'Kiss-in' held near Temple Square to protest incident
I am a southern, middle-aged lesbian and property owner who absolutely believes
in individual property rights. I am also totally grossed-out and offended by
heterosexual PDA. Why? I don't know. I just am. It just seems so unnatural.
I would hope that the Mormon church would "clamp down" on all forms of PDA just
to be fair, I think my position is equally moral. Lastly, I think that the
concept of "private ownership" is not so clear when owned by a tax
exempt-collective who is calling upon tax-funded peace officers to intervene on
a property that has all the appearances of a public space a park atmosphere.
From the earliest time, parks (as opposed to open fields) have been common
grounds. This "private" public place is at best, deception. The Mormon
organization should be taxed for it. Also what is this testimony thing? Sound
like cult language.
Is there a public service type sign within this area that states these "rules"?
If i was asked to leave a property due to a PDA, i could understand being
angered if it was not somewhere stated. I don't mean to say "stated on the news
or in a comment in a newspaper", i mean somewhere in plain sight on this
property. This is just my personal inquiry in an attempt to understand the full
story. I highly doubt that the church "saw them peck and whipped out a pair of
handcuffs", but that doesn't mean i agree with it. Either way, i would
appreciate a comment or even an article with a much more detailed turn of events
and the answer to my query. Thank You :)
1. Any self-respecting organization would want to gather the facts before
issuing a statement.2. The Church might, or might not, have security
footage of the incident. (Did I miss something, or has it been established that
such footage exists?) 3. It seems highly unusual that a simple kiss
on on the cheek would elicit a security response. As an Hispanic man, it is
customary for me to kiss my male friends, my brother, my sons, on the cheek. We
sometimes walk arm in arm down the street. I have done so countless times in the
area in question without eliciting such a security response.4.
Church security are highly trained individuals. If this were not the case,
surely complaints of this nature would have occurred more frequently.The Church maintains that more was occurring than a simple "kiss on the
cheek". I have to assume that there is some merit to this, as I have stated
before, that I have "kissed" many male acquaintances on the cheek with affection
in this same location without any problems.
I do not hate the Mormons. I am a mormon. I was meerly pointing out the
suspiciousness of the Church in waiting a week. If it is as you
say, "The Church isn't required to make a statement because it is a police
issue" Then why do they bother. I was taught to question my
surroundings, and read more into something to see if there is any other intent
other that what is said. I am sorry if me posting my train of
thought offended you.
The Church isn't required to make a statement because it is a police issue. I
am getting real sick of the "hate them because they are Mormon" attitude. Nope,
still not Mormon and never will be..will until some Mormon decides to do
something after I am dead, but I'm agnostic so it doesn't matter though I do
find it silly. Still though, the issue remains, their property their rules.
The funny thing I would have to say about this comment that you made, and the
churchroom made... Why is it being issued ONE WEEK after the original incident?
Why not issue it the next day. It would have a lot more credibility. Also, the
church has security footage of this incident, if they are bent on clearing the
air on what "really" happened, why not release the footage. Put to rest the
controversy.Maybe they won't do this because they are putting a spin
on it to make them look better, and if the real evidence was released, we would
see they are lying. Or maybe they don't want to add fuel to the
fire, want to take the high road. If that is the case I am fine with it, but if
it is again... Why a week later?
The government didn't "GIVE" temple square to the Mormons, the Mormon put in
sweat equity and MADE Temple Square. It is private property just as my home and
yard are private property. Just as I make rules for my property, so too may the
Mormons create their own rules. A Gay couple was on private
property and disobeyed the known rule...please do not suggest otherwise and no
I'm not a Mormon. It was a purposeful act with an agenda. This "kiss in" is
another agenda again on PRIVATE PROPERTY. I voted for gay marriage once...I
won't do it again.
"They were politely told"And the LDS newsroom "knows" this
More information has come to light about this incident. Why it was left out of
the original story is beyond my knowledge. However, the details provide more
context and would have never been brought to light had these two men not made
such a big deal out of it."As we [LDS Newsroom] said earlier on this
matter, these men were asked to stop engaging in behavior deemed inappropriate
for any couple on the Plaza. There was much more involved than a simple kiss on
the cheek. They engaged in passionate kissing, groping, profane and lewd
language, and had obviously been using alcohol. They were politely told that the
Plaza was not the place for such behavior and asked to stop. When they became
belligerent, the two individuals were asked to leave Church property. Church
security detained them and Salt Lake City police were called." (See
LDS Newsroom, July 17, 2009) The actions of these two gentlemen may
well have been addressed in a similar fashion in store or library. They did it
in spite looking for a fight and this should simply be laid to rest. Let's move
"I've talked to plenty of people who practice homosexual behavior and they
engage in it in pursuit of sexual gratification."If you believe the
above then the only reason you married was for sexual gratification. I know
hundreds of gay people, as my son is gay. I have lived with my son and his
partner. Their relationship is as fulfilling and their commitment is as
complete as any married couple I know. It is not any more about sexual
gratification than my marriage to my wife is. Love extends far beyond the sex.
They have been together long enough in a monogamous relationship to prove that
to me. That's where you are wrong. Your argument re: it's senseless
because there will be no kids is as dumb as saying people who don't want kids
and therefore don't should not get married. But maybe you'd say that too.
"... as the gathering was beginning to disperse, about 35 protesters crossed
onto church property and walked around the reflecting pond, eliciting a call to
police ..." As described, the lip-locks had taken place on
undisputed public-access land (non-LDS-controlled sidewalk), and were over. People who had attended the kiss-in -- but who, now, were perfectly
demure non-demonstrators -- then calmly went to the reflecting pond and were
forced to leave, despite behavior identical to everyone else who visited the
pond. Doesn't sound right, if their behavior/dress/etc. *while on
Church property* was unobjectionable. As described, they didn't go
onto Church property to protest. They went sightseeing *after* a protest. If the
report tells the whole story, they shouldn't have been asked to leave.
"When another establishment has a sign that says "no shirt, no shoes, no
service" and you don't have shoes on and they kick you out, does anybody put up
a fit?" Fair 'nuff. However, if I'm not wearing any
trousers, they've got to serve me, right?
I've talked to plenty of people who practice homosexual behavior and they engage
in it in pursuit of sexual gratification. I don't necessarily
choose my sexual feelings, but I do choose my sexual behavior, just like
everybody else does. The question of recognizing homosexual behavior through
marriage isn't one of "feelings," it's a question of what is best for society.
Since we need population growth moving forward (how else are we going to pay for
Obama's spending and proposed spending?), it makes no sense to recognize any
kind of sexual behavior (through marriage or civil unions) other than what
occurs between a man and a woman who are married to each other.Thank
you for pointing out my ignorance (like a teenager to a parent). Now please
tell me where I am wrong.
"Homosexual behavior produces and promotes nothing of value to society. It
actually harms society by eliminating two potential procreators. Homosexual
behavior is not one's identity. It is a chosen, unproductive, and unecessary
form of sexual gratification."And so goes the beat of uninformed
bigotry. Ever talked to a gay person? Asked them why they are gay? Asked them
what they get out of their relationship? Asked them how they feel about the idea
of having a heterosexual relationship instead?Did you choose your
heterosexuality? Your ignorance on the subject is highlighted by "It
(homosexuality)...is (an) unnecessary form of sexual gratification." You just
don't get it.
Religious behavior is a protected right...homosexual behavior is not. Here is why: religion produces a sense of self-worth, promotes
order, peace (the most violent killers of the last century were atheists of
Russia and China), and other society-benefiting virtues. Homosexual behavior produces and promotes nothing of value to society. It
actually harms society by eliminating two potential procreators. Homosexual
behavior is not one's identity. It is a chosen, unproductive, and unecessary
form of sexual gratification.Check out DemographicWinterdotcom. For
more information on the dangers of homosexuality to society.
@SJFirst someone posting here yourself, is kinda hypocritical chastising
me for posting.Second I have many outlets for my opinions, I'm just
slumming in UTAH today. You can find me at Huffington Post and most major LGBT
forums...oh you wouldn't even know where they are....nevermind.
Silly SJ.Anyone who does not enter a name is given the title
"anonymous." It probably IS several different people.
Mr. Anonymous seems to have been quite busy. He must not have a life so he
hangs out on here making multiple posts that are absurd at best and are supposed
to appear like they are from different people. Sad that this appears to be his
only outlet in life.
Tourists Utah is knocking themselves out trying to attract as your foreclosures
reach the top 5 states and jobs are dropping like flies. Aren't going to journey
back to 2 Centuries ago to spend their money in your bigotted Hate state.So keep having your temple goons attack couples, kinda like they murdered the
body guard of the elder who dared ordain a Black man. Same haters different
year.It's your homes and your jobs that you hurt.
I suggest you keep YOUR missionaries off gay's and lesbian's private property.
You aren't going to like OUR security guards knocking you to the ground, tie
wrapping your wrists behind your back, and screaming how DISGUSTING you are."treat others as you want to be treated"Guess you missed
Nice how Mormons insist that nobody judge ALL of them by the actions of a few
(like a certain seminary principal and pedophile), but then they use convenient
labels such as "the gay community" to attack and dismiss ALL gay people with one
harsh judgment!I guess by those standards, we are safe to say that
Mormons are all bigots, right?
"only those who don't follow the universally known guidelines."How
are they universally known? Did you know that public displays of affection were
not allowed on the plaza? I didn't. I thought it was a regular occurance for
couples to kiss and hug on these grounds. There is no listing of
guidelines once you enter nor is there a statement that you are now on private
property. How are these universally known? Please tell
me the universally known dress code for the plaza. They have one, you know.
We aren't normal. We're a peculiar people and proud of it. We aren't targeting
pedestrians, only those who don't follow the universally known guidelines.
"Well, that is exactly how the gay community is acting. Stop being a bunch of
whiny, screaming babies! It's really getting old. All of your protests and
whatever other dramatic production you can come up with isn't going to change
anything, it just makes you look bad. "How many showed up for that
Kiss-in? 60? 100?Do you have any idea how many gays there are
right here in the Salt Lake Valley? Please, yourself! Do not judge
all gays by the actions of a few. It is as unfair as judging all seminary
principals by...well, you can figure that out.
SLC residents,Ya do know NORMAL states don't give whole city blocks to a
THEOCRACY with their private goon squads targeting pedestrians...don't ya?
Have you ever seen a toddler throw a tantrum at the grocery store, or when they
are told that it is nap time.. Well, that is exactly how the gay community is
acting. Stop being a bunch of whiny, screaming babies! It's really getting old.
All of your protests and whatever other dramatic production you can come up with
isn't going to change anything, it just makes you look bad.
To Santa Claus | 9:29 a.m. July 16, 2009 "What rights are you talking
about? I assume it is not marriage because everyone has the right to marry."To the person that they want to? Like Loving v. Virginia, they were
allowed to marry the person that they wanted to. What legal reasons
do you have to keep two loving, committed gay people from marrying each other?
What rights are you talking about? I assume it is not marriage because everyone
has the right to marry.
On the 40th anniversary of Loving v Virginia, Mildred Loving released this
statement:"My generation was bitterly divided over something that
should have been so clear and right. The majority believed that what the judge
said, that it was God’s plan to keep people apart, and that government
should discriminate against people in love. But I have lived long enough now to
see big changes. The older generation’s fears and prejudices have given
way, and today’s young people realize that if someone loves someone they
have a right to marry....not a day goes by that I don’t think of
Richard and our love, our right to marry, and how much it meant to me to have
that freedom to marry the person precious to me, even if others thought he was
the “wrong kind of person” for me to marry. I believe all Americans,
no matter their race, no matter their sex, no matter their sexual orientation,
should have that same freedom to marry. Government has no business imposing some
people’s religious beliefs over others. Especially if it denies
people’s civil rights."
"The actual law says that different races can marry each other, but it's also
talking about men marrying women. There is nothing in it whatsoever about
homosexual marriages. "There is nothing about men marrying women
either. It just talks about "marriage."loving v. virginia:“ Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our
very existence and survival.... To deny this fundamental freedom on so
unsupportable a basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes,
classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart
of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State's citizens of
liberty without due process of law. The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the
freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious racial discrimination.
Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another
race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the State."Read Iowa's Supreme Court decision. It agrees with Loving v. Virginia that it
is a 14th amendment right.
You should try actually READING Loving v. Virginia before you make that comment.
The actual law says that different races can marry each other, but it's also
talking about men marrying women. There is nothing in it whatsoever about
" You can marry to. I can no more marry a man then you can. How is the law being
applied different?"That argument was dismissed with Loving v.
Virginia. People like you were arguing that Blacks and Whites both had the same
rights - they could marry someone of their own race! The Supreme Court said
Marriage is a right. You should be able to marry the one you love."What right you want that you don't have in civil unions?"Do you
live in Utah? There is a little thing here called Amendment 3 that states that
civil unions betweens gays are ILLEGAL! If only I could even get a civil
You know that is a specious argument. I am not able to kiss the one I love
which happens to be the same sex. Gay couples are treated differently than
hetero couples. And saying why don't you kiss someone of the opposite sex is
like saying go kiss your grandma...it just isn't the same.
Wrong. Privileges do not have equal protection. If that was the case
Polygamist would be marrying now. Your argument is not valid. The basic
argument is that I can do nothing that you can't. And I can't. The same law
that applies to you applies to me. Your choice is not a valid argument. You can
marry to. I can no more marry a man then you can. How is the law being applied
different? Now if made a law saying Gays cannot marry women but heterosexual
men can then you would be in the right. But you not so get over it. Come at it
from a different angle. What right you want that you don't have in civil
unions? That is a more productive use of your time.
NoRightToLove? Really? | 3:03 What does Saudi Arabia has to do with
anything? What a lame argument! I live in the US and it is here that I will
push for my rights. Why don't you build a LDS temple in Saudi Arabia (See, very
Since you cannot understand our constitution, let me try and put it in simpler
words.Marriage is a privilege that is given by the state. No state
should pass any law that abridges the privileges of any citizen of the United
States. As a United States citizen, you passed a law abridging my right to
marry. OK? Simple enough?
"She told me that she saw hundreds of her gay friends both male and female all
die from the dreaded disease of aids. She was the only one who survived."And you believed her? Lesbians do NOT contract AIDS through sex. They
actually have the LOWEST STD rate of any sexually active group, including
married heterosexuals!This story is very far fetched unless all her
lesbian friends were intro veinous drug users and shared needles, which has
nothing to do with being homosexual. You need to get an education
and not believe everything you hear.
Why are you talking about a celibate gay man for? Where did that even come
from? What we are talking about is my right to do the same thing that others
are allowed to do without consequence. That is, kissing whomever I choose. Gay
people are being singled out for being gay. You and I both know that hetero
couples kiss and hold hands in that plaza and they are not asked to leave.
You want to know what right to love is, I tell you what. Go to Saudi Arabia
have a Kiss In and tell me the results if you make it back. Now that is a state
that is taking away your rights. Better learn the difference so we will not get
all that Whine....
Santa you a Celibate Gay man what particular right is being in that amendment?
I did not tell you to cite the constitution I just asked you to name the right
a single Celibate Gay man is being denied. Basically you passed on the question
I guess that means there are none.
Here is a portion of the 14th amendment to the Constitution. Please pay
particular attention to the last clause. It means I have the same rights as you
do to assemble, to live, to love who I choose, etc. "Therefore, No State
shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities
of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of
life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person
within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws."
Santa Clause open your hears because you about to hear me say something you
never thought I would. You know you're right. So what I need you to do is list
for me your individual rights that are taken away by LDS or any other entity.
Remember individual is what the founding fathers envisioned. I know
you are going to say well "our" but really rights are individually assigned.
Benefits are the only thing we have in our system that takes two people to
recognize. Let's say you are going to be celibate the rest of your life what
right do you not have in your new celibate life style that others have? I
left a bunch of free space below for you to list them. But I think this is all
the space you will need. _____.
A second Kiss-in is planned at 12:15 this Sunday. Lets all go kiss our lovers
on Main St Plaza!
Many years ago I knew a woman name Nancy who used to work at the same job that I
was at. At the time, she was completely 100% straight. However she told me of
her past of being totally gay and always pro gay activist while she lived in
California. I asked her what made her change her lifestyle. She told me that
she saw hundreds of her gay friends both male and female all die from the
dreaded disease of aids. She was the only one who survived. She told me that
she knew that God was trying to tell her that being gay and homosexual was not
right. She turned her heart back to God and became a much happier person. I
hope others will learn from Nancy and turn back to the way God would want them
to be too.
Except that they can. Unless a "right" is specifically mentioned in the
Constitution, or is a universal right that everybody in the population has, it
can be granted or taken away with a single vote. Since the right to be married
isn't a universal right, each state votes on what they feel is acceptable in
their own society. Not one of the states has voted to accept homosexual
marriage, because it goes against the standards for decency the society feels
We are doing Something like this in Minneapolis. People just need to see it and
we need to come out and be cool with our self's ;0) Search Facebook for Big Gay
Kiss on the Mall.
Odd they never get after all the couples who make out after walking out of the
temple. Too bad the city government was corrupt in allowing that church to buy
that once public street and make it private. Shows the lack seperation in Utah
between church and state.
The United States of America is a republic. The founding fathers were well
aware that the majority was capable of running over the rights of the minority
and that is why we have a Bill of Rights. A large proportion of americans can
believe that there is a god or that homosexuality is wrong, but they cannot vote
to take away my rights because I feel differently than they do.
Well do you know what they say about men who SHOUT about their homosexuality?
Keep in mind it is not us that are asking to call our relationships the same as
Gays. Remember it's you guys that are trying to be just like Mike. You wanna
be like Mike. Like Mike if you could be like Mike.
"Being Gay is illegal in some states. And being Gay was illegal in far more
places in the past you are simply one law away from it happening again. States
voted in 2004 to remove yet more rights from Gays. Being Gay is breaking the law
in certain states are you going to tell those Gays to stop breaking the law?"Read Lawrence v. Texas and what the Supreme Court decided. Homosexuality is NOT ILLEGAL in any state of the Union. Please catch up with
what is real.
you know what they say about mean that have to SHOUT about their heterosexuality
Before you call people dinosaurs keep in mind no state has voted FOR Gay
Marriage yet. Gays have done back room deals that are probably going to make
sure that there is going to be a whole lot of CHANGE in 2010. If liberal
California is not down with it how do you think the rest of the country feels
about it? If my thinking is such like a dinosaur let's put it to a national
vote???? We will see who is dying out I do not talk the talk I walk the walk.
Put up what you got I am willing to abide by the vote what say you? You scared
of a dinosaur? You feel lucky Well DO YA?
You would have a far stronger case Anonymous if you were claiming Housing
discrimination, Job discrimination, voting discrimination, discrimination at a
restaurant, Being paid less then straights, Discrimination in college
admissions, discrimination of hospital treatment, being beat up for being Gay,
and this would sound better if the church simply asked you to leave for being
Gay not doing anything but politely sitting around minding your own business.
In the civil rights struggle they did that. They sat at the counter
politely not making a scene and not doing anything to get attention. That is
the part of the lesson Gays forgot. Besides trying to claim violation of rights
where it takes two people to make a case is bordering on the insane. I don't
expect you to answer the discrepancy just for you to call me stupid for even
bringing it up.
