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For example, Mormons believe that Baptism is something of a contract between man and God. Only someone who is authorized of God can make that contract. They also assume that the rest of the Christian world believes in the contract analogy as well. The fact is they don't.
Most Christians view Baptism the same way they view prayer. It is simply an act of faith and a way of approaching God through ritual. They don't see it as obligating God to do anything anymore than prayer does.
Can you see the problem when Mormon missionaries show up on people's doorstep telling them that their Baptism isn't valid? Its like telling someone they aren't authorized to pray.
Then when people react to this message by saying Mormons aren't Christian, the Mormons go into "persecution mode" where they start bemoaning how terrible everyone treats them.
If you want to be better understood, try understanding the people you are preaching to first.
Pay less attention to football games, and spend more time studying our own religion so that we understand our own message.
I will not compromise my principles and ethics to be "POPULAR". Niether will the LDS Church. The LDS Church is not upon the earth to be popular -- but to teach the truth and bring people unto Christ. Niether was Christ. In fact, the Nazerene was crucified by the masses due to his unpopularity.
Will the LDS Church now enter a new era of persecution because we refuse to compromise morality and ethics to the alter of Homosexuality?
So be it. So it was in the days of Noah, the times of Sodom, and perhaps the times of today.
I now live in Utah in an area predominately LDS. My neighbors on both sides are not practicing members of the church. Regardless they have taught me many good things about living a truly Christ-like life. Frankly I have learned more from them than I have in most of my Church meetings. But I continue to go simply in an effort to improve myself and learn to teach my children.
Most Church members I know understand they are no more important or perfect than anyone else. They look to examples inside and outside the church for inspiration. It is unfortunate that there are some "self-righteous" and "anointed" members who give the rest of us a bad reputation. However, every social, political, or religious group has the same problem, the few who claim to represent the many. Unfortunately they are the ones remembered.
The fact is that I LOVE the restored Gospel, publicly approved or not. Heaven help me, I love it more than life. While these polls are useful in gauging how well our message is being received, if you look at them a little too much, it can lead you to false conclusions about what is going on. The fact is that while to some degree we have experienced a slowdown in interest in many places, consider that other religions are experiencing a downturn. Yes they are.
The way to proceed is to do what the Brethren have done: put our necks on the line like we did with Prop. 8. Public relations people would never have advised such a move. The only image we need to worry about is Christ's image in our countenance. Things will work out in time.
Mayby you mormons have the goods and maybe you dont. I dont know, and neither do you.
So, let others practice their religion and you practice yours.
As far as we know, yours is no better.
Part of the problem with the church's PR image is that they do not talk about the good things the church does. The church got PR about the calender excommunication, they got PR over the prop 8 stuff, etc. The church rarely makes sure that people know the good stuff that they do. For example, when so many BYU students helped in Thailand after the Tsunam, and they did it to celebrate Joseph Smith's birthday instead of a parade. (if you search about Joseph Smith's Tsunami Rescue Brigade you will find it online). People's opinon of mormons would go up if they knew more about the service, and didn't just focus on the things that people find strange.
BUT we are more known then 10 years ago thanks to President Hinckley, the Olympics etc.
In 2002 a foreign parliament member on his tird day in SLC during the 2002 Games said to me:
"It is horrible to think, that I have lived 35 years (his age) in a fallacy and not known the truth about you people."
We will NEVER be able to rise out of obscurity if we just wait for the church to do it... It is NOT the church's job - but our's, as a people.
BUT the church's duty is to assist and help us, members, to do it. (just like it did in 2002 - and we mastered beyond all imagination)
greetings from a foreign country - far away from "the center stakes"
There are many people who hold very similar values. All they need is someone to lead out. At subsequent meetings, and without any fanfare, things were arranged so that those of us who didn't want to go to the clubs were all in the same car; we could come and go without a problem.
Interesting. This is a common critique from people who don't like the Mormons or their religion. However, I know of no other religion today that invites people to study, pray and come to their own conclusion about whether or not the gospel is true. How do the Mormons then lack credibility? Sure, most Mormon members of the church who assert that the Mormon church is the restored gospel of Jesus Christ and the only 'true' church on the earth. However, most Mormons (there are always a few idiots) will tell you that although they believe it is true, you can find out (read: think for yourself) personally whether or not it is true. They assert that God Himself will confirm this for you. Any Mormon that knows their stuff knows that no person or people can convert an individual. Only God can. Thus, they leave it to God to do so. There is nothing arrogant about it, and God is probably credible. Before you criticize, make sure you understand what you're criticizing.
