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Horrors of active service plague many vets long after the return home
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This is not what these young Enforcement Officers are experiencing running out on serving the country in Armed Forces
The THOUSANDS of young men that are injured for life
with vicious rememberances of bllod and distruction
Me, I was 17 in Korea, a Medic
This is tough on a young mam to see all the blood shed and trying to save the lives of really BRAVE men.
At 70, My heart still aches, I still have depression
and tears to match
I am upset to read so many stupid post by SARCASTIC idiots
Iraq and Afganistan are being protected by the same young men while these SARCASTIC idiots sit here on the COMPUTER
Young Cops with a GUN
Shooting Citizens
Scared out of their pants and shoot first and ask questions after it is to late
I am really concerned about Elderly People being mistreated
They have all fought in the previous wars to protect this Country
Going on a Mission or Coledge does not surfice and excuse the weak
It's funny how a person is calling for help and you look down and see all them dots on your chest.
I'm really mad at our VA for seeking help and almost got the death sentence! I'm lost where can vet get real help????
There are horror stories, and there are wonderful stories - real life is usually a mix of both, with less dramatic good and bad stuff thrown in to fill in the rest of our days. Those who think life is almost all one or the other need to become aware of both. There are combat vets who seem to be just fine - they have found a way to live that puts their combat experiences in a managable "box" and they may or may not let others have "access" to it. There are others who cannot get past the horrors they've seen and participated in, and their fears and tensions are unmanagable by themselves. Friends, though well-meaning, often don't know what to say to them or do for them.
Contact the VA - people who volunteer or work there usually do it for love. Keep up the efforts to find greater peace after your valiant service in our behalf. War is hell, but life is good.
It's too bad that John McCain doesn't have as much compassion for Joe the Veteran as he has for Joe the plumber.
It seems to be a fact that in today's America, once the soldier has completed his military function we no longer have any need for him.
there is nothing wrong with getting help when you need it. the help is there and can make a HUGE difference, but you have to admit you need it. it is important to you, and your family. it is "not just the world" it is what has happened to you and how you now fit into a different world then the one you were in before you left. its ok to be confused, angry, fearful, isolated when you come home and its ok to know you are and to seek help. its not ok to try and ignore it and tough it out.
Larry Anderson, MC, LPC
It's hard for me to have sympathy for people who lead nice, soft lives, and show no gratitude for those who keep them safe from the very real dangers they would otherwise face.
Unless, of course, you think there are no terrorists out there who would attack you for not being the right religion, just like there were no Japanese looking to take over other countries.
I think the spouses need far more than a 10 minute exposure to what they might expect. It should be mandatory for every spouse to attend at least a day long seminar.
The Army and many LEO use Lt. Col David Grossman to warn about this condition. If you can't see him in person, read his book "On Combat". The first part is hard to get through but necessary to understand the whole picture of PTSD. I would recommend it to any one. Another is by Dr. Blum "Force Under Pressure". Both are excellent and very, very informative.
McCain & Palin 2008
This is serious what's happening? We all know who loves and can't stand not having a war.
The true costs of war were not considered to any extent by the chickenhawks, but now they are coming home to roost.
And this is only the beginning, it will take generations before we'll be able to heal as a nation.
And the chant is repeated, "Never again".
The military really is trying to take care of its Soldiers. It hasn't always done the best job at it and can always do more. I don't know how many "screenings" I've been to to ensure I'm ok, but unfortunately, PTSD seems to be over-diagnosed, when in fact it appears there are other underlying issues out there that probably are not PTSD. Soldiers know that they can claim PTSD as a scapegoat diagnosis for our problems and doctors will diagnose issues as PTSD because they don't know what the problem is. Soldiers who never left the base to see what I saw are even getting diagnosed with PTSD. There is obviously a lot of work to do to determine what the actual problem is.
My heart goes out to these returning vets. Nothing in life could prepare them for what they saw and experienced. I pray that the VA resources are there for all of them.
