone who can comply with the requirements of the contract should be able to make one. Period.
The Constitution protects religion only in that Congress cannot pass a law restricting it. It says nothing about people being denied where they can live and work for being a certain religion. That is why we have these anti-discrimination laws to protect religion further.
With the passing of this city act, people of all orientations can now have equal protection under the law with regards of where they work and live, gays and straights.
We are sexual beings by nature, but our sexuality does not normally emerge until our teenage years (or at least it should not). I am heterosexual, but I remember thinking girls were pretty useless until I was in Junior High.
If I were abused, raped, or exposed to sexual materials as a child, maybe I would have turned out differently. If I were told in 6th grade that I had to make a choice on my sexuality, who knows what I would have "chosen". Boys were cool and girls were not at that time.
I am just saying that the premature sexualization of our children probably has a lot more to do with homosexuality than genetics.
Correct, but you miss the larger point. Why are religious beliefs and practice (both matters of choice) granted "special rights" in civil rights laws at all? Yes, it's in the 1st Amendment, but why? Opponents of equal rights laws protecting the GLBT community often claim that civil protections are limited to immutable, innate characters (race, sex, nationality, etc.) and that any protections for mutable characteristics (which, rightly or wrongly, they consider sexual orientation to be) confer unequal and unconstitutional "special" rights. The 1st Amendment clearly refutes this position with its inclusion of religion as a protected class. As the letter writer pointed out, religion is a matter of choice. Further, the 9th Amendment concedes that the Founders knew they couldn't possibly enumerate every conceivable civil right. Considering the 9th Amendment together with the precedent of the 1st Amendment protecting a chosen (i.e. not immutable) characteristic, the logical conclusion is that GLBT protections such as those passed Tuesday by SLC fall easily inside the constitutional penumbra.
I could post plenty of URL"S that would point to past and recent studies that conferm what most thinking people have known for centurys.
There are many types of sexuality. Just like we are all born with differing genitic makeup. Each of us has differing levels of chemicals that make up our sexuality. It is not black and white.
Stop with the 16th century thinking and move society towards a point where we can respect all human beings for what they were born as. Good people who respect the laws, help other people in need, good neighbors, etc.
What religion they belong to does not weigh in at all.
As has been explained a gazillion times (to no affect), marriage is not just a contract that binds two people together for life. It also implies societal approval of sexual behavior within the marital relationship — behavior that IS chosen by the couple. If you say you approve of a couple’s marriage, you are also saying you approve of them having sex. If the government says it condones a couple’s marriage, it’s also saying it condones the couple’s chosen sexual behavior.
But (this may come as a surprise to the militant gay community) the people govern this country. I am one of the people. If I do not condone the choice to participate in same-sex sexual behavior, I automatically cannot reasonably condone same sex marriage. As one of the people governing this country, I am obligated to show my lack of support for behavior that I do not condone. If the rest of the people contradict me, so be it. They have the same right that I have. That’s how it works.
Though unpopular in some circles, there is plenty of scientific evidence indicating sexual preference is a choice.
Where? By whom? You are no scientist.
Political or religious "scientists"?
People don't just wake up one day and say: Ok, the rest of my life I will be gay. I want to be beat up at school, discriminated against in most every aspect of my life, hide in shame from my religious counterparts, not be allowed by dogmatic people to be who I am, think that God hates me, according to scripture that some guy wrote hundreds or thousands of years ago, and on and on.
Yes, I want to chose to be gay.
The silly mindset of the people who believe that we are all born with the same genetic makeup make me wonder about the teachings of Jesus, and what has happened to his love for all beings on earth.
Got common sense?
I agree with you that the writer is correct that gays deserve certain rights regardless of their choices of behavior.
You are incorrect however, in assuming that you can control what you believe. Is there a switch in your brain that allows you to just turn off a current belief if you don’t want it? I don’t think so. Your beliefs are a result of what you have learned up this point. You can direct your life so that you will learn certain things and not learn others. You can seek new information in hopes that it will be convincing enough to redirect your beliefs. But without that new information, you simply believe what you believe. You are stuck with the knowledge (true or false) that is with you now.
Your beliefs do affect your behavior, but they do not control your behavior. People often behave contrary to their own beliefs
Truth and real science trumps old books and scripture written by people who had little or no education.
Religious agenda in this country is second only to Turkey. Think about that fact.
