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MormonTimes.com: LDS Church issues new Prop. 8 overview
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Sounds like people who are unable to control their emotions and passions - spoiled brats who have decided thay can have what they want as they want it without regard for the feelings and rights of others!
The after-vote violence certainly confirms that the churches and people advocating Prop 8 may have been right all along: the goal of "gay" marriage is not really about marriage at all; it's about agressive people forcing their "rights" and life-style on a society that is offended by the very nature of homosexual behavior. It's not "gay" - it's offensive!
Looks like we all need to prepare for a tough and violent fight ahead.
I would, however add a sentence:
All people of faith have cause for concern when others try to remove rights from their fellow citizens by voting on their lives.
I think that has to be the central method of every person of faith: we ALL get to live our lives.
People of faith need to be just as vigorous in fighting for the rights of others as fighting for their own.
- Making Prop 8 somehow a referendum on CHURCH rights is a sick example of confusing the victim with the perpetrator. The one group DIRECTLY losing rights here is the gay/lesbian community. The biggest donor to that effort is the church. The church is not the victim here, they are the perpetrator. If they want to establish a respected and permanent place in the public square in the future, they should choose to support topics that help people, not hurt people.
And if any genuine anger has been expressed, IS IT ANY WONDER? Proposition 8 went far beyond simply prohibiting Gay couples from marrying. It also took away an existing right. The Supreme Court of California correctly ruled that there is no constitutional basis to deny Gay couples the right to marry; yet after over 18,000 such marriages had already taken place, now those marriages may ultimately be declared null and void, thanks in large part to the Mormon church.
For all those who either voted for Proposition 8 or contributed financially to its passage, do you now feel righteous and smug now that you may have helped invalidate over 18,000 existing marriages? And if it was YOUR marriage that had put up for a popular vote, don't you think YOU'D be just a little bit perturbed?
and when Kramer was guarding the armoire and he got strong armed by the two gay dudes?
At any rate, under the constitution, the courts have every right to strike down the voter approved ban of gay marriage. It's a moral duty to do so.
There will be differences of opinion on political issues that affect our moral beliefs--abortion, stem cell research, euthenasia, same-sex marriage, etc. As well as differences in religion among people of all faiths, and of no professed faith.
Peaceful protests are part of the political process, but extremeism in any form leads to terrible outcomes.
Let's each one of us embrace civility, dignity and respect in our associations with others who differ with us, no matter who the "us" may be.
No one is questioning the LDS churches right to have their position. They can enforce it in their church. What bothers people is their desire to enforce that belief on to others through the political process. There is no live and let live in their position.
For to long, I have felt that the disharmony and sometimes hateful comments that have been stated towards the Mormon church by other Christian groups has been counter productive. With all the things going on in our society, I believe that the focus needs to be on what all religious groups agree on, and not what they disagree on. Prop 8 and humanitarian services are two examples of where religions have crossed over to work in harmony.
I also believe that this can be done with the gay groups, I was very impressed by the wisdom and maturity of the statements by some of these groups. I am sorry to say that I just assumed that all people against Prop 8 were rioting and trashing the Mormon's and being very vindictive, kind of like people thinking all Mormons practice plural marriage.
The media has covered the riots and left us thinking this was how the whole gay population is, but reality is, it's not true, I do hope we can get along.
To paraphrase the USPS' ancient motto, "Neither moral argument, nor social stigma, nor biological fact, nor political vote shall stay these GLBT partisans from the swift completion of their 'toleration' agenda."
Alexander Pope, in his "Essay on Man," looked at our approach to what we consider immorality, or vice: "Vice is a creature of so frightful mien as to be hated needs but to be seen. Yet, seen to oft - accustomed to her face - we first endure, then pity, then embrace." He didn't look far enough - after the embrace comes the one-sided pressure against virtue (the old morality), with the eventual goal of turning the tables so far that, instead of proscribing a behavior, "right-thinking" (so-called) people will actually promote it.
I am thrilled to live in these times, when the wheat and tares are growing to the point of being able to discern them for what they are, and discriminating (using that verb in its former, positive sense) between moral philosophies is getting easier. I count it all good - especially for people of faith.
At this point it looks like the church Public Relations professionals are either playing the victim card for sympathy, or remodeling the church's image into something more mainstream for the evangelical community (insert any mine-sweeping for Romney 2012 reference here).
Instead of slick media releases, I would be more impressed if the LDS Church (and the other churches mentioned) would publicly counsel their members to PRAY for calm, peace, and civility. That is an appropriate religious (not political) response, which strangely no one has done yet.
However just because it was a chapel does not make the vandalism acceptable.
Honestly--what are people watching these protests supposed to think? We're apparently supposed to see all the shouting, threats, intimidation, vandalism, hate speech and crimes (how ironic!), and outright anarchy in an otherwise civilized society and suddenly decide: Oh, dear--these poor, oppressed folks really deserve to be married and raise children! We really need more adults and children approaching political issues and social problems this way! We can trust these people with the future of our society!