Re: Anonymous at 11:02 There is no god so your argument means nothing.
Being gay is not illegal in any state. Where do you get your information? I
think you just make things up because you don't have a leg to stand on. Your
outmoded thinking will go the way of the dinousaurs. You know dinosaurs, the
creatures that existed millions of years ago before man evolved.
Anonymous are you familiar with the term "But for the Grace of God Goes I"?, I
think not? Being Gay is illegal in some states. And being Gay was illegal in
far more places in the past you are simply one law away from it happening again.
States voted in 2004 to remove yet more rights from Gays. Being Gay is
breaking the law in certain states are you going to tell those Gays to stop
breaking the law?So that argument just does not wash. The only argument
that does wash is pursuit of happiness which means you have as much right as me,
the polygamist, the incest, bestiality or anyone else to pursue happiness. And
laws contrary to that are contrary to the spirit of the constitution. Although
the Supreme court thus far has decided to late the states decide which behavior
will be protected or not. So do not think you are in too different a position
then they are.
Why hide as "anonymous"?Is it beacuse you are one of the gay-hate
spammers who posts under a variety of names in order to appear that there a
number of people who share ytour misguided opinions?Is it because
you don not know or understand logic?Is it because you do not want
your friends to laugh at you for showing ignorance in not being able to post a
coherent thought?Is it because you have no rational answer and
defense for the irresponsible hate posted by the gay defenders of the
provocateurs who profaned Temple Square?Jordan
So it looks like most of you folks are upset with the uppity gays. As long as
we be quiet and stay in the closet then your comfort zone and view of the world
won't be disrupted. Well I hate to break it to you, but I won't be in the
closet, I won't sit at the back of the bus, and I will kiss my partner whenever
and wherever I want to. You can be shocked, you can be dismayed, you can say
that I am a sinner or worse, but I deserve the same rights that you have.
Based on the comments by Jordan, TJustSaying, george and others, they apparently
don't teach logic in the LDS Church or BYU! Too bad. I thought the glory of god
was intelligence! There is no glory in Utah!
How strange it is that gays show no respect for those with different views,
lifestyles, and while being in a small minority - studies repeatidly show gays
to be no more that 1% - 3% of the population - demand that the majority adopt
their actions as being something to celebrate.The more this gay hate
attack on the 97% - 99% of the population unfolds, the more the gay hate attack
focuses on religious organizations such as the LDS and Catholics, the less
respect and less tolerance I, and many others have for ALL gays.Having a hard time with why responsible gays - if indeed there are such - do
not denounce the actions of the gay haters who provoke, attack, and spew their
Homosexuality is not illegal, you're right. But refusing to leave private
property when asked to do so IS illegal, and that is why they were cited for
trespassing. If they would have left when asked, they wouldn't have been cited.
"Ask a polygamist if he is a polygamist based on your logic. I cannot
discriminate against him or her either. He says it's natural I cannot prove it
otherwise no more then I can prove your case. The same can be said of incest and
bestiality, or Asexuals. "Polygamy, Incest, beastiality are all
illegal. You can and should discriminate against those who are breaking the
law. Homosexuality is not illegal. There is the main difference.
The KKK actively petitions against minority equal rights. They do not believe
minorities should vote would it be a good idea to have a Kiss In in front of
their facility? Maybe we could accuse them of taking away minority rights
because they actively seek not only to remove minority rights but hopefully
deport all minorities. Now I doubt the KKK feels much different
about Gays but I have not heard or saw anyone in the Mormon church say Gays
should not vote or should be deported yet they are in front of their door
instead of the KKK. Talk about double talk. If the Mormons are
actively removing your rights should have not asked for a federal investigation
instead of a kiss in? If they are actively taking away your rights that is
against federal law.
Hey did you know that there was a Kiss in in Puebla Mexico also...There they
made it illegal, a ticketable offence to kiss because they didn't want lesbians
kissing in public, so the anual lesbian march stopped mid march to kiss...
Can a church or organisation have a set of rules that they live by, or must it
always be pathetically-labeled polically correct?We soon shall see
individuals and organisations bringing law-suits against the so-called bigoted
mormon church because the mormon church has a set of beliefs that it claims to
have against a certain life-style.So, I am wondering, when will
Chevez Regal or Marlboro bring charges against the mormon church because the
mormons don't believe in drinking whiskey and smoking?
Can't we all just get along? Really.
This immature behavior has got to stop. It only hurts the gays and their
reputation. It does not hurt the LDS church. The gay rights movement has become
hostile, arrogant, and hateful. The only gays that deserve protection are those
not involved and that have respect for others. These protesters who stick up for
ones who break the law like Derick and Matt are at fault for the damage done.
It's kind of funny that 'Waste' capitalizes the word, "gay." Their behavior
doesn't deserve that kind of respect.
Yes. Let's all admit we are being stupid and move on. By arguing, we are
giving the LGBT community exactly what they want: attention and sympathy for
their cause. Conservative Utah is surely the last place that gay marriage will
be legalized, let alone recognized. Sorry for the publicity.Enough
MARRAIGE IS BETWEEN MAN AND A WOMAN ONLY NO IFS, ANDS, OR BUTS ABOUT IT. END OF
STORY! GET OVER IT! MOVE ON! GAY PEOPLE NEED TO LIVE LIKE CIVIL PEPOLE JUST LIKE
ANY OTHER PERSON DOES, GIVE RESPECT TO THE PLACES YOU ARE. IF YOUR AT A CHURCH
NO CHURCH THAT I KNOW SUPPORTS GAY MARRAIGE, HAVE RESPECT WHEN AND AROUND ANY
CHURCH PROPERLY. COME ON PEOPLE. IF I WENT TO A GAY PLACE AND BASHED GAY PEOPLE
FOR BEING GAY I WOULD BE JUST LIKE YOU (IN SALT LAKE CITY)! I WOULD NEVER DO
THAT NOR SHOULD YOU. THE 2 GUYS SHOULD HAVE KNOW BETTER ABOUT KISSING AT A PLACE
WHERE GAYS ARE NOT SUPPORTED. DUH COMMION SENICE PEOPLE
Is there a big sign on the walkway that says "Private Property - No
'Inappropriate' People Allowed"??
these homosexual groups are trying to provoke the LDS church so they can make
some sort of statement they are being picked on. Give me a break! I don't like
seeing two men kiss and I don't want to see them kissing in front of a church or
temple that people consider holy. These homosexual groups are mocking all people
of faith, and thier agenda for America is too destory every faith in America
that opposes thier deviant life style, now YOU know it's true, I know it's true,
but we are letting these idiots tie our hands behind our backs with thier
promotion of the homosexual life style. I live in MA and these homosexual groups
by passed the people's vote, including mine, and got the Statehouse to pass this
gay marriage bill..We the people need to stand up stronger to these groups
before they destroy every decent thing in America with thier flith. They are
targeting our young school kids now, so watch out!
To The Lame your name is fitting. Here is why. Everyone wants to be some
group. Those of us who have valid provable claims get to be one. There are a
million people who want special status. How are we supposed to judge who is
going to have the protection of law? Your way is to base it off of popular
opinion. But the law needs standards. We have to set standards on how people
become protected groups or we will have ciaos.The separation of Church and State
is just that separation. They do not ask for special benefits. They do not
want the state to perform security at the church. They do not seek federal
money to keep the lights on or federal aid of any kind. If you are saying Gays
fit that description then I stand corrected. Ask a polygamist if he is a
polygamist based on your logic I cannot discriminate against him or her either.
He says it's natural I cannot prove it otherwise no more then I can prove your
case. The same can be said of incest and bestiality, or Asexuals.
To Waste,"So calling yourself a group is putting the cart before the
horse. First you need to be able to tell us how you can tell if people are
Gay."Since when do civil rights depend on scientific and DNA
evidence that a person is a human being?Our Constitution protects
YOUR civil rights against infringement on the unfair basis of your religion.
Tell me, how can you tell if you are Mormon? If you SAY you are Mormon, then you
cannot be discriminated against on that basis! So YOU already prove your own
(stupid) requirements: Ask a gay person if they are gay. If they say "yes" then
you cannot discriminate against them based on their sexual preference.Is that too difficult for your puny brain to handle? Go get genetic testing,
and if you are a member of a group of Down's syndrome people, then we will cut
you some intellectual slack. Otherwise, admit you are being stupid and move on.
"Put a Sign up saying No Same Sex Affection of any Kind allowed. Either that or
wall the doggone thing up. "How about two women holding hands and/or
two men holding hands with a big circle around it and a big diagonal line
through it. I would understand that sign.
Put a Sign up saying No Same Sex Affection of any Kind allowed. Either that or
wall the doggone thing up.
" If you don't like Utah's definition of a civil union, there are several states
that will recognize your rights."Utah does NOT have civil unions!
They will not even pass non discrimination legislation. Either you
have rights by the US Constitution, or you don't. The constitution says that
every state must honor the public acts, records and judicial proceedings of
every other state. Tell me why this is not happening...
Please read the police report. They thought they were on public property. They
did not know that they were being confronted by security guards at first. They
admit that they became agressive in their speech. They had seen plenty of other
couples hug and kiss and thought they were being singled out for being gay.
They admit they had been drinking, but NO ONE was arrested for being drunk.
The church is no more discriminating against you then Robert who has 10 wives or
Ned who is married to his estranged sister Nilda. They do not believe in
Polygamy, Incest, Homosexuality, and a whole host of other things.You cannot even claim a protect status as a group until you can prove
scientifically how I would tell if a new born baby is Gay or not. Maybe you
can answer why 20 and 30 year old people say I thought I was Gay but then I
found out I like women too. I have seen the questions myself and had no
answer.The truth be told no one is for sure how sexuality is
determined. So calling yourself a group is putting the cart before the horse.
First you need to be able to tell us how you can tell if people are Gay.
Looks like this gay couple got exactly what they were looking for...1-
Their names in the papers.2- Sparking up the controversy again over gay
rights.I would say with all the hoo-hah that has been done about this
story, it was well worth their time.
I know my taxes are used to promote homosexuality and gay pride in liberal
dominated Salt Lake City, but I still should have the right to go there, on
private property,and not have my children visually raped by those who would
force us to watch and explain their homoSEXUAL activities. You're free to do
what you want in your rooms, but the LDS people still have some dwindling
rights. And, while our rights to free speech have been taken away by the ACLU
and other hateful activists (even in the deserts of Wyoming, on property which
we have leased with no people for miles, Big Brother is still watching and
censoring out religion, while on and around our property people freely
vandalize, desecrate, and disrupt with malice-megaphones)yet, we still own
property, and, have a small right to request that people not participate in SOME
hateful, sexual, and other activities on our property. (And, if you think they
were there because they love Mormons you have a lot to learn.) I can't see the
"positive" message in lawberaking and promoting the intended hatred against
Mormons that you see here in the comment section.
You have a point, but you are forgetting that Temple Square has the right to set
their guidelines. Whether you like it or not, what the Church did was
completely appropriate.Anonymous @ 1:16 pm, the Church will never
back down on it's view of the family. You also say that the Church is
"anti-gay." You make it sound like the Church hates gays, which they don't.
They simply believe that the family is essential and marriage should be between
a man and a woman. If you don't like Utah's definition of a civil union, there
are several states that will recognize your rights. I don't have anything
against gay people. I just don't approve of their choice of sexuality.
If church security asks all couples to stop kissing, than it may be heavy-handed
but its not really an issue. But, if they only ask same-sex couples to stop
kissing, than its discrimination.I really don't understand why the
LDS church continues to give itself a black eye over this issue. Same-sex
marriage is coming: look at the public opinion by age group. A decade or two
from now the church will be embarrassed about its anti-gay stance and will try
to spin, deny or cover it up.
" Which individual right have they denied you of "How about the Full
Faith and Credit Clause (Article IV, Section 1, US Constitution.)I
have been married in Massachusetts yet I am denied the privilege of enjoying the
benefits of that union here in Utah. Totally unconstitutional, yes?
"Comparing this incident to racial discrimination in a private diner is
unnecessary and a bad argument. Doesn't the Church allow everyone to see Temple
Square regardless of their race, religion, or sexual orientation? Yes. This IS
different. Once the gay couple didn't adhere to the property's guidelines, they
gave up the privilege to be there."Let's compare it to the white
only lunch counter. Blacks could use the luncheonette too, but not the same way
that whites could. Heterosexuals kiss and hug all the time in the
plaza. It is only the gays that must walk through without holding hands or
Anonymous Mormons are not in Government at any level. There is a separation of
church and state so they are litteraly in capable of that charge. You are
basically lying on them. They cannot deny you of anything they do not have the
power to do. Which individual right have they denied you of Anonymous? Name me
one thing the law specifically says you cannot do that someone else can do? I.E
vote? What about the right to assemble? What about the right to fair trial?
Maybe they are allowed to speak to their representatives and you can't? Maybe
they are allowed to petition the people for their support and you can't? Maybe
they are allowed to raise money for their cause and you can't? Help me out here
or are you just throwing a tantrum spouting off talking points? Show me the
exact law in the constitution tell me what amendment or shut it...
Comparing this incident to racial discrimination in a private diner is
unnecessary and a bad argument. Doesn't the Church allow everyone to see Temple
Square regardless of their race, religion, or sexual orientation? Yes. This IS
different. Once the gay couple didn't adhere to the property's guidelines, they
gave up the privilege to be there. Also, why do people always turn
incidents where they assume the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints is
at fault into a bashing frenzy? If others who commented only knew how much it
hurts when they call my church "a Church full of bigots."
Do Utahans have a basic understanding of law?"...I think the real
reason the ACLU waited until after the plaza was finished to bring suit was
because they much preferred to protest in a park than on a street where they had
to watch for cars."Could the reason have been the UCLU has no cause
for a suit until the plaza was built. You can't sues for what hasn't happened
anymore than you can't be arrested until you commit a crime.You have
a group that purchases an public easement over 150 years old. No other church in
Utah or our nation has been able to do this. You wonder why those you oppress
don't like you.I feel more empathy for the people of Missouri daily.
Mormons can't get a long with others. They lack empathy to others.
This private property argument is tired and ill-informed. If you provide public
access to your private property, you can't then discriminate either in policy or
in application of it. Businesses own (or at least own the rights to use) their
buildings. Is it legal -- not to mention moral -- to prohibit black people from
eating at your private diner? No. This isn't any different.
good anonymous, because us bigots didn't want you to waste your time with us
either. I guess everybody is happy then?
I am an active member of the LDS Church, and I support this "kiss-in". I don't
believe the actions of LDS security were appropriate. I would much rather see a
public display of affection between two men than a public display of bigotry.
To John Pack Lambert,"I had a roommate whose in-laws who were not
members became more sympathetic to the Church after seeing the tactics used by
the protestors on the plaza."That's funny. I was an active,
Temple-recommend-holding member of the Church until I saw how the Church is
attacking the civil liberties of gays and lesbians. Now I am much more
sympathetic to gays and lesbians and am thinking I don't want to waste my time
in a Church filled with bigots.
To Waste,How is depriving gays and lesbians of equal protection
under the law "respecting" their rights to believe AND LIVE as they would
like???You Mormons have the most twisted logic I have ever seen!
it would be a "little bit of Paris" just like they said. Silly me.
"Maybe it is time for the city of Salt Lake to use its power of eminent domain
to relieve the church of said plaza" Maybe it's time the state used its power
of eminent domain and relieve the LGBT organizations of their buildings. Or
maybe they can foreclose on all houses owned by Gays???? Yeah is that
discrimination yes it is just like the state using eminent domain on that church
is discrimination. Remember do onto others as you would have them do onto you.
The church respects your right to believe as you do and to fight for it. But
when the church does the same they are not afforded the same respect.
Our House. Our Rules. Follow The Rules. No Displays of Public Affection on the
Plaza, Means Just That.You cannot warm up your Hetro Honey for the
trip back to the Marriot either.The Church wants the area Uptight
and Affection Out of Sight.It is Church Property, bought and Paid
for, Plain and Simple.The couple was asked to leave, then they
needed to leave.Common Since should have said to simply leave them
alone and let them move on through the Plaza. However The Church did Nothing
Wrong in asking them to leave or having them arrested when they did Not
Leave.They where Breaking The Rules which I assume are Posted
Somewhere.Why I would want to be Gay, and live in Utah is beyond me,
but that is the couples legal right. However they cannot break the Rules Gay or
Not.Most people to include me should have better things to do then
even be remotely concerned about this topic. AOL Says it was 100
people. They have thousands of comments none of them mine, because their board
moves way to fast.
Maybe it is time for the city of Salt Lake to use its power of eminent domain to
relieve the church of said plaza
People might wonder why churches are not more vocal of the Gay lifestyle. I am
pretty sure I know the most vocal protest against that lifestyle are the Gays
themselves you just sit back let them be them and enjoy the show. You just cue
up tape like those two gentlemen and you just say enough said. I
cannot believe they refuse to learn from history and how others have conducted
civil rights fights. Oh well those that do not learn from history are doomed to
not only repeat it but in all likely hood fail. History smimish we got our own
Gay Rights Peaceful Demonstration - What an Oxymoron
This is so funny....Re: Does anyone | 3:16 | 5:24 p.m. July 13,
2009Yes, I agree. Lets get a list. Then I can make sure I spend my money
at LDS owned businesses. And while we are at it I'd like to get a list of
businesses that support gay rights so I can make sure I don't spend my money
Religion is not a democracy. We do not get to vote on what we are going to
follow. Either you are down with it or you find a new gig. If their bible
tells them homosexuality is wrong that's the end of discussion no changing their
minds. You would no more want them trying to go to your place of work or your
home trying to change your mind to save your soul. Just like they do not want
you trying to educate them to the benefits of the Gay lifestyle. This is not a
dictatorship and people are not obliged to support homosexuality. We are in a
democracy so we can always agree to disagree and leave it at that. And that
means they can fight for their side just as you can fight for yours.
I am sure there are many good people who are gay. I have a feeling though that
those who were heading up this happening on Temple Square were paid radicals
not Gays wanting to stir up trouble.Sad but true this happens quite often
in other incidents.
Well PhillyCome to the table with facts and not your unitelligible
drivel, and you won't have to be put in your place. You're Gay and
you don't like the fact that the LDS Church does not condone your way of
life.Don't pretend you know what you are talking about regarding the
Church Plaza when you don't. When you state falsehoods, expect to be
challenged.Live and let live, I say. The gauntlet was
thrown down by 2 gay guys who sought and attained an altercation. The
provacaters here was not the Church but your buddies. If anyone
arrives on your porch and you ask them to leave, I will will defend your right
with you, to have them arrested for trespassing. Private property is
sacred is this Country. Respect it, no matter who it belongs to, or be held
accountable. That applies to everyone of us.
That includes you. I think it is funny when Utahans make fun of Utahans. You
are making fun of yourself. hahahahahah
Yes, I agree. Lets get a list. Then I can make sure I spend my money at LDS
owned businesses. And while we are at it I'd like to get a list of businesses
that support gay rights so I can make sure I don't spend my money there.
