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LDS have big image problem
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A. Joseph wanted to join the true church.
B. God told him there wasn't one.
C. Joseph reorganized the true church.
You won't make friends teaching that, so it is time to stop whining and time to get over this "if we just act more Christlike we'll be popular again" mumbo-jumbo.
When you claim to be the only right-thinking individual in the jury room, yo have to be ready to take the heat and back your point. YOU WILL NOT BE POPULAR.
Most LDS members need to make a MUCH more sharp distinction between political ideologies and spiritual truth. They are NOT the same thing AT ALL.
So what you are saying is that Non-Mormons should not post if WE disagree with you. But if you are Mormon you should be free to post anything you like. Last time I looked DN is a public forum Newspaper. Now you want to hide from criticism from non-Mormons. Is your Faith so weak you cannot be held up for scrutiny?
How could it be more sinister than to pretend you're a good mormon while in reality trying to destroy it? There are those in all political pparties that are trying to destroy our freedom as well.
and that which is POPULAR is not always RIGHT.
Should we strive to please men or God?
I am a blue collar postal worker and relate very well to the common man. My wife and I also voted for Obama in the last election. We are not weird people but we very interested in living eternally with our family.
We are not trying to win any popularity contests but just trying to survive in a difficult world.
Regards to all and remember we are all children of a loving father in heaven.
Actually, keeping the commandments will make some differnce. Remember the saints in navoo were persicuted and eventually expelled becaus they were not keeping the commandments like they should have.
I have a feeling that there are a LOT more LDS members who think like you. I am so grateful for your comments. I am Catholic. But I refuse to believe that most of the people who post nasty things about Catholics on here are representative of the average Mormon. Nor do I think those who post nasty things about Mormons are representative of most non LDS Christian Churches. I would love to have you for a neighbor !
Tourism, mining, forestry, tourism, computer technologies, transportation, media. Now compare that to Alberta here in Canada which people have celebrated as a "booming" economy. The problem is it is unsustainable. Once oil drops below $50 a barrel (or a scientist at BYU finds a more efficient fuel cell)the entire Province (except for a few thousand farmers growing wheat in near arctic regions) will be unemployed.
Utah, however, is in a position to weather a reduction in any one of its many economic sectors. So, yes, Utah is a vibrant, sustainable, and industrious state. Cheer up, chin up, and be proud of where you live.
Oh and don't forget those wonderful wide roads. And the excellent street system (900 West, 1400 North vs. Chevron St. and Elm Avenue). And the high literacy rates. And the health rates. And never, never forget, those talented Osmonds!
I don't know about pulling the plug. I think folks just need to lighten up a bit. This board has 164 comments. I just noticed that the postings about Ute-BYU football has 664 comments. Maybe we should just all watch more football? Take care.
I have encountered so-called anti-Mormonism one time and that was from someone I thought was my friend. I don't know who they surveyed, but either I am deluding myself or everyone I know is two-faced.
In the 3 states I've lived in, everyone has been very positive about me being LDS and most ask a lot of questions. I our town here in a heavily Democratic area, the Student Body Presidents of 2 of the 3 schools here are LDS (less than 2% of our community are LDS).
As a little league coach, I refuse to play on Sunday and my teams always have the longest waiting lists - why would so many parents want their kids to play for a Mormon coach?
When I taught at a very liberal university here, I made it known I was LDS and the students gave me the highest evaluations on the faculty every time.
I don't say this to brag. I say it to dispute the findings. My family loves our non-LDS neighbors and they seem to love us. Life is good.
As the 7:58 poster, I wholeheartedly agree with your second comment--precisely why I will NOT join ANY political party. I vote for the person, not for the largely corrupt ideology.
I also agree with your first comment in very general spiritual terms, though I'm confused about what you mean precisely. I'd disagree with political applications such as the "Harry Reid's the Devil" conspiracy theory, for instance. There's plenty of room in the Church for political diversity. But I agree there are some who'd like to turn the church and Gospel into something that'd be more pleasing to the world and natural man. That's pretty darn sinister, yes.
The assumption being that Mormons can continue their hateful comments.
So which is it? Do you want Mormons to leave you alone or not? If you do, why do you keep following us around telling us to stay away from you?
Please don't confuse honest questions with hate, it's a cop out and a sidestep.
It is well documented that Christ's apostles, who held the authority to carry on His Church and work were martyred at a rapid rate. It is also prophesied many times in the NT that there would be an apostasy and a restoration.
And to Hurt by LDS, sorry to hear that. I don't know where you live, but I no longer live in Utah. If I were lucky enough to have a neighbor like you, I would treat you the same, whether you were LDS or not. Outside of Utah, the shoe is on the other foot and many of my "born again Christian" neighbors are like the people you describe. In my book, anyone who acts that way is not a Christian, regardless of which church they belong to.
1) Be kind to your neighbors, even if they're not LDS and even if they're not terribly kind to you.
2) Be kind to your co-workers, even if they're not LDS and even if they're not terribly kind to you.
3) Be kind to your LDS co-workers and neighbors, who neither need nor require your judgement.
4) Encourage our LDS youth raised in Utah to spend a few years working and going to school on the East or West Coast. After their missions. So they can realize how the real world works beyond the LDS-defined borders of Utah.
If these four things happened on a routine basis, I think even the Adversary would have a hard time tamping down our poll numbers.
Having said that, I do think chasing popularity is a fool's game. Being LDS has never been about being popular. This is a demanding faith that sets a high bar, and the high bar will always threaten a lot of other people.
Whatever you do, as an LDS person, never, ever, ever be a snob about it. Snobbery from other members almost drove me away as a teen.
