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As a commited LDS member, of course I want to share my beliefs and values with others; whether it's religion, sport, politics or whatever, we share what we value and what makes us happy. But I don't feel any need to impose my beliefs or values on anyone else and expect the same respect back. I believe we should be able to live in harmony with anyone irrespective of their religious or other values. For example, we have gay people at my office, I don't subscribe to their lifestyle choice, but my relationship with them is the same as with all of my other colleagues.
Therefore, the very fact that this debate is taking place is, in my view, extremely sad.
Rocky has often taken divisive stances and has been a major factor in the LDS/nonLDS polarisation. His predecessor, Deedee showed that a multi-cultural approach is possible. Salt Lake (like every other city) needs a mayor who will unite people to a common cause. Values of peace, tolerance, respect, family are not "LDS" or "non LDS" values, they are values that the majority of people follow in their lives.
Utah is a great place to live, the scenery and recreation is second to none, but more importantly, having visited over 30 countries, and over 35 states in the USA, I can also say the lifestyle is amongst the best anywhere. In England, crime, vandalism and apathy are commonplace, I would love to live in Utah. LDS or not, protect it!
You have somehow made this post all about you which is just what you wanted. I can just see the selfishness oozing from my screen when I read your posts. You're the one that brought up your dislike for the Church in the first place. No one challenged you about your faith. You just launched in about the 4th and 6th post about south park, blood atonement, etc... no one asked you about those things. No one wrote word one about those things or challenged you until you opened the door.
Your posts are self serving and nothing else. You could care less about the way SLC is run and I doubt that you even live in the city.
Keep your selfish posts about your dislike for the Mormon church out of here. Stick to the topic. Don't open the door to this religious bickering back and forth between yourself and others.
As for Mayor Anderson, he has done what he came in to do. Many things have been improved while he has been mayor. the Jazz Festival has been a stroke of genius. I don't agree with him on social issues or the way he has handled the situation with the LDS Church. He has led in the way i always exected and has had the cities best interests at heart.
Spoken as one who was raised LDS for 45 years....I have seen both sides....
It's fascinating that you name Seattle as some kind of mecca of open-mindedness and diversity of thought. I still live in the Puget Sound and work in Seattle every day, and I have found Seattle to be its own little "bubble", in regards to how and when people look down their noses at you.
Want to be ostracized in Seattle? It's easy! Just express a non-leftist opinion. About anything. That glorious Seattle open-mindedness only works one way.
Hell, my wife and I had a very good friend pretty much kick us out of her life because she couldn't deal with the fact that we weren't "left" in the way she needed us to be "left" in order for her to be able to tolerate us. And by Utah standards, my wife and I are pretty freaking liberal.
So please, before you set Seattle up against Salt Lake, or the Puget Sound against Utah, check yourself. Seattle and the Puget Sound have their own shibboleths, their own "rules", their own cliques and in-clubs and logic, where shutting people out is concerned. They just happen to be prejudiced from a different part of the spectrum, compared to Utahns. That's all.
I for one can't wait to get back to Utah. It's not a perfect state, but it has a much better cost-of-living index, better public schools, you can buy a decent family home for under $500,000 and you don't have to deal with all the obnoxious, wannabe San Francisco North attitude.
You throw out the tired lines of live and let live. On a daily basis that's exactly what I see. I live on a cul-de-sac that has 3 mormons, 2 catholics, 1 baptist and 2 I don't know what they believe and not once in all the parties that we've had have I ever heard someone tell someone else what to believe. In fact, religion rarely if ever comes up.
No matter what you believe or where you live (read the comments here) people will stand up for what they believe. Why is that so hard for those who oppose or have different beliefs than Mormons to understand? You are pushing your beliefs on me. Why can't I defend my beliefs? It's always a one-way street that the Mormons have to bend their beliefs to appease someone else's. Why not the other way? Not fair? Why not?
If I don't believe in abortion and to get to the 'middle ground' why don't those who believe in abortion have to change their point of view? Why must I change mine to get to the middle?
