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Integrity | 12:02 a.m. June 13, 2008
Elizabeth that is what you and your family exemplify. You are an amazing
example of the true gospel in action. You are gently teaching us something we
all need to learn. Thank You. You have made the best decisions out of a
horrific experience. Our family wishes you and your family the very best of
happiness, healing and joy.
Media Choices | 12:52 a.m. June 13, 2008
Friends,
Many here speculate on Elizabeth's motivations for this story. I bet there are only a handful of people in her family and close family representatives/friends who actually know how many media outlets have been trying to get Elizabeth to talk for the last six years. Do you really think she individually seeks this attention? I don't. She is choosing, and choosing wisely. She's 20 years old now. She could milk this much, much more than she has. Yes, there are thousands of unsolved cases out there. Yes, there are hundreds of other young girls who are survivors of abduction and (I presume) rape. But Elizabeth's case is unique in some ways, and her "story" is powerful for one particular reason: the whole country knew the name Elizabeth Smart six years ago. For that reason alone her story and her words command attention. I think so far she has not abused that, and has shown amazing grace and character in simply trying to grow up and carry on. I think, or at least hope, she will be a steady victim's advocate (not professional victim) for decades to come. God bless you Elizabeth.
Many here speculate on Elizabeth's motivations for this story. I bet there are only a handful of people in her family and close family representatives/friends who actually know how many media outlets have been trying to get Elizabeth to talk for the last six years. Do you really think she individually seeks this attention? I don't. She is choosing, and choosing wisely. She's 20 years old now. She could milk this much, much more than she has. Yes, there are thousands of unsolved cases out there. Yes, there are hundreds of other young girls who are survivors of abduction and (I presume) rape. But Elizabeth's case is unique in some ways, and her "story" is powerful for one particular reason: the whole country knew the name Elizabeth Smart six years ago. For that reason alone her story and her words command attention. I think so far she has not abused that, and has shown amazing grace and character in simply trying to grow up and carry on. I think, or at least hope, she will be a steady victim's advocate (not professional victim) for decades to come. God bless you Elizabeth.
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Ronald A. Young | 1:16 a.m. June 13, 2008
Ed and Liz Smart, Two of my favorite People, I will be happy to Read About Them
In My Issue Of People when it arrives. I hope this is for money lots of money.
It will also do a lot of good for many people mostly female but, males also. Ed
Smart is a good Father he held out hope when everyone else had given up. The
Cops where lucky but maybe it was the right time and place things happen for a
reason. A person does not have to be tied up in the bad things that happen to
them. There are some perverts but vastly most people like her and really want to
know. It is okay to write a Book or Sell a Story. Maybe a CD of Harp Music,
expose people. I hope she does well. If you do not think life is about Money,
think again. Check out the Signature that is Not On Your TR, if you don't
Tithe. The Scripture is full of Verses about Money and what to do or Not do with
it. She is Not a Whoa is me, Professional Victim so she will be a joy to
hear.
McMedia | 2:28 a.m. June 13, 2008
Magazines publish regularly and they are starving for something to fill their
pages. That's why they keep going to the same well over and over and
over.
If all the chuckleheads out there stopped buying these vacuous rags, they would go out of business.
If all the chuckleheads out there stopped buying these vacuous rags, they would go out of business.
NSD | 4:59 a.m. June 13, 2008
I for one want to read this story, which can only be an uplifting one to see how
someone has survived such trauma and survived it well. Those who say that she
cannot heal without a therapist forget the Master Healer. Apparently, Elizabeth
knows Him and is known of Him and that is how she has been able to heal. The
Savior truly is the Savior of all mankind, if one chooses to have faith in Him
you also can be healed from whatever you have suffered. Remember His promise or
covenant to support those who support Him in His cause to feed His sheep. Also,
in Psalms it says, "Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain
thee." Apparently, Elizabeth as done just that. May God continue to bless
her and her family!
from a mother | 5:56 a.m. June 13, 2008
I say if she is,in fact, making money from her story, she deserves every penny.
I admire her ability to forgive. "To err is human, to forgive,
divine." I for one would go see the movie if her story were made into one.
I can't imagine my daughter going through what Elizabeth went through. The
whole family suffered long enough. Can we show a little kindness.
