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FLDS to quit underage marriages
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I am so happy that the children are released from captivity and are/or will be back with their mothers. And to the "lawyer" above, I can't imagine that you went through any reputable law school.
Texas has shown itself to be above any law and not just with what they've done to the flds, but waco, branch dividians etc. How now can they (cps) possibly be trusted to investigate? They have to HAVE TO get some proof that what they did was legal.
No I do not belong to the flds, but I happen to love children and if there is wrong doing - arrest the perps. Leave the children alone!
All morality comes from somewhere and until we can openly acknowledge the bible and God as our source of moral inspiration, anything goes.
You got that right... And I hope someone sues the pants off Texas for the violation of civil and human rights.
I don't think it will be any of the FLDS. They seem way too humble conciliatory to want to cause anyone trouble.
Spiritual marriage is not unlike just shacking up. People do it all the time and it doesn't seem to be much of a concern. So what's your beef?
"Polygamy" isn't against the law in Texas. When Texas Justice comes after a polygamist, the prosecution is for "bigamy." In Texas, "bigamy" is defined as marrying or "living under the appearance of marriage" with more than one partner at a time.
But, wait, there's MORE!
Texas Code defines a "nonmarital conjugal cohabitation agreement." Unlike marriages, Texas doesn't limit someone to one NMCC agreement at a time. It also doesn't prohibit one or more NMCC agreements and one legal marriage.
As near as I can figure, you have to be at least 17 to enter into a NMCC agreement; but, since the FLDS have foresworn "child brides," this shouldn't be a problem.
So, to comply with Texas law, all you need is a "spiritual marriage" form that says, "this form is a Non-Marriage Conjugal Cohabitation agreement."
you can't be guilty of "living under the appearance of marriage" if you've got a signed, notarized "non-marriage agreement."
Poof: Texas polygamy that's "as legal as sea salt."
The problem is that underage pregnancy at the Ranch was actually statistically significant in that the rate is LOWER than outside the Ranch in TEXAS. They were picked on for being different, not for underage pregnancy which again was much lower than anywhere else in TX.
Is this an admission of guilt, not really. If you think I'd been doing it and it appeases you, is that a good thing for me? Probably so.
If our goal is to end sexual relations with underaged women than we should decide the following. What do we do about FLDS women who are under age 18 and currently married? Do we tell everyone that there is to be no sexual relations between such women and their husbands until the women are 18? Or do we work out a compromise age? Or do we just say that since they are still practicing polygamy and that is illegal we will not cut any deal with them?
My best suggestion is offering two conditions. As long as the FLDS stop marriages of women under age 18 across the board, we will not bring any charges of inproper relations with a minor for cases involving women who are as of today at least 17. I am trying to think of a way to offer men who have a "spiritual wife" under age 17 a way to be exempt from prosecution for having a child by their "spiritual wife" once she turns 17.
The AG's approach has been supported by the majority of Utahns because we have seen the past failures when attempts were made to stop polygamy in a frontal approach.
Though I don't agree with Shurtleffs' surly attitude toward the FLDS, I don't like Jessop's toward Shurtleff, either. I don't think open animosity is in the interest of what ultimately becomes a compromise.
Shurtleff's reasoned legal approach has protected Utah from legal liabilities while accomplishing what is actually possible. Utah may be the only state with experience that covers all the ground from local to the Supreme courts. If something useful comes from the Texas experience the Utah AG will add it to the tools available.
We are a small population state and cannot afford Texas-size liabilities. The Texas DFPS(includes CPS) budget is $2.1 Billion while the entire budget for the State of Utah is only about $8 Billion.
Let Texas pay for the mistakes.
Others have pointed out that LDS emphasize raising righteous children, while FLDS emphasize just having as many as you can. I would admit that despite church leaders constant and repeated emphasis on the raising of children up in righteousness, the efforts of at least some LDS parents are less than perfect. I am not saying that people whose children stray from the iron rod are bad parents, the input and outcome in child rearing is not easy to link, for some people have horrible parents and turn out good, I am just saying that I am sure no parent is perfect.
However my main point is that to the FLDS having children is a religious duty, felt at least as much if not more than by LDS people. We have to consider this when approaching the right way to end underage marriage.
Yet, if we do actually believe in the theory behind statutory rape, that people below a certain age are incapable of giving consent, we have to consider the "spiritual wives" feelings.
whines the wimpy husband. But alas, his wife is out pursuing her own interests - without him.
The fear on the faces of the town's menfolk is hilarious.
Conservatism at its finest.
Condemned even.
Some girls start their menstrual cycle as early as 11 years old. This does NOT mean they are ready for marriage in other cultures.
YFZ should:
1. End polygamy
2. No marriages civil or otherwise until the girls are 18 years old and encourage education if they choose that instead of marriage.
