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Pete in Texas
["2%-3% of humans decide they are gay, or decide that being gay feels better because now you don't have a moral diemma"]
we'll assume your religious leaders told you that. Too bad they don't have any degrees. If you ask an actual degreed person that knows what they are talking about and has studied more than the bible, they will explain how wrong you are.
do you REALLY think anyone actually CHOOSES to be gay and be outcast and ridiculed by society? If so, you're not nearly as bright as we gave you credit for, and answering your post is simply a waste of time.
["If 2%-3% of civilization is born with one leg missing or just one eye, would you say those were normal?"]
so in your logic, the people missing a leg should not have the same rights everyone else has... perhaps we shouldn't have buildings with handicap access...
["We aren't defined by what our weaknesses are, only by how valiant we are in overcoming them."]
so you would consider someone born missing a leg to have a "weakness"? and you compare that to a gay person... so the one-legged man should overcome his "handicap" and so should the gay person...
while I understand your reasoning, a gay person looks just like you and me (assuming they aren't a raging flamer) and while the one-legged man can take physical therapy, you want the gay person to take mental therapy...
it's not a disease or a deformity. I know you look at it like that, but that's because you find it IMMORAL! If no one ever told you, and it wasn't written in your bible, you probably wouldn't have a problem with it....
you keep using the term "normal". It is the goal of a decent society to have all human beings treated equally and fairly. You see a one-legged man and think "look - a one-legged man". I guarantee you, that man would rather you think "look - another human being". That's what black people wanted and still, you probably think "look - a black person" instead of "look - a human being".
you are way too judgemental. and by the way, I'm not offended at all. I'm a white, heterosexual married man. I just think it's really easy to make your arguments on "morals" and "abnormal" but standing up for a minority is difficult. I marched in the 60s and I'd do it again. Being critical of others is the easy way out. Standing up for their rights even when you don't agree with them is what real americans do. Everyone should be treated the same, and it's none of our business if some people want to be with people of the same sex. It harms no one and it makes them happy so what is your problem with it?
["Everyone is different and has different carnal desires that they can give into if they choose"]
why is it all religious people think being gay is about sex? I really don't think it is. I think it's about being with someone you are comfortable with. Have you seen the pictures of who's getting married?
["I think it would be better if they just went back to their closets and stayed there"]
I'm sure you do feel that way, but again it is simply your intolerance and your upbringing. If you had been taught at an early age to be tolerant of the differences in people, you wouldn't say that. So now gays are trying to get people brought up to be tolerant. And it looks to me like thay are succeeding, since most young people think same-sex marriage is ok, while the old crew (or at least most of them) are against it. Oh, and the religious self-rightous are against it too, and their children (and their children) will always be like that. Religion isn't known for tolerance, in fact quite the opposite is true...
And as far as you saying that "standing up for minorities is what real Americans do", now you're the resident expert on what it takes to be a real American? I'll bet you cheer for the Detriot Lions as well..... sheesh. Vegas LOVES you.....
Pete in Texas
so why do you think it's ok for you to call 2%-3% of the population "abnormal"? Do you go to the special olympics and yell out "hey all you abnormal people - how you doing?" well, do you?
or maybe you do...
and yes - americans always stand up for the oppressed and the underdog, and tries to give everyone the same rights. If you haven't figured that out, then I don't know what to tell you...
so your biggest problem is you misuse the word "normal". In case you haven't figured it out yet, the opposite of "normal" is "abnormal" - and no one wants to be called "abnormal". perhaps you should try average versus not your average person. Or you could just continue to offend people.
i'm sure mormons would be more than welcome there - you'll get to feel what it is really like to be ostrasized - right before they behead you...
so I guess you are proud of that... or do you figure two wrongs make a right?
Gay lifestyle... (according to the bible) = wrong.
Two gays get together = them screaming for "rights".
Yeah, I guess two wrong DOES equal them screaming for "rights".
