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*There was no welfare fraud in TX with 0 residents receiving aid.
*39 year old should not be considered legal minors and forced to prove such in court. This also applies to 29 year olds and other legal adults that provided drivers license and birth certificates.
*"Lost boys" are actually adults that failed to comply with house rules including smoking. I wouldn't allow it either.
*Every 10 hours a 14 year old gets pregnant in Texas, but according to RealityCheck their future isn't stolen since they aren't FLDS and only white girls are of value.
Tell me where the state's interests are being compromised. Prosecute the men who fathered children from girls 15 or less, and let the others return to the ranch where the children were loved, educated, and had extended family relationships.
If the state really wants to stop child abuse, the CPS should concentrate on inner-city Dallas or Houston girls who conceived at age 15 or less. Jail the twenty-something men who impregnated them and attach their wages so the welfare queens can be self-supporting (like the FLDS). Then prosecute the Planned Parenthood offices which refuse to identify the adult fathers who impregnate girls 15 or less. Those offices should be closed down.
Only a minority of the students will ever graduate from college yet the serious cirruculm is directed toward college prep.
Utah is much better than other states in providing some OPTIONAL HS vocational training. If you were a student in Chicago's inner city you would not fare so well.
These "strange" FLDS people teach their children how to survive in a direct relation to the environment. We teach our children to get a job and pay someone else to help them survive(like Walmart). While we don't want to return to this primitive level, the FLDS would fare better than we in a major disruption of shipping due to war or natural disaster such as earthquakes.
It should be a graduation requirement of High School to have an employable skill instead of "would you like fries with that?"
Even most college students will have to work their way through.
Someone earlier posted that we should offer solutions - so I've been thinking.
Even though I would never enter a polygamous relationship I wouldn't care if other people did IF:
The girls and boys are all raised to adulthood, finish high school and are sent to college. If a child rebells ie. smokes, they are still supported - even if it is from a distance at military school - but the parents support that child financially until he/she is 21. It would be nice if they wouldn't shun them for life too. So, the kids go to college and become whatever they want. Or, if they are not the college type, they get a job, or whatever. They meet their spouse on their own and decide for themselves who to marry. If a woman enters a polygamous relationship as wife 2,3,4 etc. she still has rights (FLDS could push for rights - another topic) she can divorce and would be entitled to alimony/child support/equal share of property. Polygamist would support their children and wives with their own money - no welfare or medicaid. Good?
Some cultures call sex with pre-teens and early teens an abomination.
Other cultures view it as an order from God.
Somebody is clearly in the dark on this.
Polygamy is not really the problem here - because as a society we tolerate all sorts of cohabitational weirdness as long as it involves consenting adults.
I would like to see a new law that would get to the heart of the abuse both here and in other cult-like settings: It should be illegal to bring "undue" marriage pressure to bear on anyone for ones own social or financial gain. That's the idea anyway. The specifics could use more work. The idea is that the "prophet" derives a great deal of social and financial benefit out of controlling who marries who. This is highly toxic to any community - and it is also a common element of cults.
The "prophet" could make recommendations - like any matchmaker - but could be sued or prosecuted if it could be shown that he used "undue pressure" to get his way. That pressure could include excommunication threats against bride or groom or their family members, withholding of housing or other benefits in retaliation for refusal, etc.
who said anything about white girls? are you prejudiced? what makes you think Hispanic girls have no future? They are as capable as anyone else.
At least their parents don't hide them from the world, and they TRY to help them have a good future.
you on drugs? or can't read?
you must be FLDS - lots of practice twisting words. Fortunately, the intelligent folks here see right through it.
The childrens futures are stolen because the parents hide the children from the world and because the parents make the children afraid of the world, instead of teaching them how to exist in it, and giving them the tools to excel in it.
Thats stealing their future, and has nothing to do with race. You are perhaps against persons of color? walks like FLDS, talks like FLDS - wow, perhaps you are FLDS...
FLDS Children are not hidden, but protected. When was the last time you took your child to the Projects? How can your children have the tools to succeed if they only are exposed to white America and are "hidden" away in your suburbs? You are a hypocrite. You "protect" these girls to the tune of 7 million dollars cheering CPS which is notorious (see Billy Dan Carroll) while inner city kids go without adequate teachers because there are no state funds. Why these 5 alleged (they still aren't sure if all 5 are even) victims receive all that excessive protection while many more like them are throughout the state but not the shade you care about? The only time you might see a charge is if the girl is white and the "offender" looks like "Marcus Dixon." Actions like these are the very reason Texas requires the Innocence Project.
