All people of God are with you, Stand firm.
Shame on you !
I have never had any reason in the past to discredit the Mormon religion.
However, now that you have taken a stance of hate against a group of people I
have changed my position. To have the audacity to proclame that you know what
the definition of marriage is amounts to arrogance. Your church needs to
start recognizing love and not hate. Please have the decency of recognizing
your hate of gay people. Don't hide behind your church. Until you rescind your
position on gay marriage I will work the rest of my life to discredit your
The idea of interfering in matters like marriage is to help others not LDS.In the days of Abraham, Sodom and Gomorrah were considered evil. So men
were sent to see if they would amend their ways. Of course they didn't and the
rest is scriptural history.To say nothing from the LDS Church about
this issue of marriage may invite censure from the God in whom they believe.
Secularists like to presume that their actions do not offend divine
sensibilities. If the LDS Church believes otherwise, then to say nothing is an
offense to their religious beliefs. Who among the secularists will
say with absolute authority that no divine sensibilities are offended? Can we
rely upon them to tell us the absolute truth or just what they as mere mortals
believe? It is much to say that no God exists--especially when we do not have
all the information or the power to examine all the universe.
I agree with yes on measure 8. It protects the sanctity of marriage. It also
allows us not teach gay marriage in the schools to our children. Children in
another state that a similar measure had failed, have brought home gay
literature--in the very young grades. Please support measure 8. Vote Yes!! It
is so important for our society and our children!!
"Let He who is without sin, cast the first stone"God gave us a brain
to think with and moral agency. We all have baggage and need to determne which
train we want to put it on. Preserving marriage betwen a man and woman is
essential to society.
If this is the case the LDS church should lose its tax exempt status at once.
Dear appalled: Yeah, I know some rude, "holier than thou" types too, you
get them in every church (except maybe Buddhists-haven't met many of them lol),
but if you believe in the teachings of the church -even if not the people- why
would you leave it? Are you really going to brake your baptismal covenant and
deny yourself the sacrament just because you don't like a few people? Try moving
to an area on the mission front if you are having trouble with your ward. I
loved the people I met in the areas where missionaries are most numerous, the
spirit there was wonderful, the people were like family, and tho the areas were
rough friends knew how to be True friends. I miss it but it is safer to raise my
baby boy were I am now (no gangs at all). However we were all discussing the law
& making good moral choices when voting, the prophet was telling us to do just
that. If you think HE is being judgmental then I somehow doubt you have much of
Those who are proposing legalized same-sex marriage are lost souls promoting
their own agenda. They ignore the obligations of NATURE itself. They are so
selfishly engaged in self-gratification and perversion that the natural, lawful
ways for reproducing life insult them. And they want all the pleasure and all
the joys of a counterfeit union-- the ultimate dead-ended way of life -- not
even to create a posterity of their own. They also want to wreck every vessel
of decency in our civilization and create chaos rather than bliss for those who
still model their heterosexual behavior after the ways of God the Father who
said, "Be Fruitful and Multiply and replenish the Earth." These people who
choose to desecrate their bodies and pollute all institutions geared to
establish or maintain order-- providing for the most ideal nurturing of children
by a man and a woman-- will, even themselves, reap thorns and thistles in the
end. All of mankind will then live in the same pool of moral sewage specially
manufactured by Gay elements of society-- the one misguided minority chosen to
rule over the Majority in society (all the time calling it their civil right to
wow. i've grown up in the LDS church....the past 30+ years. i've grown
disgusted with the appalling degree of "holier than thou," "moral superiority,"
"constant judging of others," that I've seen consistently across it's
membership. It's one thing to have a testament in your heart of something, but
the way Mormons have become morality monsters, and so publicly thick-headed and
condescending, is really an embarrassment to the church. I dont believe this
is a church Jesus is proud of anymore. I'm not seeing christlike behavior, I'm
seeing a bunch of spiritually egomaniacal people who can't get off their high
horse.For me, this is the end of the road. I am formally resigning my
membership this week. As for the LDS members I leave behind, I'll chose to
"love the sinner, hate the sin."
It all comes down to this. Are we going to follow the counsel of the prophet?
Pres. Monson is the mouthpiece for our faith. He is NOT the cornerstone.
Question that I'll ask is Who is on the Lord's side?
As an active LDS YSA i take an interest in what happens in the world. In NZ, my
grandmother recalls ever since sundays became a working day, things gradually
went downhill. I have observed that ever since Prostitution and gay marriages
were legalised the state of the country has become even worse!
Economy,society,nature...all are in turmoil! The world is snowballing BIG time
and people need to open their eyes and ask why it's happening. We ( the church
members ) do not make the rules here. We obey the commandments of God and do so
because that is what makes us happy and brings us into Gods rest.Gods way is the
ONLY way to eternal happiness. Kia Kaha latter day saints, = Stand Strong. We
don't need to apologise to anybody, ANYBODY for standing up for what we know to
be Gods word, which is truth. A Reid. New Zealand
Here we go again.I worked up a sweat in 2000, time to get a new pair of
I want to thank Carole Knowles and Mike Thompson for standing up and OWNING
their statements by giving their full names. I find it interesting that no one
opposing their views is courageous enough to tell us who they are. I
am a resident of Alaska but I have family in CA. and the gay issue aside, the
Supreme Court has no right to overturn the voice of the people. I
know that my family will strongly support this amendment.
Christ said nothing about homosexuality? You're mistaken. Read Romans 1. He
spoke through His apostle. You cite no "authorities" for your opinions, and
reject Supreme Authority. Yikes. God will never be completely out of the
equation, no matter how you try. Facets of our lives overlap because Americans
have religious convictions. The First Amendment promises freedom OF, not freedom
FROM, religion. It never intended to thwart God or let mens opinions negate
eternal law. The Constitution supports a nation UNDER GOD, whose law is more
supreme than any court! We don't force religion down throats; but we don't want
opposing beliefs shoved down our throats! Neither do we want the foundations of
America eroded through devious circumventing of of the people, by the people,
for the people. Marriage law affects us all, and California upheld marriage
through legal channels. The arrogant court acted outside the law, and that
should scare people to death, because a terrible precedent was set, and our
freedom is endangered by it.
We pledge and honor a nations flag under God.I know that the will of
God will be fulfilled for we are citizens of a promised land that God gave us.
His laws and commandments will not be forsaken. If we want a better world we
should start by raising moral children who are our future leaders. This shall
be done with moral parents such as a man and a woman just like the begining of
time.Gay people who pretend to be what they are not, should seek
professional help, because God does not make mistakes.
If you want to follow ALL the counsel, please don't call people ugly names. It's
embarrassing to those who support your position on the issue, because we can't
condone your cruel words and dismissive attitude! Such is NOT HELPFUL. We've
been admonished to speak gently, politely, and not to hide behind the anonymity
of the Internet. The counsel given includes: 'a soft answer turneth away wrath:
but grievous words stir up anger' (Proverbs 15:1). It almost never helps to
argue or contend with others... or to become defensive or belligerent...
Remember to respect others and their opinions.Be friendly and polite, even
if you comment anonymously... What helps the most are thoughtful and measured
voices... Try that, if you want to make a difference for good.
boiseguy: YOU'RE A MORAN! If you don't know what your talking about, keep your
mouth shut and go to another site were people want to listen to your anti-Mormon
talk. We don't! I support everything the leaders of this church do, b/c its
coming from the lord. To reject their words, is the same as rejecting the lords
himself. It's their obligation to make a statment on this matter to the members
of this church and the people of this country that was founded on family values
and church teaching. We most not allow God to be taken out topics voted on and
discussed in this country. Not just Mormons, but all faiths and religions. We
need to stand up and and let our voices be heard. God Bless America! We need
Amber; You are right. It's not a sin to want a mutual, loving
relationship. What is a wrong is to have sexual relations with someone other
than your spouse. Hundreds of thousands of widowed, divorced or otherwise
unmarried single teenage and adult Latter-Day Saints have to deal with that
every day.Membership in any organization has terms and conditions.
If your friend wanted to be LDS he had a choice to live the Word of Wisdom and
Law of Chastity or not. Please don't confuse and blame the LDS Church for his
not doing so. The latest research shows that homosexuality is the
result of environmental *and* genetic factors. Also, our genetic makeup is
dynamic thruout our lifetimes. In other words; sexual orientation isn't simply
inherited or static. (But our spiritual gender is.)Did you also know
that sexual attraction, drugs and nicotine produce the same self reinforcing
effects in the brain? All impair the decision making abilities of the
individual. Maybe God warned us about the use of those things for a reason.Charity and the infinite, eternal atonement of Christ coupled with a
firm personal commitment to endure the end can overcome or contain all human
The word marriage has a broadly accepted meaning. Changing it so that a group
that does not fit the definition can get the financial and social benefits of
the group that does is like changing your personal meaning of "smoking" to
"non-smoking" so you can get lower health insurance rates. It's deceptive and
dishonest.Rather than change the definition of a word that has been
widely and commonly understood across hundreds of cultures for thousands of
years, perhaps a new word for the union of people of the same sex and new rules
for what their "rights" are is what's needed. (garriage?)The people
of the State of California can pass all the laws they want redefining
"marriage". They can also decide to rename zebras as horses, or cats as cougars.
It wouldn't change the core nature of their being. It would increase confusion
and misunderstanding.Governments and churches share a common goal;
to protect and defend the safety, liberty and property of their members thru
education, setting limits and enforcing laws. Don't put them at odds with one
another by confusing the meaning of a word.
I'd like to take you back 32 years ago. I was 20 years old then and there was a
10-year old boy in our ward of whom everybody could see by the way he acted that
he was gay. His parents, brothers and sisters were good LDS and they didn't want
to see it. "It will change, he's still very young". Well, it didn't change
and this young man was excommunicated. He believed that the Church was true and
he missed his friends in Church, his family (only his mother never turned her
head away from him). He was very lonely and found a new friend in drugs.Ten years ago he stopped using drugs, but it was already too late. He died
three years ago.That's what can happen when people judge about other
people.Yes, this young man had a relationship, like everybody-else he
needed a companion, he needed somebody who he could love and who he loved.
That's no sin.And if the Church teaches that it is, then I'm glad I'm no
longer a member.
...DON'T do it.But if you think that government can legislate
because either you or they believe something is "sin", it's not going to pass
constitutional muster. Not all religious people, Christian or otherwise,
consider it to be sin. And the views of your particular religious persuasion,
thank god, cannot be legislated as law. The texts of the Christian
canon, plus 2 millenia of Christian history, tell us that EVERY Christian, and
every Christian faith is NOT going to unite on this or almost any other issue,
sorry. Christianity, since before Paul, has NEVER EVER been a "unity of the
faith" regardless of what it might say in the NT. Just because YOU believe
it is sin, doesn't make it sin. Even if your Bible or other scriptures
pronounces it sin, it ain't necessarily so. And the law cannot and should not
recognize any particular religious doctrine as either a legislative means or
end."In God we trust" is not in the Constitution, sorry.Thank god, again, for the Constitution.
We live in an age where "lowering the bar" has become an obsession. As a former
member once said to me, " I know that the church teaches truth, but it's too
high for me to live". Surely most of us have had feelings or thoughts that on
relection we have judged as wrong. The danger is when we attempt to put into
place laws that will give legitimacy that those thoughts or feelings do not
derserve. Why do the opponants of the Church's stand feel that their voice is
the only one that should be heard and that we should " butt-out". Freedom of
speech is not defined by the popularity of what is said. People living in a
democracy have a right to express their views, be they moral or otherwise.
It seems that many are forgetting one little thing on this issue. It is NOT a
sin to be gay, rather, the SIN occurs in having a SEXUAL relationship with
someone of the same sex. Read Leviticus chapter 20 King James version of the
bible for the Lords own words on this subject. They are VERY CLEAR on his views.
EVERY CHRISTIAN faith needs to unite on this issue, first California, then
other states will follow. I am proud to be LDS and have a firm testimony of the
teachings of the church. We do not condemn others, but condemn the SIN. Each
person has their free agency, even within the church. Leaders advise, and
admonish, but NEVER DICTATE doctrine to any member. I would envite everyone to
go to www.mormon.org and click on "Basic Beliefs" to learn exactly what the
church teaches.TO MEMBERS: Read the article in July's Ensign for insight.
"Contention is not of me..."I do not live in California, but I support ANY
measure that will define Marriage as "a union between a man and a woman"
Remember our great nation was founded on these words "in GOD We Trust"
boiseguy:I feel sorry for you.you are totally lost, the LDS Church in
making a statement in regards to gay & Lesbian marriages.youare the kind
of people that demoralize this country.your the kind that destroy every
moral fabric God gave to us.you people shouldn,t even a voice,because you
disgust me.Think about this,God created the earth & the heavens,he created man &
women,NOT adam & Steve or Christine & Kim. Rememberthis, one day you will
give an account of what you did on this earth.You will get on your knees before
Jesus Christ are lord & SAVIOR whether you beleive it or not, but you will.I am
a LDS member of the church,all your disgsusting remarks & your thinkingcomes from Satan,if that shocks you,well thats the road your taking & THATS
what satan wants us to think.So before you go denoucing my church or any
Christian church.you better think what road you aretaking. the statements
you made are immoral & disgusting to me & to Jesus Christ.you totally disgust me
in your attempt to destroy the Gospel ofJesus Christ. Remember you will
come face to face with are lord,than what will YOU say to him???
ladyblueyes is correct, sorta: ...just because someone else is gay and choses a
gay lifestyle, it does NOT meant that you also must be gay and live a gay
lifestyle as your own. But ...who ever said otherwise, ms. ladyblueyes?Who, when and where, ever said you must become gay and accept their lifestyle
choice as your own choice? Who, when and where, ever said that gays living as
gays is equivalent to deciding the fate or the choice of the majority?But continuing your line of thought, only more logically, who or what gives
(or, rather, prevents?) the majority the right and power to control the rights
and decIde the fate of a small minority? The Constitution, maybe?Besides which, after gay marriages are finally legalized, why and how, with at
least 95-97% of all marriages still being of the "traditional values"
heterosexual type, and only 3-5% or less same sex, are traditional values going
to be "let go" so devastatingly? Traditional values cannot endure with a 95-97%
ladyblueyes is correct: just because someone else is gay and choses a gay
lifestyle does NOT meant that you also must be gay and live a gay lifestyle as
your own. But ...who ever said otherwise, ms. ladyblueyes? Who, when
and where, ever said you must accept their choice as your own choice? Who, when
and where ever said that gays living as gays also decides the fate or the choice
of the majority?But continuing your line of thought, only more
logically, who or what gives (or prevents?) the majority the right and power to
control the rights and decIde the fate of a small minority? (The
Constitution?)Besides which, after gay marriages are finally
legalized, why and how, with 95-97% of all marriages being of the "traditional
values" heterosexual type, and only 3-5% or less same sex, are traditional
values going to be "let go" and devastating? Traditional values cannot endure
with a 95-97% majority?? Why not?
I have worked for and with gay people. Their home life is THEIR home life, like
mine is MINE.I don't approve of their life choices - I don't agree
that they should have 'marriage' since from the beginning of time it has always
been MAN and WOMAN. Just because gays choose their lifestyle does not mean that
I have to accept their choice as MY choice.Again, when did
minorities decide the fate or the choice of the majority? Hitler did the same,
Bonapart, Castro ... and I'm sure I'm missing some of the other catastrophes
there.I'm very sorry for Mr. Romney - if this had not come up, I
think he would have been a good running mate for Senator McCain.Californians UNITE!! Marriage is between a MAN AND A WOMAN and there should
be NO EXCEPTIONS.Let them have their 'civil unions' or whatever else
they want to call it - but NO GAY MARRIAGE. It's a travesty.And no,
I'm not 'homophobic' ... Just very convinced that to let go of traditional
values would devestate the State as well as our United States.
When I first hear about the legislature overturning the voters will, I was
saddened and wondered how we could get our will back. I prayed.Then
I heard that we would get to vote again. I was thrilled. And I prayed.I wondered if the LDS Church would tell us how to vote. I had already
determined to vote my conscience - which is that MARRIAGE IS BETWEEN A MAN AND A
WOMAN ONLY. I kept praying that the Church would come out and back me up on
that.I love my gay sister and my transgender brother. I do NOT love
their lifestyle, nor do I agree with it. Nor do the majority of people we
know. Why should we cater to the minority when they are fighting to
take away our life as we know it and to replace it with the life they want us to
know? Why should I accept a perverted way of life when I know in my heart and
soul that it is wrong? Why should I let anyone dictate to me what I should
...about homosexuality as far as we know.Beyond that, such claims
(including what 'Christ inspired his apostles') are nothing but personal faith
and religion and belief. You are free to have all those influence how you not
only act personally, but also to inform your activism and how you vote. They are
fine for Sunday School and sermons.But the government should not be
passing any laws based on "Christ says so" if you expect it to pass
constitutional muster. It shouldn't and it won't. And it's not much of an
argument in pluralistic public discussion, except for how you, the individual,
personally believe. I, for one, and many others, recognize that "Christ" is not
a person of history, but a declaration of faith tied to the Jewish life and
Roman death of Jesus of Nazareth. As such, virtually nothing he is claimed to
have said or inspired in the Bible means anything at all in a discussion of the
legal issues involved.
I'm sad about all this pridefulness. When prideful, we learn nothing. What a
waste! To answer sberg: You wonder what Christ would do? I don't. He already
did it by inspiring His ancient apostle to speak out against homosexuality--
because He loves us. He inspired His living prophet to speak out today-- because
He loves us. My baby grandson wants to stand on tables, but my daughter loves
him enough to safeguard him from such danger. God is precisely the same, and He
has all the facts! "Why would anyone with an ounce of compassion fight against
this?" Because, sberg, They love us enough to safeguard us from danger; that's
why. NO ONE has more compassion than Christ, and Christ says no.
I can't believe that we have to constanly address or defend our concept of
marriage in this country. Has the world all gone crazy? Are we all so stupid
that all of our common sense has completely disappeared? The animals have more
common sense than we humans do. Two people of the same gender can't have a baby.
They can only pretend to have a family. This is about as unatural a union as
there can possibly be. A marriage is between a man and a woman anything else is
just play acting.
There is only one way to know if a prophet is speaking for God. That is to
listen to his words, read the words of former prophets in the scriptures, keep
God's commandments, and pray for guidance. Then be patient and with humility
continue to pray to be led to the truth and not be deceived. God will not
deceive us. We allow ourselves to be deceived through pride and arrogance,
thinking we know more than God, and that his laws have changed as times have
changed.God has counseled us to love him with "all our hearts, might
and minds" and to "love our neighbors as ourselves." We are not loving our gay
neighbors by pretending that gay marriage is a good thing.God's laws
are in place to help us, not to take away our freedoms. The more we live in
accordance with his laws, the more freedom we have. Because he loves us
unconditionally he allows us to have agency. But with agency comes
responsibility, as well as consequences. The consequences of non-gender
marriage are not completely known, but society can not be perpetuated in
genderless homes. God knows more than man. Let's listen to him.
Our God-fearing forefathers probably would have wrote to ban same-sex marriage
in the US Constitution if they would have imagined that it would happen today.
ALL LDS people should support BANNING same-sex marriage. If not,
then apparently one must do some true soul searching. I will
support all organizations (including other religious organizations) that support
the will of the California voters with Prop. 22. WE, THE PEOPLE, of California
voted to BAN same-sex marriage. Sad that one judge decides the will of a few
(in comparison) people.
For one: this is NOT a hatred act against gays..but this IS a church urging it's
members to help keep the laws in standing with what they believe. How is that
different then those groups urging their supporters to vote the other way???I have a dear friend who is gay and while I still respect her and her choice
of lifestyle, I personally do NOT believe that is the way of God. We believe in
the LDS church that those supposedly "born that way" are simply given this as
their weakness or trial to overcome in this life...just as one might suffer with
anger issues etc. This life is a test!
We do not believe in a relative morality that shifts with every wind of societal
preferences. Truth is eternal and never bends to accomodate philosophy, no
matter how loudly stated. I absolutely intend to support the California
amendment. I fought to get Prop 22 passed to ban gay marriage in California,
and now will have to do it again because of a judge who overrode the vote of the
people. Californians are NOT for gay marriage no matter what the media and the
shouters presume and claim. We voted it down twice and will do it again.
This is statement from OUR prophet of the Lord..I'd probably listen if I were
you!...and even if you don't believe that then fine BUT let the church promote
their beliefs just as the gay and lesbians are promoting theirs.
to sburg, yes we follow the "law of the land" that doesn't mean we should let
every BAD law be voted in. just because other countries do it, doesn't mean
that we should also. we were given this land, this FREE land as a gift, and
because "where much is given, much is required" we have been admonished to take
care of it. Loving others does not mean let them do whatever they want. Just
because something is legal, it doesn't mean that it is moral ie. abortion. Do
we follow the law of the land and get an abortion "because it is legal?", why
should the church care? You better believe that the church should care about
these issues, and so should we. i have a feeling that we have no idea of the
pandora's box that will be opened if this law passes. Study the issue, ask
questions, ignore the name calling and pray to understand- then vote what you
believe is right. One way or the other, we will all suffer the consequences
(and there will be consequences.)
so WRZ, since gay marriage is legal and has been for years in some Scandinavian
countries and Canada, why hasn't the church been marrying gay couples in those
countries? Don't we believe in following the law of the land, or is this just
one more example of saying we believe in one thing, like the 11th through 13th
articles of faith, and doing quite another.This is a civil issue
only. The proposed amendment states the "State of California ..." shall
recognize marriage only between a man and a woman. It says nothing about the
religious institution of marriage, ONLY the civil one. So, why should the church
care?One's left to wonder what would Christ do? My reading of the
four gospels leads me to suspect he would be disgusted with the Mormon Church
that blasphemes his name with it's formal title when it sends out letters that
literally tear same sex families apart, and promotes sexual promiscuity or at
least serial monogamy for gay people, (and yes gay people can adopt in most
states, you don't have to be married to do that).
In this country we believe we have the freedom to do what we want, say what we
want, and be what we want. Yet when some makes a stand against the belief of
others, they are looked at as "close minded" or "homophobes" or "behind the
times." Though all of us are God's children, it does not mean that we have to
tolerate the crosscurrent and sway of "the new morality." Let us do all within
our power to bring down the tide of tolerance (of the new morality) and bring
morality to where it belongs. Look to God and live!
The only way to show you actually believe something is to do something about it.
If we believe marriage is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman (as the
LDS Church does), it is not enough to just preach it. We must stand up for it,
promote it, try to set a good example in our own marriages, help and counsel
others to nourish their marriages. It would be wrong to turn the other way and
ignore all that is encroaching on the sacredness of marriage: divorce,
pornography, homosexuality, and infidelity. The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-Day Saints is not just an office building in downtown Salt Lake City; it
is US, the members. And if we won't DO anything (including giving of our means
and time to protect marriage) to show what we believe, then it's an empty
RE: "This is a matter of civil marriage. It doesn't affect religious
marriage."Mr. Melsons pat response to the gay marriage question may
make a good quote, but the issue is not at all that simple. Like the earth's
ecosystems, our society is highly connected. To say that gay marriage won't
affect anything or anyone is inane. Of course it will! Traditional
marriage is highly valued because it provides the most stability for children,
couples, and society. This is historically/statistically verifiable. Societies
which condoned the gay lifestyle have collapsed, and in modern countries which
embrace gay marriage, stable family life is rapidly declining and welfare
systems are taxed.Furthermore, the gay marriage issue is already
rippling through our society in another way: Massachusetts currently preaches
gay marriage in public schools, and the liberal CA legislature which has
previously attempted to mandate gender neutrality and gay-centered curriculum in
public schools, may just get their way. Those who support gay marriage will not
tell you how they want to indoctrinate your children, too.This is a
very big deal. Will this issue affect you? You bet it will!
The ideal is a family where a loving mother and father raise their children.
AWB: the LDS church has never ever preached the principle of free agency. The
LDS church teaches the principle of "agency." Each person has "agency," or the
ability to choose for each person for themselves. The principle of "free
agency" means that each person may choose for themselves free from any
responsibility of the consequences of their choice. There are consequences for
every choice we make. Some choices result in blessings. Some not. If you
excercise your agency to make wrong moral choices (God's Law) or wrong legan
choices (man's law), then you need to be ready to accept the responsibility for
the consequences of those wrong choices. There is a price to be paid for every
wrong choice we make. Again, there is no such thing as "free agency" only
There have been many gay people in my life and I want to say that that was one
of their only shortcomings. They were funny, highly intelligent, kind, generous
and so forth but they were attracted to the same sex. Does that mean they are
evil? No. That means we love them inspite of this complex conflict. We don't
have any right to condemn them but we have every right to protect what we in our
hearts believe is God's way and purposes. We have a duty to do that. Thats the
beauty of the law in this country of and by and for the people. If the people
find it in conflict with what they consider true and good they can support law
to uphold the institution of marriage as we've known it for generations now.
Ultimately all the chatter will be hushed by what the majority believe. If we
come to the point where the majority turn from the teachings of our nation's
Christian heritage then as the Prophets have warned there will be calamity upon
us all. Let's vote from our hearts. Even some gay people don't believe in gay
**Vote however you will, support the prophet, but why trample civility and
goodness in dealing with gays in your disagreements, since we all struggle with
sin?**When I said "You say we who oppose gay marriage are blind, but
it is you who are blind, hardhearted, stiffnecked, etc." I was referring to
other members who called me blind for following what Pres. Monson has asked of
us. He woulddn't ask it of us unless the Lord instructed him to. If calling
them blind, etc., in return was offensive, oh well, I'm not concerned.
Here's a view from New Zealand...I am a less active member of the
Church...however,I must say without any doubt...that the Church stands for
"good" and promotes values that are good for any society, especially in a world
that appears to be like a boat without a rudder in a stormy sea...the Church is
an Ensign and an Anchor....for true seekers of truth to harbour from the evil
views of the world where some call "Right" wrong and "Wrong" right. Marriage is
only right when between Mary and John...rather than John and John....its how God
designed it to be....anything else would be wrong and would stuff up society in
a way we would never imagine....Get it right America, the rest of the world is
watching....and all sense and wisdom to your lawmakers.....choose the
right!!...ka kite ano (from New Zealand)
AS FOR THE CHURCHES STAND ON MARRIAGE I AGREE WITH IT TO THE EXTENT OF ONE MAN
ONE WOMAN THE REST OF THE "MARRIAGES" ARE A FARCE AND SHOULD NOT BE RECOGNIZED
IN ANY OTHER STATE. I WILL SUPPORT ANY ACTION THAT MAKES THIS A FACT ACROSS THE
NATION. AND ONE MORE THOUGHT YOUR FREEDOM TO ACT AS YOU WISH IS NOT GOING TO BE
AFFECTED BY AN AMENDMENT TO EITHER THE STATE OR FEDERAL CONSITUTION. JUST LOOK
AT ALL THE PRISONS THEY ARE FULL OF PEOPLE WHO ACTED AS THEY WANTED.
Anyone ever hear of Sodom and Gomorah and what happened to them?????
Constitutional Law of the Land; 144th Congress, Second Session - 1996 resolved
and passed:H.R.3396 the `Defense of Marriage Act'.SEC.
2. POWERS RESERVED TO THE STATES.`No State, territory, or possession
of the United States, or Indian tribe, shall be required to give effect to any
public act, record, or judicial proceeding of any other State, territory,
possession, or tribe respecting a relationship between persons of the same sex
that is treated as a marriage under the laws of such other State, territory,
possession, or tribe, or a right or claim arising from such relationship.'.SEC. 3. DEFINITION OF MARRIAGE.`Sec. 7. Definition of
`marriage' and `spouse'`In determining the meaning of any Act of
Congress, or of any ruling, regulation, or interpretation of the various
administrative bureaus and agencies of the United States, the word `marriage'
means only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife, and
the word `spouse' refers only to a person of the opposite sex who is a husband
or a wife.'.
I live in California and one sunday when the letter was read i thought it was
the dumbist thing that i have ever heard it its everyone has different ideas and
i think that people should be married if they are in love and want to share
their lives. It makes me wonder if the church i belong to and go to every
sunday where people that where against people that were of different races
couldn't get married to one another and i couldn't believe when they asked
people to give money and support against gay marriage it had no affect to them
and i thought we where to love one another and not oppress one another from our
right to be with who me want legally and get benifts from it
The Church is NOT limiting anyones free agency. They are reminding us of our
covenants and what we do believe. Why can they not encourage members of the
church to get involved in a stance that will further help society. They are not
forcing them, they are encouraging. Last I checked, I can say I will or will
not have the time to participate. But, my vote may be all that I can do. The
Church does not take away anothers free agency. Definitely not.People say those kinds of things when they are angry because they don't get
their way.Read the constitution, and know that it was inspired by
Calling someone self-righteous is just saying you disagree, but in a rude way.
I didn't hear anyone saying "we're better than you" If you can't come up with a
decent argument don't go calling people self-righteous. The cannibal
thing was just saying if we don't believe anything is wrong where does it end?
The homosexual Mormon thing is true, you can't be both just like you
can't be a Christian atheist.And if homosexual people were not being
stiffnecked they would not be trying to get homosexual marriages seeing as how
they can live togeather, as they are, already without it. There is obviously a
different issue to it than marriage. If it is sin you're talking
about, however, we don't go legalizing it if we can help it! And as
for right vs. good they are one in the same. If you are doing right good will
come of it. Basically good people can do wrong things but that doesn't mean we
make those wrong things ok just because the people doing them are nice.
I appreciate reading those of you who say you will follow the prophet's lead on
this issue. However, just looking at the last 20 or so posts, you find the
following from "Christians":"The sarcasm which equates gay rights to
cannibals, murders, etc.""As for "gay/lesbian mormons?" Are you
freaking kidding me?" "You say we who oppose gay marriage are blind,
but it is you who are blind, hardhearted, stiffnecked, etc."It is
self-righteous statements like these that almost makes me wish I hadn't come
across Mormonism 35 years ago. Doing the "right" seems to be more important
that doing "good" to so many people.Vote however you will, support
the prophet, but why trample civility and goodness in dealing with gays in your
disagreements, since we all struggle with sin?
A brief reminder to Latter-Day Saints:4 And now, verily I say unto
you concerning the laws of the land, it is my will that my people should observe
to do all things whatsoever I command them.5 And that law of the
land which is constitutional, supporting that principle of freedom in
maintaining rights and privileges, belongs to all mankind, and is justifiable
before me. 7 And as pertaining to law of man, whatsoever is more or
less than this, cometh of evil.9 Nevertheless, when the wicked rule
the people mourn. 10 Wherefore, honest men and wise men should be
sought for diligently, and good men and wise men ye should observe to uphold;
otherwise whatsoever is less than these cometh of evil.
You can't change the truths of a church (any church) with a vote and without
Gods instruction/permission. People who think God has nothing to do with our
government & country need to read the constitution. Most importantly, People who
think God SHOULD have nothing to do with our government & country need to take a
look at history & notice how civilizations tend to fall into dictatorships &
evil rule when they forget God and His teachings. God tells people how to be
good & how to be better. Right and wrong ARE set in stone and always have been.
You have the ability to do whatever you want to Laws will not stop you and it is
not like homosexuality is being outlawed anyway! Also if the church
should stay out of the issue so should everyone else, Everyone! weather they are
for or against the issue.
Do you folks really want the civil government to define what is or isn't a
marriage or a family? Do you actually trust them that much?
TO: CatsYes, God will NOT be mocked. Perhaps that is an answer for
all the fires in CA this year? Earthquakes around the world? Floods in diverse
places? And the hurricane season isn't even here yet.Perhaps God is
indeed sending a message as he did in Noah's time and will before the Second
Same-sex marriage? That means that brother can marry brother? Sister can marry
sister? Just to enjoy the benefits given to married couples. And hey, they
love each other. Polygamy isn't far behind. It is all morally wrong - wake
up!! This is NOT just an LDS issue - it is an issue for all of us to fight
Cannibal rights! We are people too! Just because you don't understand our
preference and lifestyle doesn't mean you have the right to stop us from living
like we want to. Join me in organizing a Cannibal pride parade this
independence day! What's wrong with eating what you want to if the someone
being eaten has no objections to it? People donate their physical bodies to our
cause all the time so what is wrong with that? As long as we aren't killing
people? And so what if we do want to kill people? Murderers are people too. Do
what you like it's your life.---sarcasm ends---"The
California Supreme Court with its opinion has now established their concept of
the "new morality" as the official religious dogma of the state of California.
Laws against polygamy, rape, adultery, fornication, sodomy,incest,and child
sexual abuse have all had their foundation in legislation based upon moral or
religious beliefs of the people."If you leave out all morality (i.e
Gods teachings) there is no basis for decision on ANY laws.
I hate how the world has changed. I am not active in the Church, but I
belive the teachings and try to live my life right by the teachings. I don't
hate the guys, but I don't belive they should have the same rights as us. And as
far as the people in the courts, if they are not up holding the laws as to how
our forfathers wanted them,then they should be out of office. Like I said, I
hate how the world or the usa is.
What is really unfortunate is that it will take another generation or two before
the consequences of being raised in a household without *both* a male and female
role model will be evident. The results of the first long term longitudinal
studies on single parent households are just now being published - it took over
30 years to collect the data. (John Bowlby was right - having responsible,
reliable parents who encourage exploration are a key factor in developing strong
interpersonal relationship skills in the next generation.) Who's looking out for
the "rights" of the children here and how long will it take to figure that out -
how many lives will be effected and how much misery and suffering could be
avoided? In reproductive terms, a two parent same sex family is not neither
normal nor natural, or we'd all be sexually polymorphic. This is folly on a
grand scale, let alone the issues regarding the separation of church and state.
To love, to share a life committed to helping one another, raising children
under this model, same gender or not, it is a valid marriage. God would smile
because God is love.
How absurd that those who uphold God's law are labeled "bigots; homophobic;
old-fashioned; narrow-minded; cruel". Mud-slinging is always counterproductive
and childish. It solves nothing. The issues surrounding same-gender attraction
are moot. What matters is whether we trust the Lord's mouthpiece. God knows what
He's doing,even if we misunderstand His purposes, which are NEVER divisiveness
and hate. He cherishes His children & asks us to trust His path to happiness.
When He speaks-- and politics & morality WILL overlap!-- then the debate ends
for me. We have no right to counsel God, because "the voice of the Lord is unto
all... there is none to escape...What I the Lord have spoken, I have spoken, and
I excuse not myself... my word shall not pass away, but shall all be fulfilled,
whether by mine own voice or by the voice of my servants, it is the same...and
the truth abideth forever..." God, not man, gets to decide what that truth is.
If we ask in humility, He'll teach us His will and we'll feel His peace.
Sorry, I didn't mean you can't call yourself "mormon," because we all have our
own sins/weaknesses/trials. I just wonder how someone can think they will be
living with God when what they are doing is an abomination.
It's sad that there are so many "mormons" out there who say they are active
members of the church, but in all reality "their hearts are far from Thee." As
for "gay/lesbian mormons?" Are you freaking kidding me? You can't even call
yourself Mormons. Have you actually read "The Family: A Proclamation to the
World?" "...marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God..... We warn
that individual who violate covenants of chastity.. will one day stand
accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family
will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by
ancient and modern prophets."You think the world has problems now, just
I am so very glad to be a member of this church and to have a true understanding
of the plan of salvation and the importance of families in it. I can not
comprehend how there can be members with this same understanding that act on
homosexual feelings and think that it is ok and/or think that the First
Presidency will even consider negotiation on this. Truth is truth and cannot be
diminished or watered down without losing what makes it true. There is no need
to fear that our doctrine will change. It will always remain the same, for truth
never changes. I see the separation of the wheat from the tares, brothers and
sisters. This is only the start. Hold fast to the faith and the Lord will bless
The comments from "Symantics" were golden. Many want to believe that allowing
gay marriage will not change the institution of marriage, but I believe that it
is an extremely near-sighted position. The gay marriage movement is an
extension of a culture that has become individualistic in family matters.
Relationships are voluntary and too often based on personal feelings with too
little regard to personal commitment. Allowing gay marriage may only serve to
strenthen that trend. And the ones that ultimately suffer from all of this are
children.I have gay and lesbian friends; I have been a mental health
counselor for gays and lesbians. The ones I have personally known are kind,
sensitive people, with whom I have been proud to be associated. I think they
can make great parents, in terms of being able to teach children values upon
which we all would agree (i.e. kindness, respect for others). But there's
something that they simply can't offer children: a home with a mother AND a
father, to which all children should be entitled. And if my analysis is
correct, we will only see more children in broken homes if gays and lesbians are
allowed to marry.
