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What about this statement, "Failure to recognize gay marriage - the secular tax rate recognition - amounts to unequal treatment under the law, and goes to the issue of citizens right to freely associate."? Unequal treatment under the law? The right to freely associate? Come on, first you attempt to redefine marriage and now you want to redefine the Constitution? Is there no end to this nonsense?
Marriage has been defined by our representatives. So, for those who only believe in the secular state, that law has been written by legally and lawfully elected representatives. Marriage has also been defined by our religious leaders - the religious leaders of many different faiths. So, whether you believe in God or not, whether you believe in religion or not, whether you believe in representative government or not, marriage has been legally and lawfully defined in statutes that are legal and binding.
Nice bigotry and hatred. Did voters REALLY put you in office to use the law to descriminate against people who are different from you? Strom Thurmond thinks this is bad form.
Sincerely,
People With Good Values
My Family is about me, my wife and my kids. My family has nothing to do with yours or the type of family you live in. If you marry a man, a woman, a goat or a tree, I am still married to my wife. What do I care?
I grew up in a condo complex that was 75% single moms. I'd much rather see families with 2 gay parents raising the kids than single parent families.
I'm LDS, and I have a hard time beleiving that Christ would single out homosexuals. What happened when the Pharisees brought the harlots and the adulterers to him (which is an equal sin, according to LDS)? Did he condemn the harlot or the Pharisees? Be a Christian: Live your life how you see fit and love your neighbors.
Nothing, Proud of SL. If we came up with a law that, say, allowed each adult with health insurance to choose one other adult for coverage under their policy, and the law was TRULY silent in every way on what adult that could be - spouse, parent, sibling, friend, homeless person on the street - then I think Americans would largely approve. What a great way to expand helath insurance coverage in America!
But that's not typically what is pushed by gay activists, who instead constantly push for laws which expicitly identify gays as a uniquely protected or preferred class, on a par with marriage. Simply expanding health benefits isn't the real goal of most gay activists, Proud. Enforcing approval and acceptance of gay sex on an unwilling populace is. Visitation rights, health benefits, etc. are only secondary goals for them to the ultimate goal of forcing everyone to approve of homosexuality, at least publicly.
Facts? Here's one: Marriage is alive and well in Massachusetts; the institution did not fall apart when gays were given the right to marry.
On point two, yes, you are right -- gays can marry people of the opposite sex. Alas, a true "counterfeit marriage"! How many unhappy marriages have been created under religious pressure to form unions that should have never been? Not even the LDS church advocates this position.
Regarding my third point, well, if you can't see "fair is fair", I'm not sure how to help you -- but I'll try. Wanting the same thing that you have is not the same as taking it away from you. If you cannot show that you or anyone would be harmed by granting others access to the same rights that you enjoy, you have no basis for denying access to those who want it. This would be called discrimination, a fundamental concept abhorred in a true democracy - a concept not difficult to grasp when the mind is free of bigoted notions and fanatical nonsense. There is no rational reason to exclude gay couples from legal recognition.
What it does NOT do: The domestic-partner registry does not provide health insurance for anybody. It does not have anything to do with whether or not the city provides health benefits for its employees or their spouses, domestic partners, children, grandmothers, etc.
If the city decided it made good sense to provide domestic-partner benefits for its employees, it would not need to go through the trouble of creating a registry to do so; it would simply deal with the issue internally.
What the domestic registry DOES do: If a business decides it wants to provide domestic-partner benefits--as many do because it helps them attract and retain an educated workforce--the registry may help them decide who does and who doesn't qualify for those benefits.
The registry helps business by helping them prevent insurance fraud. That's all.
The reason Buttars is so against it is because he can't see the big picture; all he's worried about is whether or not it will give "legitimacy" to gay relationships.
Buttars is not a conservative or he would support the registry. Buttars is bad for business.
Isn't God's sanction the one and only thing that makes marriage a sacred covenant?
What does health insurance have to do with the sanctity of the institution?
What does the exchange of money have to do with your covenant with God?
What does marital status have to do with the right to a healthy life?
Maybe the people accusing us Mormons of not being Christian have hit the nail on the head. Didn't Christ dine with publicans? Did he exalt himself over anyone? Christ only condemned the HYPOCRITES!