Paula, you live in a sad neighborhood. I've never seen what you describe. Did you know that the Catholics & Baptists believe they are the one and only true church? So do the Seventh Day Adventists who just came to my house yesterday.
You seem to be one who looks to be offended at every turn. That's what is sad. Based on your comments, you aren't very tolerant of those with different beliefs. Are you ready to start with yourself? If so, others will follow.
Rocky was a horrible mayor.
I hope we can keep balance and either elect another mayor like Rocky, or get a new council that won't be persuaded by the LDS church.
One item you state tolerance. To what degree. The prolblems we are experiencing not only in the U.S. but in the world is there is to much tolerance and tolerance leads to apahty
You have obviously missed the fact that the Church from the time of Christ has continued to change to deal with growth. You point out polygamy and black in the priesthood but fail to bring up that Moses went back to talk to god when the Israelites showed how unprepared they were spirtually.
Of course people turned their backs on you. Not because of the fact you chose another path but because you felt that you were so enlightened that you possessed the right to attack their faith because it was no longer your own and because you knew better.
"LDS are Utah": You are hilarious. We would all be hard pressed to find such an archetypal Utah Mormon that people hate. The "If you don't like it, leave" ... the "The Mormons are the only good thing about Utah.." But my favorite is suggesting that if the GA's had not recommended that members not tell disgruntled or frustrated neighbors to "leave" that it's okay.
What kind of example of your faith do you want to be? 'cause let me tell ya, you really beam spirituality right now. I'm getting all kinds of warm fuzzies at your posts, and can't help but think "Man, I wants me some of dat!"
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1. The LDS church, as an organization, does not in a formal way through church meetings, clergy annoucements or any other day to day type activities involve themselves in politics, political parties, or candidates.
2. The church does offer a public statement once in a while about a given topic about their position. The issue of gambling was the example I can remember right now. There could be others.
3. The influence of the LDS church in government comes about as BJB just said above: The quantity of voters that have LDS-like beliefs elect people who have similar beliefs.
Mat 7:21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.
Mat 7:22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
Mat 7:23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
Acts 26:14 And when we were all fallen to the earth, I heard a voice speaking unto me, and saying in the Hebrew tongue, Saul, Saul, why persecutest thou me? it is hard for thee to kick against the pricks.
Oh and "Welcome" I have yet to turn my back on a friend just because they didn't believe the same as me. The only time I turned my back on a friend was when a friend chose to attack me using the normal BS attempts to persuade me I am wrong. My faith is based on my knowledge of the scriptures and the fact that more now then ever there is a need for a prophet. How anyone can believe a prophet was something that was only necessary before Christ is beyond me. Prophets called of god have been the one constant throught time in knowing the true Church, well that and actually calling the Church in Christs name.
NLS? A timeless phrase within the Mormon community is that people are inherently and subconsciously miserable because they left the LDS church and that is why people cannot "leave the church alone"? NLS, it is pathetic that some people actually believe such nonsense.
Anonymous in Seattle, your wife had a friend that kicked her out of her life becaused she was not liberal enough? Do you think that does not happen here in Zion. Do you believe that there are not some parents in Utah that will not let their children play with other children because they are not of the 'correct" religion? That friends distance themselves because of political believes?
And to whoever said that SLC is so clean, look up in the sky, look to the horizon, you see that brown gunk? Clean? Are you kidding?
Here are some of my values and see if you agree:
1. Do not go to the lake and fish, you should water ski instead.
2. Do not sneeze in other peoples faces.
3. Do not drive 55mph in a 25mph
4. Do not kidnap kids and then murder them
As you can see these range from choices of taste, to common laws of courtesy to even an item we all agree on is a very serious sin. (cultural and other level)
For the issue of skiing or fishing... I think some of you might disagree with me on that one. But ask yourself "is it really true that he must be dumb, or stupid, or ignorant, or ridculous to prefer skiing over fishing?"
Maybe what we should do, rather than just put someone down for not likeing what we do is compromise a little bit.