I read an article that gave statistics stating that the percentage of gay and
lesbians voters was 2.9% Look what poliical issue this 2.9% of voters has
created. Think of what your voice could do by standing for righteousness. If
you just voice your oppinion, give time where you can, and vote. We can make a
difference for the better. We just have to act.
I think the best place anybody can make a difference is in our own homes.
Anybody who reads the Bible knows that homosecuality is wrong,but the question
is how much power do we want to give our government. The church fought for the
right to continue plural marriage and lost so the peactice was abandoned. If
people succeed in allowing homosexuals to be married, how much will that change
what we are supposed to teach in our homes? It shouldn't. We are to still
teach love and compassion and understanding right? Homosexual marriage doesn't
hurt the family any more than divorce does so we really should outlaw divorce,
or even just speak out against it more on the pulpit!! The most important thing
is that children be protected in whatever situation the adults who are raising
them are doing it in!!
I believe in freedom. I believe in thinking for myself. It just so happens
that I CHOOSE to believe in the institution of marriage. Why does that make me
bad and hateful? It seems to me that those who call us hateful want to take our
freedoms and that of institutions who believe in preserving values that we hold
near and dear, the things we hold sacred. Why should churches be FORCED to
accept something they feel is wrong. The LDS church will NEVER accept something
they feel is morally wrong - even if they lose their tax-free status (they
already pay taxes anyway-check your facts)Nor does the church dictate to its
members what to choose. I think for myself and I CHOOSE to follow the Prophet.
We are quickly becoming a world who will accept anything. It doesn't matter, be
accepting of anything anyone wants? ARE YOU KIDDING? Those of us who sit
quietly on the fence, STAND FOR SOMETHING. It's time we all choose to stand on
one side or the other. Yes it is your right and YOUR DUTY to choose. Let's all
make a choice...However we will not be free to choose the consequences.
I have a daughter who has been to the temple and has since decided that she is
gay and is now living the gay lifestyle with her partner in Boston. I love my
daughter and I love her partner. They are both wonderful, amazing women, but my
heart is broken that my daughter has chosen to break the covenants she has made.
I just visited them last month and had a wonderful time being with them, but my
heart is still broken. Everyone on this earth, including the people who have
posted on this blog, has the right to choose for themselves. We don't all have
to agree with each other and we have no right to judge one another - that is the
Savior's job. But I have chosen to follow the prophet, and I will do all I can
to fight gay marriage because the Lord has asked me to through His prophet. Gay
marriage will have profound, untold consequences on society. And since the Lord
knows the end from the beginning, and I don't, I will put my trust in the Lord.
Some are calling homosexuals "sinners" on this board. When you think about it,
we are all carnal sinners. That's what King Benjamin's people realized when
they fell to the ground. We all have our problems. This is not an issue about
judging others. It is simply an issue about the majority vote of man + woman
marriage being overturned by a few judges. This is where MY main concern lies.
If judges are allowed to overturn the majority vote in California, there's
something wrong with the judicial system. I suspect most members of the LDS
community probably would participate in upholding the vote made previously
whether or not asked by the presidency of the church.
I have watched the code of conduct of this nation (California) decline from the
1950's. Everything the religious conservatives warned about has come to pass as
we have yielded to the demands of those that cry foul of their rights to freedom
of 'misconduct'. We are wallowing in a moral 'Pig Sty'. The next rights we will
be forced to accept are those of Petafiles(Child Molesters). The security,
prosperity, and emotional strength of this country hang in the balance! I know
all of which I speak because I have lived it and suffered greatly as a result.
The Homosexuals are maladjusted and substandard in their relationship maturity.
Their relationships are noted for their lack of longgevity, with some
exceptions. Divorce Lawyers will support this because they stand to benefit
greatly. This movement is an effort to gain tax and other financial advantages.
The supporters of the homosexuals are sympathizers that mean well but are
blinded by the cries of persecution. The greatest disadvantage is to the
children these people will obtain and raise! I am intimately familiar with every
word I have written. Please take my word as those of a loving parent. The trueth
is sometimes painful to learn.
...I've alway's observed that a person can leave the LDS church, but they can
never leave it alone.
I can understand both sides of this issue and they are valid ones; however, my
father always told me. You get a testimony of the Prophet and that he is the
Lord's mouthpiece. "Whether by my voice, or by the voice of my servant it is the
same." Then you only have two rules to follow in life:1. Follow the
Prophet2. When in doubt - see rule number one. Basically, you either
believe Pres. Monson is the mouthpiece of God, or you don't. So, although I can
understand where those of you fighting for the LDS people to leave this issue
alone are coming from - when the prophet speaks, I will listen and follow,
because I know that it is coming directly from my Heavenly Father and Savior.
And I will not argue with them. I can continue to love my gay friends without
supporting them, but I have to do as the prophet tells me and I too will stand
up against any measure supporting legalizing gay and lesbian marriages - because
that is what the Lord is telling me to do. Choose which side of the fence you
Excuse but isn't "Gay and Lesbian Mormons" an oxymoron? The church has always
been against the gay and lesbian lifestyle because it is contrary to Heavenly
Father's will. Are you forgetting that the Lord is the same yesterday, today and
tomorrow. One of the reason's I love our church is the fact that we follow the
commandments, we dont' bow down to society rules and norms.
I am not associated with the LDS church at all, with the exception of some in my
family are members. I applaud the LDS church and their stand they are taking on
this growing PROBLEM we have in our country. As I read through a number of the
comments that have been made, it makes me sad that so many no longer respect our
Lord. It is a scary thing, knowing that some day God will say, "I have had
enough!" Woe be to those who disrespect him!!! I am not judging, I am going by
the Bible, God's word. Everyone will come face to face with our Lord someday. I
feel sad for those who mock Him. In the meantime, I will be on the side of
those who do everything they can to stop sin. Thank you to the LDS for taking a
Amber:**God teaches us to love each other and the Church teaches
that someone can be gay/lesbian within the Church.**Yes, gay people
can attend & be part of the church but you also know that if they do so, they
are required to not practice the homosexual lifestyle & many gay members do that
wholeheartedly because they understand why the Lord requires them to do so.
Very sad how many here who claim to be active, faithful members are willfully
opposing our prophet & his counselors. You say we who oppose gay marriage are
blind, but it is you who are blind, hardhearted, stiffnecked, etc.,...the Book
of Mormon parallels are very clear to see.
I support the church's definition of marriage and their efforts to keep the
definition of "Marriage" as it has always been, between one man, and one women.
Nevertheless, I do support the concept that gay and lesbian men and women have a
legal right to bond together in a relationship of love. The perspective that
being gay is merely a sexual deviation and perversion is outdated and
stereotyped. They are capable of the same kind of love for each other that a
heterosexual couple has and although I disagree to the term "marriage" as being
the definition of their union,gay men and women should have similar legal rights
as "Bonded Partners" or some other acceptable term. Marriage has always been
the sacred union that forms a traditional family. The family today in the world
also is defined other ways as well such as single parent, or children as part
of a related family. There are so many ways that families exists today that
surely we can accomodate same sex couples into our broader sense of what a
family is. Instead of fighting this all concerned should work to find an
acceptable format of recognition.
It is the duty of the Prophet to declare GODS WILL!!! Are you like the
people of old that would stone him, or follow him. Think about it!
I knew America is conservative, but I didn't know that it's even beyond that:
this is pure intolerance! God teaches us to love each other and the Church
teaches that someone can be gay/lesbian within the Church. Like anyone-else gays
want to have a relationship too and because it's not allowed to have sex before
marriage, the only solution is to get married.In Holland gays/lesbians can
get married since a couple of years and it's no problem! My neigbours are a
gay-married-couple and they're nice people.I agree with boiseguy: this is
a political matter and the Church shouldn't interfere.Brothers and sisters
lets love each-other instead of spreading hatred!
It's sad to see so many people put so much passion and energy into things that
are private individual choices that each should have the right to decide on for
themselves. In the meantime, our land is languishing as over-zealouts are
taking over all the rights we have that DO matter. Why can't we all just relax
and enjoy life and leave all of these kinds of ridiculous activity to people
that feel they're getting power and dominion over us by the mere mention of it?
As for me and my house, I will serve the Lord and my family on my
own terms. I really think the leaders need to stop prying into things that only
cause controversy. Maybe it's good publicity, but is that all we're trying to
obtain now? Moral or unethical, lawful or unlawful, our society is based on
what happens in our individual lives. Let's all quit focusing on the world
trauma that we can't control, and spend more time on the things we can.
It states expressly in the Book of Mormon that Polygamy is only mandated if the
Lord is to raise a people up to Him. Basically, if the Lord needs more of his
people plygamy is a good method to do it. As for the quotes from General
Authorities, there are millions of them out there --only a few are in context
and quoted correctly. Anti Church people love to publish statements that were
never made. Pro Church people likewise.
As hard as the church fights to be seen as mainstream, polygamy will never make
...the biggest reason the LDS oppose legalization of same sex marriage is their
fear that legalization of polygamy will not be far behind. Since "plural
marriage" as part of "The New and Everlasting Covenant" is still VERY VERY much
part of the LDS scriptural canon (D&C 132), it will be all but impossible for
them not to be under internal pressure to rescind the non-scriptural and totally
political Manifesto which interrupted the everlasting nature of plural
marriage.And you can be sure that not very many modern Mormons would
be very keen on having to deal with that again. Scripture and the nature of
"Everlasting" not withstanding.Myself, I'm ready for it, heart,
mind, might and soul.
Speaking of the church's practice of "traditional marriage", a few quotes during
the days of polygamy:"the one-wife system not only degenerates the
human family, both physically and intellectually, but it is entirely
incompatible with philosophical notions of immorality; it is a lure to
temptation and has always proved a curse to the people" Pres. John Taylor"...if they (non-Mormons) envy us our position, well they may for they
are a poor, narrow-minded, pinch-backed race of men, who chain themselves down
to the law of monogamy and live all their days under the dominion of one wife.
They ought to be ashamed of such conduct...." Apostle George A Smith"Just ask yourselves, historians, when was monogamy introduced on to the face
of the earth?...never (till the days of Jesus, Rome having dominion over
Jerusalem)..was there a law passed, that we have any knowledge of, that a man
should have but one wife."Pres Brigham Young
Nice post, Dave!! That's true! All of you others who follow so
blindly... Remember that questioning leaders isn't always a bad thing... In
face, isn't that how the LDS church came to be?I don't understand
why it is such a huge issue for everyone. I just don't see how gay marriage
affects you at all. The LDS church will never be forced to perform marriage
between homosexual couples. I just don't understand why it is such a big deal!
Im confused. When did the Mormon Church become the spokesperson for traditional
marriage? They've never practiced "traditional marriage!" I don't understand why they are so heck-bent on this issue when their own God
apparently doesn't have a problem with changing the definition of marriage now
and then. Examination of Mormon history clearly demonstrates that
sometimes he commands people to practice polygamy, sometimes he commands them
not to practice polygamy. Both will get you into the Celestial Kingdom. Go figure.
**And in 97 years Hincklely didn't? One would think that as a loving prophet, he
would want to know that answer.**And how would Frank know what the
prophet has/hasn't asked of the Lord??
**If enough faithful in California walk out, perhaps the First Presidency will
clarify if this is their opinion or divine revelation.**If?? Our
prophets have spoken out on those practicing homosexual lifestyles for a long
time. Prophets are the Lord's mouthpiece to the world so why are LDS here
looking for other opinions when the Lord has clearly spoken his will for mankind
through his prophet?? Faithful followers of the Lord & his prophet aren't
faithful when they go against divine counsel.
I am disheartened to read all the comments that call homosexuals "sinners". The
Church teaches a person "judge not, lest ye be judged". The pride of some
Church members may alone cause the weakening or fall of the Church. The
strength of the Church depends on the desire of its people to follow the word of
God. If the actions of those outside the Church could really cause its fall,
then member just might have more to worried about then same-sex civil marriages.
**You've never heard gay bashing in church before? I have. "They are trying to
wreck society. They are sick and depraved and should be shot." There are more,
but these are the ones I distinctly remember.**That's terrible. Any
LDS talking like that should be ashamed & disciplined by their bishop. The
majority of LDS don't talk or think like that about any human being - gay or
otherwise. Even though we feel gay marriage or that practicing homosexuality
isn't right, doesn't mean we have any hateful feelings towards gay people.
Sarah, thanks for a great post!
**Even Pres Hinckley stated that he did NOT KNOW if homosexuals were born that
way. Does that sound like he has actually asked God for details about this
issue? Why should we assume the questions have been asked and answered if they
really haven't?**So, he didn't know...what's that got to do with
anything? Even if it's inborn, it's still a sin & the prophet will speak out
**Its funny how similar the comments I've run across remind me of things said in
the Old and even New Testament. I wonder how often Moses was asked, "Are you
really sure you talked to God or is it just your opinion that we should go to
the desert". Or Jesus having to deal with the advice "You know if you weren't
against that it would bring you a lot more followers. What your doing is really
unpopular with the majority."**How true!
**What I wonder is whether this letter is based on revelation or merely the
opinions of men.**More questioning/doubting the Lord's prophet??
Unbelievable. **I'm wondering if I'm bound to follow this
instruction or if I can in good conscience follow my own heart.**Get
on your knees & ask the Lord & he'll tell you. I hope he'll also help you see
that questioning his chosen prophet is not what you should be doing.
sberg:**Why on earth would anybody with an ounce of compassion fight
against this?**Why on earth would any faithful, steadfast &
immovable LDS member fight the Lord & his prophet on this?? They wouldn't...if
they do, it's themselves they need to question.
**It will close doors and hearts eternally, that may have been open before, and
it violates our own 11-13th articles of faith.**So you know better
than the Lord & his prophet what is best for this church, it's people, & all of
mankind?? Those who are steadfast & immovable in following the mind & will of
the Lord & his prophet, are not the ones who need to take a long look at
themselves & are not the ones who are hypocritcal over this issue...Again, bottom line, if you aren't for the Lord/his church, you are against
him...plain & simple.
For those heterosexuals who believe this is a simple topic of people choosing to
be evil, I would suggest reading about Stuart Matis, a gay person who
desperately tried to live a righteous life but under the rancor of the prop 22
battle in CA killed himself or a married couple who wrote their story under the
name of Lynn and Jim Conley in the book, "Peculiar People." Jim Conley was a
married gay man. The Conley's loved each other and tried to work through his
homosexuality. They budgeted $100,000 for whatever treatments they thought
would help, prayed and fasted for a long period of time. In the end, nothing
changed. They divorced as friends, unable to exorcise those feelings. Most gays are "born that way" for whatever reason. For the "iron rod"
Mormons, this is good reading. It won't change your mind, but it will change
your heart. Learning to understand gays is good for us all.
Why not make such huge public ordeal out of a man cheating on his wife? The
bible says that's wrong also. So many more awful things going on today. Why
worry so much about this. Besides, anyone been reading anything scientific
about gays and lesbians? You know how it's GENETIC it some cases??? What right
do we have to tell someone that they are not allowed to be happy? I quit
attending services regularly 8 years ago or so because of this very issue and
decided to start taking my kids back today of all days and guess what the first
thing I hear is? come on. just let them have the same right to happiness as
everyone else. We will all be judged on our actions eventually. And you will
not be looked on any different than a gay person. So live your life the best
you know how and let them live theirs.
**I think that it is amazing that in the supposedly free nation of the United
States where there is suypposed to be Freedom of speech and press, Mormons can
voiced their hatred of gays and lesbians and even claim to have the right to
dictate what rights other Americans can have or not have. This Mormon run press
allows for continued homophobia but silences those who would speak against
Mormonism. Mormons continuously moan and groan about how they have been
mistreated in history. So what gives them the right now to mistreat another part
of society. "with liberty and justice for all" NOT...at least not in Utah.**True, we have freedom of speech & the press & that's why we can speak up
against an issue we feel is detrimental to all of society. So, we're not
suppose to speak up unless we agree with others/gay marriage? Our leaders are
always teaching us to be compassionate & tolerant of others but that doesn't
mean we have to agree with everyones actions/choices.
**If you make it your business to deny basic human rights to gays and
lesbians...be aware that there will be a backlash. You have NO right to dictate
what we can do in our lives. This is Mormon gay bashing at its height. Leave us
alone and we will leave you alone. Amazing that you have not complained that
gays and lesbians, too, pay taxes...shouldn't you start that crusade? Saying
that gay marriage will destroy heterosexual marriage is like saying that the
taxes gays pay will destroy the IRS!!! Grow up people and get a life...your
own...and leave mine alone!!!**We have every right to speak up for
what we feel is good & decent. Just because we disagree with your lifestyle
doesn't mean we have to sit & be silent & we won't. We aren't concerned what
mankind thinks of us but only what God thinks of us.
Great comment!(**You can do what you want and I can do what I want.
I'll just take my thread in the intertwined fabric of society and yank it out,
and you can take yours and pull it from here to there. That wont effect the
whole fabric will it? It doesnt matter what Bob does either, whatever he does to
his threads wont effect society if theres no direct victim. Lets just hope
nobody puts any stress on the fabric.I think however what each
person is and does irreversably effects us all, whether the intention was that
or not. No one is alone.**)
**You may be on the Lord's side, but the government can't. That is against the
first amendment. Please understand that the government is what is at stake, not
the church.**The government is a temporary institution but the
Lord/his church is an eternal institution...easy to see which should matter
**Although I'm not in California anymore, I fully support the first presidency
of the church. They will never lead the church astray. Whose on the Lord's side
who? Now is the time to tell. We ask it fearlessly who's on the Lord's side
who??**Yep, that's the very bottom line on any issues such as this
**Is there no one here that feels the cognitive dissonance that I feel? I love
my church and want to obey the leaders, but I love my country and feel that this
is most UNAMERICAN. We do not have the right to limit the privileges of any
minority group, even if we think they are sinners! They have only broken the law
of God, not the law of the land. We have no right. HELP ME!**They
have ONLY broken the law of God, not the law of the land??? Unbelievable...yet
again another member wanting to please the world instead of the Lord. And we
have EVERY right to stand up for truth & decency as the Lord & our prophet have
asked of us over & over & over...
**Being LDS and supporting the freedom for a gay couple to choose to be married
or not is NOT condoning sin, it is supporting free agency and God is all about
us having free agency.**Sure it is as our prophet has stated as
clearly & plainly as is possible that it is a sin in the Lord's eyes & why
he/the prophet tells us to stand up for the Lord & vote against gay marriage.
And sure we have our free agency, but that doesn't mean the Lord will condone
any choice me make just because he's given us free agency.
>>"The toothpaste is out of the tube." Gay people ARE living together, openly.
Gay people DO have children. Gay people ARE adopting. Gay people HAVE gotten
married in many, many places. Too late to undo what has already been done.
Second, free agency isn't free. We are all free to chose, to make choices. We
are NOT free to choose the consequences of those choices. We are free to
believe what we want. We are free to believe the sky is purple if that is what
we want to believe. That doesn't change the truth though. The sky will still
be blue, whether we believe it is or not. Deciding to act on those gay
feelings, or that urge to Drink, or Beat up your spouse, or any other urge we
feel, whether it is weak or strong, doesn't make doing it right, no matter how
you might try to justify it.I think the church is right to encourage
this vote for righteousness, according to it's teachings. I feel saddened that
they would feel it necessary to even have to do it at all. The people should
already know the principles and act accordingly. And really, we are all fooling
ourselves if we think we can separate religion and politics. Religion should be
a way of life. And politics tend to dictate how we live. Isn't that basically
This is the beginning of the sifting the wheat from the tares. First of all,
let me say this. I do not shun, persecute, reject, or hate gay people. I have
two friends currently that are gay. I have known 5-6 others in my life, and
there was a point where I considered it myself. In those struggles and
associations, I have learned the following:First point, Being
inclined to the gay feelings felt, doesn't make it right or ok. but it doesn't
make YOU evil either. It is the decision that make or breaks you. Being prone
to gayness, or Alcoholism, or violence, or shyness, or sexual addictions, etc.
doesn't mean you should follow that path. That is what this is all about,
seeing what decisions you will make, being faced with adversity and conflict is
part of life. Having those feeling isn't wrong. Acting on them is. Again, it
is the act, or action that is evil, not the person.
**I believe marriage is ordained by God and only between a man and a woman.
However, I also believe that marriage between same sex couples is their right as
free agents. So...We may choose life or we may choose death. The choice is
ours.**Does this mean you'll be voting for gay marriage?
**Sorry, those gay couples that want children are having children NOW. They are
not waiting for permission. This amendment will not stop them from having or
adopting and actually hurts those children by not giving them more stability in
their homes. Try again.**Children will never find
stability in a home where parents are of the same sex...God made mothers &
fathers for a very specific purpose & no matter how sick people are of hearing
it, God made Adam & Eve & not Adam & Steve.
To: To Sarah:**I'm sorry. But how do we know what Church doctrine
is anymore? Is this current "request" from the First Presidency really
"doctrine"? Or is it just the "opinion of men"?**The best way to
know is to get on your knees & simply ask the Lord. Our prophet is not just any
man - the Lord chose him as his mouth piece to the world. What more is there to
To: Str8 saint in the golden state:**I've got a rainbow ribbon to
wear on Sunday and I'm prepared to walk out of sacrament meeting when the letter
is read. I'm also prepared to work against the proposed amendment between now
and Nov. 3.**As always you, like all members, have your agency & can
do what you will. Bottom line, though, is our actions show where our hearts
truly are & by taking the action you plan to in your sacrament meeting, it's
sadly obvious that your heart lies with that of the world instead of with the
Lord & our prophet.
Candace, great post!!
To Saddened:When our minds & lives are in tune/harmony with the
Lord's will, then our minds & lives will also be in tune with that of our
prophet's as his will is only ever to follow the Lord's will...therefore, our
votes will be the prophet's votes.
Re: CA MormonOur prophet speaks the mind & will of the Lord. He's
told us what the Lord thinks about homosexuality & gay marriage - they are sins.
Bottom line, we are for the prohpet/the Lord or we aren't.
Re: CA MormonWhat is it with some LDS members on this board? Our
prophet has spoken, therefore we know the Lord's mind on homosexuality/gay
marriage - it's a sin. Bottom line - when we go against our prophet we go
against the Lord!!
Anyone can tell the difference between booing and hissing to express
disagreement with what was just said versus continually booing and hissing to
prevent a speaker from being heard.At the local university near
where I live, which brings in speakers of all persuasions, it has happened that
a conservative speaker was continuously shouted down and booed as soon as he
started to speak, which continued until security was finally able to escort the
instigators out of the building. Now just who is open minded and unafraid of
the ideas of others?
"See the note above about the school girl in California, and the arrests against
pastors for teaching that homosexuality is wrong."Replace "gay" with
"mormon" and see how your attitude changes. And don't say it doesn't happen.
Fundamentalist Christians continue to this day claiming Joseph Smith was the
anti-Christ and all LDS people are going to hell."Scaremongering and
threats are exactly what we see from the gay rights movement and you can see
many of those threats in this thread. Try speaking as an ex-gay at a university
and see how much the gay lobby respects freedom of speech then."In
other words, you want your freedom of speech to call them "evil" but you don't
want them to have THEIR freedom of speech to boo and hiss and criticize you. It
always amazes me how right-wingers invariable try to describe criticism as
"infringing on your freedom of speech"
"You backhandedly undercut your own argument. In European countries where SSM
has been in place for several years, there is also an influx of Middle
Easterners who are having all of the children. The rest of the country is
satisfied to have gay marriages that are unable to produce children, or to
support their current lifestyle by choosing to none or maybe 1. In 20 years
there will be no more "Netherlands" as we know it today.I'd call
that a total societal breakdown where the culture you decry as broken down takes
over the others that have the loosest rules."Ah, so homosexuality is
bad because religious fanatics will take over? Are you trying to shoot yourself
in the foot?Furthermore, this is yet ANOTHER example of someone
taking a trend which is KNOWN to vary considerably and even completely reverse
(population growth rates) and assuming its constant. Also a slippery slope
"I don't care who twists the heck out of scripture to suit themselves..."Simply quoting some of the insane laws in scripture is "twisting" eh?"God stated it very plainly & clearly how he feels about
homosexuality."The same "God" who said it was OK to own slaves and
murder disobedient children? The same "God" who said its OK to BEAT said slaves
so long as they don't actually die? The same "God" who said that if a man rapes
a woman who is not engaged to another man, the rapist needs to MARRY said
woman?Face reality. No omniscient deity wrote the Old Testament. It
was written by bronze-age ignorants who though hale and snow was kept in jars in
the sky as a war reserve.Reality is on some level, you realize there
are plenty of absurdities in the Bible but you don't want to face that fact and
your response above proves it.
"Why should a child who is molested by an older male and told "now you are gay"
have no options but to accept that lifestyle?"A) Exactly WHO is
doing this. Stop citing unreferenced claims.B) This falls under pedophilia
which NO ONE (claims from the religious right not withstanding) is advocation
legalizing. If a gay man molests a child, he is imprisoned just the same as a
straight man molesting a child.Once again, allow me to elaborate on
the ENORMOUS difference between homosexuality and pedophilia/rape/any other
criminal activity folks try and equate with homosexuality. In a homosexual
relationship between two adults, BOTH PEOPLE ARE CONSENTING ADULTS. The same
cannot be said for pedophilia, rape, etc.
Its simple. The Prophet is still HUMAN. He is still entitled to his own opinions
about things. An I have seen many known falsehoods come out from the mouths of
"the Brethren" in conference.I've heard them proclaim that
homosexuality does not occur in any other species besides humans. Completely
false. I have personally witnessed a male dog mount another male and there are
many documented cases.I've heard President Packer himself utter
several of the standard strawman distortions about Evolution theory from the
pulpit (The Pattern of Our Parentage)
"Funny how Mormon's are called narrow minded bigoted and nasty when we are only
expressing OUR beliefs."But you're NOT just "expressing" your
beliefs. You're trying to get your beliefs enshrined in LAW that would require
EVERYONE to follow them, regardless of whether they accept them or not.
"Threats to not only enact legislation limiting religious freedom, but actual
policies are in place."Plain English translation: they want YOU to
stop forcing YOUR subjective religious-based rules on them. Your freedom ends
when they infringe on someone else."See the note above about the
school girl in California, and the arrests against pastors for teaching that
homosexuality is wrong."Yes, thats called "hate speech" and is no
different from saying any other group is evil."Scaremongering and
threats are exactly what we see from the gay rights movement and you can see
many of those threats in this thread."Plain English translation:
they want you to stop calling them "evil" without any justification. You want to
say the behavior is wrong, you need MORE than just "my church says so"."Children adopted by same-sex couples are twice as likely to be gay themselves
than those adoped by hetero couples"1) Source?2) Circular
reasoning. Using your conclusion that being gay is bad to support itself.
"God" also clearly stated that the Word of Wisdom was not to be a commandment
(Read your D&C). But that didn't stop the "prophet" and the church for over
ruling Him on that one did it? Last time I went for a temple interview I was
asked if I kept the commandment on the Word of Wisdom.
Let me see if I've got this right.Jesus loves me and I can continue to go
to church and pay my tithing and be happy member of God's true church if I
remain celibate while the rest of you get to do what "comes natural."???No thank you.I'm a practising homosexual and that's what
comes naturally to me. Now I cannot wait until I can get married to multiple
men. What's good for the goose is even better for the ganders!
The LDS has had prophets who were senile. Senile! What does it mean that to
have prophets who are the mouthpiece of Heavenly Father and are senile, for
cripes sakes? Meanwhile, a senile prophet could do as well as
Monson has on this issue...
You state "This is from the PROPHET." There was a time when I was much younger
that this would have been enough for me. As I've gotten older I've learned that
not every word uttered by past prophets have been actual doctrine. How do we
know this is not simply "advice" or personal "opinion"? Even when I pray about
it, my mind remains confused. Somehow I just can't get the feeling that this is
right. Sorry, but I don't know what else to do. If it is truly right then why
does it feel so WRONG?
I can understand why you chose your moniker. Whew!
I cannot believe that there are actually members of the church who are stating
that they will not support the church's position. This is from the PROPHET.
Have you forgotten who he his? He is the mouth peace of Heavenly Father!! Do
you now pick and choose which commandments you will keep as well as what
directions from the prophet you will follow. I am so saddened this day that
some of you are allowing the world to influence you so much. The church is not
saying that gay people are bad, we are to love all people as Christ does. The
church is simply restating what is already written for the world to see, that is
the "Family Proclamation". Most of us have this hanging in our homes, I love
this document and I pray that you will read it again before speaking out against
If you read some published personal histories some of the advice gays have
received it gets pretty amazing. Some felt that masturbation led to
homosexuality. I read one personal history where an LDS man, who was trying to
distance himself from homosexual feelings, was advised to not touch his penis
while going to the bathroom for fear of having his homosexual feelings
I think Mr. Lambert's distinction between advice and inspiration would be
simple. It's inspiration when the advice works. It's advice when the advice
No one was making noise when you were keeping your ideas to yourselves as
individuals or within your communities. When the LDS reaches its arms out from
SLC and tries to enshrine undemocratic discrimination into the constitution of
CA there is blowback. All I can think is thank God that Mitt Romney
will never be President of this country. This example will be a clear
indication forever of what the tampering with the federal government would be if
there was a Mormon in the White House.
Your comment:Once again, the one of the worst places on Earth with the
biggest signs of society breaking down is the Middle East, where sexual rules
are the STRICTEST, not the loosest. You backhandedly undercut your
own argument. In European countries where SSM has been in place for several
years, there is also an influx of Middle Easterners who are having all of the
children. The rest of the country is satisfied to have gay marriages that are
unable to produce children, or to support their current lifestyle by choosing to
none or maybe 1. In 20 years there will be no more "Netherlands" as we know it
today.I'd call that a total societal breakdown where the culture you
decry as broken down takes over the others that have the loosest rules.
Funny how Mormon's are called narrow minded bigoted and nasty when we are only
expressing OUR beliefs. I guess us Mormons have no right to the first
ammendement because our speech is hate speech? Whatever. We have every right to
express our views. We will forever stand firm on this issue because we KNOW this
is God's law and word on the matter.
Thanks for clarifying what you meant by justification, so no *bzzt* needed.Scaremongering: Threats to not only enact legislation limiting religious
freedom, but actual policies are in place. See the note above about the school
girl in California, and the arrests against pastors for teaching that
homosexuality is wrong. Scaremongering and threats are exactly what we see from
the gay rights movement and you can see many of those threats in this thread.
Try speaking as an ex-gay at a university and see how much the gay lobby
respects freedom of speech then.Children adopted by same-sex couples
are twice as likely to be gay themselves than those adoped by hetero couples
(although the rate for adopted children is higher overall - a good area for
further study).Natural adolescent curiosity about gender are
increasingly sexualized, and the GLA in the local schools embraces these kids
before they even know what is going on. They are naturally categorized and
integrated - and trapped.Why should a child who is molested by an
older male and told "now you are gay" have no options but to accept that
lifestyle?200 words are not enough. There is much more to say.
breeze- I hate to say it, but you exhibit very radical and partly medievil
thinking here. Where is the love? And who made you the spokesman for the church?
I am shocked. By the way- What exactly is the homosexual lifestyle? Do you mean
they sleep around more than heterosexuals, or are more into drugs? What makes
them so different from you except their (mostly inherited)sexual tendenciies?
Some of them might be even closer to God than you- ever thought about that?
I'm with you, babe! If they want to make public policy let them asssume the
public responsibility of paying taxes. In the end it wouldn't make
much of a difference tho. The direction of public opinion is to tolerance.
Mormons should be grateful for that. Especially when they're showing their
nastiest, most regressive and narrow-mindedness because it will take a whole lot
of tolerance on the part of most of us to accept their negative undemocratic
"your assertions are simply wrong. The teaching has been justified repeatedly.
Please see the Family Proclamation for beginners. I understand that you may not
agree with it, but it has been there."*bzzt* Sorry, but 'the church
says so' does not constitute a justification. Once again, people in this thread
have repeatedly CLAIMED that allowing gay marriage will destroy society. Not ONE
SHRED of evidence has been presented to justify this accusation.Name
ONE piece of scaremongering that has come from the pro-SSM side?Once
again, the one of the worst places on Earth with the biggest signs of society
breaking down is the Middle East, where sexual rules are the STRICTEST, not the
Re: Moral law -Great post!!!
Re: Time to pick sides:AMEN!!!!!
If the church wants to directly reference and influence politics I fully support
them. I also fully support that they need to pay taxes then.
Unchangeable:**If the LDS Church had remained steadfast and
unchangeable in its doctrine there would have been no need for the FLDS to break
away.**Nonsense...they left because of their own pride &
selfishness, wanting to live as they wanted to instead of being obedient to
God's laws/living as he would have them do.**Why are the faithful
not praying, as they did for their fellow blacks, for full blessings for all of
god's children.**LDS faithful don't pray for God to do something he
condemns in scripture/OT, which is the homosexual lifestyle. I don't care who
twists the heck out of scripture to suit themselves...God stated it very plainly
& clearly how he feels about homosexuality.**Afterall, the blacks
were held back due to the perception of carrying the sin of Cain.**Not a perception...it happened.
Re: Steve:**I'm not making this up. Just something to ponder before
you continue to speak out against anyone who isn't straight. I'm sure if many
"straight" people can be honest with themselves, they can probably think of at
least one instance in their life of same gender "curiousity".**What
you're forgetting is that there's a Huge difference between curiosity & actually
acting something out.
I am not John Lambert, but your assertions are simply wrong. The teaching has
been justified repeatedly. Please see the Family Proclamation for beginners. I
understand that you may not agree with it, but it has been there.The
most serious "scaremongering" I have seen is coming form the pro-SSM crowd.And what kind of "evidence" are you looking for, and in regards to which
You should know that like you, family and marriage are very important to me. As
I have become acquainted with gay and lesbian couples, I have been touched by
their goodness, sincerity, and commitment. I am persuaded that allowing marriage
equality would, in fact, strengthen the institutions of family and marriage in
our country. Perhaps it might even make all of us a little more considerate and
responsible as both marriage partners and parents. I can only hope that the
citizens of California, and my fellow Mormons, will possess the wisdom and moral
decency to reject the unreasonable and unjust call to discriminate against our
gay and lesbian coworkers, friends, neighbors, church members, and family.
Your comments about written dialogue and how each "hears" opinions similar to
his/her own are very true.However, I don't interpret a suggestion of
a relocation program as a serious threat. It has no chance of ever occurring and
I've never seen someone so disposed ever do anything about it or disrupt pro-gay
gatherings. On the other hand, threats about introducing legislation
and putting in laws and policies to limit religious practice are happening as we
speak. See the reference to the Mormon girl in Santa Rosa, Cal who was harrassed
about her religion and responded with the flippant "that's so gay" to her
harranguers. She was put on probation and the aggressors suffered nothing.
Notice if an ex-gay or person who does not conform to the gay-approved agenda is
publicized as a speaker on a university campus, and how that person is shouted
down and continuously interrupted while speaking by pro-gay hecklers. Look at
some gay-affirming countries who have outlawed churches teaching that the gay
lifestyle is wrong. These are where the real threats exist because they are
being carried out before our eyes.Yes, written dialogue has its
limitations. However, my eyes and ears are capable of observation.
"The church has always clearly taught that homosexual behavior is wrong."Yet no one has ever been able to JUSTIFY this teaching. All I've seen in
the church and even in this discussion here is scaremongering without a shred of
To "to Alex":"Good for you! But this may be a case where your
bigoted church's actions speak louder than their BOM words. "I
don't know how you can believe that my views are any different from the First
Presidency. In case you haven't read my posts, I am a Mormon's Mormon.
Everything that the church leaders teach urges me to act in a way so as to share
the gospel I've received with whomever with kindness and love. I
want the gays in the church as much as I want anybody else. However, mankind is
not saved by the Lord IN their sins, but rather from their sins. That means
that the adulterer must abandon his adultery and a homosexual must abandon his
homosexual relations. These are basic. Once the homosexual in diligence and
faith on the Lord Jesus turns away from that sin, the Lord can begin to make
that man or woman into a new creature. That person is baptized, and receives
the gift of the Holy Ghost as a constant companion. By diligence and faith,
over time a person develops a power over the temptations through the power of
the Lord. The change is possible.
@ To: to Alex 3:08 | 4:17I'm guessing you don't consider "relocation" a
threat to those supporting same sex marriage. It was called for and seconded by
several on this topic thread. Scary and threatening that people see that as a
way to close discussion they no longer want to hear. Scarier still that you
don't view it as a threat.My guess is most people read comments with
which they agree with the voice in their head being soft-spoken and reasonable
sounding while that voice changes to shrill, foaming vitriol as they read the
opinions they don't agree with no matter the intent or reasonableness with which
they were written. Written dialogue does have its drawbacks.
