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LDS have big image problem

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C. Smith | 12:24 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Well, who ever said that the Mormons would be popular and well liked? Not Joesph Smith, nor Brigham Young. They knew the saints would be persecuted. Mormons have strong beliefs, beliefs that claim religious authority. That kind of strong belief system that declares sole authority in religious affairs will always be met with strong opposition.
What Do You Expect??!! | 12:45 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Even the church leaders was suprised from their mistaken perception that the church was taking steps into the mainstream, when their mormon candidate fell quickly by the wayside, after a landslide rejection of Mitt Romney.

What's surprising is how the church leaders somehow came to the conclusion otherwise?

I guess Heavenly Father must have not told them yet. But hey, they're supposed to be seers and revelators, and man, what revelation they got when the utter rejection of Romney came to the surface.

The church's image problem is not exacerbated with the gay issues, and I believe, the church's decline of retention will continue to slide further, as the church's losses of membership will progress.

Californian #2 | 12:46 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Jesus Christ taught love, harmony, peace, and the love of God, but He didn't always enjoy the best PR either.

If He had worried continually about His image & being liked by everyone, the original gospel would never have been preached to the world & Christianity would have been another flash-in-the-pan small-time sect.

The true Church and its people need to focus more on loving God and our neighbor, less on whether our neighbor loves us. Instead of assuring ourselves that "God is on our side," we need to ensure that we are on His. And in the long run everything will work out.
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KC Saint | 2:21 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Bravo to Californian #2. I agree 100%.

I do think it's a combination of what Joseph Smith/Brigham Young taught (and the Lord) and also what this survey guy is saying: we shouldn't compromise any of our principles or beliefs, but we certainly could reach out more to "the world" and find ways to make our beliefs more appealing. Not by altering our beliefs, but by altering its presentation and simply being men of God. The Lord taught that the world hates Him (John 7:7, 15:18), but through His miracles and teachings still found a way to get "the world" to at least respect Him and recognize His divinity...several hundred years later (Christianity, Islam/Judaism referring to Him as a prophet).

I think this is a good thing to think about. Should we be content in a near-arrogant sort of way by effectually saying, "Who cares what anyone thinks, we're the Kingdom and they need to jump aboard or be thrust down," or to find baby-steps (What about Bob!) in reaching out to communities and even the darker circles through constant, eternal and yes even unrequited love and long-suffering. They will come to us. Give it time...and long-suffering.
Dear what do you expect? | 3:34 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Romney's campaign hardly fell like a rock. He lasted a lot longer than Joe Biden did. Most people cannot even remember Biden tried to run for president this time. Romney didn't loose by a landslide any more than Hillary did. He was still in the top three long after the other 8 fell off. (I bet you cannot even name the other Republicans that were running). Still I agree the LDS have an image problem, a serious one. I've lived in the South where I see it a lot.
annie | 3:41 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
I will buy this book. The past two weeks has demonstrated that we need a lot more than 39% of the people to view us favorably. I don't expect everyone to like us, but I think the true message of who we are is not out there. We have so much in common with other faiths. When I was ten my mother sat me down with a chart of religious beliefs and said "We are 95% in agreement on most views, truth is truth, so find that common ground."
kidnephi | 3:41 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Until the members of the LDS Church start living the gospel and being better examples, the Church is always going to have an image problem. It needs to start right at home in Salt Lake. I know of members who will not let their children play with non-member children and an area up near Ogden that is a gated, closed community only letting members of the Church move in. As Pres. Hinckley stated, "Let's see what we have in common and we will show you what we can add to it". All religions have some truths, but we proclaim to have all the keys that will allow us the opportunity to have eternal life and an eternal family. It was interesting to hear a member of the Quorum of Twleve Apostles state that,"It is interesting to see that we still do missionary work the same way for the past 170 years. I think we need to try and go in a differant direction." I don't thing he was referring to not doing missionary work, but just a differant way to approach it. Come on members, try and get a little more creative.
Anonymous | 4:09 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Mormons break away from the bible which is against what it says in the Book of Revelation that "You must not add to or take away from this book".
awsomeron | 4:33 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
A poll. of 1000 people does not make a dent in a question in a Country of 300 Million Plus.

