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"do businesses allow gay people to put their "significant other" on their medical insurance?"
"pls explain how they have THE EXACT SAME RIGHTS as any other couple?"
Rights aren't given to couples, they are given to individuals. Guess what, I can't list a person of the same gender as my partner and and expect the same rights as heterosexual married couples either, even though I am heterosexual.
Is this helping you to see that we do have the EXACT SAME RIGHTS? I am restricted by the exact same laws that restrict you even though we apparently have different sexual preferences. Isn't it nice that neither one of our preferences has priority in this country?
Keep asking the questions realitycheck, I'm always happy to provide the simple answers.
Regarding "married tax rates" yes in California you can file as married with domestic partnership. Just be aware that you are more likely to suffer a marriage penalty so joint filing isn't preferred as you should know. Regarding insurance, some companies allow you to place your domestic partner on insurance just as some allow you to add your spouse (not all allow even legally married on insurance.) Perhaps it is you RealityCheck that needs to check the facts.
This isn't about rights. It's about forcing people to accept homosexuality as normal by hijacking the word marriage, and disregarding their right to believe as they wish and teach their beliefs to their children.
Would that we protected religious belief with the same zeal that gays want to shove their lifestyle in our face. I couldn't care less what gay people do in private. Trying to make me approve of it, or teach my children to approve of it - that will get me cranky.
Interracial marriage used to be an issue, and would've lost if put up to a vote. To people who say, "you can't chose to be black, you can chose to be gay:" that's debatable, and you can chose to be in an interracial relationship or a gay one.
To everyone who says "think of the children, they shouldn't be taught that gay marriage is right," what about the children of gay couples (which all studies PROVE turn out exactly the same as children of straight couples), should they be taught that their parents are sinners?
And, yes, churches should not be sued or have their tax exemptions taken away...maybe we should put together a NEW law to increase the separation of church and state to ENSURE that no churches can be sued for practicing their belief in discrimination.
Obama Wins Mandate with 52% Landslide
Proposition 8 Eeks Out Narrow 52% Passage in California
Government has long asserted the authority to regulate marriage and procreation. Hence laws against marrying siblings, cousins, multiple spouses, someone with a blood-born disease, an animal, and so forth. These laws existed long before 1789 (the US Constitution) and if marriage was an explicit RIGHT, would have thus been named in the Bill of Rights as a major break from current governance.
Government regulation has subsequently been legislated and upheld by the Supreme Court. Notable are the Morrill Anti-bigamy Act, the Poland Act, Reynolds v. United States, the Edmunds Act, and the Edmunds-Tucker Act. All of these regulated marriage with the penalty of explicitly TAKING AWAY enumerated constitutional rights for those who did not conform.
Benson lists some impressive recent history here. Bottom line, Prop 8 will stand. Take it to the US Supreme Court and the result will likely be 50/50 states rather than 30/50.
Now don't renege on your decision to step aside or you'll lose all credibility. I know you want to respond real bad but you've got to fight it. You'll undo all the excellent work you've done on this comment board today.
It is a childish temper tantrum.
They sound like an upset, immature child: "you hate me, you are so mean, then the screaming (protests), and throwing things(vandalsim)"
"you're just trying to hurt me You don't care about me " "etc. etc."
Sounds familiar uh?
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What is so difficult to believe about the spectrum of possibilities? In the merging of genetic material there are all sorts of combinations. Did you choose yours? Do we forget we are made up of more than our outward appearance? What did our spirits inherit? What did our minds inherit?
There are predators who make ugly choices in all sectors of society, however, in our saner moments we do not paint whole sectors with the same brush as those predators.
What is so scary?
Can we not give everyone the same opportunity to fail in creating a lasting committed relationship with the person they love that the majority of us already enjoy?
Gays are P*E*O*P*L*E...
you know, human beings??
They vote, they pay their taxes, they serve in the military. Some are even religious. Gasp!
Shouldn't they have ALL the rights afforded to the rest of America?
Or should they only get most of the rights, and we'll tell them which ones they are?
Sweet deal for us! Too bad for them.
�They would, after all, have the right to abolish us as a religion and culture, because religion is a choice.�
No state has the power to nullify any religion. As it now stands, religion and the right to worship without interference by government is established in the first amendment to the U.S. Constitution. The only scenario that would even apply to your reasoning is if a constitutional convention were called to revamp the United States Constitution. If society ever came to that, God help us all.
The #2 lie in the opposition to Prop 8 campaign was that marriage is the government and the People recognizing the love between two people. If you believe this lie then your concept of marriage is based on Disneyesque fantasies. In the real world governments recognize marriages as a means of regulating procreation and improving the probablities of children being raised as assests rather than as liabilities to society.
Now go do the research on the role that sociology, psychology, biology, and chemistry have on the successful raising of children. Look especially for the impact that male and female pheromones have in the process. You will find that it takes both a male AND a female in order for probablilities of success to be maximized. The science supports Prop 8.
Even if the definition of marriage were put to a global vote the majority would define the union as being between a man and a woman. It is a kindergarten question at best. We all know the answer. What is there to debate here? Should we put the whole dictionary up for vote and diminish from any understanding of anything?
This isn't about rights. If you want to be married according to its definition, that's great--find someone of the opposite sex and get married. If not, then don't. But don't complain when you deprive yourself of marriage as defined by the society you are a part. Marriage shouldn't be put to vote, but it was, now uphold your democracy.
It's time to move beyond religious-based definitions on this issue, at least as justification for why it's okay to continue excluding some from legal recognition of their committed relationship.
"Consenting adult" eliminates all the nonsense about marrying children, various animal friends, rocks, pine trees, and blow-up toys. Recognizing that all marriages are between two people also allows for legislating how many marriages a person can enter into at one time. Personally, I don't care about multiple marriages for someone if they choose to complicate their lives in that way. I do think we could require full disclosure to other spouses though.