Isn't Larry Craig a member of the LDS church?What is an admitted gay
person doing as a co-sponsor for the Federal Marriage Amendment? Blowing a
It's very, very unlikely to pass, but the Federal Marriage Amendment has just
been reintroduced in the Senate. If the FMA is enacted, an amendment
would be added to the U.S. Constitution that would read, in part: Marriage in the United States shall consist only of the union of a man and a
woman. Neither this Constitution, nor the constitution of any State, shall be
construed to require that marriage or the legal incidents thereof be conferred
upon any union other than the union of a man and a woman.Out of the 10
senators sponsoring the bill, two names stand out -- Larry Craig, R-Idaho, and
David Vitter, R-La. Craig, of course, is the man who became infamous for his
arrest on charges that he tried to solicit another man for sex in an airport
bathroom. Afterward, other men came forward to say they'd had sexual relations
Check out the messages in this string and then tell me who the bigots are, who
the name-callers are, and who are promising real, invasive threats.If you don't agree with the gay/lesbian lobby, they will seek to shout you
down. Freedom of speech? Sure, as long as you agree with them.If you
don't want people to fear you, then quit threatening them.I have
never seen as much love as I have witnessed in my experiences in the LDS Church
- and this includes toward individuals with same-sex attraction.
The church has always clearly taught that homosexual behavior is wrong. The
various forms of advice on how to overcome it have varied. However we must
accept that this advice is meant to be applied to the individual person and the
various societal pressures involved change. The advice on how to
overcome homosexual behavior is only that, advice. The basic doctrine that
homosexual behavior is wrong does not change.
It really doesn't matter, does it? It honestly doesn't make one bit of
difference. If someone were to revoke my marriage license right this minute,
I'd still live my life exactly as I am. I'd still stay with my husband and
kids. And if anyone ever tried to keep me away from my husband's hospital
bedside--I'd climb right through the roof, or a window, or whatever it took, to
get to him. No law that is ever enacted or revoked could really
make a difference to me.
Good for you! But this may be a case where your bigoted church's actions speak
louder than their BOM words.
I commend you for defending your church and your faith and their stand on
homosexulity. That said, if you go back and read the pamplet used by Priesthood
leaders when the church started having a policy they blamed the parents, then
they changed that and blamed causual circumstances. Then they advised the men
to get married and procreate and that would solve their problems. Then when
that did not work they reccommended that you not get married, but do so if you
are competely sure you can control yourself. How much more confusing
can it get all these changes in policy. I guess is it good they can have
standardized doctrines that "never change" just the interpretation of said
doctrines and then policies they can change when the fancy strikes them that way
they become somehow infalable. I also find it interesting that church members
just go along with these policy changes no questions asked. Which
begs the question why should we listen to a church that can't even figure what
to do and has ever changing policy in regards to homosexuality.
To "Lot of conversion opportunity":"Yup! This Sunday when lots of
non-Mormons will be attending their local chapels. "A rather unusual
opportunity to share the gospel, don't you think? I'll take it. ;)
Yup! This Sunday when lots of non-Mormons will be attending their local
Re: Homosexuals:*The new boogey man, scape goat, excuse for all the
wrongs in our society. So much easier to just blame others for whats
wrong than to accept our part (i.e. who you voted for time and again because of
the letter beside their name) in the way society is heading.*Oh,
yeah, poor gays, everyone blames them for all of societies ills. Nonsense, they
just like to shift blame to everyone & everything else because they can't accept
responsibililty for their sinful, perverse actions/choices.
Re: to lakers:*The fires are mainly in areas where Conservatives
live. They are the Republican strongholds of the state. No West Hollywood fires
or San Francisco fires. Interesting...*They'll get their turns in
one way or another as God will avenge all of their sins regardless of if they're
Christian or not.
Re: Hypocritical...again:*Think about what might have happened if
they encouraged their members to do all they could to stop poverty, racism,
bigotry, helping those who REALLY need a hand especially now and all the other
social ills that are the REAL threats to our country. Aren't there a couple
verses in the same bible that cover doing just that? What? Nobody wants to
acknowledge those?*We (LDS) are encrouged to help others all the
time - we do & the church is always going to others' aid here & abroad. *Gay marriage is a nice distration from the REAL issues that are
destroying our country. It's the magician's assistant. It distracts you from
what is going on behind the scenes until it's too late to notice you've been
duped.*Gay marriage IS among the issues that will bring this country
down to it's knees - literally. America will answer for acceptance of such
perversions as we're beginning to see with all the commotion & turmoil going on
in this country/the world. The only ones being duped are those who reject &
trample on God's laws.
Re: Liberation or enslavement?:"If a hunger for liberation destroys
morality then immorality will destroy liberty...."Whoever wrote this
back on June 24th, I love it!
I sometimes wonder why we LDS are so one dimensional on social issues. We, like
the evangelicals, can never see past the issues of abortion and homosexuality to
the real issues Jesus raised in the Sermon on the Mount and his other teachings:
poverty, war, greed, materialism hatred of your neighbor. With millions of
people in our own country unable to properly feed themselves or receive decent
medical care why are we so focused on these issues?
**"How great the goodness of our God who set up familial units to have a mother
and a father!"He didn't. Learn some history. During most of
"traditional" society, your average marriage lasted about eleven years before
one member of the couple was DEAD, usually the woman through childbirth. Thats
how "God/nature" made human society and mankind has been desperately trying to
improve the crappy product.**What's death got to do with the quality
of a marriage? Sinful, selfish humans can never make any improvements over what
God has made...pretty arrogant statement.
"No new revelation will ever come condoning the gay lifestyle as God's laws are
unchanging, period."Funny how his dietary restrictions completely
changed 2000 years ago.Were you aware that the Word of Wisdom was
initially NOT a commandment, but rather just advice?
Compromise is foreign to the LDS, which wants to impose its values on the 98.3%
of Americans who are not Mormon.The Mormon gay-bashing amendment
will be defeated in California. Within 20-30 years, the LDS will try to wiggle
out of its present position via a new revelation. Thus is was with polygamy,
blacks in the priesthood, and now gays.
Re: New revelation will come:No new revelation will ever come
condoning the gay lifestyle as God's laws are unchanging, period.Any
who choose to embrace the gay lifestyle & allows it to break up their marriage
is on them & them alone. And if they choose to drink themselves into oblivion
or end their life, that's also theirs to bear alone as a consequence of their
sinful choices/lifestyle...same as anyone has to bear the consequences of their
sins.The dark days will come to this country as a result of more &
more embracing those things which mock God/pervert his ways i.e. the gay
To "11 pages of comments":"Why hasbn't someone tried to find a
workable compromise instead of acting like politicians and point fingers at the
other guy? "What kind of a compromise did you have in mind? In my
view, the two views are irreconcilable. Sometimes you just have to agree to
So you ARE comparing gay people to the absolute bottom of society, on par with
Murderers, Rapists, Pedophiles and Drug Dealers? Fortunately, most people in
this country don't. Thank you,however, for strengthening the thesis I have
regarding Religious Extremists in this country.
And all of it is just repeating the same thing over and over. I think the only
thing to have happened is a bigger divide has been created, more bigotry towards
each other on BOTH sides. What a waste. Why hasbn't someone tried to find a
workable compromise instead of acting like politicians and point fingers at the
**If its "all about the children" then STOP SMOKERS FROM GETTING MARRIED.
Children of smokers are twice as likely to pick up this "lifestyle choice" as
children of non-smokers. Something that kills 400,000 Americans every year. Yet
I don't hear a peep from anyone demanding a law against letting smokers get
married.**Lame comparison - smoking can harm others but it doesn't
corrupt societies like perversions such as homosexuality do. **We'll
let alcoholics, pedophiles, rapists, drug dealers and convicted murders get
married. NO ONE is out demanding they be prohibited from getting married. Can
anyone show me one sane reason why any of these would be LESS of a threat to
children than a gay couple?**Of course not - they're all a threat to
children including the gay lifestyle. Let's turn that around and say let's just
forget any kind of laws & let everyone do what they please i.e. be pedophiles,
homosexuals, rapists, drug dealers and murders. Who cares what they do...let's
just live & let live...everyone should be able to choose without consequences to
them or anyone else, right? WRONG!
Re: I'm worried**I already see this problem with my young nieces
and nephews. Over half of them have left the Church mainly because of the stigma
they feel that comes along with being a member. Instead of being an organization
they feel "proud" to belong to, I'm afraid they now feel ashamed.**It was their own choice, no one else's, that they left the church. Any stigma
they felt was because their faith was weak...they are obviously much more
concerned about what the world thinks of them than the Lord. The only shame is
that they sought the opinions of men over that of God's.
hate to break it to ya is a prime example of what was stated earlier that people
will accuse the LDS church of hatred where none exists.So what we
have here is generally decent people trying to follow the Lord who more and more
are to be despised and mocked. Welcome to the great and spacious building.And by the way, if nobody cares what the LDS think, why would they be
despised and mocked? The very acts of despising and mocking indicate somebody
cares enough to attempt to counter the influence of the LDS people, wouldnt you
Re: Silly Mongoose**Even the Church has adulterers and
abusers.**The LDS church has sinners just like any other religion or
all of mankind but they need to repent of those sins the same as anyone else
including those who practice the homosexual lifestyle/marry someone of the same
To "hate to break it to ya...":"...but nobody who isn't Mormon cares
what the LDS thinks about gay people. "Tell that to the same-sex
marriage proponents and the gays. Why are GLBT groups always trying to meet
with the prophet to persuade him to change the church's long held position? Why
are there over 500 comments on this article? Why the vitriol if nobody really
cares? No, I'm not buying it.
Re: Ten Commandments**Isn't it interesting that the Ten Commandments
don't have a word to say about homosexuality. Why do we treat it as though it's
the worst sin anyone can commit?**Pedophilia, rape, etc. are also
not mentioned in the ten commandments but they are among the most grievous sins
to God as is homosexuality.
Re: The real tragedy**The Mormon promotion of anti-gay laws has not
decreased the rates of divorce and infidelity--but it has increased the rate of
Mormon suicides.I keep hoping for more love and compassion from my
Church, yet I'm afraid I will always remain disappointed.** Any who
commit suicide do it of their own choice. The LDS church's stance on anti-gay
laws is one that seeks for decency & morality in society. The
church won't change it's stance to appease it's members as Gods laws are
unchanging. You will remain disappointed if you ever expect them to do so.
...but nobody who isn't Mormon cares what the LDS thinks about gay people.
Y'all are welcome to remain in your ghettos of hatefulness, that is your right
as Americans. But please don't think your hateful proclamations will have any
general effect. The LDS will only become more despised and mocked. Ask Mitt
what that feels like.
Why waste time blogging, go vote for what you believe!
I really don't see what the whole big deal is (regarding this article, not the
issue of gay marriage). The church issued a statement encouraging it's members
to exercise their civic duties and support an issue that they profess to believe
in as shown by their membership in the LDS Church. The church statement was
issued to it's own members, not to the Governor of California or the California
Supreme Court. This is not a case of the church meddling in political affairs,
but only one encouraging it's members to be good citizens. I would think any
church in this country would do the same, and it's not too much to ask members
to vote according to their beliefs.
To Alex on what, I am not sure that What has heard digs in any of those
places either. It may have been while he was playing church basketball, at a
ward social, sitting in the foyer at church before, after or during a meeting,
or in many other cases. I have known some people who would bring up the
most irrelevant and off the wall comments in Sunday School though. Then there
was the incident the Sunday before I got to my mission when an investigator in
the middle of the hallway between classes at church yelled out that he did not
believe the prohet was a prophet. Actually, I never got told the story, only
heard the echoings of it, so I am not sure what the guy said. My point is that
just because people say something in church does not mean that it is in anyway
endorsed by the church.
To the 3:36 commentator, How would knowing the exact cause of
homosexual behavior solve anything. Also, if you think that making a statement
about the need to support an admendment has caused people to rise up in anger,
what would happen if President Hinckley had told us exactly what caused
same-gender attraction. Well, at least some people would claim it did not
agree with the science on the matter, no matter what he said. Beyond this,
since sciences ideas are by their very nature in flux and not dogmatic, it would
at some point not agree with science and cause problems. This issues you
have brought up does not affect the churches stand. If you had asked Heber J.
Grant what caused alchoholism he would have probably told you he did not know,
but that would not have undermined his teaching against the use of alchohol as
being the revealed word of God.
To what, People say lots of stupid things about who should be shot. I
think it is all wrong. Of course, some people think I take life too
seriously. However, this is not about gay bashing. Sometimes, especially
here with only 200 words we may not be clear. However, what we have
issue with are those who want to try to change the basic rules of morality.
Marriage is between a man and a woman. It is not hateful to say such
things. However it is now seen as hateful by the homosexual lobby.
Another problem is that when I talk about homosexuals I mean those who commit
the acts. When I talk about the homosexual lobby I am talking about the people
who march in parades. Unlike some posters, I do not think that everyone
who has ever felt homosexual tendencies is evil. I do not mock them. I also
hate it when people assume that guys who know about fashion, or who are ballet
dancers are gay. Our societies attempts to stereotype some people as gay makes
my blood boil.
To to Frank, Why should President Hinckley ask God what causes
homosexuality? I believe that The Proclamation to the World on the Family is
the reveled word of God. I do not think there is an issue here. The church is
able to go to every nation, kindred tongue and people without accepting
degrading actions. There is no long promised day when homosexuals will be able
to practice perversions while holding the priesthood. Beyond this,
there are two other possibilities you did not consider. One is that President
Hinckley did ask and plead with the Lord to recieve an answer on what caused
homosexuality but was not given one or was told it was not to be revealed at
this time. It is also vaguely possible that the Lord told him exactly why
people are homosexual but not to reveal it. What President Hinckley
probably asked was what was the best way to help people overcome homosexuality.
This is why the leaders of the church have come out with "God loveth his
children". Those of you who are looking for an Official Declaration
three allowing people to practice perversion and hold the priesthood will keep
To the person who wishes to attack the President of the twelve, Elder
Packer was not attacking all intelectuals. What he was speaking against is
those who allow intelectualism to displace their trust in the prophet.
Read 2 Nephi 9:28-29 to get a full image of the issue. Also, I once had a
prophessor point out that some of the so called scholars who attack the church
from within do not deserve the title. Last of all, I doubt Elder Packer
would care if you denigrated him as an apostle. You do not seem to believe that
Elder Packer has a speacial witness of Jesus Christ, so why should he or anyone
else care whether you hide your disbelief or express it? You have done so
already, so doing it more often might just allow people to know that you need to
recieve nourishing by the good word of God.
To to Sarah, What is your source for the quote from Elder Packer?
Where can we look it up to verify that he really phrased it that way?
Re: Clare - **As I have said before, "You cannot dictate to God his
commandments." If you choose not to obey those laws, then you are saying you
don't believe in the Bible. Satan is slowly chipping away at our moral
standards.As a native Californian who ended up in Utah, I pray that
my native state will make the right decision about this matter. I will always
miss it, but if this passes, I'll miss it a lot less.**You seem to
contradict yourself - first saying we can't dictate to God his commandments but
then saying you'll be disappointed if California doesn't pass this. Which is
You say "...if you do believe in God then you must accept his word..ALL OF
IT..." I think most Mormons believe in the Bible "as far as it is translated
correctly" not all that is written. Most religions can't even agree on who is,
and isn't, a prophet and what works are, or aren't, scripture.In the
United States I think issues like same-sex marriage must be decided civilly, not
religiously. Or are we going to start enforcing laws from the Bible about
stoning disobedient kids and Sabbath breakers. Just wish ALL the
religions would stay out of this one.
Good question. Why the focus on the LDS Church's involvement (because it's Utah
of course)? You say the Catholic Church is on the same side as the LDS, surely
other churches are as well. So I think it would be nice if our local Utah media
would run a story or two on the Catholic and other churches involvements, then
in any further stories mention them alongside the LDS... rather than making it
look like the LDS is the lone religious institution stepping in.Please do this Deseret News.
Is the structure of marriage worth fighting over? The oldest organization on
earth? I hope so.re: To Sarah 4:03 p.m. 1) No one has shown
that it wont. 2) I have a traditional family, my fiancee has a traditional
family, hopefully together we will have a traditional family. I guess all this
is a matter of individual perspective and the history part is just as
The problem with the Amendment voted on 8 years was that it was found to be
Unconstitutional. As a California resident, you must also be aware that the
Legislature twice passed bills making same sex marriage legal, which the
Governor vetoed, saying it was a matter for the State Supreme Court to decide,
which they did.
Re: I just want peace | 3:44 p.m. Sorry "I just want peace" but not
even the Son of god could pull that off.
To "I just want peace""If only there were some inspired prophet or
religion out there that could actually unite us--I'd join it in a heartbeat!
"Is it the job of a prophet to unite us, or is it rather our job to
unite ourselves with the truth? Why do you even need an inspired prophet if his
counsel is of no consequence anyway? After all, anything goes.
Re: To Frank | 3:36 p.m. Its quite possibly he did want to know, and
possibly not. He may be face to face with the Lord and still not know right
now. When I die, heaven help me if I should find myself face to face with my
creator, "Is homosexuality determined at birth?" is not going to be the 1st or
100th question I'd ask. I'm not an expert on revelation, far from
it. But if I were to give my opinion it would be that there are things the Lord
finds important for us (including his prophet) to know, stuff we have to act on
now, and theres stuff we aren't ready for.
I find all of the comments very intersting. Such anger. Satan is the author of
contention, maybe each of you should look within to find out why you are so
angered by this? This is DEFINATLY a moral issue. And for the record, the LDS
faith is not the only one to support it. Why aren't the papers reporting on the
Catholic Church's support of this measure? I have friends and even family
members that are gay. I still love them, although I don't agree with their
lifestyle, just like I don't agree with the lifestyle of friends and family that
think nothing of sex outside of marriage or getting drunk every weekend. AND as
a So Cal girl, this is also a constitutional issue. We voted 8 years ago to
recognize marriage as being between a man and a woman, and now my vote is thrown
out by a liberal court. When the majority vote stops meaning something, then
what is the use of voting?
"We have ALWAYS supported measures that speak out against the breakdown of the
traditional family"Except 1) no one has shown how this issue will
result in the breakdown of the "traditional family" and 2) what we have now is
NOT the traditional family. Learn some history for crying out loud.
In the end the U.S. Supreme with plenty of conservatives among them, will
ultimately rule in favor of people marrying people of any sex.But if it
makes conservatives feel good about whining and carrying on about this ...
good.I hope they are less miserable than how they are now over this.
In the immortal words of that inspired leader, Rodney King, "Can't we all just
get along?"Is this issue really worth fighting over?
To WHAT?:"You've never heard gay bashing in church before? I
have."If calling homosexual sexual relations a sin is considered
bashing, then I will agree with you. Otherwise, I have never heard digs from
either the pulpit or classroom or priesthood quorum. I'm sorry that you have.
To me it just seems sad that we have to fight against issues like this. It
would be so much nicer if we could come to a peaceful solution. So many
innocent people seem to get hurt while we are fighting for our principles. If only there were some inspired prophet or religion out there that
could actually unite us--I'd join it in a heartbeat!
And in 97 years Hincklely didn't? One would think that as a loving prophet, he
would want to know that answer.
I have heard so much about rights and rule of law, law of the land, personal
choice, what's the big deal, and can't the church leave us alone, and so on and
so on... It is open for anyone to have an opinion and that's great. Opinion
and Commandment are very different things indeed. Moral law is at the heart of
this. What is best for the divinely appointed work and glory of God Almighty is
the bottome line. His work and glory to bring to pass the immortality and
eternal life of man is frustrated by the practice of same sex marriage. It is
not God's opionion on this, it is his commmandment. If your one who does not
believe in God, then you need to read no further. But if you do believe in God
then you must accept his word..ALL OF IT, not just the convenient ones. Thou
shalt not is pretty clear. And don't try to say it's not in the bible, or that
it is unclear how God feels about this. Whether your heterosexual, or homosexual
and having sexual rel. outside marriage, thou shalt not applies. That decree has
not changed since Adam.
Whether hate is intended or not, encouraging supporting an attack on simple
"legal" marriage in church, signals to people that homophobia is acceptable. My
heart goes out to the father with the gay son. Please don't let other's words
hurt or anger you. Forgive them for the know not what they do, literally.We have a legacy whether we like it or not. One of Matthew Shepard's
killers was allegedly LDS, and Stuart Matis, a returned missionary killed
himself on the steps of his wards church in 2000 over what he felt was
unacceptable and hatred towards people with same sex attractions in his ward.
That's just the start of a very long list.This letter being read on
Sunday will only pour salt in those wounds. If enough faithful in California
walk out, perhaps the First Presidency will clarify if this is their opinion or
Without searching for specifics, the shrillness of the rhetoric on both sides is
pretty evident. From my own church life, I have sat in HP group meeting and had
my HP group leader let us know that AIDS is God's punishment for the gays (i.e
homosexuality is a capital crime) and our Relief Society President let my wife
and I know that we would never have "the Spirit" in our home if we continued to
support our gay son.The latest letter and campaign in CA where I
live will just bring more of the same.
I feel silly defending my statement but: 1. Enron or the Donner Party
arent/werent headed by men who claimed to speak to God. As far as I've heard.
1a. From what I heard of MM the local leaders did claim divine direction,
and in my opinion will take full responsibility for all that happened due to
that claim. But thats would be Gods call.3. I love Hinckleys
statement, and No, Hinkley did not ask God for details about this issue as far
as we know because he has passed away. That question was popped on him during
an interview. What we are talking about now is different, it has spanned many
days. So Yes, I believe that Monson has asked the Lord about this particular
case. He's had plenty of time to.
You've never heard gay bashing in church before? I have. "They are trying to
wreck society. They are sick and depraved and should be shot." There are more,
but these are the ones I distinctly remember.
It seems to me most of the negative comments have been directed at the LDS
Church or its leaders.I'm not sure what you are referring to when
you say you are now prepared for the negative things members of your
congregation will be saying about your son. I don't see anyone here advocating
hatred of gays or anything like it. I only see the advocates of SSM accusing
others of hatred where it doesn't exist.
re: This is helpful You have my sympathies for what you will have
to prepare for. Thats something any of us could or may have to go through one
day. And no matter how awsome or understanding the ward there
always be a few that will share their negativity. I hope you and your son can
work past those few because there's many others that want you and your son there
and understand that you've got as many difficulties to go through life as we do.
I appreciate all of the comments on this site. They vary all over the lot. It
helps me, the father of a gay son, prepare for the negative things I will hear
about my son this Sunday from the ward members, most of whom don't know about
Frank is right. Whether it's popular in the eyes of the world or not, whether
the church loses members over their stand or not, it is the obligation of our
leaders to follow the will of the Lord. We have ALWAYS supported measures that
speak out against the breakdown of the traditional family, and we have ALWAYS
spoken out against sin that the world finds acceptable. We will continue to do
so, no matter how unpopular it makes us.Consider all of the prophets
throughout the ages. How many of them were rejected, imprisoned, stoned, beaten,
mocked, or killed because of their messages against the sins of the world? The
majority of them. Our own Savior was sentenced to death by a mob of people
unwilling to heed His message. That which is right in the eyes of
the Lord has RARELY been popular in the world. It doesn't mean the world is
right and we're wrong just because they have the majority, and it doesn't mean
we aren't obligated to continue to stand up and fight for our beliefs.
Even Pres Hinckley stated that he did NOT KNOW if homosexuals were born that
way. Does that sound like he has actually asked God for details about this
issue? Why should we assume the questions have been asked and answered if they
I agree the toothpaste is out of the tube and that even if the California
amendment passes this time around, gay marriage will likely be allowed by
California and a number of states in a few years anyway. Its fairly easy to
predict given how the young people of today have become so acculturized
(through TV shows, movies, magazines, school curriculum, etc.) into
disassociating sex from any moral standards.But at least I can still
advocate for what I feel is right, as those on the opposite side of the issue
can as well.By the way, besides the toothpaste is out of the tube
may I add another expression which might be applicable here?... The fig tree has
put forth its leaves.
The chances of the entire human race turning/deciding to be gay is about as slim
as... well I can't think of a good analogy, but you get the idea... it just
isn't going to happen. But IF it did happen the human race wouldn't come to an
end for two good reasons:1. Gay people can still have sex with the
opposite gender, gay people can still procreate the normal way if they
wanted/needed to.2. With today's technology people could quite
easily be artificially inseminated and become pregnant to continue the human
True enough. But the same things might have been said by the Donner Party, the
folks at Mountain Meadows or people who kept investing in Enron.
Since he calls scholars or intellectuals "so-called scholars or intellectuals",
I wonder if he would mind if we called him a "so-called apostle".
Its funny how similar the comments I've run across remind me of things said in
the Old and even New Testament. I wonder how often Moses was asked, "Are you
really sure you talked to God or is it just your opinion that we should go to
the desert". Or Jesus having to deal with the advice "You know if you weren't
against that it would bring you a lot more followers. What your doing is really
unpopular with the majority."
Maybe it's better for *lots* of people to go investigate the LDS on Sunday in
I wonder if we will have to pass through demonstrations to get in to SM on
Is it more effective not to go to sacrament meeting on Sunday at all or to go
and leave when the letter is read?
A BIG thank you to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints! I am behind
you 100% and will go door to door again if I have too!!The PEOPLE of
CALIFORNIA have already made their choice known back in the year 2000. What
right did the courts have to overturn the will of the people? I think we all
need to step back and take a long look at what's happening in these United
States of America?? What has happened to the will of the PEOPLE? 61% of the
people in California voted that Marriage is between a Man & a Woman in the year
2000. How can our courts overturn this?
"Mormons can do what they want, but this type of action will only encourage more
and more people to distance themselves from the Church. "Why are you
suddenly so worried about what happens to the growth of the LDS church? It is laughable how all of these "objective", "above the fray",
"observer", and uninvested LDS Church critics have now got to step in and "save
the church from itself".Why is it that, on average, those who are
most invested in the Church itself are the least worried about the direction the
church is going? Look, the church has been encouraging the members
to involve themselves in efforts to support the marriage between men and women
all over the country for a while and we have done fine. People are fickle.
I love being told not to interfere in others lifes or express my convictions by
people who are telling me how to live my life by expressing their convictions.
I think we all deserve each other.
What I wonder is whether this letter is based on revelation or merely the
opinions of men. It seems so sad that our Church claims to be run by direct
revelation from God, yet it insists on using precedent and prejudice as the
basis for our current practices.Has President Monson directly asked
God about this issue? Or is he waiting for some future prophet to do so, as
Spencer W. Kimball finally did for the blacks? I'm wondering if I'm bound to
follow this instruction or if I can in good conscience follow my own heart.
Here is the quote from Elder Packer:"The dangers I speak of come
from the gay-lesbian movement, the feminist movement (both of which are
relatively new), and the ever-present challenge from the so-called scholars or
I doubt that any bishops will refuse to read the letter to their congregations.
Most men in that high of a position are pretty much willing to do whatever the
Church says they should do. (At least that's been my experience with bishops and
stake presidents.) But you never know, there might be a few
mavericks out there.
Reading this letter in Church on Sunday is ALMOST enough to make me go back. It
would be so fun to walk out in protest.
It is sad to see a church cede moral authority by focusing on Constitutional law
and evolving words in the dictionary.The impending defeat at the
polls and the isolation and alienation of others appear the least likely
practices for a people professing religious faith.When LDS members
decide to discard bibles for dictionaries and civil codes the battle for the
human soul is lost.
Mormons can do what they want, but this type of action will only encourage more
and more people to distance themselves from the Church.
To "I wonder":"Will there be bishops who refuse to read the letter
to their congregations? "Perhaps, but they might not be bishops for
long if they do.
Will there be bishops who refuse to read the letter to their congregations?
I would agree with you except the "toothpaste is out of the tube." Gays are out
of the closet now. They are living next door to our own families and raising
children of their own. They are not going away, no matter how much we deny them
rights. They are just going to continue to live openly and without shame.
Sometimes I think that we think that if we pass this amendment, gays will quit
being a problem. Not true. We need to teach our children the very hard lesson
of living our religion yet not condemning our neighbors and their children for
living different morals than us. That is a hard thing to teach, but not
impossible. That is our challenge - not limiting others.
Cherilyn Bacon Eagar writes, "...For every example of statistics of heterosexual
domestic, child abuse and marital problems, the statistics are higher for same
gender relationships."As a social worker, I can promise you that
what you claim is a hateful lie.The truth is every study that has
looked at children raised by same sex parents either finds no difference, or
less child abuse, more support, and generally better socially adjusted children.
This is a travesty. It will only serve to further marginalize our church and
will likely have the opposite of the intended effect. It will close doors and
hearts eternally, that may have been open before, and it violates our own
11-13th articles of faith.Lastly I would not be surprised if the IRS
doesn't come knocking at the Church Office Building.Same sex couples
are getting a legal document that entitles them to some of the same rights we
all take for granted. No clergy of ANY religion is being asked to marry them.
Why on earth would anybody with an ounce of compassion fight against this? All
it does is hurt same sex couples and their children ... ya some of them have
kids too. This all from a Church that believes in strengthening familes and
loving your neighbor.Any one who sits through the reading of this
letter on Sunday should take a long hard look at themselves and decide how
hypocritical they are.
The problem with your argument is that the people who are allowed to drive
(marry) now are not being policed and are causing all sorts of problems
(divorce, abandonment, live-in arrangements, etc.). To deny one group of people
the right to marry because it offends another group is insane, especially when
the offended group has not done much to get the drunk drivers that are in their
group off the road. Maybe this new group won't be any better, but who are we to
limit them when it is us (heteros) who have really been tearing apart society
and causing all the problems on the road.
To Help! again.I was not equating gay people to 12 year olds, blind
people, or pedophiles. You had made the blanket statement that we have no right
to limit the privileges of minority groups and I was simply pointing out
examples in our society where WE DO place restrictions on privileges granted to
some groups in our society.Then I was stating that the restrictions
we place through our laws are generally in accordance with the VALUES we hold
collectively as a society. I have no animosity toward gay people; I have and
have had close working and personal relationships with gay people (including
family members) and my wife, as an R.N., worked for some time in an AIDS Hospice
facility where almost all patients were gay.I, however, feel that
while homosexual behavior will certainly continue in our society, I do not
support state-sanctioned marriage between persons of the same sex and I'm not
confused into thinking we don't have the right to fight for the type of society
we want our kids to grow up in.
John, thanks for the reply. I knew I'd never heard President Packer say anything
so divisive or ridiculous, but couldn't recollect his exact phrasing in the
talk. Thanks for the clarification!
I find it utterly shocking how people in this day and age continue to quote
morality from a book that features talking animals. The vast majority of you
have never even read the bible cover to cover and have no idea how insane some
of the "commandments" contained within it are.
I think someone failed to teach teacher that discrimination is not an American
value and that freedom of religion means that we leave religion in the family
and the church where it belongs. Because Americans and Californians have a lot
of different religions and beliefs and all are protected under the law.Maybe teacher can do a little research and see that the suicide rate in the
quasi-theocracy of UT is much greater than in CA where we value diversity and
All 9 voting members of our LDS family will be voting to bring in this state
constitutional amendment. As a teacher, I see the changes in our state
educational curriculum already coming. It's reading math and "alternative
lifestyles". Gay and Lesbian groups know if the schools teach it, it will become
the norm of society in one generation. Also as California goes so goes the
country, better beware. I've lived long enough to see the calamities already
coming upon us and it isn't due to global warming. Wake up America.
Whatever happens in Nov is one thing. I'm pretty clear that the amendment will
go down but that's only part of the issue. The other part is that the LDS is
creating a tremendous amount of bad feeling and even anxiety about itself. Consider the number of people who have always been wary of what goes on
in an organization that operates in secrecy. Now there's evidence that the
organization that operates in secrecy interferes in the process of government
-- to discriminate no less! What's that going to do for public
Who established marriage ? God did. Don't like how He defined it take it up
with Him. Nations and Courts will never be able to define it for Him. Some may
permit actions that violate the laws of God hence free agency. That being said
for violating God's law. God alone will mete out consequences for the violation
of His laws. No court has the power or strength to override the consequences of
actions. Regardless of consequences one nevers needs to worry about gay
marriage in the temple. Will never happen. One of two things will happen the
LDS church will close the temples or the Savior will come either way gay
marriage in temples will not happen.
First off, I am glad that the Orthodox Jews have been among those defending
traditional marriage. My grandmother was a Jew after she had been a Jehovah's
Witnees and before she became a Mormon, so I have no dislike for Jews
inherently. However there is a broad array of Jewish groups, including Humanist
Jews who reject God totally. However, I have an observation. If there
was a hypothetical Reconstructionist Jewish sect that only performed same-sex
marriages they would not suffer any disability due to this under current laws.
Why, because currently marriage is defined between a man and a woman because the
state has vested interests in it. At least seven courts have explanaed in
rulings upholding marriage laws what these interests are so I will leave those
who really want to know the option of searching google about public policy and
marriage. However under California's ruling, since distinguishing gender
in marriage is now "discriminatory", out hypothetical Reconstructionist sect is
now engaged in discriminatory dehaior that may bring the anger of the public
policy formulators on it. This is why California's supreme court decision was
the worst of all worlds.
What about the Church supporting the family in Las Vegas who left there kid in
the car for 17 hours and died. Those the church support neglectful parents who
can't keep track of there kids? One child or seven, there should never be an
excuse for not knowing where your son is for 1/2 an hour let alone 17...As a
member, that is disgusting!
1. SSM denies children the right to a mother and a father 100% of the
time. For every example of statistics of heterosexual domestic, child abuse and
marital problems, the statistics are higher for same gender relationships.2. There is no successful historical precedent of a culture that has
legalized SSM, except cultures that destroyed themselves. Name one. 3. Once SSM is legalized, it must be taught as a normal relationship in
schools - public and private. Sex ed is indoctrinating our children. This is a
parental rights matter and parents must stand up to the public schools that have
made sexual orientation a proletariat cause clbre under national standards that
bow to international standards. 4. Once SSM becomes law, religious
liberties will be in jeopardy. Either churches will be forced to modify their
doctrines or they will be challenged by the law. Laws will punish churches for
their anti-homosexual doctrines and law suits will challenge them as they have
In defence of Tejano, Tejano did not equate gays to blind people. He
equated restrictions on who can marry to restrictions on who can drive.
Since marriage involves the state pro-actively recognizing the validity of a
relationship than the equation works. It is not a perfect equation. The car
does not have to consent to you driving, and the effects of poor driving are
more obvious than the effects of poor marriage. Yet in the case of driving, it
is when people start treating it as a right and oppose higher ages for drivers,
more strict removals of drunk drivers from the roads and so forth that the
system stops working. In the same way, once we proactively define marriage as
something other than between a man and a women we put those who only accept
marriage by the tradition definition out of line with the government.
The current system does not do this. No one is out there claiming the
Unitarians, Quakers and Reformed and Reconstrutionist Jews should loose their
tax exempt status. More to come.
The prophets did not lead people astray on African Americans. The First
Presidency issued a statement in favor of Civil Rights legislation in the
1960s. That there were members of the church who taught wrong doctrines
does not mean that the president of the church was teaching false doctrines. Personally I think that most of the real hard core supporters of same-sex
marriage in the church are not a rising generation, but a dieing one. They are
people who grew up around people who would say "to be a homosexual is almost as
bad as to be black". They realized that hating blacks was bad, so now they
think this means that we have to accept homosexuality as real behavior.
Those of us who have grown up in the days since the prophet of the Lord has
boldly declared that every man is worthy to recieve the priesthood of God
without regard to race or color have seen that what matters is not race but
righteousness. Homosexuality always has been and always will be an unrighteous
"This move is absolutely stupid.1) They will never effect the
amendment in CA. CA voters have become very tolerant on this issue in 8 years
and 51% are in favor of the Supreme Court ruling as opposed to 42% disapproving
of it.2) Mormons are only 1.79% of the CA population. Their votes
will be statistically insignificant,"Why is it stupid. When other
Christian churches see the position the LDS Church is taking they will be
encouraged to do the same. Not only them but Jews and Muslims or any religion
that believes in the sanctity of marriage between an man and a woman. Maybe one
small religion cannot do it alone, but when they all unite, they become a
Sarah at 11:53, I think the person who made the comment you responded
to thinks "The Mormons" by Helen "I am making a respectful production (although
it spends half the time talking about MMM and Polygamy)" Whitney is a truthful
and accurate portrayal of fact. It is not, but is riddle with
inacuracies, lies, misrepresentations and distortions. One of these is the
claim on what Elder Packer said in a meeting aout 15 years ago. The person who
makes the claim was not even at the meeting. Elder Packer did say that
intelectualism, homosexuality and feminism as ideologies were a threat to the
church. However he also addressed how to reach out and help people who were
being lead astray by these false Gods. The images men worship are not
just of stone and wood. Stop reading Michael Quinn and his unending
lies and start reading the scriptures and the words of the Living Prophets, and
you will not be confused.
