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Read The Scriptures | 3:23 p.m. May 3, 2008

All of you that keep saying that we that stand up against you are all holier than thou really need to read your scriptures more and stop dictating to the ones whom more than know the Lord's words but choose to live them daily. You love to work outside of the home fine but don't expect your decisions you make to have no conseqences with them when you do something that is against the Lord that made us all. I did not say that the option isn't there I simply explained why the SAHM option is the best. I worked outside the home before I had children and I remember the demands of it all. I would take children and rearing them up any day than being around arrogant and prideful adults all day long. At the most the child doesn't understand and I can work with that but the adult knows and is just being a jerk. So since I embrace good I am wrong? Wow it's that bad is good thing. So explain to me how else is a child suppose to learn and grow with parent(s) working all the time and that child not being nurtured?

repeat? | 3:31 p.m. May 3, 2008

Sounds like the same speach she gave a few years ago!

Lisa | 3:38 p.m. May 3, 2008

I am not talking about MLM's. I am talking about a real business of your own with products you make with your own hands. There called skills and talents which you don't have to go outside to have to find or nurture and get. I shouldn't have to explain this to you but apparently I do given the fact that you only chose to think of this one sided. It's called an business and work and it brings money in and you can take care of your children while doing it. So you can have more time with them and be able to have more family time. That's the point.

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Thanks Sheri | 4:54 p.m. May 3, 2008

Thankyou Sheri, that was a truly inspiring article and most helpful to me. Sydney, Australia

Thanks Sheri | 4:57 p.m. May 3, 2008

A truly inspiring article Sheri. Most helpful to me personally. Uplifting!
from Sydney, Australia.

Travis Marshall, Farmington MO | 7:25 p.m. May 3, 2008

My wife turned me on to Sheri Dews books on CD, she has the best talks and insight to share I remember her saying all of the devils power is temporary and all of Gods power is eternal thats stayed with me. I think she is a strong warrior.

Mertonian | 8:51 p.m. May 3, 2008

Reachout, But remember that Vatican sent out a letter to the Bishops not to let the LDS (mormons)
have access to old parish records. The reason: they think that baptism for the dead is disrepectful.

Pamela | 9:07 p.m. May 3, 2008

Sister Dew reminded me again that I will get further by asking the Lord what He would have me do at the beginning of each day rather than consulting my to-do list.

Anonymous | 9:26 p.m. May 3, 2008

(FLDS) women can be a more powerful force for good by walking toward Christ and away from the world, (Which is exactly what they do) using their influence to define themselves as distinct and happy rather than allowing others to label them.

Yet if they do the world labels them as "just trying to gain sympathy". Wake up!

Deborah | 12:15 p.m. May 4, 2008

Thanks for words of encouragement and vision. Much appreciate the work Sherri Dew does in, and for, the Church. I am not a member, but read a lot of LDS stuff, and recommend it to others. :)

Chamiga | 4:04 p.m. May 4, 2008

I was present to hear this talk and was blown away by how powerful it was. To be present to hear it - you could not deny the power and truthfulness of what she said. We need so much more of this in the church and in the world. To criticize her words which were nothing but truth and light is ignorance and I have pity for anyone who would not sincerely read, study and feel them, because they will bring so much truth and purpose to your life. I feel so privileged to be a part of this incredible organization that makes me such much a better person!

A sister in Christ | 12:39 a.m. May 5, 2008

"We are here to influence the world, rather than be influenced by the world. If we could unleash the full influence of covenant-keeping women, the kingdom of God and the world would change overnight."

Thank you Sister Dew for your inspired words. The spirit of truth rings forth in what you say and I love you for the righteous example you are not only to me, but to millions of women worldwide.