One of the problems is that Mormons sometimes think that they are not only Separate but far, far more then equal. Even among themselves. Singles being the Prime Example. We have a Word and a Class and a Box and an expectation for everyone.

However everyone does Not fit in a Box and All does Not Apply, to everything regardless of the Demographic.

Demographics work wonderful and are the Salvation of Direct Marketing. Give me the right Demographic and I can sell stock in the Bridge between San Francisco and Hilo Hawaii, 10 times a day.

In Direct marketing of anything to include Religion ( That is what a Missionary and TV Ad for a Book Of Mormon does by the way), we are interested mostly in those that know and are interested and are closest to our desired idea of what is "Golden" then we are in those that are Not. Every one matters but some matter more. Even among the lost we seek the found.

Jesus said it would be "Worth It" for me it has been.
Sooner Cougar | 4:47 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
We�re communicating our message just fine. The problem is the general public doesn�t like it. Always been this way, always will.
Carl | 5:43 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Noah, Moses, Jeremiah, Amos, Jesus Christ all suffered in the polls. The truth has always been a lightning rod and people usually have a hard time with it because it cutteth to the very center. We all know who the world will line up against. It has been this way since the beginning and nobody expects it to change much in the future.

Popular? | 5:53 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
This church is premised on a direct quote from Jesus Christ himself who told Joseph Smith that all other American churches were "an abomination" to him. That quote gets glossed over these days. You cannot stick to the true Mormon narrative without antagonizing other Christians. It is hard, indeed, to have it both ways--to be honest and be popular.
Frank Day | 6:25 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Entering the political ring, which we thought was
against church teachings, is certainly not going to
replace loving and caring for others. To be loved
we must love others and remember a war was fought
in heaven for free agency. Political force is not
part of Mormonism. I suggest we need to get back
to being Mormons.
Internet! | 6:25 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
All I'm going to say is I wish there wasn't so much misleading stuff on the internet! Maybe the church or members could buy most of the domain names, so when someone interested in the church types mormon themes into the search engine. They can study something true for once!
Judge not | 6:46 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
The LDS church is obsessed with judging other people's lives in a way that Jesus was not. Their Prop 8 campaign is Exhibit A.
Alternative view | 7:01 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
The point is not that someone said Mormons would or should be liked, but that we collectively crave legitimation in mainstream culture and think we are more accepted than we are. As someone who has lived outside of Utah for 15 years now, I can attest that it's not our claim to religious authority that alienates, so much as a polygamous past, provincial ideas, insularity, and missionary zeal.

Many decent, reasonable, and tolerant people, view us the way we view quakers and puritans, that is to say, quaint, naive, and somewhat intolerant of non-believers.
Check your facts... | 7:12 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Please reference where Mitt Romney lost by a land slide? Where is the reference that The Church is loosing membership?

That isn't to say that we could be a better neighbor, a better friend, and more Christ-like, who 'grew in favor with God and man'.
Anonymous | 7:16 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Much like the "hate Bush" campaign that has run in this country for the past 8 years, it's difficult to overcome decades of "hate Mormons" campaigns run by many so called Christian churches, who fail to have anything very attractive about their church, so they hate the Mormons.

I do not believe for one minute that the Mormons are very much responsible for this false image that's out there. Still, we do have work to do.

And on another note, the church could immediately improve its image by denouncing Joseph Smith, abandoning the Book of Mormon, supporting same sex marriage, dropping the Word of Wisdom, and moving over to "mainstream" Christianity's view of "the trinity."