You cite the 61% prop 22 vote against same sex marriage in CA as the reason it
shouldn't be legal. I guess that means when that % reverses itself, you will
agree that it should be legal.That percentage will soon reverse
itself, if it indeed has not already.
I think that it is amazing that in the supposedly free nation of the United
States where there is suypposed to be Freedom of speech and press, Mormons can
voiced their hatred of gays and lesbians and even claim to have the right to
dictate what rights other Americans can have or not have. This Mormon run press
allows for continued homophobia but silences those who would speak against
Mormonism. Mormons continuously moan and groan about how they have been
mistreated in history. So what gives them the right now to mistreat another part
of society. "with liberty and justice for all" NOT...at least not in Utah
You're wrong about the Catholic Church's relationship with Jews. It wasn't
until 2000 that Pope John Paul II apologized to Jews for the variety of sins
committed against them such as a long tradition of anti-Semitism and the
Inquisition during which Jews were persecuted, horribly tortured and had all
their property confiscated by Rome and Catholic Spain. At that
time, to the disappointment and disillusionment of Jews everywhere, they did not
include remaining silent and giving tacit acceptance as one of the major
ecclesiastical powers in Germany to the Holocaust of WWII. John
Paul's apology was an effort to resolve a major rift that had existed for some
400 years to that point.
If you make it your business to deny basic human rights to gays and
lesbians...be aware that there will be a backlash. You have NO right to dictate
what we can do in our lives. This is Mormon gay bashing at its height. Leave us
alone and we will leave you alone. Amazing that you have not complained that
gays and lesbians, too, pay taxes...shouldn't you start that crusade? Saying
that gay marriage will destroy heterosexual marriage is like saying that the
taxes gays pay will destroy the IRS!!! Grow up people and get a life...your
own...and leave mine alone!!!
To Steve at 6:00, Personally I think Freud was a confused individual,
whose thought was based on a study of disturbed Austrian males in the early 20th
century and should not be interpreted to have revealed eternal truths.
However, if the theory that virtually everyone is born "bi-sexual" is true than
a main argument for creating same-sex marriage is exploded. If sexual
orientation is not fixed but is environmentally and socially determined, than it
can change and thus is not a fixed category that deserves legal rights.
What is most clear from your comment though is that there is not a universal
agreement on the causes of variation in sexual orientation among scientists.
To Eowyn, I could not have said it better. I agree with you 100%. For the person wh brought up pogroms, crusades and inquisitions. Evidently
you do not know about the LDS teaching on the apostasy. We believe that by 150,
and probably before that, the primative church had rebelled against God.
President Grant in either the 1920s or 1930s clearly denounced anti-semitic
feelings by church members. Many of the aspersions cast on the
Catholic Church, especially related to events in the last hundred years are more
based on the hate of ex-seminarians and communists than any real event. In
general pogroms have happened more despite than because of the Catholic Church,
with the Popes long being defenders of the Jews of Rome. I hope we can find
ways to work with the Los Angeles diocese and other groups to put through this
You don't seem to have any concept of what "unconstitutional" means. If the CA electorate passed a referendum that gross polluters could be built
next to elementary schools or Mormons could taxed at a higher rate than their
neighbors it would be unconstitutional or not permitted because these things
violate people's right to be secure and not discriminated against. Prop 22 was
unconstitutional because it violated one groups' right to equal protection under
the CA constitution. It's simple. It's consistent. It's logical.
And it's correct. There was no "activism" involved and, in fact, the Justices
who reached that conclusion were overwhelmingly conservative jurists appointed
by Republican administrations. Their willingness to protect the rights of ALL
Californians is what assures every other Californian that our constitution is
alive and well. ...even when hysterics go passing hateful or discriminatory
Where in the statement did the First Presidency say anything against
homosexuality. They just spoke in favor of defining marriage as between a man
and a women.
The same thing happened with sodom and gomorrah ... hasn't society learned
anything? And to think that just because we live in these times that we are
more "forward thinking" .. perhaphs we should first seek to learn from the past.
This debate is not as some people want to make it about what actions should
face criminal penalties. This debate is about what actions will recieve the
proactive endorsement of the law. To endorse same-gender relationships
and put them on the same legal footing as real marriage is very different than
the question of whether a state should have sodomy laws. This is not
an issue of freedom of choice, it is an issue of what the government will make a
positive goal of public policy. On another issue, the President of the
church does not have to say "Thus saith the Lord" for him to be pronouncing the
word of the Lord. If the first presidency issues an official statement they are
pronouncing the word of the Lord.
We are born on Earth to be tested and to overcome many temptations. One can be
tempted to drink or to take drugs; another to gamble; someone else to show his
or her temper; even to kill. Sexual temptations are the most powerful. The
easiest way is to yield because "you are born different". Yet, in fact, you are
not more "different" than any other sinner. It is easy like that. Children in
gay "families" is another issue. Broken lives. I know what i am talking about.
Any church supposed to be a moral institution, and it's responsibility is to
warn the society. Don't see any problem with this.
No matter how one feels about the issue itself, it cannot be ignored that the
will of four individuals on the California Supreme Court overturned the will of
millions of California voters. Proposition 22 passed in 2000 with 61.4% of the
vote, a clear mandate from the people.
You can do what you want and I can do what I want. I'll just take my thread in
the intertwined fabric of society and yank it out, and you can take yours and
pull it from here to there. That wont effect the whole fabric will it? It
doesnt matter what Bob does either, whatever he does to his threads wont effect
society if theres no direct victim. Lets just hope nobody puts any stress on
the fabric.I think however what each person is and does irreversably
effects us all, whether the intention was that or not. No one is alone.
Perhaps that is the main reason why the LDS are so afraid of legalized same-sex
marriage? They fear the resumption of polygamy? Is polygamy still a matter of
scripture for the Mormons? D&C 132? Was the Manifesto really nothing but a
matter of political necessity, forced as an adaption to the times? Does the
Manifesto say "Thus sayeth the Lord", and is it a matter of scripture for the
Mormons, just like D&C 132? Is the Manifesto part of The New and Everlasting
Covenant?If a covenant of an unchanging God (the same today,
yesterday and tomorrow) is really "Everlasting", then can it really be dismissed
by a Manifesto of political and temporal necessity when something like D&C 132
is still the revealed mind and word of God?So, then, is this really
the biggest reason the Mormons oppose same-sex marriages? I mean, will that
legal recognition force the Mormons to engage in same-sex marriages against
their will? Or merely allow same sex couples to marry while Mormons practice and
preach what they want?
What if Harvard decided to start giving out Bachelor degrees to people who just
attended one semester? Now those people could put the same degree, that took me
four years to earn, on their resume too. How would that change everyone's
perception of a Harvard degree? It would lessen the meaning and make it worth
less. Gay marriage does likewise to those of us who realize how important real
If behind closed doors someone teaches it's ok to commit adultery, it's ok to
lie, it's ok to be completely lazy and live off of the governement, etc. It does
affect me. What I'm saying is whether criminal or not, immoral behavior can
impact society as a whole. Thought processes are changed by movements such as
this and some of those movements are extremely dangerous. If everyone turned
gay, the human race would end. If everyone committed adultery, trust,
integrity, & love would suffer. Immoral behavior is wrong regardless of who is
involved and where it occurs. My opinion of what is morally wrong is just as
valid as your opinion of what if morally ok. My current opinion is that gay
marriage shouldn't be allowed.
When same sex marriage is finally legalized, and constitutionally protected, as
it most certainly will be, traditional heterosexual marriages will constitute no
less than 90% of all marriages, and probably closer to 95-97% of all marriages.
Hardly a threat to traditional marriage, which will continue to thrive.There will be no increase in the incidence of homosexuality.What
will happen?1. It will become harder for traditionalists to
indoctrinate their children into believing that homosexuality is some heinous
sin when those same children see homosexuals and homosexual couples, with or
without their children, living in loving, committed, nurturant relationships and
families (including children) of empathic, responsible and law abiding people.
Many of whom will enjoy committed relationships to their churches and religions.
And which same-sex marriages will succeed or fail in approximately the same
proportion as traditional ones. Nevertheless, Mormons, like all Christians, can
continue to preach & practice whatever they chose.2. Polygamy will
then also eventually be legalized, the totally political Manifesto can be
rescinded, and Mormons can finally go back to practicing and enjoying their
plural marriages consistent with the New & Everlasting Covenant of D&C 132.
RE: SteveCorrect me if I'm wrong but I think the first solution you gave
is actually in practice. Hospital, insurance, taxes and all, its just not
recognized with an official legal ceremony till now. If I'm wrong I think that
would be a nice solution but I dont think it would last for long. It no seems to be about equal rights so much as including homosexuality as
part of the definition of real civil marriage. To be the same 100%
I want my children and grandchildren, to grow up in a country that has a
constitutional ammendment stating the fact, that marriage is only between a man
and woman.God didn't create George and Thomas,and tell them to go have children.
He created Adam and Eve,and that is the way it should stay.
Mmmmm, did anyone else just get a hankering for freshly baked brownies and
vanilla ice cream?I have the ingredients so I'm going to crank up
the A/C and make a batch. Later it's brownies a' la mode for everyone who'd like
some....when was the last time you said "a' la mode?" :o)
... In passing, allow me to observe that after I read each and every
posted comment, here's what was evident: every (non-emotional) comment that was
directed in opposition to the "LDS Church position statement," (that is,
comments stating that the marriage ballot issue was NOT a moral one), tacetly
employed a moral argument to back their position! I ask candidly, how could
this basis be defended logically (e.g., using a moral argument to defend a
supposedly non-moral issue?). The greater question here seems more like a
mental health issue, to a casual observer like me.
12 million lds members, 6 billion people on earth. You are not even a fly on an
I have a solution to this whole problem...Why not rather than
restructure the institution of marriage, we instead fix the laws in regards to
couples commited to each other even if they're not married? For example, if no
immediate family is forthcoming then let the gay man's partner speak for him at
the hospital? Also, don't restrict visitation at hospitals to family only. Perhaps all a gay couple (or any straight couple living together) need
obtain is a form signed by say 3 people who are willing to testify that the two
people in question are indeed in a long-term commited relationship and this
causes all rights given to married couples to be given to them.OR,
let the rules of common law marriage apply to everyone (not just straight
couples)? And let those who are "married" under this common law rule reap the
legal rewards of those who've actually had a marriage ceremony.OR
Give all this marriage rights also to those who are united by Civil Union.
I can't believe that you just equated gays with 12-year olds, blind people, and
pedofiles. Please. My brother is gay and I know that he is hurting no one. He
is a contributing member of our society and my family. Reasons for
this? Rational reasons. I understand why blind people cannot drive and 12 year
olds too. Pedofiles are using sex to dominate and control, not for sexual
gratification. That is a crime with victims. This is not a crime nor are there
victims. Now, give me some real reasons. I am feeling torn apart by this. How
can we do this? They have only broken the law of God, not the law of the land.
We have no right. HELP!
To Help!Of course we have "the right" to limit the privileges of any
group, minority or otherwise.It is a privilege to be able to drive
on our public roads, yet we don't issue driver licenses to 12-year olds or blind
people. So, yes, we do limit the privileges of minority groups and it is quite
reasonable to do so. (In this case the reason is public safety.)Pedophiles may claim we are restricting their privilege to seek sexual
gratification with whomever they choose. Society's answer is, "Yes, we are
going to restrict your privilege in that regard. Even if the child is
"willing", we are going to say emphatically NO!, we are not going to allow it in
our society."We should expect that our government and laws should
UPHOLD our values, and while we do value freedom we also place restrictions on
that freedom to provide the framework within which we raise our families and go
about our daily business.Don't get caught up in the buzzspeak of
this "enlightened" era that wants you to believe freedom means never telling
You may be on the Lord's side, but the government can't. That is against the
first amendment. Please understand that the government is what is at stake, not
Although I'm not in California anymore, I fully support the first presidency of
the church. They will never lead the church astray. Whose on the Lord's side
who? Now is the time to tell. We ask it fearlessly who's on the Lord's side
I would like to cite for the pleasure of the forum a famous case of annulment
due to lack of consummation. The case of famous artist/writer John Ruskin who
was married to Effie Gray in 1848, their unhappy marriage led to an anulment
(not a divorce) 1854 due to the fact that he never sucessfully had relations
with Effie (major impotence).
Even if a marriage has been consumated, it can be annulled for the reasons
listed above. But if children have been born to the couple, courts are
generally going to push for divorce.
I'm a bit torn myself, but from what I've understood we arent talking about the
privilages of a minority group, we are looking at California redifining the
definition of marriage. From what I understand gay couples who
fufill the right conditions have the same legal rights as a married couples, but
they aren't called "married" its called something else. What the law changed
was not the benifits they already could recieve but that they can now be called
and considered a "married" couple. But I might be wrong, thats just
what I've understood from the discussions so far! So if anyone wants to add or
I never said that marriage was only for or about sex. My point is that marriage
DOES imply that sex happens or happened. And YES I agree you can get an
anulment for a whole Variety of Reasons ONE OF WHICH is never consumating the
marriage.I can understand an exeption for medical reasons.
A marriage can be annulled for the following legal reasons:Didn't
know spouse was a close relativeMental Capacity lackingBelow legal
ageThreat or force usedFraudBigamyIt has nothing
to do with comsumation. Sorry.Marriage is not just about sex
either. It is the legal recognition of two people who love and commit to each
other. There are many marriages that have to forgo sex for medical, physical or
emotional reasons, but they are still considered a marriage. That is true love
Frank, Frank, Frank!Sex is not what a marriage is about. It is
about committing yourself to one person. Gays do not want to marry to be able
to have sex. They want to legitimize their relationship and gain the legal
rights and privileges that other committed couples have through marriage. PS Many marriages have been annulled even after it has been
Is there no one here that feels the cognitive dissonance that I feel? I love my
church and want to obey the leaders, but I love my country and feel that this is
most UNAMERICAN. We do not have the right to limit the privileges of any
minority group, even if we think they are sinners! They have only broken the
law of God, not the law of the land. We have no right. HELP ME!
When to people get married many dont consider it a full or legal "marriage" till
they consummate, otherwise its a farce and can be annuled, so yes; A marriage
implies sex at least once.
After submitting my last reply (refered to in my subject line) I realized I made
a slight error. In the last paragraph I didn't mean to imply it's OK to be
hateful towards a gay or Bi person who is sexually active. It's NOT OK to be
hateful towards anyone period, that is Christian doctrine... that is what I
should've said.Christ requires that we love and show love towards
everyone (that means no matter what sin they've done or what their sexual
prefference might be).I meant to say if you are shunning someone
simply because of who they love or what sins they've commited, then you're not
being a good/true Christian.
God/the Bible doesn't ever use the word "homosexuality"... nor does it refer to
the attraction (something within the mind only) specifically that I'm aware of.
All the Bible states is something along these lines: "For man to lay with
another man is an abomination".If you'll note it speaks of the ACT
of sex, and NOT the attraction. The Bible is stating that only the sex act
itself is the sin, not the attraction (being gay or Bi). This is also the
official stance of the LDS Church.So according to LDS doctrine and
teaching you can be gay or Bi (have the attractions) and you're fine... but if
you act on them then that is where sin enters in, the act itself is the sin (not
the attraction).God and Christ are not against being gay or bi, so
if you're being hateful towards someone who is gay or Bi but isn't sexually
active, then it's YOU who isn't being a true Christian and not following
Christ's example of showing love to everyone.
I'm on the Lord's side and I support freedom of choice in all things (as does
God and Christ). Something to remember here: Marriage does not
automatically equal "sex". There are plenty of straight couples who go for
years without sex in their marriage. Just because people are married doesn't
mean sex is happening.So if a gay or Bi couple get married to the
same gender as themselves, don't assume sex is going on. The two men (or two
women) could very well be active Christians who understand that God doesn't
recognize the union, so any sex between them would be a sin (fornication) and as
such purposely choose to abstain from sex... just be married as a symbol AND
mainly to use the legal benefits that come with it (so that for example
hospitals can't ban them from decisions about their partner).Being
LDS and supporting the freedom for a gay couple to choose to be married or not
is NOT condoning sin, it is supporting free agency and God is all about us
having free agency.
"The toothpaste is out of the tube." Gay people ARE living together, openly.
Gay people DO have children. Gay people ARE adopting. Gay people HAVE gotten
married in many, many places. Too late to undo what has already been done.
Have you considered that in this nation of laws and rights that the LDS church
has a right, just as another other organization, group, or individual, to voice
their views on a particular topic? They have made their position clear on this
issue. Within these shared rights, they have expressed a viewpoint and have
"ASKED" their members to consider this and support it. LDS members are of course
entitled to their own opinions and they have free will to choose what they will
do. To answer your question of "WHY?" would they do that? I guess if
you are not a LDS, or perhaps if you are, you may not realize or have forgotten
that a LDS believes and has committed to certain religious principles. The LDS
church does not twist anyone's arm to join or to remain a member. They can only
express their beliefs, ask you consider them, and leave it to you to decide what
course to take. This is free agency which has consequences. Standing your ground
for a principle does NOT mean you stop loving someone that chooses to do the
opposite, and the LDS church has said just that. from altec90210
Appreciate your comments, but feel the need to disagree. So many members of the
Church in my generation WERE "led astray". We were taught things about blacks
that later proved to be untrue. Many people, who were ahead of the
Church leadership in their understanding, actually left. And some chose never to
return.I can't help but wonder if the Church will end up re-canting
what it is teaching now about gays. Just feels like a case of deja vu. Get
back to me in about twenty years, and we'll see what has happened.
Why should the LDS Church or any other church for that matter lose tax exempt
status just because they voice their opinion on political matters publicly or
privately among it's members? Though some may disagree with their stances I
think it's within a church's rights to speak in the political arena just as much
as it is for any regular individual.
Why did the Church issue this statement? Just like the prophets of old, the
Prophet of today is issuing a warning.Romans 1: 27And likewise also
the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward
another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in
themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.Also:2 Ne.
1: 9, 20Wherefore, I, Lehi, have obtained a promise, that inasmuch as
those whom the Lord God shall bring out of the land of Jerusalem shall keep his
commandments, they shall prosper upon the face of this land;... ...but
inasmuch as ye will not keep my commandments ye shall be cut off from my
presence.Also, yes, the Church is ALL about families, but, the Lord
does come first, and therefore the Church, After all, "Salvation is a personal
thing." See: Matt. 10: 37He that loveth father or mother more than
me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not
worthy of me.One more though, the Church does greater humanitarian
aid than any organization of its size in the world.
You have my full support. I walked out when they read over the pulpit the
letter to support an amendment to the U.S. constitution. I cried for days, but
my life is so much better and so much happier since that day. I would rather
burn in hell knowing that I stood up for those without a voice than to live
eternities knowing that I compromised my beliefs out of fear of punishment.
If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears
a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured
or far away. - Henry David Thoreau
I know that some of you feel that Mormons have been bashed in this thread. I am
sorry that you feel that way. It is only what you are doing that we want to
contend with. We love you individually. It is your actions that we hate. You
know, love the sinner, hate the sin.
I guess the First Presidency has blown the doors off "nice", huh?
To commentator at 12:21,When the First Presidency issues a letter to
us in sacrament meeting, when they post the message each month in the Ensign,
when they speak to us at General Conference, and when they issue proclamations
and pamphlets to the youth, to the members at large, and to the world, that
becomes doctrine. When it does not come from the First Presidency or
solely from the Prophet himself, whether it's from an Apostle or one of the
counselors or a member of whatever local authority he is a part of, it's
considered an opinion. It may be an highly informed opinion, and it may be a
direct personal revelation, but unless it comes from the Prophet, it's not
official church-sanctioned doctrine.Many statements that are
personal opinion are passed on as doctrine by the members, but that isn't always
the case. Usually, they're just pearls of wisdom that are often quoted and
requoted until people are unsure whether it's official doctrine or not. By all
means, research anything that sounds questionable to you, unless you hear it
straight from the First Presidency. They will NOT lead the church
astray, whether they have universal approval or not.
If the agenda were just for equal rights, the promoters of gay marriage would be
happy for civil unions where there would be legal rights for all that they seem
to care about....which when insurance benefits, employment benefits, inheritance
benefits etc. add up....all equal money.This is more an attempt to mock
God who ordained marriage and redefine marriage to a point that it is no longer
recognizable as a protection and blessing to women and children in this society.
Family law will take a beating in an even greater way, and it is the children
who will suffer most. To those who are angry at people of faith who want to
preserve the sanctity of marriage in our society, may I say, that we defend your
right to believe and speak your mind and morals, but we do not stand idly by
when a group or movement seeks to destroy our society. We do have a right and
obligation to speak up also. Perhaps you can see the fairness in that. If not,
it explains the motives even more clearly to take away the rights of the moral
The First Presidency's letter is not going to conclude anything. 1)
They will never effect the amendment in CA. CA voters have become very tolerant
on this issue in 8 years and 51% are in favor of the Supreme Court ruling as
opposed to 42% disapproving of it.2) Mormons are only 1.79% of the
CA population. Their votes will be statistically insignificant,3)
CA Mormons are, if not as tolerant as Californians as a whole, at least much
more tolerant than mountain state Mormons. They will not receive this message
well and it will challenge the loyalty of a good many.4) Younger
voters will only get MORE tolerant to same sex marriages.5) The
whole country has now seen the Bretheren as intolerant and meddlesome. This
gives credence to other efforts they've previously made more circumspectly and
denied. 6) This reignites an issue many Mormons are already
ambivalent about or just don't feel good about. Many, many Mormons have gay
family members and many have holes in their hearts for someone who was hounded
into depression and despair and even suicide in the past.This will
come back and haunt the LDS for a generation or more.
"as defending the rights of the unborn children, who would be adopted or
artificially inseminated into a family contrary to the laws of God."Sorry, those gay couples that want children are having children NOW. They are
not waiting for permission. This amendment will not stop them from having or
adopting and actually hurts those children by not giving them more stability in
their homes. Try again.
When God gave Eve to Adam did he already have in mind a point in time when
incest would be wrong? When do you suppose that was because there must have
been an awful lot of it for many, many generations. When do you
suppose the first "unvaliant" spirit children were born to them or their
descendants? When do you suppose the unvaliant spirits with the dark skin
started being born in only families who were also dark-skinned? And only being
born in certain areas around the Equator? There's a lot I still
I think the scripture that you shared deserves to be repeated:Ezekiel 16:
49 This was the guilt of your sister Sodom: she and her daughters had pride,
excess of food, and prosperous ease, but did not aid the poor and needy.Who does this remind us of? And why are we wasting time and money on
laws against those with a different orientation than us when we could be helping
"the poor and the needy"? (Remember, once you've spent that time and money for
one thing, it can't be used for something else.)
I believe marriage is ordained by God and only between a man and a woman.
However, I also believe that marriage between same sex couples is their right as
free agents. So...We may choose life or we may choose death. The choice is
I think we all need to Stand a Little Taller, and have the courage to stand up
for what we believe. The Church has every right to encourage its members to
stand up for what our Heavenly Father has set as the standard for ALL of His
children: marriage between a man and a woman. While others have their freedom
to choose whether they want to obey their Heavenly Father or not, so do those
members of the LDS Church have their freedom to choose to obey the laws which
Heavenly Father has set for the happiness and blessing of all of His children.
He did not have Adam choosing to be "married" to another man or to a woman, Eve.
He gave Eve to Adam, and that is the way He still wants it to be.
Thanks "To AWB." In the Church's view and in my own, a child is a stewardship,
to be raised on behalf of God. For that reason, I reject the notion that it is
always a woman's right to have an abortion (though I stand with the Church that,
under certain circumstances, it is a personal question). For that reason, the
Church is not so much assaulting the freedoms of those who would enter into gay
marriage, as defending the rights of the unborn children, who would be adopted
or artificially inseminated into a family contrary to the laws of God. The
Church has an interest in the happiness of all humankind, including those not
yet born. Do the proponents of gay marriage have more of a right to decide those
people's futures than the Church has?
Society is evolving, and our attitudes are changing. Mixed-race marriages are
now accepted, even by the Church. Blacks have been given the Priesthood. Most
younger people are okay with same-sex marriage. The Church may
succeed in stopping gay marriage in California, by pouring their time and money
into it, this time. But eventually, other states will adopt it. I'm no prophet, but it seems like this is just a matter of time, and it seems
sad to see so many people wasting their precious time and energy fighting the
inevitable where there is so much else that needs to be done.
I agree that there is a vocal minority that is becoming more and more
dictatorial. There is a group pushing society into "conformity" with their
beliefs. It is that group pushing the homosexual agenda.
Funny how just a few years ago gay marriages were not even on the radar because
of public outcry. Funny how all the amendments to have marriage between a man
and a woman be the only legal arrangement under the state laws were instigated
by Christian and non-christian groups. Funny how history is NOT on the side of
Gay relationships in societies of the past (that no longer exist) Your policies
and lifestyles of gay marriage are the REAL problem and have been all along
historically. Oh, I forgot most gay activist ignore history, distort history
and just blatantly lie and name call. Well , what is new?
On heterosexual marriage, briefly: Just because there is a history of
infidelity, abuse and divorce in marriage, does not make it wrong or unworthy of
protection. It means that people casually enter into it unprepared, do not
cherish their spouses as they should or regard those sacred bonds as temporary.
That reflects on certain participants, not the institution. Marriage between a
man and a woman is the ideal way for them to learn love and to grow, and to
raise children in that love. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
has that view (see The Family: A Proclamation to the World) and, to its credit,
fights the premarital sex (have you attended high school or college recently and
seen its extent?) and infidelity that lead to single parenthood and broken
homes. Do we have enough sociological evidence now to denounce premarital sex?
Unfortunately, too often, we don't have the courage. The Church has the right to
defend marriage because of the community and moral impact (See the statement on
political neutrality on the Church's website, under Newsroom and then Public
"that the founding members of this country...were Christian standard
individuals"On the contrary, Our founding fathers were a mixture of
deist and christians. Thomas Paine, Ben Franklin, Thomas Jefferson, John Adams,
John Quincy Adams, and George Washington were deists. All of the aforementioned
names wrote in books and letters they authored an utter DISBELIEF in the bible
as the word of God, they all also stated on numerous occasions their disbelief
in the deity of Jesus Christ, and the trinity. Thomas Paine even
wrote a lengthy book called "The age of reason" to disprove the bible and
christianity. Ben Franklin could even be called an atheist.
Ezekiel 16: 49 This was the guilt of your sister Sodom: she and her daughters
had pride, excess of food, and prosperous ease, but did not aid the poor and
I'm sorry. But how do we know what Church doctrine is anymore? Is this current
"request" from the First Presidency really "doctrine"? Or is it just the
"opinion of men"?I'm truly confused. Things I've been told were
doctrine, I'm later told were not. I believe it was Boyd K. Packer, a current
apostle, who made the statement that "gays, feminists and so-called
intellectuals are the greatest enemies of the Church." But I know it's possible
that this is not really "doctrine" just some quote from an apostle.Whatever it is (doctrine or not), it still seems terribly mean-spirited and
unbecoming of the Church I once loved.
I've got a rainbow ribbon to wear on Sunday and I'm prepared to walk out of
sacrament meeting when the letter is read. I'm also prepared to work against
the proposed amendment between now and Nov. 3.
Beyond the varying definitions here of what is or is not moral (here homosexual
behavior), it seems that even the posters' sense of morality's essence varies.
Many here express views that no behavior is immoral (as long as it is a
victimless crime). We may perhaps not like something but hesitate to define it
as wrong, because maybe it is right for someone else. Maybe, freedom itself is
our sense of right and wrong. Other people can do whatever they want, as long
as it doesn't bother me. Have we lost the notion that there is an absolute
right and wrong out there? And I don't claim that God rigidly controls what we
do just for His own personal pleasure. He teaches us what is right, and what
is right is what makes us happier, healthier and more capable. As to my
opinion, can we really claim that we know all the ramifications, personal and
societal, of gay marriage? Unless we're pretty omniscient ourselves, reading
others' minds, we can't. But God can, and maybe He's lovingly telling us that
it is wrong, and not just because He doesn't like it, but because it will affect
Does the Church even have a clue how many people they are alienating? Members
seem to be abandoning the Church in droves. I've seen it in my own family, and
it's splitting us apart. People are being forced to choose between Church and
family. Is this really what the Church wants to do?
"Can't anyone see how moral and civil standards are eroding in the United
States?"What I see is that a very vocal minority are becoming more
and more dictatorial and that people who resent that are becoming more and more
rebellious as the push down becomes unbearable. This didn't start
out a nation of busybodies. People were free to be individuals. People who
were different saw other possibilities and opened the West, invented
technologies and produced the Arts. Even the most egregious "outlaws" were
celebrated as cultural icons whose legends survive to this day. One such
freethinker got a vision and revelation and restored the gospel. He said. That's when the country was great. Now it's dominated by small minds
that want conformity and produce mediocrity. You, sir, are the real
I don't recall any statements from the First Presidency saying that all gays,
feminists, and intellectuals were enemies of the church. Please stop putting
your biases against the church forward as church doctrine.
Let me start off by saying I am LDS. Knowing this, let me say that I support the
church's decision to encourage California members to "do all you can" to support
a state constitutional amendment to recognize only marriages between a man and a
woman. Can't anyone see how moral and civil standards are eroding in
the United States? Let's NOT loose sight of the fact that this is a nation where
we have unsurpassed individual rights, yet that does NOT mean the every group
has a right to do whatever they want whenever they want. If certain individuals
want same sex marriage, they are welcome to move to a country that allows it.
I do NOT believe that same sex marriage is moral. While I have a
niece that has adopted this lifestyle and is raising a family, I do not feel it
is appropriate.It is clear that we as a nation are losing sight on
the fact that the founding members of this country, while wanting to keep church
and state separate, were Christian standard individuals, this is what the LDS
church is suggesting we do, let our moral conscience be known to all in our
Since when do we have the right to vote on someone elses civil liberties? When
did that happen? What has happened to the constitution? What are you doing to this country?
I too, am saddened at the recent stands the Church has chosen. When an
organization labels all "gays, feminists, and intellectuals" as "enemies of the
Church" then who else is left to support it? I guess just the
"straight, traditional, non-thinkers". I'm afraid the Church is losing many of
it's best and brightest because of this attitude.
While I think the LDS church is entitled to take a stand on political and social
issues, as member I resent being told how to vote. It contradicts what I've
been told my entire life about using my conscience. It saddens me that the
church increasingly attempts to dominate its members in every facet of their
lives. There is much good in the LDS church; I can never deny that. Regardless
of where I stand on the gay marriage issue, what upsets me the most is the way
the church is handling this. They have issued a Proclamation to the Family, yet
don't seem to trust that their members will vote accordingly. I suspect this
will result in some members, including me, questioning the nature of the church
they belong to and what its doctrines really are. Call me chaff if you must,
but I can no longer, in good conscience, remain an active member.
I am a California LDS member. Yes I believe that people have the freedom of
choice, and so does the LDS church. And By taking a stand against Gay and
Lesbian marriage, doesn't mean that they still don't have a choice. By Limiting
our constitution, to define marriage legally recognized as only between a man
and a woman, doesn't take away anyones choice. Regardless of the law they will
still commit their sin and live thier lives as they see fit. This law doesn't
take away choice.I also do not hate gay people, but I do not condone
thier choices, jsut like I don't condone choices of child molesters or adulters.
I will support the church on this matter, and every other matter they bring to
me. They are not "forcing" my vote as some members feel they are, they are
asking us to stand up for something we claim we believe in, and as a member they
shouldn't even have to ask you, or encourage you to stand up for all things good
and right.For any of those who doubt the words of the prophets, get
down on your knees and ask God for his will.
To Boiseguy and his ilk:By what reasoning are irreligious people and
irreligious organizations the only ones that have a say in how our laws are
structured and how our government is run?I have been under the
impression that ALL citizens are allowed to take a stand on what our society's
laws condone or condemn.
A constitional ammendment is absolutely essential for our state, not to mention
our nation. I've been a CA resident for 32 years and I can't think of anything
I've felt stronger about supporting with my time and money than legally defining
traditional marriage. Our future as a country depends on it. It sickens me
that a small group of corrupt judges can overturn a decision that more than 60%
of our state approved. Gays and Lesbians need to find their own definition of
marriage--because they aren't going to take mine. For 6,000 years we have had
the traditional definition of marriage. It's how we continue to exist as a
society. The fundamental unit of mankind is a man and a woman. A man and a man
or a woman and a woman will never have offspring and will never allow our
society to continue--just as in the fall of Rome. Lifestyles like these I will
tolerate--but I will not define as marriage. We should not let a minority
define what marriage is and has been for 6,000 years. The LDS Church is
involved for the future of mankind and their involvement is essential--as yours
"CA Mormons are, if not as tolerant as Californians as a whole, at least much
more tolerant than mountain state Mormons. They will not receive this message
well and it will challenge the loyalty of a good many."It's called
separating the chaff from the wheat, my friend. The LDS church has been
predicting for more than a century that in the last days many, including those
who were thought to be strong pillars of the church, will fall by the wayside
and renounce their religion. If we don't trust in the Prophet and
his counselors and the rest of the Twelve, if we don't follow the counsel of our
Heavenly Father, we're not going to make it with our testimonies unscathed. When a letter from the First Presidency is read over the pulpit, it
becomes doctrine. This is now official Church policy. If we choose to ignore it,
we will held responsible for our actions someday. Unfortunately,
some will fall away because of this. Some will fall away for other reasons. It's
only going to become more difficult to remain faithful from here on out. The
scriptures are pretty clear on that. We all have to choose our sides.
If the Mormon Church is going to behave like a political action committee, then
they should be regulated like one. That means opening their books to public
This move is absolutely stupid. 1) They will never effect the
amendment in CA. CA voters have become very tolerant on this issue in 8 years
and 51% are in favor of the Supreme Court ruling as opposed to 42% disapproving
of it.2) Mormons are only 1.79% of the CA population. Their votes
will be statistically insignificant,3) CA Mormons are, if not as
tolerant as Californians as a whole, at least much more tolerant than mountain
state Mormons. They will not receive this message well and it will challenge
the loyalty of a good many.4) The whole country has now seen the
Bretheren as intolerant and meddlesome. This gives credence to other efforts
they've previously made more circumspectly and denied. 5) This
reignites an issue many Mormons are already ambivalent about or just don't feel
good about. Many, many Mormons have gay family members and many have holes in
their hearts for someone who was hounded into depression and despair and even
suicide in the past.This will come back and haunt the LDS for a
"I'm working on a local ordinance which will require weddings to be public (i.e.
an official can attend to make sure that it is legit, or a video will be
available for review). What happens when LDS temple marriages are no longer
considered legally binding?"What makes you think they won't be?
Temple marriages follow the laws of the land according to how a ceremony should
proceed. And even if they weren't legally binding for some reason, the
solution's pretty simple. We'd get a civil marriage and then get sealed in the
Temple for time and all eternity. God's law is higher than the federal law, no
matter what you guys want to proclaim.
The church should stay out of the politics of the state of Ca. Mormons should
be able to thoughtfully think and pray about this issue and come to their own
decision. By reading out a statement over the pulpits of every ward, it becomes
doctrine and the member is under condemnation if he/she does not comply. I am
sad to once again to be told what to do by my church.
If your church doesn't hate them, why are they so firmly committed to them
having no legal rights for themselves and their partners? And don't say civil
unions, because this state (with the Church's blessing)made them illegal too
with the very hateful Amendment 3.
Someone in all this talk said that the church hates gay and lesbian people.
That is so untrue. We may not approve of their lifestyle, but we are all God's
children. And how He must grieve for them. I taught history for many years.
The members of the court should have paid attention and not slept through their
history classes. Those individuals who shaped this nation understood that you
cannot separate (totally) church and state. What is prohibited is forced
membership in a state-established church. What has happened to the rule of the
majority? At the same time the majority rules, the minority is free to convince
others to join them. But the majority still rules until this happend. If I
were a voter in California, I would want to know what has happened to my rights
as a citizen. It is frightening when a small group--judges--desirous to keep
their power--rule against the will of the people. What is needed is exactly
what the church is advocating. Step up and speak out for the cause. That's how
the minority got the right to marry in California.
Debi dear,If gays were trying to change your church, then you can
cry "foul"! They are trying to obtain legitimacy for their unions by claiming
that their CIVIL rights are the same as anyone elses. By not allowing them this
sanctioned approval, you are stating that your beliefs are more important than
their legal claims. That is all it is.
