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Same-sex couple from Salt Lake plan to marry in California
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But a friend of mine who also happens to be gay and a pretty influential gay activist in Boston has long struggled with what he believes is a very high rate of promiscuity in the male homosexual community - much higher in his opinion than in the heterosexual community. His lifelong involvement in the homosexual community leads him to believe that female homosexual marriages would have a far lower divorce rate than heterosexuals but that male homosexual divorces would be at a far higher rate and would risk hurting the cause or at least confirming negative biases and fears about homosexuals.
It doesn't matter how many people think that gay "marriage" is right. It doesn't matter how may people think that God is wrong. It doesn't matter how many people jump off the cliff.
If something is wrong, it is wrong, public opinion notwithstanding.
Let anyone do whatever he/she thinks he can. At the very least, there will be a public record of everyone who spit in God's face and told Him that His way was not their way.
But isn't the paper's owner opposed to gay marriage? I don't get the double speak.
To the person who wrote this:
This is wrong because the people of California voted it down. The people didn't want it and the government overthrew their vote.
If the government thought that the people could decide every issue, there wouldn't be a court system. The court system exists in part to make sure when people act out of ignorance, other people's rights are not abridged.
We heterosexuals who are uncomfortable with homosexual marriage owe it to the homosexuals in our communities to adapt rather than limit their rights.
Martin Luther King once said, "I refuse to accept the idea that the "isness" of man's present nature makes him incapable of reaching up to the "oughtness" that forever confronts him."
And this, folks, is exactly where our country is on the issue of homosexual rights.
I don't get your suggestion of double speak.
Homosexual behavior is nothing more than an abnormal, unnatural act being committed. For those who seem to think of themselves as being more enlightened than others, I find it interesting that they don't understand the very basic concept of Anatomy 101. We are to reproduce after our own kind. Homosexual behavior will result in their extinction.
What's actually more disappointing is the utter lack of understand of the doctrine of Jesus Christ by those who profess to be members. Some of you think Jeffrey Nielsen is your prophet? WOW!
My scriptures tell me that the Lord said, "whether by mine own voice or by the voice of my servants, it is the same." They also say, "I, the Lord, cannot look upon sin with the least degree of allowance."
Lehi's dream is correct; where many who are members are deceived by Satan and let go of the rod and find themselves in the big and spacious building. Sad!
Moses 1:37 The Lord's purpose
Abraham 3:24-26 Obedience to all things commanded
D&C 76 - 3 degrees of glory based on obedience
D&C 132 - New and everlasting covenant - Celestial marriage
2 Timothy 3
1 Ne 8 - which group are you in?
Matt 19:1-6 which says, "The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh."
And Mark 10 "And Jesus answered But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
And they twain shall be one flesh."
Apostasy will abound. Sad
Once again, the fuzzy math of the feeble minded does not add up.
They won't become extinct; because, if you haven't noticed, gays do not beget gays....heterosexuals do.
So clearly by your logic, we should stop heterosexuals from reproducing...they might just have a gay child.
Why do you call this particular attraction a sin? When the Lord has made it clear in the Bible that so many other things are also "sins" that deserve even the death penalty. Yet no one in their right mind would advocate killing witches, or stoning disobedient children today.
Why are you so hung up on this ONE sin? Why doesn't the Church use it's great wealth to rid Las Vegas of prostitution and gambling? Or to stop pornography in all hotel rooms? Why no proclamation against beer brewers? I'm sorry, but this all seems so hypocritical.
Two men are choosing to share their love, to make a visible and long-term commitment to each other, and all you can do is call them sinners?
What was that thing that Christ mentioned? Oh yeah, "let he who is without sin cast the first stone."
It bothers me greatly that we may be choosing our civil laws based simply on one's religious belief.
To 8:02...ALL laws are based on someone's beliefs; religious or secular. All laws. So what's your point?
to 6:56..your parents gave birth to a baby who has homosexual behavior desires. Nothing more; nothing less. One can act on those desires or not. It's our choice.
to 6:57...I feel sad for you. You've obviously lost your way and need to look within yourself as to what and whom you believe.
to 7:12...I'm hung up on this ONE sin because that is the topic of this article. If you've read other articles, you will know that I have spoken out about many things. If you actually paid attention, you would notice that the Church speaks out on a great many things. Go read any General Conference report and pick your subject; it will be there....
As for your last scripture quote...don't forget that after what you quoted, Christ told the woman taken in adultery to go and sin no more.
And let's quit referring to homosexuals as gay. It's a hijacked word to make their behavior seem more natural and seemly. Apostasy abounds today!
If it is ok for Gays (a distortion of the word)to enjoy Temple rights, then I guess it would be acceptable for me to have extra-marital relations and still go to the Temple. From personal knowledge, most gay people I met (a former San Fran resident) they slept around frequently. I was a close friend to a gay couple, one of whom was LDS. It is my understanding that he died from AIDS. Please, I did not hate them; in fact I loved them in a brotherly fashion; I just felt sad for their life style. They are God's children and my heart goes out to the gay community.
