Comments about ‘Why are American women dissatisfied with their bodies?’

Stop eating when you're full? What a concept. So we're calling that "intuitive eating" now? I'll have to remember that one.

Only weight was talked about in this story. It is amazing, especially for one involved in the industry, how much growth the plastic or "reconstructive" surgery industry has experienced in the recent years. It is something that has obviousley taken off in the Salt Lake Region as well. Take a look at all of the bill boards. Wow...

For how concerned women supposedly are about their weight, there sure don't seem to do anything about it. Everywhere I go I'm surrounded by people, including women who are 100lbs overweight. Far more women are dying or suffereing illness from increased weight than from decreased weight.

This article raises an important issue. Modern society has become so obsessed with being politically correct that it is afraid to promote the healthy values that made this Country great. The politically correct idea that everyone should be happy with their bodies, no matter what, has created an epidemic of obesity, gluttony, and laziness. Too many women, and men, have accepted this modern view that self-gratification without regard to the consequences is perfectly acceptable. If our society does not abandon this view and return to the practices of moderation, prudence, and self-control, our society will continue to degenerate.

This article was not about promoting laziness and gluttony. Many women (and men, I bet) are healthy and take care of themselves but they still don't look like models. That's the whole point: health should be the goal, not appearing perfectly gorgeous.

may just be comfortable for another. The news reports keep saying that more than 80% of Americans are not just overweight, but OBESE. Stop using food as a hobby or as an excuse to keep from being bored. Get out there and do some physical work. You'll lose weight, gain muscle, sleep better and feel better about yourself! And skip cosmetic surgery altogether unless it's to improve your health.

I like Liz's comment. I am one who is very healthy and seen as an attractive girl. However I relate with this article and have struggled often in my life with body image. However, despite all the pressure that results from media and others I know that what women really need to recognize is that they are NOT objects, but human beings with great potential regardless of the body they were born with. I believe the body is a sacred gift and should be well cared for with proper nutrition and exercise. However the obsession with the body can deter us from joyful and self-confident living. It can detract us from all of the other great pursuits in life that bring satisfaction and purpose such as knowledge, service, and most especially child bearing and raising families. As long as men and/or women view the body as an "object" they will never find happiness with themselves or their relationships, especially their marriages and their intamcy in their marriage.

I too agree with Liz that health should be the focus here. As a man, I can say that I find a body in balance to be attractive. You will notice that I did not define a specific body type. I said "in balance" as I believe this is the most healthy. Yes, it does require that the individial eat right, get rest, engage in a physical exercise program on a daily basis. I challenge everyone to live by these principles and you will find the body and look you want plus feel better and sleep at night. Now, get up off the couch and go do something positive for yourself.

the reality of the situation is that 86% of us probably do need to loose weight!

Hey ladies: get over it. Men like you the way you are. Stop trying to impress us.

Without a doubt the focus of our society needs to be on health. Many of those skinny little models are not healthy and so many of us are over weight and sedantary. We need to promote a lifestyle that is healthy and active. That is what is good for men and women alike.

But like another who commented, I am shocked at the number of women who have undergone surgical enhancements to "improve" their self image. It is a real shame that women feel this is needed. I would much rather be with a natural women who is active, healthy and happy with herself.

I am a woman who is naturally thin with no health problems. I have never dieted. I have been trying to gain weight for nearly two decades because I am considered to be under weight by societies standard. The average/normal size for a woman is considered to be a size 10/12. I'm a size 2/4. On the other side of the spectrum, it is very hard for some people, like myself, to put on weight. But nobody really talks about that. I'm 'abnormal' because I don't weigh 135lbs. This idea that we have to be a certain size in order to be accepted is destroying peoples' self esteem in all sizes not just fat.

sorry for yourself. You know, things are tuff all over. So, stop looking at yourselves and start seeing others. See what you can do for others today and spend a few less hours in front of the mirror. Sure, we would all like to look like models, but there are other models out there. Jesus was a model, a role model. Stop worrying about your looks and things you can't change and look at the things that matter. You don't have to look like a movie star to help others and make the world a better place. Some of the most beautiful people I know are over weight or have some feature that others may not like. Want to feel good about yourself? Then remember the Golden Rule. How about a random act of kindness today? Try to make someone feel happy about themselves today, pass on a nice word or give a few dollars to a good cause. Just a thought...

It doesn't help when the cute clothes don't come in the size you would like. The shape is there, just not the size. Also = The material for larger women is almost "granny-like", and it is uncomely.

So - what is the problem? Not only seeing "smaller" images of celebrities, but not having the same opportunity to look good as well.

hmmm could it be because so many women are either ignored by men or cheated on with prettier women?

As a thin, average-looking woman (but not blonde and cute and perfect), I know what it's like to be judged simply by my looks. If I was prettier I'd have been asked out more or my handful of boyfriends wouldn't have been tempted by the gorgeous hotties with no personality. Because we all know men prefer looks to brains and personality.

So yea, of course women are self-conscious about their looks!

To girls who feel how I felt: Go for older men. The men your age don't care how gifted you are or how kind or how intelligent you are. The older men have grown past thinking a lustful relationship will fill their lives with joy and many of them know first-hand. Older men will appreciate you. Don't change for anyone!

Habla por ti, my friend. Most women I see any more are at least 50 lbs overweight, many much more. (Too many guys are too, but that's for another Des News article) I don't like that and most men I know don't either. I prefer my wife to try to impress me by caring about how she looks. I don't set her standards, but I like that she has them and tries to stick with them.

We (women) are the only ones that can change the obsession with weight. Controlling the judgement of ourselves compared those seen in magazines is difficult though.

Perhaps writing letters en-masse to the designers telling them that their clothes look good on a size 0 but don't on us. Therefore we won't buy them. Design clothes that look good on a normal woman and then you'll get our money.

Nothing like money to gets someones attention

So, what's your idea of "older," because I have to say that the men I know who are between 45 and 70 are just as attracted to pretty women as younger men(18 to 40)are. If you don't think so, watch their eyes when an attractive woman walks past them.

I am very satisfied with womens bodies, tall short, slim, heavy, straight, crooked it doesnt really matter. just make me smile

Women are always disatisfied with themselves, it's PITIFUL.

Thank GOD I'm a MAN!