3. Freedom of choice of who to marry for the girls and guys.
4. Encourage education for all, including night classes for the adults who seem pitifully uneducated.
5. End child labor.
6. Keep the boys until they are educated.
He will do what ever it takes to get re-elected!
In the end, young girls will be raped by old men because nothing was done.
Val-gal - you think a simple conversation could have fixed this? You think Warren would have said "oh, sure - thanks for asking?" Ha ha ha. These people have declared Jeffs perfect - Willy is one of his stooges. They will defend Jeffs to the end - those that had the chance did it in court even though it could have cost them their children. They chose Jeffs over their kids.
Aren't the FLDS women who have obviously had children before they were of legal age a pretty good source of information - allegation proved?
So, if I start a religion that requires me to sacrifice hitch-hikers can I claim religious persecution? Will you all stand up for me?
How about we only have as many children as we can support ourselves - regardless of beliefs.
Wonder what these poor FLDS children are doing?
No new prom dress for the girls, is there?
How many tuxedos are being rented or bought for the boys?
Graduation gowns and caps for the senior's?
The FLDS are not a threat to our civilization. I have yet to see the FLDS recuit anyone in Michigan.
Personally, I doubt our civilization is threatened by small groups like the FLDS. I think we are more threatened by the drup culture that leads so many children to never become productive members of society.
In Utah there is no provision for a marriage under the age of 15. It is not legal to marry anyone under the age of 15 in Utah. However, as Utah has consistently insisted, without the benefit of having a legal marriage, sexual relations with girls under the age of 18 by significantly older men clearly fall under statutory rape laws.
This is one thing that is unclear. Are the FLDS saying they will stop 14 and 15 year olds marrying in Texas, or will they insist for a girl to marry in Texas she must be 18?
I am still wondering what Mexico's law is, and if a lot of FLDS people will soon be making short trips to Mexico.
Anyway, the whole basis of statutory rape law is the assumption that under a certain age people are not capable of consenting to sex.
tried to offer help, and constructive observations.
This subject, like many is frought with great passion
of feeling and thought.
I would say to the FLDS, that they should obey the law of the land,and not violate the laws of God also.
As to the State of Texas, your CPS is shown lacking a
great deal in facts ,logic, and judgement, as many of
the various States CPS agencies do.
I would like to remind all those interested,that the laws of marriage were originally a theological construct, and not the domain of government.
However, history and the present, are what they are.
The tearing apart of families has never solved any
perceived problems in the past or now. In fact, one of the major indicators of a nation in decline is,
how that nation turns in upon its own people, in an effort to maintain itself. It always ends in failure.
If the FLDS feel compelled to enter in plural marriage, they should maintain a higher standard,only
those 21 or older permitted.
When was the last time in this country a Mormon was killed for being a Mormon? I've lived in the South and never got threatened once, and never knew anyone who did, either (back in the days when I was a good Mormon boy).
*** "I think that the lesson in this is to be more tolerant of others beliefs. We need to stand up for the rights of each other." ***
This isn't about "tolerating" other people's beliefs. It's about how one person's practices affect others. We realize there are limits to what people can do (rather than just believe). We may like to pretend that all sorts of different cultures gan get along side by side if we just tolerate one another, but history shows that to be the case where, exactly? Nowhere.
Polygamy and monogamy lead down separate paths to vastly different governments and cultures. Take a look at the nations in this world where polygamy is legal and see what I mean.
Who here isn't anonymous? I can use any name I like.
It only goes to show how easy it is to skirt the law. That would allow the FLDS to keep their "promise" while still changing pretty much nothing. Maybe no more marriages to 14 or 15 year olds, but since these kids are born inside their colonies they can probably fudge on the birth certificates to, no?
And you have proof that she won't go to hell? I think it's your word against theirs.
And I don't know, but I don't think you got their "word" on the issue correct. Have you heard someone in authority tell you that, or is it hearsay that you are willingly and with glee passing on? Please enlighten us.
We'll appoint you to do the follow-up to assure that there are no sexual relations. Bring a pillow and a cot and we will set you up in their bedroom... or hayloft... or behind the barn... or... Wait! Just follow them wherever they go, day and night.
Some on this posts come from a culture where it's commonplace.
One of the two of us gravely mistaken.
-Frank Layden will stop eating lasagna.
-Chris Buttars will stop saying stupid things.
And do we really believe them in the first place?
And will they also give up the welfare fraud payments by claiming that they do not know who the fathers are of all the children of each wife > 2? If you want to have a bunch of kids, that is fine, but you need to be able to afford to support them from nonfraudulant sources of income.
I don't know how many times I have to say it, but removing a child's ability to have a life outside of your "group" is called "STEALING THE CHILD'S FUTURE" and although it is legal, it is nonetheless one of the most immoral things a parent can do.
And to do it in the name of God is like putting major salt on the wound. These parents deserve no mercy for the crime they are committing.
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