South Carolina | 6:17 a.m. June 13, 2008
I cannot believe some of the comments. I'm not sure of all that has been
written in the West but I've read and heard virtually nothing about
Elizabeth Smart since she was first found. I read the book and so admire
Elizabeth and her family for the wonderful example they have been for the whole
world. Like so many have said I think it is totally appropriate that she tells
her story now. It shows her maturity and the willingness of her parents to
allow her to tell her story when she was ready. If it was totally for money,
wouldn't it have been better to have done it when everyone was eager to get
more information? As it is, she has done it in her own time and on her own
terms. Many victims and families would have seen it as an opportunity to profit
from her ordeal years ago.
God bless you Elizabeth Smart and your family. You are not only an example for the victims of such a horrible crime but an example to everyone. I hope we haven't heard the last from you.
God bless you Elizabeth Smart and your family. You are not only an example for the victims of such a horrible crime but an example to everyone. I hope we haven't heard the last from you.
Anonymous | 6:25 a.m. June 13, 2008
For those of us not living in Utah we've not heard a thing about her since
her being found so are thrilled to see she has moved forward!
How wonderful that the Lord has blessed her with the capacity to turn a negative into a positive for herself and others!
How wonderful that the Lord has blessed her with the capacity to turn a negative into a positive for herself and others!
Anonymous | 7:02 a.m. June 13, 2008
I think were are all missing the point here, Elizabeth is telling her story to
help others who have gone through this. She also feels I'm only guessing,
maybe if we notice the fatherless and homeless, those without a good family
support system a little earlier in their lives we can help prevent and heal
those who face these types of trauma. She points out her family is unique in
that she has always had a great support system, many victims and offenders do
not and need their visiting teachers, and other church services that are very
very hard to come by since mose of us are neglecting to do these things.
Janet | 7:04 a.m. June 13, 2008
I am so happy for you Elizabeth, I prayed for you too. There is a loving Father
in Heaven who can heal your scars, Heaven bless you!
Journie | 7:14 a.m. June 13, 2008
Elizabeth Smart has a light in her eyes, she looks like a sweet person. I
don't think she is doing this for money, as other commenters are accusing
her of. God bless Elizabeth and her family.
??No Therapy?? | 7:16 a.m. June 13, 2008
To "NO Therapy". Who ever said she didn't have therapy.
The Smart's said she was having therapy after she was found. She may still be having therapy for all we know. Her parents are very loving and responsible. They got her the best help available. Don't know where you got the idea she didn't get therapy.
The Smart's said she was having therapy after she was found. She may still be having therapy for all we know. Her parents are very loving and responsible. They got her the best help available. Don't know where you got the idea she didn't get therapy.
WebGyver | 7:17 a.m. June 13, 2008
What an amazing planet we live on. You can hardly do a thing
� say, sneeze, sing a song or write something
� without evoking a variety of responses.
And there are always some people who will be offended by anything anyone says or does or thinks. A part of me wants to think that "freedom" has to make allowances for all of this. Yet another part of me realizes that ignorance causes a lot of misunderstandings and even hatred. I'm far from being perfect, and I don't understand it all, but I pray for the well-being of those who seek to make the world a better place, even if they might only touch one life for the better.
Give me, love for the lonely
Give me, food for the hungry
Give me, peace in a restless world
Give me, hope for the children
Give me, a worldwide religion
Give me, peace in a restless world
- Dear God / Midge Ure
And there are always some people who will be offended by anything anyone says or does or thinks. A part of me wants to think that "freedom" has to make allowances for all of this. Yet another part of me realizes that ignorance causes a lot of misunderstandings and even hatred. I'm far from being perfect, and I don't understand it all, but I pray for the well-being of those who seek to make the world a better place, even if they might only touch one life for the better.
Give me, love for the lonely
Give me, food for the hungry
Give me, peace in a restless world
Give me, hope for the children
Give me, a worldwide religion
Give me, peace in a restless world
- Dear God / Midge Ure
neser | 7:23 a.m. June 13, 2008
Yes, there are many others still missing and I think she is helping them. How
often do you see someone who has been abducted by a stranger be returned to
their family? With the support of her family I believe she has handled this
better than anyone who experienced such a trauma at such a young age. There is
definitely reason for her to speak out and continue to do so to help others that
have had been though similar experiences.
