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BUT, as a child of poverty...as someone who grew up in a "HUD" neighborhood with Section 8 housing...being tolerant is NOT the only thing that Americans can do. And financial assistance does not mean that people are weak. One major illness of ONE family member can send a family over the edge. I've seen through a close family member's experiences that a lost job, lost insurance, and the prejudice that occurs from companies when they find out people have families, or a sick family member in this country does not represent "tolerance". And that the only thing that salvaged such horrible situations were government assistance programs that kept babies with food, children going to the doctors they desperately needed (in order to live), and a family together. The majority of UT does not get it....it's not a matter of "poor" people...it's a matter of recognizing that taking care of each other makes us all stronger! So pooh on your "tolerance" alone crap!
Third world countries have it worse, but is it a competition? No.
That young couple at the convienence store may be living in their car.
In our busy lives, take a moment to really see the people around you in every day life. You just never know how one small, simple gesture, smile, kindness may be just what that person is praying for.
Kudos to these two persons who are trying for a moment to find out what it feels like to walk in someone else's shoes. God bless you!
One of the things that made this country great after the Great Depression was the social safety net that helped people who were down on their luck get back on their feet.
Listen to what most of Utah's legislature says about government programs that help poor people and you'd think it was the work of Satan himself. Our tax dollars go to these programs--and that's a GOOD thing.
Vote those insensitive folks out and see how they like it back in the real world!
Some just do not know how to put things off or save. Most I know are idle with their free time. Many have had children without real good planning.
I know the one big disablier is to give away free money...
Stereotyping the poor as idle and irresponsible just worsens the problem. It makes people who are hungry, who have to put their babies to bed in the back seat of their cars feel a deeper sense of sorrow and false shame. Let's start "directly helping" those poor people before judging them.
The teen mom who raises their child who ends up a mother in her teen years. Yeah the second teen made a bad choice starting family early but really hadn't had the skills to make better financial decisions from her family most likely. Once you are poor or on assistance it's difficult to get out of it and it becomes a generational thing.
Some people are doing fine financially cause they have had no bad luck or difficult event yet in their lives.
Some things are just too expensive to survive without multiple part time jobs and multiple earners in the home. One of those jobs gone and you are hurting for food.
Take the mortgage mess. Two incomes to qualify, one gets laid house and the house is in forclosure. What they should have done it based the payment on one income, used the other's for improvements and saving and paying down the mortgage early. One could support the house with greater ease if times got tough.
I see children now who have MUCH more than I did as a child but whose family life and general social surroundings are so heavily laden with corrupt/superficial values and neglectful parenting, they struggle to have the childish joy that I remember being a regular part of the lives of all of us "poor" children 50 years ago.
Mother Teresa saw the worst kind of material poverty this world can produce. Yet, she could see that "There is more hunger in the world for love and appreciation in this world than for bread."