I feel bad that you are this angry and hate filled. Additionally, I'm glad that you criticize the author for using the phrase "separation of church and state." You're right, it isn't used in our Constitution, however, maybe you should do your homework and realize that the U.S. Supreme Court has consistently used that phrase in opinions when discussing the meaning of the 1st Amendment. Feel free to blame the 'activist judges' on that one as well, but please note that Thomas Jefferson (who was divinely inspired when writing the Constitution right?)originally coined the idea by saying that there should be a wall of separation between Church and State. MOST IMPORTANTLY, I'm glad that you have decided you have the authority to pass judgments about whether some LDS posters on this blog are correctly abiding by the Church's following. Pretty weak my friend.
As for SCOTUS referencing that in some of their decisions....well, I'm sorry to tell you that SCOTUS is not always correct in their comments and writings. Many justifications have been given for this or for that. Recently, the liberals on the court actually referenced laws in Europe for their decisions instead of using the Constitution.
Sorry, but just because it is referenced by SCOTUS does NOT make it correct or valid. The 1st amendment says what is says and it does not say separation of church and state.
Can you tell me who the 4 who dissented in the DC gun ban case aren't able to read the 2nd amendment and where it actually says we have a right to bear arms? But I guess you are probably against that one as well...Seems like you need to do some constitutional law study because you bring weak and incorrect arguments.
You are equating LDS Church leaders with God. So much to the extent that you have admitted it could drive a wedge between you and your children. I am sad and somewhat surprised now that I understand that Mormons do not follow the teaching of Christ; God The Son who has given us the single greatest commandment...to love one another.
You cannot change nature and you cannot change God. He is as real today as in the day of Sodom and Gomorrah. Oh, for those of you that say the Bible and God are fiction, I am sorry you feel that way. I hope you change before you come before him with a bright recollection of all your guilt. I would implore you to rethink your convenient idea of "Godlessness = lack of accountability". There is a God and you are accountable. This is especially true for those of you who have known the truth, but now deny it.
Homosexuality is a grevious sin and God will not be mocked.
Joseph Smith was a Prophet and the wonderful Gospel of Jesus Christ has been restored to the earth. I hope you will take advantage of this wonderful gift.
I can feel the fiery darts even now.
Let's see . . . what did I get wrong? First of all, I didn't say that "the separation of church and state" should be included in the Constitution. What I said, is that's how its been interpreted. "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion." From the drafters of the Constitution to the Supreme Court, the 1st Amendment has been interpreted to mean that there is a separation of church and state. No need to read deep into that sentence, I think it pretty much speaks for itself. As for my "shallow reference" to President Jefferson, here's another quote from the letter that you appear to know so much about: "Believing with you that religion is a matter which lies solely between Man & his God, that he owes account to none other for his faith or his worship."
The 14th Amendment requires that all people are to given the right of equal protection of the laws. That is the real Constitutional issue here.
Finally, I'm glad that you are so knowledgeable and quick to judge. First you criticize other's religious beliefs, now you are suggesting that your knowledge is superior to the Court's.
As for the commentaries screaming about the downfall of the United States due to this, what about Canada? They are doing fine as a society as is Western Europe. Have you looked at currency exchange rates lately?
Todd and Ron are going to be able to see a government paper related to a relationship they both grow and nurture daily.
If you're that bothered by the article, write a letter to the editor, which will be read by more AND have your name attached to it.
Funny how when it is a conservative value it is always "hatred and division" but when it is a liberal value it is called enlightenment and intelligence.
Yes. Amazing that conservatives could *always* go for the position that best reflects "I've got mine; too bad for you", isn't it? You'd think they could at least *pretend* to have some concern for the less powerful if only for the political advantage, wouldn't you?
This is a Human/Civil Rights issue. If the LDS Church (as well as other churches) do not feel it is moral, then they can have their church weddings exclude whomever they choose.
Support equality in this nation...and support FAMILIES (in whatever size, shape or form they come).
Oh and "D in Utah" that's funny, but I'm pretty sure breakfast is also on "the gay agenda."
But as a society, we accept other heterosexual couples (atheistic or religious) who marry in civil, secular ceremonies as in fact being MARRIED when those ceremonies are clearly not ordained by God, and in some cases do not produce offspring. I find it difficult to understand the LDS position in denying homosexuals the opportunity to marry secularly, but at the same time, accepting the temporal validity of heterosexual civil ceremonies.
Marriage is NOT always a religious institution in a democratic nation, and it is obvious to me that the LDS church has overstepped religious authority into secular government affairs. Spin it any way you want. The LDS Church has every right to define it�s own membership standards, but by accepting one form of civil ceremony and not another, the apparent reason for the Church's involvement is to promote discriminatory practices in government affairs based on a religious belief that homosexuality is an abomination.
Also, best of luck to the soon-to-be newlyweds!
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