Let say you and I go for a boat ride and half of the time we fish and half of the time we ski. And we'll each try a little of both. I might learn that the some of the value of fishing is that there can be some good chit chat about life and telling stories. That would be nice.
Maybe we don't really want to do either - it just isn't in our value set. So how about we share the boat and you take it some times and I'll take it others. To live together we'll have to find a little compromise.
And for Rocky Anderson, I wished he would take a friendlier, more compromising position, esp. a politician. I hope the same for you and me.
He uses ad hominem attacks on those who disagree with him, including on issues like global warming, where he criticizes scientists whose opinion he doesn't like, even though he has no particular scientific credentials.
Anderson's posturing based on ignorance is demonstrated by his campaign against bottled water, where he demonstrates that, because of his overwhelming desire to be politically correct on environmental issues, he has been suckered into a cultural hoax akin to the one perpetrated ten years ago by the fake campaign to ban "dihydrogen monoxide"--H2O or water--and popularized by then junior high student Nathan Zohner. His irrationality would be amusing except for the fact that, as mayor, he has power to take away the freedom of city employees, like the fire and police departments. What could be more innocuous than water, yet Anderson has painted it as an environmental villain, and the SL Tribune has hypocritically gone along with his insanity, even though the process of printing and distributing a daily newspaper burns up far more gasoline and creates far more landfill waste than water bottles ever will.
Anderson's condemnation of the election of LDS members to public office is a throwback to the anti-Mormon hysteria of a century ago. Anderson argues that Mormons can't think for themselves, yet his own political positions are so predictable that he could be replaced by a computer program.
Anderson demonstrates an incredible megalomania, partly because the national news media don't understand his city is only a small part of Utah's population.
At least have the courage to sign your name!!!
As for persecution...thats what this whole comment is about. Rocky should go because he doesn't support LDS beliefs. That is in itself a form of persecution.
Defending one's belief is different than asking for the removal of an Elected Official because that official doesn't support your religions beliefs.
There is a difference....
It's this kind of difference that got the Mormons persecuted in the first place. Live and accept...don't judge and remove. I never said I wanted to remove Mormons from the State. They are good people...who unfortunately as a culture feel that they are chosen and everyone else is going to Hell....hence my comparison to Muslimism....
When they learn to follow Gordon B. Hinkleys advice to love their neighbors, be an example and most of all stop judging...then things will improve. I know you don't believe it, but if you read through all these comments...there are allot of ex:Mormons who all say the same thing. Mormons are judgemental and non-accepting of others beliefs. They force their beliefs on others...to the extent that they do stupid things like trying to buy public streets so they can access their temple....forget that the rest of the public might want to use that piece of property!!!
You and I could go at this for days...and days and days.
Of course that's the Great Thing about being an American...both you and I can say what we want an we can agree....to disagree!!!
Can I hear one for God bless America???
Never, ever, ever, had the teachings/council of the Mormon church or anything given by clergy said "if somebody you know leaves either by volunteering or by formal excommunication, you should immediately shun them, disown them, act like you don't know them - so for example, you shoule quickly shut the garage door if it looks like they are comming over to get a cup of sugar."
Never, ever, ever.
But people do that sort of thing out of human weakness. Not becuase of training. Not becuase of indoctrination. Not becuase of any teaching by the church. And I believe not even from a secondary condition of any sort.
So why blame the church for something that an imperfect human has done to you in hurtful sort of way?
That is the reason we get "defensive" - it is natural. Mormons and non-Mormons alike.
And every one of us a a rule set by which we live that it the RIGHT way. That is a fact since that is the way we live whether you are a card-carrying member of any organized religion or not.
So attacking one anothers beliefs is of no value really. Tell me otherwise.
But is it harmful if someone says "hey you should try fishing - it really is a good time. I belive it to be a real benefit in my life. Come with me and try it."
No it isn't harmful and we'd all agree with that :-) Becuase it is not an attack on personal beliefs it is an invite.
An issue brought up earlier in the thread above is "well my visiting teacher won't leave me alone and I've politely asked to be left alone."