So obtaining a more favorable view from others is easy; problem is, that "view" is not important enough for me to abandon all my values and beliefs.
jann | 7:22 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
so true cali
Clint Robertson | 7:53 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
The LDS Church is tanking faster than the stock market. I am glad I divested myself from both of them when I did. Sad time ahead and I wonder if the church can survive in this modern day.
Jan | 7:56 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
I've been alive for 63 years. The only people that think the church is popular have their heads in the ground. I love it forever but I have had persecution about it all of my life. No one likes it because they choose not to like it. They do not choose to learn about the goodness of it all. They make rash judgements that are 'popular' where before they make such judgements, they should really find out where the church is coming from. I will never leave it. I know what I have.
Frank | 7:57 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
I don't think the LDS church has an image problem. I think they have a behavior problem. I don't care what a person believes; I care what he or she does. I don't object to the Church's beliefs about gay marriage, but I do object strongly to the actions it took in promoting Proposition 8. The Church's leaders are right that gay marriage is a moral issue. Unfortunately, the Church has promoted the immoral side of the issue.

wgr | 7:59 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Intuitively I feel the guy is right. Yes, we need to do a better job of sharing the gospel message, but I don't think it will change the numbers significantly. If there was a large percentage of people who "understood" our message, there would be a lot more members and even the members would be more active. But, there are people like "judge not" that will hear and think what is convenient for them regardless.
Marky | 8:10 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
I just don't get it. Christ taught that true believers would be persecuted for his name's sake. All of the scriptures and prophecies teach that in the last days, the wicked will revile against the followers of God and be persecuted and even killed for their belief in God.

And now, someone expects to find Mormons winning a popularity contest?

Please. Just live the Gospel, follow the teachings of Christ, and let the caravan move on.
Aaron in Park City | 8:12 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
I MUST stop reading the article comments here at the Deseret News. It makes it hard to be sympathetic, empathetic, or even tolerant of ya'll (Mormons), when your comments are so closed minded and self-righteous. You can only take that "one true religion" mind-set so far before you alienate everyone around you. This is just one dude's opinion (mine). You won't hear from me again on this forum. Good luck with your path.
New to Utah | 8:13 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
"Alternative View" hit the nail on the head. Much as I like my LDS neighbors, they seem completely unaware of the subtle and not so subtle ways their attitudes and beliefs affect those not of their faith.
Paul | 8:19 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
The Church doesn't have an image problem, just not enough people know about the Church, but slowly and surely the gospel will sound in every ear, it will bring people to a renewed faith in Christ, a renewed trust in mankind and great happiness.
keepin-it-real | 8:22 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
...and few there be that find it.
Mission Field Memo | 8:22 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
The effectiveness of our "outreach" would, IMHO, improve fastest if every Latter Day Saint "set a date" simply to acquire or improve a friendship, with absolutely NO effort to evangelize. In the natural friendships we all have, the interactions lead, eventually, to sharing the deeply-held beliefs of both parties. And when we understand someone else's deeply-held beliefs, then we can share our "additional truth."

I have found that, as educated and broad-minded as I think I am, I still walk around with caricatures of others' beliefs in my head, and it is too easy to be smugly satisfied with my own life, and it is more difficult to "smite my breast and say in my heart, 'Forgive me, Lord, for I am a sinner." No one wants to listen to someone who considers himself superior - that's why Al Gore is the wrong front guy for environmentalism, but I digress...

When Paul visited Athens, he ambled around town a bit to get a feel for the place. His communications with the men of Athens was effective because he took the time to understand their religious icons, including the statue to "the Unknown God." Understanding others precedes being understood.
WinSum | 8:33 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Some seem to think The Church is trying to run a popularity contest??? Since when did the Wisdom-of Men amount to anything???
Popularity contest | 8:34 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
The Church is not involved in a popularity contest.
We have a very straight-forward message, That being: the gospel of Jesus Christ has been restored to the earth. It wasn't popular during Christs ministry and has stayed about the same.
The Lord is looking for sincere people who have the courage to ask him in prayer, with the promise that he will answer. Can't get more real than that.
Elizabeth | 8:35 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
To Anonymous. The verses in Revelation 22: 18-19 refer not to the whole bible but to the prophecy contained within the Book of Revelation. As such the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints have not broken away from the Bible as you claim.
I am not a member of the Mormon faith but I would ask you not to judge them unjustifiably.
to Internet! | 8:35 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
The problem isn't that there are lies online, but that members don't know the history of the church so they aren't prepared to deal with it. For example, lots of members don't realize that Joseph Smith practiced polygamy, yet he did (you can even see it on the church's website). The LDS church needs to deal responsibly with the information that is out there so that members and potential members know why the "less desirable" things are out there.

