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Sore losers won't let go in California
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"In 1887, [Congress passed] the Edmunds-Tucker Act.... [M]embers of the Mormon Church ... will not be allowed to sit on juries; they will not have the right to hold office; they will not have the right to vote."
- Ken Verdoia
California is not whinning - They are the ones that won!
It is the gay's EVERYWHERE (not every one of them) that are doing the whinning and the bashing, sending hate male, destroying property, making people loose jobs, etc etc
get your facts straight!
"I think our creator knows more than we do about the road to happiness. Let's trust him!"
Hold on there pardner, my imaginary friend/creator is not the same as your imaginary friend/creator.
My imaginary friend says your imaginary friend is false. Get ready for battle!
P.S. Aren't gay people icky?
eHarmony, a Christian-based match making organization, recently started a gay version of its service because the HomoMaphia sued them. That is what most of the folks, to include the LDS, fear...Once gay marriage is legalized, then every institution who won't support it will be sued, sued, and sued again.
The arguement that churches are trying to legislate morality is a loser, too. Aren't all laws morality? Doesn't society define some things (drugs, prostitution, underage marriage, marriage of siblings, polygamy) as abnormal and not acceptable to society.
No doubt over time, the gays will win their agenda. I wonder if then, they will support the FLDS and their polygamist desires. Isn't that their Constitutional right? No? How, dare you try to limit marriage to two consenting adults. After all, couldn't 4 or 7, or 15 adults consent to a relationship?
"It's sad to see anti-Mormon bigotry thinly disguised as pro-gay advocacy."
How about:
It's sad to see anti-gay bigotry thinly disguised as pro-family advocacy.
Not true? You don't hate gays, you're just pro-family? Then how about giving others the benefit of the doubt and believing them when they say that they just want to be able to marry the person they love.
The LDS Church was the most visible and influential participant in the "yes" campaign, so it's not illogical for someone who feels they've been mistreated to focus their efforts on the Church.
Violence and vandalism are wrong, but peaceful protest (and the vast majority of the protest /has/ been peaceful) is an acceptable way of expressing the hurt and sorrow that people within the gay community feel at the outcome of the Prop 8 vote.
In the bible, Dog says, "gays shall not marry".
Pretty simple, in my mind.
"If you were killed in a car accident would you honestly want your young boys to be placed in the care of two gay men?"
If nobody in my immediate family was able to care for my kids, I would have absolutely no problem with them being taken care of by two gay men. I know a gay couple who is raising two boys, and they are some of the most caring and involved parents I've met.
I would certainly prefer gay parents for my kids over many of those who have commented on this article. As a gay man (who has never acted on his attractions) and a Mormon, it makes me sad to read some of the judgmental and hate-filled remarks being made in the name of religion.
I'm comfortable with who I am and able to read such comments without taking them personally, but I know many gay members of the Church who struggle with shame for who they are, and comments like many on this forum only increase the pain and self-loathing they feel. Please try to remember that when you demonize gays you might be demonizing your neighbor.
And I imagine an effort to get this back on the ballot again would be in full force by all the out-of-the-state-of-California mormons.
So imagine where your outrage would lie if tables were turned.
The measure passed. I accept that, but I don't have any personal tie to it. But the LDS church and its members (among other religions and groups, I understand, but we are in Utah and our dominant culture was very vocal sticking its nose in California's business)sure didn't accept the court's ruling and moved to change the law.
Why didn't they just accept what it was and move on? The answer could be that they are sore losers, perhaps? Or that they went through the legal processes afforded our citizens in this country - just as the people ridiculed in this column are doing.
I'm all for rights and every American should be extended rights to live a happy and productive life; however, there also should be limits given. And, I love how the gay and lesbian community says they simply want to be accepted, but if they're not their retaliation is more violent, bigoted and hateful than anything that they claim is perpetuated against them. "All we want is to be accepted, but be warned that if we're not, and if the majority votes against us, we will riot against that majority and will threaten their lives and their families..."
I have a slew of liberal friends, almost all of whom are married.
Huh.
bigoted response? did you actually read the 12:38 pm post? how was that bigoted?
you also failed to answer the question. do you really think 6 million americans just decided to be gay? if it's not a gene, how do you explain it?
really - we want to know. should 6 million americans be unhappy for their entire lives just so you can push your morals on others?
why are you mormon? it's one of the most bizarre religions ever invented. yet you believe that a Temperance League guy in the 1800s was given the plan for you to be like God. using seer stones and all kinds of Lord of the Rings type stuff... And you believe him.!!
Is that a gene problem? If someone told you - don't be mormon - would you do it? just because they and their friends said it was immoral? (and many think it is sacreligious.)
no - you want your rights. so who are you to push for the removal of the rights of others? what makes you so special? have you learned nothing at all?
you are the bigot and can't even recognize it...
"If you want homosexuals to stop having sex, let them get married. It works for the rest of us."
"since when did paying taxes become a right"
what? the point is gay couples want to file as "joined" - currently listed as married on the tax forms, but they don't care what you call it. If you and your wife get a tax break, the gay couple wants a tax break...
what don't you get? do I need a translator? and no, I'm not gay. but it's really "slow" people like you that need to have it explained so many times...
"Since homosexuality occurs in the minority of the population that suggests that it might be some type of biological or genetic disorder..."