Maybe we should limit benefits to those sealed in an LDS temple. As ridiculous as it sounds, it would probably get votes from our corrupt and money grubbing state representatives.
These are the same people that claim to have a right to Jazz games, concert tickets and free meals, because of their "status" as state lawmakers, and would waste your time and mine to fight to keep these "rights". The hypocrisy is almost unbearable.
A power of attorney just to guarantee hospital visitation rights???? A power of attorney is a formal and legal document typically used to (you guessed it) grant someone an exclusive legal power or authority to handle things when the grantor cannot.
No offense, but that suggestion is absurd.
But then so is spending so much time and energy to stop adults from practicing behavior that has absolutely no deleterious affect whatsoever on any other person or perceived sacred societal institution.
For those concerned about a "blank checkbook" perhaps it's time we start charging premiums based on numbers of people covered instead of having singles dinged for the expenses of families. We are a community and watching out for the health and welfare of everyone benefits all of us.
READ ROMANS CHAPTER 1
Last time I checked its in the New Testament and it strongly speaks out against Homosexuality.
We can love the sinner, but hate the sin. Loving a sinner does not necessarly mean giving them the same rights that we have. We can't morally give them the benefits of marriage for to do so is to spit on God's law. We can not morally give them the same rights because it is a perversion of natural law. We get benefits in life by following natural laws. its called cause and effect. To give them the benefit is a perversion of natural law.
So in precis,
Love the sinner, but hate the sin. Call me a bigot all you want, but I'm on the Lord's side on this. Are you?
Last time I checked, when a responsible parent disciplines their child because of their actions, they do so out of love not hate.
If you want to "do your thing", go do your thing... but keep it to yourself! Don't whine about the choices you make when you know the consequences beforehand. Don't demand things that your actions don't justify. Don't ask people who love you to support your bad decisions.
Sorry if you don't like the answer, but you asked!
I love these doom and gloom comments. But if you really think that the world is getting that close to the ending, why are you spending so much time blogging about this issue instead of cleaning your own house?
CA passed an ammendment to the State Constitution declaring marrige to be between a man and a woman.
It was found to be unconstitutional.
"Article IV of the United States Constitution
Section 1. Full faith and credit shall be given in each state to the public acts, records, and judicial proceedings of every other state..."
So a marriage performed in Maine is legal in Utah...
" The Supremacy Clause, Article VI, Clause 2 of the United States Constitution, which reads:
� This Constitution, and the Laws of the United States which shall be made in Pursuance thereof; and all Treaties made, or which shall be made, under the authority of the United States, shall be the supreme Law of the land; and the Judges in every State shall be bound thereby, any Thing in the Constitution or Laws of any State to the Contrary notwithstanding."
Any State Law will be found not to give "Full Faith and Credit".
Although the open comtempt for "Gayness" makes for a fun and exhilirating argument, in the end, it is a State's right, that Utah must honor, HATE, and all.
You are confusing words.
It's the neoconservatives that run on hate - not the liberals.
Liberal minds mind their own business and don't stick their noses in other people's private lives.
Secondly, we are not children, so please don't try to treat us like we are. How do you discipline a child who doesn't think that they are in the wrong? Many gays don't feel like we are wrong, and who are you to decide we need to be? And at what point does your discipline become abuse?
You really want "your" word back...
"Marriage has been defined by our representatives".
...or has it?
What would it take to make "you" gay???
Maybe it really is something your are born in to. Wouldn't it be sad if you really are just a hateful, intolerant, bigoted person with good intentions?
the name of Domestic Partnership...Who defines what
a partnership is...Can I get benefits for my pet gerbil named Felix? We have been in love for years.
Marriage between a man and a wife is the most sacred
aspect of our society. It does not need to become
diminished, demeaned and circumvented. Marriage participants have legal documents to prove their
domestic partnership. Maybe Governor Huntman will have to fund Domestic Partnership Investigators to
investigate and videotape for evidence of an actual
parntership. Who defines or confirms a partnerships existance? While you are at it, please ban the adoption or the 'theft' of foster children by septic
same sex couples.
