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Not sure what the Temperance Movement--which had very little if anything to do with the LDS church, BTW--has to do with sex or the Ten Commandments, but hey, you're the one carrying the banner on that. Just know that I for one have no idea what you're talking about. Sorry.
By the way, you asked earlier how we knew the prophets speak to God. Surprised nobody answered. We pray to God to know if that's true. God gives us the answer. So President Monson doesn't have to convince me of anything. I already know from God that he's a prophet--NOT a perfect man and NOT a deity, but a prophet.
That means at least two things: 1) You can know for yourself from God whether it's true that President Monson is a prophet, and 2) Even if you don't believe it, which you're free to do, it doesn't mean it isn't true anyway.
Consider it--the ULTIMATE "reality check."
"the sooner he returns, the better".
don't you think He's going to go to the other 10,000 planets that DIDN'T murder him, before he bothers to come back here? I'm sure his dad (God) feels the same way....
what do I believe? I believe that God is in your heart and your soul, and leads you through your conscience, and that organized religion lost that many years ago.
In fact, all organized religion accomplishes is to take people's money to provide for leaders that will say anything the populace wants to hear.
So - pray tell - you say that you already know "from God that President Monson is a prophet". I don't know who he is, but I'll assume he's your leader and he told you he was a prophet. And you believe him.
But you state that God told you... So the bigger question is:
how did God tell you President Monson was a prophet? How does God tell you anything? I know how He talks to me, through my conscience. Did your conscience tell you someone is a prophet? Because I'm sorry, but my conscience simply guides me down the right path - it doesn't tell me anything about prophets.
Please explain. I'm seriously curious. I know Jeffs inherited his "prophetness" but you're not fundementalist, so how were you informed of this man's ability to discuss issues with God?
Not enough room to go into depth--and Hal and others will probably not agree--but the "still small voice" described by Elijah in the Old Testament is real and echoed in LDS scriptures in Moroni 10:3-5, D&C 9:8-9, and others. So in short, you can get the answer from God through more or less the means you describe in response to honest and sincere prayer.
If you think it sounds like nonsense--well, I can understand that, too. If I weren't assured that the answers were coming from God, it'd all be pretty absurd. It's nothing you can prove with your head--you've got to trust with your heart.
Yet in today's world, it's tough to trust (a number have stopped trusting), and yes, many organized religions HAVE let us down. No argument there. But I've listened to President Monson and the apostles, and prayed about it, and it's true. That's how I know.
how did God tell you this?
I still want to know how you all actually speak to God....
But the 600,000,000 gay people around the world have to face a wall of hate every day of their lives, and by throwing their support behind Proposition 8, the Mormon Church has shored up that wall--and that is incontestable.
if a mormon doesn't pay tithing, are they excommunicated (ie - kicked out)? or is it just a request?
because it's one thing to say you should put something in occasionally if you can afford to, and it's an entirely different thing to say you have to put in some amount or you can't belong to the church.
first one is a religion. Second one is a pyramid scheme, or worse when it preys on people's fears....
You sure you got your answer from God?
Thank you for your honest question.
Just because you are so greedy with your money and time that you wouldn't part with it to serve others doesn't mean the rest of the world feels the same way you do...
If you have a specific answer in mind (ie - you WANT to believe it's true), and it doesn't go against your conscience of right and wrong, then the answer will ALWAYS be what you believe. Without fail. Do you think any mormon has prayed about the heads of your church and discovered they WEREN'T prophets? ah - the power of suggestion is an amazing thing.
You do understand how powerful the power of suggestion is, right? Especially when you REALLY want to believe.....
and peterandrew - MAYBE 2%-3% of people are gay, so the number is more like 120 million, not 600 million. Hate to burst your bubble, but there is not even close to half a billion gay people in the world... That's not to say they shouldn't have the same rights as everyone else, but don't overstate your population... Churches already do that enoough.
I won't spend any more missionary time here. But if you forget everything you've been told over the years and start from scratch, and really think about it, you may find nearly all your rules were made up by men rather than by God.
you are the shareholders. and no - you don't get monetary compensation - you pay a fee, just like a union or country club. And just like those, you have no choice in paying - you must pay to belong to the club.
yes, you get benefit - you get to belong to a club that percieves itself to be the chosen few. Shareholder value is enhanced every time you are led to believe this is true. You pay - and then you feel special. Perhaps it's worth it, I don't know.
and if you think all the money is spent wisely, perhaps you should look into the mall the church is building.
there is a huge profit motive in your church. And unless you are one of the few leaders, you have ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA what your tithing money is spent on....
