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Idaho man files sex abuse lawsuit against Scouts, LDS Church
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It's ridiculous. If this line of reasoning works, I see no reason why you can't apply the same logic and sue the government every time a citizen misbehaves and he/she isn't immediately punished.
Child abuse is an outrage, any time, anywhere. I do think the Church and the BSA are doing more now than they did in the past to prevent it, and are not as likely to "sweep it under the rug" as in the past.
Hopefully it works out the way it supposed to.
There is no downside to the Scouting Movement! Only bad Scout leaders and poor execution of the program because of poor training or whatever. I have been to the last four world jamborees with great kids. I was in England this past summer at the world jamboree with two of my daughters. I have four sons in Scouting and helped them get their Chief Scout award (equivalent to Eagle) and then their Queen Venturer award. I am a bishop and we have a great scouting program. We have had a few cases here of Child Abuse in our stake over the years, by prominent Church Leaders, but never one by Scout Leaders to my knowledge. Talk about negative publicity. In fact I have had more problems with the Stake YM's and YM's joint camps than with our Scout camping program. Does that mean we should scrap the Church?...I don't think so.
One reason not mentioned is that since people are asked to "volunteer" in scouts, many are not very commited to the program. When I was a boy and now with my son, there is very little continuity of leadership.
After the third "leader" in 6 months, you just want to say; "Lets just go camping and do the same stuff as a family and forget about the aggravation of an undependable program. And yes I have served in scouts myself and gone to leadership training.
I don't mind keeping the scouting program, but it should optional and take a back seat to Duty to God.
I disagree that the Church should part ways with the BSA. I learned many, many things in Scouts...in Utah no less... that I still use today. My wife quite often asks where I learned to do something and often my answer is scouts.
This situation needs to be taken seriously, but let's not throw out the system for a few bad apples.
I'm from the Idaho Falls area, and remember when the scout sex abuse story hit the papers. It is a sad story what that scout leader did to those kids. Do you have any idea how much these kids suffered?
I'm ashamed of those who defend the scouts and the LDS church at all costs, even if abuse is involved. What if it was your own child? What would you do?
Background checks must be done on all leaders.
As someone who was also abused as a kid, the thing I regret most about it is not reporting it. Regardless of the outcome, the responsibility to report it belongs to the abused. If you don't say anything, nobody can help. If you report it and nothing gets done, then I can understand filing a lawsuit. But to file one after 40 years because your life hasn't turned out the way you hoped is childish. No amount of money is going to make you a better person or provide you comfort for a terrible thing in the past. You should have reported it at the time.
If he was abused, go after the abuser. I am sick and tired of civil lawsuits being awarded where abuse has never even been proved in a court of law. Look, I have simpathy for the victims, and more than likely this guy was abused. But to sue for $5,000,000.00 over forty years after the fact as a way to get rich ends my patience.
Scouting today is careful and agrressive. In the 1960's, scouting was a haven for men who abused boys. And that extends to the church troops as well.
I was a teenager in the same ward as this man at the same time, and I knew the predator (Larren Arnold) referred to in this story. I didn't know he was no longer on the sex offender list in Idaho. He's a dangerous and abusive man ...No young man between 10 and 14 is safe with him!
Lots of boys (now men) in that ward carry scars around of scout outings gone bad. Several struggled to stay active. Many have failed marriages and troubled lives. Just bringing this case to light and shouting Larren's sins from the pages of the newspaper is great, even if the suit goes no where.
As a side note, I will bet that as a rebellious non-scouter, I can tie more knots, have more practical skills, and have exhibited more citizenship than 90% of suburban LDS eagle scouts.
A Young Men's leader is an official representative of the LDS Church as well as an official representative of the BSA. Their status as official representatives of these organizations is documented with legally-binding documents. These organizations are legally responsible and liable for the oversight of their legal representatives. If these representatives commit a crime under color of office, then these organizations are responsible, accountable, and liable.
I not only hope this lawsuit is very successful, I hope many more come to court and are successful to finally send a message to the LDS Church and the BSA that their programs have been seriously flawed; that the leadership of both organizations have been negligent in providing oversight and guidance; that THEY are the organizations that are unethical be taking HUGE sums of people's money (Tithing and Friends of Scouting donations) and providing incompetent, poorly operated programs.
The shameful thing is not that Tithing money will be wasted on these lawsuits; the shameful thing is that Tithing money and FOS money is taken from people in the first place without proper oversight and quality of programs.
Rather, it shows that the lawyer and the alleged victim are just looking for a payout.
Sue for changes in reporting laws. Work for stiffer penalties, jail terms, restrictions and monitoring of predators, but trying to line your personal wallet with the tithes of faithful churchgoers is repugnant and a very sour statement regarding the character of society.