I'm sick of people attacking the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints
because of their position on homosexuality. Temple Square security politely
asked the gay couple to refrain from their behavior. Instead, they decided to
make a demonstration out of it. They made a scene and shouted obscenities.
Perhaps security blew the whole situation out of proportion, but remember that
this is private property. This means that you need to follow certain
guidelines. Clearly the gay couple was at fault.
Well, OF COURSE it was staged!They were filming for Bruno II.
You Moron. The Mormon Church didn't turn this into a political issue. The
publicity seeking idiot gay guys with the hidden agenda did.The
church didn't call a press conference or attempt to further antagonize the
situation by organizing a protest rally the next day.Did a bunch of
missionaries show up at the 2 gay guys house and start reading "The Family: A
Proclamation to the World" by megaphone while standing in their front yard? Or
circle up hand in hand and start singing, "I am a Child of God" or "Keep the
Commandments"?A public plaza on private property is just that,
private. Using the word "Public" doesn't give you the right to behave boorishly,
inappropriately or in bad taste. If you go to a public park or a school
playground you have rules to follow, if you walk through naked, drinking alcohol
or shouting profanities, you will be asked to leave. it's not that hard to
figure out.and who cares about Europeans? They have nothing to do
It's true the church doesn't pay taxes on all of it's holdings. But they more
than make up for it with the millions upon millions they contribute annually in
Humanitarian relief, both in materials and volunteer manpower hours.BTW, Gay rights organizations are non-profit and don't pay taxes either yet I
don't remember hearing about them sending thousands of volunteers or millions of
dollars in food, clothing, etc during the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina. Why
aren't you clammering for them to pay their fair share of taxes?! They don't
contribute anything to make the world a better place, they apparently just go
around causing trouble for others.
You wouldn't go to a Jewish Synagogue and start eating pork would you? And if
you did no one would blame them for asking you to leave. If they wanted to
kiss, they only had to walk out of church property and no one would care.
People need to understand that the church isn't a democracy. You can protest
all you want but God isn't going to change his mind just because you disagree.
the positive point was showing the stuffy mormons that even when 2 women make
out in the street in front of the church, the sky doesn't open and the world
doesn't fall apart.so all your paranoia about gays is just your
little willy-nilly way of trying to make everyone just like you. And you know
what? no one wants to be like you. what a boring place the world would be if we
were just like you....
What was positive about this demonstration? Trespassing on private property to
stick your finger in the eye of the church? Trying to bread discont and discord
among individuals? I don't see anything positive about this.
Does anyone have a list of all LDS properties and businesses so I can take my
money somewhere else?
Isn't all this controversy fun!!!?I'm not mormon but I'm glad I live here,
so much entertainment! It's like everyone that lives here acts like teenagers!
The church isn't standing against "gay" men, it's standing against "gay"
behavior. Each person has a CHOICE as to what behavior to engage in, so there
is no hate directed toward any individuals, which would be wrong if there was.
These two kissing dudes knew exactly what they were doing. It is not like they
did not understand the LDS church's stance on the gay situation. They were
there to make a statement. The church doesn't force its values on all people,
they had the right to chose to react however they wanted, but remember there are
consequences to actions. There has to be an accountability factor here. Those
gay men got what they chose, that was thier choice. They knew what they were
doing. This was not ignorance. This was a slap in the face.
This is what LDS did. They went out and won support for their position on Gay
Marriage. They fought and won the support they needed in California and passed
the bill. This is what the Gay community did, they had a tantrum because they
lost and now want to break the law to show their disapproval. Basically blaming
everyone for why they lost. Gays are working hard with stunts like this so next
time this comes to a vote they can have even less support then they currently
A "Kiss-in"? Really? 60 people attended? What a joke...
A lot of comments on here are stating that the Church "Attacked" the Gay/lesbian
communities? How so? Because they didn't give in and go against everything they
stand for regarding gay marriage? Well, if that is what you concider "attacking"
What do you call the kind of hatred that is coming from you? It seems to me that
all of the "attacking" has come from anti-LDS people who feel the need to step
onto church property and cause unnessesary disturbances. When the day comes that
they are actually in front of your homes wearing their stupid little pink hearts
protesting some stupid issue, then you will have something to complain about
And Thank YOU for showing how discriminatory YOU are. Until the day where
members of the Church come onto YOUR property to show acts of hate, mind your
own business and get on with your life. Go ahead and find something else to cry
the day you only have "one more thought" will be the day.
Wait I don’t understand something John if the LDS church is a religious
institution why are the in the for profit sector of running malls. Oh
that’s right they are "separate" until you need to argue they "do pay
taxes" silly me. by the way this is the third time I have tried to make a
comment about the churches little slight of hand when it comes to this but funny
thing the DN keeps failing to post it. Oh that’s right they are another
for profit owned by the LDS church. well probably wont see this one posted
either but at least the moderator gets another point of view.
Whatsoever you do to the least of my brethren - so you do unto me. Judge not,
lest ye be judged. Before worrying about the splinter in your brother's eye,
take the plank out of your own. Turn the other cheek. Love others as well as
you love yourself. Why are these commandments so routinely broken by Christians?
A supportive note to Paul S., I really appreciate your posts. It
appears that there are too many parks in downtown Salt Lake City and so people
can't keep them straight. The Church has done too much to beutify the area, so
people get confused about the details behind the various projects. I had
a roommate whose in-laws who were not members became more sympathetic to the
Church after seeing the tactics used by the protestors on the plaza. One
more tought, I think the real reason the ACLU waited until after the plaza was
finnished to bring suit was because they much prefered to protest in a park than
on a street where they had to watch for cars.
Substitute GAY with BLACK and the entire story would look differently - and I'd
LOVE to hear you try and justify that. The point I'm making is that while you'd
think twice before denying access to a PUBLIC AREA (private property or not) by
any other minority - you think it's perfectly acceptable to be homophobic
You all are just beating a dead horse, here. You all really have nothing better
to do than sit there are force your opinions on others.. how sad is that. This
subject is never going to get past the point it is at now. So forget about it
and get a life. Also, if living in Utah is THAT terrible, you are more than free
to leave. We'd be happy to see you go
The REALLY important things are right here in Utah. Judging by the quantity of
posts the REALLY important things are the Main Street Plaza and the Stadium of
Fire ISSUES. But Iraq, the Congo and the Sudan do affect you Mr. and Mrs. Utah.
Neil Diamond tells you how. "Coming to America" as refugees from all the
violence in Africa and the Middle East. Your tax dollars paid for the invasion
of Iraq and the anarchy there. Your taxes pay for the thousands of refugees
being settled in Utah and in the United States. President Obama is correct when
he says Africa needs to stop destroying itself with violence and corruption.
America needs to not shoot itself in the foot AGAIN in the future (example
Iraq) and to support prosperity and good government in the Third World. And for those Obama detractors, YES we need more prosperity and good
government here in Utah and the USA. The devil is in the details.
To Philip, The LDS Church did not buy the plaza. They bought a
stinking piece of raod with lots of concreate, that was part of way too many
roads. So the Church bought the property for a few million, and then
paid to tear out the ugly concreate and create a beutiful and wonderful plaza.
A good analogy would be, would the Catholic Church tolerate a gay couple
making out on the property of Sacred Heart Cathedral in Detroit. This is
sacred space right by the Salt Lake Temple, we do not want people displaying
same-sex affection there. This was clearly a display of people who have a
sexual attraction to eachother, and to try to claim it was anything else is just
to ignore the facts. It also appears that the perpetrators stopped
intentionally close to the Salt Lake Temple to make their desicration all the
more galling. They may have even planned it so they would offend temple workers
on their way home.
This was NOT about PDA, people. It was about TRESSPASSING! I love how these
kinds of things get twisted up into something about the Church. Yes, it was
Church property and Church security. But that's all. The two gentleman could
have shown some respect and done as they were asked. They were asking for
trouble and they got what they deserved when they wouldn't comply.
This is great news coverage of this incident..... THE THE SL LIBUNE ON THE OTHER
HAND HAS A FRONT PAGE PICTURE of some a-typical gay old geezer in a lock lip
with some 15 yr old gay partner....SICK!!....THREW UP my breakfast!
"Things like Gender Identity Disorder are fed by such casual displays of
homosexual behavior." really? I have masters degree in mental health and been a
mental health professional for over 20 years and read mountains of research on
childhood development this is a new one to me care to share your references?
there gay.. so they should be treated differently. get off the church grounds
To the 6:38 commentator, The Church has the unequivocal right to take
all actions neccesary to prevent demonstrations on its property. This means
they can declare individuals personas non gratis because of participation in a
demonstration and ban their entrance on the property in theory indefinantly. In
this case they had on multiple occasions told the demonstrators not to come on
the property and then they willfully and knowingly disobeyed the order.
What surprises me is that the police did not cite these people for protest. The Church has an unequivocable right to decide what dehavior is ok and what
is not ok on its property. Although the rules clearly apply to PDA of
all kinds, acceptable homosexual displays of affection are a contradiction in
terms, and the church has the right to decide what is an is not acceptable
showing of affection on its property. The analogy to inter-racial couples
is both stupid and immaterial. Sex is a clear and absolute physical
characteristic. Race is a social construct. Even its boundaries are complexed
and often contradictory. My question to you, would you object to seeing
a Korean man holding hands with his Japanese wife?
When I was a nursing mother, I knew that some might not be comfortable with my
nursing in public (even with a cover), so I never did it, except in places
designated or appropriate to do so.Nursing is a very natural and right
thing to do, but many people consider it uncomfortable in public.So, most
mothers are considerate of the feelings of the public and are very discreet
about it.Why couldn't these two men be respectful and considerate of
the place they were, and refrain from an activity that might be uncomfortable
for the majority that would be there?It's just a matter of respect,
and they had none!
To the 5:26 poster, First off, you are engaged in a hard core false
attack. Liberty University has no policies against inter-racial dating.
You are thinking of Bob Jones University. However that is not actually an
issue, because Bob Jones University revoked its rules against inter-racial
dating. They have only been brought up recently to fuel false charges.
Anyway, this was not just a couple holding hands. This was a couple doing a
full make-out session. Beyond this, you assume that race can be easily
identified. The black and white couple I think of first, or at least that I
know by far the best, involves a man who does not look black at all but he
certainly has ancestors who were slaves in the United States, which makes him
more of a truly historic black than our current President.
Paul S., are you always this abusive with people you don't agree with? Am I
suppose to cringe at this abuse? My strength comes in knowing that more and more
straight people are accepting gay people just as they are. Yes, even some
Mormons and Catholics. I hope Mormon gays especially take away that knowledge
from this discussion. Utah will just have to be on the wrong side of history
To sleepdawg, Properties in Salt Lake City have been sold to a great
many churches by the city. Some how in other cases no one found a need to bring
a suit. I have been in other cities council meetings were an easement
was vacated to a church without anyone commenting on it, and the case I am
thinking of involves a city where city council meetings regularly run seven
hours because of people commenting on virtually everything. The reason
to sell the street was that with so many LDS developments on both sides, cross
traffic was becoming an issue and people were in great danger of being hurt. If
you really don't like the rules, just walk around the outside of the bloc, it
won't kill you that's for sure. Most Americans need more exercise.
"I'm amazed that people can LEAVE the Church but not LEAVE THE CHURCH ALONE."As soon as the Church leaves the rest of us alone and stops sending
50,000 missionaries out, and as soon as the Church stops calling me and my
family members trying to get phone numbers for the membership department, and as
soon as the Church leaves gays and lesbians alone and stops interfering with
their rights, THEN we will leave the Church alone!Until that day,
expect us to interfere and intervene!
Any sort of protest can go from peaceful to out of control in the blink of an
eye. I wouldn't want people protesting on my doorstep no matter what the cause
or how peaceful they seemed at the moment. These people have the
whole rest of the world in which to protest, make their point and push their
agenda. If they're choosing to be right in peoples faces about it they can't
pretend their motives are inocent or benevolent.When you go on the
offensive you have to expect to be treated as a threat and not as a friend. A
protester on neutral ground may claim to be peaceful, but when they're standing
on your doorstep it's a different story. The fact that the land is public
property may make it legal, but it doesn't make it neutral ground.
To the 4:46 commentator, My first guess is because there is a greater
desire to push anything against the Mormon Church. The attack on the LDS Church
in Olympia, Washington has been better covered than the one on Mount Hope
Christian in Lansing, Michigan. Both were done by the anarchist group Bash
Back. Why this group even cares about Prop 8 is incomprehensible, they want to
abolish all government, so disliking people restricting what it does is
illogical. That said, the Washington Case involved mere vandalism, while
the Michigan case involved invasion of the church during services, shouting
things like "Jesus was gay", throwing around condoms and setting off the fire
alarm. The amazing thing is that this flagrantly illegal act did not make it
into any papers here. On the El Paso case, the first I heard about it
was when the ACLU decided to sue the El Paso Police Department for not
prosecuting the restraunt for removing disruptive patrons. I think why
the Salt Lake Case gets more coverage is because there are fewer witnesses, and
with the limited public acces rules it is not a pure private property issue,
evidently you can never fully buy property.
Wake up unless God comes back on earth and say you know guys I was wrong about
that Homosexual thing please except it as an alternative lifestyle there is no
way these churches are going to bend their beliefs to satisfy some powerful
interest group. Unless you can show some right the church is violating then you
have no case. If they were going to Gay people's house and reading bible versus
then you could accuse them of religious extremism. Religious intolerance and
extremism is what they have in Iran.
The article was from July of 2003. Excuse the typo.
From an article printed in the Des News in July of 2007 - "The deal
for the city to give the Church its easement on the plaza closed on Monday at
11:00 a.m. As of that time, pedestrians no longer have the legal right to walk
through the plaza. Church officials, however, say the plaza will remain open to
the public for the foreseeable future. Still, The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints will have the right to control how people behave or dress and
what they can and can't do or say on its property."There it is, in
full compliance with the law. Pedestrians are guests allowed on the plaza only
because the LDS church is willing to let them walk on it. The church also has
the right to ask anybody to leave who doesn't comply with their standards of
decency in dress, speech and behavior. Once they ask you to leave,
any rights you had until that point are gone. If you refuse to leave, you're
trespassing and are able to be arrested and escorted off the property. If you
argue, that can add to the charges. End of story.
You had to see this demonstration coming....
The claim that the LDS Church does not pay property tax is false. It most
certainly does pay property taxes on its mall properties, on many of the ranches
it operates, and actually pays property tax on the London Temple. I do
not know if it pays property tax on the mainstreet plaza, but it payed serveral
million dollars to purchase that property. However, the Church most
certainly does pay propety taxes on many of its properties.
Anonymous - The answer as to why some will not leave the LDS Church alone is
simple. Because they did not leave others alone. When you attack families who
are not LDS and change a constitution to deny them equal access to government
programs, they are going to be angry. Not so difficult to understand.Before you all go off about the LDS Church didn't change the Calornia
constitution, the voters did, blah, blah, blah. Your own (LDS) lobbyist
explained how 88% of the volunteer effort were from the LDS Church and a
majority of the money came from the LDS Church and it's members. When LDS
temple workers were pulled from their assignments to promote amendment H8, its
hard for any rational human being to deny the impact.And that would
include your own (LDS hired) lobbyist who admitted if the LDS Church had not
played such a significant role, it would not have passed.
All those who are claiming this was a mere peck on the lips are speaking
falsehoods. They were "hugging and Kissing". Some statements suggest that even
that is too moderate a description. From what some have said, it appears
that what these men were doing would have been called out if any two people had
been doing it on the plaza. I tend to believe that Kim Farah is telling
the truth, and that the Church has clear policies against public displays of
affection like this couple was doing. No self-respecting parent would tolerate
their children watching what this couple was doing, no matter what the genders
of those involved were.
How will you ever achieve equal rights? You are making so many enemies with
stunts like this. You do not have equal rights yet you continue to engage in
counter productive nonsense. If you were running my civil rights movement I
would fire you without pay. You can catch more flies with honey then with
vinegar. Private property means private. The Catholic church says
a Priest has to be celibate to join. We can complain that this discriminates
against heterosexual people because they cannot marry. I guess asexual people
would not feel a thing wrong. But the rules clearly state you must be celibate.
There is no debate. I guess if you are Gay you must practice the
same celibacy. Rules are part of religion if you do not like the rules find a
different religion. Simple right versus wrong. Acting like a Assss is not
going to win you support.
This is why they went there for ! to cause and Issue!Why else would they
be there!Get a life ! And respect those who do not want your
I'm amazed that people can LEAVE the Church but not LEAVE THE CHURCH ALONE.
Dude, if I left an organization because of belief-differences you can bet I'd
never go near it again. These people are unreal.
Why would someone who is Gay or Lesbian walk across property owned by an
organization/group that is internationally know for being anti-gay?Wouldn't you want to avoid any association this organization? This groups has
spent millions and spend exhorbitant hours explaining their disdain for Gays &
Lesbians, as well as promoting laws that discriminate against Non-LDS American
citizens.Wouldn't the "Ick" factor or "Guilty by Association" make
you want to avoid this group at all cost? If you don't support discriminatory
behaviour, wouldn't you avoid being around those that promote discrimination?
I would much rather see a public display of affection between two men......than see a public display of intolerance, bigotry, and religious
This has nothing to do with private property. The premise was that the church
does not permit public displays of affection on its property. But we all know
this is not true as every day, of every week, it is practiced in a very public
way. This was about whom, not what.Now these gents out of respect
should have honored the property owners beleifs, even if they did not personally
share them. It was in poor taste. This is not a mormon problem, but a problem
many churchs face whose property is deemed a tourist destination.The
bigger problem is not that the church was within its rights, but how and when
they choose to enforce those rights. There are many times in life that being in
the right but at the wrong time creates a public relations nightmare. And that
is what the church has here. Rather than let two disrespectful individuals move
on, they put the spot light on them, giving the world a chance to criticise the
church for the uneven application of its own rules. If kissing is
banned, it should be banned for all. Not just for those to whom you object.
I have yet to see a "peaceful" demonstration by a gay group yet!!!
As a mother, it seems that in addition to the intolerance of the GLBT community
toward others' beliefs they are forgetting that homosexual behavior is
considered a deviant sexual behavior to members of The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints and always will be short of divine revelation to the contrary
(regardless of how many protests they make). As loving parents it is our job to
keep as much unnecessary societal filth from our children as we can. Having
children exposed to such homosexual behavior is age-inappropriate for young
children. To appropriately explain such behavior is beyond their ability to
grasp. It's the same reason you wouldn't take young children to a violent or
sexually overt movie without it having consequences on their development. Things
like Gender Identity Disorder are fed by such casual displays of homosexual
behavior. For the sake of society such behavior at the very least needs to
remain private. As much as GLBTs may not want to accept LDS beliefs and
sensitivities, I hope they will have the decency to respect our children.
