Good article. Good people make mistakes. To many people live beyond their
means and get caught up in immoral lifestyles. I have worked with criminals.
Taking responsibility for your actions is a huge first step. To many people in
America are playing the blame game. They want to blame others for their poor
choices in life. Even if not criminal choices have consequences.
I have sent this article to nearly everyone on my e-mail mailing list including
my children, grandchildren, friends and professional associates. It is a
powerful message. I felt the pain of the parents, sobbing at the prison intake
of their daughter. Hopefully, the message being shared will diminish the
potential pain of others.
Thanks, D News, for this wonderfully enlightening article. And thanks to Dian
Cattani for having the courage to tell others her "cautionary tale."
IMO, this is journalism at its best!
Really well written and insightful. The description of her parents holding her
child as she entered prison was heart breaking. I know that young people are
often asked to consider rationalizing and how easy it is to get into bad habits
that tend to grow into destructive habits over time, but as a teacher-I think
that this kind of testimonial would hit home. Anyway--thank you for an
Great article. Too many unethical, immoral, and criminal actions are perpetrated
by individuals who rationalize and try to justify their actions. They see gray
areas. They justify their own bad behavior by pointing out the bad behavior of
others. They feel entitled to the fruits of others' labor.We can
find examples of this throughout our society. Unfortunately, when just a few
people do it a whole class of people get branded as unethical.Ken
Lay, Bernie Madoff, Bernie Ebbers, and other corporate big shots have ruined the
lives of thousands of people through their greed and corruption. They give Wall
Street and Corporations in general a bad name.I could start listing
politicians (but the list would be too long) from both parties who have done
unethical things for personal power and money.And then there are
those who try to use the government to legally "redistribute wealth"
through the tax code for their own personal gain.
Good article -- Thank you to all for getting it in the paper. She
still retained her conscience. Thats what sociopath's don't have -- they become
and remain habitual liars and self-justifiers.
Wow! Thank you for such a wonderful article. It inspired me so much
that I couldn't put down the paper. I wish this lady nothing but the best in
her life as she tries to fix it. She wasn't caught. She initiated
what would be a very tough time for her and her family rather than trying to
hide it. She has made it right. I have nothing but respect for her and those
who have stood with her. I just hope that those who walked away learn to be
more loving and forgiving. They are the greater disappointment for me.
One of my friends on the BYU football team dated Diann back in the day and I
meet her several times. I would have never guessed she would have the problems
she did. I hope she is back on the right track. Very cool of her to share her
Fantastic article Sara. This is what good reporting looks like.
In my career as an attorney, I have seen this story played multiple times, by
good people who slid ever so gently from good to criminal. One's misdeeds were
discovered after he was found in a hotel room with a bullet through his head and
his hand on the gun; he had stolen and squandered client trust funds. I
represented one of the clients trying to clean up the financial repurcussions.
One was one of the most prominent attorneys in the city. One was an attorney I
knew, a great guy, a boyhood friend of my wife. One was a financial planner. A
couple (but none of these listed above) seemed to be crooks from the beginning
and crooks to the end. What is scary is that all those good people ended up in
the same place as those who were crooks from the beginning--in prison or dead,
with millions of dollars of hurt to innocent people they betrayed.
What a great article. I made the same mistake as Diann. It is so easy to lose
focus on what is important in life. Greed and entitlement are the down fall of
many people including myself. People need to be on guard all the time it is so
easy to fall into this trap. I have hurt my family, church and freinds, who I
realize now are the most important things in my life. Good luck Diann, keep
spreading the warning.
"There's no right way to do wrong"I love this last line of
the article. Thank you for printing this story. Thank you Diann for having the
courage to share.
What an amazing story, and from the sounds of it a success story. Great job for
facing your Boss and owning up to your mistake. Such a strong person. How many
of you would be able to own up to something this big and coming completely
clean? That takes a real Woman! Keep spreading the word!
A great read. I'm impressed that Diann turned herself in and is taking every
step to try to fix what she had done (including making payments to the company).
You don't often hear that.Thanks for the reminder too, that we have
to be careful not to justify and rationalize that we somehow "deserve
more." Especially when companies are not giving raises, reducing benefits,
charging more for insurance, etc. Beware the grey area!
Many Politicans from both major parties are doing what she did at a much larger
scale. But their secret pact that they made with each other makes them immune to
We may forgive the wrong, but people forget that there are consequences also
connected to the wrongs that are made. Diann is living proof that recompense is
extremely hard, but in the end, worthwhile. Madoff should take a
lesson from Diann, and realize it wasn't the banks that contributed to his ponzi
scheme, but he didn't face reality and check himself for his own morals or
guilt. Whatever pricked Diann's heart to turn a wrong around, that is what will
get her to have a bit of peace in her life.