That's an image problem right there in and of itself
wait, let me get this straight. The church wants 10% of your income? that's a lot of money!! and if you pay less, you can't go to church?
So what do you get if you pay less, if you aren't allowed to actually attend church? a warm fuzzy? and if you pay nothing, can you still call yourself a mormon?
and tithing is an actual law or commandment in your church?
it all begs the question - how is the church handling the current financial climate? are people having to choose between paying their mortgages and feeding their children, versus paying 10% of their income to the church?
just the fact that tithing is an actual church law makes it appear to be a massive pyramid scheme.
Especially when most of the money is used to send out your troops to convert more people, to get more tiths, to send out more people, to get converts, to get more tiths, so you can send out more people, etc, etc ,etc...
and for the record, you all have WAY more commandments than God ever wanted. But your leaders just keep coming up with more. (no offense intended)
God the father became flesh to have intercourse with Mary to produce Jesus
"He partook of flesh and blood�was begotten of his father, as were of our fathers." Journal of Discourses vol.8 p.115 B.Young 1860
J.Smith translated a copy of a 1st century Egyptian scroll (book of breathings) to have being written by Abraham in his own hand.
J.Smith and following first presidents upheld brass plates as being ancient, when they were a 19th century hoax (defended in The history of the church Vol. 5, pages 372-379) The first presidency approved the printing of history of the church and that it was true and correct. Kinderhook Plates
That not even 1 coin of the many cities and peoples claimed in book of mormon has ever been found, nor has the book of mormon ever been used to make any discovery in archeology.
That J.Smiths own hand written 1832 diary contradicts the 1842 official statement of the first vision.
That all metals grow like wheat only slower
Journal of Discourses vol.1 p209
among others.
No--I've seen and heard too much to think that it's the power of suggestion. I'm not just making it all up. External events have corroborated the internal feelings as well, too well for mere coincidence or yet more "trying-to-make-the-evidence-fit-the-theory-type" suggestion. And if you're serious about believing God talks to you through your conscience--which I won't tell YOU you're making up!--then you'll understand how it is.
Believe what you want. That's your right and prerogative. But so will I. And nothing at all against you--there's plenty of need for critical thinking in our modern world as well. Just use that talent with wisdom!
Good exchanging ideas with you, and thanks for making me think!
Interesting comment - but, NOT paying tithing was a reason cited by the LDS church in excommunicating Chad Hardy (Men on a Mission calendar) and used as an excuse for not granting him his diploma.
Chad needed to complete one Church History class to complete his degree. After a couple year lapse, he decided to finish his course work and took that class though Independent Study. "IS" students are NOT required to abide by the BYU Honor Code since they are not actually "on campus." So, he was NOT in violation of any rules as has been insinuated by people on this blog. READ "JPL." Yet he WAS excommunicated for not paying tithing.
This is a perfect example of why the LDS get a bad rap. Let's do home teaching, go to the temple, pay fast offerings and treat other people like we are better than them. Thanks for providing such a striking example here.
As a member for 65 years I believe that if the church would spend more time teaching what our Savior, Jesus of Nazareth taught, Instead of what many of our leaders of this dispensation have taught we would have much more credibility. I have learned that to stay faithful, I need to spend most of my study time with the teachings of the Savior in the New Testament."
I'm a fellow member and am very glad to hear that you study the scriptures. However, why do you not study the Book of Mormon as much or more than the New Testament?
The New Testament, while a marvelous collection of sacred writings, is still the word of God "as far as it is translated correctly", while the Book of Mormon is "the word of God". Why not let it bless your life more fully?
Sounds to me that even at the age of 65 your testimony in the Book of Mormon is a little shaky.
I will say that I agree with you that modeling our lives on the Savior is what we need more than anything.
God bless.
good luck feeling comfortable @ church when you don't pay tithing.............
it's been a pleasure. good luck with your religion, we all need to have faith in something. It's just too bad your faith is so restrictive (and expensive!)
My conscience has kept me out of trouble and into helping the down-trodden, so even if it's not God, it's certainly enough to keep me in His good graces.
