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It’s cooperation that motivates us to all those things.
I know the effort that goes into EVERY team that plays. Some teams work 12 months a year, some teams get thrown together at the last minute. But the effort of the child is the POINT. It's really not about trophies. AND PLEASE, idiot city leagues, PLEASE stop handing out "champion" or "MVP" trophies to every little kid that signs up for a rec. league. It markedly increases the stupidity of the parents. Pretty soon they start to think the trophy is the most important part of it all and lose their kids in the hardware.
IT'S NOT! It's about the relationships that are built. It's about learning HOW to work harder than you thought possible, even when you are dead tired.
It is NOT the destination. It is the journey.
We ALL need to remember that. Even me.
You will see both at almost every sporting event you go to.
Long live athletics, competition, and people maturing!!
I've also seen examples of good sportsmanship.
I've heard a head coach tell his team to treat their opponents with respect, especially because the other team had lost every game that season. Coaches stepping in front of their athletes to stop them from rushing the field when the other team started a fight on field and telling them to let the officials handle things. Fans writing comments on this newspaper's web site praising their team's opponents for good and fair play.
Sadly, some DO use "the spirit of competition" as an excuse to act totally irresponsible.
I believe that the norm is to be respectful toward opponents. I hope so. I think the reason this incident stands out is because it's unusual for things to go to such extremes.
But then, it's probably the reason football fans are seated on opposite sides of the field from one another, and directed to enter and exit through different gates, far from one another.