SC Native | 7:29 a.m. June 13, 2008
God bless those who have been abducted and God help those who are critical. Ask
yourself...how long would it take me to heal and how would I help others?
justanothermom | 7:29 a.m. June 13, 2008
It is disheartening to read all the negative comments. Not living in Utah we do
not get to hear/read all the local stories. They don't make the national
news. I am excited to read how she has coped - it gives us all hope. For 9
months many held their breath while she was missing. I'm sure that most
never expected to see her alive again. I personally would like to thank the
Smart family for their awesome example of HOPE. Their steadfast belief in the
answer to prayer got them through. Now maybe we can hear how Elizabeth coped.
And through her message maybe we can all learn to listen and recognize the
Spirit of God a little more clearly.
lisa | 7:36 a.m. June 13, 2008
Not everyone needs a therapist when bad things happen to them.
I am very happy for her!
This is America, what is wrong with making money? Isn't that what businessmen do every day. Isn't that what you do everytime you go to work? If people want to hear her story and it helps them and they are willing to pay for it, and it is not immoral, what is wrong with making money? I am not saying that she is, because I don't know, but even if she did, why is that such a sin? It is not! Making money honorably is a great thing. This is America. Is is a sin that Bill Gates makes money selling software. When did making money honorably become a bad thing?
Best of luck to Elizabeth! You are a great gal! Glad things turned out well.
I am very happy for her!
This is America, what is wrong with making money? Isn't that what businessmen do every day. Isn't that what you do everytime you go to work? If people want to hear her story and it helps them and they are willing to pay for it, and it is not immoral, what is wrong with making money? I am not saying that she is, because I don't know, but even if she did, why is that such a sin? It is not! Making money honorably is a great thing. This is America. Is is a sin that Bill Gates makes money selling software. When did making money honorably become a bad thing?
Best of luck to Elizabeth! You are a great gal! Glad things turned out well.
SMH | 7:40 a.m. June 13, 2008
To all those who wonder why Elizabeth is once again telling her story and
desiring to reach out to those whom may need help or have been through similiar
traumatic events....why is it so difficult for you to understand her intentions?
It is not fame, money, or popularity she seeks. She wants to use her life
experience to help others.
It is NOT unusual for someone to go through a completely life changing nightmare of an ordeal, and then dedicate the rest of their LIVES to promoting their cause. When you see John Walsh on America's Most Wanted (for the past 20 years!) do you roll your eyes in disgust? What about the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer foundation? Is that just another woman's family who is looking to make a celebrity of themselves? HEAVENS NO! They have a worthy cause, and they are passionate about it, and will continue to pursue their goals to raise awareness and help other victims.
It is NOT unusual for someone to go through a completely life changing nightmare of an ordeal, and then dedicate the rest of their LIVES to promoting their cause. When you see John Walsh on America's Most Wanted (for the past 20 years!) do you roll your eyes in disgust? What about the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer foundation? Is that just another woman's family who is looking to make a celebrity of themselves? HEAVENS NO! They have a worthy cause, and they are passionate about it, and will continue to pursue their goals to raise awareness and help other victims.
Jean | 7:42 a.m. June 13, 2008
I too prayed for Elizabeth. I am thankful that she survived such a horrible
ordeal. She now has an opportunity to touch other abused people. Her words can
help. It helps victims to know they are not alone or the only ones going through
something horrible.
I think it has taken Elizabeth 6 years to be able to talk about this openly. Through her faith, her Mormon faith, she has learned how to forgive and I hope, healed or healing. Maybe she can help others turn to prayer for comfort and healing by her wonderful example.
Take care of yourself Elizabeth and thank you for your desire to help others.
I think it has taken Elizabeth 6 years to be able to talk about this openly. Through her faith, her Mormon faith, she has learned how to forgive and I hope, healed or healing. Maybe she can help others turn to prayer for comfort and healing by her wonderful example.
Take care of yourself Elizabeth and thank you for your desire to help others.
Charin | 7:57 a.m. June 13, 2008
We, too, prayed for Elizabeth as a family and I personally fasted and prayed for
her right up until the time she was rescued. That may sound strange since I
never knew her, but I just felt inspired to do so, and also felt that someday
she would be found. The day the story broke, I was on the way to a church
activity and when I heard that she was alive I felt unexplained joy such as
I've never felt before. I told the news to the rest of our ward when I
arrived and they, too, were so excited and happy that she was safe.
People around the world were amazed by her story, and the fact that she has put this behind her so quickly is a tribute to her and her family's strength, and also to the power of good to overcome all odds.
