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To be a free people you must make choices that bring freedom.
You have made serious errors with your superficial undestanding of the doctrine of agency.
Anonymous @9:09 portrays that without having a clue of the affect that her words have on gays who have no "agenda" other than to love someone. For you and me, homosexuality seems odd and unnatural. For most gays, the attraction to those of the same sex is all they have felt or ever will feel.
Quoting anonymous' words of "a sin and morally wrong" "something so wrong" and an "abomination", what feelings would they evoke in Mormons if they are said about Mormons. How do they make you feel about the one using those words, especially "abomination". The phrase "Hate the theology, love the Mormon" would be especially condescending.
That is what gays feel and that's why the rhetoric reaches the level it does.
Be my guest to say they are God's words, not yours. The result of you using them and wanting to impose them on gays is what you read in this and other similar threads.
We have lots of experience with people who hate our theology and hate us because of our theology. I appreciate those who say they hate our theology, but love us. I don't feel it is condescending at all. I don't expect them to love our theology or even understand it and that's okay. They have their own and they don't have to accept mine. I wish that gays could see it that way. They want to change our whole definition of marriage, a sacred instituion to us and they expect us to just shut up and accept it.
1. Do children deserve both a mom and a dad? Social science shows a resounding "YES." Same gender marriage promotes child adoption. Why would a civilized culture take legal action to promote an environment known to be detrimental to children (minus either the mother or father)?
2. Do parents paying school taxes have a right to have their values taught in those schools? Absolutely. But when same gender marriage becomes law, parents lose that right.
3. Should government to dictate religious doctrine and have the power to silence them with government-initiated fines and loss of tax exempt status? That has already happened in Canada.
4. Do we want to create havoc with our tax laws and pay more taxes to cover a spectrum of long-standing, mutually loyal relationships (e.g. two friends who live in the same house)?
Cherilyn Bacon Eagar
World Class Education Research
I will keep knocking and trying to clear up the confusion.
To Chrilyn Bacon Eagar: Quit pontificating. The topic at hand is equal legal rights for gays. It has nothing to do with children. "World Class Education Research"? I think not!
You both need to get an education and expand your knowledge.
1. Children deserve loving parents. Not all "social science" shows that heterosexual parents are superior to same-gender parents. Same-gender marriage promotes child adoption, true. Our society is filled with a need for homes for unwanted children. Why would a civilized culture take legal action to DISCOURAGE people from adopting unwanted children? [Your bigotry is evident in your false judgement that same-sex marriages constitute "an environment known to be detrimental to children." That is YOUR unsupported opinion.
2. Do gays who pay school taxes have a right to have their values taught in those schools? Absolutely. Until same gender marriage becomes law, gays have been deprived of that right!
3. Red herring. Nobody is asking government to dictate religious doctrine. The government represents the people. Gays are people, too. YOu seem to forget that small detail. Government does not "silence" religions unless religions take government funding. In case you didn't notice, California is not Canada. The Canadian cases ALL involve religions taking government funding.
4. No "havoc" will be created with our tax laws and NO more taxes will be paid that aren't already being paid.
Your organization should be called "World Class Propoganda and Lies"
How is this NOT a gay rights issue?
What do you smoke when you go stalking the neighborhood?
You think you're any different than all the others who have left the church throughout history? You will now become more hardened against it and will fight against it more vehemently than other anti-mormons. You have now entered the great and spacious building that has no foundation, "and great will be the fall thereof".
Free agency means that there is a right and a wrong. You are free to choose righteousness and eternal life through Jesus Christ or captivity and death according to the captivity of the devil. It sounds like you have chosen the latter...
There are numerous examples in scripture and in Christ's life that states that if we love him, we'll keep His commandments. These include not even lusting after a women, let alone having sexual relations with her outside of marriage, and I don't even have to mention a gay relationship. You are free to choose, but that does not mean there won't be consequences.
Those that are members of the LDS church struggle just like everyone else. We're not perfect. However, it offers us a firm foundation, a plan of happiness and a hope of things to come.
Therefore, when the anti-prop 8 commercials come on the TV, saying that you shouldn't take away gays' rights, they are misleading voters because prop 8 does not take away a gay person's rights at all. Gay civil unions have every single right that a marriage does.
Also, this is not a political issue so it is perfectly acceptable for the LDS Church to get involved. This is a moral issue and the Church has an obligation to involve itself.
I think Deseret News is doing their job on reporting things to us, rather we like it or not. I love reading their articles, rather it's LDS or Non LDS.
Thanks Deseret News. You guys make each and every day for me. My typing is getting better too.
Good DNA article. I am not LDS, but like reading all the funny business. Peoples comments are truly humorous!
And yes, gay couples in a gay civil union can adopt children. Just ask Rosie.
The only difference is one uses god to get away with evil to do evil.
The greatest commandment of all is this; to love the Lord thy God with all they heart, might, mind and strength. It is clearly stated in scripture that if we truly love him, we will keep his commandments. One of those commandments is that we love our neighbor as ourself.
As an LDS member, I take this commandment seriously. I strive to treat my neighbors as I would like them to treat me. I never want them to condone those things I do wrong, but love me and help me through tough times.
I would never persecute, accuse, judge in a condemning or condescending way, or do anything that would cause the person hurt. I desire to help them through their tough times and accept them for who they are. However, this does not mean that I condone those things they do wrong.
Homosexuality is a sin and something I cannot, in good conscious,excuse. I need to keep ALL the commandments which includes, among many things, loving my neighbor, but not condoning the sin.
Well, you are right "frieghtened" is probably a misplaced word.
I think it is overused by the propnants of same-gender marriage.
However that the societal level of hate for Mormons is higher than for homosexuals, well I do not think that is so. However, in San Francisco I am sure it is so.
