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Even a plea in general conference for more love, acceptance and a stop to the public criticism of homosexuals would not slow down their hate and fear train. They beat to their own fundamentalist agenda and no one can tell them otherwise. Some people see conspiracies and Satan around every corner and yet somehow they can look at themselves in the mirror and believe they are furthering God's work. There is a church that tends to picket at soldier funerals and even our late Prophet's funeral that would probably be a bit more in line with their attitudes.
When she starts wondering what's wrong with her, why she feels so unattractive, what are you going to tell her? "Suck it up honey, you're helping to change him."
On a related topic, I didn't see Mr. Graham's or Mr. Gunter's creditials noted in the article. Are they professors of some sort? Scientists, social scientists, politicians, academics, relgious leaders, community leaders, golf pro's, dry-wallers, latent homosexuals--or what? What qualified them to speak on this subject? Did anyone at this newspaper think to ask?
If you really think there is a "gay agenda" to push homosexual acceptance on society, look no further than groups like SoL - you can't blame gay people for fighting back against this kind of intolerance. Of course they're going to "push an agenda," if that's what you want to call it, because the agendas of groups like these are working every day to push homosexuals into a shamed, degraded, looked-down-upon second class of society.
If there was a group out there trying to push you into that dark corner, wouldn't you fight back too?
I can only hope these kinds of groups stay on the fringe of society. Tolerance is a virtue! And even more so when you disagree.
Keep your own morality in your own home. When in public, spend your valuable time and energy on more pressing matters - not on blindly and vehemently hating those who are different than you.
Homosexuals are not the enemy. They are loved by our Father in Heaven as much as the rest of us.
It is the sin of Homosexuality that God hates. It is the acceptance of this sin in our society that is alarming. It is that bad is called good and good is called bad.
What is suspicious is having an advocacy group (and the group that is being advocated for) claim they don't have an agenda. What are you trying to hide?
My brother is 44 years and gay. He finally told me about it, after years of deep depression, denial and refusal to recognize his sexuality as nothing he can change. His homosexuality has absolutely nothing to do with his ability to be morally sound person.
The Centers for Disease Control just came out with a new report how HIV cases rose 48% from 2005 to 2006 and the CDC website (yeah, that bastion of conservatism) maintains, despite its personal wishes to the contrary, that it is MSM (men having sex with men) as the number one factor for the rise in AIDS and HIV. I didn't make it up. It's on their website. Google it for yourself.
I reject going into people's bedrooms to see what they do and believe in live and let live but destructive behaviors like these (facts do not lie) should not be promoted in schools or as matters of public policy.
Many people have left this unnatural and risky lifestyle so it can be done. There's help for those trapped. Do not reject those who want help to do so.
What saddens me is the choice that certain Utahns have made to be intolerant bigots.
Which is why it is so devastating when young teenagers get duped into "outing" themselves. That is a sticky trap to get out of, and can have lifelong consequences.
Which is why society needs to protect youth from aggressive homosexual advocacy groups, especially in public school.
Second, feel free to deny the "agenda" but it is real. That is why schoolbooks in California are no longer allowed to contain the words "family", "mother" or "father". Look it up and learn. It's the tip of the iceburg.
Third, gay people have the same rights that I have. When they speak of equal rights they actually mean "additional or special rights".
fourth, people are not born gay. To say they were born that way discounts nature and God. Explain the OH guy arrested for having sex with his picnic table? Or the guy caught doing it to a swimming pool in FLa? Or the guy killed in WA by the horse he was "with"? They were born with the desire to "make it" with tables, pools, and animals? If you want to be gay go ahead but don't ask us to say that it is acceptable behavior. And don't call us "haters" because we refuse to do so.
An outside special interest group intimidated a parent organization and/or a school principal to the point of dictating what they can and cannot do in a meeting.
That doesn�t alarm you?!
This was not a school event, this is a private organization. Did this group attend because they have kids at that school? Or did they attend in a deliberate effort to control thinking?
I don�t care what their agenda is -- they could be out to place homeless kittens with loving families for all I care -- the truth is they are frequently guilty of intimidating, shaming and bullying those who believe differently than they do. And then have the audacity of accusing organized religions of this behavior!
Their practices are at best manipulative, and at worst insidious social engineering.
And notice how you never hear about this group donating huge amounts of money, supplies or volunteers to help disaster victims.
That�s because all their resources go towards one thing: influencing us.
Hmm.
Do they want to make the world a better place, or control how it thinks? It�s all about power.
There are anti-gay groups in San Francisco who attract much larger gatherings. Does that make San Franciscans small minded?
Being small minded is not allowing someone else their opinion, and is usually what you become whenever you attempt to label another person or group as small minded.
I moved from Utah two years ago, and just like to come here to read about college sports, but reading things like this happening in Utah is astounding. It's not nearly this bad where I live, and I live in a liberal hub. There are definitely forces at work there trying to reverse what most of society there believes. You rarely see things like this in the part of the US where I live. It's a scary world there where bad is now considered good.
The problem with that statement is that it is so brilliant, it went over the heads of most the people involved in THIS discussion!
WELL SAID, who ever you are!
