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LDS have big image problem
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What's surprising is how the church leaders somehow came to the conclusion otherwise?
I guess Heavenly Father must have not told them yet. But hey, they're supposed to be seers and revelators, and man, what revelation they got when the utter rejection of Romney came to the surface.
The church's image problem is not exacerbated with the gay issues, and I believe, the church's decline of retention will continue to slide further, as the church's losses of membership will progress.
If He had worried continually about His image & being liked by everyone, the original gospel would never have been preached to the world & Christianity would have been another flash-in-the-pan small-time sect.
The true Church and its people need to focus more on loving God and our neighbor, less on whether our neighbor loves us. Instead of assuring ourselves that "God is on our side," we need to ensure that we are on His. And in the long run everything will work out.
I do think it's a combination of what Joseph Smith/Brigham Young taught (and the Lord) and also what this survey guy is saying: we shouldn't compromise any of our principles or beliefs, but we certainly could reach out more to "the world" and find ways to make our beliefs more appealing. Not by altering our beliefs, but by altering its presentation and simply being men of God. The Lord taught that the world hates Him (John 7:7, 15:18), but through His miracles and teachings still found a way to get "the world" to at least respect Him and recognize His divinity...several hundred years later (Christianity, Islam/Judaism referring to Him as a prophet).
I think this is a good thing to think about. Should we be content in a near-arrogant sort of way by effectually saying, "Who cares what anyone thinks, we're the Kingdom and they need to jump aboard or be thrust down," or to find baby-steps (What about Bob!) in reaching out to communities and even the darker circles through constant, eternal and yes even unrequited love and long-suffering. They will come to us. Give it time...and long-suffering.
One of the problems is that Mormons sometimes think that they are not only Separate but far, far more then equal. Even among themselves. Singles being the Prime Example. We have a Word and a Class and a Box and an expectation for everyone.
However everyone does Not fit in a Box and All does Not Apply, to everything regardless of the Demographic.
Demographics work wonderful and are the Salvation of Direct Marketing. Give me the right Demographic and I can sell stock in the Bridge between San Francisco and Hilo Hawaii, 10 times a day.
In Direct marketing of anything to include Religion ( That is what a Missionary and TV Ad for a Book Of Mormon does by the way), we are interested mostly in those that know and are interested and are closest to our desired idea of what is "Golden" then we are in those that are Not. Every one matters but some matter more. Even among the lost we seek the found.
Jesus said it would be "Worth It" for me it has been.
against church teachings, is certainly not going to
replace loving and caring for others. To be loved
we must love others and remember a war was fought
in heaven for free agency. Political force is not
part of Mormonism. I suggest we need to get back
to being Mormons.
Many decent, reasonable, and tolerant people, view us the way we view quakers and puritans, that is to say, quaint, naive, and somewhat intolerant of non-believers.
That isn't to say that we could be a better neighbor, a better friend, and more Christ-like, who 'grew in favor with God and man'.
I do not believe for one minute that the Mormons are very much responsible for this false image that's out there. Still, we do have work to do.
And on another note, the church could immediately improve its image by denouncing Joseph Smith, abandoning the Book of Mormon, supporting same sex marriage, dropping the Word of Wisdom, and moving over to "mainstream" Christianity's view of "the trinity."
So obtaining a more favorable view from others is easy; problem is, that "view" is not important enough for me to abandon all my values and beliefs.
And now, someone expects to find Mormons winning a popularity contest?
Please. Just live the Gospel, follow the teachings of Christ, and let the caravan move on.
I have found that, as educated and broad-minded as I think I am, I still walk around with caricatures of others' beliefs in my head, and it is too easy to be smugly satisfied with my own life, and it is more difficult to "smite my breast and say in my heart, 'Forgive me, Lord, for I am a sinner." No one wants to listen to someone who considers himself superior - that's why Al Gore is the wrong front guy for environmentalism, but I digress...
When Paul visited Athens, he ambled around town a bit to get a feel for the place. His communications with the men of Athens was effective because he took the time to understand their religious icons, including the statue to "the Unknown God." Understanding others precedes being understood.
