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LDS Church officials urge California members to support marriage amendment
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In my opinion, We The People have sat on our do-nothings for too long enjoying the ride provided by those who actually stick their necks out and do the work. Coming to a consensus takes spirited debate, hopefully courteous and respectful, and listening to understand. Come one, come all to the discussion. Our strength has always been in seeking the greater good from our many diverse walks and ways of life.
And for your reference.... John 10...
23 And Jesus walked in the temple in Solomon�s porch.
24 Then came the Jews round about him, and said unto him, How long dost thou make us to doubt? If thou be the Christ, tell us plainly.
25 Jesus answered them, I told you, and ye believed not: the works that I do in my Father�s name, they bear witness of me.
26 But ye believe not, because ye are not of my sheep, as I said unto you.
27 My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me:
28 And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.
So much for free agency. The approach of the Church on this matter is puzzling to me. A letter read in Sacrament meeting urging people to vote a certain way with a sidenote of "let your conscience guide you"? If that isn't a guilt trip, I don't know what is.
It turned my thoughts to the pre-existence. Hopefully God and Jesus didn't guilt me into choosing who to follow and just let me make up my own mind because they would trust that I would make a sound decision on my own. They more than likely allowed me to make my own decision and allowed others to make their own decision also- hence why some of us are here and others never will be. Free agency is the root of all of our beliefs as LDS people. We have a right to choose; along with that comes consequences- good or bad. But we all have a right to choose and that fundamental right shouldn't be taken away from someone else just because they want to choose differently.
"Hopefully God and Jesus didn't guilt me into choosing who to follow and just let me make up my own mind because they would trust that I would make a sound decision on my own. They more than likely allowed me to make my own decision and allowed others to make their own decision also- hence why some of us are here and others never will be. "
Couldn't you then argue that the Father and Christ guilted you into accepting the plan of salvation, what with the commandments, consequences and all? Just a thought.
Obey or not, our choice, but the blessings for eternity rest upon the decisions we make here. There is not guilt involved, it's a matter of what we want in the afterlife.
It's actually love for what the Savior did for us that makes one want to be obedient. It's simple and joyful!
In the General Handbook of Instructions, this is defined as apostacy: "repeatedly act[ing] in clear, open and deliberate public opposition to the church or its leaders." Apostacy is grounds for excommunication, and her actions have not changed since.
She left the church long before she was officially excommunicated.
No offense meant, people, but that is a boldfaced lie.
To adopt your line of thinking ("no marriage equals utter lonliness and sorrow") would also mean that any non-homosexual man or woman who never marries is utterly doomed to sadness.
And that just ain't true.....
Sure, the pinnacle of human existence is found in marriage, but without it, ALL is lost? There can be no personal growth?, no personal satisfaction?, no friendship of any kind?, no personal victories? and I'll even be so bold as to ask, no love experienced of ANY kind? You can't love your family?, your friends?, the woman down the street or the lonely gentleman in the nursing home?
You're copping out by saying that "no marriage means only misery" and instead are trying to shift the responsibility of YOUR growth to those who don't agree with your ideas of morality.
Marriage WILL come for you (if you desire it) but in the LORD'S way and in the LORD'S time.
Good IS good and evil IS evil and our God has assured us repeatedly that doing good will be rewarded and evil will result in the removal of promised blessings.
Let us attack false doctrine, foolish thinking and poor decisions while we show love and respect to our brothers and sisters who claim light to be darkness and darkness, light.
There is more that binds us as Christians than separates us so let us work together to serve our Master, the Lord.
The practicing of homosexuality is wrong and if you need reaffirming of that truth, ask your Heavenly Father for wisdom, for He will give "liberally and upbraideth not" (James 1: 5-6).
May God bless us all.
What say you all? How can we make religion something that leads to more love?
The more you give, the more you get in return. Simple concept.
However, don't confuse acceptance of homosexual behavior as a form of love because it is far from it. Bad behavior can be addressed while still loving the person. If you have children, you know the concept.
selfish, greedy, and oil hungry. shame on you. back off and let people who want to get married, get married. We all deserve the same; so much for love one another and humanity in the word of christ, thank the god i don't believe in that I left that scene a long time ago.
I don't care what you believe regarding god or no god. If people want to get married, and it makes you uncomfortable, that is your intolerant problem, not theirs.
GO CALIFORNIA, YES TO TAXES, YES TO OBAMA AND YES TO A LIFE OF EQUALITY, says the middle class, male, white, heterosexual.
"Obey or not, our choice, but the blessings for eternity rest upon the decisions we make here. There is not guilt involved, it's a matter of what we want in the afterlife.
It's actually love for what the Savior did for us that makes one want to be obedient. It's simple and joyful! "
You are preaching to the choir. I agree wholeheartedly. I was merely saying something absurd to make a point. It just seemed to me that Catherine was suggesting that the First Presidency action is against the principle of agency. I disagreed by arguing that by that standard, God and Christ could be said to be guilting everyone who came to the earth into the plan. That is obviously absurd for the reasons you gave. Best regards.
Attacks on the church for its position on same-gender marriage are nothing new. I was getting them 12 years ago. It is not the church that has changed its position on this issue. The only thing that amazes me is that "active" members of the church are up in arms about this.
This is the third statement by the church along these lines in less than four years. This is nothing new.
