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Youth sports costing more time and money
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My niece also had great grades. She would have been better off getting an academic scholarship for tuition and just paid for her room and board like my own children. Then she could concentrate on studying during college instead of spending her time at practices and games.
someone needs to be the adult here; parents- any takers?
My son now has a college scholarship and a reason to go to college and STUDY. Maybe now it won't take him 7-8 years to get a degree, or maybe it will who knows!
While many take it too far with sports, some go too far with religion, others with music, others academics etc. What gives? We all try to do our best for our kids as we see fit. Good luck with yours!
The most important thing you can do is teach your kids how to work and earn things on their own. Get them a job doing manual labor and let them earn the money for cleats and mits and bats and this will be just as valuable as sending them to any sports camp. Make them build some "Man Strength" for sports doing manual labor. Life doesn't come with a barbell to lift it with.
As far as sports goes my boys have learned how to work as teammates through different sports. They have also learned how to over come obstacles while playing these different sports.
I have boys in comp, and rec. The rec programs that my boys played in were horrible. The coaches were worse (attitudes, swearing, etc..) than my boy's comp team.
Bottom line is that you have to find a balance and parents that force their children into all of these camps need to realize that you can burn your kids out if you don't be careful.
My sons all played 3 sports. Each sport made them better in the other sports. My HS junior just dropped basketball (6'3" center - DNA!)to better balance grades, social life, etc. Slated to be QB and a pitcher/1B/OF for two years. Will miss BBall and will change workouts to compensate for some of the stuff he will miss in training.
42 kids at our school played 3 sports. 14 of them got scholarships. High school is concentrating on multiple sport athletes and so far more sports played = more scholarships.
Coaches are also realistic here about what opportunity there is after high school. That helps community, parents and players be realistic.
Finally, the school (public high school) is academically advanced. US News and World Report silver medal school. Every kid that graduates is academically eligible for college. This means study hall for football teams. In-class lunch study hall for all sports. Get it done acamdemically and then let the DNA and hard work take over.
With the specialization today, you seldom see players participating in more than one sport. I remember watching Bingham High School's Bruce Hardy as a kid and being amazed how good he was at football, basketball and baseball. Someone like Hardy today picks one sport at a young age and focuses on it until they graduate from high school. It is a shame.
I like the comments about kids being kids! And I believe Families come first. Ball games and practices can not take the place of the time as a family nor the opportunity our kids have to be kids. We teach FAMILIES first to our girls. I don't want to team responsibilities to add pressure to families. In the end, thats what matters most to these kids.
We have been able to be very successful in our sport. I believe thats because of our philosophies and attitudes. Please let your kids be kids...it goes so fast.
As a long time umpire, I feel that parental support for the local leagues is going down hill. Many of the local leagues are dying a slow death. What needs to happen is Babe Ruth, WBBA, Little Leagues need to band together and bring these kids back into the fold. After all, the local leagues can act as a farm team for the local high school.
The local leagues need to get better coaching, and solicit cooperation from the high school coaches. They need to get training from these coaches on their philosophy and coaching techniques.
The bottom line is these local leagues need to get the high school coaches involved with their leagues.
Two leagues that have had success like that are Taylorsville and Murray. Both have strong Babe Ruth programs.
If you kept up with expenses and time spent on practice you would find you have invested a lot more than the return on a scholarship.
Plus if kids spent a third of the time on studies they do on practice they could get an academic ride and actually learn something to boot.
Kids who try to go to school on a sports scholarship usually end up at whatever crappy school that offered them the scholarship instead of where they want or need to go to get an education.
By the time a kid is a senior in high school it's clear to the parent if a kid is college material.
Unfortunately, in little league and SUPER league, every kid is a potential star!
1) Foreign Exchange: colleges love when students have spent some of their high school experience abroad.
2) Special math, science & language programs train students in specific skills and help raise their test scores.
3) Public service shows maturity and commitment.
Fewer than 1 in 10,000 students will receive athletic scholarships, which are anyway not allowed by Ivy League rules.
So if you're spending a ton of money on sports, give your kids a ball to play with, organize a neighborhood league, and save your money to pay for college.
> And there isn't really any end in sight.
Sure there is. You simply make a choice to not participate in sports that are overflowing with hyper over-competitive kids and parents. The benefits of youth sports were outweighed by the negative about 10 years ago. Anybody who claims otherwise usually has a problem with over-competitiveness themselves and I'm glad to no longer associate myself with them.
The sad thing is as bad as it is in Utah, it isn't even remotely close to the worst. Places like Texas, Florida, Alabama, football at all levels is significantly more important than life. Simply head shaking.
The family needs time together in their home and not on the frantic road every day. Two of our children played in high school and club sports, but only one. They wanted some tme to do other things and they were right. We also had other children and did not feel it was right to drag them to everything to see their brother or sister.
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