I am an active member of the church. I have friends and family that are gay and
love them. I don't agree with their lifestyle, but love them as I know God
loves them. The church must make a stand because it is God's moral law that is
being violated. Remember God is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
Methinks John Lennon is rolling over in his grave. Taking a riff on his words
and advocating a group you disagree with "disappears." Nothing like cleansing
the field to make it just the way you'd like. Imagine. Scary.
"Just because something happens behind closed doors and I'm not present doesn't
mean it doesn't effect me. There are numerous criminal acts that could occur
between consenting adults behind closed doors, but it doesn't make it ok."Homosexuality is not illegal and neither are homosexual acts! They are
not criminals. You have confounded what you don't like with illegality. And it
DOESN'T affect you.
"Now it's becoming against the law to be heterosexual...at least that is the
goal of these groups."I don't suppose you'd care to back up this
assertion with actual evidence? No? Didn't think so.
"Today some people are claiming that same sex so-called "marriage" is their
right and nobody else's business and won't harm others. Just because they can't
forsee widespread devastating effects doesn't mean there won't be any."The onus is on YOU to show that there WILL be "widespread devastating effects"
in order to justify denying them something that everyone else in the country
To the guy who says he is working on a regulation torequire all weddings
to be public, and thinks that would affect LDS weddings in the temple -
hey, trythinking outside the box, use a little imagination.Such an
act of stupidity would have no effect ontemple marriages. The worst case
scenario would bethat we might have to go through an additional civilceremony outside the temple in order for you gentilesto consider us
legally married. No big deal.
The California Supreme Court did not rule that gays were entitled to marry.
Their ruling was that same sex couples were to be treated equally as opposite
sex couples by the State, in their participation of the official State
recognized civil institution currently defined as marriage. The Courts ruling
stated that it would be less disruptive to current society to allow same sex
couples the term MARRIAGE, then to change the name for everyone. However, the
Legislature is free to change the name of that civil institution at some future
date.If the proposed amendment to define marriage as between a man
and a woman is approved in November, it will not invalidate the May 15th
decision of the California Supreme Court, as its proponents claim. Instead it
will only add the definition of MARRIAGE into the California Constitution as
between a MAN and a WOMAN. It will not overrule the Courts decision that
opposite and same sex couples must be treated equally under civil law. If this
amendment is approved, effectively November 5th ALL MARRIAGE will END in
California.The Courts decision is about California CIVIL LAW not
to JScottMany countries already deal with this issue by requiring all
couples to obtain legal status union before whichever religious recognition they
pursue. The LDS Church members in such countries yield to the law of the
land.There is a similar situation in which some countries require
cremation due to lack of space or hygiene or whatever. After recruiting
membership in those nations, the previous "no cremation" policy was adapted and
now the LDS Church accepts the option for all their members. My mum chose the
cremation with packet placed in the box with her option. Humorously to me, she
still chose burial over scattering due to her concerns of who would end up with
her atoms in the resurrection were some forest critter to dine on her remains.
to SFFC 11:39Verily. Who asked the children? They do not have rights of
decision-making for society's policy. Can you imagine a world where the
innocent and uninformed determined law for the rest of us? Get real."How to totally complicate a child's life! No one has that right." Then stop
getting divorced. How complicated is a child's life who must move out of their
neighborhood and family every other weekend or even several times a week to
serve the terms of their parents' custody decrees? How complicated for children
to have demands placed by parents who have again married and procreated to love
half-siblings and step-siblings whom they see sporadically and who now get more
of their parent's attention than they do? What about the dinner table that never
looks the same as halfs and steps are pulled in and out of the picture on
different schedules?Time for people to stop pointing the finger of
who's destroying what and clean up your own family situation. Definitely. Think
of the children.
I understand why the Church has chosen to support the pro-heterosexual (or
anti-gay depending on your point of view) marriage movement. However, in my
opinion, this position will eventually find itself to be a loosing proposition
because of the equal opportunity protection clause cemented in multiple case
law. This principle of equal protection under the law must be
applied without passion or prejudice, regardless whether we "like" or "dislike"
the notion of gay couples amongst us desiring to obtain civil marriage licenses.
Religious bigotry is not a valid argument for the law of the land to withhold a
civil right to those who have chosen a different kind of life style. Religious
bigotry is also not conducive to persuade people of the 'rightness' of your
cause. To demonize an entire 'class' of people merely because of a different
choice of sexual orientation is an outdated and cruel notion of objective
reality. It is disappointing that outmoded stone-age myths on gender and sexual
orientation are alive and kicking in our religious communities. Indeed, it
would be wise to consider the question: "what would Jesus do?"
Same old arguments day in and day out. Some who support gay marriage claim
those who don't are bigots or religious fanatics. Some who support gay marriage
shout tolerance & open-mindedness. Very ironic to read the posts and see which
bloggers resort to name calling. Just because something happens
behind closed doors and I'm not present doesn't mean it doesn't effect me.
There are numerous criminal acts that could occur between consenting adults
behind closed doors, but it doesn't make it ok. If people do illegal drugs
behind closed doors and I vote for harder laws against illegal drug users, it
doesn't mean I hate drug addicts, it means I want to curb illegal drug use
because I believe it's a negative detriment to society. I don't hate soccer
players, I just hate soccer. I don't hate CEO's, I just think most are
over-paid. I don't hate gay people, I just think the lifestyle is morally
wrong. You are free to disagree with me and I won't think you're a bigot or a
freak, I just believe you see things different than me. Please allow me the
same right to vote for what I feel is best.
I'm working on a local ordinance which will require weddings to be public (i.e.
an official can attend to make sure that it is legit, or a video will be
available for review). What happens when LDS temple marriages are no longer
considered legally binding?
Thanks for excluding women. It says a lot about your ideology.
to clear point...The Church does feed starving persons, physically and
spiritually...that is why these temples are built...for spiritual
sustenance...which is just as important if not more so, that physical
sustenance. The cure for all that ails mankind is in this Church. The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the only true and living church on the face
of the whole earth. As such...it works...on every level.
Homosexuality is gender identity confusion. Homosexuals cannot reproduce as
heterosexual couples so they must as a group recruit. Where do they find their
recruits. Well, it has been my experience that they find them from the
offspring of heterosexual couples. Herein lies the danger.Some 30+ years
ago in Canada I found myself engaged to a man who it turned out was a
homosexual. At that time it was against the law to be homosexual.Now it's
becoming against the law to be heterosexual...at least that is the goal of these
groups. So then, where will they find their recruits? Artificial Insemination
may be all neat and tidy for these people but did ANYONE ASK THE CHILDREN???
Let's ask a child who has been raised in a home such as this??? Who wouldn't
rather have a loving and devoted male and female set of parents.How to
totally complicate a child's life! No one has that right. We will all bear the
brunt of this chaos but especially OUR CHILDREN!!! We must fight this on every
level with whatever resources we have.
How many of you remember when smokers claimed it was their right to smoke
and that it was nobody else's business and wouldn't harm others? Now we know
that second-hand smoke has devastating effects beyond the damage to the smokers
themselve. Today some people are claiming that same sex so-called
"marriage" is their right and nobody else's business and won't harm others. Just
because they can't forsee widespread devastating effects doesn't mean there
won't be any. Seeing those kinds of unintended results is a job for a
Just because the Prophet opposes the Union does not mean he hates Homosexuals.
I'm pretty sure God created Steve too! He is my neighbor so I have testimony to
It not a question of whether god loves his "gay" or not.He has his
laws.We can conlude from the answers to my questions gays think
these two things:Children are NOT entitled to a mother and
father.And animal behavior excuses their behavior.Talk about muddled thinking.
Bet they're busy in the COB trying to figure out who leaked the letter.
Imagine there are no liberals.It is easy if you try.No
one to say you hate them, if you only disagree.No activists judges,
legislating from the bench.All the lovely people, living like they
should.You may say that I am a dreamer,But I am not the
only oneI hope someday you will join us, in the brother hood of man
You people are all very crazy. I would think the mormon jesus loves the gays
just the same as the christian jesus loves the mormons.
God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve
I find this letter very hurtful. I am so disappointed in the church. They forget
their own history...polygamy and future temple marriage for men only to more
than one woman??? If we took the bible literally we would have one messed up
world. The Bible has more upsetting crazy stories than any other book I've read.
It makes me realize even further that the prophet does not have a direct line to
God. He had a chance to do such good but no he had to go with the crazy
Christian rights and have good people fight good people who just love each other
and want the same rights to do so. They don't want to take anything away from
anybody or demean marriage. Why would anyone else's marriage demean mine? I
pray God will forgive for spreading more divisive hurtful prejudice that would
deny anyone the same rights that everyone else has. My wish is that the prophet
would have sent out a letter telling members to do everything they can to help
the poor and the needy. That instead of building beautiful temples and fighting
to descriminate, they would be spending their money on saving a starving person.
Billions | 8:03 p.m.--how paranoid can you get?
"Sin is the breaking of Gods Commandments, all of which protect freedom."Wrong. Of the "Big ten" the first four are INFRINGEMENTS on freedom,
particularly freedom of religion.
"And by the way man was created in separate creation from the animals and was
given dominion over them."In what is clearly (to any scientifically
educated person) an allegorical parable that did NOT literally happen.
I wonder who will be outside LDS meetinghouses on Sunday. Maybe they'd even
like to come inside and investigate the LDS.
I am struck by comments about erosion of marriage of America. I am struck that
claims of homosexual marriage is further evidence of this erosion. Yet,
marriage seems to have been eroding long before the first states even considered
same-sex marriage. To say that gay union will further destroy marriage is
unfounded and perhaps wrong based on case studies in other countries were gay
couples are allowed to marry such as Denmark. I think this statement by the
church was expected based on the previous example they have led on the same
issue in California a few years back. However, it is still disappointing to see
the lack of consistency in their Christian teachings. It would seem that the
gospel is one of exclusivity meant for those who are straight. I wonder how the
church would feel if such organizations as PFLAG, GLAAD, or ACLU lobbied for the
revoking of recognition of the church as a religious institution. To me the
church's statement would be similar to that.
"[Homosexuality] is equal to Wife Abuse and Child Molestation."How do you figure?
Ummm, I don't think your prophet or your first presidency speaks for God... I
think that job is already taken by the the Pope; Thank you very much!!
"Animals are not sentient beings. They act out of impulse."You've
obviously never owned a dog.
Murder, forced robbery, child porn, wife beaters and child molesters HARM OTHER
PEOPLE. Homosexuals do not.
"So are children entitlesd to mother AND father or not?"Obviously
they aren't "entitled" to anything. Once again, for most of human history,
children lost one or both parents quite early in life. THAT btw is how "God"
made things and it has been MANKIND that has allowed people to live longer to
raise their children to adulthood. Or are you people really so ignorant that you
think the entirety of human history was like the 1950s?
Whether you believe it or not the First Presidency is guided and speaks for God.
Believe God and follow him and with that, understanding comes, whether in this
life or the next.
For years there was no revelation within the LDS Church to overturn the archaic
view that a person's skin color was something other than genetic. And it is
clear again with this issue that leaders are years from recognizing the fact
that sexual preference is as natural and God-given as we know the color of one's
skin or gender to be today. For years it has been blatantly obvious that the
Church reacts to pressure or simply follows the moral majority rather than in
any way leading by revelation. It is all about PR and acceptance while the
heavens remain closed to the modern Church. So while dissapointing there really
should be no real surprise here.
Again this issue captivates people much like Hilter did Germany. I do not think
Jesus the Christ intended these type feelings. What say you my friends??? or
have you been so well trained in hatred that you you would not even know the
difference. Do you even personally know a Gay to make such a decision?
Christ was un afraid to condemn outright sin when He saw it. He was very
forgiving to those who were WILLING TO CHANGE, but not once, ever, in recorded
scripture, did He forgive one who refused to change and follow the commands of
God. Those unwilling to change He openly and publicly denounced as HYPOCRITES
and SINNERS. God has said, unequivicably, and in no way can it be
twisted about, that homosexuality is a SIN. Period. In His own words, it is an
ABOMINATION. Why would any church, not just the LDS faith, but ANY church that
claims to follow Christ, support legalized abominations. Every church that
claims to follow Christ MUST oppose homosexuality. If they give an inch, if they
support gay marraige, then they are acting contrary to the will of God. They
cease to be christian, since being christian denotes following Christ. I openly oppose gay marraige. I openly oppose homosexuality itself as the
abomination it is. I stand with the Lord. The Good Book says that not all that
say Lord, Lord, shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but those that do the will of
the Father. Christians, get off you duffs and speak out.
"You are wholly wrong. The practice of homosexuality in my family would deprive
me of offspring."No one is forcing you to be a homosexual, so you're
still wrong. The gay community is NOT a threat to you.
The real problem is that only around 1% (or far less)of population follow what
you would call your prophet of god. Just because you say he is your profit
doesn't make it right; I believe in a prophet as well a she has pointed me in
the other direction.
If the mormon church is so opposed to it then why are they not promoting gay
sexual acts to be illegal? seems they're understanding and loving until you
actually choose to express your love to someone and build a life with them. I
think this nation should be more focused on promoting family values for
EVERYONE.. and not just subjecting everyone to one belief system. Gays getting
married and building lives together is a much better outcome than being
constantly treated as outcasts and scum of the earth. And we wonder why as a
society that dangerous and destructive behaviour exists in the gay community
with drug abuse and illness. People with no purpose or value will destroy
themselves. Its easier to keep them in their place and consistantly point the
finger at them, rather than allow them to build and live healthy lifestyles.As a believer in God, I personally believe gay people wanting to get married
is a GOOD thing, it shows they are willing to step up to the plate and live
constructive positive lives with love and family values. You oppressive
christian soldiers do not see this nor care. Your minds are closed and set.
So is it right to say that if the ballot lost, as in marrige remains legal in
CA, then what the LDS Church leaders say about this matter is not right then? As
in, the prophets of God are just voicing their own opinion and not really
inspiration from God? Remember the "fatherly advice" that, I think, President
Lee gave many decades ago?
Silly you all are. The mormon church does not hold enough power, yield the
influence, and does not have the numbers to stop the will of the people--yes
other people whom worship Jesus Christ.. maybe not the mormon Jesus but still
the son of God. Well anyway, you have fun but you are further more making your
man made hatred at odds with mainstream society; but of course your hatred is
caused by me and not of the indoctrination process you have been through.
We claim the privilege of worshiping Almighty God according to the dictates of
our own conscience, and allow all men the same privilege, let them worship how,
where, or what they may.
Conspiracy theory, much? Your paranoia is glaringly visible.
Germany rallied as much around a cause as well in the 30's and 40's. I think you
all need to take a step back and look at the cause and rabidness that the
faithful are going after this one. And yes the faithful claimed christianity
back then. Funny how wrong is just wrong when in the right perspective.
What goes around.. comes around.. and you would think what has already come
around to the LDS people would not be passed back around to minority groups.
Sadly, it is. It only leaves the door open for it to come back around to them.
What is the cost of one battle in a war for equal rights? for people fighting
for their equal rights under the law.. there is no end. People will demand their
freedom and rights, whether you agree with it or not. Giving equal marriage
rights under the law does not make you have to agree with it. Most gay people
could care less what you think. They just want their rights. The church acting
in this matter, will eventually alienate itself from society at large.
Eventually same sex marriage will be allowed, whether you want to acknowlege it
or not. Every ban that is enacted can and will be continually challenged in the
courts because it contradicts discrimination laws.I hope for your sakes,
that what you push around doesn't come back at you again. like I said earlier,
don't expect an ounce of sympathy from me. What goes around comes around.
This one isn't so tough...what part of "with Liberty and Justice for ALL." is
the church leadership having trouble understanding? Don't like gays getting
married? Don't marry one.How interesting this will be in the fall
elections if Mitt has to defend his faiths history of plural marriages AND try
to tell another state what they can or cannot do in that regard.Speak out Both Sides of Your Mouth much?
the LDS church should ask its members to do everything and anything possible
reguarding the constitutional amendment to ban same sex civil marriages in the
state of California. The church should not speak out to non members on this
issue which I dont think they are doing.That would put the church in a position
of playing politics and I dont think the church needs to do that.It's up to its
members to take a stand on issues, not the brethern in Salt Lake City,but there
is nothing wrong with the idea of the brethern to incourage its California
members to voice the churches opinion on this issue.Then its up to the members
to either follow that request or not.
Correct me if I am wrong, but in this country we enjoy many individual freedoms
and rights: freedom of religion and freedom of speech being two of them. Even
though we are members of the church do we not also still enjoy the freedom of
speech and the ability to speak out against political policies we do not agree
with? Shame on CA's liberal judges (who by the way do not create legislation)to
strike down what the people overwhelmingly voted down.
If I want advice about how to vote I'll go to a source that *doesn't* venerate
and name it's premier educational institution after a man who said Adam was God;
was a flat out racist and declared war on the USA.
As an active member of the church I am already committed to giving all of my
time, means and energy to supporting the doctrines I hold dear. The letter
given by the first presidency is just reaffirming what I am already doing. I
don't understand why we can't be just as zealous, open and organized as those
organizations who support gay marriage.
Billions are being spent in the USA by the insiders and the corrupt
government to promote homosexuality. The government and the insiders have hired
Marxist oriented professors to rewrite history, to revise history favoring
fascism and secularism. They have spent hundreds of millions publishing new
textbooks that promote homosexuality and N.W.O. propaganda and placing them in
the schools of America. They have spent many millions discrediting the Founding
Father, the Constitution and Christianity. They spend hundreds of millions
producing T.V. shows, movies and educational information encouraging
homosexuality. They spend millions creating unjust laws and propaganda
supporting gay and lesbian behavior and stifling Christians freedom of religion
and freedom of speech. The insiders have a many trillion dollar slush fund to
implement the N.W.O. and they can always create more out of thin air. They are
attacking our nation from every angle. There has never been such an onslaught
of deliberately organized, promoted evil. They have paid organizers who arrange
new homosexual organization throughout the country and their materials and
their goals are the same. They sponsor the gay pride parades. Satans power has
always been economic and political and he is pulling out all the stops.
The comments here are redundant. No body is convincing the others the change
their minds. Those who are in support of the LDS church are claiming
religious text and thought. Those who are opposing are claiming equal rights
and fairness. The fact is same sex marriage is going to cross the nation.
It already is in 2 states and several others recognize marriage from other
states, i.e. New York. Will the LDS church change it position? who
cares!Will it happen, even in Utah? Yes!
the wheels on the bus go round and round, round and round... Do you people ever
get tired of hearing yorself's plather on and on about the same tired old things
everyday? do you really need a boggy man to be afraid of this badly? .....the babies on the bus go waah, waah, waah
I love the Mormon Church, but I'm very uncomfortable with the Church officially
backing an initiative of this type. Why? Because I think it's discriminatory.
For the life of me I do not see how gay marriage will hurt heterosexual
marriage. Gays and lesbians constitute a tiny minority and always will. They
have abnormal biological sex drives. So let them marry. It's not going to hurt
the rest of us and it the fair thing to do. The only concern I have about gay
marriage is gay couples adopting children. I'm not sure it's emotionally healthy
to grow up in the home of two same sex parents, although it's preferable if the
same sex parents are more loving than a neglectful heterosexual couple. Tough
issues to be sure. But let's stay politically neutral on this issue, as we do
with most every other issue.
Repeating because it's an important question:Who takes marriage
advice from a church that esteems leaders and prophets who had 30-50 wives (Jos.
Smith & Brigham Young), married teenagers (Jos. Smith & Brigham Young), disposed
of women's living husbands so they could marry them (Jos. Smith), intimidated
fathers into giving up their daughters under threat of damnation (Jos. Smith),
and sealed plural marriages for 10 years after their Manifesto abolishing
polygamy (Wilfred Woodruff, Jos. F. Smith and other GAs)?
I am glad to see so many fellow saints proudly proclaim that they are on the
Lord's side also!" Who's on the Lord's Side WHO?"Can you
honestly belive that you are on the Lord's side when you support and attempt to
legitimize sinful behavior? Homosexuality is abomination and those that practice
in such deviant behavior will suffer consequences in the world to come.
Its interesting how anyone who condemns a poster for judging is in fact
judging the poster himself. So should we judge? Of course we should. We do it
every day. It is part of living. We should judge fairly, righteously, honestly
and not for the purpose of hurting anyone. In our judgments we should be
careful not to do evil or in other words not to injure anyones God given rights.
Is speaking out against evil, sin and crime an evil judgment?. No, its our
duty. Is it wrong to bring people to justice? Nope! Thats why we have
policemen, judges and juries. We all judge if something is good or evil every
day. In our minds we judge peoples morality, capability, intelligence, etc..
Thats why we have resumes and interviews so employers can make sound judgments.
We all judge the rightness or wrongness of man made laws, of government actions,
of trends and fads and doctrines etc. Homosexuality has been judged as evil by
the Great Judge of the this earth. Governments have judged it as the abominable
and detestable crime against nature. Thats easily demonstrated and thats good
enough for me.
"I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry" a movie that stars Adam Sandler, Kevin
James and Jessica Biel in one of the most blatant politically correct,
anti-Christian movies. The movie is nothing more than anti-Christian,
pro-homosexual propaganda that attacks the traditional, Judeo-Christian moral
values of American culture. The excessive homosexual content is just more
psychological conditioning from the neo-Marxist, anti-Christian politically
correct philosophers of our day who are trying to normalize all such aberrant
behaviors. Some of these opinion leaders even support lenient prison sentences
for pedophiles who abuse children (unless, of course, the pedophile happens to
be a Christian leader or white male clergyman). Of course these opinion leaders
are indeed sponsored by the establishment with unlimited funds. Anyone who has
done their home work realizes that there is a war against morality sponsored by
the rich schemers of this world. They have attacked morality on every front.
Its called the war between good and evil.
The voices from the large and spacious building are getting louder and it is sad
many members of the church have let go to join them- The speration of the wheat
from the tares has begun.
Way to go Deseret News: Not only 1 article but 2 articles in 2 days! WOW! the
hatred is coming out on both sides. There are many other important things to
worry about. This issue is not about Utah.
There is a spiritual environment just as surly as there is a physical
environment. No one has a right to spew trash and garbage throughout the
community or in peoples faces. Like wise no one has the right to spew
immorality and wickedness through out the community or in peoples faces. No one
has the right to seduce children, youth or adults into immorality and
wickedness. We all have a right to have a clean spiritual environment just as
we have a right to a clean physical environment. There is absolutely no right
of homosexuality and its train of evils. You cannot harm another to your
advantage and ever get away with it in eternity. The universe will pass away
before retribution will be escaped. Retribution may not be immediate, but it
will be exact and absolute right down to the last atom. If we truly understand
God perfect justice upon us then no one could be induced to harm another for
money, for fame, for pride, for pleasure or for anything. The test of mortality
is an environment allowing us to imagine we can hurt or take advantage of others
with impunity. Not so!!
For those claiming an angry god's judgements being meted out on deteriorating
society - actually the past few decades have been among the most peaceful in
recorded time. Loss of life from natural disaster is way down compared to 40
years ago. These are relatively quiet times in terms of death by natural
disasters, the apparent favorite punishments of displeased gods.Are
we possibly doing something right?
Sin is the breaking of Gods Commandments, all of which protect
freedom. Crime is also the breaking of Gods commandments which protect freedom.
A sin and a crime are essentially the exact same thing. A law commands us to
do something or forbids us to do something and has a punishment attached. In
our society we have come to think of crimes only as the breaking of man made
laws which are punished by civil government. Man made laws are frequently Gods
laws as they should be. Many man made laws are utterly unjust, they violate
Gods laws, destroy freedom and when enforced are in fact a crime and a sin.
Homosexuality is a crime and a sin which should be punished here and now and
certainly will be in the here after. The very reason for punishment is to make
it so sin & crime doesnt pay. Punishment is to deter crime & sin. Civil
government should only punish the most serious sins such as murder,
homosexuality theft, adultery etc. Otherwise we would spend all of out time
and money punishing our many sins and would miss out on the more important
things of life.
There are laws prohibiting the abominable and detestable crime against
nature. If governments do not follow Gods standards in public affairs then it is
a free-for-all as to whos standards they will follow. The Golden Rule is
based upon the universal need and desire for freedom. When government action
violates the Golden Rule, strife and contention arise. The Golden Rule is the
only code which may with justice be enforced against all men. Governments either
legislate morality or immorality. It would be stupid to legislate immorality.
Morality preserves freedom, immorality destroys freedom. Every act government
performs is either morally right or morally wrong. All governments are for is
to compel citizens to obey a code of private morality. There are two types of
laws: 1. Those which condemn and punish certain conduct as evil and harmful, 2.
Those which compel the performance of other conduct considered good and
beneficial. Gods law should be the source of all civil law. Gods law is for
the purpose of protecting mans unalienable rights. Our constitution was made
only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government
of any other." - John Adams
All men have a conscience which register 10 on the Richter Scale when they
are about to commit a dreadful sin. Our consciences work perfectly until we
refuse to listen and pile sin on sin. If we continue to sin then our conscience
becomes seared over and we are then insensitive, spiritually dead and past
feeling. We have become hard and numb to right or wrong. When one boasts about
his sins and criminal acts he no longer cares about who he hurts or about right
and wrong. Is this not exactly what has happened to homosexuals when they
deliberately flaunt their filth in the faces of our families, virtuous ladies,
children and youth. No wonder decent people stand up against such senseless
insanity. And no wonder hardened homosexuals cant or refuse to understand the
difference between right and wrong. They do indeed become spiritually dead, hard
, numb, blind and insensitive. Light and truth withdraws from them and they
dissipate them selves into the grave. Thank goodness there are thousands of
homosexuals who get a handle on life and with Gods help crawl out of the pit
before it is too late
An earlier post mentioned that there has been homosexuality since the beginning
of time, and that may very well be true. But it's also a fact, chronicled by
the chair of sociology at Harvard, that many great societies that embraced
homosexuality and relaxed sexual norms were soon conquered and/or destroyed.So you wonder what effect you two happy gays getting married has on my
and my family?Well, it doesn't immediately affect us even if you
marry a dog, but EVENTUALLY the effects to society are catastrophic! It's
already a fact that children stuck with homosexual "parents" are more messed up
than anyone else, so sometimes the effects are much more immediate.He who fails to learn the lessons of history is doomed to repeat it. Wake up,
America, save marriage before it's too late! Gay marriage is not the end of
their desires, it's only the beginning! It will be rapidly followed by gay sex
education in school, hate speech legislation, mandatory special rights in the
workplace, discrimination laws that force people out of business if they refuse
to accommodate gays (already happening in California), and more... HERE IT
COMES!!! FIGHT FOR MARRIAGE WITH ALL YOU'VE GOT!!!!!!!!
to IronClad -Oh, yes. Much more civil to marry many women so you have
spares to take your stripes when you are caught in flagrante delicto. Barring
that give praise your parents bore your sisters to stand in your stead.Using the outrage of one immoral philosophy's adherents as reason to support
another immoral position is rather silly.
I just heard that homosexual activists are sometimes PAID to blog and make
comments on every site that they can, so they can be perceived as a larger and
more influential portion of society than they really are.Makes sense
since they probably have a lot more time on their hands than I do.I'm usually too busy with my FAMILY to put in post after post after post.I dare any of you paid posters to admit what you're doing, and I doubt
anyone ever will because it undermines the credibility of their posts, which are
intended to sound like different people with different points. How incredibly
dishonest that is.
Anyone can have heterosexual or homosexual sex, that's why it is a choice. We
are all born with characteristics and traits that give us different interests,
but attraction comes with and grows by where we place most of our thoughts.
Attraction is not well understood, but who is to say that I am wrong in saying
no one is born gay? Where is the proof that we are born with sexual
attractions?Point 1: Sexual organs correspond with female or male
parts and develop through puberty creating procreative functions that only
together with the opposite sex perform the procreative purpose of those
functions. Point 2: If it isn't a choice then only gays could do
homosexual acts.Pretty cut and dry, but backed up...Blacks are born with black skin. Whites are born with white skin. All other
colors of people are born that way. Males are born male. Females are born
female. All of us fit in these categories and already have the rights that
pertain to whatever the color of our skin, or whatever our gender. Marriage is
available to all who choose a relationship between a man and a woman. Gay
unions are a counterfeit.
These are indeed the last days, and this may well be the issue that gathers
everyone to one side or the other.The LDS church has come down
unequivocally on the side of traditional marriage, as they have consistently
done. So is Tom Monson a prophet or not? If so, your choice is clear. If not,
your choice is not so clear, as this controversy proves.The LDS
church is a voluntary organization who has ZERO power over its members beyond
excommunication of membership. Those who belong, choose to belong. And if
tomorrow they turned from the worship of Jesus Christ to the worship of the
Flying Spaghetti Monster, then the members would have the choice to stay or
leave, just as they do now.So choose your side carefully, because if
the prophecies are true, it will not be fun to be on the wrong side of this
fight.As for me and my house, we prayerfully--not blindly--CHOOSE to
follow President Monson and other ordained LDS leaders. WE WILL STAND FOR THE
FAMILY WITH EVERYTHING WE'VE GOT.
Sure. I have no problem with you being a "south paw." I do have a problem with
you pushing for laws that require people to read right to left as well as left
to right in order to accomodate you.I also have a problem with being
called a hate-monger for being a righty who thinks English SHOULD be read left
Is it any wonder the Muslims hate us so much as infidels. We have Madonna,
Britney, Hollywood deivates, lust for money on the NYSE and rampant sexual
perversion i.e., homosexual lifestyle and the fruit of it; GAY Marrige. And a
few judges rule the people. The leaders of the LDS Church are telling the
members stand for what is morally and legally right, members of their faith
combined with other good honest christians can get involved with the decision
process and take back law and order. This may be the last spiritual
chance for the good of the nation. If we're not overcome with pestilance,
famine, adverse weather occurance etc. Our Arab muslim brothers will surely
standing in the wings to convert the good ole "USA" to Islam and they'll
definetly take care of GAY marriage. And that's the bottom line!!!
For the sake of the children, strengthen your marriages, spend your
discretionary time with your kids, take walks, ride bikes, watch movies, inspect
nature happening in your backyards. Re-learn to love and cherish your spouse.
Forgive. Be less selfish. Improve your family financial situation to alleviate
that stressor. Hope. Dream. Have joy in your family.Ranting on a
comment board does nothing to give your children a more secure, grander view of
this amazing life.
This so-called "church" deserves to lose their tax-exempt status over this.
Sex btween humans of any kind without the sanctification of marriage is a sin
according to the LDS Church. Marriage is a sacred covenant between man, woman
and God according to the LDS Church. Members of the Church professing to have a
testimony need to support Church leaders. People who participate in sexual acts
prior to marriage are breaking the Lord's commandments. The LDS Church makes no
judgement on a person's inclinations until they are acted upon.Happiness is not dependent upon your marital status. If you are unhappy as a
single person marriage will not change your emotional state no matter if you are
a homosexual or not.
RE: my comment (Kathyn). I am not saying the church should keep out of this
argument. Far from it....I totally support the Prophet, and follow him. I
didn't mean to come across as namby-pamby. I do believe in standing up for
what is right. But there are those who like bait us (like those who pass out
all of the anti-LDS lit at conference) who are better to ignore because we'll
never convince them to change and it just promotes contention. The letter from
the church handled it just right.
If the LDS Church had remained steadfast and unchangeable in its doctrine there
would have been no need for the FLDS to break away. Times change. Churches
change by their own perception of the times or by revelation from their god.Why are the faithful not praying, as they did for their fellow blacks,
for full blessings for all of god's children? Cover all the bases and get it
done once and for all. Did it ever occur to you that perhaps god is awaiting
your petitions to reveal his love for all his children? Perhaps you need to
catch up in your hearts and the decree will be made. Afterall, the blacks were
held back due to the perception of carrying the sin of Cain.
Just thought I'd share this info:First, before I make my main
statement which is sure to send some of you off the deep end... let me explain
this fact about Bisexuality. Being "Bi" doesn't always mean an equal 50-50
split between both genders (it can be 30-70, 80-20, etc.), nor is it always a
fixed split (it can vary from time to time).OK, my main point...Some scientists believe that EVERYone is born bisexual, but where each
person is on the scale of bisexuality differs and how events around them can
mold them more one direction than the other. Those who are say 99% for the
opposite gender are what's thought of as "straight/hetero" and the opposite of
that are what is deemed "gay". Or there is Freud who thought it was a normal
part of development and that everyone can go through periods of being Bi.I'm not making this up. Just something to ponder before you continue to
speak out against anyone who isn't straight. I'm sure if many "straight" people
can be honest with themselves, they can probably think of at least one instance
in their life of same gender "curiousity".
The California Marriage Amendment is nothing like the government's oppression of
polygamy in the early days of the LDS Church. Nothing in the Amendment requires
the forfeiture of property for organizations that support homosexuality. It
does not revoke voting rights for those who merely believe homosexuality is
acceptable. It doesn't even require that those who are homosexual abandon those
loving relationships under threat of imprisonment. That is what the government
did to the polygamists of the 1800's.All the Amendment does is set
in stone something that was once written in the hearts of the people --that
marriage is between male and female. It doesn't oppress, it preserves. There IS a difference.
Lets see here...D&C 134:9 We do not believe it just to mingle
religious influence with civil government, whereby one religious society is
fostered and another proscribed in its spiritual privileges, and the individual
rights of its members, as citizens, denied.
I suppose I will take comfort in the fact that at least at this juncture the
Christian community isn't likely to exert their influence through inquisitions,
crusades and pogroms. Talk about suffering under an ideology.
To @ Alex:"I would love to see you try to say that to someone's face
. . . sad fact is you, like all true homophobes (and by true I mean the real
definition of HATING gay peopel) lack the courage to do anything other than post
anonymously on this web site. "True homophobe, huh? A friend I
studied with for many, many hours in college was gay. That's right, gay! And
you know what, he came to my wedding reception after he came out because I
invited him. I invited him because he is my friend and always will be. I told
him that while I couldn't approve of his homosexual sex, he would always be my
friend. So this accusation of being a true hater is a big joke. There is no
anonymity about my association with homosexuals.
Again the gays refuse to anwers the question.what are the children
entitled to?Are they entitle to moather and father.The
questions are simple.And by the way man was created in separate
creation from the animals and was given dominion over them.Besides
how can one justify one's actions by using animals. That the weakest
justification I have heard so far.Just gays grasping at straws.
The appalling thing about this is the twisted logic the Court used. It (a
majority Republican panel) said that marriage must be allowed between homosexual
couples because the civil union statutes already allowed essentially the same
rights. In other words, the California legislature let the Camel's nose in the
tent so far, that the whole camel must now be let in. Civil union statutes will
now be used as a sword in order to compel recognition of gay marriage.
kathryn:"We can be compassionate and Christ-like and not condemn
anyone, without changing our personal standards. This is such a sensitive
subject and I'm glad I'm not the one who will have to judge. All of the
mud-slinging and unkind rhetoric help none of us. "Are our
convictions only Christ-like if they do nothing? How can maintaining our
standard and letting it be known be anything but compassionate and
Christ-like?The only way that the gay marriage lobby will ever
consider us Christ-like is if we give up our principles for them. They would
then congratulate us for our enlightenment, sweep us away like useful idiots who
have served their purpose, then move on. They are trying to
manipulate your compassion by trying to convince you it is only Christ-like if
your stands are compatible with their agenda. I have nothing to prove as far as
my compassion goes. I have never treated a homosexual any different than a
heterosexual. I am not beholden to the same-sex marriage supporters to prove
"me, me, me. I'm compassionate too."
Oh, how those who promote the Abominable sexual crime and try to
foist it on our children and America hate to be exposed for what they're really
doing. They cannot stand light and truth. Every truth written about
homosexuality is branded as hate. Permissiveness is not love! Teaching the
difference between right and wrong is love and exposing evil falsehoods is every
No I meant sentient in the context of "conscious thought". I am ascribing this
to humans because we can actually overcome impulse by concious thought.As for equal rights. It is not part of the argument. I believe all are equal,
I also believe in the republic of which I am a part. I beleive that I can act
outside of my impulse to procreate with every girl I meet, to live a monogomous
relationship and procreate. I do not however believe that homosexuality is
natural but an aberration in nature.
Brigham Young said that when we would no longer listen to the Lord, then He
would preach His own sermons. Don't you think he's already started? Look at the
hurricanes, the floods, the earthquakes, etc. We've already started hitting the
I would love to see you try to say that to someone's face . . . sad fact is you,
like all true homophobes (and by true I mean the real definition of HATING gay
peopel) lack the courage to do anything other than post anonymously on this web
We are witnessing the unraveling of the moral fabric of society. Every
year a new crop of fools comes on. They conceive themselves to be so clever
they think they can beat the system (Gods laws). They snatch goods from natures
store and run (Break Gods commandments), but one by one they all come back and
pay the price in blood and sweat and tears. Children of God should control
their urges and passions. That the effort involved dignifies and ennobles has
been recognized by the world's great thinkers. Dante, for example, put it this
way: "Consider your origin; you were not formed to live like brutes, but to
follow virtue and knowledge." By cunning deception the alternate lifestyle
people are pretending to preserve their so-called right of homosexuality, but
there is no such right.. We all have a right to do good, but not to do evil.