I was fortunate enough to return after 14 months without any severe symptoms of PTSD- a little insomnia and my wife said I was a workaholic. I made the adjustment, and I'm OK. But I had a soldier who was in bad shape. I called the Utah Dept of Veterans Affairs and was given the name of a counselor. I called the counselor the same day and was able to get an appointment for my soldier within a couple of days. The counselor was excellent and my soldier is now happy in his marriage and his work and is a good soldier I would trust to cover my back.
There is help available out there, but too many soldiers are afraid to use it because it's sometimes seen as weakness and soldiers can be anything but weak.
Speaking as a veteran, and as any veteran will tell you, being in the military provides a wealth of experiences both good and bad.
War is ugly and truly hell. However any non-veteran who is so simple minded to classify "good" and "bad" wars, based on their political leanings have lead a very sheltered life indeed.
During my youth, the Vietnam Era, vets were dishonored, cursed, spat on, and endured other indignities simply because the media, and their willing-to-be-led sheepish population, turned against the war during the war; mocking vets as baby killers and making other horrid generalizations about our mental state. All the while forgetting "old men and women" make wars and "young men and women go fight and die".
The penalty for dodging the draft was a 5 year federal prison term. Others "of privilege" got college deferrments, chopped off trigger fingers, or maimed themselves in other ways.
What would you do?
I've met many non-vets who wouldn't make a pimple on a real veteran's backside regardless of which war they're in.
I got married about a year after I got home from Vietnam, and the nightmares including sleep walking scared my wife too. Most veterans that don't sit around thinking about the war will find that it will go away, and if it doesn't seek professional help.
Once again PTSD has nothing to do with war or politics. Someone having been robbed at gunpoint, almost killed in an accident, or other traumatic incident could suffer the same symptoms.
Get over the war thing! There is now help available for veterans that wasn't for Vietnam and WWII vets. Improperly diagnosed PTSD can also be signs of other problems, having nothing to do with the military.
This condition isn't new to this war, so don't go blaming it on the current situation. Let's deal with it and move on.
Because he can't separate the troops from the war he was against from the beginning, he opposes both. Is that the kind of "Commander in Chief" you want? If he becomes President, brace yourselves, 'cause the next four years will tough for veterans under a liberal democratic administration.
John McCain voted against regular GIs and vets because George Bush preferred to spend the money on Haliburton contracts and tax cuts for billionaires.
Yes, McCain is Navy and a hero, but politically he is for the rich and nothing more. If you care about actual military folks, instead of just Republican flag-waving talk talk talk, if you care about real veterans and active duty families, you should vote Democratic on Nov 4th.
Cut some of the entitlements to fund getting the veterans help. Welfare, food stamps, Medicade, bailouts to banks and Freddy Mac, etc.
By the way, Ultra Bob, you are a true a@@hole.
As an avocate of doing something instead of just commenting on a subject I strongly urge each individual who has commented and may continue to leave their comments to write to their senators and invite others to do the same. As one large voice we can make a difference like many of the Korean and Vietnam vets have already done for our current day soldiers. Don't let what they have fought for and currently fight for die with them. Speak up! Vote!
UltraBob: You may have ignorantly opened mouth inserted foot. Get educated! People don't just up and volunteer to go to war. Many want to make a difference and the military was their tool to do so. Many of the soliders in Iraq are from different states' NationalGuard units - initially set up for the state's needs. Look at what they do in their own and other states and countries with natural devestation. War wasn't part of their list.
The article was not about whether the war is right or wrong or who you are going to vote for next week. Its about getting the word out there. Lets help these young families and the older families get the help they need. PTSD is contagious and will have a domino effect if left untreated.
War will happen and so will other bad events. We can't all sit back and not have a military or protect our selves like some of you would prefer. There is a cost to war and we need to acknowledge that by voting for the people who will put more funding into the right programs for our veterans. The VAs need more therapists and support groups with resources for these men/woman/family members and especially children.
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