Before the PBS documentary, most members of the church didn't know about the Mountain Meadows Masacre. After the PBS documentary the LDS church acknowledged it and explained why it happened. Most mormons I know were upset when they saw the PBS documentary because they thought it was lies. The reality is that it was the truth, only the church didn't talk about a lot of the stuff on there, so members didn't know how much of it was true.
Me | 8:35 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
To Anonymous at 4:09 am. The reference to the scripture in Revelation is oft quoted to the LDS. It should be remembered that the book of Revelation was not the last book of the Bible to be written. It is just placed last in the New Testament. Look at Deuteronomy 4:2 where it says basically the same thing. Should we then discard all books of the Bible that come after Deuteronomy?
Get your facts straight before you condem.
Cougar Blue | 8:36 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
As everyone can see, this attitude is one of the big problems.
The Mission field | 8:37 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
We live in an area were there are very few members of the Church, only two others attend a large high school with my daughter. She has been very frustrated in the councel given in Young Women's, from the manual that encourages youth to seek out friends who have the same standards, and only date within the Church.
That would leave her with no options. Living in the mission field we are very aware of our poor image, and encouraging our youth to keep to themselves is not realistic, but instead, we encourage our daughter to be a representative of our beliefs while making friends. Of course, I understand the reasons for the needs for young people to have LDS friends, but that can also lead to people thinking that we feel that we are "too good" to associate with them, which can be damaging to our image as a people, and make missonary work more difficult.
Mainstream | 8:41 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
many of the 49% whose view of us is unfavorable are totally mis-lead and misinformed. BTW, there still are many who just don't get it on the prop 8 issue. We are never going to condone sin and the attempts by the GLBT crowd to legitimize sodomy and to gain control of our children. Won't happen so don't worry cause we are not concerned about our P.R. image vis-a-vis serious transgression such as sodomy. We are not overly worried about becoming "mainstream" if by doing so we must take a weak-kneed position on our moral standards. In fact the opposite is true. "Go thy way and sin no more" is still a valid quote for all to follow. Truth be told we are gaining serious recognition from right-thinking Americans for our strong stance in the fight against sodomy and any immorality for that matter.
Randy Churchill | 8:42 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
We should always as a people be striving to help to teach what we believe to our brothers and sisters. That said, Mr. Benson is trying to be very clever to tell us we are not popular with everyone. The premise is off base. I'm more interested in what the tend would have been from say before President Hinckley started his time as President of the Church in 1995 to today in 2008. My guess is that the numbers are up a good bit from just 15-20 years ago.

The answers in some of the other comments show what some people are like and have been since the time of Joseph Smith. Their comments about members of the Church come from many different experiences: a slight here, a rejection there. So be it. After the irony of watching people display raw bigotry the last couple weeks (and in 2008 with Mitt Romney) in their hatred for members, I will not engage in hate speech. Nor will I try to self-examine. Rather, I will continue to follow God's Plan for all of us as I believe and try to be the best neighbor and community member possible.
Bart | 8:44 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
I work with about 80 other people, and I have never heard so many comments such as "what is the church thinking", or what is BYU doing?", as I have recently.

This is in a neighboring western state and things that have made the news which prompts these comments are: 1-The refusal to give a diploma after it was legitimately earned to the young man who made the shirtless calendars 2-The refusal to even consider Jim McMahan as a member of the BYU elect group in athletics and probably the most ire is 3-The huge amounts of money the church had its members funnel into the Prop 8 Amendment. Most people consider all of these acts as evidence of a real problem with arrogance in the church and our members.

I'm sure you don't want to hear it, but that's what's out there.
Japan member | 8:49 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Thanks to Cali #2.

On my mission I used to think that members were not doing enough for missionary work. Since then, I have come to realize how that happens. It is easy to sit back and wait for missionary opportunities to come to you, but far harder to seek them out and to initiate religious conversation.