Ambulance Chasing is almost as bad of a plague on society as is child or sexual abuse. Stop Ambulance Chasing now!
Oh, and yes, I do bleed BSA green thank you very much.
However, I remember the quote: All that is necessary for the
forces of evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing.
If a church or scout leader sees abuse occurring, and does nothing, they are equally responsible for the harm that occurs to the child. There is no layer of hell deep enough for someone who knows about child abuse, and stays quiet, for whatever misguided reason.
And, for those people who just don't get it: a leader in an organization (business, church, whatever) is considered an agent of that organization. They act on its behalf. Any manager in a big corporation has been trained on this legal principle. Legally, if an agent for the church knows about the abuse, the church is considered to know about it. And that's why they can be sued.
Scouting teaches us some fantastic principles, and unfortunately, morons that would abuse kids ruin that for the majority of hard working, upstanding, volunteers.
A peculiar people, indeed!
That's the mean-spirited message that I hope the Church will continue to change. Does anyone think a lawsuit might help?
2. Whatever happened to the concept of personal responsibility? That is the part I detest about these lawsuits. The names of the people actually responsible are added to lawsuits as a sham - it is the institutions (and THEIR MONEY) only that matter. Because of our loss in understanding the concept of personal responsibility, all the innocent participants in businesses, in the LDS Church, in the Catholic Church, etc - normal contributers like you and me - we pay - we who are not guilty of anything. When did it become OK to inflict retribution on the innocent 99.5% who belong to and contribute to an institution because another member or even leader did something wrong? That's the problem right there. If those and only those responsible were sued we'd see an end to the Kelly Clarks out there.
3. We cannot let the Kelly Clarks diminish our feelings for the victims. They do walk a terrible path.
It's fine if they don't understand how it takes so much time to finally face what happened. Or how much therapy costs to learn how to develop affective coping skills to deal with past trauma and current life. Or the time it takes to get the courage to defy the threats/coercion used on you as a child, when you believed them. If it hasn't happened to you, please accept that you, fortunately, don't understand it, and leave room for us to go through our healing process at the speed we're capable of.
My dad was abused as a scout for years, as were all the boys in his troup (they are all now inactive). He subsequently abused my sister and I. I don't want millions in recompense. I am satisfied and grateful that fast offerings pay for my counseling. I wish it was my dad paying, but I'm not ready to face him yet.
will to abuse another. He who abuses a child is worthy of destruction. But that will come in time of
due justice at the hand of the Lord.There are psychiatrists who introduce base thoughts into a
person's head trying to find a 'cause' for their
patients decline. Many have ruined perfectly decent
loving families by their suggestions. They too will
be held accountable, as will Mr. Kelly, if this is
all for monetary value.
The Church has always kept close watch and offered
valuable counseling & help where it could. Be careful that you have all the facts before you offer
an accusation...you hold other's lives & livelihood
in your hands. Once spoken, it can never be withdrawn...and oh, the inexpressible horror your
word renders. Abuse, should always be reported to
the police and church leaders. If anyone knew that
this gentleman had been abused and didn't report it...the inexpressible guilt that must be theirs!
As a parent of children I pray daily that they will
be kept safe and make wise choices & decisions.
Is this not sign of the times?!
Sounds like a bottom feeding lawyer is involved in this accusation.
Whatever the outcome, blame the individual responsible for the abuse not the LDS church or the scouting program. Both try and in most cases do make great men out of boys.
I've had three(now grown) sons go through a wonderful scouting experience in Utah. Two are heavily involved in training boy scouts to be future leaders of America at the current time. I'm responsible for the moral and religious training of two of my grandsons. They have been involved in scouting for seven years with the most outstanding young men leaders I have ever met. One just earned his Eagle award. Don't tell me it's a meaningless award outside of Utah!!
If this was a girl that was sexually violated instead of a boy, you also would be screaming for castrating the perpetrator.
You hypocrites have no idea of what struggles this man has likely suffered over the years because of being abused as a child.
It often takes victims years to build up the courage to speak about their abuse, especially when it involves authority figures, especially "spiritual" leaders.
You have no idea how hard it likely is to find an attorney willing to take on a case like this.
Thank God there is one and if it takes a "sleazy" attorney to do it, more shame on all the "holy" attorneys who won't.
No amount of money will restore what was taken from him or remedy the emotional damage suffered in the years since.
He deserves every penny he can get.
The blatant lack of compassion and opposition for justice for this man puts you all in the same category as the pervert who abused him.
Shame on you all.
Are we creating a wimpy, self-centered, entitled, pandering culture that will one day cry and scream itself to starvation because there is no one left who can support himself?
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