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LDS Church backs marriage measure on California ballot
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Should any two people who love each other be able to apply for state and federal benefits of "marriage"? If you extend these benefits without a vote to gay couples, I think that any two people could claim them (parent and child, friends, business partners, etc). Are we ready to fund these extended benefits (social security, estate tax exemptions, etc)?
And I, for one, will not be participating in a campaign that maligns anyone. By the time I was a young teenager I understood (through the slightest amount of introspection) that no person chooses his or her sexual orientation. I cannot accept the Church's position on homosexuality (and many other things) when my own moral compass tells me something else. I'll trust my own conscience before any statement from the pulpit.
Another article in today's paper states that a recent poll found that LDS church members, compared to other religions, are among the least open-minded to the idea that there are alternative paths to heaven. I find this sad. Our culture of narrow-mindedness is just bad for us. The abolition of gay marriage doesn't help anyone.
Nothing new under the sun here!
The same old tired arguments- really people do you just have this stuff saved in word and cut and paste everyday or is it really like a new experience for you everyday. If it is the second one you may want to talk with your doctors about memory loss.
Their words about wanting to bring the community together and be inclusive rather than exclusive seem very shallow right now.
I will be voting against any measures that would limit freedoms of others.
Stay tuned for the nail biting sequel and find out!!!
If gay people seek marriage in a Mormon temple, the Church will be compelled to comply. The Church cannot refuse to uphold the law of the land. It even says so in the Church's listing of beliefs... "We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law."
***...but being married under the rule of law of a person's nation is another, and is NO business of some church's.***
Oh, but it is. The LDS Church (and any church) has a compelling interest in the issue. See above comment.
***This disgusts me to no end, and I have lost total respect for the church.***
From reading your post, I doubt that you ever did.
***If the day comes where people in this nation get tired of Mormons and burn their temples to the ground... don't expect an ounce of sympathy from me. Disgraceful....***
Already happened. Which is truly disgraceful.
The ideal situation of children being born into a loving family with a father and a mother as equal partners in parenting may not be possible for every child for a whole host of reasons.
That doesn't mean that society should simply give up on striving for the ideal situation for every child.
needs to be a man and a woman ! Marriage is to bring children into this world, to have a place where children can learn of truth and light. Marriage is ordained of God and just as the sun shines on the just and the un-just it shines on the truth and the un-truth. Still as the sun shines God lives and he ordainted marriage and he set the rules for it and no one can change truth.
But should gays be allowed to have children? Can we do something to stop them? Can we do anything to stop the countless children born out of wedlock? What to do?
There has been and always will be a great divide between the Lord's will and Satan's will.
The Lord wants loving families with a father who can be a role model for his sons and a mother who can be a role model for her daughters.
Satan wants utter chaos where there is no gender distinction and there are no role models.
The underlying principle of agency is choice. We all have it and use it every day. We can choose to follow the voice of those whom we have sustained, or we can choose to call them unenlightened bigots. Either they are annointed by God or they are not. There is no middle ground. When the prophet speaks, the debate is over. All that is left is for us to choose whether or not to follow.
Christ came not to unite, but to divide: to divide the righteous (who recognize and follow his voice) from the wicked (the rest). All roads do not lead to Rome. Good and evil do exist and all this wanting to have their cake and to eat it too attitude of the gay community and their apologists leaves me wondering how long they can maintain this internal war and whether, in the end, they will continue to kick against the pricks.
With support from LDS and other select churches this constitutional amendment will likely pass. However, like women's suffrage and civil rights, those who invoke God to deny others their basic freedoms may win a few battles but they will ultimately lose this war because tyranny, regardless of the source, cannot triumph over the natural human passion for freedom.
Freedom versus tyranny. Once again. We all know the ending.
It is understandable that these couples want some legal way to recognize their status. Gay people floating in and out of relationships is not a good solution for the rest of us either. Give gays some way to legally recognize their commitment and willingness to abide within boundaries, and let's see what happens. My guess is that, in the long run, marriage will not work for gays even as well as it works for heterosexuals (and it's not working particularly well for many straight folks).
For the LDS faithful, perhaps the focus should be on the real bulwark of the faith: the difference between "legal marriage" and "temple marriage." The law can do what it will, but the church will only recognize its own standard on this earth and in the afterlife.
Marriage for thousands of years and throughout the world has been between man and woman.
Why should I now be forced to accept a new and perverted definition of marriage, simply because a minority want to force society to accept their perverted lifestyle?
As I have said before, "You cannot dictate to God his commandments." If you choose not to obey those laws, then you are saying you don't believe in the Bible. Satan is slowly chipping away at our moral standards.
As for Mormons being mean and spiteful to people who practice homosexuality, that is a very judgemental attitude. My next door neighbor is gay and has left the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I still like him. We talk a lot. I've never addressed his choices in life. I worry about him, that is all.
As a native Californian who ended up in Utah, I pray that my native state will make the right decision about this matter. I will always miss it, but if this passes, I'll miss it a lot less.
And I absolutely believe that there is a genetic component to being gay, that it's very real and very hard to overcome... just like any other genetic predisposition to any other kind of behavior associated with the natural man.
Keep in mind that separation of church and state was meant more for the government to stay out of telling us what we need to believe in our religious lives, but that as we learn morals we are obligated to ensure that those things that are right are promoted.
Your argument is conceptually flawed. This ammendment does not prevent you from living the life you want, it doesn't stop you from living a gay lifestyle, it doesn't make it illegal. It only defines marriage as between a man and a woman. You still have your agency and ability to do what you want to do.
This is a civil issue not a religious one. No one is saying two men or two women are going to kneel across an altar in the temple and be sealed for time and eternity. How sad all the money and power of the LDS church is being directed at this.
18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;
25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator�
26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
�Marriage between a man and a woman is not the LDS church's law. It is God's law. Just because you don't believe in God or in his laws doesn't make them untrue. Truth is truth--no matter how you try to cloud it or make "good look bad" and bad look good." The world thinks they can change God's laws--and then blame the LDS Church for standing up for them. But you will only hurt yourself trying.� -WOW
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Should we start to tell people that they cannot have children if they do not have both a father and mother in the home? Should we take away children from mothers who are not married and give them to homes with both parents? Isn't that very unAmerican? What is your solution? To me, these people are more of a problem than the few gay couples that adopt or are inseminated. What IS your solution?