Fred,Your missionaries do that all the time!Get a clue,
To@paul sYou are simply wrong on all counts. You are referring to
Brigham Young Park. City Creek Park land was indeed traded for underground
rights. The Church never agreed to demonstations, on their land. The
easement rules were abused immediately, as young Brides were called Harlots as
they left he Temple on their wedding day.The value the Church paid
was indeed 8 times the assessed value, would you like to see the documents? You know this revisionist history won't fly here. It's as silly as Rocky
claiming ignorance and blaming Deedee for this sale, when the final deed which
finalized the deal, has Rocky's signature on it. I have a copy of this and all
the document's.Listen, respect others property, leave when asked to
or be arrested, it's your choice.The Church did not invest millions
for the most beautiful spot is Salt Lake City to have twerps like you defile
it.They fought the fight and won. You and all rude and childish
tantrum throwers did not. Grow up.
Garrot accused the Church of intolerance and being cruel to gays and lesbians.
What about those gays and lesbians provoking the members of the Church? What is
their intention in continually harassing the Church? Why are they so resentful
and vindictive after Prop 8 passed in California? Why don't they just pursue
their own lifestyle as they please and leave the LDS Church alone. Nothing
bespeaks of cruelty and intolerance more than their constant inappropriate
behavior and hatred towards those who do not conform to their way of life. They
have to justify their actions and choices and that's their right. But leave the
LDS Church alone and do your own thing. And look at the beam in your own eye
instead of just picking on the mote in another's eyes.
And Christs church discriminated against non-jews. But a vision changed that
Does this mean the gay rights people say I should have the right to stand on
their front yard and preach the gospel?
I've become Catholic Phil (love that). It's ironic but the more straight people
talk publicly about gay people (especially in a negative way) the more straight
support increases for gay people. I can't prove it with statistics but stories
like this break down the barriers between gays and straights because it shows
how two men minding their own business were treated harshly for doing something
most of us would not give a second thought of doing publicly ourselves.
As a strong supporter of gay rights I have to say this was not a wise battle to
fight. The two people that where on the plaza and refused to leave when asked
where in violation of private property rights and should have moved along. I do
not like the fact that the LDS church took over Main Street but what is done is
done and it is private property.
To Philip in AZ, now I would assume you will say, well that is not a major US
city, but does the size of the city really matter. In Ogden Utah, daily I
would drive east on 30th St and turn north onto Fowler Ave to head home, well a
few years ago, shortly have the Salt Lake Main Street Plaza fiasco, I turned
onto Fowler to find that it was no longer a through street but now a parking lot
for St. Joseph's Catholic School. I did some research with the city and
its planning commission to find out the street was 'given' (never could find out
if money was exchanged, some reliable sources say it wasn't) to the school so
their students would not have to cross a non-busy street to get to a city park
"That never happens with our church because it will never change."Didn't you discriminate against blacks at one time?Then a "vision"
changed that -
PhillipYou should really quit while you are already down.There is a street in Salt Lake which was actually given, not sold, to
the Caholic Church, it was closed for a Nursing Home. Virtually the same size as
the Main St. site. There is no easment through the property, and if
you trespass there as well and refuse to leave when asked to, for whatever
reason, you also will be arrested. These situations happen all
the time all over the country. Land and easements are sold and traded, yes even
with Church's. I've studied the case law on these situations, I sincerely doubt
that you have. Grow up and get a clue. Respect the rights of
property or get your comeuppance. In the old West, you would have been dealt
with more harshly. Be grateful you are only politely asked to leave,
and when you are, leave. Otherwise, it is trespassing, and not jsut in Utah. No
petulant 2nd grade tantrums. Show some manners for crying out loud.
Actually, it was the city who decided not to honor the agreement. The easement
was originally designed to continue to allow public access, though the public
still had to follow basic rules of conduct. When the LDS church stated that
those rules included no anti-LDS demonstrations, the city tried to sue the
church to change the rules, after they already sold the church the property
under the original rules. The reason they caved out of court is because they
would have lost on a federal level, and it was costing them money they didn't
really have - which was the reason for the sale of the plaza in the first place.
They needed the money.
A sign that says "No PDA's" (if there isn't one already) and then it will only
be enforced on Gay Men. I've never quite understood the intense dislike this
org has for them.
This not only waste time but it just pants Gays as over sexed deviants. Protest
are useless unless they are for a specific aim. Like what do they want the
church to do change it's position? Not likely and their stunt is only helping
not hurting the church. Especially if the parishioners ignore them this will
have a far more negative effect on the Gay community then the church. And for
those that really want equal rights I apologize that you have people pulling
stunts like this making your quest that much harder. I know you just love to
wake up and see what have the extreme liberal elite done this time.
Blame DeDe Corradini--she's the one behind it. That plaza and it's exclusionary
policies are a Cancer in the Heart of a Beatiful city.
"I don't understand why the PR women said that they don't allow any kissing
because that doesn't sound right."It's actually the truth, though.
While the rules are slightly different on a couple's wedding day, if a couple
was kissing in the temple, or on temple grounds, beyond a quick peck, they'd be
reminded that it wasn't appropriate behavior. If a couple is kissing in church
beyond a quick peck, they'd be reminded that it's not appropriate behavior. When it comes to this incident, the truth isn't clear. The couple and
several people claiming to be witnesses to the scene claim one thing happened,
while others who claim to be witnesses claim something very different happened.
The church spokeswoman infers something between the two extremes is the truth.
Because no video of the event has surfaced, we all have to choose
who to believe. While I don't think they were making out on the plaza, I also
think it was more than just a simple peck on the cheek. Either way, they showed
contempt for the rules when they became belligerant and refused to leave when
I have always thought it interesting that whenever a new Pope in ordained
everyone always talks about how he is going to change the church...as in, the
religion!! That never happens with our church because it will never change.
Even if the leaders of the church wanted to allow gay marriage and such they
don't have the power to change the gospel of Jesus Christ...no one does. So all
this poltical correctness is a waste of time and energy because no amount of
pressure is going to make anything change. The minute it does I'm out...not
because I hate gays but because we would have given in to pressure to change our
religion and that's not okay, for the LDS church, the Catholic church, or any
The big question is WHY was so much space given to 35 selfish people? This was
newsworthy? It looks like yellow journalism to me.
That is some interesting history to bad it is not accurate. The church did not
pay anywhere near 8 times what it was worth. The church did not donate land for
city creek (they still own the rights to their fenced of part of that park). The
original agreement was that their would be a public easement the LDs church
decided not to honor that agreement and that is why it ended up in court. The
court did not grant them anything the city and the LDS church came to an out of
court settlement where the church gave the city a small lot of land on the west
side to drop the court cases.
I would like to thank President Monson, the Quorum or the Twelve, all
Proposition 8 volunteers, Chris Buttars and many intolerant LDS Members. Thank
you for uniting the Gay community nationwide and thank you for bringing out our
straight allies everywhere!Both sides of this issue are responsible
for immature actions. Yes, it is private property, but yes it is also a major
thorough fare and formerly main street.The issue for the couple and
most people is the blatant hypocrisy with everyone knowing that daily dozens and
dozens of couple kiss on this plaza, often documenting with photographs. Yet
none are every arrested, let alone thrown to the ground and handcuffed.Again, the LDS Church has chosen to clearly define itself as being
discriminatory toward gays and lesbians. Thank you, the world is watching.
These kind of "in your face" actions by the Gay and lesbian communities have
really changed my mind about them in the last year. I used to be more tolerant
of them and their lifestyle. However, I am really tired of their little
demonstrations and cramming their ideas down my throat at every turn. I find
them more and more obnoxious every day. I certainly have changed my opinion of
them and their cause and am no longer one of their supporters.
I love the kiss-in. I'm sending a big kiss to all the folks who went down there.
Just because the LDS is homophobic doesn't mean the people don't have an equal
right to kiss on the sidewalk in front of the church. I think it is ridiculous
that people consider gay people kissing in public offensive, but straight people
kissing in public aren't even noticed. Get a grip. It's a kiss! A wonderful
thing! We should be happy people are kissing, it means they are with someone who
And Catholic Philip doesn't know all the plazas that the Catholic Church owns in
Central and South America. I can say they own one in New York, Manhattan to be
precise. I visited that one myself.
While I agree with most of your post about no need for fences and that it is
private property, I do have to point out that saying "the LDS Church was kind
enough to allow public access to their private property and provide a beautiful
area bridging their headquarters that was once a busy street," is a bit of a
revisionist history at best. I think most of us are old enough to remember how
the whole main street plaza really came about. Having said that what is done is
done and it is now private property so as much as I support gay rights, I also
support private property rights and the LDs church has the right to regulate
what happens on their property.
Hey Anonymous who said this isn't real news and we are obsessed with this
issue...to those of us within the church our faith is everything to us and
therefore it IS REAL NEWS!! Our way of life and that of our children is being
bombarded in a way that we find very, very disturbing and that is why we are so
concerned with this REAL NEW issue!!
Paul S.Paul S. thanks for the education but my objection has nothing
to do with the legality of it. I understand the land was arrived at legally. I
still think the LDS Church got away with something the Catholic Church could not
get away with in a major U.S. city. I mean could you imagine the Catholic
Church making such a deal with say Chicago even if the Catholic Church promised
eight times what the Plaza was worth and to spend millions more beautifying it.
The public would revolt. My objection is to public land being taken away from
the public. No amount of parsing and prettying up will change that fact. I
mean take this gay couple for instance. Now they can be told to leave an area
that once they had public access to. This may be legal but it gives a black eye
to the LDS Church for yet, once again, singling out gays for special treatment.
The LDS Church has a right to discriminate against any group they want on this
property that was once public land and that is what I am objecting to.
This is either a public place or its not. if you going to open a private space
to the public, then your rules must apply to all equally or not at all.Public display of affection in the aquare must be prohibited for all..ie.
weddings religious ceremonies where affection is displayed in public.I
find it personally offensive to see a heterosexual couple practically having sex
while walking in a public place or the male grabing the female inappropriately,
yet no one says a word about this.
For the LDS church not to say something about homosexual, and perhaps even
extreme displays of affection by strait couples, wouild appear as if they
condone the behavior. Anyone who doens't know what the church teaches regarding
homosexuality, chastity, etc is in the dark, and those who do know and choose to
call it old fashioned are just stupid. once again, we see the lack of tolerance
by those who claim to need it the most.
There is a double standard here. There are two relationship stories that broke
this weekend. Comments on the two individuals kissing imply that
they represent the whole gay community.Comments on the other story
imply the individual having a relationship with a teenager does not represent
the whole LDS community.Either they're both true or they're both
not. But in one case the action is not illegal (kissing is not a crime) and in
the other case the action was VERY illegal.One of these groups also
mounted a organized systematic effort to interfere with the rights of the other.
It was not the action of an individual but of the whole group.
Look at the number of comments! Again, Utah is obsessed with this issue. So
much for concern about real news.
Homosexuals will turn our cities and neighborhoods into ONE BIG DOO DAH parade
as they garner support.The prepubescent sexuality is offensive to
many, yet this nasty contingent doesn't care.I want it outlawed.
Catholic Phillip said that the Catholic church couldn't get away with buying a
plaza!Obviously you dont know your own catholic history.The vatican was established as its own country by the Catholic Church to keep
the Italians from claiming all the art, architecture the Cath
Gay people, and ill- mannered heterosexual people are not winning points by
doing this, except in their own choirs.It is unseemly for couples to
openly demonstrate affection in front of persons who are likely to be offended.
People have a right to be offended for any number of things.The
Bible asks us "to as far as possible, live peaceably with all men" and to honor
other people's customs where they do not conflict with the Laws of God. My children knew that sexual behavior was something for a private time,
not for open demonstration in the public square.Gay or not, maybe it
is time for Americans to re visit basic good manners
PhillipLet's educate you as to the Plaza. The LDS Church
traded "surface land" (worth millions), which is now City Creek Park, for the
"underground" rights to one block of Main Street, for an underground parking
garage.Imaigne trading surface land for underground land.Then the Church paid millions of dollars more for the "surface rights" of this
block. Eight times the asessed value, mind you.This went through all
of the proper, legal channels and permits. At this point, The Church
spent even millions more, to create the beautiful Plaza now there. "This Plaza
did not exist before the Church spent their money build it."After it
was built, the ACLU field suit, for sidewalk access, for years it went through
the Courts, ultimately, the 10th Circuit Court granted the easement to the
Church. Only after it donated yet even more land, worth even
millions more, to the City.The cash cow that keeps on giving. Irony, back in the 1850's the LDS Church "gave" what was to become Main
Street to the City.Private Property is Constitutionally protected in
this Country, it's sacred. Respect others property, or be arrested.It's that simple!
The LDS church should have the right to protect their private property. I do!
As for the disrespect shown by the gay and lesbian community towards our faith,
you know what you are doing is not condoned by the mainstream public but still
you continue. The LDS church will never bow to you and you should be ashamed
for the way you protray yourselves. My brother is gay and he would never do
what you all have been doing downtown. He has too much respect for the church
and believes it shouldn't be targeted just because it has such firm beliefs. He
and his friends are just like the rest of us in the way they go to work, play
and live their lives. He doesn't try to force his lifestyle on us and vice
versa so I can't see why you all should be trying to force your lifestyle on us
either. Temple Square is a sacred place and is private property. We go there
to enjoy the peace there, not to have see protests over our faith and its views.
The only kissing I want to see is couples after being sealed in the temple!
Some have stated that our culture is not willing to accept homosexual behavior.
Yes, and in the last century our culture was not willing to accept interracial
behavior. I am old enough to remember there was religious objections to
accepting interracial couples. That's not true anymore. Partly because we have
a Constitition and partly because as a culture we saw the double standard in
treating one couple one way and another couple another way. Cultures change
and, if you haven't noticed, on the subject of homosexuality this culture is
changing dramatically. For instance, we are discussing homosexuality in this
newspaper and that wasn't true years ago.
My husband and I have been married 40 years, 30 of them under a Temple sealing.
We have, many times, walked hand-in-hand through both the Plaza area and Temple
Square itself. We have, many times, exchanged loving kisses (not the get-a-room
type) and have done so in front of Church security guards. In other words we
have engaged in the so-called forbidden Public Displays of Affection under
circumstances which, if the ban was equally applied, would have resulted in a
request to us that we restrain our behavior. NOTHING has EVER been said to us
about our PDAs in over 30 years.The issue here is not a PDA. The
issue is the people who engaged in a loving, chaste, peck-on-the-cheek PDA.
That is discrimination, and does not reflect well on the LDS Church.
Judgmental Bigots hiding behind Gay morality. Now that's a good one.
How gay - as in gay, I mean stupid. Seriously, I would side with the church on
thise one, becuase gays are WAY too quick with the discrimination card.
I don't know why people keep saying "double standard"...it's not a double
standard, it's just the STANDARD!! Yes, newlynewds kissing on Temple Square is
beautiful and welcomed because they are living the standards of the gospel. A
gay couple kissing, on the other hand, is not in accordance with the standards
of the gospel and so therefore should not be allowed on the Church's property.
There is no argument here, as is usually the case with these horrible people!!
Stop saying double standard because it is not. Be respectful and just leave us
alone. You have your standards, however loose they may be, and we have
ours...there is no story here!!! The people of the Church may bend on this
issue and some may support the efforts of the gay community but the GOSPEL OF
JESUS CHRIST NEVER WILL BOW TO POLITCAL AGENDAS...it's just not going to
happen...ever!! It's not up to the people in the Church or even it's
leadership. This is Christ's church now and forever!! END OF STORY!!!!
This is what the church wanted; to increase the area of influence of the vice
and virtue police. Geographically speaking, we must prevent future expansion of
"Our culture"? I think what you really meant to say was "our church is not
willing to accept homosexual behavior". Many, many people, all active
participants and contributors to the local culture obviously don't have the same
problem with it. The days of a mono-culture in Utah are long gone.
Mormon culture is not American culture. This has been clear since Nauvoo and
will remain so (just as President Mitt.)
on my private property!
What these individuals have failed to recognize is that this clearly shows that
our culture is not willing to accept homosexual behavior. In our culture,
whether they want to believe it or not, two men holding hands and kissing is not
an acceptable form of behavior. That’s what this is really about.
Why doesn't Equality Utah ever do something fun like this? Their boring
approach was supposed to be more "effective" but heh, sometimes there just isn't
common ground until you poke a little fun at how silly the other side is being.
Hate & Mike. First of all, Hate, like has been said. First of all I think your
post is bogus. I don't think any true LDS member would write in an say they are
no longer members over something like this. If you are for real...... sorry we
aren't going to do like the people of old and change our views to keep the
general public happy. That is what the gays and evidently you are wanting us to
do. As for Mike. The church never said the walkway was going to be made public
for things that go totally against their beliefs. They are public as long as
people respect this. Which is evidently asking to much for SOME groups. The
reason they made it private in the first place was because people like you were
saying totally inappropriate things to newly weds etc and doing what you do
best.... annoy people.
do us all a favor and just go to an island or something.
A portion of my family is eastern European Jewish and typically our male family
members kiss on the lips as a greeting although it's always been a bit awkward
for me; there is nothing wrong or sexual about it. I wonder if my father and I
would get arrested for saying good bye?
LDS Church owned property should be fenced off and available only to those
wishing to partake of the spirituality of the area. It is not a public street
and should not be available for a public thoroughfare.Discretion and
restraint in all displays of affection should be the norm anywhere in public...
keep displays of affection PRIVATE. When in public consider how your conduct
affects others.Homosexual acts are an abomination to the Lord, and
also to many, including myself. It is disgusting, immoral, and perverted.
If the LDS church is so evil, what would happen if you protesters did your
little demonstration at The Dome of the Rock or in Mecca?.......that's right,
your head and your hand would be separated from the rest of your body. That is
what you call being 'heavy handed'!No matter how much you guys cry
and play the victim card when this whole incident was a purposeful act on Friday
night, the Gay & Lesbian community has never had an extermination order issued
against them. The activist G&L community needs to realize they are the ones
doing the evil bidding here. You need to respect other's beliefs before you're
taken seriously by the religious majority.
I read to page 4 of the comments and gave up (there were 6 at the time).So many hateful comments and really turn ones stomach!How so
very sad that there was so much hate. And most of it coming from those who were
yelling about how they get no respect or "tolerance".I have been
raised in the LDS faith and I have lived all over the western part of the US and
I can truthfully say that I have NEVER met a Mormon that HATED the gays. They
just do not agree with their lifestyle which is their right.Yes,
Christ said to love all people - he also said not to sin. If sinning were ok
with him then why give the 10 Commandments? If you read the Old Testament you
can get an idea of what Christ thought of those who did not do as he taught.I was a missionary and if you don't want missionaries to come to your
don't then put out a " No Solisating" sign on your gate or door and they will
leave you alone.You can dress it up all you want - but these guys
If this is truly what you want to live with, hop a plane to China, or go live in
one of the old communist strongholds in eastern/western Europe. That is what
the Chinese and Russians did to their people.
OK, I'm sick of the LGBT community protesting the Church, its time the
conservatives take some action. The LGBT of Utah is having a Dinner night thing
at the JAM on Friday, August 28th, from 6-9 pm. How about we stage a protest
for that date, time, and location against the LGBT?! Quite
honestly, I don't care what they do, but when they walk up to other religions
sacred places, and protest right in front of it, it ticks me off! Time to get a
taste of their own medicine!!!
