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Economy dents home schooling
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The homeschooling community is very resilient, many of us have always worked from home to begin with. Every cloud has a silver lining, perhaps this will also encourage others to start their own businesses and work from home too.
As a former English teacher, I am aware of how hard teachers try to teach students to write essays. We applaud their efforts. In an effort to help, we are offering this as a free service so that everyone can take advantage of its simplicity and put their time and energy to a greater and better good.
Sure there are good home schoolers, but those I know are not. We are creating a generation of kids who will not be able to function in the world outside their home with little education and little access to higher ed.
Public schools are not in chaos, they do very well, even with dysfunctional students. They are accountable, their student achievement is public information.
Parents can keep kids at home to work and support the family with no requirement to teach or learn. I pity many of these students.
"Reality" had one thing right. It's the parents. Poor parenting will affect a child whether they go to public, private, or home school. (Don't try to tell me you've never seen a public school kid have serious trouble because of poor parenting). It's just that when a homeschooled kid has trouble, we link the poor parenting to the homeschooling, when really, poor parenting is a separate issue affecting kids all over the educational spectrum.
Reality probably knows lots of good homeschoolers. He/she just doesn't realize they're homeschoolers because the bad ones stick out and get held up as an example.
Well, probably not the social skills that are prevalent in public schools, and you know which ones Im talking about. The homeschooled kids I have met were always socially capable, and usually more so than public school kids. They just dont know how to use the same type of vulgar, crass language and inhumane treatment of others.
My children are home schooled and know how to be social with children of all ages as well as adults. I almost always receive compliments on how well they are all behaved and how bright they are, and yet people are still worried that the home school child will not find into the mold that public school children conform to. For me, Individualism is the way to go.
What I've learned:
*All children do better when they are loved and cared for by interested parents.
*The more choices available to parents the better our community will be.
*The best homeschooling takes place when we take our children TO something rather than FROM something. *There is no "one-right-answer" for all families. *Socially, the teen years are a struggle for all children, not just home-schoolers.
It's been interesting to watch people who don't know our educational preference. I am often asked what I did to make my children so polite and amiable. One older couple on a trip to our state asked if they could "adopt" my children for grandchildren. It's true homeschoolkids don't dress like others or talk like others, but diversity enriches our community; it doesn't weaken it.
Public School is an essential service to those in society that need it, for whatever reason. Just dont try and stereotype homeschoolers, you will just come off looking much more ignorant than you try to portrait homeschoolers as being.
As to socializing, when else in ones life does one spend all day interacting only with people ones own age? The answer is never! Homeschool kids definitely tend to be more socially versatile.
One home school mom pretty much confirmed this when she told me, "Well, other families attend public schools because they don't know any better."
The result is that my local public school is deprived of kids who could be there setting a good example, of parents that could be contributing to the teacher-student-parent community. Good families can have a leavening effect on their peers, and be doing missionary work in the process. Instead, they remain cloistered around the kitchen table as if it were a monastery, refusing to let their lights shine to the world.
This would be another source of conservative humor if kids were going to pay the price. In education, its hard to learn more than your teacher knows. Your teachers bias filter what you learn. At least, being taught in a real school, you change teachers giving you balance. You can elect to take courses with greater specificity or difficulty.
If mommy doesn't do calculus you won't.
Society is competitive, society forces inclusion. Ability to deal with that competitiveness and the pressures involved is a needed skill. If I was hiring someone for my business and they lacked those skills, I wouldn't hire them.
Hopefully, these Mom's pool their efforts and work to create environments where their kids do get some socialization time.
Anonymous: Since you parents have a formal education, attend church and really care about your kids, you should send them to public school to make up for the parents who don't get involved and care. Its your civic duty to make up the difference.
Anonymous: Since home schooled kids don't get to experience fights, drugs, nasty dress, vulgar language, and blatant disregard for authority on a daily basis they will not be prepared for real life. You must send them into the world of junior high "real life" so they'll be prepared for future experiences.
Hmmm...compelling arguments. I think I'll keep homeschooling my kids.
However, the thing they are good at is starring at their feet when you talk with them. It is surprising to me how many people at D.I. were home schooled.
This is an absolutely false statement, unless you're talking of public school. If this is YOUR world view, then I certainly don't want it taught to my children. If yours WAS a true statement, then there would be no Michaelangelo, Einstein, Edison, Ghandi, etc. for they would have never learned anything past their own teachers' knowledge (which in Einstein's case, wasn't much, was it?).
A great MENTOR (not teacher) actually provides opportunity and inspiration for their students to stand face-to-face with these great men & women of history, and to learn from THEM (no filters here). Why would I teach physics, when I can let my children learn from Einstein? A great MENTOR knows the student WELL (impossible for PS) and gently helps that child find DEPTH in their studies as well as BREADTH. We don't stop learning about something because its a new week and we have to learn something new. If we don't know Calculus, we find someone who does. Very simple. Education is not complicated. Only bureaucracies make it so.
Its about true EDUCATION, not schooling.
We are not chattel, or cattle, for that matter. We are leaders who have the courage to stand up and be unpopular because we have a different view and want that heard. Funny how we get accused of only having one world view, when you are saying the opposite... that you want homeschoolers to CONFORM to what you want, to your "desires". We want freedom to choose, and freedom to learn so that we can make the best choices. Yes - PS kids do learn to just sit down and shut up because they aren't going to get their way. Socialism is counting on them! But don't be afraid, because there is a generation of leaders being raised to shout "NO" and hold up that banner of liberty again. We are not afraid.
I went to a public school that really wasn't a very good one. We had some serious problems. Of course, at the time, I thought it was just fine. I only say it was not very good in hindsight... looking back after having completed my PhD.
When I hear parents make comments like this I wonder where their heads are. There is NO WAY kids that are home schooled will be prepared "SOCIALLY" for life after school. What home school parents fail to understand is public school is SO SO SO IMPORTANT for the normal social development of kids. Kids who go to public school learn to mingle and associate with other kids. They learn to compete in the class room. They learn so many valuable lessons from group activities and clubs to the tremendous life lessons of athletics. Also, they learn proper boy-girl relationships in high school that home school kids are short changed with. Robbing your kids of the fun and great memories of high school is a shame. Finally, I would rather have my kids being taught by certified teachers who have college teaching degrees! The home schooled kids that I have know have ALL had difficult times adjusting as they get out on their own.
"To: Keep them out of PS" You obviously are not noticing the spelling and grammar mistakes of the home school supporters.
"To observations" You are the best argument against home schooling on this board.
"mamafirst" You will not be able to teach your children more then you know, you said as much yourself when you stated that if your kids would learn calculus you will have to find someone that can teach them calculus. Sorry reading Einstein's works will not teach your kids physics.
I am reading much anecdotal evidence supporting the superiority of home schooling over public schooling, can someone point me to some statistical analysis of home schooling? I have a hard time believing that 90% of home schoolers go on to higher education.
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