Seriously--who are they convincing by doing this? DEFINITELY not me!
Perhaps there's a much, MUCH different way that people show how much they deserve marriage and children?
Not going to happen. Ever.
Right is right and wrong is wrong.
and DEAN im sorry that you think you're more rational/smart and more in tune with truth than the leaders you've followed for however long. why not show a little faith and hang in there and see where this all leads before turning your back and walking away (whether that be literally or not)
We need to stand more firmly with the Church and work harder to protect marriage.
California homosexuals have always had, of course, the same marriage rights as anyone else -- male homosexuals may (and do) marry females, and vice versa. In addition, just like everyone else, they have a right to a domestic partnership arrangement, that gives them all the rights of marriage, just by a different name.
If you mean a right to same-sex marriage, they never really had it. A couple years ago, 4 corrupt activist justices on the state supreme court erronieously "discovered" that the California constitution contained a secret "right" to same-sex marriage. That would come as a shock to the framers of that constitution.
Prop 8 merely restored status quo. And now, the problem is correctly restored to the political arena.
If you think you've got a right to marry your buddy, your sister, your baby, your gerbil -- make your case. And let the political process decide. That's your right.
But the only "right" that's actually in danger here is the "right" to have a buddy on a corrupt court invent a new law for you, abrogating the political process.
Did it ever occur to you that perhaps the church doesn't want a seat at the table of public acceptance? If we simply changed our teachings based on the whims of society, we wouldn't be much of a "church." Whether you want to accept it or not, there ARE some things in this world that are black and white, right and wrong.
Re: Chuck Anziulewicz
"And if it was YOUR marriage that had put up for a popular vote, don't you think YOU'D be just a little bit perturbed?"
I can see your point here...but that doesn't make homosexuality any more right than it already is (or isn't). The fact of the matter is that homosexuality is a sin in the eyes of LDS (and many other religions). The fact that it is inherently wrong is basis enough for individuals to vote their conscience based on moral grounds.
These people (the media, gays and their supporters) don't care one way or the other about "truth"; all they care about is shoving gay marriage down our throats. The "truth" is that this WILL be shoved down our throats if we don't fight back.
Thank God for your guys (MOs). As a Catholic, I never heard "my" Church ever speak up about the issues you guys have. They are afraid to say anything for fear of not being "loving". Don't kowtow to them (media, liberals and gay establishment) because in the end, they'll knife you in the back.
When it comes to this issue, there is NO "compromise". Look at what "compromise" got when it came to abortion. If you'll look at the article in AP this week that shows a "family" (Mom, Dad and two children); namely, bones of this family that are 4200 years old, you can see what "marriage" is. You don't see 2 kids buried with 2 dudes do you? No, of course not.
We (conservatives) need to make sure we don't sit back "now" and think this is over because it isn't.
What do people call Bash Backs call that the church "Disolve or be destroyed"?
What are we supposed to call people who chant "Mormon Scum" except hate mongers?
This is not a fight about the rights of people who practice sin and abomination. Civil Unions in California grant these rights.
This is a fight to keep marriage between a man and a woman, because if redefined the state would then have even more fuel for the pushing of pro-homosexual views on kindergratners. There is a relationship, although all the nuances and steps involved are not spelled out in literture that is meant for the averaged rushed voter to read.
Deaf Guy
People are not thinking logically here. If a right to marriage exists, then if a man decides to divorce his wife, but the wife does not want the divorce, she could force him to remain in the marriage because his divorce would be violating HER marriage right. That's where this fuzzy thinking leads!
Marriage is either given by God, as the churches claims, and therefore is to be conducted within His parameters, or it is a social contract meant to assure a father of his paternity of his wife's children. A homosexual union does not fit within either of these scenarios.
Clearly, the Church is not interfering with anyone's right to marriage, since no such right exists. The real issue here is the absolute right of members of the Church to exercise their religion free from the slanders, slurs, and duress of others. Homosexuals want us to call evil good; we can't do that!
Since 70% of African-Americans voted for Prop 8, I think the Church's stand on Prop 8 will help the church grow with the people who actually get baptized, African-Americans and other people of faith.
I have known white liberals who got baptized, but the only one I can think of was inactive in less than three months. The only man I baptized on my mission who got ordained to the Melchezidek Priesthood was an African-American, the member of my stakes high council who has been a member the least vamount of time (not yet three years) is African-American (although his Africna-American wife has been a member over 20 years) and the Home Teaching Supervisor in my Elders quorum is an African-Americans (his Dad is from Liberia, but his mom descends from people who were enslaved in America, so he is more African-American than Obama) who has been a member for about 14 months.
There is nothing unbiased about the New York Times.
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