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Gay couples in Utah urged not to sue
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"Thomas Jefferson cautions us against factions. They seek to overthrow the will of people and promote their own agendas."
Live in Utah do you, well this phrase should ring a bell. The LDS have been doing it for years and now you are using this same concept to attack another. Nice but you've hit it on the head and now you can self reflect.
After a civil rights movement, discriminatory people start to understand why it is wrong. A greater percentage of people understand why it is wrong to discriminate against blacks today than forty years ago and forty years later, people will have the same understanding when it comes to gays.
People can access their hatred to form beliefs about blacks, gays and others, however, they are not allowed to write laws based on hatred. They must use sound judgment. Because scientific evidence supports a genetic component to homosexuality, there can be no discriminatory laws. A civil union is probably an example of separate but equal is inherently unequal. Heterosexuals who are uncomfortable with demonstrations of gay love will have to adjust.
Homosexuality is aberrant and abnormal. Being a woman isn't. Homosexuals are not being "denied" any civil rights. They go to the same schools etc. This is not a case of separate but equal.
Homosexuals should be ashamed for how they have hijacked Civil Rights that stood for equality for women and racial minorities.
Isn't that sad. Now children can't even have close friendships without being called gay.
Maybe the children should sue.. The are the ones who lose in this mess.,
And to anyone who wants to equate homosexuality and pedophilia check out the number of lawsuits against LDS bishops and scout leaders for abusing young people. It will blow your minds. And that's just the tip of the iceberg because unless the victims and their families are willing to bring a lawsuit (and they're counseled NOT to) it gets swept under a rug and the deviant bishop goes on calling unsuspecting young people into private interviews.
So, Cambria, the children lose because they have teachers like you, and not because someone in San Diego who you've never met might be getting married.
Actually, one of the worst things for the gay marriage movement would be for someone in Utah to sue, since they would not be successful here and that would slow their progress nationwide.
People change all the time. People are fickle, imperfect, and largely directed by self-interest and their own desires and agendas. That�s why we need unchanging, eternal standards given by an unchanging, eternal God. God is unchanging, and that isn�t from the Book of Mormon but from Malachi 3:6 in the Bible that all Jews and Christians love.
You have a right to believe God is a dinosaur. And if He is, I�m happy to be created in His image.
To 1:03 AM--of course someone in a same sex marriage still has a mother-in-law! Sometimes the parents cannot tolerate knowing their child is gay but others are happy to have their children in committed loving relationships. When parents are upset to find out a child is gay, it is often because they fear the child will be ostracized, partnerless and mourn the loss of grandchildren. And parents can be as wonderful or as awful to same sex partners as they can be with opposite sex partners.
Many comments reflect the writers' ignorance of real people and couples. Meet the gay people around you there in UTAH--about 10% of the population, like anywhere else!
So to protect the institution of marriage lets prevent it.
1.When a social practice becomes legal, it must then be taught in government schools, whose mission is to �socialize� students to the laws of the nation-state. (The National Education Association surveyed its teachers and found that only 28% of them vote Republican.) State standards, curriculum and testing have complied with the national plan (No Child Left Behind), a parallel of the United Nations counterpart (Education for All Framework). Policies from the national and international levels support same gender marriage under �equity� language. Bottom line: our children and grandchildren must be taught that same gender marriage is legal and normal. Parents who want a future for their children in which their values are represented must either express their outrage and take back their schools or retreat and find alternative settings to educate their children.
2. When same gender marriage is legalized, children can then be legally adopted. This issue is not about adults and their happiness. It�s about children and their well-being. No sociological study has yet determined that a child is better off without both a mother and a father.
Cherilyn Bacon Eagar
World Class Education Research
That's very high. I think you must be referring to UT which is in the top quarter of state divorce rates for the nation.
MA with its same sex marriages only have half as many -- behind only the District of Columbia. And the rate actually went down when same sex marriages were allowed.
We've already received direction from the prophet on this matter on more than one occasion. Unfortunately, many people have chosen not to listen to him or heed his advice.
And to "Get ready": Women already ARE full members of the LDS church. We are not oppressed in any way, shape or form. Please stop perpetuating such a ridiculous rumor.
If same-sex marriage becomes legal, what is wrong with teaching that it is legal? It will be a fact.
Normal? It will never be the norm because only about 10% of the population is gay, so,it might be taught that a few people have marriages like that, but 90% of them do not. Besides, I don't remember being taught anything about marriages in school until maybe a high school sociology or psychology class. I think most high schoolers know about homosexuals by then.
Man and woman are designed as complimentary to each other. Psychological stuies show that children are best adjusted if they have a father and a mother. The definition of gender is obvious and biological. The status of men and women are inherently different because among other things only women get pregnant.