People around the world were amazed by her story, and the fact that she has put this behind her so quickly is a tribute to her and her family's strength, and also to the power of good to overcome all odds.
Don't Listen | 8:04 a.m. June 13, 2008
Elizabeth may read this posting and I for one don't think that it is fair
to assume that she is coming out now just for more press. Her parents did not
want her to talk to press when it happened and she has only been legal age for 2
years. I believe that she is doing what she truely thinks is best for everyone.
No one should judge her, she is the only one that knows why she is telling her
story now. I think that it is great that she is talking and not hiding from it.
Elizabeth, if you read this, I am so proud of how you have grown and stayed
strong.
Susan | 8:06 a.m. June 13, 2008
I am so happy to get an update on how this amazing young woman is going on with
her life. I'm glad she's helping others with an article in People
magazine. I hope she and her family do make money . . it's just icing on
the cake. Who cares how much money they make? What difference does it make to
anyone?! Elizabeth is doing something that will reach many people who need her
example. Bravo Elizabeth!
Monica from LA | 8:07 a.m. June 13, 2008
The great thing about these forums is the ability to freely express one's
opinion. The back-biting and personal slams ("you're obviously not
using the thinking half of your brain") is a bit immature.
We all have to deal with our own personal traumas the best way we know how. I am not planning to purchase this magazine to read the story, however, I am not going to criticize her either for the way she has chosen, as an adult, to handle this experience.
I am extremely grateful that I have not been given this challenge in my life, and I wish her and every other victim of abuse or abduction a pathway to recovery.
We all have to deal with our own personal traumas the best way we know how. I am not planning to purchase this magazine to read the story, however, I am not going to criticize her either for the way she has chosen, as an adult, to handle this experience.
I am extremely grateful that I have not been given this challenge in my life, and I wish her and every other victim of abuse or abduction a pathway to recovery.
Well wisher from Texas | 8:11 a.m. June 13, 2008
I am interested in Elizabeth Smart and her story. I welcome the update. I
prayed for her and was so thankful when she was found and rescued. I praise her
for her reactions and her actions that permitted her to survive. I know she and
her family are not just selling the story for the money. I believe them and I
believe there are many people who can be helped the way they are doing it.
Catherine R. | 8:17 a.m. June 13, 2008
I am so grateful that I was prompted to continued reading the comments to the
end. It was so discouraging to read through all the negative comments, it
serves to remind us of the sickness of spirit in our world today and how much we
need the kind of love and forgiveness which has been exemplified by Elizabeth
and her family. There are so many lessons for us to learn from them and as one
of the millions of people who were praying for Elizabeth and her family six
years ago, I am thankful that the Smart family were so grounded in the Gospel
that there was little need for outside counseling. What a wonderful young woman
who evidently knows who she is, where she's from and her reason for being
here. Would that we should all know our Heavenly Father and our Savior so
well.
Keep up your good work Elizabeth, you are an inspiration to us all.
Keep up your good work Elizabeth, you are an inspiration to us all.
Ramona | 8:41 a.m. June 13, 2008
So, what's wrong with receiving money for something she is contributing to
society? At least it has the potential to do some good to balance the flood of
bad that so many other people earn money from.
Some people get so hung up on money, they don't realize that money comes in exchange for something. If she has something to contribute that is of value to someone else, why should you care? Unless, of course, you're jealous that she is getting more than you have.
More than likely, she will use the money to do some great GOOD in the world. Money is neither good nor bad. It all depends on the people who use it.
Some people get so hung up on money, they don't realize that money comes in exchange for something. If she has something to contribute that is of value to someone else, why should you care? Unless, of course, you're jealous that she is getting more than you have.
More than likely, she will use the money to do some great GOOD in the world. Money is neither good nor bad. It all depends on the people who use it.
Carol | 8:44 a.m. June 13, 2008
Elizabeth,
You are one of this generations heroines. No doubt about it. Your refusal to be a victim; your willingness to subject yourself once again to mean spirited scrutiny in order to help others; your ability to uncover the wisdom in your experience; but most importantly your ability to forgive... now that is truly heroic.
Thank you for your remarkable example. You are one of my heroes!
You are one of this generations heroines. No doubt about it. Your refusal to be a victim; your willingness to subject yourself once again to mean spirited scrutiny in order to help others; your ability to uncover the wisdom in your experience; but most importantly your ability to forgive... now that is truly heroic.