Go figure.......
["Gay lifestyle... (according to the bible) = wrong"]
well, there's your problem. You think just because the bible says something, that's the "word of God" and everyone should abide by it. I can't argue with religious zealots...
re - to: reality check | 5:47 p.m
["it's easy to blame god isn't it? gays are sinful."]
who said anything about God? and it's only you and your religious bretheren that think being gay is a sin.
["if science came out and said that serial killers were born that way, i suppose we should legalize murder, right?"]
that's stupid. Murder harms others, obviously. Being gay and gays getting married doesn't harm anyone (except your overly-zealous morals). So at least try to make a decent arguement.
["after all, he we are saying how animals can be gay to so it must be they were born that way. we were also born with an instinct to destroy whatever is a threat to us. hows that for a reality check, huh, "reality check"?"]
I have absolutely no idea what you are trying to say here but it sounds ridiculous...
YA'LL ARE GENIUS'S!!!! Count me as a believer.
Pete in Texas
["Yeah.... silly me. I believe in God and THAT'S my problem. I should be more enlightened and dismiss that silly notion since it's old school"]
no. The point is you can't (or shouldn't) push your religious beliefs into law, which is what you are doing by preventing harmless gay people from getting married. You are using your religious beliefs to hold down people that have done absolutely nothing to you, and their actions harm no one.
You keep talking about God, but you mean YOUR God. Not everyone has the same beliefs as you. See how mormons do in the middle east. Or try to convert Chinese. They have an ENTIRELY different belief system than you, and and ENTIRELY DIFFERENT GOD.
you can't use your religious beliefs to create or maintain laws because not everyone believes the same things you do. That's why we have separation of church and state. To keep the zealots out of it...
sorry to burst your bubble, Pete - but your God has nothing to do with the laws of the country....
-"Christ wasn't born perfect. He lived valiantly enough to achieve perfection.
Pete in Texas"-
so says you. But I'm a Buddahist and I think you're crazy....
true - and the other half was obscured by how beautiful she is. Hey - I'd vote for her, and I'm a no-on-8 voter....
tell her to run for Republican VP next time - she'd get more votes than Sarah Palin...
Pete in Texas
How in the world do you know that people are "born" gay? Do you know of one person who remembers from the moment they were born that they were "gay?" Come on.
your problem is you believe society will be harmed by SSM, when there is no evidence of that.
Regardless, the laws in this country are supposed to seperate church and state, so while you are free to have your opinion, you are not free to impose your religious beliefs on others. And your stand on SSM appears to be strictly a religious stance.
How in the world do you know that people are "born" heterosexual?
Do you know of one person who remembers from the moment they were born that they were heterosexual?Come on.....
Kudos to Miss California for speaking her mind and doing so in a polite respectful manner.
Jeers to Hilton for his vulgar behavior afterwards. You're hurting your own case.
How do I know? Actually, I don't know. Which is why asking the question to explain sexuality is lame.
Again, where do people get this overused cliche that a person is "born" a certain way? Oh that's right, they get it from the need to explain away their behavior.
what's the difference? how does that change anything?
Ms California is guilty of "enhancing her talents" but its okay because she is against gay marriage?
She is lacking in integrity but not silicon.
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If 2%-3% of civilization is born with one leg missing or just one eye, would you say those were normal? So if you did classify them as normal, you're saying the 97%-98% of people born with both legs or both eyes are abnormal? Don't get all ticked off at the words I am using. I never suggested "inferior" in any sense, only "normal". (You need to understand some of these terms before you hop on the angry wagon.)
I, too, hope that none of my grandkids are gay, but not because I hope everyone is like me as you stated. It would be sad to be born with any kind of tendency that is not natural and that they may have to struggle through in this life. That being said, I believe that anyone born gay isn't necessarily any worse of an individual than I am. We aren't defined by what our weaknesses are, only by how valiant we are in overcoming them.
Pete in Texas