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I guess I don't understand why the Church feels it needs to meddle in a civil act. If the word offends then ask for the word to be changed. Maybe "partnership" would be acceptable? Everyone is entitled to a stable relationship, and right now the laws interfere with some peoples ability to have one. The Church accepts other things that are in direct confrontation with teachings, such as allowing alcohol sales (and that is a threat to the family unit).
If you believe in God and feel it's a sin, then they will be punished. But not acting in a Christian way because someone is different could also lead to consequences? I think the Church may be overreacting and missing the forest burning while looking at a grove of trees. I hope not.
From a legal point of view I can say with confidence: A) the 1st Amendment protects the LDS Church from being told what to do or think about homosexuality;
B) the Equal Protection clause of the Constitution, as held in Lawrence v Texas, protects the equality of all citizens including homosexuals.
C) These rights are not contradictory.
Analyzing studies of cultures spanning several thousands of years on several continents, Harvard sociologist Pitirim Sorokin found that virtually all political revolutions that brought about societal collapse were preceded by a sexual revolution in which marriage and family were devalued by the culture�s acceptance of homosexuality.
If feelings are the key requirement, then why not let three people marry, or two adults and a child, or consenting blood relatives of any age? .
Marriage-based kinship is essential to stability and continuity in our state. Child abuse is much more prevalent when a living arrangement is not based on kinship. Kinship imparts family names, heritage, and property, secures the identity and commitment of fathers for the sake of the children, and entails mutual obligations to the community.
The true issue isn't limited solely to equitable tax treatment or health insurance coverage for homosexuals...it's much more than that. As the brethren have said time and again, legalizing homosexual marriage strikes at the very foundation of the institution of marriage; in other words, legalizing their cause will have negative ramifications NOT ONLY for them, but for the rest of us as well.
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I am so glad to know that there is a coalition of churches--people not of our faith--who are supporting this. Before we think that we're the only ones who stand up for what's right, let's keep in mind that there are other churches pushing for proposition 8 to pass. I find comfort knowing that there are men and women outside our church who want to support that which is right.
He claims gay couples cannot provide health insurance benefits to each other in Utah, yet Salt Lake City is now doing just that.
He claims gay couples cannot visit each other in the hospital, where visitation is limited to "family members." Just sign a "living will" document that Ralph has the right to make life or death decisions on behalf of Roger, and Ralph can visit Roger as much as any family member.
Two gays can live together, they can provide spousal-type rights to each other. They need not demean marriage by calling their relationship by that name. Call it a "civil union" or a "homosexual union" or a "gay union." Just don't call it marriage.
In other words, "BYU '96, Harvard Law '01" is either misrepresenting himself or he's misrepresenting the law.
I disagree with those who say it doesn't matter. Many child development studies show that there is a valuable benefit for a child to be raised by a mother and a father.
That is what the LDS Church is trying to protect- the rights of the children. Shouldn't that be our biggest concern-what is right for them? I agree with Sarah Palin that if the main concern about Prop 8 is the right to health benefits then give those in a gay relationship the same access to heath benefits and call their relationship what it is- a civil union. A marriage should remain what it is between a husband and wife.
We are ALL Male & Female.....CREATED by a male and a female!! My kids get this. It's not rocket science!
Keep the DEFINITION of traditional marriage the way it has been since the beginning of time and stop trying to change something that can't be.
YES on Prop 8!!!!
I am truly uncomfortable with confrontation, and therefore hesitant to become vocal. But, if this passes, we would eventually see the effects of changing the core society of marriage and family (and it has many possible repercussions, some we understand and can predict, some we cannot). Could I then look my children in the eyes and say I did not speak out in support of marriage between a man and a woman when I could have spoken?
If you start allowing discriminatory legislation, it's only a matter of time before your Evangelical "friends" turn and start coming for you.
This is EVERYONE'S business no matter where you live, just like all the other social issues. Teen pregancies, gay relationships, divorces, drugs and alcohol abuse, etc. all cause adverse social problems to deal with. Let's put the fence at the top of the hill and not the ambulance at the bottom!
Catholic Charities in Boston and San Francisco ended adoption services altogether rather than be compelled by anti-discrimination laws to place children with same-sex couples.
A Lutheran school in Riverside was sued under California's Unruh Act (which forbids discrimination by businesses) for expelling two students who allegedly were having a lesbian relationship, in contravention of the religious views of the school.
Those same folks who go to church LIVE OUTSIDE of church. They go to work, they go to school, they run businesses and etc. Our beliefs go beyond the walls of a church and affect everything we do. Gay rights WILL trample upon our freedoms because now if our beliefs are "hurtful" and proven to be "hateful" then we won't be able to exercise that belief ANYWHERE - and eventually even including the church! It's already happening in Canada.
Prop. 8 speaks to the very core values and morals of the Church. The leaders must warn the members of these things. It's up to us to heed them or not. I have my own free agency to follow the Brethren or not. Everyone does.
Prophets are always unpopular in their own times because it's their duty to call people to repentance or to warn them of dangers. People take the truth to be hard.
"It is a fact worthy of note that the shortest lived nations of which we have record have been monogamic. Rome...was a monogamic nation and the numerous evils attending that system early laid the foundation for that ruin which eventually overtook her." --George Q. Cannon, Journal of Discourses, Vol. 13, p.202
Wait--was it homosexuality or monogamy that brought about the destruction of the Roman Empire??? Which was it?
All of the arguements about Utah not allowing this or that are idiotic at best.
Marriage is between one man and one woman.
All 4 Presidential/Vice Presidential candidates are in favor of traditional marriage, which is between a man and a woman. So this is not a Democrat versus Republican issue.
Any person who believes in God and accepts the Bible as the word of God has no basis on which to fight this definition. Check what the Bible says about marriage being ordained of God and between a man and a woman.
This is a moral issue and MANY (not just LDS) churches and denominations are in a coalition to support Proposition 8.
I know I am winning an argument when the adversary stoops to personal attacks. All the extra steps for gay people that you describe are government burdens placed on some citizens and not others, therefore unconstitutional by any reasonable interpretation of "no state shall� deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws."
Don't like gay people? Think the government has a justified interest in discriminating against homosexuals as second-class citizens? Just admit it without pretending the law in Utah provides equal protection: It does not, and that is shameful.
I can't believe how many LDS memebers who disargeed with the Prophets. (Amos 3:7) Get on your knees and ask for forgiveness.
VOTE YES ON PROP 8. The Church is TRUE! LOVE IT AND LIVE IT.
Such nutjobs.
We are trying desperately and at great expense to give these children a loving, stable household and have been thwarted every step of the way by supposed family value Christians.
Tell me again how Mormons are all about families.
I will try to help you understand. I will not engage in homosexual activities, I will be true to my wife and a father to my children.
I will also follow the tenents of the LDS faith.
As to the morality of others, I will claim the privilege of worshiping Almighty God according to the dictates of my own conscience, and allow all others the same privilege, let them worship how, where, or what they may.
If the Law allows gay marriage, I will be subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law.
If someone chooses an alternative lifestyle to my own, I will believe that they will be punished for their own sins, and not for Adam's transgression.
I will not impose my belief system on others, as they have the free agency through the plan of the Savior, and not compell others to live a certain way (I can't remember the name of the guy who had that plan, I think it was Satan, or smething like that).
I hope that helps.
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