I am embarrassed to have been both a member of the LDS church and from Utah, equality or tolerance is not a term well understood in the Utahn community.
These are sad days, and I am sad to have known so many of you who despise some that are PERFECTLY normal humans- I wish that a true humanistic perspective existed with in you.
Many people don't like gays, and many people don't like Mormons.
Y'all don't like gays, and we don't like Mormons. I would never invite a Mormon into my home, or hire one to work for me, never. Likewise, I'm sure, Mormons feel about me.
So please stop feeling so superior, you are just as despised, if not more so.
"Next."
"Good morning. We want to apply for a marriage license."
"Names?"
"Tim and Jim Jones."
"Jones? Are you related? I see a resemblance."
"Yes, we're brothers."
"Brothers? You can't get married."
"Why not? Aren't you giving marriage licenses to same gender couples?"
"Yes, thousands. But we haven't had any siblings . That's incest!"
"Incest?" No, we are not gay."
"Not gay? Then why do you want to get married?"
"For the financial benefits, of course. And we do love each other.
Besides, we don't have any other prospects."
"But we're issuing marriage licenses to gay and lesbian couples who've been denied equal protection under the law. If you are not gay, you can get married to a woman."
"Wait a minute. A gay man has the same right to marry a woman as I have. But just because I'm straight doesn't mean I want to marry a woman. I want to marry Jim."
"And I want to marry Tim, Are you going to discriminate against us just because we are not gay?"
"All right, all right. I'll give you your license. Next."
I couldn't have said it better myself.
Like John Lambert said, this is hardly the first time the LDS church has taken such a stand. In fact, this same message is coming with increasing frequency. That obviously means that this is an important issue, and that we must remain valiant to the revelations the Lord has given us, whether it's popular or not.
What is popular on Earth is NOT going to be popular in Heaven. This has nothing to do with bigotry or hatred, it has to do with standing up for the teachings of the Lord, and following Him regardless of the physical outcome. Whether this law passes or fails doesn't matter. What does matter is whether we will accept what the world tells us is right, or what our Father in Heaven tells us is right.
Thank you for your words. It is time for us to stand with the Lord regardless of the cost to us.
Thank you, too. I greatly appreciated your comment at the top of this page, about being blessed and protected for siding with the Brethren, regardless of short term fears. It's very true, and it's certainly not just a myth that when you're following the commandments and heeding the counsel of the Brethren, your life gets easier in many ways, both large and small. And regardless of the outcome of this, we need to show the Lord that we're wiling to obey His counsel and stand up for Him and His teachings. Thank you again for your kind words. =)
I would not allow people to practice homosexuality in my home. Howeer I would have no problem having a homosexual stop by for a visit. I quite probably taught some homosexuals in their homes on my mission, although no one who openly told us that this was an issue.
If I ran a business I would not even ask people their sexual orientation in the highering process, let alone refuse to higher them based on it.
I still do not think that the government should give proactive public policy approval to homosexuality, nor do I think public schools should try to teach seven year olds than homosexuality is ok. However I would even higher someone who spends most of their time off work trying to change the law on this matter if they could get the job done.
No one is trying to get rid of families. That is a fallacy in your thinking. We love families and are not trying to change yours. We just want our families to be recognized. There are all types of families - not all are the mother-father type. Some are mother only, some are grandparents, some are couples without children. This is another type. Most gay couples will NOT have children. Please do not think or promote that we are trying to stop others from marrying and having great kids.
PS Your "degree" has already been cheapened by the likes of Britany Spears quickie, divorce, abandonment, etc.
Do unto them as they would do unto gays and lesbians.
Let's vote to restrict the freedoms of Mormons. Let's vote to restrict the number of children they can have. And the amount of money they can give to the LDS church. And let's vote to eliminate their tax-exempt status. And let's vote to restrict the countries and states into which they can send missionaries. And let's vote to annul all their marriages because they are ALL tainted by the spiritual polygamy that they practice in their temples. And let's vote for laws requiring the LDS Church to pay reparations to all the descendants of all the people they have baptized "for the dead".
I think this feels right: treat all Mormons with the same legislative regard that they are treating gays and lesbians! The Golden Rule at work!
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Associated Press
Thursday, March 1, 2007
SANTA ROSA, Calif. � When a few classmates razzed Rebekah Rice about her Mormon upbringing with questions such as, "Do you have 10 moms?" she shot back: "That's so gay."
Those three words landed the high school freshman in the principal's office and resulted in a lawsuit that raises this question: When do playground insults used every day all over America cross the line into hate speech that must be stamped out?
Rice's parents, Elden and Katherine Rice, also claim the public high school employed a double-standard because, they say, administrators never sought to shield Rebekah from teasing based on Mormon stereotypes.
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So, an unfortunate, unintentional and general off-hand remark about gayness is punishable, but intentional harrassment on account of someone's religion is cool?
Is this the America we are heading for?
Oh, gee, they're not. Guess your examples don't work.
Wo unto those who call light darkness and darkness light.
Stand by the prophet! Who's on the Lord's side who? I am, I hope you are too.
Have all the rights you want otherwise, although seems to me a power of attorney would suffice.
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Sonia Johnson did not leave the church she was excommunicated in 1979 after her 1978 testimony in front of the US Senate. I remember those dark days in SLC. They were not pretty.