This kind of thing makes me as a gay man traveler and a business owner not want
to go to or do business (or locate a plant for my business) in Utah. It's
terrible for your state economically. I saw Utah tourism ads on LA TV this
spring -- I doubt they worked. Personally, I don't believe in
Public Displays of Affection in general. But I also don't want to be thrown out
of a business for holding hands and that seems fine in Utah. The
LDS Church clearly runs things in Utah and they came to my state to take my
civil rights away last year (it's about to overturned in Federal Court btw) --
yes it was the parishioners, so what. I would have thought a church
that has experienced so much discrimination would be less likely to practice it
against others.I am 45, a business owner, volunteer, church-goer
(Episcopal, not every church has the LDS position on gay people), in a 10 yr
very commited relationship, and help my elderly parents. What more must I do to
prove I am equal to you under civil law?
Dear Hate--thank goodness you resigned from the Church. With your hatred, we
don't need you. We need those who want to love not "hate".I mostly
see positive remarks so far in the comments. Thank goodness. We need more
positiveness in this world.
I'm not Mormon nor do I live in Utah but this story is making the rounds in
Arizona and probably in a lot of the other States, as well. I imagine the LDS
Church is getting a black eye because it sure sounds like it's picking on gays
again. I think the problem is that it happened in the Plaza. Look at it from
an outsider's point of view. I'm Catholic and the Catholic Church couldn't get
away with buying a Plaza in any major city in the U.S. The fact that the LDS
Church can get away with it in Salt Lake City shows how powerful the LDS Church
is in Utah. The fact that the LDS Church is having people arrested for using
what was once public land is not going to sit well with a lot of non-LDS people
just like it wouldn't sit well with LDS folks if any Church other than the LDS
Church had bought the Plaza then had people arrested for trespassing on it.
This incident has done nothing but damage to the reputation of the LDS Church.
Does it own the property in question? Yes. Does it have every right to decide
who gets to stay and who has to go? Of course. Does it have a right to
prosecute trespassers? Without a doubt. But was it wise for Church security to
stop a gay couple, walking across the Plaza, over a casual PDA? Was it an
inspired move to call the cops and turn these two into criminals - and then
martyrs?This kind of bunker mentality is counterproductive. Temple
Square is not the Alamo. If anything, this incident has thrown light upon the
controversial landswap, from ten years ago, between the Church and the city.
That deal, turning the Plaza over to the Church, was transparently designed to
gag protestors by giving them no public space from which to speak.At
a time when the Church is increasingly involving itself in politics, it might be
wiser to limit such moments of imbecilic misjudgment, that is if it wants to
avoid feeding the stereotype that Utah remains a kind of Saudi America.
Just2Stressed::: you want to do away with religion when it was the reason this
country was founded.
well we all know "the media" is not always correct with their stories. anyway
this one is a lame story that creates a buzz in the comment section of it. Real
news is people losing jobs, families needing support, shelters full, food banks
empty, military men overseas, etc. now that is news that we need to know about
and getting America back on track.
The LDS Church was kind enough to allow public access to their private property
and provide a beautiful area bridging their headquarters that was once a busy
street. I don't think a fence is needed to designate the street as private
property. Both ends of the plaza have pillars with the Church logo and name.
The Main Street Plaza is more ornate and elaborate than any public park I've
seen elsewhere in Utah and other western states. If it really will help the
public realize that the area is private property, which I doubt, sure add a
fence but make it as organic and non-intrusive as possible to send the message.
It'll likely kill the amazing scenery visible from the plaza and likely spark
protest about how the Church blocks the views with a fence. Meanwhile the
hypocritical crowds should find more productive use of their time than trying to
bully a religious organization and its people to accept and "tolerate" behavior
against their religious beliefs. I said "behavior" mind you, not people. Love
the person, hate the sin.
I agree with that. Church shouldn't coat its beliefs or I must say, what it's
really behind it. I don't understand why the PR women said that they don't allow
any kissing because that doesn't sound right. But having been in PR before, I
understand PR is trying to minimize the incident by no giving all the details of
what really happened, something like not throwing more fuel to the fire. We just
have the couple's version, some witnesses saying they were overly reacting but
the Church had no given any detail of the incident. I appreciate one
of the comments here about they only get 60 people to do the protest while
thousands were attending church or just minding their own business. So, I think
this is what we, as members, should do. Leave it to the Church and mind our own
business. Don't give any attention to the protesters and this will be forgotten
Many comments justify the church's actions based on "property rights."
Okay. Then the Mormon Church should start paying property taxes like any other
It is private property the LDS church can do what they want it is their
property, to bad!!!! Go do your kissing in your homes I don't care!!!
They broke the law. It is as simple as that. They deserved and earned what they
The Kiss-in: tomorrow's forgotten news
The issue here is that it was private property and as such the owners can decide
what sort of acts are acceptable or not on THEIR property. Ya, ya public
access... whatever. There is public access granted to walk through a museum too,
but if you don't follow their rules they will kick you out. If you walk in to a
public library and refuse to be quiet you will be taken out as well. If your
going to spend time on someone else's property you better be prepared to follow
their rules. This protest is pointless. All it is is another attempt to break
down a religion because of their ideals and morals based upon marriage.
Put a fence around it if it's PRIVATE PROPERTY !!
Wow all you people need a life
Same-sex attraction is not a sin until it is acted upon. Once that is done then
homsexuality becomes a sin. At all LDS Churchs and visitor centers we state
emphatically that all are welcome. However, if a person should light up a
cigarette, cigar, drink a beer or start making out (heterosexual couple), you
would be asked to stop or leave the premises. If you failed to stop and even
became beligerent the police would be called and you would be cited for
trespassing. The two men state it was a peck on the cheek, since none of us
were there we can't judge except to say I doubt that because I doubt if a peck
and holding hands would have gotten the same reaction. Now if it was an open
kiss just as a couple would have done then I would say emphatically they would
be asked to stop. The fact they became beligerent and profane shows they were
in the wrong.The Church owns that property and thus has every right
to say what happens there. Maybe the security guards were out of line but
considering the response I feel the Church was justified.
Two guys 20 feet to the sidewalk walking off the plaza give each other a kiss -
10 pm at night on the way home from a concert - get handcuffed by private rent a
cops and pushed to the floor - overreaction at best, assault causing injury at
worst - get a sense of proportion, this is not good folks.
I don't get the complaints here at all. It was private property. If you go on
private property you sure better be willing to accept the rules for that
property or you shouldn't be there. It sounds to me like the "kissing couple"
was out of line from the start and then further escalated a situation they
caused. Who would go to a church to make out?...come on.
It's interesting how 35 people protesting makes the news. I remember driving by
the SL court house a few years ago a say the news crew filming 5 people
protesting something. Later that night on the news they that news channel
overplayed the turnout. "Many came to..." It shows you how desperate the news
channels are for attention. I really wish they'd report of something worthwhile.
Two men kissing and getting kicked out is funny but not newsworthy.
I'll just say this. I have gay friends that I love very much. I may not agree
with there decision to act on homosexual tendencies but it is their right and
freedom to do so. It is my right and freedom when they come to my house or
ranch that they refrain from actions that I don't believe in. I'm not saying
that I won't try to make them feel welcome, only that being a true friend goes
both ways. They'll respect my deep beliefs at my house and I theirs when I'm a
guest at their house. If they don't respect my deep beliefs and offend they
would be asked to leave. If they refused they would also be charged with
trespassing. Maybe the Church should close the easement to the public and let
it's members enjoy the beauty.
Wow. I am always amazed when I read comments on Deseret News articles. To make
the argument that a protest only involving kissing (which did not take place on
Church property!) qualifies as some kind of persecution is truly, truly insane.
I am an LDS member, but come on! The "everyone is out to get us" complex is
ridiculous. Most of these arguments are only buttressed by a willful refusal to
interpret events as reported.Church spokesperson Kim Farah made the
comment that the two men in question were treated "just as any other couple."
This is demonstrably false. She is either lying outright, or betraying ignorance
so profound that she has no business working in a public relations capacity.The two men in question were walking home from a concert, not staging
some kind of sexual publicity stunt. They were IN THE PROCESS OF LEAVING the
plaza, when stopped by security, who then DETAINED THEM! Had security done
nothing, the men would have been off the plaza in half a minute.And
Anonymous, "homosexuality" is NOT "a sin," not even in the most conservative
imagination. Homosexual ACTS may be sins, but "homosexuality" merely describes
Did anyone hear of the tyranny of tolerance? Clearly, this is such a case.
My feeling on the situation is simply this. Protest what you want when you want
but do it on your own property. This is not an issue over discrimination this
is a issue of being asked to leave, refusing, police being called, and citations
issued for lack of a better word throwing a fit. I am fed up with people on
both sides of the issue acting like they have to bad mouth one another and
belittle. I am a proud bisexual man and a member of The Church of Jesus Christ
of Latter-Day Saints. We have common ground focus on that and stop the nonsence
I for one am saddened that members of the gay/strait community and members of
the church on both sides of the so called "issue" are acting in a way that to a
logical person would seem somewhat childish so lets get to the real issues and
stop the behavior on both sides.
Wait, something surprises me about this. You people could only draw 60
supporters to your demonstration? That sounds like a lot but then you have to
factor all the Sunday church attending people in the thousands that went to
church today in Utah and who don't really care about your protest. Way to go!
I always get the biggest kick out of people arguing or bashing on the LDS church
on a church-owned newspaper's website. Re: Jessica - The Mormon
church is actually growing from this issue and people respect it more. I take it
that you don't like religion because of how much it it pushes its agenda on
people. You'll hate the Christ-run theocracy that comes when world ends and the
wicked are burned.
Please tell me how pregnant adolescents and old men with multiple young wives
are somehow better than gay relationships. The members of LDS share this view
with the tribal Arabs in Afghanistan and Pakistan. All of them need to be
dragged into the 21st Century before sanctimonious hypocrisy destroys the entire
planet. This is America. Mormons are not "more equal" than am I or anyone else.
Heterosexuals are not "more equal" than gays. If you don't like that, you are
disregarding the Constitution, the Bill of Rights and the Declaration of
Independence. America, love it or leave it.
those that argue the gays' rights movement is intolerant of others' beliefs,
consider this: how is one supposed to be tolerant of people who do not tolerate
you. This is not an issue of reciprocal tolerance, this is an issue of a church
trampling on people's freedom to be themselves (without hurting anyone else).
Maybe the church was in her legal rights to ask the men to leave their premises,
but it was a petty reaction born out of a disrespect for people who are not like
Anonymous 6:43: I don't think you should be allowed to kiss your pet either. I
do have a question though. Could the church refuse to allow Blacks, Hispanics,
other minorities on their property? It is private property after all. I suppose
they can but the excuse would be quite lame, just like the kissing excuse was
lame. They said that kissing of any kind was "inappropriate" but I've kissed
and hugged my wife on temple square, and I've seen wedding photos of newlyweds
kissing in front of the temple. Perhaps it would be better for the church to be
blunt and just say that same sex kissing is forbidden. Telling falsehoods in
order to minimize a situation has just made things worse. My father always told
me to tell the truth no matter how painful it might be. Perhaps the church
should learn that lesson as well.
If I were asked to stop public affection on private property, I might think it a
little stupid. But it would still stop without argument. It doesn't take a
rocket scientist to figure out that the owners have the right to allow/or not
allow behavior that is consistent with their standards. Homosexual behavior is
not consistent with the Church's standards (very well publicized and known
fact). And it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that when you are asked to
leave private property and you don't, then you can be charged with trespassing.
I've never quite understood why gays and lesbians feel discriminated against
because of their sexuality preferences. There are many studies showing that it
is behavioral choices and very rarely biological. So it is not who they are,
but what they choose.
The Real Gay Agenda is Life liberty and the pursuit to have their mothers
benefits!The Fact is, Gays already have the same rights as any
hetro-sexual male, what they don't have is womens rights?....Period!
Some people are gay. Get over it!The world is watching the
intollerance of the mormon church. Its not a pretty sight from the other side of
the Atlantic.churches should not force their beliefs on othersusing
civic law and campaigning for removal of others rights.Karma has a habit
The only ones that are hurt are the "kissing' partners of the same sex. This is
not the way to get approval from anybody. Any public display of affection is
just showing others that someone "loves" me. Why don't you love yourself enough
to keep personal relationships personal.
The church has the right to dictate behaviour on it's property. That's the
reason the main street plaza deal went down in the first place; it enabled us to
take rights away from what was a public place. That was our goal, or at least
the goal of the church and the city council acting on behalf of their masters.
It was a mistake when we did it, and it is being proven so now.
in the last days Satan will have control over his dominion---
If heterosexual couples show identical forms of affection without intervention,
then LDS reaction to homosexual couples represents prima facie discrimination.
Ironically, the same group that financed Prop 8 in California may, by losing on
a U.S. Constitutional discrimination argument, may be responsible for
legitimizing homosexual conduct at the federal level.The (non-Latter
Day cosmogonical) universe is not without a sense of humor.
Gays predated Christianity and hence will post date Christianity. Put
that in your pipe and smoke it.
So, if I ask someone to leave my property, for whatever reason, and they get
argumentative and I have to call the police to have them go, I can expect a city
council person to post on Facebook that they need to have a demonstration in
front of my house? What is this country coming to?
Its Church Property like what others said they think they can do whatever they
want, but at least do it on your own land and not others. I think gay should
treat our LDS property like how they would treat theirs.
The Real gay agenda; Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.
Let's call it the way it is. Homosexuality is a sin. Period and simple. The
plaza is owned by a Church that believes that so. A kiss on the check from a
parent to a child is no wrong. Neither between a couple or newlyweds. It is when
it's about same gender couple. That falls into improper conduct and the sign
outside says don't do that. They did. Security asked them to leave because,
according to Church beliefs, it is improper. They did not leave but instead
overly reacted. That's when police was called. It's on the newspapers, on the
tv, on the media. Now, we have councilpeople, meaning, politicians, as usual,
fishing in every single oportunity they have, to gain votes. Don't give me the
so "I can't allowed this in my city". It's private property and the owner has
the right to allow or dismissed whoever they want. When the Church bought the
plaza, I wondered why? but now, I understand and hope, they simply put some
gates and keep the sanctity of the House of the Lord. That should be done at all
everyone is missing the point on public affection same sex affection is against
the churches values and teachings and thats all they should have to say to ask a
person to leave their private property. if it fits within their values why
should they care. the church will never change their view point on someone's
sexual prefence thats against their teachings and why should they. gay is not a
race its a choice
What's gonna' be really funny, is when this goes to court and the gay couple
challenges the church and wins, then you're going to see a kiss-in the likes of
which you Mormons have never imagined. I say strip the LDS church of it's
status, and treat it like the hateful criminal enterprise which it has always
You can't teach a pig to sing. Teaching a pig to sing, won't give you a singing
pig, only a angry pig.I'm blessed I live in a city were out Main
Thoroughfare belongs equally to all its citizens. Stories, like this make the
higher taxes I pay to live in California seen like a small price to be liberated
from living in Utah. Read LDS history. Mormons have never gotten
along with others. My Mormon family can't get a long.
This is the fault of the democratic leadership in SLC.....the Church paid 13
Million to buy the Main Street and later paid for it again when Rocky Anderson
thought they didn't pay enough......Time for the Silent Majority to throw
the Democrats out of Office....The Church owns the property
and what the Church does behind closed fences is the Churches own business....I
am sick of the Gay Agenda sticking their noses where they are not
welcome.....To protest the gays....I am buying a car from Grandma
Garff, and I suggest you join me!
yes it was handled poorly but it IS private property and, to many people, sacred
ground. The church has every right to ask for compliance on their own
property...but ...the degree of hatred, ignorance and homophobic vitriol spewing
forth makes me grieve for the souls of "the rightous"."What you do unto the
least of these...." you deserve any judgements your actions bring.
I am always saddened by the lack of sympathy I see on these discussion boards.
A statement like "I just don't want to see gay couples at all" and all of the
fear-mongering makes me deeply sad. It seems as though a disciple of Jesus has
a duty to try to understand the feelings and situations even of those we
disagree with, and to speak and act with love.
Did the 35 people who walked around the reflecting pond start demonstrating, or
were they just taking in the sights after their little kissing demonstration?
The church needs to start being honest and just come out of the closet and say
that they do not want homosexuals showing any amount of affection on church
property. It is untrue when they say that kissing of any kind is not allowed.
I've kissed my wife on temple grounds and nobody did anything and I've seen lots
of photographs of newlywed couples kissing outside of the temple. Until the
church can learn to be honest with itself and others and just stick up for what
they believe rather than try to play it both ways, they might as well just lock
the gate until it all blows over. Somebody is going to have to be offended, but
right now the church is offending lots of folks from all walks of life with
their "nobody can kiss on temple grounds" garbage.
It would be well worth your time to "first" try to understand what the LDS
Church's views are on homosexuality before passing wrongful judgement. The
Church invites any and all homosexuals into full church activity as long as they
DON'T cross the line into sexual debauchery and yes even kissing is sexual
especially betten two men or two women. The LDS Church follows the exact same
rules of conduct as the Catholic and Baptist church's regarding homosexuality
and also the same as those taught in the New Testament by the Apostle Paul.
This is ridiculous. Every year you have someone loons trying to break into a
temple or going on temple square and doing things that they know are not allowed
on church property. Once again it comes to the same ole thing - GAYS feel they
can FORCE their values on others and have NO RESPECT of others and their values.
It's like a Nazi going into a Jewish Sinagog and marching around with posters of
Hitler and then complaining after getting tossed out on the steet that their
freedom of speech was violated. Gays want tolerance but offer NONE to any one
else. With Gays it's always "we're right and you are wrong so deal with it".
Hang in there dude & live the good life. If you do, there won't be any gay
couples where you end up.
It did not prove anything,just that people are crude, rude,lewd,vulgar and have
no class whether they are straight or gay.Those kinds displays are meant for the
bedroom.Just good old fashioned morals and common sense will tell you that.I
personally believe if man was meant to be with man or woman with woman it would
be just one or the other sex created.I also do not buy into the bisexual
thing.Gay means you are with the same sex ,bisexual just means you will take sex
any way you can get it.You have a right to your beliefs and I have a right to
mine. So do NOT tell me I am discriminating! I am NOT discriminating any more
than you discriminate against me for my beliefs.
Yes, that is wrong. Unless you just never leave your own house. You don't have
the right for us not to exist.
Kiss kiss. Smooch smooch. Gay kiss. Straight kiss. Gay hug. Straight
I'm sure that Jesus and his apostles, emmbraced and gave each other kisses, on
the cheek, when they greeted or said goodbye. Men in different cultures act in
different ways. Why isn't the LDS accepting and knowledgable of this?
To the first poster, Anonymous:If you don't want to see gay couples,
then just don't go out in public. We are everywhere, and we're not about to go
I get the argument that it is private property. Gays should follow the
rules.Except that Mormons and other bigots seem to extend their rule to
include the sidewalk, the schools, the library and even my home.Your
personal beliefs are as offensive to me as I am to you.