The reality is, as a poster already mentioned, that gays already share the same individual rights as you and I. What they are demanding is that we grant them a right that will require their lifestyle choice be taught in the public schools, make refusal to grant a temple recommend, or to marry in the temple "hate speech," and require that gays be given equal consideration in being granted adoption rights equal to (and at some point in the future over) a heterosexual couple. And they want to raise children with values that we mainstream, heterosexual Americans consider an abomination, and as such, eventually their "choices" will eventually completely erode the rights of heterosexuals and real families from real parents. For those of you heterosexuals who are sympathetic to the "gay rights" cause, is this really what you want for yours' and your children's futures? Not me. I will continue to push back the tide of words the gay and lesbian community use to make their indefensible point.
It's a moral issue. Not equality. Morality.
- They whined when Bush won in 2000, calling it fraud. Al Gore wanted Democratic campaign workers in 4 Florida counties to "divine" who voters may have wanted in a recount. He couldn't care less about the other counties.
- They whined when Bush won by 3 million votes in 2004. Obama's "landslide" was only 5 million, BTW.
- They whined when Dino Rossi won the election for governor in the heavily Blue Washington State in 2004. Then they recounted and recounted (not to mention found boxes of votes every time they fell short) until they finally won.
- They whined and are doing it again in Minnesota where not-so-funny-man Al Franken lost the vote, and again, we have "diviners" guessing on ballots on the recount for Senator.
Liberals whine, cheat and sue whenever they don't get their way.
They claim "every vote counts" until the votes don't stack up in their favor!
My mum had the wisdom to put everyone on the naughty step.
So, the question remains... why do they even CARE about a stupid piece of paper? Because "it's the principle of the thing"? Again, since when did liberals care about principles?
"Woe unto them that call evil good and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter." -Isaiah 5:20
Biblically based argument definitely being fulfilled in our day. We must stand with the UNCHANGEABLE Creator of us all by establishing once and for all that truth is truth and doesn't change with time, persecution, or in different cultures. Marriage is between a man and a woman, always has been and always will be!
1. No one's civil rights have been taken away.
2. Gays frequently get married. They even have children. When you marry someone of the opposite sex it is called marriage. It always has been.
3. The Prop 8 legislation says nothing about an individual's ability to be part of a loving relationship.
4. The Prop 8 battle is understood by many of us to be an shrouded attack on religious liberties and individuals' rights to believe and teach that something such as homosexual behavior is wrong. Just witness the recent litigation against doctors, photographers, dating services, facilities, etc. by outspoken gay activists for refusing to provide services to gay couples.
Even Elton John gets it.
�get a grip. being gay IS in fact a result of genes. Perhaps if you put down the book of mormon and picked up a scientific journal, you would know that.�..
Can you cite any article from those journals that conclusively proves that homosexuality is caused by genes? On the other hand, evidence may very well point to homosexuality being a genetic defect, which is completely different than saying a gene causes people to become gay. .
Since homosexuality occurs in the minority of the population that suggests that it might be some type of biological or genetic disorder that causes the body to re-map its sexual identity. Of course, if that were true the evidence would no doubt be suppressed since genetic defects also hold the promise for cures or treatments and this would alter the idea that being gay is something that cannot be changed and would leave homosexuals without excuse for their behavior
If that's true, then why hold elections at all? Why not just make decisions of governance by who can shout the loudest, who holds the most firepower, or who's the most cruel about literally enforcing their will? We left all that behind in the Middle Ages, right?
There are few things MORE democratic--or "American," if you like--than agreeing with the popular vote, even IF you didn't like the result. I didn't vote for Obama--but somebody forgot to tell me it was my RIGHT to march on the White House with a mob of like-minded voters, chanting sound-bite slogans and harassing opponents while demanding Mitt Romney be immediately installed as President--electoral will and constitutional procedure/precedent be damned!
That's not the way it's done in a democracy, gay-marriage advocates. To get your way, people, you're going to have to turn back the clock and take on the very Constitution of the United States itself.
Now, it has been 15 years, and she still blames everyone else for her decision. It is absolutely ridiculous, nevertheless, she will NOT admit to her mistake. It is always someone else who is to blame.
Everyone else was over it years and years ago. Yet, she is going to go to her grave without ever accepting that she may have been wrong.
That is just how some people are. Apparently, the sore loser homosexual crowd fits in to this category. They just will not accept the fact; that the society they live in will NOT condone such deviant behavior.
The End.
"The majority in the United States" DID legalize slavery, and it remained legal for four score and seven years.
Those who are ignorant of history are doomed to repeat it.
You mentioned our "Hateful agenda" please site this also -- I have not read any agenda full of hate for gays - must have missed that one. I did however read the "gay agenda" and there was ALOT of hate in it!
Peaceful, legal disagreement is fine. The name-calling, harassment, assaults and scare tactics used by some people on each side, is not.
What about single people who will never have the opportunity in this life to marry because there are just not enough good and righteous men to go around they I am sure have at one time loved someone - where are their rights?
In reading other comments I have come to realize that these rights are not always available to heretosexuals either. If I am wrong -then why dosen't your brother go about righting the wrong through the law instead of changing "marraige" for everyone else - AND PLEASE don't tell me that it won't change anything - if you believe that - then it is you who are truly blind.
Oh, really? According to which news source? Or on whose planet? You come out with a zinger like that, pal, better be prepared to back it up with FACTS and CREDIBLE SOURCES.
Otherwise, it's just more spin and propaganda by those who've already demonstrated that they're willing to stop at NOTHING to get their way, the electorate and Democratic process shoved aside. Sounds like yet more of the same crapola to me.
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