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Family begs parole board to keep man locked up who killed 6-year-old in drunken car crash
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At my 20-yr high school reunion, my friend went up to the woman and told her she forgave her.
My friend raised her daughters (who were 2 and 6 when their dad died). They were given an example of forgiveness and don't hate the woman who took their daddy.
I don't know how I'd respond if it were my family member, but what I do know is bitterness and hatred often breeds the same.
"The monster" who took everything from this family DID NOT take away the family's ability to forgive.
The daughter said having Jacques remain incarcerated, "won't bring peace, but it's the closest we can come right now."
Whether Jacques is in or out of prison, the family can choose if they hang onto anger or they can continue to move through the stages of grief and hopefully find peace.
The parole board should consider the case, as outlined by law, and should base its decision accordingly.
Give him at least 5 more years to sober up and cool down. Nothing will bring back the child or take away the hurt but this young man needs more guidance than his family were able to provide.
I worked in a prison cognitive change program previously. Criminals who put on a show to get out the door would have attempted to manipulate by playing on the "poor me...look at the life I had to live."
According to this article, Jacques apologized, expressed remorse and clearly says he didn't bring up his personal past. If he wanted to play the sympathy card, he could have gone that route.
My hope is the parole board will truly look at where this young man came from and where he is going. In prison, inmates can choose to take advantage and rehabilitate or they can merely bide their time.
Would I want to give a young man a chance if he's been making changes in his life? That's why there's a parole board...that's why the sentence is 1-15 years and 0-5 years. Doing something should mean something.
I have 13 piercings in one ear, 8 in the other, 7 tattoos, bleach blonde hair and a belly button piercing.
Have you formed an opinion?
I was the top 10% of my high school class. I'm a college graduate, worked for more than 20 years in human services, own a house and car, my husband is a respected teacher and I have a temple recommend.
Our penal system is designed to punish AND rehabilitate. If someone is doing more than doing time, then parole should be considered.
Prison officials say Jacques has had no trouble or write-ups while incarcerated
The sister said it...keeping Jacques in prison won't bring her brother back. However paroling Jacques WILL give him his life back.
The Smiths have gone through unimaginable heartache...so has the young man's family.18 members of his family were at the hearing...that's a lot of support. That, coupled with continued counseling would do a lot more for Jacques than sitting in prison with other criminals.
It's not just how he looks, it's what he has done that has led him up to this point. He shouldn't be set free, if anything take him from prison to another secure facility that will continue his rehab process.
If he is set free, he will be back on the streets, and probably not because he really wants to, but because of peer pressure. He would be back in jail.
Jacques made some poor choices as reflected in his juvenile record. From what Cheryl Hansen, the woman who presided over the hearing, said it sounds like he had no legal troubles after age 16 (alcohol possession and consumption)until age 21 which resulted in Buddha Smith's death.
She even said he appeared to be on track with a new stepdad, but then a tragic turn of events resulted in the stepdad hanging himself and Jacques was the one to cut him down.
Under the influence of alcohol and drugs and fueled by anger, Jacques drove recklessly, resulting in the boy's death and injuries to other family members.
Another tragedy that Jacques will live with the rest of his life.
If he is making substantial changes in his life, he should be paroled. A person has the right to "be out on the streets" when rehabilitation occurs...that's how parole is designed. That's why the sentence is a range, not a set number.
Another secure facility to continue his rehab process...does Utah have work-release programs...would be ideal. He could work a job (enabling him to pay restitution) but then goes back to the facility after work. He could get hooked up with community based counseling and support, submit to UAs and breath tests to ensure he's maintaining sobriety...all things that are key for reducing recividism
Those are pretty comprehensive. I remember one inmate asked if I wanted to read his eval. He said, "I don't understand why it says I have antisocial personality disorder...I'm a very social person."
Although he was an "inmate helper" in some of the cognitive change programs, he was in no way, shape or form ready for parole. And he didn't get parolled. In fact, about a year or so after not being granted parole he escaped from a prison in Salem and was later captured after sexually assaulting a woman.
So yeah, while he may have "looked good" in many aspects, the psych eval clearly showed he wasn't ready to be released.
Thanks for your comment! You have found the solution! If Tory is showing signs of progression, that would be best. The question now is if Utah has those options?
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