There is no right to do evil. No one has a right to murder, steal, lie, or blow
up a school room full of children. We all have the agency to do hideous evils,
but there is no such right!! Freedom cannot exist without obedience to Gods
The problem that I see with the marriage amendment is not that gays can
marry...(I don't care if they do or not)...but rather, this will ultimately end
up making church leaders guilty of hate crimes if they have the audacity to
preach that homosexuality is a sin. If you don't believe me, it's already
happening in Canada and Europe. The Gen'l Authorities will not be allowed to
use the airwaves to televise their addresses to church members because they'll
be policed for any supposed discrimination. It is a slippery slope. It's not
against gays...it's to protect the church from what is to come.
All this gay living stems out of..flower power,hippy living,one with nature and
mountain..etc and it has no substance to anything that makes sense,we are not
animals we are a higher being created in gods image and at times we degrade
ourselves by imitating the beast of the field.Anything of the flesh is not
lasting no matter how much you want to justified the course.
We are ripening for destruction... Whether it be some "natural" force, or
otherwise, I think the morality ship is sinking. And unfortunately, I think
we're all going down! Hold on... It's going to be a bumpy ride. If you thought
high gas prices hurt, wait until our society is given a real wake up call...
As a man sows so shall he reap. So if one sows homosexual acts what does
he/she reap? Some of the fruits of homosexuality are: broken lives, broken
homes, broken families, broken hearts, guilt, insensitivity, injured self
esteem, broken societies, ruined nations, enslavement, loss of freedom, fire and
brimstone on whole cities, destruction, no posterity, disease, rejection of God
and moral laws, sickness, death, self rejection, spiritual blindness, insanity,
troubled minds, twisted moral values, no real joy or happiness, wasted time,
suicide, faulty reasoning, idiotic rationalizations, child abuse, hate, out of
control life, public nuisance, rape, bad example, lack of self control, etc.
Not one positive thing comes from homosexuality. So why would any rational,
intelligent person participate in and promote this horrible sex crime? Why
would a sane, sensible, child of God royally mess up his life and others with
this is semantics, but i think you are thinking of the word "sapient"- you have
the meaning of sentient wrong.in any case, we will probably never
agree, because i believe in equal rights for everyone. time will tell what will
happen, but i have a feeling that eventually same sex marriage will be protected
by the u.s. constitution, and no, that world will not end because of it.
I do find it interesting that usually in gay relationships, there is always a
male/female type. Why do they try to copy heterosexual relationships? Because
what they are doing is mixed up???
How odd that a group of people, the Mormons, who suffered under govt. are using
govt. to deny other people the right to be happy. How odd.What
hypocracy. I guess once you get a little taste of power you soon corrupt
yourself to take away other people's rights.Mormons trying to
dictate what others can and cannot do, though the people being zapped are of no
threat to anyone. Hmmmmmmmmm. What was that quote about absolute power
I am LDS and have a cousin who is gay and has been in a relationship for about
20 years now. Do I love him? Absolutely. Do I reach out to him to keep in
countact? Yes. Does he answer? No. I have never brought up the subject of my
belief's and tried to talk about anything other than family. It's not always
the religious side that cutes people off. They are not comfortable with us. If
there is nothing wrong with how they are living their lives, why do they cut
So why do we have homosexual mania raging in America? It is because we
have corrupted our political laws and thus opened the floodgates of immorality
and evil. Why have we corrupted our political laws? It is because a criminal
conspiracy, a secret combination of evil schemers have bought off the congress,
the executive branch, the judicial branch, the military, the FBI, the CIA, the
media, and academia etc. These rich men own the military industrial complex,
the Federal Reserve, the drug companies the oil companies and nearly all the
major corporations. They own the CFR, which is the shadow government that runs
our nation. They have and are deliberately promoting every immorality (drugs,
homosexuality, adultery, pornography, dishonesty, abortion, unjust warfare,
etc.). They have indeed planned the moral collapse of America. They could only
do this by corrupting our laws and thus legalizing crime and immorality. They
call good evil and evil good. They have to destroy our morals before they can
enslave us. Fools mock the importance of morality, but they shall mourn. The
judgments of God are staring us in the face and the ax will fall if this
I said homosexuality simply gratifies a desire to procreate. It has no natural
result other than fullfilling a physical impulse to gratify themselves. Thus
those born with the inclination to homosexuality are an aboration if they act on
the impulse and do not procreate. I did not say homosexuality does not exist in
Animals are not capable of reason within the context of consciousness. They
reason on the natural instinct to survive and procreate. I (a sentient animal)
decide how to improve my lifestyle, interact with nature, attempt to control my
desitination all out of a concious effort. Your meaning of sentient
is out of context.
You know what? This is an issue that is a matter of faith for LDS. Others will
disagree with the Prophet, but it's really not appropriate for us to have such
contention in our hearts. We can be compassionate and Christ-like and not
condemn anyone, without changing our personal standards. This is such a
sensitive subject and I'm glad I'm not the one who will have to judge. All of
the mud-slinging and unkind rhetoric help none of us.
You missed the point. Whoever he was or whatever his religion has
nothing to do with the LDS faith, and if he is a member and is guilty he will
likely be excomminicated.Second. Small population or large
population it does not matter. It still goes against the laws of nature
(particularly to continue the species - procreation). Homosexuality can not
reproduce.Osama Bin Laden is a Muslim. Therefore, with your
fallacious logic one could conclude that all Muslims kill people living in
towers in New York. I am stating to you unequivocally your logic is fallacious.
I can no more accept that because a Mormon was involved with the murder of a
young the Mormon church condones it, any more than I can accept that because OBL
ordered attacks on New York, the Muslim faith condones murder.
I wish that gay people could be open minded and stop trying to discriminate
against straight people. They are all perverse in there logic in the first
place but still should have compasion and love towards people that do not agree
with their life style.
wow, if this is "religion" and you people are a product of it, i want no part of
it. and by the way, whoever said all of the hate is coming from the pro-equal
rights side, you need to go back and read the last 6 pages of comments again.
One thing about California is that if someone leaves a child in a carseat on a
hot day, they are charged with child endangerment at the very least. I believe
that people are born gay, but the majority of us are heterosexual, so the human
race is in no danger of dying out. In fact, a recent study showed that the more
sons a mother has, the greater chance there is that the youngest boys will be
gay. I know that's the case in my extended family as I have at least one uncle
who is gay.
"Animals are not sentient beings"animals are in fact capable of
feeling and sensation, or do you not know the meaning of the word "sentient"?2nd, animals (and humans for that matter) are 'of nature', so if it
occurs in the natural world, it IS a manifestation of nature.
Having been a member of the LDS Church, all the way through law school, I was
constantly ridiculed in the same fashion. My answer has always been, I can
always stop smoking, start fornicating, start drinkig, but when can I stop. I
have chosen to accept my individuality in the context that my life is eternal. I
don't have to follow the herd off the end of the cliff simply because they want
to. In matters of personal lifestyles, I can live as I wish, but that does not
have to mean my choice is not a sin. I don't blindly follow the Prophet, I
accept that he is the Prophet and therefore draw conclusions to that end and
either accept it beyond my personal inclination or knowledge or reject.
Hmmmmm, let's look at the tone of the comments here:Opposed to gay
marriage commentators - open, easy, concerned or even fearful, willing to listen
for the most part despite disagreement with the opposition. In favor
of gay marriage comments - hateful, intolerant, agressive "if you don't agree
with me I will shout you down" mentality, ad hominen attacks, ridicule,
unwilling to hear any argument other than an 'OK'.Pretty clear to me
that the accused haters are, in fact, operating from a base of love and that the
self-proclaimed tolerance crowd is operating from a base of hate.Yet
one more example of calling good evil and evil good.I live in
Massachusetts and the consequences of losing this battle are scary. Our Supreme
Court also now agrees that the State knows better what our kids need to learn
than do we parents.The gay activists would love for us to believe
marriage is all they want. This is only the beginning - in England, Canada &
Scandanavia it's now illegal to preach against homosexuality because it's 'hate
speech'.You can join the fight now or wait to fight it in your
living room. Choose wisely.
After all the dust has settled, marriage in California will be back to where it
belongs - between a man and woman. I predict this letter being read to the
California ward members will cause a huge swell of effort to put down this gay
marriage mistake and set it right. The family and especially the kids will be
winners and the losers ...well all those who care more for their own political
agenda's. I am very pleased that the General Authorities of the LDS church
decided to step in and take a stand and make the influence of the California LDS
community a mighty force for change on this critical issue.
If you belive the bible, we were created separate from nature and
have dominion over it.What are the children entitled to?OR do you belive it is your choice to inflict upon them whatever you see fit?
Homosexuality was not equated to murderers, wife abusers and child molesters in
the sense that they are equal. The writer was simply stating that to him, sin is
sin and to accept homosexuality (the sin) would be tantamount to accepting other
sins such as murder, wife beating, and pedophilia.Whether or not a
person is a loving homosexual or not is of no relevance. It is either a sin or
it isn't without regard to the traits of the actor.Again I can be a
lover of dogs, butterflys, roller coaster rides, and mountain climbing, but hate
cats. It doesn't make cat hating right.You need to determine if
homosexuality is a sin or not. Don't dress it up. Is it a sin? Then draw your
arguments as to why it is or is not a sin.
Yes, his name was Russell Henderson and he was a member. No, I don't believe
Homosexuality is a sin against the laws of God, because I believe Man created
God to suit his own purposes, and the Bible is a product of that. And All are
Not Homosexual, are they? Homosexuals throughout history have always existed
and been a small minority of the population so I wouldn't worry too much about
mankind dying out.
What are your children entitled to? An enlightened, intelligent, open minded,
love thy neighbor as thy self, accepting, loving household? Or by your own
selfishness, a hateful, bigotted, un christ like, arrogant household, that
teaches that it is ok to try and make others do what is right, as long as you
believe it is right. That teaches it is ok to hate people because they are
different and not allow someone their GOD GIVEN RIGHT to make their own choices!
By your own selfishness please, corrupt your children, my partner and I will
get married, adopt a child who will love and accept people for who they are,
instead of being afraid and hating them. He will grow up to be an outstanding
member of society and we will love him and know that we raised him the best we
knew how! And your children, and grand children will learn a thing or two from
To "re Which Way America":"To equate Gay People who love each other
and want to make their union legal with Murderers, Wife Abusers and Child
Molesters is utterly appalling. "I will do it to your face. It is
equal to Wife Abuse and Child Molestation. Only Murder is worse.
Animals are not sentient beings. They act out of impulse. To state that there
are exhibits of homosexuality in the animal kingdom and to conclude that because
of that homosexuality is natural is a fallacious conclusion.Nature
has two demands. Procreation and Protection of life. Given the premise that
nature demands reproduction, to attempt sex within gender would produce no
offspring. Therefore homosexuality is id direct oppostion to the laws of nature.
One may claim that the homosexual act may provide personal
gratification. But can never say it is natural.Whether a person is
born that way or not is of no consequence. It is an aboration in nature.
I thought is was Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.
To any LDS out there who get intimidated when the gay lobby ridicules you, I
want to remind you that they would ridicule you anyway. They can't help it.
Don't you understand that if you are a firm LDS believer that nothing you do
will never be enough? When will you finally understand that you
will never be open-minded enough for them? You will never be worthy of anything
above pity at best, or contempt and hate at worst. If you are always searching
for a Sally Field moment (Remember when she cried while accepting an Oscar,
"They like me! They really like me!") then you will always be disappointed.
Now is the time to be comfortable in your own skin and convictions
and look straight into the eye of the person with the finger of scorn pointed at
you and stand with the truth. I stand with the brethren, and I
sleep well at night. I've never treated homosexuals poorly, and I owe the
public education system, the secular progressives, and the homosexual lobby
nothing for it either.
To equate Gay People who love each other and want to make their union legal with
Murderers, Wife Abusers and Child Molesters is utterly appalling. Don't tell us
about morality when you clearly lack it yourself.
Or..To hell with the rest of the world. You cannot see any harm
coming to those people because you feel normal using your left hand. You were
anxious and on edge the whole time you only used your right hand. This is what
you are - left handed. If the world doesn't accept you because of it, well, you
are still much happier, more relaxed, and, yes, joyous than when you were
guarding against offending those who feel that your left handedness is evil.
I don't know if one of Matthew Sheperd's killers was a "member of a certain
Utah-based religion" or not. But to assert anything other than a man was killed
by some brutal and sick people, or to infer that members of such a religion kill
gays is pretty ridiculous.Everyone ask yourself the question: IS
HOMOSEXUALITY A SIN AGAINST THE LAWS OF GOD?If you answer yes then
you need to defend the law of God under which this value is predicated. To not
do so means that you lack faith and conviction with regard to God and his
laws.If you answer no then you need defend the the attack against
those who live the lifestyle or you lack faith and conviction in that
lifestyle.Bottom line...quit giving us anectodotal evidence and
trying to draw hard logical conclusions. You break every rule of logic by doing
so.Here is logic: If all are homosexual then we will not procreate.
If we will not have procreate we have no continuance, if we have no continuance
we have broken the law of nature and will therefore doom the world to the
extinction of mankind.
What is at issue is the INSTITUTION of marriage, the standard that is held for
the benefit of all. While not all children will have the ideal home consisting
of both mother and father, we do not give up on the standard that such an
institution maintains. The very hope of it is embodied in that institution for
every child, and for which they are entitled.Man-woman marriage,
including polygamy, has always been about children. Paternity and maternity is
clear and established, and grounds the child in biological and emotional
history. It gives them an identity. Same-sex marriage is exclusive of these and
social documentation (for both homo and hetero) will reflect that ambiguousness
when marriage and birth records respectively state: "Applicant A, Applicant B"
and "Parent A, Parent B". But, the FACT is that every single child
has one father and one mother. It's a natural law that has never changed over
all the differing civilizations and schools of thought. Our children deserve the
facts and laws based on those facts. It will free them up to live the life we
may not have had--but we at least had hope enough not to let go of the
So anyone who rejects the "abominable and detestable crime against nature"
is a member of "the holier than thou crowd". How interesting. Therefore anyone
who is against murder, forced robbery or child porn is also a member of "the
holier than thou crowd"? Of course murders, wife beaters and child molesters
just want acceptance and they are born that way and can do nothing about it so
don't discriminate against them by throwing them in jail because if you are
against this type of crime you are intolerant, bigoted, discriminating and
filled with hate and there should be hate laws passed to silence your freedom of
speech. Now for my view: 1. No one should unjustly injure, harm or hate
homosexuals period. Everyone should unconditionally love them. 2.
Homosexuality is an enemy of freedom, the family, the society and life. 3.
Homosexuality is not a God given right protected by the Constitution. It is an
abominable sex crime. 4. Homosexuality is being heavily pushed, promoted and
financed by the New World Order insiders for the express purpose of destroying
the morals of the rising generation so the PTB can enslave us. 5. They cannot
enslave a moral people.
why doesn't mayor Rocky admit he is gay? We all know he is. He should get
married to Rosie Odonald. That would be a great marriage. And it would be just
what you gay people want. A Gay person married to a Gay person. Sweet!! we got
this thing solved!!
Studies also show that Jewish children achieve much better than any other
religious group. We should pass a law that only Jews can have children, because
each child deserves only the best!
Thank you for your comment. It means more comming from someone who ACTUALLY is
in the middle of the situation instead of standing on the sidelines.I've read these posts and other posts on this topic and it makes me realise
that it must be nice to be LDS. Just check your brain at the baptismal font and
let some total strangers in Salt Lake do all the thinking for you. Follow
blindly, there are no grey areas, just black and white. No accountability for
not doing something, all you have to say is "The Prophet said" or "The Prophet
didn't say to..." or "Can I have some more Grape Kool-Aid?" and all is well, all
is well.Makes me glad I am no longer a member. Now I can think for
myself. As for the rest of time and all eternity, I'll put my faith in God. I
know I'll get a fair judgement from Him. Something I'll never see from my
fellow man here on Earth.
Your anecdotal analysis of the LDS adherents that have posted on this site can
not strictly be itnerpreted into "a lot of you Mormons are sick puppies". From a
long distance dog food looks like stew but a closer analysis reveals that it is
in fact dogfood and not stew.As for "clearly Mormon gay young men
killing themselves" another weak analysis. In Utah the vast majority of the
people are LDS. Do they claim to have committed suicide because of the tenets of
the LDS faith? Could they be committing suicide because their support structure
was lacking? Could they have committed suicide because of other reasons? Could
they have committed suicide because they could not reconcile their choice with
the tenets of their faith?If you claim the Church is a "pathetic
excuse for a church and a religion", certainly you have a reasons but none of
the arguments you provided are logical reasons. Please simply state
that no matter what the LDS church says, you will hate it because you don't like
the LDS church. Then at least we can accept you are an antagonist. Unless of
course you accept homosexuality. Then that is another discussion.
actually, homosexuality is natural--- there are many animals that exhibit both
homosexual and bisexual behaviors. so saying "it's unnatural" is just flat out
Those who use the term "gay lifestyle" immediately show their ignorance on the
topic of homosexuality. This term is laced with prejudice and assumption. At
this point, my gay son doesn't associate with any gays other than his partner.
He doesn't know any. He goes to work, pays his taxes, he goes to school, tries
to find some hope and joy in life and goes out and does the same thing the next
day. That is his "gay lifestyle". He knows where close-minded people want him
and his friend. My son was born gay and will die gay. Those who talk of
"changing gay people" need to ask themselves if they could be talked out of
their heterosexuality by well-meaning, "knowing" people. Whether you want to
believe it or not in your ignorance, most gay people do not choose to be gay.
So are children entitlesd to mother AND father or not?The question
is simple.Would gays please answer and stop your hateful rhetoric to
anyone or any group who disagrees with you. It is rather pathetic.
"So gays what are children entitled to?Are they entitle to mother
AND father or not?OR by your selfishness are they only only entitled
to whatever decide to dump on them?"In a ideal society,
children would have both parents, aunts, uncles, grandmas and grandpas and lots
of friends and cousins.But we live in a country where most of the
people having children are NOT even marrying the father. People are living
together and having children and then breaking up, moving in with someone else
and having more children. BUTWe, as a country have
NEVER told anyone that they cannot procreate. It has always been a personal
choice. If we start taking children from homes without a father and a mother,
what have we become as a society. You cannot tell gays not to adopt children
(that they really want, by the way) without telling the rest of society who can
have children. Studies show that children are better off with older
parents. Should we tell people to wait before having children because it is
better for the child? See how controlling this issue can get when you start to
tell people what they can do?
When the prophet speaks,we know who is talking! The prophet is pleading to
the state(people)of california to stop legalising this practice and i believe
when the prophet personally urges people to stop this practice then it will be
well with them to STOP!.
Tree of life:Thank you, and Amen.
Reading the nasty comments here against gay people, is anyone surprised one of
Matthew Shepherd's killers was a member of a certain Utah-based religion?
Hey look across that filthy river...all those people look so happy. Their
divorce rate is down (YBU, Divorce), they love each other more than what we are
seeing in natural marriages (BCA), they smile a lot, look at us as if we are
fools for not accepting the great lifestyles they live....man what am I to do.
Oh yeah, HOLD TO THE ROD!!!! Wake up folks...quit making excuses for
the sinner. Teach the law, live the law, protect the law, and love the sinner.
Like a dove with a sharp sword.
to BCAI would love to have you for a parent. There are times that a
parent must let his child go and be whatever he is going to be and still love
him and support him. My mother was such a person. She lived her religion like
no other, but still would talk to me about my worries and joys without any
condemnation, bless her soul. If I could have become what she wanted me to be,
for her, I would have, but it would have been lying to myself and to everyone
else. Believe me, it is much harder to be true to yourself and live a life that
is honest than to please your family, church and society in this pretty, great
Sorry, but a lot of you Mormons are really sick puppies. Many of you on this
board defended the FLDS child rapists, but somehow think two gay people getting
married poses a threat. Good moral priorities!And I just love the
juxtaposition of the Mormon persecution complex with the Mormon desire to impose
truly stupid religious beliefs on society at large.Well, all I can
say is it will further cement the view of many outsiders that Mormons, like
German Nazis, persecute gay people. And don't claim you don't kill gays. You do
too. Just look at the regular obits in the Trib and DNews that are pretty
clearly gay Mormon young men who committed suicide because their families perfer
religious doctrine to Christ-like humanity.What a pathetic excuse
for a church and a religion.
The California State Supremen Court did not rule same sex marriage was legal.
They simply stated that Proposition 22 was not constitutional because it was a
change in the current marriage law (not a change to the Constitution).
Proposition 22 The current effort is actually a change to the
Contstitution which the Court's cannot change. Additionally, California's State
Supreme Court is by majority strict Constitutionalists (and by majority a
conservative court). The ballot measure has generated enough signatures to get
on the ballot. My understanding is there are those out there trying to get a
counterproductive measure on the ballot or trying to get our extremely liberal
legislators to change the constitution by fiat.
So gays what are children entitled to?Are they entitle to mother AND
father or not?OR by your selfishness are they only only
entitled to whatever decide to dump on them?
Maybe we didn't hear about the Church and their stance in Canada or wherever
else because it wasn't reported in the news. THings happen all the time around
the world that we here in Utah don't hear about... get off the Church's back!
If I oppose the mormon church and all they stand for I'm a bigot and that's bad.
BUT if I oppose homosexuality I'm a bigot and that's good? How do you people
rationalize this garbage? Guess it takes practice ignoring the beam for the
Excellent point! WHY didn't the LDS church do the same thing in Canada? Or
Mass.? How about the New York situation? Didn't hear a word then either.I'm curious to see what excuses the apololgists will use to excuse the
church's selective actions.
Someone must stand and be counted. Marriage is a Judeo-Christian invention to
provide an environment for procreation. If others want to have a legal
relationship let them, but don't call it marriage. Catholics and Mormons agree,
now it's time for others to defend marriage.
Look...if homosexuality is a sin, then it should not be dressed in any other
fashion. Quit trying to make it sound like to hate a sin is a sin. If I am an
adulterer I am a sinner no matter how nice or Christlike I may be.Either accept the fact that it is a sin (as stated by our Prophets) or create
your own version of what is a sin and take that to God for your own direction on
what to do in this case. Use your wisdom and tongue to seek to change the will
of God.As for charity. To not accept and preach the folly of the sin
lacks eternal charity. If my son were to be living that lifestyle and I were not
actively emersed helping him out of that sin, I would lack all charity,love and
Divorce is down in Canada too.
SVB,Shame on you, if you sire lots of children and then leave them
fatherless. Shame on you if you deny yourself fatherhood and abandon the
children you were to have in a natural natural heterosexual relationship. In
other words, two wrongs don't make a right. Abandoning children is
wrong just like homosexuality is wrong. Neither is right or justified.As for your question about how homosexual marriage will take away from your
marriage. Hopefully it won't, because hopefully there will never be such a
thing. Your relationship with your wife may not change no matter how marriage
is defined, but by redefining marriage we will have destroyed what marriage
means. Yes, people have children out of wedlock, people have sex with multiple
partners, people do a lot of things that I would not want to be defined as
marriage because it destroys what marriage is intended for. Homosexual relationships can not sire children for a reason. They are not
intended to have children. Again, I understand how people who should not have
kids have kids, but how does this wrong justify the wrong of redefining marriage
and family. It doesn't! It remains wrong. Marriages, families, & children
I support the California Constitutional Ammendment! For those who disagree with
the LDS Church, or have disagreements us, go ahead and use your political power
to fight against the ammendment instead of whining about the LDS Church
intervening? Afraid that we might acutally win this battle? Reformed Utahn I am
both sorry and at the same time NOT sorry you have left the Church. I support
the LDS Church and other religious denominations, civic organizations and
citizens in opposing the Californication Supreme Court ruling. So if you pro gay
agenda types want to influcence the vote, make your case!
Nice thought, The Botanizer, but MA has had same sex marriage for a couple years
now. Interestingly, the sky hasn't fallen and the divorce rate is down. ;>
It isn't "gay Marriage", the correct term is "same sex marriage. Why the
distinction? Because, if two people who are Bisexual (but just so happen to be
of the same gender) marry it would be wrong to call it a "gay marriage" as the
couple isn't gay, they're Bi. So this is why it is and should be refered to as
"same sex marriage" only.
Same-Gender Attraction"We believe that marriage between a man and a woman
is ordained of God. We believe that marriage may be eternal through exercise of
the power of the everlasting priesthood in the house of the Lord. "People
inquire about our position on those who consider themselves so-called gays and
lesbians. My response is that we love them as sons and daughters of God. They
may have certain inclinations which are powerful and which may be difficult to
control. Most people have inclinations of one kind or another at various times.
If they do not act upon these inclinations, then they can go forward as do all
other members of the Church. If they violate the law of chastity and the moral
standards of the Church, then they are subject to the discipline of the Church,
just as others are.
Arguments like those of AWB remind me of Korihor. Even though he knew in his
heart what was correct, he fought against it and was struck dumb by God. This
was quite an event for a proud, sophisticated attorney. Well, I am an attorney
and I still support the will of God and will stand up for it. We do not hate
homosexuals, we hate the act, which is an abomination to God. Do not put your
own words into what we say or believe. You know not what you talk about.
Would God recognize the marriage between a man and a robotic woman?
"No one is born Gay. We are all born capable of being heterosexual"You know this because???Even Pres Hinckley stated that he did NOT
know if homosexuals were born that way. I am glad that you are sooo much more
enlightened than he was.
Thank God California has a record of setting new and better standards and laws
for the country.....Think emissions standards for cars, California set
them.....It looks like equality for gay men and women will begin in California
and spread out from there.
Why didn't the church fight in the United Kingdom and in Canada to keep gay
marriage out. Why only the USA? Don't the children and families in these
countries count? Why the silence when Norway and South Africa adopted gay
marriage? Why didn't the church invest money and time in fighting legislation
in these countries?
This issue brings out the bad side of most LDS. As an LDS father of a gay man
who lives with his partner in our home, I can easily say my son shows more
Christ-like characteristics than do most other men. If men treated their wives
the way my son treats his partner, the divorce rate would not be near the 50%
that it is. The same-sex marriage issue turns LDS people into
rabid, self-righteous, hate mongers. If you don't think so, re-read the posts
in this thread looking for any semblance of charity.
Equal rights already exist.We are born male or female.No
one is born Gay. We are all born capable of being heterosexual. The
development of sexual organs occurs later, at puberty (not birth), and
development of sexual organs are in accordance with our gender.Free
agency to make choices is given to all.Anyone can therefore choose
to be Gay, again proving that homosexuality is a perversion of natural sexuality
and not an in-born trait.Marriage is already defined--as being
between a man and a woman.If "gay bashing" means telling it like it
is, then these facts condemn the lifestyle, I don't. If you steal
something, you are a thief. You can claim you were born with that
predisposition. You can say that society is intolerant of you and shouldn't
call you a thief because you couldn't help yourself. Or maybe we will just
define you as a clepto, but by redefining the wrong we make it okay for you to
be a thief and now we redefine ownership, too. Around you, who owns anything.
Why don't we give everyone the right to do what they want and call it what they
want: cheat, lie, kill. THIEF!
This is not a matter of judgment. I am not about hating one group or another. I
don't hate my child when they act outside the family tenets at home, I just know
it is not going to benefit them or the home community if he/she does. Therefore, quit trying to make this an issue of judgement. It is a sin. It is
not natural. It is wrong. Therefore we should actively pursue its demise or
acceptance. To not do so we simply condone it and then we accept it and then we
have perveted the God given act of procreation.As for me and my
house we will serve the Lord.
Richard G. I will feel no guilt whatsoever in promoting hatred against the
Mormon church.What a perversly bigoted and hateful statement. Its
called in current times, "Hate Speech" Do you Hate Jews that take the same
position? Do you Hate Catholics with the same position? Do you Hate Blacks
that take the same position? Or is this just one more way you can justify your
Hate for Mormons. Pick your bigotry, its the same bigotry any where in the
Separate but equal is not equal! Civil Unions are not equal. My company gives
partner health benefits but that does not apply to my pension. If I were to die
first the state and my employer does not automatically recognize inheritance
rights. We have had legal papers drawn up @ great personal expense. Still, not
all the rights and yes, responsibilities of a marriage are provided to us.
Marriage will happen and it will be accepted (some day) in Utah.
These discussions tend to generate a lot more heat than light but I hope I can
get a honest answer to an honest question.There are any number of
things that the Church teaches are contrary to its moral code but they don't get
involved in promoting legislation in support of their views.Does the
Church feel that they will be threatened somehow by the widespread adoption of
gay marriage or is it purely a desire to promote their moral view?
For the life of me I can not see how allowing my lesbian (and really nice)
neighbors (who are watching my house as I travel) the right to marry will
somehow erode marriage for the rest of us. I marry because I love, and I love a
woman. They love and love a woman also. How does this destroy my marriage bond?
Is it going to dissolve my love of my wife, somehow, my desire for her? Can
someone please tell me? The inherent rights of marriage are rights
of inheritance, medical rights, social security rights, etc. Why is granting gay
people these rights of protection and support erosive of the rights of straight
marriage? Oh, you think it is a choice. That by choosing gayness, it
is a thumb in the eye of society? What about the straight guy who sires lots of
children in a marriage and then leaves them fatherless and in poverty? Is this
better than a gay marriage. Defend this!
You are wholly wrong. The practice of homosexuality in my family would deprive
me of offspring. Therefore my analogy wherein I compared it to murder is
entirely correct. This is a battle not so different than that of Capitan Moroni
(for those of you who believe the Book of Mormon). The value is
purity/morality. Obedience to that tenet is of extreme importance. President
Monson didn't just say "Oh go about your business and accept the destruction of
a sacred ordinance/covenant/act". He said use your time and resource to battle
it. I now personally wave my rent cloak in support of that statement and
challenge all others of like mind to do the same.Apathy condones.
Active pursuit conquers.As for me and my house we will serve the
Hmmm... let me see. We have our freeagency. That was God's plan yes? So, if
we can't have a law that defines marriage because it will take away our
freeagency, then why in the heck do we have laws to keep us from murdering,
stealing, etc. Don't these laws also take away my freeagency? Get real people.
Freeagency is important, but having rules and guidelines are also as valuable.
Didn't God give us rules and guidelines when he gave us the Ten commandments?
Do the Ten Commandments take away our freeagency? I don't think so.
The new boogey man, scape goat, excuse for all the wrongs in our society. So much easier to just blame others for whats wrong than to accept our
part (i.e. who you voted for time and again because of the letter beside their
name) in the way society is heading.
The greatest concern not only the LDS church, but most churches have, is the
fact that once you legalize Homosexual marriages you essentially say their union
is no different than a hetrosexual couples in the eyes of the law. In other
words, when adoption agencies look for couples to place a child with they can no
longer choose a traditional mother/father household over a homosexual household
or they will get their butts sued. When a child is put up for adoption,
traditionally that child is placed with a traditional mother/father household,
because THAT is natural and is traditional and religiously established. With
the legalization of homosexual marriages, the state (especially California) will
begin to favor homosexual couples in order to "equalize" and therefore
discriminate against traditional marriages in the adoption process thus
dipriving children of a true mother/father relationship, one that makes sense by
nature and is ordained by God. Affirmative action mindset will now seep its way
into the adoption process and reverse discrimination ensue. Just wait, it will
happen and probably already is in California.
So, following your line of reasoniong, why hasn't Mass. been burned to a cinder?
Or Canada? Or South Africa? Or the United Kingdom? If fire was
God's way of punishing the world for doing stuff He disapproved of, the world
would look like an ashtray from the day Eve bit the apple until today.
The fires are mainly in areas where Conservatives live. They are the Republican
strongholds of the state. No West Hollywood fires or San Francisco fires.
I remember (and I paraphrase) President Hinckley stated, with regard to the
Hawaii and California ballots, that according to the tenants of our faith, and
on the basis or morality, homosexuality is a sin. Threfore (this is my
statement) to condone or accept the notion of homosexual marriage in the context
of our faith on the one hand, and then to extricate the sin from the covenant on
the other hand would be in opposition to the tenant. Besides, have you ever
heard the Prophet say, "Thus sayeth the Lord..." in regards to pornography, food
storage, missionary service, etc...Don't parse phrases. The Prophet
said use your time and resources (which are gifts of God...if you believe God
gave them to you) to combat this attack on our most holy covenant. You need to
decide if you will do it or not.As for me and my house we will serve
With all the bad events going on in the world, the LDS church decides to throw
it's political clout behind stopping people who want to be in a commited
relationship with full legal rights.Think about what might have
happened if they encouraged their members to do all they could to stop poverty,
racism, bigotry, helping those who REALLY need a hand especially now and all the
other social ills that are the REAL threats to our country. Aren't there a
couple verses in the same bible that cover doing just that? What? Nobody wants
to acknowledge those?Gay marriage is a nice distration from the REAL
issues that are destroying our country. It's the magician's assistant. It
distracts you from what is going on behind the scenes until it's too late to
notice you've been duped. Shouldn't we expect better from those who
profess to be followers of Christ?
Are we starting to see a little sifting of the wheat from the tares?
Yet to see anyone say why they would vote against the constitution just to limit
the privileges of a few people that you feel do not deserve to marry. If it is
just to obey your prophet, why is he making you go against that inspired
It is not the church that is pulling people apart. It is immoral practices that
are tearing people apart. Why can't anyone take responsibility for their
If refusal to accept the value of the homosexual lifestyle means living on the
fringe of society, I welcome that. As the church becomes more isolated in this
stance there will be more people willing to exist on the fringe with us.
Everyone is asking the wrong question here. They keep asking what would it
hurt. While those issues can be argued ad nauseum with neither side conceeding.
The question that still remains to be answered is what would it improve?
Absolutely nothing! Any benefit gays seek could be, and in many cases already
have been accomplished without marriage. I don't expect any increase in
happiness in the gay community if gay marriage is legalized. If being gay makes
them happy, what does marriage do for them? Make them legitimate in the eyes of
God? I think not.
Understanding the basic beliefs of LDS Church is the first step in understanding
why it would be so important for all members to really make a firm stand in
regards to this decision. We believe in being subject to kings, presidents,
rulers and magistrates, in obeying honoring and sustaining the law. If it were
made law that a marriage between two people of the same sex could legally marry,
then how are we supposed to honor and sustain that law. I have known many
openly gay people, and while I dont agree with the decision they made, it does
not make them any less of a friend or a person that I could count on. The view
is that the action being taken is not in accordance to the laws of God as we
believe them, but that does not mean that the person is a bad and wicked person,
only the choice they have made. But you could say that what it really comes
down to is how can we as a whole Church honor and sustain a law that is the
complete antithesis for the basic beliefs of the LDS faith?
First to all the "enlightened, free-thinking, non-robot, intellectuals" that
condescend with their air of superiority, I have personally learned from
experiences both good and bad, that the only truly enlightened person is
someone that obeys God.Second, when Civil Unions are supported by
most Americans and they can be constructed to give similar rights as marraige,
why then do the gays insist on demanding heterosexual marrage.Answer: follow the gay progression25 years ago--don't bash of hurt
me--OK with me15 to 20 years ago--let us out of the closet and be
treated as others--OK with me5 years ago-- we need civil unions to
secure some basic rights--OK with meNOW--we want to be equal with
normal people in every way and redefine something that has already been defined
by God--nope, now matter how you try to spin it, I am normal, you are not, and
you are abetting the destruction of society.FUTURE--sue churches to
force them to marry them, accuse all opponents of hate crimes (and prosecute if
possible), sue to allow adoptions even if the birth mother disagrees, continue
to erode boy/manboundaries. In short, the ultimate goal of gay activism is
the destruction of Christianity.
If a hunger for liberation destroys morality then immorality will destroy
liberty. The homo faction of evil is proceeding under the fashionable banner
of liberation. Such trends do not a truth but a tragedy make. Deafness to
scriptural history is fatal. The more normal abnormalities seem the less reason
people have to be wary of them. Homosexuals try to normalize immorality so
people will not be wary of it. The more coarse and crude people become, the less
they are aware of it. "To confuse tolerance with permissiveness can be fatal,
since it is like not knowing the difference between a mushroom and a poisonous
toadstool." Evil people are not polite pluralists - they are predators. The
wicked are never tolerant. The hardness that produces insensitivity toward
large-scale abortions and homosexuality will not confine itself to one
expression. The insensitivity will spread, it will find other focal points.