I would be willing to bet the same results will be found for Jehovah's Witnesses, Seventh-Day Adventists, Mennonites, Episcopalians, and Hutterites. All good people, all trying to make the world a better place.
You wondered if any other church renders as much humanitarian aid as the LDS Church? The LDS church is so far below most other mainstream christian religions in charitable giving that it's laughable. Almost all mormon church money is spent on building buildings, running it's investments, buying property and media outlets. None of these things really profit anyone anything other than making the church richer and increasing it's membership. One could make the case that it's not a religion, it's a corporation. Some corporations give more to charity than LDS Inc.
You can't "own" Christ. You can't own God. Most people can't even comply with the simplest teachings which are doing good works to others, not judging, being humble, meek, forgiving. Yet they spend huge time and money doing the most hollow things like building churches.
The biggest problem with the LDS church as far as image goes isn't a problem at all!
LDS members claim that they can become a god, which clashes fundamentally with the thoughts of a good chunk of Americans. What's upsetting (for me) is not this claim, but that the faith based claim is purposely hidden in the backlight.
The LDS church wants to focus on the restoration of the gospel, which sounds like a Christian basis, but want to keep non-Christian sounding beliefs out of the public eye. Deny them? No. But advertise them? Not at all.
As I see it, there is no problem with how the LDS church is seen.
P.S. "The Church" refers to the Catholic Church to 98% of the U.S. population
In order to give Jim McMahon his "hall of fame" placement, it is necessary that he do what all the other's have done....get the diploma. Without the diploma, no placement. You must follow the rules to get the acknowledgment. Simple as that. Graduate! All the others have!
About the fact that the church will loose or is loosing it's numbers...
we're the fastest growing religion in the U.S. and the 4th largest religion in the U.S. Look to the future, the stone is rolling forth....for those who seek wisdom, find it though reading the Book of Mormon, it will change your life.
Please try to remember that the people's constitutional right was taken away (the supreme court of CA had determined it was everyone's constitutional right to marry who they wanted, regardless of gender. Of course people are angry and protesting the groups they felt had the biggest impact. Their picketing ALL churchs involved is also part of free speech and their rights.
One tries to be an LDS version of the comedian Limbaugh & dumb down topics for the American Idol groupies that Lou Dobbs originated.
The other is a political shapeshifter who couldn't outdebate Huckabee or St Rudy of 9/11.
Thank you for your kind and rational response. I love comparative religion studies. I find the "mystery doctrines" of the LDS Faith fascinating. I think the King Follett discourse is a work of profound importance when Joseph Smith was articulating the LDS view of God. Although I disagree, respectfully so, that it was a revelation from on High, I do think Smith's ability to articulate his view of the Heavens is priceless. I hope I never become so pompous as to think anyone's personal beliefs are to be ridiculed. I just like the idea of seeing the whole picture. Thank you for your reply. ( Is there anywhere recorded that there were some who walked away from your Faith after hearing this Discourse? After all , that would have been a hard one if I were an on the fence believer at the time.)
The aftermath of the Gay-marriage/prop 8 and staning up for what they believe is a necessary hit to the public image.
If people want to criticize us for paying our tithing and call us names for that, sobeit.
However, if we would get out of our homes a little more often, get out and be real neighbors (me included), I think the image will improve . . . at least until the next thing threatens our core values.
I am not worried about the loud minority calling us names and yelling "foul"; just the unnecessary negative view that can be changed by us acting like the Christians we are taught to be each Sunday.
According to the Pew Study, while the LDS church attracts a lot of "in-switchers" (converts) it has a lot of "out-switchers" (apostates).
Henri Gooren found that over half of new coverts leave within a year, and more leave after that (at least in South America). David Stewarts shows retention rates at about 8-18% according to mission presidents he interviewed.
You should really check your numbers.
A real interesting study.
I find it fascinating how much stock people put in the media and "image," like it's somehow important. I fully expect membership in the Church to drop off in the U.S. over this gay issue. Anyone study the parable of the 10 virgins? I also expect we'll see an increase in membership over time, as other Christian churches cave to government censorship while the LDS Church stands its ground. Try reading the Proclamation to the World. That's a line the Church will not cross. They certainly weren't interested in social image when they put that out!
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