If the gays want to be treated equally and respected for their beliefs and
lifestyles, they must also learn to respect beliefs and lifestyles of others.
they might not have the same beliefs as LDS church but the church has their own
property and are not trespassing to others. "Live and Let Live".
Just what is wrong with kissing another man?
I wish I knew this was being organized. My wife and I were in the area and would
Unless we know how the LDS church would have reacted if a heterosexual couple
had made out on church property , we are in no position to judge.
Deeda Seed back in the news.... Performing with Rocky on his desk is old news I
guess, time for her to do something else stupid to make news.
Normally you would not see very many gay people at all because gays only
represent maybe five percent of the population and always have, no more and no
less.But because of the way church officials reacted, SLC is probably
going to see A LOT of gay activity from now on.Don't want to see? Move off
planet Earth.Gays have always existed, even in the animal kingdom.It's genetic and it's not going away.Learn to accept minority
differences instead of pretending they don't exist.
You don't want to see gay couples? Don't look, you jerk.
If a church isn't about love than what good is it?
Would you D-News readers take exception if you were told to leave a restaurant
because you were reading the Book of Mormon at your table? Would you protest
the principle, even though "they can do whatever they want because it's private
The government should take the property using Eminent Domain and then sell the
land to the Scientologists. Exchange one homophobic cult for another. That seems
Took my wife and children to the Temple Square Plaza last Sunday. We had a
great time, and no we didn't see any gays kissing. It would have taken away
from the sacredness of the experience. Thank you LDS Church for standing up for
our beliefs and standards. Yes, some of us, LDS and non-LDS alike, do believe
gay lifestyle is contrary to the commandments of God. I just pray the Church
leaders don't cave to the gay mafia and willing accomplices in the media.For those goons who say the LDS Church needs to respect others, it does.
When I was on a mission in the Philippines, we were forbidden to preach to
Muslims. In Israel the Church forbids it's members from discussing the gospel.
The fact is, the Church respects the laws and cultures of the land. Go to any Church property (BYU, meeting houses) and exhibit gay PDA (or other
unacceptable behavior, i.e. not wearing a shirt), you will be asked to stop. If
you don't, the police will be called and you will be cited for trespassing.
This is a typical gay-organized agitation tactic that has gone on here in
California for many years.It does not help their cause, but only annoys
those of use who get sick of them with "in-your-face arrogance. This happens in
places like Disneyland too. Kudos to the L.D.S. church for sticking up for
standards that I as a Protestant Christian also follow.
Hypocrisy is the fundamental tenet, it seems, of LDS people.
I commented and expressed my views and opinions on this matter on SLtrib.com. I
was bombarded with insults and irrational arguments because I sided with the
church's obligation to stand up for it's beliefs and property. This is a lot
better to hear people actually supporting the CORRECT actions taken by the LDS
For those of you who hold the church "innocent" in this relationship. How often
has the church invaded gay and lesbian territory--political territory--and
invested member money and time in fighting them? In doing what it can to
determine what rights they can and can't have? This--a person's life--is
personal terrain. This--an individual's rights--is private property. The church
has never restrained itself in trespassing onto that property and being active
and loud and belligerent in "protesting" what it wants. When gays start to tell
church members what rights they can and cannot have, then you people may have an
argument. When gays start showing up on Temple Square and protesting against
polygamy, or Wonder Bread for sacrament, then you may have a legitimate gripe.
At least you'll know what real "trespassing" feels like. In the meantime, if the
church can't keep its nose out of other people's business, it doesn't have a leg
to stand on when people decide to respond. Stop holding the church innocent.
Stop the victim nonsense.
I find it amazing that these same people are FOR the hate crime law, which is a
law to control our thoughts. Well, I have to say that the only reason these two
persons would kiss where they did is to use their thoughts to disrupt the
serenity near the Lord's Property, so they committed a hate crime. Right? Oh, I
forgot, these people also back abortion, but fight capitol punishment. So how do
you deal with 1/2 wits like this? I know, but I can not post my real feelings
here. It would be a hate crime. :)
Ditto on SLDrone!
Didn't the LDS church recently hire a major NYC PR firm to suggest ways so that
Americans would like the Mormons more? What was church security thinking? 10PM
in the evening, the two guys were the only people on the walk-through plaza.
What were they hurting? The PR firm may want to consider returning thecheck...
As a gay man, I could not be more annoyed at how the gay community handles...
anything. That couple that got handcuffed, they were told to leave, and didn't.
They assumed it was because they were gay, when they don't know if the security
would have that policy with a straight couple, so how would they know? Then this
protest? Really? Is that a joke! Does the gay community do anything that isn't
childish anymore? This is just... stupid. Being a gay couple does not mean you
are above the law, and I thank those security officers and the LDS community for
actually trying to hold them to it.
Holding hands and smooching! Now that's a political agenda. C'mon Mormons (I'm
one, too). They weren't rolling all over the place. I wasn't there, but I have a
lot more to worry about than a kiss. What if two macho native Italian (straight)
guys ran into each other and gave the traditional smooch...would they be picking
prunes in Palermo now? Get a life, Salt Lake.
"Anonymous" posted at 12:51 (above) makes the essential point. LDS couples
often use the square to engage in considerable displays of affection, without
being busted. The anger reported from the gay couple who were harassed is a
natural reaction to the security guard's offensive over-reaction. Two gay men
holding hands and kissing on the cheek is offensive only to homophobic
bigots.Also, there's a real issue here re. whether the LDS church can
claim such control over a stretch of property which is open to public access -
clearly, a judge needs to sort this out - or the City needs a better agreement
with the church.To this straight, married guy (not LDS) I just wish we
could have been at this kiss-in, sounds like fun to me. I like kissing my wife
. . . And yes, I still plan to be polite the next (inevitable) time that
LDS missionaries appear at my door. The LDS Church needs to evolve, as
they already have in dropping their overt bigotry towards folks of (recent)
African descent. It only took them until 1978 to realize that ALL of us are of
Wow, I'm seeing tons of Utah homophobes. You inbred fools need to see the world
a little bit. You clothe your bigotry by pinning it on private property rights.
Bullsquat! While the law might protect LDS and their discrimination, that
doesn't make it right. If it didn't have to do with homosexuality, let's say a
restaurant kicked a bunch of people out because they could be overheard talking
about their Mormon faith, there's no way you'd all be praying to the god of
private property and excusing the rudeness. Flippin' inbreds, stop believing in
your dumbass Mormon fairy tales and enlighten yourselves.
To "ANONMYMOUS"...At Least I put My Name To My POST! Are You HYPOCRITICAL, to
say such a Bigott ed thing, & HIDE? WHAT Are YOU "Married to a Man With FOUR or
FIVE OTHER WIVEs, Or Are You A Man Who Has Muultiple Wives?These
"Mainstream Mormons, they are KEENLY "WARE Of Those Who Are PRACTICING
POLYGAMISTS, YET do THEY NOT "Allow these POLYGAMISTS SHELTER&'TURN THEIR CHEEK
TO THEIR (terrible)SUBJUGATION of WOMEN?! Of COURSE THEY DO!I'll KISS MY
LIFE-PARTNER "ANYWHERE WE WISH TO KISS"! If Ya Don't *LIKE IT, TURN YOUR
CHEEK,+Don'T LOOK! YOU BIGOTTED, UNINFORMED, BRAINWASHED BUNCH of
HYPOCRITs...You OUGHT TO "KNOW WHAT it Is LIKE TO *WALK IN THE SHOES OF a
HOMOSEXUAL,FOR AWHILE!!I WILL,WITH ALL My LESBIAN-HEART,PRAY 4 You SAD
EXCUSES FOR HUMAN BEINGs!Dr.Shelly Boyd,phd.
This gay couple is facing the same type of bigotry that faced inter-racial
couples back in the 1960s. Mormons (of all people) should be cautions about
criticizing the relationships of others, living as they do in their glass
houses. They pretend to "protect marriage," but their history of polygamy and
child brides and pregnant 13-year olds belie their actions. God save us all from
these True Believers, the American version of the Taliban. SLC should declare
this area a public zone where all are treated equally. Tax exemptions for
organized bigotry is UnAmerican. Revoke the tax status of LDS, and see how
quickly they embrace the American idea that all are created equally.
I've tried to be understanding and open minded regarding homosexuals but their
tactics are so confrontational and provocative and mean spirited, my efforts
are undermined by the very people that want my understanding. Be good citizens
and respectful and stop trying to annoy your neighbors and perhaps you will get
Yes, the Church has the right to make rules for their private property, even
with public access. But applying those rules differently to certain groups is
the definition of discrimination. If the Vatican were to say that LDS couples
visiting St. Peter's Square were not allowed to hold hands or show affection,
there would likely--and rightly--be an uproar over the discriminatory treatment
of one particular group. So why is it okay for the LDS church to do the same
thing to the gay community?
Sounds like the Church of LDS can dish it out but not take it. If they're going
to incite ugly and ignorant behavior amongst their flock, they should expect a
backlash eventually from the community. You can only pump out toxic ideas into a
society so long before people take notice and do something about it.
WOW. No wonder Utah has the reputation it does. What a bunch of narrow minded
scary people. Good on the LGBT folk who have the courage to live
there with these bigoted folks.It's going to get scarier and scarier
for them as our country becomes more and more diverse. I feel so sorry for the
children growing up with these attitudes. They will be left behind. Pathetic.
The LDS Church should have never been "allowed" to purchase that property and
this is exactly why. It makes me sick.
Yes, please explain to me again about how gays are destroying your marriage. I
suppose they forced John Ensign to cheat on his wife and then try to pay her off
and sent Mark Sanford out on the Appalachian Trail to Argentina. The Mormon
church is just Scientology with a choir and a lot more hypocrisy!
Am I correct if I say that anyone that preaches tolerance is immediately a
hypocrite because of their intolerance of those who are intolerant?
Question for the LDS people here: Which do you think is going to hurt the church
more--allowing a guy to kiss his partner on the cheek in an area where light
PDAs are commonplace, or furthering your organization's image as bigoted,
hateful, and discriminatory?California boy: I've never had a gay guy
try to convert me to homosexuality. I have had an LDS missionary try to convert
me to the Church. I don't begrudge the missionary--we actually had a good
conversation about our respective philosophies--but if you're going to claim
that gays are "trying to force their lifestyle on the rest of the world," you
may want to stop your church from doing the same thing. Remove the beam in thine
own eye, and all that.
Is the "gay agenda" like that pesky "women's agenda" a few years back? Man, we
have to stop handing out equal rights like candy...between this and the
complexion of the PA pool club, I feel like America went in a backwards time
Why can't people respect private property? The LDS Church owns the property and
can establish its standards for its use. If someone violates church policy then
the police come in to handle the situation. The same would be true
for my personal property. If a couple showed up on my front lawn, strangers for
that matter, and kissed or showed intimate behavior, I would ask them to leave
and if they refused I would call police. I think any private property owner
would do the same. So gays are simply trying to again force their
agenda upon us. The issue here is not even public displays of affection. The
issue is the rights of a property owner to actually own its property!I am so tired of the gay community.
I used to live in SLC, but moved because I was tired of all the tolerance I
received there. I wish I had been welcomed and respected rather than simply
tolerated. I got tired of all the "disappointment" I caused by being
comfortable with my spiritual beliefs. So before decrying the lack
of respect the LGBT community shows your church (and keep a sense of perspective
here...there were only 60 people today, protesting the treatment of two people),
I suggest that you search your own hearts and evaluate your own actions to
determine if you are loving unconditionally and leaving the judgment for God, or
if you are only being tolerant. I leave you with this quote "Most
men worry about their own bellies, and other people's souls, when we all ought
to be worried about our own souls, and other people's bellies." --Rabbi Israel
The private property argument is moot. This is why there was a PROTEST and not a
LAWSUIT. Rights were not violated. That doesn't necessarily mean the church
security acted appropriately.
I look forward to the day when we tear down and burn ALL churches, temples,
mosques, Synagogues, and all other monuments to ignorance, stupidity, hate and
superstition. We got rid of religion/superstition in posy WWII Japan, and we can
do it legally here:1. Require that all religious/superstitious cult
leaders provide credible scientific evidence to support their claims or to admit
that they are lying.2. Under our existing truth in advertising laws,
prosecute for criminal fraud all religious/superstitious cult leaders who are
unable to provide credible scientific evidence to support their claims.3. Require all schools, public and private, to teach all known scientific,
archeological, historical, psychological, sociological facts regarding all the
major religions/superstitions. 4. Make it felony child abuse for any
person or organization to indoctrinate any minor child into any delusional
Do what you want. Just do it away from me.
The Church shouldn't have to put up with "in-your-face" behavior from anyone on
Church property. That's the bottom line. This is sacred ground and no one
should have the right to come there and engage in this kind of
behaviour--especially in view of children and others who come there for
spiritual enrichment.I have no sympathy for the gay political
agenda. Any amount of sympathy I may have for them as individuals is fading
The gay community is everywhere. Mostly college educated, we are the teachers,
doctors, nurses, lawers, engineers and many other professions that make America
what it is. Education=money=power. We aren't going away.
Mormonism is a cult.
I do not care who you love. Love all for who they are and if you sleep with a
woman or a man who cares as long as the parties are consenting adults and they
are happy I say go for it.
If I saw two gays holding hands and kissing on my property, I'd tell them to
leave too.I'm sure there's more to the story than just two gays holding
hands and kissing on the cheek
Well, if you knew your history, the church was here first own the land outright,
donated the land to the city for a street and then had to pay 5 million to buy
it back.Selling out? Whatever, know your history, and leave the
church alone. Or simple head N, S, E, or W and leave utah for good.I
am sick of people who try to force the this state to change the laws/lifestyle
just because they are use to a different way of life. You choose to live here,
therefore live by the stands that has been apart of the culture since it was
I think that the LDS Church should not be allowed to buy these properties where
they are going to dictate to others how to behave. Streets and walkways should
be government owned so all kinds of lifestyles will be permitted. Utah has a
real problem separating church and state. Church seems to be heavy handed. All
the more reason not to elect Romney.
Yet again,! Clowns acting out thinking its funny.I think it gone beyond a
joke for these turkeys, they should go and grandstand in front of the white
house lawn, maybe then they will get good serious publicity.The mentality
of these people are very childish, and to think that they want to be taken
So I guess the guards would have thrown out Jesus when Judas gave Him the kiss.
Reminds me of the scene in Religulous when the mormon fuzz tell Bill and crew to
get off the property. Religion = always afraid that a crack will lead to a
torrent of reason and be the end of the superstition.
I don't want to see judgmental bigots hiding behind their religion.Is that so wrong?
Typically, the most vocal and outspoken homophobes are really closeted gays
themselves....so come on out of your closets people
The LDS church will finish it. These yahoos had no business to be on church
grounds let alone kiss. The church had every right to enforce God's law!
Gay people, like all minorities, are part of the population. This incident, if
one can call it that, occurred in the downtown area of a major American city.
If you don't want to see gay people, buy a cave and disappear from civilized
BAD PR for " The Church". Not worth the public scrutiny. Perception outside the
state will continue to be one which will damage reality.
It just goes to show you how pitifully scared the LDS are of Gay folks. It's sad
really. Really, the rest of the world doesn't really care if they held hands and
gave one another a peck on the cheek. Good grief it's 2009. Oh, I forgot, it's
So are signs posted that say you are leaving PUBLIC property and entering
PRIVATE property where all your constitutional rights are now no longer
available? The 14th amendment means equal protection under the law. Why is
religion a protected class (and it is entirely a choice) but being LGBT is not?
What about life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness? Only available to LDS
If the same thing happened to a couple holding hands while walking on Liberty
University's campus, because the husband is black and the wife is white, would
that be ok too? Private property.
I just don't want to see any children at all.Is that so wrong?
Thank God I didn't grow up in the LDS church. I grew up in a church that was
full of love and all welcoming to everyone. The doors were open around the clock
so that anyone of any faith could go inside and pray and commune. If such an
incident such as two men or two women kissing had occurred on church property,
the minister would not have called the police but may have sat down with the
couple for a little talk about appropriate behavior in the Lord's house. My
church still struggles with homosexuality and how to treat them, but it is not a
struggle with hate. All outreach is full of love. Remember Christ's love was
unconditional. I feel so sorry and some pity for those in the LDS
that do not know that love must be there for everyone, and even and especially
for those it's hardest to love. Would Christ have called the police? I don't
If this were a Muslim group which owned the streets near a mosque, I guarantee a
huge portion of the conservatives/LDS/homophobes here would do a complete
about-face and instead of screaming about 'private property' would be all
impassioned about separation of church and state and free expression.
Are gay's deaf and dumb. Don't they understand what it means to stay off of
private property? Hello
Only the Mormon Church could turn a simple display of affection into a political
issue.Sometimes a kiss is just a kiss.Lots of men kiss,
especially Europeans. It was a kiss on the cheek.A public plaza is
public, not private.A church should be about love, not hatred.
I don't want to see Mormons at all. Is that so wrong?
Have Mormons ever considered they make more enemies than friends by constantly
being so holier than thou and attacking every group that they disagree with?
Why can't you learn to live and let live.No one expects the Mormon
church to support gay marriage, or same sex activity. But it is one thing to
not support it and quite another to go after it with such venom. Practice your
religion and let others follow their own moral codes. Quit beating your breasts
and being so obnoxiously self righteously indignant and holier than thou.
I don't want to see them either, but they are children of God. I do my best to
avoid T.V. shows and other things that have those type of characters in them. We
should be tolerant and respectful, so if I meet or even know someone who is gay,
(I had a gay neighbor. He was very nice. I'm sure he had relationships, but I
never knew about them.) I would only avoid them if they were showing behavior
that I found unacceptable.
Knock yourself out people. Just don't do it on Church property. Have
at it. And when you are finished with your kiss in, then what? Another example of the Gay community not having respect or sensibiltites for
anyone who differs with them.They tried to force their way into the
Boy Scouts, they assault Church's and the 5,000 year old status quo of marriage,
and debase the public square like the party crashers they are. What
next? Will they be seen disrupting and making out in an Evangelical Church
service in Michigan or maybe throwing red dye on people in St.Patricks Cathedral
in New York or maybe vandalizing LDS Churches and Temples, or sending white
powder to Mormon Temples, or will they may make politcal ads depicting Mormon
Missionaries as breaking into lesbians homes, ranskacking them and tearing up
wedding certificates? Oh sorry, The Gay community has already been there and
done that.PR Nightmares? look in the mirror gay communiity. Your
petulant behavior is now your burden.
Wow, you people have definitely all drank the koolaid. What a bunch of
brainwashed sheep. You sound like members of a cult. Oh, that's right, you are.
"I just don't want to see gay couples at all. Is that so wrong? -- Anonymous"Yes, it's called homophobia. It's a mental problem. But, you can
overcome it by learning that homosexuality is not a disorder and that because of
that gay people are just as good as heterosexuals. Like any other form of
prejudice, homophobia is bad for society, including the homophobic people. It
causes families to be split apart, and a lot of unnecessary suffering.
America is so immature when it comes to homosexuality. So MANY of the comments
here reflect the thinking usually accomplished by simple minded 5th grade boys.
