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Sorry, I'll retract my protest because I realize that all those books contain knowledge on a group of people. In order to better understand each other we must embrace each others believes even if we do not hold them ourselves.
When I was a young person, I was desperately trying to understand what was going on with me. I knew, certainly by the time I was 10, but probably earlier, that I was "different."
I spent many hours at the public library in a sometimes desperate search to understand.
It was the 1960s, and people spoke of "inverts" and "the third sex" --in hushed tones, if at all.
And the public library spoke of it not at all.
I needed to understand. And no one was there to help.
If only there had been books --even a single book-- that told the truth: that, for reasons not quite understood, some people realize they are "different" in terms of their sexual orientation.
And that it is perfectly possible to live a good, full, healthy life as a gay person.
Something it took me decades to figure out on my own. Now I know. But back them...
If only.
I have several friends and coworkers who'd take strenuous issue with your assertion that they don't lead "legitimate" lives.
What's interesting to me, however, is the idea that you feel entitled to make such sweeping judgements about other people, about whom you know absolutely nothing.
Where'd that come from?
If we're going down this road, could we also make sure that all books by Limbaugh, Hannity, and their ilk, are not seen by children either? I don't want to give the impression that such a lifestyle is appropriate, or sanctioned by our public libraries?
And you ARE being a prude. If you are afraid that a children's book will have more sway with your children than your own teaching then that speaks more about your failure as a parent than the legitimacy of gay books.