To have this much fun in life and still be in His good grace is about all I can hope for. Certainly not going to deny myself life's pleasures in the HOPES that I may reach some higher level, because if there is no higher level, I imagine God will be irritated that I wasted a perfectly good life.
My conscience has, and will, keep me from seeking fun/pleasure where I shouldn't, so I have A LOT less rules than you.
Not sure how confession works in the mormon church, but in roman catholic church (my upbringing) if you go to confession and say some prayers, your sins are forgiven. Well, my conscience is a lot less forgiving, so I just don't sin. Of course, my definition of sin differs greatly from yours...
:)
With all the Bible references about homosexuality, does anyone else but me find it somewhat strange that there is no reference to in in the Book of Mormon? Why does not this "Second Testament of Christ in the New World" fail to condemn it?"
EXCELLENT question. Here's your answer:
The Book of Mormon is, first and foremost, a witness of the reality and divinity of Jesus Christ as the Son of God and the Savior of the world. The Book of Mormon is absolutely crammed full of prophets' testimonies of Christ's reality and His love for God's children. The book also contains the fullness of His "gospel", meaning literally the "good news" of Jesus; which is, that permanent physical death and spiritual separation from God can be overcome thru Christ AND what the Savior requires of us to do so; to have faith in Jesus as our savior, to repent of our sins, to be baptized by one who has proper authority from God and to receive the Holy Ghost thru continual righteous living.
Please read next part....
Just because you are so greedy with your money and time that you wouldn't part with it to serve others doesn't mean the rest of the world feels the same way you do..."
I'm sure LDS Apostles are the only ones who consecrate their lives to God. Another example of why this article was written.
and that the book of mormon sits higher than the bible, in that the bible may not be translated correctly, but the book of mormon is in fact the very word of God (as translated by a dude in the 1800s).
so how does one become a prophet? Seems like a cool job. I thought you had to live a couple thousand years ago, but evidently not...
is there an on-line course I can take? or do I have to go to BYU? how's the pay? Do I get the whole 10%, or just a cut?
on second thought, it's probably not much fun.... my understanding is you don't get to do much partying....
I had a real chuckle over your figure of 600 000 000 gay people in the world. Wow, never let the truth get in the way of a good rant, eh.
So is that one of those 87.3% of statistics that are made up on the spot? Are the names of these people on a list somewhere? Doesn't that equal over 10% of the entire population of the world. There aren't that many people in all of North America. Which sociological study came up with that one? Did it take into account population diversities? Or did someone simply ask 10 people in that representative locale of California and find one who claimed to be "gay." Then by extension they assumed one tenth of the entire population of the world was "gay?"
Man, looks like it's time for a real reality check.
If at first you don't succeed, manipulate your data.
600 000 000, you can't make that stuff up. But when you live in a State of over 27 000 000 000 people you're bound to find one who can't do math.
Fighting against, disrespeting, and violating someones beliefs is just down right wrong. I am not going to disrepect them for feeling that way, or I would be against my own ways.
Just remember that if a person has beliefs makes them feel better, act better, and helps them understand themselves better (LDS, Scientologist, Jewish, ect.), why would anyone want to take that away from them? It doesn't depend on truth or not, just what the person believes.
And they have such huge egos they can't see the truth.
If Mitt's campaign did not open their eyes, nothing will.
Have a happy ever after :)
2nd, there will always be image problems. Isn't that the design of the adversary? He will mix truth with a little bit of lie in order to turn people away from the light of the Gospel.
3rd, Romney was not running for mormonism, he was running for conservatism. Political polls and studies show that his religion played a very small role in his decline as a choice for the Republican nomination.
regards,
People live on the money left after the taxes are taken out of their checks. People live on the money left over after the 401K or pension dollars are taken out of their checks. People live on the money left after making charitable donations.
Not LDS but it doesn't matter how the church spends the money. We are called to give back to God. It doesn't matter if the church we belong to is rich or poor. It doesn't release us from our obligation to give back to God what he has given us and show in that way we trust him with our finances.
Read the book (whether its the Bible, Book of Mormon, or Gary Lawrence's), and love your neighbors enough to open your mouths! Maybe get out of your Utah bubble? Makes friends outside of the Church?
Just because someone doesn't agree with our view doesn't mean they're stupid or wicked. God loves every single one of His children here.
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