The question going unanswered: why was this public property ever "sold" to the
church in the first place? What possible excuse can be given for taking public
resources and giving them to a private yet tax-exempt institution? I understand
that pressure was applied. This is intolerable. That property needs to be
restored via eminent domain to its rightful owners, the taxpayers of Utah.
Further, discrimination is intolerable and hiding behind religion to do it is
unacceptable. It is time to control the overreaching influence of LDS in SLC.
Is it really private property? Entire street and area are all paid for by the
churhc in cluding all maintenance? If local police paid by PUBLIC tax payers is
being used to enforce a discriminatory groups PRIVATE beliefs -- isn't that by
definition using PUBLIC funds?
I've been to the area and have saw many 'straight' couples walking , holding
hands, and even give the occasional little kiss. Nothing happened to them. The couple who was cuffed didn't want to leave because they weren't
doing anything wrong. Its called being prejudiced. Haven't we been taught
since we were babies not to be like that?
The mormon church is nothing but a cult anyway. It's right there on par with
scientologists. Their "religion" was pulled out of a hat and they should be
stripped of their tax exempt status for their involvement in politics.
The anti-gay and negative posters here are all cowards and losers who don't even
have the guts to post their real names.
Organized religion is the most devisive and destructive invention that mankind
has ever come up with. The Mormons just happen to be one of the worst examples,
along with the Taliban and the Evangelicals. The funniest thing about it is the
hypocracy. Just look at Ted Haggert. You simple minded sheep will believe
A my kids kissed on temple square while they dating. so why didn't they kick
The church/religion is the most cruel organization in the world. I am not an
atheist, but it would be nice if we did away with religion/church.
I suspect the offense here wasn't so much that it was a "gay" couple but that it
was an open show of affection.The Mormon community frowns on such displays
and is probably the most unaffectionate group of people I've ever experienced.
I think I just threw up a little in my mouth!!!
Church security should have just simply ignored them. If they had done that, the
couple would have left and the church wouldn't have been met with another PR
The Gay Agenda:The radical idea that people deserve the same rights
no matter who they love.
It's a free country so believe what you want, but push the Gay agenda somewhere
else and not on private property.
The two guys were not "escorted off private property" ... the LDS is heavily
subsidized by all of the taxpayers of the US ... including the 30 million or so
'Gay' taxpayers ... by virtue of your "tax exempt' status as a so-called,
'church'. In my opinion, 'churches' should put up or shut up. Pay your fair
share of taxes like everyone else, or keep your self righteous 'moral' opinions
"I am impressed. You were able to draw 60 people to your protest. Hope you get
the message that your behavior is not acceptable." That's 49 more than attended
the "teabag" rally the week before, and there was no advertising for it from Fox
News. Not a good PR move for a group that traditionally has spread their word
through missionaries (who must go to other people's property to spread the
word). I little consistency would help your cause greatly.
It is way past time to stop all financial Tax benefits for any Church, be it
LDS, Catholic, Baptist, JW, Protestant, Methodist, etc. And, I mean in the
United States of America!Let them all pay their fair share at the going
corporate Tax rates, no exemptions!!!
don't like the gays in your churches, don't outlaw marriage for others outside
your church!You brought your misguided religious beliefs to bear on
Proposition H8 in California, now you reap what you have sowed.
Yes, Justin. Last week I had the opportunity to tell a Mormon missionary who
approached me at a gas station that I would not talk to him because of his
church's intolerance. Once they were abused because they were different. Now
they have become abusers of others not like them. Mormons have a growing PR
problem, I think. They certainly do not make a statement that they are kind and
tolerant to others who do not believe as they do.
Similar incident here in El Paso. Two men kissing in a taco restaurant were
asked to leave after customers complained. Now there are protesters in the
streets and the media was called.Interesting to me how I have only
seen the incident in Salt Lake City involving the Mormon Church in the national
news. How come?
You don't know what they intended to do. It seems pretty clear by the way they
responded to a courteous request to leave that they had an agenda in mind when
they started smooching on each other. You don't know how far they were willing
to take their display to get the reaction they were hoping for. The fact that
they raised a scene and became beligerant tells me they had a deeper purpose.
I don't want to see Mormon missionaries on my porch, but I have had to get used
you give them an inch they take a mile that is why we fight for our rights you
dont see gays in a public hot tub kissing or manig ment would be told about it
The power of love also includes the power of respect, not in your face
demonstrations. A city council memebers represents all citizens just not her
gay friends. Congratulations to the LDS church for having standards.
This whole thing about a supposed double standard is driving me nuts. There is NO DOUBLE STANDARD. If a heterosexual couple walked through the
square behaving in a grotesque and inappropriate fashion they would be asked to
leave as well. If they then got ugly, shouted profanities and refused to leave
privately owned property, police would have no choice but to treat them in the
same manner as those two extremely rude, out of line, gay men were treated.Let's be clear on this. A husband and wife holding hands is appropriate
behavior. Even if he kisses her on the cheek, that's still appropriate behavior.
If they start slobbering all over each other, then that's inappropriate and they
will be asked to leave.
I am tired of hearing about the Gay agenda. Maybe the LDSers should
make a call for more Saints to move into SLC and again take the majority. The
minority has moved into SLC and love playing the victim.Take SLC
Out of the LGBT Crowd crying discrimination and that a Church does not have a
right to beleive what they believe. Last time I checked The GOVERNMENT CANNOT
infere with religious beliefs. We beleive that homosexual behavior is immoral.
The Government cannot enforce us to beleive otherwise under the 1st Amendment.
Here in So. Cal, I deal with LGBT crowd everyday. What I have
discovered is that currently it is "IN" to engage in homosexual behavior and
call onself "gay" or "bi". Many "straight" people engaged in homosexual
beahavior for the thrill, or experimentation. I hear it discussed everyday. For
those of the LGBT crowd who "claim" that they are products of nature, these
people are not helping your cause.Finally, if you want to see how
the LGBT want to undermine American Religion, watch the Documentary "For The
Bible Tells Me So". It outlines how the LGBT militant groups plan to use these
tactics and media exploitation to get religions to accept their lifestyle.
Here is the truth:“The unholy transgression of homosexuality
is either rapidly growing or tolerance is giving it wider publicity. If one has
such desires and tendencies, he overcomes them the same as if he had the urge
toward petting or fornication or adultery. The Lord condemns and forbids this
practice with a vigor equal to his condemnation of adultery and other such sex
acts. . . . Again, contrary to the belief and statement of many people, this
sin, like fornication, is overcomable and forgivable, but again, only upon a
deep and abiding repentance, which means total abandonment and complete
transformation of thought and act. The fact that some governments and some
churches and numerous corrupted individuals have tried to reduce such behavior
from criminal offense to personal privilege does not change the nature or the
seriousness of the practice. Good men, wise men, God-fearing men everywhere
still denounce the practice as being unworthy of sons of God; and Christ’s
church denounces it and condemns it so long as men have bodies which can be
defiled.” LDS President Spencer W. Kimball
You're almost getting it. I'll type this slowly so that you can understand
it....it is okay for heterosexual PDA's (within reason) by heterosexual couples.
That is what the church preaches. It's not a double standard, it's a very single
clear standard called the Law of Chastity.If you'd like to know more
about it, I can send over 2 straight clean cut young men who can give you the
basics in six short discussions.
I just don't want to see gay couples at all. Is that so wrong?
of course they behaved like gentleman and the police always go around
handcuffing innocent folks who are being repsectful and courteous of others.
Good for the LDS church. I'm so tired of the gay agenda here in California.
People on here hit the nail on the head. The gays talk about tolerance,
respect, and acceptance. Yet they don't have any tolerance or respect for
others rights. They keep trying to force their lifestyle on the
rest of the world yet they keep coming off as whackos.Good for the
church. Don't let them ruin things like they have here in California!
The alleged display of affection took place on private property. People do not
have the right to do whatever they want on private property. Get over it.
The Mormons are practicing what they preach. Maybe the 2 gay men should practice
a little of what they preach and that's showing some tolerance and respect of
Heterosexual couples have also been asked to stop kissing on the PRIVATELY owned
church property. Who cares? This is just another reason for vocal minority
within the gay community to embarrass everyone else in the gay community by
throwing a two-year-old-esq public temper tantrum. Best thing to do in this
situation? Ignore them and walk away.
Are you really this stupid? There is no double standard. There's the church's
standard which is relations between a man and a woman are okay. Any other form,
man and a man, woman and a woman, man and an animal, woman and an animal, man
and a little boy, etc are inviolate and not within the standards of the
church.Since it's the church's property, they set the standard by
which people must behave. It's not that hard to figure out.
Oh those militant Mormons with their hidden agenda are showing their hatred
Had the couple not been stopped by security, they would have continued on their
way and would have been off the property within moments. They were just passing
through like thousands of people do everyday.Sad that people here
believe that love is only reserved for people of a certain belief. Many here
don't seem to truly understand Christ's teachings.
Maybe we should organize counter-protests and send people to the homes of hte
gay men and the former councilwoman and stand in their yards and with bullhorns
read "the Family: A Proclamation to the World" out loud to them and sing hymns
to them. Maybe the first hymn can be, "Because I have been given much I too must
Here's the deal folks, IT'S PRIVATE PROPERTY!! Nothing else matters, nothing! If
I am on private property and am asked to leave, FOR WHAT EVER REASON, I have to
leave. If I dont then I am tresspassing, it really is just that simple. I could
be asked to leave because of the color of my shirt, or the way I comb my hair,
or the kind of shoes I am wearing, or because I crossed my eyes funny, or for
absolutely no reason at all. I can choose to leave or choose to tresspass, and
then I deal with the consequence of my decision, good or bad. It's an issue of
property rights, not gay rights, nothing more
LGBT should apologize to LDS chruch for not following the rules of the plaza.
They should say that these two men were wrong in displaying affection on chruch
property and not leaving after they were asked to stop. But we all know they
won't because the LGBT community thinks that everything is there and that
everyone should have to see things there way. Sorry people if you don't like to
be asked not to display affection then don't go on church property and be
profane and beligerant that is the real reason we are even talking about this.
So, does public access mean that the public is allowed to do whatever they feel
like? Can they walk naked through the plaza or just up and hold a giant
Woodstock if they feel like it?Let's not be stupid here. The public
does have access but they have to respect the property, and the church has the
right to ask people who are behaving inappropriately to leave, just like a
privately owned business that's open to the public has the right to refuse
service to anyone.Having public access doesn't mean you can do
whatever you like. Even in public parks there are things you're not allowed to
do. Show some intelligence here, please. These lame arguments and protests are
beginning to get on my nerves.
Gay boy here.... Practice what you preach.
First of all, there were no police involved. It was the church security guards.
They are ONLY there as security for church grounds. They can arrest people, but
they can't detain them. They can only arrest someone if they have probable cause
to do so, i.e. they are becoming physically violent. As far as I am aware, these
two men were not violent.It is public-access property which happens
to be owned by the church. It is a public thoroughfare. I can't tell you how
namy times I have seen other couples sharing a kiss all up and down the area. I
just can't help but look at this as a "zero tolerance" situation. Two gay men
sharing a kiss were arrested for doing so. That's all it boils down to.
You aren't fooling anybody with your post. You're not a mormon, you're a
troll.If you were a Mormon it wouldn't be that hard for you to figure it
out. If you wanted to sit in the plaza and drink a bottle of water nobody would
bother you. You could drink as much water as you want with no interference.
However, if you chose to drink a 6 pack of beer whilst sitting in the plaza,
I've no doubt you would be asked to leave or even cited. It's private property
and the owner of that property has the right to determine the standards by which
users of the plaza must adhere to. The standards of the church are
pretty clear. If you weren't really a gay person trolling on this message board
you would understand this. A husband and wife holding hands falls clearly within
the bounds of church standards. two stupid gay men looking to cause trouble by
behaving inappropriately fall clearly outside the bounds of church standards.
It's not that hard to figure out.
Kiss my grits.
Get a clue buddy!!!!!!!!! There are alot of difference between a man and women
kissing then two men kissing. For one the church allows men & women to kiss.
They DO NOT SUPPORT MEN KISSING WHETHER IT IS A PECK OR NOT.Also not holding
hands. I will say if a man & women are acting inappriotely then they are asked
to leave and if they said no like these two young men did the same would happen
I would believe there is no double standard. Case and point did the security
guards do anything to people outside on public property during the kiss-in
today? No they did not why they respected the rights of people do what they
pleased on public property.So they respected the publics rights on public
property. But the 2 gay men in question did not respect the property rights of
the LDS Chruch did they? So before you go accussing the people of something you
ought to understand the property rights first.
This happened Sunday morning? All the people that the protesters were hoping to
offend were in church.
Wow, the gay community just doesn't get it, do they?! Engaging in behavior on
church/private property that is not congruent with church teachings or beliefs
is extremely disrespectful and smacks of pride. Contrary to popular belief, you
can't do whatever you want whenever you want or wherever you want.
Key word proper affection.If two gay men want to go on church property then they
need to obey and RESPECT the views of the property. The LGBT just wants
attention. Let's discuss the facts if a staight couple is acting unappropiately
they are asked to leave the grounds I am sure. To the LDS church to men holding
hands is not appropiate and they have the right on there property to ask them to
stop. These men did not stop and got offended because they could not do whatever
they wanted on church property. Yeah the plaza is public access but that does
not mean you can do what ever you want on the plaza. You have to respect the
property owners rights.It is called trespassing if you don't do as the security
officers did do. So if you don't like following the rules then walk around the
church property.If you want respect then give respect back but that is not the
LGBT is hell or high water with you guys. You want everything but you will not
give the same respect. Don't go on property if you can't follow the rules.
The divide between Mormons and Non-Mormons in Salt Lake City just seems to get
wider and wider everyday, and it's really a shame. Sooner or later
both sides are going to have to wake up and see that polar extremes only make
the city weaker, and the residents needlessly scared of each other.In all of my travels and experiences, I have never seen a city (with so many
positive attributes) so divided and bitter. It's truly sad.
Be wise, don't spend your time in what is worthless. They are looking for media
attention. As the Savior did, love them and teach them the way of happiness,
respectfuly and sincerely. They lack of their true identity as sons of God.
It is a religious issue. While visiting Egypt several years ago I was
told that in order to visit a historic Mosque of theirs, I would be required to
cover my shoulders, and wear long pants (in 100 degree heat) because it is a
holy place for them, and to be immodest would desecrate its sanctity.This
issue at Temple Square is no different. This is a holy sacred place for
Mormons. And the GLBT community KNOWS this. This display of kissing at the
temple was meant to be saucy sensationalism and fodder for the media. They were
wanting to offend the church.Now, if I had shown up to the mosque in a
tasteful tank top and shorts that went to my knees...I would STILL have been
asked to leave. AND IF I STARTED TO ARGUE THE ISSUE, use foul language, and be
belligerent, yes, police would have been called on me. Because the owners of
the Mosque state a standard that they expect as far as dress and conduct.So NO THE LDS CHURCH SHOULD NOT HAVE TO BAN ALL DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION. Just
the ones they FEEL DEFILE their holy place! Make sense?
Mike:: there is public access there but it is conditional. the public has to
respect the churches rules
Hate:: you do realize that unless you have your name removed from the church
records you are still a member
I hope these people realize that this little "kiss-in" isn't helping their cause
@Doug | 10:30 a.m. July 12, 2009"... Sadly, opponents of the
Church's position on gay marriage have not shown the same decency as the Church
has."And what decency is that?
I'm gay, was raised Mormon, and my name is still on the records. Today, while
Deeda Seed and her well-meaning but misguided group further drives a wedge
between the gay and LDS communities with their "kiss-in" on private property, I
instead choose to celebrate the many, many, MANY Mormon family and friends who
have found ways to stay true to their beliefs while also showering me with love
and acceptance. Thanks to you all.
In the early 80's I was on vacation in Italy. Touring the Sistine Chapel in
Vatican City, I temporarily lost my mind (and all sense of respect) and got down
on the floor to take a picture of the famous ceiling. I was promptly "escorted"
from Vatican City--as I should have been.It was a humiliating (yet
powerful) learning experience for me. I wonder what those involved in this
They pay Tiger Wood 3 million dollars just to show up to play at a private golf
club.(PRIVATE PROPERTY) If he doesn't show up with a collared shirt he must
leave the coarse. I understand simple rules are many times tuff. Just ask a
California student who is required to wear a collared shirt to school.
Rules...Rules...Rules... where has our so called society gone. now....
Call me whatever names you want, but I am greatful that gay people are asked not
to hold hands and kiss at temple square. Young men are encouraged to marry young
women in the Salt Lake temple, so I hope to see a LOT of newly married couples
expressing affection by the temple. Conversely, if a gay organization builds a
facility and asks that certain standards be observed there, I promise I will not
go there and kiss my wife, on the cheek OR even the mouth. Deal?
every one is welcome to visit temple square, and all that is ask of anyone. is
that you dont disrespect the ground or are belief's while doing so! it's that
simple, why don people understand simple ask of respect, i was born an rasied in
california, And have a few gay an lesbian friend's. And that ther life not mine,
But when ask not to kiss around me They dont, And i love them for that, Is'nt
that so simple, God bless us all, an keep us Safe
That is stupid if it is their property they can't be kissing and stuff if it
goes against LDS beliefs. They had every right to kick them off the property. If
they were doing that on my property I totally would. They have no right to be
Hey, why not get a group of people to go and start singing hymns in the Bars?
After all, it is public property.
But I am fully on the side of teh LDS church. what a joke, I'm glad the LDS
church as taken a stand, they seem to be the only ones in this country left that
will. Go to San Francisco and watch this so called public display of affecton it
is gross. Gays tend to take it to another level just daring anyone to stop them.
Oh and of course they are always innocent when they are asked to stop. Thank you
LDS church for taking a stand for decency and what's right. As for the people
protesting, enjoy each others company, nothing like a bunch of lowlifes that
have nothing better to do.
Anonymous, if you're trying to be offensive, you've done it. What happened to
our ancestors in Missouri is to be treated with sacred respect. We honor their
historical plight and sacrifice. You have no idea of what you are speaking
about. Stand down.
@ Pro kiss inMy Friend - Salt Lake was established by members of the LDS
church. They came here because of the intolerance shown by the USA. There was
nothing here but desert land - Our ancestors turned it into a desirable place.
Question - What do you mean that it is time to take it back and send
I, for one, am glad the Church stood up for what is right. Gays and Lesbians
kissing each other and holding hands in public is not appropriate. It is good
that the Church enforced their beliefs on their property. We may have to put up
with the filth in public but not on private property.
to Anonymous 12:51 You got it wrong, do your homework. The Mormans never
bothered anyone, and certainly never percecuted anyone for beliveing different.
It was the mobs that attacted, raped, murrdered, burned homes, and drove the
mormons out, (because they believed different)
Demanding respect & tolerance yet offering none in return and being tacky and
ill-mannered in the process. . .all par for the course for the gay agenda.
It's no secret how to start a firestorm in SLC. These guys got exactly what
I was actually there! It may come to a surprise to many of you, but it wasn't
annoying at all--it was actually quite fun! Picture were taken and people
kissed, and that's it. The Temple staff asked that we stay on the sidewalk and
(at least while I was there) we obeyed as far as we could.