I'm buying stock as fast as I can, hoping I can have plenty when good companies are rewarded with a more correct stock price. Too bad you'll miss out.
Dear Anon,
As far as the Revelation quote stating that no one should add to this book. No one added to Revelation. However, if you think it doesn't apply to just Revelation, study the author. He wrote his gospels after he wrote revelations. Did he then break his own rule? Check this with Bible scholars the world over. I'm not LDS. But that statement only applies to Revelation, since much of the Bible was written after Revelations.
We in the LDS church need to toss the idea that the gospel is God's Primerica. The gospel is not multi-level marketing. You don't rack up "points" by bringing in new members.
So many of the comments on this thread from non-members and former members and estranged members tell the same story: LDS people only interested in being their friends, until it's learned these people have no interest in going to church, and suddenly they get the cold shoulder?
Come on Brothers and Sisters, is that the best we can do? To treat our non-LDS Brothers and Sisters liked a commodity? To be wooed to Sacrament Meeting, or shunned if they don't follow the carrot?
Free agency is the foundational principle of our time here on Earth. This means not everyone will choose Christ's path. Nor the LDS rod at the center of Christ's path. We LDS must learn to deal with this, and not judge so much, and love and help our non-LDS friends and neighbors AS FRIENDS AND NEIHGBORS.
Not as perpetual targets for annoying or ham-handed attempts at conversion. Blech. Please stop!
We all need to read and adhere to the teachings in PREACH MY GOSPEL. If we did that we would improve our own image and that of the Church. I really think we as members do more harm to ourselves than anything else. We are a missionary church as stated by Pres. Hinkley and others before him. That will not change. We just need to be more Christlike and the rest will take care of itself.
Of course disinformation and hate are being spread against the Church of Jesus Christ, that is just as the scriptures state would happen to the lords true gospel in the last days. Would Satan be working so hard against anything but the true church of Jesus Christ? For many who do not rely on slander and misinformation, honest studying and asking god about the truth of this church often leads to baptism, so it has a counter effect.
We had the same problem moving into our neighborhood. I moved in a few months before my family was able to make it. I was always out helping my neighbors and lending them tools. I thought that I had a really good relationship with our neighbors. That was until my family joined me and these same neighbors found that my kids were going to a Catholic school. Most quit talking to us. Some wives have NEVER (in 8 years) talked to my wife even though shes tried. This may be why there is a negative perception here in Utah. We've lived in a few states and had always had good friends and neighbors that were LDS. That was why we were so excited when we were transferred here. That excitement has since changed. My wife works in a mostly LDS environment and as hard as she's tried, has never been accepted. My wife can't wait for us to be transferred. She doesn't care where it is, just as long as it's out of Utah.
Concerning the book of Revelation - it was Jesus who said in Rev. 22:18 "If anyone addes anything to them (words of the book), then God will add to him the plaques in this book." He was referring only to the book of Revelation - not to whole canon of scripture.
And, concerning the book about the "Mormon image problem" -- I don't think Jesus was too concerned about his image problem nor did He teach for us to be concerned about how others perceived us. We, are true believers and followers of Christ should only be concerned about doing the will of our Father. And, we can count on being hated - that's a promise.
So, I find this book just more of a method of Mormons trying (in the flesh) to gain the approval of outsiders - not very Christian or spiritual - but a worldly approach and mindset.
I sincerely belive the reason why Mormons are so unpopular is not because of our beliefs, but in large part due to our missionary and outreach tactics that many people of other faiths perceive as hostility, in a country where most are christians.
As a R.M., I personally know how easy it is to get lost in disputes over trivial doctrinal matters. This is a PR disaster. In a world/country that is increasingly turning against Christ, members and missionaries must focus on uniting with (rather than convert) active members of other Christian faiths and ignore the disparities.
I guess my question is did this author first approach the church about doing this and was he turned down?
Why else would you fund this project yourself?
My personal opinion is that I don't believe the leaders of the church loose sleep at night worrying about what the public thinks about the church.
It is not a mainstream religion. Likely will never be a mainstream religion due to its theology and doctrine. I don't think the leaders really want it to be a mainstream religion. In order for that to happen it would require drastic changes to the fundatmental nature of mormonism. I think it is evident from the backlash of prop 8 that the church
has to carefully evaluate anything it does to ruffle others feathers. no answers from me just more questions.
To those who say this gentleman needs another hobby or to spend his time in pursuit of something more worthwhile. Two things: 1. He does this for a living, or didn't you read the article carefully. 2. I think I would rather know what people truly think rather than running around with blinders on and not being conscious of how others perceive my actions.
I think it is has been quite eye-opening for a lot of people to see we are not perceived, in general, as the Christlike people we thought. Rather than debunking the information maybe we should all be more introspective and determine if our personal actions have added to that general opinion. I would bet each one of us has without realizing it.
I don't ever expect my religion to be either liked or understood, and I just don't worry about it anymore.
I just want the world to be a good, wholesome place for children. I believe children deserve a mom and a dad, not two moms or two dads. It takes a mom and a dad to produce a child, and I believe the State should foster marriage between a man and a woman as a way to encourage that children get raised by a man and a woman, hopefully their own biological parents. You had a mom and a dad that procreated you. In your heart of hearts, don't you prefer the idea of being raised by both of your pro-creators?
You may disagree with this belief, but I ask you to please respect my right to hold this belief and to vote according to it. If you disagree with this belief, then the American thing to do is to debate and dialogue with me about it, not hiss at, cuss at and revile me. I respect your right to have your belief. I ask you to respect my right to have mine. Be conjugal any way you wish. But let children have a mommy and a daddy, please.
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