Anti-interacial marriage laws are another issue completely. It is a sad fact that Utah had one. How did it end you may ask. The state legislature repealed it in 1964. It is true that Virginia and several other states had their anti-inter-racial marriage laws repealed in 1967 by the supreme court, but these laws were not universal or from the beganing of time.
While marriage between a man and a woman has been that way since Adam and Eve, race and marriage are much more complexed issues. Race is not biologcial. Depending on who you ask there are between 3 and 100 or maybe more races. Although most Americans would be classed consistently in one race this is not always so.
What race is Barak Obama? Interestingly enough in theory his parents marriage would have gotten them thrown in jail in Virginia at the time of his birth.
However the Loving vs. Virginia case that caused the end of anti-interracial marriage laws originated with a marriage performed in DC, where it was entirely legal.
Race had never been an integral part of marriage. Maryland's 17th Century law recognized that white women and black men were actually getting married. In fact it made a woman who insisted on entering such a marriage a slave if her husband was. The issue never was if a white and black could enter a marriage, but whether such was legally recognized.
There are a lot of people in the United States whose race is not easiy defined. The census has five racial categories, but three of these also have lots of subcategories that are recognized as races to some extent. Then there is the "some other race" designation. Over 20% of the people in Los Angeles County marked this. Actually even this is a misleading statement.
There is also the number of people who marked more than one race. Then there are people like me who marked Native American. My last full blooded Native American ancestor died sometime in the 1600s, and I am only sure about having Margeret daughter of Quadequina on one line. President Hinckley also descended from this lady so he was probably more Native American than me. I marked the census the way I did because I distrusted what the government would do with those marking more than one race. I had been incluenced to do this by a man who was only going to mark his Native American ancestry because he was afraid if he also marked his African American ancestry he would only be counted as such.
Next I will give a short consideration of anti-interracial marriage laws.
In Virginia they had a two part rule. There were only three races acknowledged in the law. Whites, Blacks and American Indians. Anyone with any black descent was black. A black could not marry a white. With American Indians I believe the threshold was one sixteenth. This is because everyone of the first families of Virginia could trace their descent from Pocahontas and her husband John Rolfe, who was White. This marriage would have been illegal under latter Virginia law, but at least their descendants could marry white people. If you were one sixteenth or more Indian you could not marry whites. No laws governed marriages of Indians and blacks. I am not sure how they dealt with Chinese and other groups from Asia.
One last thing. Such marriages were criminal. There were jail penalties assigned. These were nothing like laws aginst same sex marriage.
I just hope the constitutional admendment passes in California.
People keep on claiming those of us who defend traditional marriage are the haters. Yet, it is the advocates of same-sex marriage who claim they understand our ideological views.
I have done my part to try to end racial segragation, at times meeting the anger of people who still want the races seperated. Do not claim that those of us who believe that only a man and a woman should marry are racists. I see as my heros such men as Marcus Martins. If you do not understand why this proves my point, do an archive search of the Deseret News and bring up the picture of his family.
Homosexuality is almost certainly a genetic or otherwise biological attribute. The latest findings from brain shape studies add to the evidence. If you know a gay person well, like I know my brother, then you know it is no more a choice than being right handed is a choice.
Gay people are different, but they are not legally inferior as Americans, and more importantly: Heavenly Father loves us all.
I agree with the RM from Boston who suggested Civil Unions as a compromise. Resisting reality will only haunt the Church, like the exclusion of blacks did.
The thowing of men in jail, shipping them hundreds of miles from their families, bagering their wives, revoking the normal husband and wife judicial immunity rules, deneying people the vote on the grounds that they belong to a church that supports polygamy are a far far cry from the issues involved in same gender marriage.
Has any state passed a law banning homosexuals from voting? Have homosexuals ever been denied the vote anywhere in the United States? If you can find one instance of this ever happening at any location in any state of the United States then we can start a discussion of persecution. Until that time you are misusing the term. The Idaho test oath banned all Mormons from voting and was upheld by the Supreme Corut of the United States.
Incidentally 1960 is about the year Senator Obama's parents married. Not all states ever banned inter-racial marriage. By 1960 it was legal in most states.
Anyway, as people have pointed out, the issue is very different. For one thing, no one claims that the sexual attraction is different in same-race and different race marriages. I wonder which my marriage would count as. Since my ex-wfie was 1/32nd Native American and I am only 1/2000th or so Native American, was it an interracial marriage?
What about the half Dutch and half African descent lady I knew who married a half-white American and half-Japanese man. For those of you who may think I am making things up to lob them at the false wall of race, I could not have thought up that last couple if I tried. The wife was born in Guyana but grew up in St. Vincent and then moved to New York where she met her husband.
There are also many myths regarding homosexuals.
To suggest that we are breaking the law by advocating that existing laws remain intact is one of the most bizarre accusations I have ever read.
Anyway, Thomas S. Monson is not my prophet, he is the Lord's prophet. I follow him because he recieves the word of God.
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