This country is flexible and resilient and it will survive and maybe even benefit. One thing that will hurt us all is hypocricy, hate and a stiff neck. I believe those are also condemed in the bible.
The hateful, intolerant Mormon is an outspoken, dinosaur, and a minority that need to clean up their own backyards...
We allow others to believe what they want...
Keep in up guys and even Utah will wind up recognizing gay marriages.
First they found "gay marriage" where none has ever existed in the history of the planet.
When that didn't work they then tried to send everyone on a guilt trip by calling them 'homophobic'
Now since the marriage argument didn't work, they say it's not about marriage. Interesting, first it was, then it wasn't. Sounds like a certain politicians voting habits.
Now they say they need to be registered or?? I can think of a registery in place already that would fit them 100%. Any takers?
"The Argument is a Waste of Time": There is a recognized exception to the full faith and credit clause of the constitution for a local communities strongly held moral beliefs. Sorry, same sex marriages in other states would never hold up in the courts on that basis.
God is very much a part of the reason that we're having this discussion. I'm not writing about LDS theology or even Christian religious teachings, I'm writing about core values found in many religions that agree the homosexual activity should not be practiced.
When God is absent, who is present?
If it is believed that man is fully capable of defining right from wrong without religion, then what will be the basis of those definitions? If we were to categorically state that what is good for the few must also be good for the many and that any unless it is the preferred model then it must not be allowed, homosexual practices would not be allowed.
Whether our legislators are influenced by religion or whether they rely totally on logic, they will certainly pass legislation that sustains traditional families and traditional marriage regardless of the demands of the few who insist on living outside social norms.
That would be so very cool for those of you who want to hate, the ammendment the LDS pushed in California, that passed overwhelmingly was declared unconstitutional in the Federal Courts, and the Supreme Court has refused to address the issue, meaning if an ammendment to the state constitution won't stand, a law passed by our "Fine Legislature" will be struck down faster than "Sokol and his Gerbil Felix" (2:43pm) can get their Partnership Announcements addressed.
Are our legislators really this dense? Do they need a victory after the voucher fiasco?
Can't they just go enjoy their Hotels, Jazz Games, and per diems without wasting energy on silly, stupid legislative games?
Next time read carefully.
I hope you are busy keeping the undesirable ones out.
Oh, and in response to:
"Whether our legislators are influenced by religion or whether they rely totally on logic, they will certainly pass legislation that sustains traditional families and traditional marriage regardless of the demands of the few who insist on living outside social norms."
-- The same legislators that decided that under the Compromise of 1850, California entered the Union as a free state; the Utah Territory and New Mexico Territories were opened to slavery on the basis of popular sovereignty, and Utahns owned slaves???
So we can trust that slavery sustained traditional families and traditional marriage???
When all else fails - act as the moral adviser and with an air of a God-given right.
...and the exception would not stand in the case of a legal marriage, let alone the law outlawing a partnership registry.
Think carefully on this one... Do you think the Federal Courts would in any world imagined give an exception to allow a State to eliminate a Partnership Registry of a City?
The whole argument is a huge waste of Taxpayer's money, which our Legislature seems to have no problem with.
My only point is that the statement "So a marriage performed in Maine is legal in Utah..." is not necessarily true just because of the existence of the full faith and credit clause in the Constitution.
Decided Dec. 21, 1942.
Petitioners were tried and convicted of bigamous cohabitation under 4342 of the North Carolina Code,1 1939, and each was sentenced for a term of years to a state prison.The State further contended that petitioners went to Nevada not to establish a bona fide residence but solely for the purpose of taking advantage of the laws of that State to obtain a divorce through fraud upon that court.
In this case there is no conceivable basis of jurisdiction in the Nevada court over the absent spouses,6 and, a fortiori, over North Carolina herself. I [317 U.S. 287, 320] cannot but think that in its pre-occupation with the full faith and credit clause the Court has slighted the due process clause. -----
Sorry there Super Duper, but I don't think the case claims what you state. Bigomy and fraud and not allowing due process from 66 years ago has ANYTHING TO DO WITH your claim that: Sorry, same sex marriages in other states would never hold up in the courts on that basis.
In other words, this case in no way applies whatsoever.
Peace
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