Hopefully they had breath mints! Kiss off.
Its nice that someone was able to organize a protest outside of the church. Its
sad when a religion controls the city and the sidewalks around its property.
Its time to take back salt lake from the lds church and send them packing.
She's a former councilwoman. She very nicely represented a portion of her
constituency that is sadly under-represented most of the time. People knew her
positions when they elected her. Not every elected representative
is going to represent YOUR views. Thank goodness.
"Restaurants have the right to refuse service to anyone, but if they do so based
on legally protected status' such as sex, race, religion or sexual orientation;
then it is illegal." So is it illegal to tell the missionaries to leave your
house since religion is included?What a mess!
Still more on the public relations front:Does it matter to have good
PR? For whatever reason, in recent years the church appears to feel that it
doesn't matter- That all they have to do is obey God's laws and it doesn't
matter how anyone else perceives the church's actions.I disagree, I
think it does matter very much. I think we can live our beliefs without being
bigots or intolerant of people who don't share our beliefs.We are a
missionary church which by definition means we are out proselytizing
non-mormons. If we create a climate where most non-mormons think we are bigots
then we are closing doors before we ever knock on them.
I am impressed. You were able to draw 60 people to your protest. Hope you get
the message that your behavior is not acceptable.
More on the public relations issue:I don't know who is giving the
church public relations advice, but whoever it is needs to be given a different
church calling, because the church is taking a pounding in recent years.Look, we don't have to allow members to be actively gay and stay in good
standing in the church, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't treat homosexual
individuals with respect in the secular realm. What is the harm from
allowing gay couples to hold hands or kiss on church property?I've
seen it mentioned that perhaps the gay couple was baiting the security, or that
allowing them to show PDA on church property would promote others to do so. This
is all the more reason to leave them alone. By making it a big deal you actually
invite more attention to the issue.Trying to kick that gay couple
off church property for PDA makes the church looks intolerant and bigetous to
the non-mormon public and leads to crowds of people on the church property
protesting. Absolutely stupid move by church security.
They finally figured it out. They stayed on public property and you can kiss
away. Congradulations!!! How they got a permit for the demonstration. It is
I was born into the LDS church but no longer have any respect of it.
This is a great opportunity to plan for the general conference. Have a Kiss in
on public property right in front of the bigots as they go to and from
Wow, the difference between the posts on Deseret News and the Salt Lake Tribune
are night and day on this issue. Apparently this is the LDS apologists'
website.Look, I'm mormon- but to say that the church can legally
discriminate against people, just because it occurs on private property is not
legally correct, nor smart from a public relations stand-point.Restaurants have the right to refuse service to anyone, but if they do so
based on legally protected status' such as sex, race, religion or sexual
orientation; then it is illegal.Anyone who has ever walked through
the plaza knows that PDA is perfectly acceptable. I've walked through there with
my wife and I've held her hand and kissed her there. Security didn't get in my
face and if they had, I would have taken offense.Sexual orientation
is a legally protected status, just like race. If they let hetrosexual couples
hold hands and kiss on the property then there's a strong legal argument they
should let gay couples do so too. But even more importantly, not doing so just
makes the church look really bad to the non-mormon public.
Do you pay taxes to use the Main street plaza park?
I wonder why you call this demonstration "disrespectful". Who were they being
disrespectful to? I read nothing about violence, name calling, profanity, angry
mobs, etc. Just a bunch of people peacefully -and I believe quite respectfully
- expressing their opinion.
When another establishment has a sign that says "no shirt, no shoes, no service"
and you don't have shoes on and they kick you out, does anybody put up a fit?
OH, BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!!
This is why Rocky, is his great wisdom, knew selling Main Street to a religion
was a terrible idea. The LDS Church was able to create a wider and deeper chasm
between it and the normal world.
sorry but being a religious entity, the LDS church does not pay property or any
other tax on anything it owns or purchases.
Let's face it...odds are extremely good that the men in question were asked to
leave because it was a homosexual display, not just a PDA. I haven't been to
Temple Square in years, but last time I was there, I saw dozens of couples
walking hand-in-hand...it is, however, private property. The owners have the
right to enforce behavior as they see fit. Public access doesn't mean you don't
have to respect the wishes of the owners, it just means you don't have to be
part of a private group to use the space. I mean, campgrounds in the canyons
are public access, but that doesn't mean I get to do whatever I want while using
them. That being said, I do find the idea of encouraging anyone to leave the
area because of a kiss to be ridiculous overkill. Who's at fault? Well,
there's blame to be had on both sides of the issue. Stop being naive and
assuming one or the other is completely in the clear. Neither side is doing
much to win sympathy from anyone who's not already aligned in this.
It's perfectly legal to discriminate (for any reason or no reason at all) when
private property is involved, that's why they call it private. These 2 guys were
asked to leave and the response by their own admonition was to use profanity.
The police were called and they were issued a citation as evidence that they
broke the law. If the LDS church wants to restrict gays or anyone for that
matter, from showing affection on their property, they have every legal right to
do so. The response from the gay community has been childish at best. It seems
like when it comes to the gay community, it's their way or the highway.
By the way, Spencer Kimball used to kiss men on the cheek all the time, and walk
with his arm around them.
The protesters aren't the problem here. It is the Council woman who doesn't seem
to mind ignoring that the majority of her constinuency happends to be law
abiding people many of which happen to be LDS. To call on a "peaceful"
demonstration doesn't mean a "disrespectful" demonstration. Salt Lake City
voters take note. To respect the rights private property owners is a LDS or
non-LDS public demonstration of civility. It would be nice to have several
people have a "peaceful demonstration" of affection right in front of this
council woman's home just to send the message that she should use her position
to elevate the City ordenainces she's promised to suscribe to and to respect and
follow the will of the people who voted her into office instead of having people
follow HER will. But this Liberal pseudo-politician would immediately cry fowl
and intimidation. Typical Liberal response.
Wrong, the church does not pay taxes on properties oriented around it's
"religious mission" only on commercial ventures like farms, ranches and
industry. This property is tax free.
I am mormon, but all of you apologists sticking up for Temple Square security
are being rediculus. Yes it is private property, but it also it public access-
just like a shopping mall or your neighborhood grocery store. If you
were at the grocery store and you were holding hands with your
girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband and security pounced on you and asked you to
leave because public displays of affection (PDA) aren't allowed- you would get
angry too. Obviously, PDA is allowed at Temple Square as I've been
there with my wife and have kissed her on the church's property. There is
nothing wrong with doing so and security would have no right to get in my face
about it. What the Temple Square security did was wrong and they
should apologize. They sure didn't do the church any favors. Does it really hurt
the church if a gay couple holds hands while walking through the plaza or if
they give each other a kiss on the cheek? Use your heads people.
So, the next time 2 missionaries come knocking on my door and I tell them I'm
not interested in listening to them and they keep on talking I should call the
police. Is that how you want it?
So when is the church going to buy south temple and impose their
“morality” on us there???
Of course the church pays taxes on this property. And it is not so called
"private property" it IS private property owned by the LDS church.
Yeah this was certainly a waste of time and got nothing accomplished...just a
bunch of people who share a common belief gathering to express themselves. How
many of you attended church today?
For all those who think it is the LGBT community who are "intolerant"... I
suppose you also think it was the Mormons who were intolerant in Missouri...
after all those people who ran out the Mormons had beliefs as well, and those
beliefs should have been respected right???
A lot of people are forgetting that the reason the couple started an altercation
is because they pointed out to the security guards that straight couples show
PDA all the time at the same location and nobody says a word, but along come a
gay couple and here show up the security guards. I would fight it too. Should
they have started using profanity? Give respect where respect is due, I say.
People will protest ANYTHING against the Mormon Church. If President Monson
said;" We don't want ANy of the people that are not of our faith today baptised
and become members" There would be hundred of people protesting and demanding to
be baptised.Get real!
Come on D-News, your article says the couple were "holding hands and kissing".
Would you really classify a peck on the cheek as "kissing"? I think kissing
requires two active sets of lips. I've given friends and family members a kiss
on the cheek but I'd never say we were "kissing".
LGBT are generally hypocrites. They cry for tolerance yet disrespect those who
have a right to believe differently. A social group that is growing as the list
of their unresolved issues grow. A continuous need to identify oneself through
being different, oppositional, and defiant. Those in favor of these two
individuals would be hard-pressed to live in New York or San Fran as they would
be a drop in the LGBT pan. Baiting a moral institution into enforcing theology
and higher standards is cowardly at best.
This is the bottom line the property is privately owned by the LDS church. They
have rules and people have to obey them. The church also has very strict
standards and they want those to apply to the property they own. So basically
the church is against same sex relationships and so why would they let them show
there affection for them when they are against same sex relationships? Its not
them being hypocrites its them standing up for what they believe in.
Henry Drummond brings up a valid point. The church releases a carefully worded
statement to explain their actions. But the truth of the matter is that the
Mormon church does not want gay couples to show affection on their property.
Church spokeswoman: don't lie to us by saying all public displays of affection
on church property are handled the same way, because they aren't. There is
definitely a double standard here.
gregz.Yes public areas have rules and boundaries, but in modern society we
expect those rules and boundaries to be enforced equally, not merely against one
group. That is the meaning of discrimination. To my knowledge, the Church NEVER
has behaved this way towards the thousands upon thousands of newly weds who
engage in public displays of affection on main street plaza, many of them while
Stenar | 11:51 a.m. July 12, 2009"According to an interview in the City
Weekly of the two men in question, they said at no point did they refuse to
leave the plaza."A friend of mine saw the whole thing, and he said
that the two were very belligerent and swearing and confrontational to the
Of course the two men in question aren't going to say they refused to leave the
plaza. But witnesses said they did.
One question,Does the LDS pay taxes on this so called "private
For the Church to claim they do not allow public displays of affection
is...absurd. Is anyone familiar with temple square expected to believe this? I
cannot even count the number of times I have seen newly married couples being
photographed kissing in front of the reflecting pool in the plaza. I can however
count the times I have seen these publicly affection newlyweds being stopped by
security, let alone handcuffed and forced to the ground. The number is zero.
STUPID! If that was my property and I paid multi-millions to buy it and upkeep
it. I would expect to receive the common courtesy of following a few simple
rules. Remeber this is NOT a tax funded park. Personally I say tear the park
down! Maybe they could build another building there. The people of SLC do not
deserve that beautiful park.
All the name callers seem to be the ones that are intolerant. Plus they never
have even a reasonable argument - usually just name calling - very mature folks.
Private property is just that private so public displays are not appropriate
when that is the desire of the owners. Got mu laugh for the day on some of these
Even in public areas there are rules and boundaries. For example, if I chose to
wear a shirt with a large vulgarity printed on it, I could (and should) be asked
to leave certain areas. If I were sitting with my girlfriend and we were
kissing, that may be appropriate some places, but not others. I do not
understand why this is "news" in Utah. So they got arrested, or removed. It's
still not news. As such, this has reminded why I'm glad I moved out of Utah
(yes, I'm a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints), and
currently living in California.
Of course the Lds Church had the RIGHT to prohibit these men from kissing on
their property, but does that make it ethical or good? There are many things
which we have the legal right to do, but being good and moral goes so far beyond
what our legal rights are. And as a religious institution, they should be held
to even higher standards. Yes the Lds Church had the legal right to evict these
men from their property, but was it ethical? Was it just? I believe it was not.
"As You Have Done Unto the Least of These, You Have Done Unto Me". "Do unto
others as you would have them do unto you." The important thing about these
scriptures is they don't refer to only those who are in your group, or who you
agree with. If they would not feel it just to be forced to leave an area for
public kissing, something which is celebrated every day at temple square, then
they should not do that to others.
Everyone seems to be defending the Church's right to discriminate against gays
holding hands and kissing on their property. In my mind there's no argument
there. What I find strange is that the Church insists they don't allow kissing
and holding hands by heterosexual couples either. I'm on the plaza sometimes
three and four times a day and I'm sorry but that just doesn't pass the laugh
test. There are weddings going on six days a week down there and yes there is
plenty of affection being shown by newlyweds and others. Why not say just say
that you object to gay couples showing affection?
Have you all looked at the pictures yet? Yeah, these people do look like
lowlife’s who are doing nothing more the "goin' after the church"*roll
Use eminent domain @ pay a fair market value, bull doze the plaza and turn it
back into Main Street.The SLC City Council, Deedee Corradini and
Rocky sold us out on this deal. Who really runs SLC?The ACLU warmed
the city that something like this would happen. Leave Temple square behind
their gated walls.
Mike.. | 10:51 a.m. July 12, 2009Did the church not promise "public
access" during this whole debacle back when the property was sold. Don't promise
us public access if you aren't going to allow the public to access it the way
they would any other sidewalk downtown.As long as the public agrees
to obey rules set in place by the property owner. Even public property which is
owned by the city has rules, and people needs permission from the city to
protest. Maybe you ought to try running around in the nude on the street near
the Gallivan Center and see if Salt Lake Police won't respond to haul you
According to an interview in the City Weekly of the two men in question, they
said at no point did they refuse to leave the plaza.
There is definitely a double standard here. Apparently it's perfectly okay for
straight couples to exhibit the mildest forms of PDA on LDS property while it is
not okay for two men or two women. And give me a break. Do people actually think
they went out of their way, on purpose, to offend the church on "church" ground?
Why just a peck on the cheek then? If I had been asked to leave I would have
been difficult as well. Too bad the kiss-in wasn't on Church
property. That would have been a sight to see.
I'm trying as hard as I can to be tolerant of those whose beliefs differ from
mine, but every time they try to fight me on it, I (naturally) get defensive. I
truly want to be accepting of the gay community, but would they be OK with 60
LDS missionaries showing up at the local chapter of the LGBT Alliance office to
stage a "Preach-In?" Seriously, is sauce for the goose sauce for the gander?
What a delightful to get their point across--wish I'd been there, too!
let's just resolve the issue by posting signs at either end of the walkway with
the international symbol for "no" and silhouettes depicting hand holding,
kissing, walking arm-in-arm, hugging and proposing. The "no proposing" is for
the convenience of the proposer and proposee who may, after the proposal, be
inclined to engage in taboo hugging and kissing while still on the property.Do photographers get chased away for engaging in commercial activities
on the plaza or do they pay a fee for posing their clients there? Would a
photographer posing a same gender couple for engagement shots by the beautiful
reflecting fountain be chased off?
If anyone is doing something contrary to the belief of those on the private
grounds, security has every right to cite them to police. Let us not act like
these two peaceful men were detained for no reason. I find the kissing display
on Sunday to be disrespectful to the LDS church and the security who originally
cited them. Why do we have to live in a world where if someone asks us not to do
something we feel WE MUST gather a bunch of our friends and get even by
disrespectfully going back to an area we were asked to leave and practicing the
same action again. Disrespect to other beliefs will get the LGBT community
From what I've read, the couple was walking across the Main Street Plaza holding
hands and then one briefly kissed the other on the cheek. They were told to
leave because public displays of affection are not allowed on the plaza. If that
really is the whole story (and it's hard to know when the story is basically
only coming from the couple), it just seems like a ridiculous reason to be asked
to leave. Public displays of affection? Come on. I've passed through the area
with my husband before holding hands, and I'm sure I've pecked him on the cheeks
while viewing the lights at Christmas. A kiss on the cheek is just not a big
deal and is barely noticeable.
No, the reason you resigned your membership is because you coundn't/wouldn't
live the standards of the church and so now you feel obligated to take down
others as well. The day I question my membership is the day that the church
starts to loosen its standards because individuals and groups complain that the
church takes a stand about certain things, when in fact it has every right to do
so. You dont see the church staging protests on the property of gay home owners
to make a point. Instead they use the legal system to express their concerns.
They vote their position which the yhave every right to do and which is 100%
constitutional. And now we are told that we cant even vote our position.
Do whatever you want. Just don't do it on church property. You don't purposely
go in someones home and try to offend them, do you? Show some class and
maturity. Nobody takes these 'jr.high school' protests seriously.
Bummer man-- we'll miss you.. maybe....I guess if you can live the
standards there is always an excuse---- you now have yours, use it wisely.
Once again a couple of individuals sought to get away with violating the law.
Thanks to the Church Of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints for standing up for
what is right and wholesome once again!
I am a New Yorker, where everything appears to be accepted but the folks
commenting here about "unfair, bigotry etc" are missing out on a key element.
This was private property, a church, a club etc all have rules and that are to
be followed or leave. Simple response. You folks that seem offended should just
realize what you are doing, you want to disobey and be glamorized for the
action. As we say in the bronx "forgetaboutit"
Did the church not promise "public access" during this whole debacle back when
the property was sold. Don't promise us public access if you aren't going to
allow the public to access it the way they would any other sidewalk downtown.
resign from the LDS Church because of bigotry. You resigned because you do not
have a testimony or belief in living prophets and the Divinity of the Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Sorry you don't but now you are free from
it's obligations upon its members.
This kind of bigotry is why I resigned from the LDS church. When you proclaim
your membership numbers, know that I will no longer be among them.
Gay people kissing on Temple Square is a provocative gesture designed to up the
ante by the gay rights community. The Church is right to protect the conduct on
Temple Square consistent with Church principles. Sadly, opponents of the
Church's position on gay marriage have not shown the same decency as the Church
has. Nor do they reserve the right for the Church and it's members to affirm
their beliefs even though they seek the same respect for affirming their
beliefs. Leaders have consistently issued public statements asking for respect
for each other - regardless of what side you take on the marriage debate.
Unfortunatley, the gay community has crossed the line thinking their position
will gain sympathy with these latest tactics. What they hope to gain in media
attention, they will lose in sympathy by open-minded individuals who will see
such tactics for what they are: an attempt to embarrass the Church.
Yeah, it seems heavy-handed, but it is private property after all. If it were
some other organization owning it, I wonder what reaction a similar incident
would get.The article doesn't show both sides of the story. What is
church security's explanation? They saw them pecking, so they ran up with
handcuffs? I doubt it.
All that this protest shows is the gay communities' intolerance of others'
beliefs. They are exposing their need to have it their way in every situation,
even on someone else's property. But I do thank them for showing their true
colors so willingly. By the way, the LDS church will never bow to their
protests (large or small).
I commented Friday on the Seminary Teacher who was arrested but I was rejected
by the Deseret News. I would comment on the kissers but I would probably be
rejected here as well even though I am siding with the Mormon Church on this
particular issue, though not on the general attitude towards gay people by the
Wow... More hypocrisy at it's purest. We don't have to be tolerant
of your beliefs, but you should be tolerant of ours!the LDS church
had a right to kick those two men out. They were on the church's property. Now,
to further be an annoyance, people do this.... They aren't going to
change the church's views on this matter. It's just an annoyance.
The individuals were on private property, and were asked to leave (for whatever
reason) and they refused. That is when Police had to be involved. As stupidly
politically correct as we are becoming, I still can't do whatever I want on
What this article didn't explain is that the couple were handcuffed AFTER they
started yelling profanities and creating a scene. There was nothing peaceful
about their objections to being asked to leave.
bleh...waste your time however you want