You speak for morality these days and you get broadsided with attacks about being a "homophobe".
I guess where I am going is that there are people on the left, I will make sure to say that it is not all of such, who think it is ok to speak ill of Mormons, Catholics and Orthodox (but you must make sure you are only singeling out Orthodox) Jews in the most demaning and mean spirited manner possible.
They attack you as an idiot and a sheep if you base your stance on what the Prophets of the Lord have said, and if you try to interject any social scientific research into the discussion they say "the conclusions you are coming to are invalid".
Sometimes people scream "bigot" so load that they become the ones who are spreading the most unease, hate and discomfort.
Personal taste and indiviual preference should never be regulated by the Federal Government.
To st: Let me get this right... I'm supposed to be celibate my whole life, just so YOU can feel good about me and your sister?
Contrary to popular belief, marriage is about much more than the culmination of romantic feelings between two people. Also, marriage is much more than committing and giving yourself to another. It is more than just placing your trust and love in another too. Marriage is about fulfilling God's plan, the eventual immortality and eternal life of His children. That's what marriage is all about, and it requires one man and one woman uniting together to form a family, to which children can be born and raised within the family of God and with the promise of immortality and eternal life.
I hope that answers your question.
By the way, tolerance is not the same as acceptance. I can tolerate someone's gay lifestyle but I don't have to regard it as acceptable.
Re:No more | 9:06 a.m. Aug. 25, 2008
"If any church want to be involved in POLITICS which this issue is, they should no longer be tax exempt. Marriage is a CIVIL institution, only the ceremony has anything to do with religion. All the churches involved in this political issue need to be taxed. Then maybe they would keep their religion where it belongs. In church."
We can fix that. After Prop 8 is passed, we can pass laws to assure that Churches will be tax exempt permanently with out fear of political repercussions that their exempt status will be overturned because they exercised their constitutional right of free speech. It will pass easily because the majority of the people in the U.S. have a religious faith of some kind
So what if gay people who are now living together with their own children are legally allowed to call themselves a family? So what if gay couples are able to fill out a joint-tax return. So what if gay couples are allowed to adopt, and all those kids that are now in foster care are given two same sex parents?
So what?
I'm sure some of these type of comments are legitimate, but I bet a lot of them are written by people who have never even set foot in an LDS chapel.
Well, I was born into the church and a 8 generation Mormon, but I have left. I think you live in a dream world and think there is nothing else in the world but the ward in which you belong too. Good for you, because I do not care. And by the way, I am not gay either.
Oh yeah! I have a name too.
Karen
Each person in this country has the privilege to help form the laws based on personal choice and what they value. There's nothing wrong with trying to teach and encourage others to vote the same way you do.
I don't buy the argument that churches, and the people who belong to the churches, should have no voice in our society. That same argument was used during the issue on slavery. Slave owners said churches who were against slavery should stay out of the argument because, according to them, slavery was not a moral issue. Absurd. What some often forget, is ALL issues are moral issues. Morals are based on personal moorings based on what we value--hence our personal values.
I believe in the rule of law, not the whim of judges. I want to voice my choice of how our society should be, based on my personal values, not on the emotion of the moment.
Charlotte Bronte's Jane Eyre said, laws are created for times when it is not convenient to keep them.
The choice for us is rather we want on the train or not. Do we want to follow our inspired leaders?
In a time when the world is becoming more and more wicked in anticipation to the Second Coming. Don't you think there will be a sifting of the people? Don't the scriptures teach that it will be more and more difficult to stay on the fence, that people will be required to take one side or the other. So true for this debate.
As I read the comments on here from members and nonmembers alike, it seems people are aligning themselves to one side or the other.
The question is Who's on the Lord's side who?
LDS members you should be scared, because your church is on the verge of a total change or a complete collapse."
And you "know" this because?.....
Big changes ahead? Maybe.
I honestly think that there just might be tens of thousands of LDS members who ask to have their names removed from the records of the church. I didn't used to think that at all until I started reading message boards on the DesNews. If everyone who claims to be LDS and "wanting out" is truly a member, then I suspect that many will be leaving before too long and that this issue of homosexuality will be a major reason.
If a member wants to stay, great. If a member wants to leave, while that saddens me greatly, that's their choice and the Church will respect that.
It is unfolding EXACTLY like the Lord said it would; the wheat is being separated from the tares. Each person must choose for themselves.
Choose wisely.
The caravan moves on!
Acting out homosexual desires is a sin. Period. Dot. End of story. No one can help you think clearly and rationally if you refuse to do so. The Bible says homosexuality is wrong, both in the Old Testament and in the New Testament. To those who claim to be a "gay Mormon" (amigos, there ain't no such thing), your own unique scriptures (the Book of Mormon, etc) and leaders repeatedly have condemned homosexual actions.
Nature itself shuns homosexuality because it leads to extincion. Imagine that!
To LDS parents who claim to have homosexual children who are "offended" by how they're treated. No, LDS members as a whole are not pefect, but what your children are doing is WRONG. If you've taught them right principles then the only ones who should feel guilty are your children.
However, I'm a 6th generation Mormon who decided a long time ago to stick with it, n-o m-a-t-t-e-r w-h-a-t.
Like the song says, "you've got to stand for something or you'll fall for anything".
Till we meet.
Dan
'He who sins against the greater light shall receive the greater condemnation' are good words to live by. Those who have had the truth and forsake it are the ones who have the most to fear.
I don't fear the prospect of Prop 8 not passing. I do hope that it will. It would be to California's and our nation's best interest. If it doesn't, I know I'm living according to the teachings and commandments of Christ. This gives me peace, even among the wickedness that plagues this earth. I also know it will only get worse.
The LDS church is as strong as it has ever been. This gives me peace and comfort as well.
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