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Anti-polygamy activist pens book on FLDS
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Looking over various FLDS court testimony, it seems to me that various members claim that they "forget" an incredible number of things that the normal person would remember. This massive loss of memory constitutes lying in my opinion, but it isn't provable. As for those who have escaped the FLDS, should we assume they were taught to lie and still do it? I don't know.
I do agree with Flora that CPS has done very little in Arizona or Utah. If the safety net has helped 1000 people as claimed, certainly CPS should be aware of and involved in some statutory rape/abuse cases.
Several years later, my girlfriend got pregnant by her father. She had to drop out of school. I felt so helpless to know what to do.
To his dying day, my father refused to admit what he did. My entire family called me a liar and disowned me.
Because of this I can see why the FLDS call Flora Jessop a liar. They are too ashamed and scared to admit the truth.
I have watched her take loads of donated clothes, toys, food, books, furniture and other houseold items to the victims who have either escaped, been thrown out or simply left the fLDS.
I've watched members of the FLDS just plain lie on national TV. When asked if the women being interviewed knew of any under age marrigaes, all three of them, like robots, said "Not that I'm aware."
They call it "lying for the L-rd" and it is an acceptable practice among the FLDS. I even have recordings of Warren Jeffs teaching his followers about it and how it is alright.
When the FLDS says "The truth will prevail", they are not talking about actual truth. They are speaking of their version of truth, which allows them to abuse women and children in the name of religion.
Abuse is not a religion.
I have lived in a couple of those small towns myself. Unfortunately, sexual abuse of children is not limited to one group of people--it's horrendous (I know from personal experience) and it seems to be even more prevelant now than it used to be. And it's certainly covered up by families who don't dare admit what is happening.
Most parents teach their children the basic values - honesty being one of the most important. But, he said as a child that it was so confusing because he was taught to be honest, but also told, (so that would be taught) to lie about so many things
to school teachers, police officers, authorities knocking at their door, other kids at school, etc.
I think because of this he was totally honest as an adult because now he could see the confusion it had caused for him as he was growing up.
I am almost finished reading Carolyn Jessop's book, Escape and have yet to read if (more realistically 'how') Carolyn and Flora Jessop are related, so Flora it would be interesting if you would address that in your book.
I sure am glad Flora got the buzz words escape and slavery in the title........great sales tecnique for the fictional accounts and half truths.
Now all we need is a credible fact checker.
Many of us have had hard childhoods and we turned out ok, so these people probably will too. At some point, someone will just have to stand up and say NO. Get that book you wanted to read, and read it. You want to play a CD, do it. Stop following all the whack rules and just do your thing. Pretty soon Short Creek will be a party town and then those that want to be all controlled and everything will have to move.
I say we have travel agencies promote Short Creek for spring break. Throw in a bunch of crazy college students into the place and see how long it holds up.
There's no way to beat the FLDS. We just have to show the kids another way. Nothing like spring break to do that....
These women write books about how they had to "escape". LOL Just LEAVE if you don't like it. Someone tells you to do something you don't like or don't want to do, say NO.
And these "lost boys". COME ON! They should be happy to get out! They're being "tossed out" and people are complaining? At least now they're free.
And why do the men let someone tell them to leave their family? No backbone? Are you men or not? It's your house and your family. Don't just leave. What's that all about?
Then there's the "child brides". Get a grip, girls. SAY NO! Don't "marry" that old coot. Stick up for yourselves. If they try something, leave, or defend yourselves. They should only be able to get away with it once. The second time, you have every right to use whatever method necessary to defend yourself.
You're LETTING these people walk all over you. Stand up for yourselves instead of expecting everyone to save you.
You go, girls!!!
I'll tell you the same thing the FLDS tells everyone else. If you weren't there, you don't know.
So - why do you believe it's all fiction? You believe people that worship a pedophile over people that don't? You think because they portend to be all religious that they wouldn't make things up?
You satirize those that don't believe the FLDS yet you obviously picked a side. It's only good for you?
Brainwashing someone into believing the weird practices like this can only go so far. At some point a light goes on and you realize it's just made-up to control you. If it doesn't, then you probably should just stay there - you won't make it outside anyway.
