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Chaffetz leads opposition to benefits for gay workers
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While I believe that marriage is between one man and one woman, I don't think it's right to discriminate against other kinds of couples! There is a way to make both sides happy.
Is it enjoyable?? No, it is not, but I can not afford in home nurse care which he needs nor can I afford all the meds he needs. I suppose I could abandon him and let him live in a homeless situation.(That is not going to happen)
He doesn't qualify for medicare so while I have health insurance he does not..
So my question Mr Chaffetz, what are you thinking??? This bill would allow my brother to be included on my health insurance and receive proper medical care. What if he were your brother Mr Chaffetz?? Why don't you do what is right for your constituents and quit running for office until it's time to announce and run. Let's stop the run for election from the time your elected and think of those that elected you--- Do your job Mr Chaffetz and think outside the box...
As Chaffetz points out, the bill to make things equal - doesn't. Other family structures are discriminated against and this doesn't help. It is a bad bill, kill it.
Federal benefits for same sex couples is merely basic fairness. How inhumane does one have to be to act and think like Chaffetz? This isn't Gay Marriage, it's just extending benefits. I thought a majority of Utahans favored equal benefits, as long as it's not called "marriage".
Extending benefits to all is the Christ-like thing to do, regardless of how you feel about the sin. How can you "love the sinner, but hate the sin" if you deny basic benefits? Seems to me you have to hate the sinner and the sin to be so heartless.
There was a time when one member of the family was the earner. Another member of the family, with potentially the most interesting but also perhaps the most challenging job, managed the base. Together they raised a new generation.
Now with that model and it is a good one--likely the best one--only one member of the family has a direct relationship with the employer but all members of the family need insurance. Employers, competing with each other for talent, eventually came to the family benefit.
However, once you take the next generation out of the equation, there is no longer a need for the family benefit. A childless couple of any sort has two earners and two points of contact with employer benefits.
Where does this narrow-minded thinking come from?
1- I'm not talking about marriage.
2- If you want to talk to me about protecting marriage, talk to me about reducing domestic violence, providing family planning services to low-income families, offering daycare to families, or financial planning for newlyweds. Then I'll listen. But if your marriage depends on keeping gay and lesbian people unprotected under the law, then I don't want your marriage and I don't think it's worth protecting.
Who said benefits are a right? The are a benefit.
They are not "extra", they are part of a "benefits package" offered an employee to work for an employer. In fairness, all employees doing the same work should be treated & compensated equally.
We are talking about fairness, equality and compassion. I understand that Chaffetz supporters find treating Gays & Lesbians fairly, equally and compassionately offensive. But that says more about their values and morals. Know that those values and morals are not anything to be proud of.
These old school ideas are dying fast and those who hold onto them are going to be left behind by the next generation that is seeking a higher level of spirituality and equality.
Health insurance now, or catastrophic subsidies later. You choose.
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