Greed has overtaken even the poorer people in this nation. They're no longer
happy with having a roof over their head and food. Now it's an entitlement
mentality, that they are owed cable television, money for cigarettes and beer
etc.Greed is an issue for every class of Americans. To exclude any
one group would be wrong.Look at our political leaders and their
greed! They no longer are happy with providing water, roads, sewers, education.
Now they're entitled to trips across the world to look at cable cars, they feel
they have to spend and borrow beyond the means of the taxpayers.The
president feels he can buy everything for everyone. However, we can't afford it.
That is some serious greed this president has. It's not generosity or robin
hood. He is greedy and doesn't care that he will destroy everyone he is
Excellent article about a person who decided that character and integrity is
worth far more than personal greed. I sincerely hope the majority of our state
politicians read this article and take action on themselves.Kudos to Ms. Cattani
for having the guts to stand up and be counted,to try and make amends as much as
possible. Shows the "real" person. It's about time DesNews started
having quality well-written pieces.
The whole Mormons don't do these kind of things is quite bothersome. I Mormon
friend of mine is in prison for stealing well over a mil. There are plenty of
other examples as well.All groups have members who do bad things.
To claim one group does not have any members who do bad things is silly. Utah
county after all is the fraud capital of the country.
TO: MenaceToSocietyI wouldn't sweat the, "Mormons don't do these
kinds of things," comment. Right or wrong, that was the FBI agent
expressing his opinion on the reputation of members of the church. It wasn't
the writer of the article making a statement. Everybody knows LDS people that
have ended up doing some awful things, especially if you live in Utah. That
being said, I think it is fair to say that the general perception of members of
the church throught the world is that, "they don't do those types of
"warning everyone from college students to CEOs about the slippery slope of
rationalization and that greed is no respecter of people even upstanding, moral
Christians"The pair is still missing the point when they use
terms such as: slippery slope, no respecter, warning others. This isn't a
communicable disease you can pick up if you don't carefully wash your hands or
find yourself in the life of a crook, when you wake up one morning. You make a
choice to cheat, and then every other time you cheat again. It's not BEWARE,
This can GET you Even If You Do All The Outward Signs of Being a Christian, Good
Jew or Ethical Humanist. Regardless of your upbringing, some people decide to
cheat and steal, the best message is one in which you stress what you can lose
if you start to play this game. Leave out all the religion and other related
stuff.This woman still has good taste, judging by the Nordstrom shirt, she
looks nice as such men will overlook much of her past. I hope she stays honest
and no longer justifies.
I grew up in Preston Idaho and Diann Cattani's mother was my high school English
teacher. Diann was a little older than me and I've never known Diann, but her
mom is a truly classy lady - the kind of teacher that changes lives. To this day
I clearly remember the way I felt when Ms. Cattani took us through Dostoyevsky's
"Crime and Punishment" and "The Brothers Karamazov". Having read this article, that seems so appropriate now - themes of
justice and mercy. Diann is lucky to have such awesome parents. I know from my
English class that her mother's love comes from the heart.
Thanks for this article. We all need to not fall into the trap of
rationalization. What a sad story!What does she do for a job right
now? I assume she is earning some money in order to pay back what she owes.
Thank you SJ Bobkins. VERY well said! I have been trying to say many of the same
things you did but the Des News does not seem to be interested in printing
critical comments to this article. I am glad yours got through.
Read "Approaching Zion" by Hugh Nibley.Enough said.
I applaud Diann for owning up to her crime and taking total responsibility. Her
great upbring and family finally made it clear to her she could no longer
continue the charade. I am cheering for her and her future, may it be bright
and may she be given chances to show her true self. The story is all too true
and painfully, I have witnessed it. An individual I am aware of has done the
exact same thing, yet this individual continues to this day to live the
"greed/deceit" and holds and continues to hold high offices in the
Church -including Ordinance Worker, seemingly without guilt or conscience.
Diann has confessed - made as much as possible restitution - shares her story to
warn others... what about the one I know? What is their fate! You may ask why
don't I do something... it is only my word against theirs, and since they
continue to fool others - who would win this round? Not me obviously.
Good article! The problem I have is when some religious people who think they
can do no wrong, and are actually doing wrong, refuse to admit their faults and
are in complete denial. Some would even go so far as to defend a child of
theirs after their child committed a crime and there is solid evidence to
support it. Instead of showing their child tough love and making them pay the
consequences like a good parent or guardian should, they find ways to bail their
child out of trouble. For those who think they are religious and are devout
Mormons or Christians, what examples would this be setting for those who are
searching Jesus Christ? This article is a great example of what this woman
telling her story (confessing, admitting her faults in life), but others who are
religious will not do...admit their faults in life. Like my dad use to tell me,
it doesn't take a real man to make babies, but have the guts to admit when
he's wrong and take up responsibility for his mistakes. That's sign
of a real man.