If that is the case, then it is human weakness in error again, not the organization of the Mormon Church.
Never, ever, ever has any church teaching/council in which i have participated ever, ever said to continue hometeaching somebody when they have asked for no home teachers. If someone asks to be removed from the home teaching list, i have always witnessed in my actions or those of others to simply grant their request and leave them off the list.
Why condem the whole church for the actions of an imperfect person?
In your comment you stated - as i see it - that all mormons are judgemental.
It is this kind of blanket statement about women, African Americans, group xyz, etc, that we've been striving to remove for sometime in our society becuase it is an inflamatory and hateful statement.
It is this sort of statement that compels me to defend ("be defensive" i guess.)
I respectfully, do not agree with you.
I have moved around a lot and so i have met a lot of Mormons in my day and they are not - as a rule judgemental. I have met some, no doubt.
And you don't have to be a non-Mormon to see who they are...
The church teachings never, ever, ever, ask us to judge our neighbor (mormon, non-mormon alike) for the purpose of condemning them. We are taught to love our neighbor.
Judging others is an act of human weakness and not a doctrine.
Dale, I don't see much love from you in your comments. I see quite the opposite. I see a lot of judging from you about LDS members and their beliefs.
People vote for people because of the similarities they have, like it or not. You vote for people who you think are similar to you. It's very simple. It has nothing to do with religious beliefs except for the fact that people are what they believe. You are your beliefs. Rocky is his. If we clash on things because of those beliefs so be it. If we agree on things because of those beliefs so be it.
You also misstate beliefs of the LDS Church. If you don't believe them, don't ridicule them or misstate them. Why? Because you don't understand them. If you believe what the LDS Church teaches, then you believe that Christ said that the LDS Church is the only true and living church on the earth. No human claimed it, Christ did. If you want to argue with Him, have at it. But if I believe it, I'm not going to deny it.
Do you ask the Catholics, Baptists, Protestants to denounce that they believe they are the only true church? They all do you know.
You just seem to be offended easily and look for things to continue the great divide. I refuse to live my life that way.
Based on your comments, you could be related to Rocky. Are you?
But you would only know that if you weren't an EX-Salt Laker.
As for Romney, he is so heads and shoulders above the rest of the field the dust has settled that he left behind. It's not even close.
If you choose to not vote for Romney for a real reason, so be it. If you choose to not vote for him based on your 'enlightened' intellect reflected in your nonsense written above, then you are pretty shallow my friend.
It is depressing to see what the current administration has done to science. And before you ask what they have done, study the issue.
We have veered away from an age of rationality and are sliding toward a dark age. Do you really think there is much difference between the religious of this country and the people that support the theocracies of the Middle East?
The main reason countries of the Middle East have been left behind is because of their reliance on religious superstition in running their governments. Do we really want to go down the same road?
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I talked to him once on the radio. I asked why he opened up the whole �sale of the city block issue� if it was a done deal when he came in. His response was that he didn't think it was right to sell it and that in no other city of the US could an institution purchase an entire city block. He then spoke of building bridges between city residents and how important he saw that to be.
I have no reason to question his motives any more than any other politician. He holds different beliefs than I do and I am sure that on some he is right and I am wrong. I find ways that my viewpoints are wrong as I go through life too. (I did look up to see if any city block have been sold, and indeed it does happen.)
As best I can judge Rocky is in line with his ACLU background and likes to have opportunities to make a positive difference in line with his values. Can�t blame him for that.
I do differ with Rocky's approach to handling the religion issue. I see nothing in the behavior of the church leaders that gives evidence of meddling in political affairs. I think that this is a straw man argument (as is commonly used in politics). I can't blame him for being frustrated with a nearly unified front when going against Mormon city council members, but I think that has to do with uniform values and backgrounds(both in experience and religion).
That is the job Rocky signed up to tackle. I just hope he remembers that he brings his values, beliefs and 'Religion' to the table as well. When we see ourselves in others we start to build bridges.