Religious viewpoints have no place in modern society, concerning judgments towards any group of people. Religious viewpoints belong in church. I have no problem with church or scripture, as long as it is kept out of politics and society as a whole.
Science is proof of an idea or theory. Religion (any) is theory without proof. Why on earth would people use religion to beat down innocent people and children is beyond logical thinking.
One may act contrary to what others think they believe (or should believe) - but one cannot act contrary to what one truly believes. When presented with two conflicting options, one will choose the option that they believe presents the lesser harm - but one will not act contrary to these beliefs.
It says nothing about passing laws preventing discrimination of religious individuals.
But I'm real sure of the neo=con agenda. Previous occupants in the White House worked the neo=con agenda so well that they ruined all the good things we had going for us in the good old USA.
I would take any so called agenda in place of the christian/neocon agenda again.
Our founding documents seem to be saying that “All men have the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. That statement is limited by our society by “so long as those rights do not impinge on the rights of others.
A persons behavior, even bad behavior, is a persons right, so long as it is in his own personal sphere.
However, I must choose not to be.
But that craving is always there.
Tough questions,
I'm just relieved I'm not the one to judge others.
More precisely, what I said was that GLBT protections were constitutional, not that they were guaranteed by the Constitution. I think there may be a fine difference there. I'm mostly OK with the will of the people; that's what the SLC Council followed, by the way. That said, sometimes the will of the people is wrong or misguided or a bit behind the times and it takes a little nudging to move it along. That's what politics and activism are about. Sometimes the judiciary needs to lead. Where would the "will of the people" vis-a-vis race be today without the lunch counter sit-ins, bus boycotts, Dr. King, etc. Similarly, would the LDS Church have moved at all on GLBT issues without the kiss-in last summer?
Agreed, there are many mutable characters whose protections do not rise to constitutional status. However, should a class of people be consistently denied such fundamentals of living as jobs, housing, and personal safety on the basis of hair color or whatever, it might be a sign that those need legal protections, too.
Does a Gay person have the right to “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness”?
I am anti-gay lifestyle. But I believe that all adult Americans have those rights.
Voting the rights away from any group is wrong. We are all Gods children no matter how we were born.
Blame God if you don't like the products he sent down here.
To compare being born gay with somebody killing and robbing is about as good as an elementry school kid could come up with.
Isn't it strange that they have decided that, because it is more pleasurable for them to sexually defile themselves in every imaginable way, that they have the "right" to demand that we accept them?
Isn't it strange that they choose to quote the scriptures that tell us to "love one another" yet they ignore the scriptures that tell us that to sin is to die spiritually, and that if we die spiritually, that only the sinless one, Jesus Christ, can restore to us that pure and innocent life that we thoughtlessly gave away - and that He will only restore innocence to those that comply with His laws?
Isn't it strange that they who would live outside the law demand that we change the laws that govern what conduct is acceptable to include their rejection of law?
Isn't it strange that they are fulfilling the prophecy of s Isaiah: "Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!"
So, you are unable to distinguish between behavior that harms others and behavior that does not harm others and you think this is a valid argument for conservative principles.
Yeah, if that is the best you've got - you've got nothing.
There are biblical sites where you can type in a phrase and it will pull up the book and verse.
Reminds me of my favorite story where Christ bodily threw them all out of the temple.
Obvious to who...you who lives in Merryland? I've got news for you....My neighbor is married with 3 children, after spending 10 years in a gay relationship! He just decided he deserved more and wanted to raise his OWN children....Try telling his children that he is just a biological fallacy!!
That verse is implying that the greatest people are those that are willing to sacrifice earthly pleasures (such as sex) for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Some people are born with the ability to do that and it is natural for them. Others have to be compelled to do it. The greatest of us however, choose to be that way without having to be compelled or having it come naturally to us. Such people willfully give up pleasures in life when it serves the kingdom.
Contrary to what that scripture seems to be saying to those who do not have the spirit - Jesus does not want us to castrate ourselves (like the eunuchs)for the sake of the kingdom.
Although, arguably, drugs do cause harm. Or perhaps you are not familiar with the problems where they are grown and the harms caused by addiction?
or the 104 who died using "illegal" drugs.
I don't know which "harmful" drugs you are refering to.
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"Special" protections based on sexual orientation choices are not . . . yet.
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