There are many people who want to know more about what we believe, and many who expect us to invite them to learn more.

We should not be afraid to discuss religion and should seek for opportunities to do so. My experience is that far fewer people will attack us when we do so than we might think.
Californian #3 | 8:53 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
These comments are so typical of Mormons. You are God's annointed in your own minds--particularly those in Utah and Idaho. The rest of us just think you are self-righteous and weird.
PrimoSD | 8:56 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
The gospel the church teaches may or may not be accepted by our friends and neighbors. That said, it's our responsiblity to make sure that they understand what we believe; to make an informed judgement. The problem thus far, is that misinformation and lack of information has been hiding the truth about what we're trying to communicate.
Let's clearly communicate with people. If they then choose to like or not like us, then so be it.
Compliment? Or not | 9:01 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
If the majority of Americans have eroding values, or decry organized religion, or scoff at the idea of a God who loves us enough to continue to provide revelation, then maybe it is a compliment that we have an image problem...

OTOH, insofar as our image problem is the fruit of our unChristianlike behaviors or attitudes, then it is the worst possible scenario.
Californian #4 | 9:07 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
One place Mormons should begin with would be to try being a lot less smug and self righteous martyrs. They should also quit blaming everyone that doesn't agree with them (eg. the comment about the "Bush haters").(Whe fact that Bush is more disliked by more Americans than even Nixon, yet seems to be still revered in Utah says something about you)
The Gun Show | 9:09 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
I'll bet that the majority of people going to the gun show (reported today in the DN) are LDS. And we wonder why the rest of the nation, that is the sane and normal nation, sees us as a bunch of nuts. The image we project may, in fact, be correct.
Revelations | 9:10 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Hey, anonymous! The book of Revelations was written long before the Bible was put together as a book. So, by your logic, all the other books should not have been added. The part about nothing being added to the book only refers to the Book of Revelations, not to scripture in general. Get a few history lessons before you blog.
Old Friend | 9:12 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
Dear Clint,

I'm sorry you decided to leave. Many of us miss you and morn your departure. We love you still and will always call you a friend. Please know that we would welcome you with open arms if you should choose to return.
Jeff | 9:22 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
I applaud anyone's effort to communicate their beliefs to others to eliminate misunderstandings, but please understand that religious people will listen to their religious leaders to define other religions. Evangelicals will continue to define Mormons as they see fit as long as their leaders continue to say the same things about them.

It reminds me of the way in which LDS leaders used to preach anti-Catholic views. Most Mormons ignored the voice of Catholics when defining Catholicism in favor of their leaders' voices. Catholics, of course, have the same problem. Authoritarian religion is the problem.
Mark | 9:30 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
What would you have us do? compromise our descipleship to please the rest of the world? That was tried after Christ was here in the merridian of time. The church at that time changed to a political entity to please ceatain peolle and leaders.
We ARE a seperate and destinct people who live the gospel as Christ ordered. Lets not be defined by public opinions. All is well in Zion, and the Church is on course, as the Lord so stated.
Listen to the rumblings of the world, and descern the signs of the times.
We will de defined by who we follow.
Arizona | 9:32 a.m. Nov. 23, 2008
To Anonymous:

Mormons break away from the bible which is against what it says in the Book of Revelation that "You must not add to or take away from this book".

First of all, when John wrote this book there was no 'Bible' as we know it today. Not even the New Testament canon had been established, and the Gospels were not yet combined into a single volume. Even though Revelations is placed last in the Bible, it was not the last book written. Many prophets added their revelations *after* John made his statement. Interestingly, the Jews at the time of Christ claimed to revere dead prophets, but rejected living ones. Sound familiar? Finally, John 21:25 states "And there are also many other things which Jesus did, the which, if they should be written every one, I suppose the world itself could not contain the books that should be written. Amen." Clearly, John recognized that there were many books that might or could be written to describe all of Christ's words and deeds. Could all of Christ's life truly be limited to a Bible?? I don't think so.

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