Thank you for your remarkable example. You are one of my heroes!
onward | 8:47 a.m. June 13, 2008
I was surprised that this became about Elizabeth's right to talk about it
or not, or when she should have. She is the one to decided and we can be
supportive of her in that. Secondary victimization is a sorry thing and we can
avoid that by respecting a person's decisions about how to deal with their
abuse, even if they are different from our own. Elizabeth is a candle of hope
for all of us that miracles can happen for others who have been abducted. She
is also an example of healing. Let us learn from her insights. Getting money
for her story seems okay with me. I've never understood why that became a
cardinal sin. Isn't it only fair that after all of the hoopla, she now can
say what she wants to say about it? No more and no less. This is about choice.
Carol, an admirer | 8:55 a.m. June 13, 2008
Elizabeth, you have turned a horrid experience into a growing and forgiving one.
By forgiving these people, you have helped yourself grow positively. You are a
grant example to all. Thank you for your mature insights. The beautiful life you
are now living is to your credit, the help of your family, and the love of
Eternal Father. God bless you always.
Thankful Senior Citizen | 9:04 a.m. June 13, 2008
I am truly grateful to Elizabeth and her immediate and extended family. The
example they have set of Christ-like love and forgiveness is both rare and
extraordinary. The jealousness and petty accusations of so many on this site
simply sicken me. The accusations of this being about money are unconscionable.
Since the remarkable close of the abduction, I have yet to see one single bit
of evidence of ANY attempt of the family to make it an opportunity to profit.
Quite the contrary, It appears to me that they have consistently freely given of
their own time, knowledge of how to respond, and I strongly suspect, of their
own resources. Elizabeth - you are a very rare and choice daughter of your
heavenly father. Keep the faith and continue to provide the comfort, strength,
and example you have to others that have faced similar tragedies in their own
lives. Much like the "how many apple trees in an apple", you will
not, in this lifetime, know how many others you have 'touched and helped to
'save'. I and my family pray you stay the course, just as you have
thus far. May God continue to bless you.
Good For Her | 9:09 a.m. June 13, 2008
First, I believe Elizabeth is a strong person and applaud her for surviving a
terrible ordeal and ending up a good person like it sounds like she is.
Second, this girl was abducted for 9 (yes, NINE) months of her life. Her freedom and right to choose were stripped from her for that entire time. Who knows what kind of torture she went through, physically or emotionally. After surviving that as well as she has, why doesn't she have the right to profit from it??? I don't think I'd trade any amount of money in the world for my daughter to be abducted, and you idiots sit here and criticize her for profiting from this. Good for her. I hope she makes millions and millions. Better for the press to be spotlighting someone admirable like her instead of some trashy hollywood celebrity. After what she's gone through...she deserves every dime and should seek it!!! What is wrong with Utahn's who criticize her???
I will read her article. We were all captivated by her story 6 months ago and I'll look forward to knowing more. Good luck Elizabeth in everything you do.
Second, this girl was abducted for 9 (yes, NINE) months of her life. Her freedom and right to choose were stripped from her for that entire time. Who knows what kind of torture she went through, physically or emotionally. After surviving that as well as she has, why doesn't she have the right to profit from it??? I don't think I'd trade any amount of money in the world for my daughter to be abducted, and you idiots sit here and criticize her for profiting from this. Good for her. I hope she makes millions and millions. Better for the press to be spotlighting someone admirable like her instead of some trashy hollywood celebrity. After what she's gone through...she deserves every dime and should seek it!!! What is wrong with Utahn's who criticize her???
I will read her article. We were all captivated by her story 6 months ago and I'll look forward to knowing more. Good luck Elizabeth in everything you do.
Wonderful | 9:09 a.m. June 13, 2008
There are so many angry feeling that I have read above. It makes me sad that
people are so upset about a young girl that wants to speak out and have a
positive impact on others. What is the harm in that? We all should welcome
postitive and uplifting stories that help us to rise above the hardships we face
in life. Hooray for Elizabeth!
ELIZABETH deserves credit! | 9:11 a.m. June 13, 2008
Good for you Elizabeth Smart. You survived. You are continuing on with your
life, you have forgiven. I am only concerned about the memories. Rape/trauma is
not something you can recover from without some help.