Once society loses its capacity to say firmly that certain things are wrong per
se, then it finds itself forever building temporary defenses, drawing new lines,
falling back further, and losing its nerve. A plea for freedom to sin soon
ends up in a demand for all to si
Marriage was around throughout the world long before Christian missionaries
showed up. Its hardly a product of Judeo-Christian religions.And
don't give me any of that "they learned about it from being descendants of Noah"
bit. Genesis is an allegorical parable with zero supporting evidence and a
mountain of evidence against it.
I doubt it will even make the ballot. There is a great article in Metropolitan
News-Enterprise.THE LEGAL COMMUNITYElection Law: How One
Legally Might Remove a Ballot Initiative Prior to an Election
. . . For the Lord seeth not as man seeth, man looketh on the outward
appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart. (1 Sam 16:7)People
will be judged by God only. No one can assume that all homosexuals will go to
hell, and the same for homophobics, racists, and EVERY ONE ELSE. We will all be
judged for who we were and what we did on earth. NO ONE will be stuck in a
group. We will all be judged individually.I am standing up for God,
for my religion, and for myself. And I ain't going about it quietly, either.
Scott,Please provide a reference for the "growing body of evidence
supporting a genetic basis for homosexuality".A clue: There isn't
any. Quite the contrary. All studies point away from any genetic and unlikely
biological evidence for same-sex attraction. Rather, it points to a
developmental disorder.When you find a male twin who is gay, there
is only a 50% chance his identical twin is also gay. Their genetics are
identical. You can hardly think of a better study situation than this.
When Alaska had a "no gay marriage" on the ballot, I spoke against it, based on
the writings of Pres. McKay:To deprive an intelligent human being of
his free agency is to commit the crime of the ages. To every man is given an
inherent power to do right or to do wrong. In this he has free agency. He may
choose the right and obtain salvation, or he may choose evil and merit
abomination."Unwise legislation, too often prompted by political
expediency, is periodically being enacted that seductively undermines man's
right of free agency, robs him of his rightful libertiesA
fundamental principle of the gospel is free agency, and ... may become a
measuring rod by which the actions of men, of organizations, of nations may be
judged.How could the LDS Church, who suffered so much abuse by those
opposed to plural marriage now seek to do the same to gays? Support for the
Alaska amendment was from a Regional Rep. and urged "prayerful consideration'
After that prayerful consideration, I opposed the amendment.Since
that time, the judicial climate has changed, and the Prophet has spoken.I support & will be obediant to that Prophet.
"But none of us have the right to redefine marriage, thereby destroying what
marriage is."Society has been redefining itself for centuries and it
has proven to have been for the better. We got rid of slavery (and slavery was
approved in the Scriptures), we started treating women like people instead of
property (unlike the "traditional" societies) etc, etc, etc."It
takes a man and a woman to create a child. Every child should have the right to
be born into a family with a mother and a father."But they DON'T
have that right and many children have grown up as orphans."How
great the goodness of our God who set up familial units to have a mother and a
father!"He didn't. Learn some history. During most of "traditional"
society, your average marriage lasted about eleven years before one member of
the couple was DEAD, usually the woman through childbirth. Thats how
"God/nature" made human society and mankind has been desperately trying to
improve the crappy product.
Get your facts straight before you spout off. Your facts are incorrect.
To those concerned that one day gays will insist on being married in the temple,
here's a news flash-we don't want to get married in the temple because we know
the temple is a fraud just like we know the Mormon Church's teaching that God
doesn't love gays for who they are is a fraud! We only want to be allowed to
have civil marriages just as straight people are allowed.
I thought Mormons were all for alternative marital arrangements. Afterall,
church founder Joseph Smith was one the first to introduce the alternative
marital practice of one man marrying a baker's-dozen of underage wives. Then it
was called "spiritual wifery". What's the big deal if two dudes decide to marry.
Or a woman, to several men. Gay marriage can be termed "Spiritual Menery" or
something. There. We're all happy now.
If standing up for whats right creates enemies, so be it. Do you think the
church should cave in to every philosophy of man so they don't make someone
angry?As for being called a bigot. Who cares. Homosexuals throw
that word around so much that it is now meaningless. It's a label that gets put
on anyone who disagrees with them.If your family members are so weak
as to leave because they felt a stigma then they are to blame not the church.
I'll stand for truth no matter what the world thinks.
Do a little research buddy and you will find you are wrong. Do you really
believe every thing you read? Come on.
Your analogy is horribly flawed. Homosexuals are not threatening you or your
children as the murder at your door is.
I want all of you to know that it's the gospel that makes up the church, and not
the people. Some here assume that when they meet a member of the church who is
homophobic perhaps, or in some other way discriminative, that all of the church
members are that way. I can assure you that this is not true.Being
younger, I don't know as much as other people do about this long, drawn out
issue. However, this I do know: agency is there for all. I am so blessed to live
in the United States. But God gave us agency as a test. He knew it would be
hard, so he gave us commandments, guidelines, to help us along the way. Being
homosexual doesn't make someone a bad person. Not in the least! But it doesn't
fit into His plan for us - it wasn't supposed to be that way.To The
Real Tragedy:I'm very sorry for your loss. But keep strong and always look
to God as a friend and teacher. And to Steve: Thank you. I
I wonder if the recent fires in california have anything to do with the laws
that are currently in place for gay marriage?
The Mormon church again is misbehaving in a reprehensible, bigoted manner.This gay bashing by your church must stop.Until it does, I
will feel no guilt whatsoever in promoting hatred against the Mormon church.You reap what you sow, sheep people!
You think that same sex marriage will not affect your life? Talk to those who
felt the same in Mass. They learned real quick when their young children came
home from school saying that boys could marry boys and girls could marry girls,
and there was nothing wrong with it. When the parents asked the school system
about this they were told it was no big deal. The parents asked that if this
was going to be a topic of conversation in the future that they be notified.
The school refused to do so, and said that they did not have to let the parents
know. So, it is OK not to have prayer in school, or talk about the Bible, but
it is OK to teach our children things that we morally do not believe in. Do you
see where this is going? What about the adoption agency that had to close their
doors after having placed hundreds of hard to place children in loving home just
because they did not place children in same sex couples homes. This was a
religious based adoption agency. Think it won't affect you? Think again.
Please someone,help me understand why you would want to vote for something that
goes against the constitution. Why you would think that only the
heterosexuals should have the privileges of marriage other than you think it is
normal and natural and children should have both parents. This is a little late
for that. The horse is out of the barn and now you want to close the door.
Children are born to unwed mothers, homosexuals live as spouses now and have
children that they are raising. Is it just a stand for your beliefs, or is it
trying to punish those who live a different kind of life than what you think
Marriage is between a man and a woman.God created male and female.
Children are born to a man and a woman. The natural order would provide children
with a father and a mother--a family.All the rights of being born a
citizen of America are given to everyone regardless of how we orientate our
sexual preference. Any of us can choose to get married under the definition of
marriage being between a man and a woman. Any of us can choose freedom, liberty,
and the pursuit of happiness and any other equalities granted us.The
only thing under attack here is marriage. Marriage as we know it, if redefined,
will be destroyed. Redefining marriage will not give gays any more rights than
they already have, it will just mean that we, society, accept their actions.
Tolerance is not acceptance. Do what you will but don't force us to accept it on
the same level of moral actions.I unconditionally love everyone, but
I do not unconditionally accept everything they do, and that does not make me
less Christlike, it makes me more Christlike. He loves you for more than you do
yourself. Wanting more for you isn't hate.
How about D&C 1:38? The prophet does not have to say, thus saith the Lord to
have authority from God...What I the Lord have spoken, I have
spoken, and I excuse not myself; and though the heavens and the earth pass away,
my word shall not pass away, but shall all be fulfilled, whether by mine own
voice or by the voice of my servants, it is the same.
"President Monson claims to have received direction from the Savior Himself on
this issue."Please give references to this statement. I have not
heard, "Thus sayeth the Lord." Where did you hear, read this?
It seems to me that the government fining or taking away tax-exempt status from
churches that object to issues involving gay marriage is the true violation of
the separation of church and state. Cases that have occurred involving this are
an extremely dangerous precedent that seem to imply that the government can
force churches to change the exercise of their beliefs.It does seem
though, the government needs to make a solid ruling on what marriage is, and it
should be defined by a majority of the people, and not brought down by the
judiciary. Otherwise, simply stating that it's unconstitutional to define
marriage as between a man and a woman seems to make positions against plural
marriage unjustifiable, or even people marrying animals... obviously there has
to be an agreed upon standard.Also, I don't understand why society
doesn't focus more on changes in hospital and insurance regulations to allow
individuals to designate beneficiaries... it seems like that would solve some of
If the Mormon church really wanted to take a moral stand why don't they renounce
war? Why don't they preach pacifism? Why do they praise the armies of Helaman
and not the parents who actually laid down their arms? War kills, war destroys
families. Yet, they piddle their time on this?
I love how Jesus Christ taught that "the world" hates Him and His Apostles or
disciples. (John 17:14-16) Nothing has changed, God is unchangeable,
so is His Gospel and laws. Just because man changes doesn't mean God did. The
world hated Christ and His message when He was on the earth, they will hate it
today as well. Therefore all the posts that indicate how uneducated or narrow
minded the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is, you are fulfilling
what Jesus spoke of. So, thank you for fighting the kingdom of God on the
earth. It shows that it is true. It is interesting that one thing
that caused the fall of Sodom and Gomorrah was homosexuality, and we are trying
to embrace it as a nation, I pity the fool who is vying for our destruction.
And you wonder why so many bad things are happening right now in the world, they
will get worse.
"But, the most troubling of all is the power that the Supreme Court has to over
turn what the majority wants."Reactionary knuckle-draggers 50 years
ago said the same thing about giving equal rights to blacks.
I think polygamy is just as bad or worse than Gay relationships. The church has
nothing to spout off about on moral conduct. Geez! Look at your LDS history,
folks, and PLEASE don't write back and tell me the Mormon woman were just fine
with the practice of polygamy. I know for a true fact that they were miserable!
I am so tired of all this almighty pious BS!
Who takes marriage advice from a church that esteems leaders and prophets who
had 30-50 wives, married teenagers, disposed of women's living husbands so they
could marry them, intimidated fathers into giving up their daughters under
threat of damnation, and sealed plural marriages for 10 years after their
Manifesto abolishing polygamy?
It will come when the GAs realize that they are allowing the church to be pulled
apart by this issue. Even if there are a small number of gay
members there is a large number of families who have to deal with this issue.
There are marriages that are destroyed when someone who married hoping to deny
that they were gay can't deal with it anymore. Their spouses and children are
pitched into pain and chaos. Parents live with kids who are struggling until
they leave the church or end their misery in violence or self-medicate
themselves into oblivion and addiction. When it comes it will be a
dark day for people who have shored up their consciences with hateful speech and
ideas. But you'll have to change then so perhaps some softening of the hearts
is in order now for the sake of your brothers and sisters who honestly struggle
and for the sake of your own openness to the change that's coming.
Could it be that Mormons are speaking up while they are still able to do so?
Given the growing body of DNA evidence supporting a genetic basis for
homosexuality vs. the nearly conclusive DNA evidence dismissing all claims of
Book of Mormon authenticity, same-sex marriage will certainly be around in the
future. Mormons? Perhaps not.
Empathy and Compassion are not values while mired in ignorance. If a murderer is
at my door and willing to kill my children, I am grabbing a bigger weapon. I am
protecting that which I love and hold dear. I am hopeful that the murderer will
not enter because I will shoot to kill, with love and compassion for my
children.Therefore it is both ignorant and rediculous to hear the
word of Christ on the subject through His duly sustained Prophet and to twist
into something that meets your personal agenda. As for me and my
house we will serve the Lord.
If its "all about the children" then STOP SMOKERS FROM GETTING MARRIED. Children
of smokers are twice as likely to pick up this "lifestyle choice" as children of
non-smokers. Something that kills 400,000 Americans every year. Yet I don't hear
a peep from anyone demanding a law against letting smokers get married.We'll let alcoholics, pedophiles, rapists, drug dealers and convicted murders
get married. NO ONE is out demanding they be prohibited from getting married.
Can anyone show me one sane reason why any of these would be LESS of a threat to
children than a gay couple?
The definition of marriage is as follows:marriage: The institution
whereby MEN and WOMEN are joined in a special kind of social and legal
dependence for the purpose of founding and maintaining a family. (See mr.
Webster)Notice the definition did not say Men and Men or Women and
Women. The pupose is for founding and maintaining a family. Can a Man and a
man found a family? I would like to see that happen by natural means. IT will
not ever happen, god made sure of that. Gay and Lesbians (GL's)
have perverted themselves, they perverted the meaning of the word gay. and now
they want to pervert the family unit. These perverts must be
stopped!!!! GL behavior is WRONG!!!
I'm afraid the Church is simply creating more enemies. As gay marriage becomes
more acceptable in society (and it IS becoming more acceptable) Mormons will
continue to be seen as a "fringe" religion. By encouraging actions
that make members stand out as being "bigoted" and lacking empathy and
understanding, less and less people will be inclined to join.I
already see this problem with my young nieces and nephews. Over half of them
have left the Church mainly because of the stigma they feel that comes along
with being a member. Instead of being an organization they feel "proud" to
belong to, I'm afraid they now feel ashamed.
By not making it a law that states people of the same gender can't marry you are
removing the choice to do so. An act (their marriage) which harms nobody but
the individual (as you and I believe God wouldn't honor such a union, that these
people would still be commiting the sin of fornication).Can you
please tell me how allowing two people of the same gender to marry harms you or
I? How does it directly effect/harm people who stick to God's revelation that
only a man and woman should be doing it?Exactly how is society going
to fall apart if we allow them to marry? Less than 100 years ago many thought
it would be the break down of society if a black person married a white. Has
the allowance and acceptance of inter-racial marriage done that damage? No. So
why should same sex marriages be any different?
Thought #1: Please don't associate the natural with the unnatural. People who
have a heterosexual relationship can bare children. Those who are not can not
bare children. Homosexuality is purely unnatural. Because it is nature to
procreate. The marriage of two people has always been for the purpose of
creating family units. Divorce is a weakness of men not an accepted covenant of
God. A divorce is wrong even though widely accepted. Now to accpet gay marriages
would be another assault on this covenant and term.Thought #2: What
one has to determine for themselves is if they will accept the counsel of
President Thomas S. Monson. President Monson claims to have received direction
from the Savior Himself on this issue. We then have to determine if this
direction is of God or not. One must consider if raising their hand at the last
conference was in full support of the newly called Prophet and mouthpiece of the
Lord or simply a gesture of oneself to fit in with the masses and simply lie in
wait to accept or reject what we think is God's will.As for me and
my house we will serve the Lord.
Steve - thanks for backing me up!To the nameless individual that
replied to me that homosexuality is flamboyant and rarely ever practices the
discipline, restraint, fidelity, trust and patnership - Puhleeese! How many
homosexuals do you know and care about? I know many - committed couples and
others still looking, many of whose relationships have stood the test of time
and the judgment of others. Even the Church has adulterers and abusers. These
people have the right to be allowed to commit to a willing same sex partner in
love and in the law. They are not threatening you, your children. My marriage
certainly isn't threatened by them. Your fear and prejudice has been taught to
you. By the way - in reference to the King James translation -
pasty faced old white men with an agenda of their own traslated it!
Marriage is defined as between a man and a woman. Everyone, both male and
female, are free to marry under that definition. But none of us have the right
to redefine marriage, thereby destroying what marriage is. It takes
a man and a woman to create a child. Every child should have the right to be
born into a family with a mother and a father.How great the goodness
of our God who set up familial units to have a mother and a father! How great
His wisdom and His love that invites us to follow in ways of happiness! How
disturbing the ways of man, who pervert and go against the perfect ways of their
God! How disrespectful, conceited, and selfish! You don't claim to know what God
speaks, and yet do you suppose you somehow know better than God? Does God who
created both male and female not know what would bring His children the most
happiness in their respective roles? Do I hate you for wanting more for you, or
do you hate yourself by relegating yourself to less?
I do not in any way support genderless marriage. Any educated individual can
see that if we support genderless marriage we are opening up for the opportunity
for our First Amendment rights to be taken away. Think about it, because it
will happen if we redefine marriage in this way. But, the most troubling of all
is the power that the Supreme Court has to over turn what the majority wants.
Wasn't this the very thing that our fore Fathers feared? The government having
too much power. It is a scary thing when just a few can enforce their opinions
...but not no more. My ancestors were mislead. Where is all the compassion
nowadays for people who were not born hormonally correct. What a shame!
I love how prophets of the Lord said: "...We warn that the
disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and
nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets." I
feel confident saying that if the family is disintegrated, then America will see
WORSE things than we ever have by way of natural disasters and programed
disasters. I feel confident predicting many hard times and future problems, and
the people will scratch thier heads and ask why? Then there will be the group
that will have another rationalization, then there will be the followers of
Christ and prophets who will say, its too bad, but, they were warned.
What has happened to empathy and compassion? What has happened to freedom,
liberty, and the pursuit of happiness? Why does the Church feel the need to
antagonize others? Why do it's members feel the need to say that anyone who
disagrees with them is "reigned by Satan"?Seems like a more
Christ-like position would be in order. (If you really ARE Christians)
Above the emotional fog created by the soggy arguments and hot air of
gay-marriage advocates rises a wisdom connected neither to fad, fashion, nor
demagogic oversimplification and inflammation.A word lesson:
"discriminate" means "to distinguish by discerning differences..."Discrimination, therefore, is not itself bad. It is ignorance to speak as if
it is. Instead, address the reasons for the discrimination.Gay
couples are simply unnecessary to society. Committed heterosexual couples,
however, are indispensable. That is why government got involved in the
pre-existing institution of man/woman marriage: to create incentives for that
upon which society uniquely (the reason for discrimination) relies.To irrationally broaden this incentive will destroy it, as it has already done
in Scandinavian countries.I, a single man, could just as rationally
as a homosexual couple claim all marriage benefits for myself since I benefit
society as much as they do. It would be idiocy for me to yell that I'm being
discriminated against in a bad way. I DON'T GET MARRIAGE BENEFITS BECAUSE I'M
SINGLE. YOU DON'T GET THEM BECAUSE YOU CHOOSE THE SAME SEX, AND NEITHER OF US
UNIQUELY BENEFITS IN A WAY THAT DESERVES MORE.
I want all of you to vote however you want to. I do want to bring a few things
to light, though. First, gays always had the right to marry, but it wasn't
socially acceptable, and those who performed and recorded these acts would not
allow gays to marry. There was no law that stated that it should be only a man
and a woman (thus, writing the new laws.) It was simply one of the social
mores. Now, California wants to write an admendment to their
constitution that would legally block all gays from marrying a person of their
same sex. This actually is against the 14th amendment to the Constitution of
the USA: "No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the
privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States;.."Do you
really want to pass a law that states that some citizens are not equal? Really,
think about it.
I support traditional marriage!!! For everyone who chooses it! Women, why would
you ever want gay men to be running around being promiscuous, when it is
possible for them to be in a loving, committed relationship? IMO, the less men
on the prowl, the better!
"Promoting an agenda from the pulpit is just wrong!"What in the
world do you think every church, every sunday, saturday or what ever does???And what is a church??? It is a group of individuals with like beliefs.
Why do you think it is so inappropriate for the leadership of the LDS church to
voice an opinion on a subject but it's OK for a Hollywood seleb to get on their
soap box in the many public airwave venues and express their views on any and
Isn't it interesting that the Ten Commandments don't have a word to say about
homosexuality. Why do we treat it as though it's the worst sin anyone can
The Church is encouraging people to waste their time and money on something that
will soon be as much of a non-issue as inter-racial marriage was in the past.
NOT!!!... "because some old guy in a suit told you to."but because the Lord has asked us to.People who lack faith often
resort to this condescending attack that people who have faith...are
simply robots.In reality, people who have faith have simply learned
an important lesson, that people like you are still learning.That
there are two ways to learn life's lessons:Through the school of
hard knocks.orFrom the Master Teacher.You've
chosen the school of hard knocks.I've chosen, though I still make
plenty of mistakes, to learn from an omniscient Master Teacher.
Can you blame the church for standing up for protecting a moral fabric of
society which is being torn apart. I don't view homosexuality as an
institution. Its against the laws of nature. I think it is confusion and a
mental illness. If you judge me for believing this, then you take away the very
right for me to believe that it is wrong, that you are expecting me to give you
that you think it is right. Homosexuality is a confused sexual preference. Who
is making a big deal about this? Homosexuals. I have never threatened them. I
have never treated a gay bad. I have always been respectful. How I have I been
treated in return? We have been blasted in the news and called bigots. I have
heard hate speech after hate speech against my religion. So you know what...I
have no sympathy. I don't claim to take away their right to have a
lifestyle....just keep it to yourself.
Why do we have to keep wasting time and money on this issue? Why does the
Church insist on using limited assets on this one concern? Can't they see that
they are just stirring up a hornet's nest? And I'm afraid they're about to get
I hear the unsupportable argument that you can't legislate morality usually by
the same people who adopt an entirely generalized definition of the word. I want
someone to give me one piece of legislation that is outside the realm of general
morality (defined as a belief in right and wrong). Our tax system,
city ordinances, criminal laws, State and US Constitutions are all based on a
general sense of right an wrong. The debate isn't over whether morality can be
legislated, but how we legislate it. The members of the LDS church,
therefore, have the right to vote for legislation that conforms with their
understanding of morality the same way the homosexual lobby or any other citizen
does. The LDS church has the right to state its belief on what the definition of
morality should be and encourage its members to involve themselves in movements
that it deems important. The end result of New Laws, changed State
Constitution or a new Supreme Court decision will impose morality on everyone
through the enforcement of laws the same way it has since this Nation was
created. Choosing which morality is imposed on you is called voting.
To answer your post let me put it this way... God Makes laws.. right? (he had at
least 10 :) ) So you are getting angry at us for emulating God? And Do I really
think that laws take away someones right to chose?No, no more then
his laws take away our free agency.You can choose to sin but in life
just like eternally you have to face consequences. Currently that means in
life.. you can't marry. Eternally you can't be sealed in sin, nor can you
endure God's presence.The LDS Church stand is not to remove free
agency, but to keep the consequences the same.its akin to saying
that having a baby from having premarital sex removes free agency, when its just
a consequence of your actions. You chose your sins... nowhere in the scriptures
do you get to do that and choose your punishment.- JT
No, just because I (or any other LDS person) advocates the freedom to choose
doesn't mean we approve of all the choices people make... we fully realize many
said choices are sins and God will dole out the appropriate punishment. But
what we're saying is, let those people make up their own minds... don't force
them to obey God. And I believe God stands by this stance. As I've
said, the LDS believe God is against forcing anyone to obey His rules. Yes, He
creates guidlines/rules that will lead to the maximum happiness and greatest
blessings as you said... but He allows us to do what we will anyhow.
True, showing someone real love can be helping them understand that something
they are doing is hurting them. Disciplining a child when they try to cross the
street without looking is a good example. Banning people from being in a
legally recognized relationship just because your interpretation of the Bible
says it's wrong is in an entirely different category -- that of your trying to
subject others to what YOU believe is right. Gay marriage will do nothing to
affect your marriage (and if it does, then there are much deeper issues there),
and will do nothing to affect your daily life. I can respect the fact that you
disagree with this issue; I disagree with a lot of the theology behind the LDS
religion, but you don't see me going around decrying temple marriages because I
don't believe in eternal sealings.
on what is moral and what is the law?Or is there a difference.In a free society, laws are based on the moral standards of the society
that enacts them.Ultimate freedom is ensured by those laws, not
restricted.For example, no one living on the earth actually created
it. Therefore, I believe that no one has a right to possess
anything. The land, the water, the sunlight, and every other resource should be
shared equally. Therefore, land and property laws should not exist because they
restrict my freedom.What gives you the right to pass laws that
prevent me from enjoying my fair share of earth's resources?Carried
to it's extreme, unrestricted freedom, means no freedom, and reduces humankind
to being nothing more than animals.
Twenty some years ago I had an impression that the day would come when this
would be a devisive, defining and painful issue. I've now lived long enough to
see that impression was right. The challenge will be to proceed with the utmost
of charity towards all, but with firm determination to do what is best for
children. I agree with the LDS stand on this issue; hope we can do our part;
and always make it very clear that we love all God's children.
Divorce destroys marriage not gender! Perhaps the Church should simply work to
make divorce illegal.
Regardless of whether or not you want to admit it, homosexuality is wrong. I've
heard a lot of "hate the sin, love the sinner" type comments in this forum, and
I totally agree with that. But part of showing real love is helping others to
understand what is best for them. I feel homosexuality is wrong, and you can
call me intolerant or whatever other name you want, but the fact is it's wrong.
I love others enough to vote in favor of the amendment to show them that
legalizing homosexual marriage is not the best thing for them.
Let's be honest--religious leaders simply pick and choose passages from the
scriptures to justify their beliefs. And there is so much mean-spirited garage
in the Bible that it seems to have lost it's credibility. Perhaps we
should simply toss out the portions of the Bible suggesting that God doesn't
like gays, and we could all get along. Wouldn't we be much happier?
It should be accepted as a given that God gives laws that, by obedience to them,
creates the maximum happiness and greatest blessing to mankind. Homosexuality
is a manifestation of the natural man, which by definition is an enemy to God.
God seeks to protect us, His children, and to promote His plan for our
development and happiness. The damage that will be done by legalizing gay
marriage is evident by looking at Europe's experience: higher out-of-wedlock
births, higher abortion rates, lower marriage rates, fewer intact families, etc.
The societal costs of stepping over this threshold are enormous.Those LDS and others who advocate a live and let live approach are correct in
asserting that God is allowing such an exercise of choice. They infer
therefore, that it is somehow acceptable. What they forget is that moral
consequences generally lag actions so the cause and effect relationship does not
void the principle of agency.There also seems to be a willful desire
to forget that it is God, through His prophets (as sustained by faithful
believers) that has mandated this position. It is not some organizational
policy subject to a democratic referendum.
Jesus said it best to paraphrase, "forbid them not, if they are not against me,
they are for me."Gays who want to marry are not against marriage but
for it. We should support them. It is mainly the streights who disregard
marriage and often treat it as some sort of freak show, like Brittany Spears
"The gay definition of freedom is to force society to change the historic
definition of marriage to match their lifestyle."Historically, women
were property. Historically, men could marry more than one woman.
Historically, marriages were set up by the parents. Historically, most
marriages were for convience and property distribution.Marriage has
always had two meanings in the LDS church. There is temple marriage and there
is civil marriage. Now they just want to add another meaning to it.Why is the defination of a word more important than treating everyone equally?
I always have to wonder if my brother could have found happiness if only the
Church had a more compassionate attitude. Unfortunately, I will never know--he
killed himself several years ago.The Mormon promotion of anti-gay
laws has not decreased the rates of divorce and infidelity--but it has increased
the rate of Mormon suicides.I keep hoping for more love and
compassion from my Church, yet I'm afraid I will always remain disappointed.
You're mistaken. You're also doing alot of assuming.Gay and
Bisexual people quite often DO worship God and are just as spiritual and
religious as many straight people. Sure, the majority probably think church's
are mistaken to call their attractions and acts a sin... but there are also
some who agree that acting on their desires is a sin and so abstain from it.
Remember, if you're LDS the church's official stance is that BEING gay or Bi
isn't a sin, it's only when you ACT on it (have sex) that a sin has occured.There are many gay and Bi people fully active in their respective
churches and religions.You're also greatly mistaken in your
assumption that gay and Bi people are all about loose morals and having sex
willy nilly with whomever they wish. Where do you get the notion that they
cheat on the one they love more than straight people do? And no,
most who want to marry aren't doing so out of spite... but rather genuine love
for their partner (just like straight people). They also just want, for
example, the right to have say in their sick partner's care at a hospital.
Really? Homosexuals are just trying to get married to make a point? It
apparently has nothing to do with love, making a legally binding commitment to
one another and reaping the rewards and responsibilities that such a legal
contract brings with it. If you're a straight married couple, you don't have to
worry about hospital visitation rights, custody rights (should one parent die)
and a host of other things you take for granted.
The gay definition of freedom is to ensure life, liberty, and the pursuit of
happiness for ALL people regardless of their religion, race, sexual orientation,
To: Up Ogden Way | 9:55 a.m.The gay definition of freedom is to
force society to change the historic definition of marriage to match their
lifestyle. That's not freedom, that's tyranny.
This is only the Mormon leadership's opinion. Unless the letter
says "Thus saith the Lord" at the end, I am under no obligation to treat it any
differently than any other opinion in this paper.
What did Jesus ever say about homosexuality? What did He have to say about
Pharisees? About loving your neighbor? About casting the first stone? Who says compassion isn't a moral virtue?
OK. I'm LDS and heterosexual (married)and I read fairly well so I am familiar
with God's stand on homosexuality. I believe he called it an abomination. But my
question on this matter concerns the seperation of church and state. I think we
should all follow the dictates of our belief and know we will be accountable for
how we acted. I also think the church is overstepping when advising it's members
how they should act/vote politically. The choice should be clear...not mandated.
And you wonder why so many people think that Mormons are pre-programmed robots
unable to think for themselves. I see no problem with the church stating there
position on political issues that they feel are moral topics, however I don't
understand why the church has to tell it's member how to vote (however I do
support their right to say what they want). Wake up and think for yourselves
for once. If you decide that same sex marriage is wrong, then vote against it
because you believe it in your heart, not because some old guy in a suit told
you to. Quit being robots
I think you misinterpreted or misunderstood D&C 134:4 and Articles of Faith 11.
D&C 134:4 essentially states that the government shouldn't impose its beliefs on
religions. That's the argument of separation of church and state; the idea is
to limit the imposing force of government on churches, but not necessarily the
other way around. As religious individuals, we believe we have developed a
moral conscience, and with that moral conscience, it is our duty to make sure we
voice our opinions and vote in such a way that our nation reflects those same
morals.Regarding Articles of Faith 11, it essentially states that we
allow men the same privilege of worshiping God according to their own
conscience. The problem with homosexuals in general is that they AREN'T
WORSHIPING GOD. Homosexuality is flamboyant and rarely ever practices the
discipline, restraint, fidelity, trust, and partnership found in a heterosexual
marriage. The only reason homosexuals want there to be a marriage clause in the
constitution for gays is because people told them they couldn't get married.
They're justing trying to make a point.
Is it just me? After reading so many angry comments, it reminded me of the
"Large as spacious building" Nephi described, with people laughing and deriding
those who held to the "Rod." As for me...I choose to hold to the rod and choose
to ignore those who would have me let go. For those others feel free to
choose...use your agency and let me use mine!
Well, I am certainly glad the LDS Chuch continues to provide ample justification
for why I am an active member. For a church that claims to be so pro-family,
pro-marriage and pro-constitution it is pretty amazing how they consistently
support postions that uphold all three. I simply don't understand how people
can expect them not to support something that strengthens our society. Weird
Free Agency, the right to choose... it's at the very core of LDS teaching (I
should know as I've attended the LDS Church all my life). If you're LDS you
believe God grants everyone the right to choose in all things we do, He doesn't
force anyone to obey.So don't you see that laws such as this are
taking away part of someone's right to choose? You're right... God
doesn't approve of many things such as same sex marriage, sex, abortion, etc. He
sees them as sinful and/or corrupt... BUT He still allows us to engage in them
if we choose. So if HE allows it, why are WE trying to prevent others from
exercising their free agency? Isn't that going against God?Don't
get me wrong, I totally agree that marriage should be between a man and a
woman... that God only recognizes that specific union. But others who don't
agree should be able to do what they want. God isn't about forcing us all to
live as we should, He's about us making the choices ourselves individually.
The church you are referrring to is called The Church OF JESUS CHRIST. If you
believe that the "rules" of marriage were ruined by its founder, then please
feel free to pray to HIM about why you think HIS church ruined your ideals about
relationships in the past, present or future. So many gay advocates on this
site on religious "wannabes". Study and read the Bible (since most of you have
denounced the Book of Mormon) all the way through. I might suggest that you use
the King James version since it was extracted from Greek, Latin, and German
texts that were the most accurate as deemed by the transcribers of King James
time period. Please determine for yourselves about what the Lord of the Old
Testament and New Testament has said about and condoned concerning marriage.
Again, the Lord has said He is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
Finally!!!, the LDS leadership is making it clear to it's followers where it
stands on the issue of GLBT marriage. The Proclamation to the World was written
back in 1995 (13 yrs. ago), and know we have a definitive statement to the
people of CA by the Pres. of the LDS Church and his counselors. I really hope
this wakes up the LDS faithfull in CA and around the nation as to the intent and
actions of the GLBT activists. Redefining marriage is only the tip of the
iceberg in their agenda to change the American moral standards. I support an
amendment to the CA constitution 200%, and hope that Federal Government will
follow suit. To all who feel its unfair, you've lost your way, and need to
really take a look at the teachings of the Gospel. I hope that you come back
Well, I am certainly glad the Mormon church continues to provide ample
justification for why I left. For a church that claims to be so pro-family,
pro-marriage and pro-constitution it is pretty amazing how they consistently
support positions that undermine all three. I simply don't understand why they
would support this anti-marriage amendment which strips away the equal
protection clause, one of the principle pillars of constitutional government.
The directive from the Frist Presidency violates:D&C 134: 4 (1-4).
4 We believe that religion is instituted of God; and that men are amenable to
him, and to him only, for the exercise of it, unless their religious opinions
prompt them to infringe upon the rights and liberties of others; but we do not
believe that human law has a right to interfere in prescribing rules of worship
to bind the consciences of men, nor dictate forms for public or private
devotion; that the civil magistrate should restrain crime, but never control
conscience; should punish guilt, but never suppress the freedom of the soulArticles of Faith 11 We claim the privilege of worshiping Almighty God
according to the dictates of our own cconscience, and allow all men the same
privilege, let them worship how, where, or what they mayLeave others
Good article! There needs to be more people like you!
Who are we to tell brothers & sisters who they should be in union with. Our
church ruined the rules for marriage a long time ago and now we think we should
tell people what to do? I don't know why people aren't laughing at a LDS
positions of marriage. We should be the last ones to say whats right and whats
***By the time I was a young teenager I understood (through the slightest amount
of introspection) that no person chooses his or her sexual orientation.***You could be right.My orientation, as a heterosexual male is
to have sex with any and all females that I meet... Anywhere, anytime. With or
without their consent. But, due to the constraints of society together with the
teachings of religion, I don't.***Another article in today's paper
states that a recent poll found that LDS church members, compared to other
religions, are among the least open-minded to the idea that there are
alternative paths to heaven. I find this sad.***This
marrow-mindedness may well come from the Christian Bible which says in part:
"... straight is the gate and narrow is the way that leadeth unto life, and few
there be that find it. Enter ye in at the strait gate for wide is the gate and
broad is the way that leadeth to destruction and many there be which go in
I always find it amazing how those who believe in God and desire to follow the
teachings of those who are His mouthpieces on earth, I am relegated to the class
of pre-historic idiot by people such as Why are some still LDS?, Boiseguy and
Dan. Apparently, those who consider themselves as open-minded are really just
bigots of another flavor.I think that the homosexual community ought to
consider that as children of God, they are loved, but as humans they may need to
examine their choices and consider whether those choices like those we are all
required to make are in alignment with accumulated wisdom and with the counsel
given us by a God who loves us all perfectly. The Church is not the enemy of
those who are attracted to members of their same sex. The Church is there to
remind us all that we do have a perfectly loving heavenly Father who wants us to
have joy and happiness in the same way that God enjoys it.
Have you, with an open mind, read any of these posts regarding "why" the
Church's position is what it is? It's not at all about limiting the freedoms of
others. I suggest you go back and read the posts again. I fear you've placed
limits on your testimony.What's very clear to me in all these
negative comments about the Church, is that Satan reigns in the minds and hearts
of men in our day, just as he has in past generations. He doesn't skip a beat!
What's sad and is so hard for me to believe, is the hold he has on some members
of the Church.
Glad to hear of this. Every law, federal, municipal, etc, every law has a moral
code from which it evolved. Once upon a time marriage was a deeply social
institution, it was recognized as something that affected the community. Moral
constraints provide the framework in which any community exists, to include
those with strict morals or loose morals. Marriage is only one
element of morality. We frown of slavery, but sexual slavery still thrives in
numbers upwards in the multi-millions each year. Slavery is decried by most of
us. Yet, as we continue to muddy the context of marriage and intimacy,
organizations such as North American Man/boy Love Association and Butterfly
Kisses continue to grow in a logical process of social acceptance. Marriage and
intimacy between men and animals is another, though much of it is still in the
form of jokes - so far.Anti-slavery is not only a political
statement, neither is marriage. Both are deeply moral (i.e. ethical) issues
supported under the rule of law. Laws are framed with a moral context of what
is right and what is wrong. Each nations laws and religious themes holds to this
in one degree or another.