Seems to me that if you even have a CLUE about the outside world you'd run for the hills away from such a cult. And if you don't have a clue, then perhaps you're best off letting them have their way with you.
Can't save everyone. The smart ones will leave and the FLDS can have the rest. And in 100 years it won't matter.
As an active (over 50 years) convert to the LDS church, I was often questioned sharply about our beliefs by people in the east and south who had read books or seen movies by those who had left our church. People refused to believe that the LDS church didn't teach the things our apostates said we did. In fact, they called my a liar when I said the books were mistaken.
So--I do wonder about these books. I have actually known FLDS people who have not been a part of anything I would disagree with except the practice of polygamy--I even went to high school with some, years ago. And I know women who feel perfectly comfortable with the practice of polygamy and who weren't forced in any way, neither were they child brides.
What I wish is that some of the active FLDS would come forward and tell their side of the stories--however with the huge hoopla going on, they'd hardly dare now. Somebody would grab their kids or throw them in jail. Can't blame them for keeping a low profile.
I have looked over Floras site .....compared her description of events against the description of events as described by others..........she exagerates and sensationalizes to her benifit whereever possible.
A vast number of the allegations against the FLDS were proven false.........allegations against the FLDS at short creek have proven false. Her Quinones 20/20 interview had several discrepancies.
Floras description of her discussion with the State investigator involved in her sisters interview shows her inability to accept the reality of the situation.
So......read for yourself........draw your own conclusions. ZXC
Re I do wonder: Keep wondering. Under old Jewish law, and I wonder if it applys today, it takes two people to witness an event to begin to believe its authenticity.
To deal with the accusations made by the accusers we are far short of absolute proof of the accusations leading to the raid.
The evidence of crimes revealed to this date generaly fit laws drawn up to fit the specific parties in violation of the new laws.
Emotion and knee jerk reactions are at the root of the motivations to act by the State.
The State scrambles now to find justification for its' actions in what appears to be an attempt to save face.
Question every word and look at every reaction.
and then keep wondering.
It would be nice to talk with the girls that were "saved" and get their side of the story.
........So - why do you believe it's all fiction? You believe people that worship a pedophile over people that don't?"
The authorities went into the FLDS compund with guns and armoured cars, also sniffer dogs to check for murdered babies. Who told them those lies except for Flora Jessop and her like?
They grabbed 460 "children" including 26 who were adults but they claimed their birth certs and driving licences were forged. One of the "children" was 27. Over 400 "real" children were in the care of the CPS for several weeks but not one of them wanted to stay that way. They all choose to return to their parents.
Why do you continue to believe Flara Jessop after all of that?
I mean, the father either beats his wives and kids to keep them in line or he risks being banished and losing everything. Sinc the men won't stick up for themselves, they have to comply. And there is no way to keep multiple women and dozens of children in line in that kind of repressive environment without abusing them.
So by the very fact of the FLDS lifestyle and beliefs, abuse is actually mandatory. So why wouldn't you believe these women?
The CPS didn't take the children because of my argument. They took them because they believed there was sex abuse of young girls (and there was.)
My argument simply states that the FLDS rules of "keep your family in line or you may be told to repent from afar" breeds abuse. No - demands abuse.
You can't see that? You think you can make multiple wives and dozens of children adhere to a repressive lifestyle without abusing them? Especially if the penalty for failure is to lose everything? You are extremely naive.....
My suggestion is simple: Destroy them economically.
The only way this grotesque lifestyle can continue is if their economic activities are allowed to continue. No money = no FLDS.
It is time to put every FLDS-related company in the public spotlight --- and anyone who does business with them.
Public ridicule will eliminate their customers and no one will do business if their fear being labeled FLDS-friendly.
Best of all, no government action is required.
Let's together drive this disgusting cult, led by a child molester and rapist, into oblivion.
As to the issue of just leaving if you don't want to marry someone chosen for you by the prophet, easier said than done. To leave at 13 or 14, told that you will never see your family again, with no money and no idea about the outside world takes more than courage.
Martha Jessop Barlow I believe is a 6th generation polygamist and is so indoctrinated with the FLDS teachings that she like so many other women within the FLDS knows no different...and she needs to "keep sweet"
How sad that the saccharine can't be replaced with honesty and standing up for the rights of themselves or their children
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