I am LDS too, and I understand how forgiveness is a blessing to us. Prayer our safety net. Living the Gospel our happiness. Please consider talking to someone, sometime. Memories have a way of creeping up when you least expect them. It may come sometime in the future, when you are a wife and mother.
It is not weak to get help. Nor is it not believing in the healing power of Heavenly Father. It is a way to heal. Remember, what is created on Earth, was created in Heaven. Therapy is a gift from Heavenly Father. Along with prayer, blessings, therapy is also a blessing. You may not think it's needed, you can move forward. Yes, that is true, especially with Heavenly Father's gracious Love. His love for us was also the gift of therapy. Find a good one. You will be amazed at the freedom and blessing it gives.
We are proud of you Elizabeth. Don't close all your doors. ETTE
I am LDS too, and I understand how forgiveness is a blessing to us. Prayer our safety net. Living the Gospel our happiness. Please consider talking to someone, sometime. Memories have a way of creeping up when you least expect them. It may come sometime in the future, when you are a wife and mother.
It is not weak to get help. Nor is it not believing in the healing power of Heavenly Father. It is a way to heal. Remember, what is created on Earth, was created in Heaven. Therapy is a gift from Heavenly Father. Along with prayer, blessings, therapy is also a blessing. You may not think it's needed, you can move forward. Yes, that is true, especially with Heavenly Father's gracious Love. His love for us was also the gift of therapy. Find a good one. You will be amazed at the freedom and blessing it gives.
We are proud of you Elizabeth. Don't close all your doors. ETTE
Ann Best | 9:14 a.m. June 13, 2008
A magazine such as People magazine needs stories about people. Why not a story
about Elizabeth, what she feels and thinks NOW, looking back on what happened to
her? I see nothing wrong with this, even if she's getting paid for the
story. I'm a writer. I look for stories to write to earn income, stories
about myself and others. And I want to write stories that will uplift and
inspire. This is what Elizabeth says she wanted to do when she consented to tell
People magazine readers how she feels in retrospect about her traumatic
experience. So, I'm glad she has this opportunity to express herself now
that she's older and undoubtedly wiser. Maybe the nameless others who have
suffered similar horrible experiences can't be found to tell their
stories....?
Shocked | 9:15 a.m. June 13, 2008
Wow... after reading all of this, I am very taken back by all of those who are
judging. Have they all forgotten that the only one to judge is our savior?
What cruel thoughts some have expressed here. We have absolutely no idea what
it is like surviving something like that, as a child and a parent. Before these
nasty comments are put out there by all the bloggers, I pray that they have
taken the time to put themselves in Elizabeth's and her families'
shoes.
Good For Her (part2) | 9:16 a.m. June 13, 2008
I recently was involved in a home makeover for a family who had 3 very sick
children and their home bacame condemned because of mold. They are a very
quality family and were in real need of help. It was amazaing to me to see some
people express their hatred towards this family receiving a home makeover, even
their neighbors. They would say "their kids aren't really sick, I see
them playing outside all the time." They hated the fact that someone other
then themselves were receiving help from other who love and care for those in
need.
I see the same thing on this message board. A bunch of people who are ticked off that Elizabeth may profit while they don't. Here's a question for you: How much would you sell 9 months of your life to abductors for???? There probably isn't a price. So, get of your jealous kicks and just be happy for her. She deserves all the good press, happiness, love, and money (should she get any) that comes her way.
I see the same thing on this message board. A bunch of people who are ticked off that Elizabeth may profit while they don't. Here's a question for you: How much would you sell 9 months of your life to abductors for???? There probably isn't a price. So, get of your jealous kicks and just be happy for her. She deserves all the good press, happiness, love, and money (should she get any) that comes her way.
CMK | 9:20 a.m. June 13, 2008
It seems that people have become so conditioned to 'therapy' being
the cure-all to every bad situation that
they have forgotten that the human race has survived for thousands of years
without running to a therapist for every thing that happened in life. People can overcome horrific experiences, and often
do without ever seeing a therapist. I believe, in Elizabeth's case, her very strong support system, i.e., her family, and extended family and friends, was enough to get her through. She forgave her abductors and mentally accepted the
experience as a learning experience..she turned her attention 'outward' instead of dwelling inwardly on herself..Kudos to Elizabeth!
they have forgotten that the human race has survived for thousands of years
without running to a therapist for every thing that happened in life. People can overcome horrific experiences, and often
do without ever seeing a therapist. I believe, in Elizabeth's case, her very strong support system, i.e., her family, and extended family and friends, was enough to get her through. She forgave her abductors and mentally accepted the
experience as a learning experience..she turned her attention 'outward' instead of dwelling inwardly on herself..Kudos to Elizabeth!