Oh and I married an attorney.
Personally, I doubt our civilization is threatened by small groups like the FLDS.�
That is so true, but if the FLDS take an interest in setting up colonies in Massachusetts and California, both which now allow gay marriage, then it becomes a new game. In fact, I think they should move there now. It would be interesting to see what would happen since they now allow gays to get married, how could they forbid polygamy?
I hate to say "the end justifies the means," but the FLDS Church wasn't going to change its ways (even if it's just lip service) unless and until the state of Texas stepped in. Yes, it would have been nice if the children hadn't been ripped out of their mothers' arms, but really, who are we kidding? These people are hardcore obedient. Only an upheaval like the one this spring could make the FLDS leadership rethink old traditions.
Does Warren Jeffs have much of a future as the FLDS Church's prophet? He's confessed to some pretty disgusting stuff. I'd be really surprised if they let him back in the door... but stranger things have happened.
When the YFZ Ranch was invaded, including its temple, all I could think was, "I wonder how many armed guards my temple has."
Maybe CPS will take into state custody all Catholic children who partake the eucharist because the Church teaches that it is the very body and blood of Christ! Can't have children being forced into cannibalism!
It may seem to be an absurd notion, but given the abuses and seeming contempt which these state tyrannical agencies have for the constitution it may not be as far fetched as it sounds.
The constitution is in place to protect the minority, who may hold beliefs substantially different from the majority, from people like you, who would punish and persecute a minority person or population for their non-conformist views.
I say, let the FLDS alone if there is no evidence of their actually violating existing law. Let them have their beliefs, while speaking against them. It is the coward and elitist tyrant who seeks to destroy an opinion or suppress an expression of belief through persecution because he is discomforted by such belief or expression.
Absent a violation of law, there is nothing to be done.Leave them alone with their beliefs and I will leave you alone with yours.
FROM-Someone from the inside--but cast out!
WARREN JEFFS FRENCH KISSING THE 12 YEAR OLD.... SAYS IT ALL ABOUT THE FLDS!
YOU SPEAK OF THE CONSTITUTION, YET YOU ARE VERY SELECTIVE ABOUT WHICH LAWS YOU WISH TO ABIDE BY.
WHEREAS, on October 27, 1838, the Governor of the State of Missouri, Lilburn W. Boggs, signed an order calling for the extermination or expulsion of Mormons from the State of Missouri; and...
WHEREAS, Governor Boggs' order clearly contravened the rights to life, liberty, property and religious freedom as guaranteed by the Constitution of the United States, as well as the Constitution of the State of Missouri; and
Now, THEREFORE, I, CHRISTOPHER S. BOND, Governor of the State of Missouri...
Expressing on behalf of all Missourians our deep regret for the injustice and undue suffering which was caused by the 1838 order, I hereby rescind Executive Order Number 44, dated October 27, 1838, issued by Governor W. Boggs.
In witness I have hereunto set my hand and caused to be affixed the great seal of the State of Missouri, in the city of Jefferson, on this 25 day of June, 1976.
(Signed) Christopher S. Bond, Governor.
The reason that Texas failed with the FLDS persecution is because they acted just as Missouri did in 1838. Only it didn't take over a century for Texas to admit the wrongs done the FLDS, as it did Missouri to Mormons.
It is ridiculous!? Why is it ridiculous?
Yours is the kind of statement which seems to come from one who closes his eyes and refuses to recognize this fact...the state has acted in violation of the constitutional rights of citizens in the past and right before your very eyes in the present. Religious and ethnic groups in these very united states have been victims of intolerance, persecution, and injustice not just in the past, but right here and now!
Yet, in the face of a history of past and actual present state-sponsored bigotry and persecution of a minority you dare to say it couldn't happen to some other person or group who hold an unpopular and minority belief? Now, that is truly ridiculous!
The reason is that under our laws and constitution, a picture of Jeffs allegedly molesting a 12 year old girl certainly opens Jeffs himself up to investigation and prosecution (he had already been convicted in criminal court in one state and is to be tried in another) but a picture of Jeffs kissing the girl does not make every man in the FLDS community criminally liable for Jeffs' actions.
Next, the state does not know that FLDS parents follow "every example given them by Jeffs." And even if the state actually believes this to be the case, absent evidence of actual abuse, the state cannot act in the way you would like it to.
I find your notion of guilt by association to be very troubling.
You may believe that young girls will be raped, but you certainly do not know that.