Isn't it a bit ironic that the LDS church is guilty of the same thing it accuses gays of? i.e. Trying to recruit people to conform to their way of thinking and their life styles to fit their beliefs and doing so in schools? What about forcing people to live by a set of beliefs that many can find opposition to from the bible? Maybe if the Homosexual community had tax exempt status people would be more accepting. Hypocrisy at it's finest.
Now, who's going to be the first to say either "But that's different..." or the dead horse phrase of "If you don't like it then move.."
I have friends and relatives who live a homosexual lifestyle. I have no problem being tolerant of those who choose to live a homosexual lifestyle.
But, I do object to homosexuals and their apologists pushing an agenda to force everyone to accept their lifestyle as being normal and moral.
Two wrongs don't make a right. Listing off wrongs does not somehow justify a different form of wrongdoing. Having sex with the same sex is unnatural & wrong. Saying otherwise is misinformation & harmful to everyone including self-proclaimed gays.
To anyone else it concerns:
How can you say being gay is inborn? That is an opinion far from being proven as fact. By my definition, gay pertains to those who engage in sexual acts with the same sex, & until then you aren't gay. Therefore it's impossible to be gay at birth, speaking in my terms.
We were born male or female with natural desires that develop as our bodies develop the sexual ability to procreate (In case you failed sex-ed, this requires a male and a female). Desires outside the purpose of the bodies natural sexual development may sometimes develop, but they are perversions of thought and lead to unnatural behaviors. In fact, all wrongdoing was first preceded by an inappropriate thought.
Some say we are born with evil inclinations, but any baby is evidence that this is false. How is accepting bad thoughts (Unproven inclinations) appropriate? It perpetuates into sorrowful actions. Some favor!
And, when can we get past being labeled as haters just for disagreeing. This is the classic lib argument and, frankly, it is old and tired. Calling me names because I disagree with you is a poor rebuttal and the tool of the ignorant.
My point? Open your mind and gather as much diverse information and opinions and possible. It feels good to make decisions based on a whole spectrum of ideas, opinions and information. It can be debilitating to feel like all that you think and do must be confined within a pre-determined, developed- since-birth, religious/cultural frame.
One more evidence of the decline of a once great nation as it follows the downward spiral of former great nations. America needs to wake and shape up.
at a time when Mormons were being raided and killed since Nauvoo Illinois. What�s wrong with this picture Mormons about gay men and women? Why cannot you accept them � why subject your children to �Electric Shock Therapy� Like I went through at BYU at 19 in the early 80�s, their little known SECRET LDS Cure homosexual Program!
It�s a very SAD day here in Utah, even among Mormons � where people equate homosexuality with Pedophiles, when most Pedophiles are Heterosexual!
Secondly, I think that you cannot lump all civil rights movements together; by doing so, you cannot adequately confront each issue entirely. Sorry, but I roll my eyes a little when I read things like "hate mongering," and likening this situation to "racism, sexism, violence, hate and bigotry." This little meeting, no matter how controversial, is far from these labels. It is alarming to me to see a society that throws such words around carelessly. "Our country was not founded on divisiveness." The Founding Era was quite divisive, actually.
Graham's group focuses rabidly on sex, sex, sex. Sex acts. Naked bodies. Diseases. They think about sex more than the people out having sex. I see nothing on Graham's "family" site about curbing the spread of emotional bonding between men and men or women and women. Just sex. Sex, sex. SEX!
Some people bond emotionally with same-sex people in a way that's impossible for them to do with opposite-sex people. Some of these same people engage in physical intimacy. Some do not.
Mr. Graham's web site features a variety of lies about disease and homosexuality.
The site claims if two people have sex, they will catch HIV if the two people are gay but not if they are straight.
His site says LDS Church members who feel attracted to people of the opposite sex but never act on it must also be punished because they are perverse and wrong in the Lord's eyes. (Last time I checked, temptation was not a sin according to LDS doctrine.)
My beliefs have no place for people who lie, manipulate, and militantly labor to create fear and misunderstanding in the name of Christ.
Do you belong to an advocacy group? If you are straight, does Planned Parenthood represent your agenda since they deal primarily with issues related to procreation, pregnancy, and prophylactics? If you are gay, does the LDS Same-Gender Family Home Evening Group that meets monthly in Alpine represent your views with what they advocate?
You're right. The only agendas are those of individuals or groups, and no group or person can sweepingly define an entire class of people or represent the desires of each.
Get over it with the agenda thing.
I'm wondering if by this you are implying that if same-sex couples were to have children, they would all be gay. But since they can't, they're trying to influence the children of others to become gay.
In case you hadn't noticed, every single gay person I know came from straight parents. Typical, everyday, mother-and-father families in Utah just keep on creating more and more gay children. Hmmm.
You guys need to get rid of people like Steve Graham and Chris Buttars and get someone who can make a logical case for their point of view.
Tell me you are not serious! Sorry, but I am a straight 6th generation Californian, left only to attend school here, and I have never heard of such paranoia. Most homosexuals aren�t pedophiles, are free to adopt children in some states; and surprisingly enough, their children usually do not become homosexual. It really isn�t considered a learned behavior. Homosexuals would benefit little by indoctrinating your children. Homosexuality has been around for centuries. Consider yourself safe�it has never wiped out heterosexuality or you wouldn�t be here to make such bizarre statements.
None of you anti gay people seem to be on the same track. You seem to have more reasons for homosexuality than the gay community does, and yours only raise more questions than answers.
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