People thought the same thing about left-handedness for a long time. Left-handedness has been associated with witchcraft and devil worship. Those who are born left-handed have historically been forced to try to overcome their natures and adapt to a right-handed world. It's only fairly recently that we've realized that left-handedness is a perfectly normal trait that occurs in a minority of the population.
Your argument makes no sense. You say that there is no evidence that indicates that homosexuality is caused by genes, but then claim that it is a genetic (i.e. "caused by genes") defect.
In truth, studies have indicated a variety of factors that "cause" homosexuality, including genetics, prenatal environment, and developmental influences throughout childhood. Less important than what "causes" it is the modern realization that homosexuality is a normal orientation in a minority of the population. (Even the Church now recognizes it as a "core characteristic"--see "Same-Gender Attraction" on the Church's website--and one that in many cases cannot be changed).
wow - we do seem to have a communication problem, don't we?
I, as an individual, can list my wife on my health insurance. a gay person cannot do that.
I can file married when I do my taxes. a gay couple cannot do that.
it's unclear to me where you are confused. please either refrain from answering, or be concise in your answers. It's not rocket science...
are you all really so naive that you think this was just done for the heck of it? do you really believe the propaganda saying everyone already has these rights?
Guess what? Gays in California get to adopt kids any way! So do gays in Florida.
I am thoroughly steeped in the history of the LDS faith. My comments are not directed at the majority of its members. How interesting that you thought they were.
The "ugh" is for the nasty display of arrogance, judgment and the sound of cackling glee that leaps from the words of the comments posted here. I stand by my opinion that if all of you who throw such withering words at others for stating their thoughts were left with only yourselves, you would surely soon turn on each other. Your behavior as displayed here is a corrosive habit.
sorry, but my brother is married to a fine woman, as am I. Although I believe in equality for all, I am quite heterosexual.
and I don't push my religious moral agenda on others so I obviously am not mormon...
Try another argument.
I'm not gay, but very interested in hearing the mormon response to this. (I'm sure Sarah Palin would consider it to be the final step to "end of days"...)
so - what's the worst that can happen? no more babies because everyone is gay? everyone dies of aids? the devil takes over the world?
I would really like to know... enlighten me...
Let's vote on gay marriage until the cows come home.......or until it passes. The people of California have now passed this initiative twice. The first time, a handful of judges decided that the majority of the people who voted on this didn't matter, and overturned it. Who marched and protested when the judges ruled against the people? Please provide sources.
The "gay" protestors are making spectacles of themselves. They want to protest the Sundance Film Festival? Great, hurt the one advocate they have, Robert Redford and the sympathetic Park City community.
Thanks for the laugh. It made reading all of these comments completely worthwhile.
:o)
No one answered my previous question. When did you choose your sexual orientation? In addition, could YOU live a life of celibacy void of any intimate relationships? Please really think about it. This is exactly what you are asking our gay brothers and sisters to do.
that way the mormons would be on their side and get laws passed just like the mormons did here. and they can confuse the population into thinking all mormons are gay, not unlike the FLDS does concerning polygamy.
isn't religious freedom wonderful?
Also in California regarding insurance, a domestic partner might be included just as a legal spouse might be included and depends on the employer. Simply because you can place your spouse on insurance doesn't mean ALL can.
Yes, the Supreme Court of California been based in San Francisco, with satellite offices in Sacramento and Los Angeles, but, as far as liberality is concerned, I doubt that 6 Republican-appointed judges are extreme leftists.
I'm not gay, but I imagine the pressures of the moral majority would be devastating to anyone that was...
Don't know where you dug up this quote Ken but its not accurate. Probably was an opinion piece. The Edmonds-Tucker Act did not target Mormons by name. It simply stated that to be on a jury, to hold office, or to vote an individual had to denouce poligamy. Obviously many Mormons wouldn't denounce poligamy but that was my argument orginally. Mormons were never unable to vote!
Before anyone else suggests laws were passed that stated Mormons couldn't vote go look up the entire Edmunds-Tucker Act resolutuion on page 635 of volume 24 of the US Statutes at Large.
IF this is true what you say about these two thngs (medical insurance and taxes) then why dosen't the gay agenda work on solving these thing another way then by changing marraige. Then we all could be happy - I would support you in this whole heartily but when you try to change marraige and in so doing take rights away from us - then you will not get my support - It seem to me and a whole lot of other people that the gays want A LOT more then just these two things or they would not be fighting so hard to get marraige changed.
P.S. I have read the gay agenda..and a few other agendas put out by gays... so have a lot of other people.
I know it's next to impossible but change attitudes on here, but gay and lesbian parenting enjoys broad support from medical experts. Organizations that have officially supported adoption by same-sex couples include
the American Psychological Association,
the Child Welfare League of America,
the American Bar Association,
the American Psychiatric Association,
the National Association of Social Workers,
the North American Council on Adoptable Children,
the American Academy of Pediatrics,
the American Psychoanalytic Association,
and the American Academy of Family Physicians.[3]
The American Psychological Association states in its Resolution on Sexual Orientation, Parents, and Children (adopted July 2004):
there is no scientific evidence that parenting effectiveness is related to parental sexual orientation: lesbian and gay parents are as likely as heterosexual parents to provide supportive and healthy environments for their children"; and "research has shown that the adjustment, development, and psychological well-being of children is unrelated to parental sexual orientation and that the children of lesbian and gay parents are as likely as those of heterosexual parents to flourish."[1]
My source is wikipedia under LGBT_parenting.
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