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One day asked him if he would come to my house and pull weeds in my garden (it was my first attempt, and nothing grew). He said he had a bad back, but that If I would give him my address, he would send his son in law to my house to work.
I said, you don't have to do anything with your back, you can sit in a chair (I was testing him) and when the water gets to the end of the row, tell me and I will switch it to the next row, he declined.
So I gave him my address, and his son in law never did show up.
I know its stupid what I did, but this was before Elizabeth Smart.
Needless to say, I am turned off by these beggars, and I don't want to be, I want to help people, but I don't trust.
I'd like to rap the low lifes up one side and down the other.
My advice is be generous to those groups that deal with the homeless and down and out, otherwise most of what you give goes up panhandler's nose or into their arm. Then there are those for whom panhandling is simply a trade, and a result of how they were raised. Some make a reasonable living depending on where their begging site is located.
We all need to decide whether we are going to enable or truly help. It makes our conscience feel better to throw a few bucks into their box, but perhaps it would be better to go to a shelter and write out a generous check.
I gave him a $10.
We ended up behind them at the stoplight where instead of turning south, toward St. George, they sped north and wove in and out of cars to get away from us (we were headed in the same direction). At one point we passed them, and I told my husband we should roll down the window and point them in the right direction!
Was I ripped off? Probably. But being generous is not bad, but next time I'll offer gas.
The trouble is that I have had people from out of town stop me downtown to ask for directions and who were not trying to get money so I don't want to walk away from someone who comes up and says they just want to ask a question.
I don't think the business license is such a bad idea though. I think this should apply to scalpers as well who work in front of events such as Jazz games. If other businesses have to get a license why not these people?
Also, I thought vagrancy was against the law.
Friday as my daughter and I were getting into our vehicle we had a female teen approach us for a ride and offered to pay us $2. No way Honey.
So Don't ask me. You are not getting a cent from me. Infact I still pick up pennies on ground. However these days I am thinking more people do that now... Because I am finding a lot less pennies.
There are many ways to meet the needs of the needy and the addicted without bestowing on them the "right" to destroy the public realm for everyone else.