I will tell you why we have what you call a "Mormon persecution complex"! It's from bigots like you that think Missouri was right, even in signing a declaration of Extermination, which, by the way, wasn't revoked until well into the 20th century, I think, 1976. That means it was still on the books, and Mormons were still fair game for some trigger-happy idiot who hated Mormons. It's also from bigots like you that preach anti-Mormonism and teach it in their church classes, as I know they do here in the Southern Bible Belt. It's because ignorant people like you attack us every chance you get, on the Internet and elsewhere. It's because of protesters at our Conferences, outside our Temples, and even at Mormon military funerals.
Now do you understand? Have I made myself clear?
All states should be 18. For marriage and consexual sex.
The FLDS never swore to Texas officials they were building a hunting lodge. Also, how do you know they were not going to build a hunting lodge but then changed their plans when prosecutions picked up in Utah and Arizona.
Just because someone does different then their initially plan does not mean they are a liar.
WARREN JEFFS FRENCH KISSING THE 12 YEAR OLD.... SAYS IT ALL ABOUT THE FLDS!
YOU SPEAK OF THE CONSTITUTION, YET YOU ARE VERY SELECTIVE ABOUT WHICH LAWS YOU WISH TO ABIDE BY."
I'll assume your screaming, ranting reply is directed to me.
First, Jeffs has been tried and convicted of a crime in one state and is facing trial in another state, although the charges are not based on the picture of alleged abuse you write about. There is a reason, that you apparently cannot understand, why that when Jeffs was tried and convicted that all of the men of the FLDS community were not charged, tried, and convicted for the crimes HE committed, as well. I'd ask you to think about the reason why, but I suspect that you really don't care.
Next, I did write about the constitution, but nowhere did I discuss the actual laws in question or which laws, either specific or in general, I felt should or should not be enforced. So, how you could come to such an unfounded conclusion about my views about law enforcement is beyond me.
Can I then examine your religious or non-religious views and ask the state to take your children from you if, IMO , what you teach them is "wrong on so many levels" and constitutes brain-washing?
Why should the things you teach your kids, or that any one of us teach our kids, be considered anything less than brain-washing? You believe in Christ and that He is the only way to salvation...you brainwash your kids with that belief. You don't believe in religion and teach your kids not to believe, you brainwash them. Now, I as a Christian come along and ask the state to take your kids because you are endangering their eternal souls with your errant teaching.
We do not counter opinions and beliefs which seem strange or wrong to us by sicking the state on people who hold those beliefs. We counter those beliefs with other beliefs and with reason.
And, while it's true that "teens in the general population can get help with their problems" I wonder whether abortions without parents even being informed is such great help. Or whether the liberal (I'm not talking politics here) attitude toward drug and alcohol use is really helping teens with their problems. What do you call teaching kindergarteners that the gay lifestyle is just an alternate lifestyle and perfectly normal but an attempt for one group to indoctrinate children? Are we so sure that this world we think our kids should be involved in is really safe or healthy or even sane?
How many parents think it is so cute that their teenager is in a relationship and they know they are sleeping together. Just as long as they use protection. That is alright?
It seems to make it worse if it is connected to a religious belief. Then people get so outraged that they want them wiped off the face of the earth.
Government can not save us from ourselves. Political Correctness will not save us either.
Wrong is wrong no matter if it is legal.
How about living a higher LAW
Morality seems to be old fashioned. Religion seems to be out dated. But those 10 little commandments might be the key to a solid individual, community, Nation, and world.
As far as those that compare gay marriage to this: It is not the same at all! Gay marriage is more like marriage between a man and a woman involving TWO people (not multiples or underage). The issues involved are quite different.
No they're not different, and in your lifetime you will probably see legal recognition of both.
Problem is FLDS doesn't want to lose any followers. If ANY of theri people realize there's an actual world outside, they may be in big trouble as far as maintaining a decent population. (But I gues they only need 2 and they can just pump out the babies for awhile...)
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NPR had an interview today with a Texas Judge in which he accidently explained why Texas CPS and Judge Walther accepted the return of the children as long as they had access to monitor the community.
He said that the laws on Polygamy and Bigamy had been revised(on behalf of the FLDS) without drawing a distinction between the two. They now include liability for parents who approve marriage into polygamy(or any unlawful marriage) for ages 16 to short of 18(texas age of majority).
So an FLDS parent, unlike a regular parent giving permission for a monogamous marriage, cannot approve of their son or daughter between 16 and 18(short of 18) to marry into polygamy without being prosecuted for a class 2 felony.
Texas has effectively stopped new polygamous marriages beyond the age of parental consent until age of majority.
Sly old Texas, eh??