We have a very straight-forward message, That being: the gospel of Jesus Christ has been restored to the earth. It wasn't popular during Christs ministry and has stayed about the same.
The Lord is looking for sincere people who have the courage to ask him in prayer, with the promise that he will answer. Can't get more real than that.
I am not a member of the Mormon faith but I would ask you not to judge them unjustifiably.
Before the PBS documentary, most members of the church didn't know about the Mountain Meadows Masacre. After the PBS documentary the LDS church acknowledged it and explained why it happened. Most mormons I know were upset when they saw the PBS documentary because they thought it was lies. The reality is that it was the truth, only the church didn't talk about a lot of the stuff on there, so members didn't know how much of it was true.
Get your facts straight before you condem.
That would leave her with no options. Living in the mission field we are very aware of our poor image, and encouraging our youth to keep to themselves is not realistic, but instead, we encourage our daughter to be a representative of our beliefs while making friends. Of course, I understand the reasons for the needs for young people to have LDS friends, but that can also lead to people thinking that we feel that we are "too good" to associate with them, which can be damaging to our image as a people, and make missonary work more difficult.
The answers in some of the other comments show what some people are like and have been since the time of Joseph Smith. Their comments about members of the Church come from many different experiences: a slight here, a rejection there. So be it. After the irony of watching people display raw bigotry the last couple weeks (and in 2008 with Mitt Romney) in their hatred for members, I will not engage in hate speech. Nor will I try to self-examine. Rather, I will continue to follow God's Plan for all of us as I believe and try to be the best neighbor and community member possible.
This is in a neighboring western state and things that have made the news which prompts these comments are: 1-The refusal to give a diploma after it was legitimately earned to the young man who made the shirtless calendars 2-The refusal to even consider Jim McMahan as a member of the BYU elect group in athletics and probably the most ire is 3-The huge amounts of money the church had its members funnel into the Prop 8 Amendment. Most people consider all of these acts as evidence of a real problem with arrogance in the church and our members.
I'm sure you don't want to hear it, but that's what's out there.
On my mission I used to think that members were not doing enough for missionary work. Since then, I have come to realize how that happens. It is easy to sit back and wait for missionary opportunities to come to you, but far harder to seek them out and to initiate religious conversation.
There are many people who want to know more about what we believe, and many who expect us to invite them to learn more.
We should not be afraid to discuss religion and should seek for opportunities to do so. My experience is that far fewer people will attack us when we do so than we might think.
Let's clearly communicate with people. If they then choose to like or not like us, then so be it.
OTOH, insofar as our image problem is the fruit of our unChristianlike behaviors or attitudes, then it is the worst possible scenario.
I'm sorry you decided to leave. Many of us miss you and morn your departure. We love you still and will always call you a friend. Please know that we would welcome you with open arms if you should choose to return.
It reminds me of the way in which LDS leaders used to preach anti-Catholic views. Most Mormons ignored the voice of Catholics when defining Catholicism in favor of their leaders' voices. Catholics, of course, have the same problem. Authoritarian religion is the problem.
We ARE a seperate and destinct people who live the gospel as Christ ordered. Lets not be defined by public opinions. All is well in Zion, and the Church is on course, as the Lord so stated.
Listen to the rumblings of the world, and descern the signs of the times.
We will de defined by who we follow.
Mormons break away from the bible which is against what it says in the Book of Revelation that "You must not add to or take away from this book".
First of all, when John wrote this book there was no 'Bible' as we know it today. Not even the New Testament canon had been established, and the Gospels were not yet combined into a single volume. Even though Revelations is placed last in the Bible, it was not the last book written. Many prophets added their revelations *after* John made his statement. Interestingly, the Jews at the time of Christ claimed to revere dead prophets, but rejected living ones. Sound familiar? Finally, John 21:25 states "And there are also many other things which Jesus did, the which, if they should be written every one, I suppose the world itself could not contain the books that should be written. Amen." Clearly, John recognized that there were many books that might or could be written to describe all of Christ's words and deeds. Could all of Christ's life truly be limited to a Bible?? I don't think so.
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