Catherine | 5:51 a.m. May 5, 2008

Sister Dew is "right on" about the way some of our sister's are dressing, especially many young mothers, who are setting a worldly example for the little girls and young women of our faith. Our modern LDS culture promotes "trendy" fashions with just a tad more fabric. I saw an ad promoting modest wedding gowns, but the models, with sloppy, seductive hairstyles, were draping themselves over a Harley. It's a mystery to me why many of our sisters think it's so important to look "trendy" when the current trends set by the clothing industry more often than not debase our chastity and virtue. Why are we preaching moral virtue, yet by example teaching our precious daughters to dress seductively? It's obvious by Sheri Dew's comments that she, too, is grieved to see daughters of God, her sisters, emulating the dress standards of the world. We're failing to teach our women, little girls, and young women to cherish virtue in thought and action, both for for their own sakes, and, to maintain the integrity of our men, our young men, and the Holy Priesthood.

Sister Henlon-Siddon (JA,W.I.) | 8:50 a.m. May 5, 2008

LDS Women - a model for society....Educated or not, LDS Women have the "extra" tools in being models for todays society. We are taught to obey the commandments, have pure hearts & thoughts and to stand as witnesses of God in all times and in all things and in all places as we progress in this live. We are examples to others not of our faith and with each little step that we take we can bring out the best in others. It doesn't take mind control, but great sacrifice and love for all. Families are eternal and its through this source we can reach out to others. We can reach out through simple acts in our daily lives; i had to stand up for my beliefs and was well-respected for it and that in itself was an eternally great feeling. We sometimes get so off track with our lives that we forget to stand up and reach out, but once the opportunity presents itself, we should stand steadfast and immovable. Common Sense tells that this is the way to go, so there is definitely no "mind control" in our walk of faith.

Anonymous | 10:39 a.m. May 5, 2008

Dear everyone,

If you want to know if every word Cheri Dew said is the truth and the way we should go, ask God our Heavenly Father. I know every word she said is pure and true with all my heart, but you don't have to believe me. Pray to God, our true Father in Heaven, in a humble prayer, read the scriptures, and if you are ready to learn and are listening to Him, He will tell you the truth. -Thank you, dear Sister Dew, for blessing my life!

Gilbert, Az. | 5:46 p.m. May 5, 2008

I have always revered Sister Dew to be a champion for the LDS community of women. Nothing more, nothing less. I am the product of a 1st-generation mormon who had to return to work to help support the family. She did the best she could and reared 4 hard-working, active children. She passed away last Fall, but her example to be the best in what life handed her will continue to inspire me as I raise my children. Sister Dew simply asks us to set a higher standard for others. I am not trying to fit a "mold", just waking in the morning and with my husband reading scriptures and praying with the kids before they leave for the day. Hoping that they will be happy, productive and kind to others! Then, I fulfill church callings and help in the community. I am enjoying life! This life! When I follow the Saviors example, I can't help but be Happy!

goddessinfreefall | 1:30 p.m. May 6, 2008

I've met Ms Dew once and talked to her; and have passed her occassionally on the street. My apologies, but she struck me as a very dour, unfulfilled person. From the outside looking in, the picture seemed sad.

Jenna | 12:01 p.m. May 7, 2008

In the anonymity of this board, I'd like to say that I'm an active LDS member. My hubby is Bishop, and I serve in the RSP.

And I'm depressed. I hate that I spend my entire Sunday thinking about Church. I sit in the front row of the chapel, but inside, I wish I could slink out to the back, go outside, and take my 3 kiddos to the park. (With hubby, of course.)

I want to spending my evenings after work with my family, and I absolutely dread "Church events" that drag me away from that. And guess what? Given the low attendance at these events... I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE.

I feel like I'm wasting time, and just doing busy work for the sake of keeping up appearances. I cook, clean, and keep a tidy home. I have a (nearly) complete 1 year food storage. I scrapbook, sew, and keep an organized schedule of which kid needs to be at which Church event.

I'm dressed nicely, and I take care in my appearance. By all accounts, I have the life that many LDS women want.

And I hate it.

I'm not the only one.

Anon | 11:15 a.m. May 8, 2008

Jenna, that is so sad that you feel that way. I have a testimony of the gospel, but know what you mean. Sometimes, especially when you have a husband is serving away from the home as bishops generally do, life can be hard. It is so much easier and nicer to be together as a family. My advise to you - do something for you!!! Forget the stuff you feel obliged to do. You can still serve in your calling, but don't forget that you need to take time out for you!!!

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