Props to the lady for making something good come of it in the aftermath.
Greed, envy and pride causes most people to get into too much debt. I think it
is just as criminal to borrow money to finance the purchase of something and not
pay it back -- many are in that situation now and are expecting the government
to bail them out (whether it be a home they shouldn't have purchased,
credit card debt, etc.). I suppose some of these people have been bailed out by
family in the past. Now they are looking to a deeper pocket to bail them out of
their deeper debt.
The follow-up story ought to be about those who were affected....what is their
story as victims. The husband, the parents, etc.Great article. I
sent it to our Corporate Audit Manager.
Great article but it left several unanswered questions. Did her husband get a
temple divorce? Since she was a convicted felon, did she keep her membership?
If not, is she back in the church?
Without commenting specifically on Diann's situation, I would like to point
out how imperative it is for parents to be not just good, but as vigilant as
they can possibly be when teaching their children. I had decent parents as well
but ended up doing something I sorely regret and which, as with Diann's
case, has had lasting effects on others. Any time we have *any* other focus
that gets in the way of living the Gospel completely, we can rationalize our
actions down the path to something awful. As a parent now, my wife
and I act swiftly to counter any ideas our children have that might lead them
off the "straight and narrow". And, again from experience, I believe a
parent's responsibility does not end with children leaving home, but
continues for as long as we live; we will always have a certain number of years
experience ahead of what our children are going through, to help them with
situations they may not have previously encountered. Our continued concern for
them can be the difference in them succeeding each time or not.
I've learned to trust nobody with money, especially not the government.
I've lost money three different times to supposed people I trusted soley
because of their religious, family background--foolish. Trust no one. These
are hard lessons to learn.
I know this will sound hard hearted, but these are just my beliefs. I was raised
well to and chose my life as an law enforcement officer which paid nothing like
what she made a year and I went through a hard divorce and was in major debt for
years and never though about doing crimmal acts to have more money. Here you
have a person that making good money and then took a trip and it was charged to
the company. Her and her husband lived the good life and still she chose to
steal from the company she worked for and then finally wanted to get honest and
payed her time in jail and paying back the money she owes, this is very noble.
Her family has paid the highest price for her actions and my heart does go out
to them. I hear about the honor code at BYU, and just wonder how they talk that
and they go by it, but not after leaving college. I went to Unversity of Texas
and Williams and Mary College and haven't strayed from the way I was taught
going to church and by my parents.
@Trooper55, first off, your post didn't seem that hard-hearted; you were
quite understanding, it would seem. Second, I commend you for your integrity,
but recognize that everyone's temptations may differ. I would say that if
you are a trooper, that which you have been entrusted with is power and
authority over the law. As a trooper, did you ever speed unnecessarily? Did
you ever pull someone over simply b/c you had a quota to meet and it was the end
of your shift? Did you ever pull someone over for speeding, and then speed away
yourself, with no reason to have done so? Did you ever use the patrol vehicle
for something other than work, justifying its use? Have you treated those you
come into contact with as guilty before innocent, with no evidence for your
supposition?Dishonesty exists in many forms and embezzlement is that
which a bookkeeper is often confronted with. The reason we may hear of so many
teachers having inappropriate relationships with minors may be b/c they're
entrusted with caring for minors, and some wrongly give way to their
temptations. What are you most confronted with most frequently?
Re: MenaceToSociety Draper, UT"I Mormon friend of mine is in prison
for stealing well over a mil."You need to chose your friends
more wisely. Depending on circumstances the LDS Church excommunicates members
convicted of felonies. Perhaps you should revise your claim to say "an
ex-Mormon friend of mine ....".
To Menace:I agree with your statement, *All groups have members who do bad
things. To claim one group does not have any members who do bad things is
silly.* But I hope no one uses cases like this one to criticize/generalize that
the Church and it's members are dishonest, or that the Church teaches
anything but honesty and integrity. See Doctrine and Covenants 1:30, which says
*. . . the only true and living dchurch upon the face of the whole earth, with
which I, the Lord, am well pleased, fspeaking unto the church collectively and
not individually— *Really, none of us measure up to the
perfection test in this life, except one, Jesus Christ Himself.
Good job Deseret News. In our area, several people have been charged and some
convicted for embezzling from organizations like Little League. Yep--greed was
the basis. Rationalization joined in, too. What a waste of a life for those
that take the downward plunge.