To DMDR & the other whiners | 9:25 a.m. June 13, 2008
DMDR, What details were you hoping for exactly?
For the rest of the whiners, if reading about this young woman's strength, faith, forgiveness, and determination to not let this get the better of her offends you, you have issues! If you're tired of reading about it...go find something else to read. Sad to think people are turned off by good news for a change. Elizabeth has taken a horrible situation and has grown from it. She's not playing the victim card here. She has forgiven and moved on. She wants others who have had to deal with similar situations to know it's possible to get through it & be ok. Kudos to you Elizabeth!
Finally, is it really anybody's business if the family received money for sharing their story? If you've had to deal with horrible trauma like that, I say you deserve every penny that comes your way. GET OVER YOURSELVES and be happy for her would ya!
For the rest of the whiners, if reading about this young woman's strength, faith, forgiveness, and determination to not let this get the better of her offends you, you have issues! If you're tired of reading about it...go find something else to read. Sad to think people are turned off by good news for a change. Elizabeth has taken a horrible situation and has grown from it. She's not playing the victim card here. She has forgiven and moved on. She wants others who have had to deal with similar situations to know it's possible to get through it & be ok. Kudos to you Elizabeth!
Finally, is it really anybody's business if the family received money for sharing their story? If you've had to deal with horrible trauma like that, I say you deserve every penny that comes your way. GET OVER YOURSELVES and be happy for her would ya!
Confused | 9:27 a.m. June 13, 2008
6 years later and i'm still confused why she didn't just...oh I
don't know...run away from her kidnappers.
Wow | 9:30 a.m. June 13, 2008
I do not live in SLC or Utah. I do read articles from this newspaper because I
receive links with my LDSliving subscription. Each time I read something I note
the tone of the comments that follow. I am always amazed at how negative some
of these comments are. I would think that some of you would hold yourselves to
a higher standard. I teach my children that if something doesn't apply to
you, then keep your comments to yourself and if you can't say something
nice, don't say anything at all. I will say that there are some nice
comments about this article and that I LOVE to hear good news and happy endings.
Let's all support each other, because the world does a wonderful job of
tearing us down...we don't need to help. Have a blessed day.
Julie | 9:33 a.m. June 13, 2008
I applaud you Elizabeth, mom, and dad. During your whole ordeal I and my family
prayed for you daily. When we heard you had been found I was driving my teen
daughter to a church youth activity, we had just pulled into the parking lot
when the newscommentator made the announcement. My daughter and I shouted for
joy, cried, and hugged each other. We ran into the church building only to find
everyone else there doing the same thing. You are an inspiritation to many. To
have such a support system as your mother and father and siblings who never gave
up looking for you, is inspiring and an example to us parents who may be
struggling with children who get "lost" in the world. We should never
give up hope and continue praying and looking for them and when they do return,
we open our arms and give them the love and support necessary to get their lives
back on track.
Elizabeth you are an inspiritation to many. Thank you for being wiling to share. May your adult years be happy ones filled with the beautiful love of a husband and the laughter of your children.
Elizabeth you are an inspiritation to many. Thank you for being wiling to share. May your adult years be happy ones filled with the beautiful love of a husband and the laughter of your children.
Smarty Pants | 9:44 a.m. June 13, 2008
I want to hear her story. And if you're one of the ones judging her... you
need to grow up... She's a 20 yr old showing a lot more fortitude and
wisdom than most of you. And if you're worried about her or her family
doing this for money, its time you worry about something else. Most of you seem
to be the ones who need to see a therapist. Maybe the interview and her
attempting to help others IS her therapy...
Tejano | 9:45 a.m. June 13, 2008
All of you criticizers are exposing your lack of media savvy. Think back to the
Natalie Holloway and Anna Nichole Smith stories to see how this could have
played out if Elizabeth somehow wanted to put herself into the center ring of
the media circus. She certainly has a compelling story if wanted to go that
route or if her motivation was to rake in the cash.