Michael Medved asked this question. what is the Purpose of Religion? Then his
answer was The purpose of Religion is to provide a moral standard. Too many
churches in America only try to give compassion instead of moral standards.
Compassion without moral standards saves no one. God is love, but without
standards of behavior there can be no justice. Without justice God ceases to be
God. You cannot give Mother Tereasa the same reward as you give to a "Hitler"
and be God. Mercy cannot rob justice. We have the freedom to choose our behavior
but we do not have the freedom to choose the consiquence of that behavior. Our
founding fathers debated whether or not the people were moral enough to handle
the amount of freedom that the constitu-tion gave them. I am grateful for those
churches that do have moral standards and are willing to fight for their right
to have them.
Romans 1: 18, 25-27 (If I had room- vs. 32)18 For the wrath of God is
revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who
hold the truth in unrighteousness;25 Who changed the truth of God into a
lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator 26 For
this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did
change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise
also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one
toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in
themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. Marriage
between a man and a woman is not the LDS church's law. It is God's law. Just
because you don't believe in God or in his laws doesn't make them untrue. Truth
is truth--no matter how you try to cloud it or make "good look bad" and bad look
good." The world thinks they can change God's laws--and then blame the LDS
Church for standing up for them. But you will only hurt yourself trying. -WOW
Amen to Anonymous's post 8:30am. Thank God we have have His representatives here
on earth to speak in behalf of the Lord Jesus Christ. The Lord always spoke out
against any and all forms of sin. To engage in homosexual acts is SIN, always
has been and it always will be. Homosexuals are expected, just as heterosexuals,
to bridle their passions. The Church and the Lord loves homosexuals and they are
welcome in the Church as everyone else. But they are expected as we all are to
keep ALL the commandments to the best of our ability. If the day should come
that marriage between gays is legal everywhere, that still will not condone the
sin, and anyone who engages in such sin will be held accountable. Just because
something becomes legal does not make it morally correct and God's laws are
higher than mans' laws. I am so grateful to be a member of the Lord's true
Church on Earth and grateful for the righteous Prophets and Apostles who lead
it. They will always stand for the right, no matter which way the world may
Yet again the LDS church is wasting it's members time and tithing on a
polictical issue. The countries and states where marriage is not limited to one
man and one woman have not exploded or fallen off the planet.This is a
civil issue not a religious one. No one is saying two men or two women are
going to kneel across an altar in the temple and be sealed for time and
eternity. How sad all the money and power of the LDS church is being directed
@ AWB-Your argument is conceptually flawed. This ammendment does
not prevent you from living the life you want, it doesn't stop you from living a
gay lifestyle, it doesn't make it illegal. It only defines marriage as between
a man and a woman. You still have your agency and ability to do what you want
I suggest that everybody read "Judge not and Judging" by Dallin H. Oaks. Those
who say we shouldn't judge are fooling themselves. WE HAVE TO JUDGE EVERY DAY
OF OUR LIVES, whether it be what friends we have or who we marry, etc.Keep in mind that separation of church and state was meant more for the
government to stay out of telling us what we need to believe in our religious
lives, but that as we learn morals we are obligated to ensure that those things
that are right are promoted.
I refuse to believe that God would set law in scripture that marriage is between
a man and a woman and then create some of his children to be born gay. I look
at each of us having been born with challenges or tendancies, which we need to
learn to overcome or harness. Just because someone has a weakness to
pedaphilia...does that mean they should be able to act out on that? I have seen
reports where pedophiles who receive proper treatment, learn to overcome this
through constantly using the tools they were taught in order to remove
themselves from that situation. I look at the gay lifestyle in the same way, it
can be overcome.
Again, the gay community screams out " you are condemning us!" People who
believe they are following the Lord's will should not be persecuted with the
slam, " you are condemning us". Gays on this site are extremely happy and
determined to condemn the LDS and others who are opposed to Gay marriage. It
might interest you to realize the Amendments that recognize marriage between a
man a a woman only, in Callifornia and other states were NOT introduced by the
LDS church or its members but by other religious and principled people, who
believe in Judeo and Christian values as taught historically in Christianity.
The church has to take a stand on moral issues that effect a society. It's
going WITH its own teachings. The Book of Mormon makes clear that there is real
power in the overall righteousness of a nation, and that when more people in a
nation choose bad than good, that the Spirit will no longer strive with them.
Imagine if gay marriage was accepted throughout the U.S. Eventually those who
still preach or stand for the moral principles of procreation, marriage, and
chastity would be viewed by society as completely bigoted, and would be
pressured to either join the masses or flee a sinking ship.And I
absolutely believe that there is a genetic component to being gay, that it's
very real and very hard to overcome... just like any other genetic
predisposition to any other kind of behavior associated with the natural man.
NO one wants to talk about trans-gendered people because when they do they
realize that this is not a black and white situation, and those folks sure
Didn't make a choice.
Thank you Mike Thompson for mentioning John Adams, my hero! I also adore
Abigail Adams. John would be APPALLED at what is going on in this nation
concerning marriage if he were alive today. As I have said before,
"You cannot dictate to God his commandments." If you choose not to obey those
laws, then you are saying you don't believe in the Bible. Satan is slowly
chipping away at our moral standards.As for Mormons being mean and
spiteful to people who practice homosexuality, that is a very judgemental
attitude. My next door neighbor is gay and has left the Church of Jesus Christ
of Latter-Day Saints. I still like him. We talk a lot. I've never addressed
his choices in life. I worry about him, that is all.As a native
Californian who ended up in Utah, I pray that my native state will make the
right decision about this matter. I will always miss it, but if this passes,
I'll miss it a lot less.
So what if being gay cannot be helped and you people are condemning when you
don't know the medical facts about gay people? Does that make what you say
right? Where is your compassion for others? Also what do you do when a person is
born male and female? It happens.
As the daughter of a lesbian, it saddens me that my church has once again
painted all gays as trying to redefine marriage and destroy that which is
sacred. I tell you that my mother has been in a long term relationship with a
wonderful woman and I would be glad to be able to see them legitimize that
relationship. In no way will it affect my own relationship with my husband and
my children already love and honor these two women. I do not fear that my
children will become gay. I think that they will grow up understanding and
accepting all people, no matter what religion, color, or orientation, that the
morals and principles that they have set for themselves will be just that--for
themselves and not for the rest of the world. I have had to learn this already.
All decent people should take a stand against the perversion that is
homosexuality. I have no problem if someone wants to be gay... just don't
pretend it's "normal", don't try to ram it down our throats. Stay in the closet!
The LDS church action regarding the California ballot was to be expected of
course. When same sex marriages are finally legalized, as they will be, then
legalization of plural marriages will probably also occur. Although the
legalization of same sex marriages will have little impact on the Mormon
religion or the free exercise thereof, legalization of plural marriages has
ramifications that the LDS would prefer not to have to deal with. The New and
Everlasting covenant is still a matter of scripture, the Manifesto not
And I'm not required to simply accept your misguided attempt to redefine
marriage either.Marriage for thousands of years and throughout the
world has been between man and woman.Why should I now be forced to
accept a new and perverted definition of marriage, simply because a minority
want to force society to accept their perverted lifestyle?
I'm an active member of the church and I cannot with good conscience support
this. The leadership of the church has been wrong in the past, and they are
wrong on this issue. I was hoping that the church wouldn't get involved.
I see nothing wrong with the church advocating against gay marriage. However, I
believe this train has already left the station. Tens of thousands of gay
couples are already married, and many thousands of married and unmarried gay
couples have adopted children. I'm not happy about this fact, but it is a fact.
It is understandable that these couples want some legal way to
recognize their status. Gay people floating in and out of relationships is not
a good solution for the rest of us either. Give gays some way to legally
recognize their commitment and willingness to abide within boundaries, and let's
see what happens. My guess is that, in the long run, marriage will not work for
gays even as well as it works for heterosexuals (and it's not working
particularly well for many straight folks). For the LDS faithful,
perhaps the focus should be on the real bulwark of the faith: the difference
between "legal marriage" and "temple marriage." The law can do what it will,
but the church will only recognize its own standard on this earth and in the
The Lord sends out a Proclamation to the world. What you do with your free
agency ( believing or reading it ) will determine what He does with you. It is
in the Proclamation. I for one, will not counsel the Lord. I fear and Love Him
more that I fear the cheap shots of people who are angry with any church or its
beliefs. It too bad you don't have the courage to read and pray. How totally
sad that you make your path what it is. The Lord is the creator whether you
believe it or not. Proclamation on the Family is to the world whether you read
it or not. The Lord is the same yesterday , today and forever.
I recall the horror with which my Grandfather - a good man - greeted the passage
of the civil rights amendment. Before his death he recanted, realizing that
every person has the right to enjoy the fruits of liberty. With
support from LDS and other select churches this constitutional amendment will
likely pass. However, like women's suffrage and civil rights, those who invoke
God to deny others their basic freedoms may win a few battles but they will
ultimately lose this war because tyranny, regardless of the source, cannot
triumph over the natural human passion for freedom. Freedom versus
tyranny. Once again. We all know the ending.
It is amazing to read the many posts opposing the Church's position yet
"affirming" the poster's one-time, sometime belief in the Church.The
underlying principle of agency is choice. We all have it and use it every day.
We can choose to follow the voice of those whom we have sustained, or we can
choose to call them unenlightened bigots. Either they are annointed by God or
they are not. There is no middle ground. When the prophet speaks, the debate
is over. All that is left is for us to choose whether or not to follow.Christ came not to unite, but to divide: to divide the righteous (who
recognize and follow his voice) from the wicked (the rest). All roads do not
lead to Rome. Good and evil do exist and all this wanting to have their cake
and to eat it too attitude of the gay community and their apologists leaves me
wondering how long they can maintain this internal war and whether, in the end,
they will continue to kick against the pricks.
The temples are the House of the Lord. If people burn His holy house because of
their hatred, those people will not have the "Mormon people to discuss this
with. They will be taking it up with the Lord someday. I do not wish that on
anyone, even you. Sadly, you are a prime example of total hatred to others and
the vilest of prejudice. If you were talking about race in this country, people
would call you what you are, a prejudice bigot.
If you call yourself a "Christian" and follow Christ's teachings, you do just
that. You follow them, you do not try to change them to fit your way of life.
Marriage is the union of a man and a woman under God's law. Truly, we do not
hate the gay community. But we have to stand for our own belief's just as much
as they feel they need to make their voices heard. Why is it okay for them to
have "Gay Pride" and marches, but it is not okay for us to unite in our values.
To Cats: You hit the nail on the head and bravo to: ucan. To Reformed Utahan: If
you feel that way maybe it's best that you don't attend church. With the belief
you have, you won't listen anyway so stay away..it certainly will be your loss
and as I think about it, it will be a loss for the church because we do care
about everyone and always help when it is requested or required. Try humbling
yourself to the point on getting on your knees and pray to Heavenly Father for
guidance..if you listen you will know that he loves you in spite of your
feelings but remember you cannot choose the consequences, they will be yours and
no one else.
Being "inclusive" does not require abandoning fundamental moral precepts. The
Lord accepted the company of the harlot, but still condemned her sinful ways and
admonished her to repent and change her ways.There has been and
always will be a great divide between the Lord's will and Satan's will.The Lord wants loving families with a father who can be a role model for his
sons and a mother who can be a role model for her daughters.Satan
wants utter chaos where there is no gender distinction and there are no role
"That doesn't mean that society should simply give up on striving for the ideal
situation for every child." But should gays be allowed to have
children? Can we do something to stop them? Can we do anything to stop the
countless children born out of wedlock? What to do?
I dont think the amendment will pass either. The Gov refuses to throw any
support behind it, and the majority of Californians are not religious
homophobes, who feel a need to curtail the rights of minorities to enjoy the
same privileges as the majority. I originally voted against Gay marriage
because like many of you, I listened to the spin-doctors and was afraid that it
would open a door to allow gays to influence the lifestyles of children or
demand entrance to the temple. I have since seen these fears are unfounded.
The Church will continue on its path, and gays and lesbians will continue to go
to city hall to marry in their civil unions. One has no effect on the other.
Churches cannot be forced to accept homosexuality by government intervention.
The government may one day restrict the favorable tax status of organizations
that are racist, sexist or homophobic, but these organizations will always have
the choice in what they do and who they accept.
NO one can change right for wrong....no matter how hard they try. Men being with
men and women being with women is un-natural and un-acceptable. However,God gave
us the free agency to choose for ourselves...BUT TO CALL IT MARRIAGE, NO,
marriageneeds to be a man and a woman ! Marriage is to bring children into
this world, to have a place where children can learn of truth and light.
Marriage is ordained of God and just as the sun shines on the just and the
un-just it shines on the truth and the un-truth. Still as the sun shines God
lives and he ordainted marriage and he set the rules for it and no one can
i don't believe in mormonism! i don't care what the proclamation of the family
says!! many people feel the same way! when will you learn that
narrowmindedness and trying to force others to believe what you believe will
NEVER work, in fact, it will just drive more people away from you!
We should remember the phrase, just because we can does not mean we should. I
know this can be used for or against anything. But, just because legistators can
legalize same-sex marraige does not mean they should. Demonizing those who
oppose an issue does not make them wrong, or bad, or a target for ridicule. For
me, I am proud to hear that an organized body, I don't care what that
organization is, stands up for and defends marriage (man and woman) and morals.
The less a nation and its people holds on to principles, the less a nation and
its people are accountable and responsible.
To support and asteem holy, the sanctitiy of marriage between a man and a woman
and that it is to be sacred and of God is not to be "ugly". It is to be valiant
and true to the Creator's plan of eternal joy and happiness. Gays love to use
slick marketing and packaging to push their agenda. But, no matter how pretty
the package, it does not make what is inside proper or of the Lord. Read Paul's
comments about this in the New Testament as he admonishes the people to quit
indulging in homosexual practices. Go read and study for yourself and then ask
God what is true and right without mudslinging at those who hold sacred His
Your argument is nothing more than a strawman. The ideal situation
of children being born into a loving family with a father and a mother as equal
partners in parenting may not be possible for every child for a whole host of
reasons. That doesn't mean that society should simply give up on
striving for the ideal situation for every child.
Gays and interracial marriage is not the same. Quick using such an absurd
equation. It makes your argument sound weak, which of course, it is.
***boiseguy | 12:31 a.m. - If gay people are seeking to get married in their
temples that's one thing...***If gay people seek marriage in a
Mormon temple, the Church will be compelled to comply. The Church cannot refuse
to uphold the law of the land. It even says so in the Church's listing of
beliefs... "We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers,
magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law."***...but
being married under the rule of law of a person's nation is another, and is NO
business of some church's.***Oh, but it is. The LDS Church (and any
church) has a compelling interest in the issue. See above comment.***This disgusts me to no end, and I have lost total respect for the
church.***From reading your post, I doubt that you ever did.***If the day comes where people in this nation get tired of Mormons and
burn their temples to the ground... don't expect an ounce of sympathy from me.
Disgraceful....***Already happened. Which is truly disgraceful.
Will the Church push to ban wine coolers in California using parades of marching
children next? Will Utah stop subverting California law by issuing concealed
carry permits to Californians ? Stay tuned for the nail biting
sequel and find out!!!
A proclamtion by definition is a notice to all the world. Proclamation on the
Family-Proclamtion on the Family. Proclamation on the Family. Read it! Hum,
As a Mormon in California, I realize that everyone has their place here. I
won't allow the church to dictate how I vote. I will be voting against
any measures that would limit freedoms of others.
I am a Californian. Whose side am I on? I'm on the Lord's side and He directs
the affairs of the Church. Church leaders are not working on their own behalf
in this matter. They are following the promptings of the spirit of the Lord.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints was organized by Christ himself
and continues to be directed by Him. This is His true and living Church. Can
you not see that Church leaders are entitled to and impelled to promote marriage
the way the Lord has ordained it to be? My family and I are with Joshua of old
in saying "...but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." My
conscience would not allow me to do otherwise.
Yes, widen that religious divide. The mormon leadership have just undone all
the good many have tried to do to bring this comunity together.Their
words about wanting to bring the community together and be inclusive rather than
exclusive seem very shallow right now.
some "religious" people seem very ugly on the inside, and I think God would be
ashamed of what you do and say in his name...
Lets do the time warp again!Nothing new under the sun here!The same old tired arguments- really people do you just have this stuff saved
in word and cut and paste everyday or is it really like a new experience for you
everyday. If it is the second one you may want to talk with your doctors about
This just confirms the fact that the Mormon church like most other organized
religions are more and more "political groups" and businesses than they are
LDS church leaders too seldom encourage members to vote the way our consciences
tell us, although this is an age-old tenet of our faith. The Church's requests
from the pulpit that we vote one way or another on any issue conflicts with this
tenet, in my opinion. And I, for one, will not be participating in a
campaign that maligns anyone. By the time I was a young teenager I understood
(through the slightest amount of introspection) that no person chooses his or
her sexual orientation. I cannot accept the Church's position on homosexuality
(and many other things) when my own moral compass tells me something else. I'll
trust my own conscience before any statement from the pulpit. Another article in today's paper states that a recent poll found that LDS
church members, compared to other religions, are among the least open-minded to
the idea that there are alternative paths to heaven. I find this sad. Our
culture of narrow-mindedness is just bad for us. The abolition of gay marriage
doesn't help anyone.
Just more bigotry. No surprise at all.
I support the right for private organizations to have ceremonies that they call
marriage. Without a vote of the people, the government should not redefine
marriage and afford the same benefits and responsibilities to other
partnerships.Should any two people who love each other be able to
apply for state and federal benefits of "marriage"? If you extend these benefits
without a vote to gay couples, I think that any two people could claim them
(parent and child, friends, business partners, etc). Are we ready to fund these
extended benefits (social security, estate tax exemptions, etc)?
I'm glad the Brethren are firm on this issue.
I'm thankful for a living prophet who leads and guides us.
I dont think this amendment will pass in California. One day all across this
country, gay people will be able to get married and it wont change anything,
just like it didnt change anything when interracial couples were finally allowed
to get married. As the old, set in their ways, fogies die off, the homophobes
will become more and more a minority and the rest of us will let gays live the
way they want.
As members of the LDS Church we claim to support President Monson as a phophet,
seer, and revelator. If we support him as a prophet, then we support him
totally, and not just issues in which we are in complete agreement. If you think
that this statement by the first presidency is just three men imposing their
beliefs and opinions on the subject of gay marriage, guess again. When the 1st
Presidency of the Church issues a statement on any subject, it is because they
are indeed representatives and spokesmen for God and His Son, Jesus Christ on
My concern in allowing homosexual marriages is the ability it gives to
homosexual couples to adopt children. I believe children should be given the
opportunity to have a mother and a father. I know there are many people who
single parent and do the best they can. But in choosing what would be in the
best interest of a child I don't think it can be argued that a mother and a
father would be the best.
"Children have the right to be born into a loving family with a father and a
mother as equal partners in parenting."Should we start to tell
people that they cannot have children if they do not have both a father and
mother in the home? Should we take away children from mothers who are not
married and give them to homes with both parents? Isn't that very unAmerican?
What is your solution? To me, these people are more of a problem than the few
gay couples that adopt or are inseminated. What IS your solution?
I would be more worried if the LDS Church didnt make a statement!!
"However, I find it interesting that those who choose to not follow God do it so
loudly, proudly and openly, while those who choose to follow Him, do so
quietly."Well, it seems that the church has asked you not to be
quiet any longer.
Redefining marriage is an assualt on the bedrock foundation of society, the
family. "The Family: A Proclamation to the World" is very explicit
and clear on the Lord's definition and purpose of marriage:"The
family is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His
eternal plan."I encourage everyone to read and ponder the entire
proclamation.I believe that this is a defining moment for members of
the LDS Church -- a wheat and tares issue -- that will separate those who have
the faith and courage to follow the Lord, from those who will choose a different
Isn't it interesting how one generation can come up with more "enlightenment"
than Buddha, the Vedas, Moses, and Jesus combined?The arrogance and
hubris.With a wave of a magic wand, we can legislate a new
definition of marriage. How interesting.For those of you who think
this is a CIVIL issue and not a RELIGIOUS one, study the legal precedents in CA.
Find out how many photographers and churches are being legally bullied into
accomodating same-sex marriage, unions, in spite of the fact that doing so is
contrary to their beliefs.Who is being marginalized? Who is being
discriminated against?It isn't just Latter-day Saints but any
opinion based on religious thought.It is absolutely the obligation
of the LDS church to "butt their nose" into this...
Left-wing Mormons and gay/lesbian Mormons just need to recognize that the LDS
Church is a right-wing organization with B.C. views on human sexuality.Now more than ever, I am glad to be among the growing number of intelligent,
forward-looking poeple that consider ourselves "Post Mormons". If
your upset that the LDS church is taking this POLITICAL stand, remember that
it's First Presidency believes that it speaks the will of god. The LDS
leaderships view of this god's will is what is perverse. And I strongly oppose
this perverted view of history and humanity.
Hooray for a moral stand in this eroding nation of ours...The LDS
people are not the only group that is standing for truth and righteousness on
this issue. More people need to jump on the family bandwagon before our nation
The church isn't advocating taking away your free agency, or anyone elses.If the proposed amendment, which will define legal marriage as only
between a man and a woman, passes; you, me, and anyone else, here in California
can continue to pursue whatever vile and perverse or good activity we choose.
Our free agency is not taken away.From what source does this
deception you put forth about the church attempting to restrict our free agency
You ask whose side I'm on. I'll answer that. I'm on the side of the children
of the future who may be forced into a family who defines marriage between
anything and anyone. The church's position is strong and correct. Children have
the right to be born into a loving family with a father and a mother as equal
partners in parenting. You would take away that right and choice. The church
would preserve that choice and right. This debate is on many battlefronts. This
is just one - the definintion of marriage. The church also teaches its members
to strive for the ideal family on ALL levels, so don't tell us to focus on
everything else BUT marriage in the advocation for good morally solid and
righteous families. We will encourage improvement and righteousness in all
things. I support the church in this effort.
One of the biggest reasons to fight "same-sex marriage" is for the cause of
religious liberty. Already, there have been cases in parts of the country where
churches are threatened with losing tax-exempt status because they have refused
to allow same sex marriages to be performed. Religious-based adoption agencies
face loss of federal funds because they have refused to facilitate adoptions
into "same-sex marriage" families. If same-sex marriage is accepted widely, it
is not a big step for the government to force churches into accepting such
marriages by threatening them with such actions. In addition, it is
not hard to imagine a couple being "married" in California, then moving to
another state and then suing to have their "marriage" legally recoginized.
to reformed utahan. You are an idiot!! along with everyone else who adopts the
dictionary usage of words without understanding. We are not homophobic meaning
afraid of homosapiens. We are against the immorality of the homosexual
lifestyle. We are not saying people can't have gay relationships but that they
should not because it is against the laws of God. We are not seeking to take
away others agency but rather attempting to teach the proper us of agency which
is to keep our actions within the bounds the Lord has set. You can always do
as you please but the purpose of the Church is to direct aright, teach proper
doctrine and then you get to choose for yourself.
Like an earlier writer, "this disgusts me to no end", but in the exact opposite
way. It is amazing how short sighted we can be. These posts indicate that some
believe God (religion) should be (is) uninvolved and uninterested in what
happens in the world; as if we created Him and want to reprogram Him. Are you
kidding me? It is about time there is one religion willing to shake us and say
"look people, America is in trouble. We will reap the chaff in the whirlwind."
Can we learn nothing from the past? This is the Church's business because it
will effect the world in which we all must live. Other nations are watching us.
Many hate us because we would even entertain the notion of allowing such abuse
of nature. Stand up and quit being little babies throwing tantrums when we don't
get to behave as we please. See the bigger picture here and support this
amendment. Some things will just destroy us. This is one of them. Support
this marriage measure on the California ballot.
as an active member of the LDS Church, I support this with a great
HALLELUJUH!!!! I also look forward to the time when the LDS Church is
known for being ANTI-ABORTION. I realize the Church has a strong position
on Abortion,and have adressed in in Conference, but a lot of people still say:"
I know how you feel about coffee, but what is your position on Abortion?"
I will rejoice the day EVERYONE knows how we feel about the killing of unborn
babies. I will rejoice as much as I rejoice now about our position on
Maybe this will wake up some of the "dead in the water" members. Our nation was
founding by the inspiration of God, and this is not a purely Mormon belief.
John Adams, our second President said: "Our Constitution was made only for a
moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any
other." Do we understand why we are having so many problems in this nation?
We have taken God out of our daily lives. We have accepted those who pervert
his ways. We apologize for being LDS and openly oppose the Prophet. WE
oppose the teaching of scripture about the perversion called homosexuality.
Well, we will all have to face the God who said those things one day. I wonder
if we will be ready? I will contact all my family in California, though none of
them are LDS. I grew up there, but refused to raise my son in such a state.
This illustrates even more why I boycott California at every chance I get, the
state, their products, everything. Still, love the sinner, hate the sin. Just
do not condone what they do.
Churches have every right to comment on the issue and it is a moral issue...to
the church and those that follow it. But I'm not in the church. I find that most
of the arguments they make about any given issue are weak and baseless, hand
picked bits of cryptic scripture supporting a personal agenda. Ok, you've said
your piece. Dictate to your members as you will. But the religious freedom that
lets you do it...I want mine, too. It has to have equal footing in the arena as
yours, no matter how many of you there are. Because in the end, we all have
exactly the same amount of proof on our positions...none. And religion is a
personal thing. My relationship with god is mine, not yours or that of the mob.
The erosion of traditional marriage is not caused by gays. It is caused by
heterosexuals not living up to their marriage commitments. Stop scapegoating
marriage is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman whether it be civil,
religious or eternal. We may decide to make a law that says a horse is a cat,
but it does not change the fact that a horse is a horse and a cat is a cat. I feel sorry for these people but I have no sympathy with their agenda.
A "marriage" between people of the same sex is not a marriage. It is a pathetic
counterfeit. No matter how many laws are passed calling it a marriage it will
never be a marriage.I fear for our country. God will not be mocked.
Webster's defines Marraige as: "the state of being united to a person of the
opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship
recognized by law" Interesting that in the past few years a new definition has
been added about union to a person of the same sex. I know that new words or
meaning are added to the dictionary as words evolve thru slang use of terms
(like cool, hot, groovey). What we are talking about here is not just the
slang of a word but a total redefinition. You can not redefine what marraige
is just to make it more convenient for one self. Your comparison of being
treated unfairly is hardly a fair comparison either. The church is not asking
memeber to tar and feather the gay and lesbian comunity. In fact they are asked
to treat them like brothers and sisters that they are. But just like brothers
and sisters, everyone in the family still has to play by the same rules. They do
not get changes for convenience. I don't tell one kid this is the rule for you
and since another does not like it I don't redefine the rules.
Add this to the growing list of why I left the church. Homophobic busy bodies,
all of them!
You don't even understand the issue. The LDS church is making a statement on
morality, which is perfectly within their right. Do you actually think the
church would support gay marriage when they think that homosexuality is immoral?
That would be a contradiction. The church HAS to take a stand for the sanctity
of marriage because of what it teaches about morality. You act all surprised
and disgusted like this is a new revelation to you. Yet anyone with an ounce of
intelligence would recognize that the church is doing exactly what it teaches by
supporting its belief in morality. And having a stance on morality is perfectly
within the right of the church, whether it is part of popular opinion or not.
Also, don't fool yourself into believing that the church shouldn't be allowed to
have a voice in politics. If the political process ever strips churches of its
rights, passes immoral laws, endorses corrupt politicians, churches should have
the right to use their pulpit to promote their beliefs in a political nature
against attacks on the sovereignty and survival of the church.
The homosexual movement will not be content with just marriage. Once they get
that then it is on to the next demand for equality. The LDS church leaders know
that if this battle isn't fought now then they will soon have to fight a battle
to keep homosexuals out of the temples. After all, once homosexuals can legally
marry, the next demand will be to make their unions eternal. Anything less just
wouldn't be fair, now would it?
The best thing for gay Mormons to do is just leave the Church altogether and
live their lives according to the principles they believe in. The Church has
demonstrated that they hate gays and will never accept their way of living, so
why fight them? It is a losing battle. Live your lives as you see fit. Find
the right person and start that monogamous relationship that you've been
wanting. Be honest, be kind, be charitable, give back to the community, and be
gay. The best revenge is living a good life. Did I mention that it comes with
an automatic 10% raise?
The Church is a moral island in this world were just about anything is termed
'acceptable', by the ones who want to take away what thousands of years of
civilization are all about. Do you think when Jesus returns he will allow
same-sex marriages, so why try and justify it now.
None of our business? I'll cite some examples throughout the world that
Christians have been prosecuted for not bowing down to the demands of the
homosexuals?- Catholic Adoption agency closed in Boston for not
adopting to gays- Knights of Columbus sued in Canada for not renting
a hall for a gay marriage- Wedding invitation printer sued in Canada
for refusing to print wedding invitations for a gay marriage- Pastor
in Europe jailed for preaching homosexual acts were wrong- Many
incidents in Mass. where elementary kids are taught that homosexuality is OK,
despite objections from parents- Extreme peer pressure from faculty
and other students in CT to participate in Gay Repression Day at high schools- And don't forget the Boy Scouts being sued and then losing privileges
they have had for many years for not allowing openly gay leadersThis
isn't our business or the business of the LDS church? When I hear that I think
it means "I don't agree with you so I am going to try to get you to be
quiet."Why do many believe that churches should stay out of
politics? Constitution says it? Read it first.
None of our business? Should I cite the numerous times throughout the world
that Christians have been prosecuted for not bowing down to the demands of the
homosexuals?- Catholic Adoption agency closed in Boston for not
adopting to gays- Knights of Columbus sued in Canada for not renting
a hall for a gay marriage- Wedding invitation printer sued in Canada
for refusing to print wedding invitations for a gay marriage- Pastor
in Europe jailed for preaching homosexual acts were wrong- Many
incidents in Mass. where elementary kids are taught that homosexuality is OK,
despite objections from parents- Extreme peer pressure from faculty
and other students in CT to participate in Gay Repression Day at high schools- And don't forget the Boy Scouts being sued and then losing privileges
they have had for many years for not allowing openly gay leadersThis
isn't our business or the business of the LDS church? When I hear that I think
it means "I don't agree with you so I am going to try to get you to be
quiet."Why do many believe that churches should stay out of
politics? Constitution says it? Read it first.
to boiseguy YO yo : This is not about politics, it is about morals and how
immorality can impact a nation. If you are an active LDS, you need
to figure out if you believe in a prophet. I suspect you may not be spiritually
active. Perhaps your body goes, but spiritually, you are somewhere else.
To Boiseguy,Mormons have every right to speak up against anything that occurs
where they live.The LDS Church leaders are speaking to MEMBERS of thier church,
that's all. They are encouraging, not dictating to the voting MEMBERS of the
Church.If the measure passes,then so be it. I can assure you though, that
Mormons will not threaten to "burn down" establishments that consecrate these
Yet another reason for the "excuse birds" to flock together and turn away from
the Church - if it isn't this excuse it will be something else later on down the
road. This is not about gay/lesbian rights, but it is all about preserving CA
and United States' traditional family values and the definition of marriage. Do
you all recall this (Prop 22)is an issue that was voted on and passed by over
60% even in liberal California, and now 4 liberal judges have usurped the power
of the voters to their own liking and agenda - this is also about respecting the
will of the California and American voters. Get over it BOISEGUY.
The need for an amendment to the California Constitution arises because the four
justices in the majority based their argument for striking down definition of
marriage in Proposition 22 on the basis of California's equal protection clause.
The decision of the California Supreme Court supporting homosexual marriage is
so sweeping that the same arguments supporting homosexual marriage would
invalidate laws against polygamy and incest. The issue of homosexual
marriage is not just a political issue, rather it an assault against deeply held
beliefs of major religions. California public schools for years have
indoctrinated students to accept gay lesbian lifestyles, at the same time
morality based upon religious texts has been banned in public schools. The California Supreme Court with its opinion has now established their
concept of the "new morality" as the official religious dogma of the state of
California. Laws against polygamy, rape, adultery, fornication,
sodomy,incest,and child sexual abuse have all had their foundation in
legislation based upon moral or religious beliefs of the people. Clearly all leaders of churches have the right to urge their members and the
public at large to act upon their beliefs regarding, God, families and morality.
This is clearly a moral issue.
To boiseguy -"and this church should be unregistered and taxed"Uhm.... this church pays taxes even though it doesn't have to. Do some
research before those blogging fingers get going.Furthermore, this
is not the only church supporting this ammendment, nor is it the only religious
affiliation that believes in the traditional institution of marriage.Sorry to disappoint but this is not just a "Mormon" thing.
I am an active member of the Church and I WILL offer my support to the leaders
of the Church. And if you can't give your support maybe you should ask yourself
if you really are active. you may attend every Sunday but that doesn't mean you
are active. I support my Church leaders in this. Marriage is between a Man and a
Woman. That's the way God designed it and that's the way it should be.
The War in Heaven continues....The LDS Church is using its authority
and influence to try to shape society and the choices that are offered to
citizens.This was Satan's plan... remember??Joseph Smith
said to teach correct principles and let the members govern themselves. Active LDS, by your own doctrinal definitions, you are now supporting
the wrong side of this. A gay lifestyle may be wrong, in your teachings. But
limiting the free agency of people is ALSO wrong in your teachings. You are now
encouraged to give time, money, and 'do all you can' to limit choices of others.
Who's side are you on??
Show me anywhere in the scriptures where it discusses marriage between same
gender persons. That is when I will support same gender marriage.
Ah - a fresh sheet to make more comments .... the comments from yesterday were
all entertaining and passionate. I wonder what today will bring.As
for me: I fear that precisely worded constitutional amendments are two edged
swords that we members ought to prepare for. For example: today it is "...
marriage is between a man and a woman ..." Tomorrow it may well be "... only in
a public place; or, only by an ordained Christian minister; etc...", which
attacks marriage in the temple.In a war with sin and evil, Satan
does not rest and seeks ever more insiduous ways to mock the holy ordinances of
the Lord. I will honor the words of the prophet and defend the
sacred institution of marriage, but I am also girding-up for the next battle!
Boiseguy - The LDS church does not push a political agenda, even while all the
other churches do. I have never heard over the pulpit or in any other way how
my political beliefs should be directed. The church does however preach moral
values. Is'nt that why we go to church to learn and strive to live moral
values? I don't ever remember the leadership of the church saying Marriage any
other way than between a man and a woman is OK. Apparently 61% of the people in
California feel the sameway.
The Church has every right to promote religious morality in this nation and
around the world, in fact it is the Church's duty. It is not a matter of
discrimination, it is a matter of principle that compels the Church to make a
stand. Just as those who support same sex marriage have the right to promote
it, so do churches that believe the practice is wrong.
I think you got a letter
that a guy named "yo-yo" won't be supporting the amendment.you can
count out boo-boo, pookie and num-num as well.
You complain about the Church's agenda, but are promoting your own. Follow your
agenda, as you have the right to do; but give an organization the same right to
speak about their agenda.
Getting harder to be LDS and of the world, isn't it? Sifting time, brothers and
sisters. As foretold, in these last days, we will not be able to stand
with one foot in the church and one foot in the world. Nothing new for
those who choose to put God first, before ideologies, before friendships. It's
always been this way. Choosing whom we will serve. However, I find it
interesting that those who choose to not follow God do it so loudly, proudly and
openly, while those who choose to follow Him, do so quietly.
The comments of those above and others I've heard seems to me doctrine
misunderstood. If one really understands the "Proclaimation of the Family", one
may disagree with it but cannot refute the basis for the Church's stand on this
issue. Anyone in this free country may support any issue whatever it may be.
Whether it has a moral stand or not. People can listen to advise of any leaders
supporting any issue; this is America!
Forcing ones life style on others with no respect for what marriage really is
requires involvement of the Churches and others. A less agressive stance and one
that would have covered all the legal basis could have happened. However Judges
promoting their agenda rather than rule of law caused this situation.
It's easy to see what this world is coming to. To make the standards fit to
make one comfortable, and leaving God out of the picture. I can't
believe you three are condoning this type of behavior.The Church can
state and defend what God created. If you want to change God's laws to fit your
own, then you should take it up with Him.Quit blaming the Church for
doing what is morally right.Each person has the right to choose his
or her lifestyle...and you tell the Church to stay out of your lives...Well you
need to stay out of it, if it doesn't suit your fancy either.Quit
throwing the blame at everyone else and at the Church to make something that is
not right seem right.This is terrible.