Now for all of those thousands of others out there who are abducted but never register a blip on the media's radar, Elizabeth Smart can be an example of how to move on with a well-adjusted life.
Now for all of those thousands of others out there who are abducted but never register a blip on the media's radar, Elizabeth Smart can be an example of how to move on with a well-adjusted life.
In the future | 9:57 a.m. June 13, 2008
I am sure in ten years we will hear another story from her...about how she
needed therapy to have a normal, healthy relationship with a man. It's too
bad that she hasn't had therapy. I am sure in her twenties she will seek
some, after she becomes more mature. I thought I was mature at twenty. Ha!
All of us who are able to look back and honestly assess ourselves know that your
20s are the most forming years of your life. I just hope she seeks help from a
licensed therapist before making too many poor decisions.
DeniseM/Canada | 10:01 a.m. June 13, 2008
Beautiful Elizabeth! Thank you for updating us on your successful life after
that horrible ordeal.
You are America's Sweetheart (and Canada's too!) and we are happy to hear from you, now that you have recovered.
Thank Heavenly Father for your loving family who have been able to help you. Your Dad sounds amazing and protective; he's a Dad that every girl would be proud to have.
Thank you for sharing your life now - you are so brave and an inspiration to others!
You are America's Sweetheart (and Canada's too!) and we are happy to hear from you, now that you have recovered.
Thank Heavenly Father for your loving family who have been able to help you. Your Dad sounds amazing and protective; he's a Dad that every girl would be proud to have.
Thank you for sharing your life now - you are so brave and an inspiration to others!
Ladyblueyes | 10:16 a.m. June 13, 2008
I am 53 yrs old and her words helped ME. My family thought 'if we
don't mention it, then she [I] will get over it quickly.' WRONG! Too
many families DON'T talk to their children. I was 11 yrs old when I was
kidnapped and raped! She is RIGHT to talk about it with her family (I was 31
years old before my mom and dad sat down with me and talked about it - I cried
for more than an hour, mourning the 'little girl' who lost her
childhood due to no communication and no therapy).
Elizabeth, keep talking about it. You will reach more than just a 53 year old who still needed to forgive. Because of YOUR bravery and YOUR family who has been there for you, I can now let my past go.
For those of you who think she's "milking" it or that her father is - my take is she is truly helping others and her father is protecting her by being there with her.
I wish MY dad had been as Smart ...
Elizabeth, keep talking about it. You will reach more than just a 53 year old who still needed to forgive. Because of YOUR bravery and YOUR family who has been there for you, I can now let my past go.
For those of you who think she's "milking" it or that her father is - my take is she is truly helping others and her father is protecting her by being there with her.
I wish MY dad had been as Smart ...
Thank You Smart Family | 10:17 a.m. June 13, 2008
Elizabeth, your courage over the past six years has been outstanding. You
appeared before Congress to testify for the need of an Amber Alert - and we have
one today. I am happy that you have found that inner peace that comes from
knowing who you are and that the actions and choices of others, although they
may interfere with your life plans or even cause you physical harm, you proved
that a victim has a choice. I was a victim, too, and I am stronger today from
that sad and terrifying incident. Like you, I'm no longer sorry it
happened, because in a way, it freed me from the bondage of being the victim.
The abductors will be tried in "another court" and pay a high price
for the innocence they stole. The world should take note of this story because
it shows that when others victimize us, we an stop them from continuing to
victimize us through forgiveness, even as hard as it must have been - she still
forgave them and freed herself. God bless you Elizabeth - go have a happy life
and thank you for sharing.
Hm. | 10:33 a.m. June 13, 2008
Every time the Smarts start to fade into normal-family reality mode, they pop up
in the news again. I was glad when Elizabeth came home, but honestly, just let
it go! And personally, I think therapy shouldn't have been an option for
her--sometimes you have to talk to a professional when you've been through
a trauma like that. Of course, that is up to them, but I do think they pop up
in the news at conveniently staggered times. I'm not interested in reading
the article.
To awesomeron | 10:35 a.m. June 13, 2008
Mitchell, the man who abducted and held Smart captive, cannot be held in jail
indefinitely without being brought to trial and found guilty. That Is The Reason
He Needs To Be Brought To Trial.
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Observation: One might think you believe only stories about BAD events are news worthy. From me and a majority of others, you are WRONG!! What the world needs is GOOD stories and this definetly qualifies.
Good for you Elizabeth.